Video Response: Androgny

[TaioLuv]

So you are a dyke. Ok, just say that

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@TaioLuv: What is that?

[sweetpagoda]

This was a good vid. much respect. For myself, I am very feminine, and I've never had the experience of someone mistaking me for a man. I've always been a girlee girl...=)

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@sweetpagoda: Thanks. I can switch from feminine to tomboyish in a second. To me, it's normal, but I bet other people be like.... "What?!" Straight confused.

[sweetpagoda]

@LeslieMoniqueTV ha! good be unpredictable.

[nadimu143]

I love that you love everything that makes you who you are! I don't know your exact age, but there are some grown ass people walking around in this world still trying to be who and what everyone else wants them to be. So I definitely applaud you for being so young yet so confident and centered. You are obviously beautiful and I believe that aside from the physical, your sense of SELF is where your beauty really comes from!

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@nadimu143: Thank you so much!!!!!! And yeah I've had a few people call me sir at work... so I know I wasn't hearing stuff!!!

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@nadimu143: I meant to respond to this, but thank you so much! And that's true! I remember watching this video on YouTube and this guy was like.... YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE at least by 23!! lol.

[MittBritt20]

I buy and wear oversized pants all the time because its so comfortable

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@MittBritt20: Exactly!!! Dress in whatever makes you comfortable!!

[MittBritt20]

i think ur absolutely beautiful!!!

[LuvArlynKisz]

So does androgyny mean Ur gay or bisexual? What r u

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@LuvArlynKisz: Androgyny has nothing to do with sexuality, it's about appearance.

[mylaylay18]

Great video. You are beautiful just the way you are Sis! *Hugs*

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@mylaylay18: Thank you girl! *Hugs!*

[33Muslimah]

Do you get hit on by girls a lot? Just curious :)

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@33Muslimah: I have before, but not alot.

[NEKKyD]

good vid! i relate

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@NEKKyD: Glad you can relate!!!

[Genesis0291]

good vid

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@Genesis0291: Thanks!!!

[kenphoenix25]

I still love you buddy no matter if your androgyny or not!

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@kenphoenix25: Thank you :)!!!

[msfullroller]

I so get where u are coming from. I'm a girly tomboy..always have been. I uses to pIay football with the boys. I don't mind wearing skirts/dresses or heels but you will not see me dressed like that on the regular. I love dangly earrings but don't do makeup. I've go one pair of sneakers that are men's sneakers. Why, because they are comfortable. I have broad shoulders for a girl and have been mistaken for a guy from behind. But from the front there is no mistaking me for a man.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@msfullroller: Exactly. That's hood though

[RappersFame]

girl u do not look like a guy i think u look sexy as hell :) no joