hi im in the same boat as @wheelerjosh53 but im from the uk and i live in the centre of the uk whereas she lives on the coast but cant drive is it possible to make it work?
@GEORGEONZA I can guarantee you that it can work. there are 5000miles between my boyfriend and me (sometimes even more due to his work), but we have been together for a year and a half so far. Then again, I have been in long distance relationships before where we were less than an hour away from each other and it didn't work out. That's because we didn't put enough effort into it. A long distance relationship is hard. You need to really WORK to make it. Are you willing to work hard?
Hey i met a girl on POF witch is a dating sight and I like her alot better yet I love her because we get along realy good and I have been talkin to her for a while now and we never met yea I knw just like my family say how can u love Someone that u never see but the love I feel is hard to explain. She is planing to come up this summer I live in pa and she lives in va so it's kinda of hard for me to stay in a relationship like this but she wants to make it work and I really want it to work and
@wheelerjosh53 Personally, I don't think you should listen to people who tell you that you can't love someone you haven't met. I fell in love with my current boyfriend online. But I urge you not to keep this relationship going unless you plan to at some point move closer together. You guys need to make a plan to meet and then to keep meeting as frequently as possible, otherwise the feelings you have now die down. I went through it before, so I know.
@bukroot your Greek!? Haha never would have guessed that! I will check out that site! We're two months strong since the 24th :) I asked her out on Christmas eve :D
@bukroot wow thanks for the swift response! I plan on moving over there when I finish collage here. I'm not sure if your familiar with our systems but when I'm in collage I can get a J1 visa which gives me the opportunity to work 3 months ever summer in America. So I plan ok going to collage for 3 years and visiting every Summer and eventually move to the States. Btw the idea about watching a movie/reading the same thing is great! I must suggest it :D thanks again!
@IrishDeadmau5 No problem, my friend. :) That is so great that you can go every summer to see her!! Ireland has such a great system! I wish Greece was the same. And a great program to use to watch movies together is Synaptop, coz Skype gets out of sync while you're watching depending on what signal you both have.
Hey! I'm 17 and I'm from Ireland and I'm like totally crazy about this girl from America! She's 16 and I'm planning a visit this year cause I'm finished school in June! We talk about our future together all the time! We skype when we get the chance it's amazing! The only problem is the time zone :/ we do chat a lot and I stay up until like 3/4a.m to talk. I'm confident that it will work out. I'm praying it will:)
@IrishDeadmau5 You sound so in love with her! :) She is a very lucky girl. I'm sure you can make it work. I know the time zone is a killer, but hang in there. it gets so much better when you actually get to be "together".
he wnts to marry me.he has proposed me alot of tymz.hez possessive..he feels protective of me.but the fact dat vr havng alot of fyts makes me thnk whethr dis relationship will work out or not! wat shud i do?
@myhiddensoul1 I don't know how old you are, but in general, couples start fighting like that somewhere around the first 5-6 months. It's nothing to be worried about, unless they get really serious. Stupid fights that you make up after are normal.
im in a long distance relationship..it has been 6 mnths nd the relationship was perfct.v used to watch movies,skype text etc.nd yes dere was romance aswell!lately vr havng fights ovr small thngs.actually missundrstandings..v both try to sort it out but v end up only arguing wid eachothr.nd in the end without any conclusion v jst end up in each others arm (imagination).
@myhiddensoul1 If you want more specialized advice I'm gonna need to know more details. You can send me a personal message to my inbox, coz it'll be easier.
@1521Cody By "mutual" I meant that you should both be happy with the relationship and the situations created by it. If you are in love with her, but she is not in love with you, then that's not mutual.
@bukroot well im deeply in love with her and she is deeply in love with me and im supposed to go meet her daddy in france this summer :P and he doesnt care im just 15 lol because age is just a # i dont believe in just if u love the person or not and this summer will b the first time i get to meet her so is that mutual?
@bukroot but what if im 15 and she is 20 bout to turn 21? her dad doesnt care im 15 but i keep telling my dad she is 18 because i dont want him to think badly of me plus i lie to him so he wont try to make me get away from her also considering i had never met her until this summer hopefully
@1521Cody Your age doesn't matter if you really love each other and want to be together. But the fact that you lied to your parents about her will cause problems. If you really want to be together for more than a year or two you will have to tell him the truth because he will find out sooner or later. It's best he hears it from you.
@bukroot i know ill have to tell him the truth but how? i mean she is 20 and she looks 17-18 and i dont know how to tell my dad the truth becasuse there r other things about her i would say that i dont realy wanna say on here n would cause more problems
@1521Cody If you want me to give you more detailed advice send me a personal message to my inbox with the details of your relationship and why you think your father will have a problem with it. I'd be happy to help.
So I really like this guy who lives in ca n I live in la. We both found each other on a site. We have been textin every night. We been talkin since a lil before Xmas n we both told each other distance would work but yet we keep flirting n tellin one another we miss them. I'm confused on if I should try n tell him how I feel or not got any advice?
@skoalqueen01 I'm a firm believer that you can't have a serious relationship without being 100% honest and open with each other. My advice is to always tell each other how you feel, even if it's gonna hurt. If telling someone how you really feel scares them away, then it just proves that relationship wouldn't have lasted in the long run and letting it continue would only hurt you both. So yeah, I think you should tell him. You can't gain anything if you don't take a risk.
@movieguy40 I need more details, if I am to help. PM me and I'll do what I can, but please remember that if someone doesn't love you, you can't force them to.
Your so good at this! How did u become so good at LDR! If only id known this stuff before! Anyways, ur video was great but i need ur help. See, my boyfriend lives in Canada and i live in Georgia. Its really hard, but we talk over xbox and call eachother. He doesnt use his fone all that often and i dont no what im supposed to do. We really want this and are hoping to meet again sometime soon..how could i make this work tho? Its so very hard being so far away.. Its killing me!
@Glee5253 I'm no expert or anything and please don't expect any guru advice from me. I've just been in a few long distance relationships and I made the videos based on what I learned from them. :) Now, as far as your boyfriend and you are concerned, send me a personal message with the specifics, coz I don't want to give you any off-the-top of my head advice that might not apply to your situation. Most important of all is your and your boyfriend's age, and your general circumstances.
I meet this girl once on a cruise with my family and I meet this girl and we became friends and at the end of the week we started Shareing feelings and we did get into a relationship and then after the cruise we went back home but she lives in Canada like near Vancouver and I live in California and she said she is willing to be in a long distance relationship and really cared for me an we chat everyday on fb and we play Xbox online together but only thing that worries me is that I'm a junior a
@Bapeninja I don't understand what you mean by junior a, I'm afraid. The rest of your story sounds great. If you are experiencing some sort of problem, feel free to PM me about them. I"d love to help.
I don't know why people encourage this shit , I mean all of these tips may not work but they keep creating an illusion about this shit. Some people can be just the pshychic vampires who love being loved from afar and in the same time they keep flirting or more with the people in their area . And then a broken heart is suffering for creating illusions about things the way they wanted to be...
@RaduBigGun You said "may" not work. And you're right. Their success depends on the couple implementing the tips and how much they actually WANT to make it work. If one of the two has a hidden agenda & - like you said - is only in the long distance relationship so he or she can fool around with people behind their partner's back easier, then the other person WILL get hurt. That's not the distance's fault. But like you said: "SOME" people do this. Not all people. Some of us are serious about it.
@bukroot There may be a few that may work . Another mistake that people do is thinking that the men are the one most guilty about ending a LDR and the women can keep a LDR alive when in my case and also in most of the cases that i've seen on the internet the women are the one who end the LDR . Women feel more the need to have someone near them , men don't feel this need so hard.
@RaduBigGun I'm getting the impression that you have been badly burnt in a LDR and now feel the need to lash out. But I would appreciate it if you would refrain from stating common misconceptions as facts in this thread. My viewers come here for support. They don't need to be brought down needlessly. If you want to debate this in a PM, I would gladly oblige.
@bukroot LOL ppl can think all they want...it all depends on who and what you've been exposed to...I look 2000% Persian to Persians but to Americans...I look Indian or Arab or anything else thats more preeminently seen in the states..but when I go to Cali..where ppl are more exposed to Persians...they automatically think im Persian...either way....thanks for the good adivse....me and my soon to be fiance live on separate continents and its soooo hard [he lives in middle east...]
@xShirazx That certainly is tough. But you guys can make it! You sound like a strong person. :) Very decisive. That definitely helps. Best of luck to you with your soon to be marriage.
I didn't even realize it, but my wife and I endured this and never officially set an "end". But then again, that would have been automatic with graduation from college. No wonder it was easier when the end was in sight.
I had to LOL a bit in this one. We did much of these things.
Remembering some of the things said, saying hello in native language, sending a short HI or just a :) ... almost as if we were dating, without the dating part. lol
Even though i have no experience when it comes to relationships those tips are brilliant. Hypathetically if we humans had the power to go anywhere we want in the world like by visiting a friend that's far away instantly like using Goku's instant transmission that would eliminate long distance relationships.
@SuperSaiyan2NahumKai Trust me, I have wished beyond hopes, dreams and reality that I could teleport ever since I first saw Goku do it in DBZ. It would definitely make life easier in so many ways. But if instant transmission was possible, I definitely hope it consumes a lot of calories, coz walking will become obsolete. :P
@bukroot Birds are so lucky and fortunate they have the ability to fly anywhere in the world without the need of money and passports unlike like us humans to rely on our brains to build flying vehicles and buy plane tickets to travel to different countries. Am definitely not of fan of walking which that's the slowest way to travel It's unfortunate that we humans have to do things the hard way.
@bukroot of course I am! I really want this to work
GEORGEONZA 2 weeks ago
@GEORGEONZA Then you shouldn't worry. :) The only thing that ruins LDRs is if one or both parties aren't prepared to try hard enough.
bukroot 2 weeks ago
hi im in the same boat as @wheelerjosh53 but im from the uk and i live in the centre of the uk whereas she lives on the coast but cant drive is it possible to make it work?
GEORGEONZA 2 weeks ago
@GEORGEONZA I can guarantee you that it can work. there are 5000miles between my boyfriend and me (sometimes even more due to his work), but we have been together for a year and a half so far. Then again, I have been in long distance relationships before where we were less than an hour away from each other and it didn't work out. That's because we didn't put enough effort into it. A long distance relationship is hard. You need to really WORK to make it. Are you willing to work hard?
bukroot 2 weeks ago
Hey i met a girl on POF witch is a dating sight and I like her alot better yet I love her because we get along realy good and I have been talkin to her for a while now and we never met yea I knw just like my family say how can u love Someone that u never see but the love I feel is hard to explain. She is planing to come up this summer I live in pa and she lives in va so it's kinda of hard for me to stay in a relationship like this but she wants to make it work and I really want it to work and
wheelerjosh53 2 weeks ago
@wheelerjosh53 Personally, I don't think you should listen to people who tell you that you can't love someone you haven't met. I fell in love with my current boyfriend online. But I urge you not to keep this relationship going unless you plan to at some point move closer together. You guys need to make a plan to meet and then to keep meeting as frequently as possible, otherwise the feelings you have now die down. I went through it before, so I know.
bukroot 2 weeks ago
@bukroot haha we aren't much better here :P well thanks again! I'll make sure to keep you posted on how things go! :D *finger crossed* haha
IrishDeadmau5 3 weeks ago
@IrishDeadmau5 Yeah. Finger's crossed!
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot hahaha I probably would have guessed every other nationality than Greek that's cool! Are your banks and stuff still all messed up? :p
IrishDeadmau5 3 weeks ago
@IrishDeadmau5 yeah... they always have been messed up, but now a little bit more than usual. :P
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot your Greek!? Haha never would have guessed that! I will check out that site! We're two months strong since the 24th :) I asked her out on Christmas eve :D
IrishDeadmau5 3 weeks ago
@IrishDeadmau5 How romantic of you! :) And yeah, I'm 100% Greek, but I am good with accents. ;)
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot wow thanks for the swift response! I plan on moving over there when I finish collage here. I'm not sure if your familiar with our systems but when I'm in collage I can get a J1 visa which gives me the opportunity to work 3 months ever summer in America. So I plan ok going to collage for 3 years and visiting every Summer and eventually move to the States. Btw the idea about watching a movie/reading the same thing is great! I must suggest it :D thanks again!
IrishDeadmau5 3 weeks ago
@IrishDeadmau5 No problem, my friend. :) That is so great that you can go every summer to see her!! Ireland has such a great system! I wish Greece was the same. And a great program to use to watch movies together is Synaptop, coz Skype gets out of sync while you're watching depending on what signal you both have.
bukroot 3 weeks ago
Hey! I'm 17 and I'm from Ireland and I'm like totally crazy about this girl from America! She's 16 and I'm planning a visit this year cause I'm finished school in June! We talk about our future together all the time! We skype when we get the chance it's amazing! The only problem is the time zone :/ we do chat a lot and I stay up until like 3/4a.m to talk. I'm confident that it will work out. I'm praying it will:)
IrishDeadmau5 3 weeks ago
@IrishDeadmau5 You sound so in love with her! :) She is a very lucky girl. I'm sure you can make it work. I know the time zone is a killer, but hang in there. it gets so much better when you actually get to be "together".
bukroot 3 weeks ago
he wnts to marry me.he has proposed me alot of tymz.hez possessive..he feels protective of me.but the fact dat vr havng alot of fyts makes me thnk whethr dis relationship will work out or not! wat shud i do?
myhiddensoul1 3 weeks ago
@myhiddensoul1 I don't know how old you are, but in general, couples start fighting like that somewhere around the first 5-6 months. It's nothing to be worried about, unless they get really serious. Stupid fights that you make up after are normal.
bukroot 3 weeks ago
im in a long distance relationship..it has been 6 mnths nd the relationship was perfct.v used to watch movies,skype text etc.nd yes dere was romance aswell!lately vr havng fights ovr small thngs.actually missundrstandings..v both try to sort it out but v end up only arguing wid eachothr.nd in the end without any conclusion v jst end up in each others arm (imagination).
myhiddensoul1 3 weeks ago
@myhiddensoul1 If you want more specialized advice I'm gonna need to know more details. You can send me a personal message to my inbox, coz it'll be easier.
bukroot 3 weeks ago
I have a LDR with a 20 year old girl I love and I'm 15 is that okay?
1521Cody 3 weeks ago
@1521Cody As long as everything is mutual, there's nothing wrong with it. :)
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot defrine mutual plzz
1521Cody 3 weeks ago
@1521Cody By "mutual" I meant that you should both be happy with the relationship and the situations created by it. If you are in love with her, but she is not in love with you, then that's not mutual.
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot well im deeply in love with her and she is deeply in love with me and im supposed to go meet her daddy in france this summer :P and he doesnt care im just 15 lol because age is just a # i dont believe in just if u love the person or not and this summer will b the first time i get to meet her so is that mutual?
1521Cody 3 weeks ago
@1521Cody Yeah, that sounds pretty mutual to me. :) Good luck meeting her father! And have loads of fun in France!
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot but what if im 15 and she is 20 bout to turn 21? her dad doesnt care im 15 but i keep telling my dad she is 18 because i dont want him to think badly of me plus i lie to him so he wont try to make me get away from her also considering i had never met her until this summer hopefully
1521Cody 3 weeks ago
@1521Cody Your age doesn't matter if you really love each other and want to be together. But the fact that you lied to your parents about her will cause problems. If you really want to be together for more than a year or two you will have to tell him the truth because he will find out sooner or later. It's best he hears it from you.
bukroot 3 weeks ago
@bukroot i know ill have to tell him the truth but how? i mean she is 20 and she looks 17-18 and i dont know how to tell my dad the truth becasuse there r other things about her i would say that i dont realy wanna say on here n would cause more problems
1521Cody 3 weeks ago
@1521Cody If you want me to give you more detailed advice send me a personal message to my inbox with the details of your relationship and why you think your father will have a problem with it. I'd be happy to help.
bukroot 3 weeks ago
So I really like this guy who lives in ca n I live in la. We both found each other on a site. We have been textin every night. We been talkin since a lil before Xmas n we both told each other distance would work but yet we keep flirting n tellin one another we miss them. I'm confused on if I should try n tell him how I feel or not got any advice?
skoalqueen01 1 month ago
@skoalqueen01 I'm a firm believer that you can't have a serious relationship without being 100% honest and open with each other. My advice is to always tell each other how you feel, even if it's gonna hurt. If telling someone how you really feel scares them away, then it just proves that relationship wouldn't have lasted in the long run and letting it continue would only hurt you both. So yeah, I think you should tell him. You can't gain anything if you don't take a risk.
bukroot 1 month ago
So today my girlfriend said she lost feelings for me ... How can I get her loving me again? Please help !
movieguy40 1 month ago
@movieguy40 I need more details, if I am to help. PM me and I'll do what I can, but please remember that if someone doesn't love you, you can't force them to.
bukroot 1 month ago
Your so good at this! How did u become so good at LDR! If only id known this stuff before! Anyways, ur video was great but i need ur help. See, my boyfriend lives in Canada and i live in Georgia. Its really hard, but we talk over xbox and call eachother. He doesnt use his fone all that often and i dont no what im supposed to do. We really want this and are hoping to meet again sometime soon..how could i make this work tho? Its so very hard being so far away.. Its killing me!
Glee5253 1 month ago
@Glee5253 I'm no expert or anything and please don't expect any guru advice from me. I've just been in a few long distance relationships and I made the videos based on what I learned from them. :) Now, as far as your boyfriend and you are concerned, send me a personal message with the specifics, coz I don't want to give you any off-the-top of my head advice that might not apply to your situation. Most important of all is your and your boyfriend's age, and your general circumstances.
bukroot 1 month ago
well..I need tips..my boyfriend is leaving for europe for a month and a half this summer...I need all the tips I can have.
biajon0126 1 month ago
@biajon0126 PM me any specific question u might have. I'd be glad to help.
bukroot 1 month ago
12:12 iloveyoubaby
rj7tp11 2 months ago
@rj7tp11 is that a quote from my video?
bukroot 2 months ago
You are a cute Greek Chick !!
1974morel 2 months ago
@1974morel um... thanx. I appreciate the compliment, however forward.
bukroot 2 months ago
Interesting approach! like your energy!
CouplesTravel 3 months ago
@CouplesTravel thanx! :) I appreciate it.
bukroot 3 months ago
I'm in a long distance relationship right now.... well we're almost on our 6 months :) thankyou for this! :)
terissamei 3 months ago
@terissamei Good for you!!!! :) I wish you all the best! Thanx for stopping by.
bukroot 3 months ago
I meet this girl once on a cruise with my family and I meet this girl and we became friends and at the end of the week we started Shareing feelings and we did get into a relationship and then after the cruise we went back home but she lives in Canada like near Vancouver and I live in California and she said she is willing to be in a long distance relationship and really cared for me an we chat everyday on fb and we play Xbox online together but only thing that worries me is that I'm a junior a
Bapeninja 3 months ago
@Bapeninja I don't understand what you mean by junior a, I'm afraid. The rest of your story sounds great. If you are experiencing some sort of problem, feel free to PM me about them. I"d love to help.
bukroot 3 months ago
I don't know why people encourage this shit , I mean all of these tips may not work but they keep creating an illusion about this shit. Some people can be just the pshychic vampires who love being loved from afar and in the same time they keep flirting or more with the people in their area . And then a broken heart is suffering for creating illusions about things the way they wanted to be...
RaduBigGun 4 months ago
@RaduBigGun You said "may" not work. And you're right. Their success depends on the couple implementing the tips and how much they actually WANT to make it work. If one of the two has a hidden agenda & - like you said - is only in the long distance relationship so he or she can fool around with people behind their partner's back easier, then the other person WILL get hurt. That's not the distance's fault. But like you said: "SOME" people do this. Not all people. Some of us are serious about it.
bukroot 4 months ago
@bukroot There may be a few that may work . Another mistake that people do is thinking that the men are the one most guilty about ending a LDR and the women can keep a LDR alive when in my case and also in most of the cases that i've seen on the internet the women are the one who end the LDR . Women feel more the need to have someone near them , men don't feel this need so hard.
RaduBigGun 4 months ago
@RaduBigGun I'm getting the impression that you have been badly burnt in a LDR and now feel the need to lash out. But I would appreciate it if you would refrain from stating common misconceptions as facts in this thread. My viewers come here for support. They don't need to be brought down needlessly. If you want to debate this in a PM, I would gladly oblige.
bukroot 4 months ago
what did she say in the end after "stay strong guys"?? what language is that?? :) im just curious ;)
xShirazx 4 months ago
@xShirazx I said "Ta leme". It's greek for "Talk soon". :)
bukroot 4 months ago
@bukroot ohh you look Greek...I shouldve known....σας ευχαριστώ.....chao! Im Persian ;) TC Great vid!
xShirazx 4 months ago
@xShirazx Thanx. Do I really look Greek? I never thought I did. People usually think 'm Israeli.
bukroot 4 months ago
@bukroot LOL ppl can think all they want...it all depends on who and what you've been exposed to...I look 2000% Persian to Persians but to Americans...I look Indian or Arab or anything else thats more preeminently seen in the states..but when I go to Cali..where ppl are more exposed to Persians...they automatically think im Persian...either way....thanks for the good adivse....me and my soon to be fiance live on separate continents and its soooo hard [he lives in middle east...]
xShirazx 4 months ago
@xShirazx That certainly is tough. But you guys can make it! You sound like a strong person. :) Very decisive. That definitely helps. Best of luck to you with your soon to be marriage.
bukroot 4 months ago
@bukroot Thanks a lot honey...wishing you the best :)))
xShirazx 4 months ago
I didn't even realize it, but my wife and I endured this and never officially set an "end". But then again, that would have been automatic with graduation from college. No wonder it was easier when the end was in sight.
TheLionsDenNews 5 months ago
@TheLionsDenNews Yeah, if college is the only thing in the way then I suppose you don't officially have to talk about "an end". :)
bukroot 5 months ago
I had to LOL a bit in this one. We did much of these things.
Remembering some of the things said, saying hello in native language, sending a short HI or just a :) ... almost as if we were dating, without the dating part. lol
Knightyme 5 months ago
@Knightyme hahaha friendship plays a huge role in dating. especially long distance dating. so i'm not surprised they have a lot in common. :)
bukroot 5 months ago
Good one :) yur just awesome :)
swetacullen 5 months ago
@swetacullen Thank you, thank you (bows)
bukroot 5 months ago
Do these rules apply to higher dimensional beings too?
spilsbury1947 5 months ago
@spilsbury1947 If anything, it applies even MORE to them! Especially if their partner is of dimension different than their own. ;)
bukroot 5 months ago
Awesome video, you're a champion. Take care.
miles2057 5 months ago
@miles2057 awwww (blush) You, too!
bukroot 5 months ago
WOW!! this is excellent! How did you get so good at relationship advice? Your boyfriend is a real lucky guy, i hope he knows it!
adidasVBSS 5 months ago
@adidasVBSS Thanx! :) I'll be sure to let him know that. To be honest, without him I wouldn't know any of this. We learnt it all together.
bukroot 5 months ago
Wow. If the world had more people like yourself. Excellent video :)
TheAuzzyLife 5 months ago
@TheAuzzyLife Thank you so much, Matt! :) If only I had more subscribers like you. :P
bukroot 5 months ago
Even though i have no experience when it comes to relationships those tips are brilliant. Hypathetically if we humans had the power to go anywhere we want in the world like by visiting a friend that's far away instantly like using Goku's instant transmission that would eliminate long distance relationships.
SuperSaiyan2NahumKai 5 months ago
@SuperSaiyan2NahumKai Trust me, I have wished beyond hopes, dreams and reality that I could teleport ever since I first saw Goku do it in DBZ. It would definitely make life easier in so many ways. But if instant transmission was possible, I definitely hope it consumes a lot of calories, coz walking will become obsolete. :P
bukroot 5 months ago
@bukroot Birds are so lucky and fortunate they have the ability to fly anywhere in the world without the need of money and passports unlike like us humans to rely on our brains to build flying vehicles and buy plane tickets to travel to different countries. Am definitely not of fan of walking which that's the slowest way to travel It's unfortunate that we humans have to do things the hard way.
SuperSaiyan2NahumKai 5 months ago
good advice right there....
TheFatAussieBarstard 5 months ago
@TheFatAussieBarstard Why thank you very much! :)
bukroot 5 months ago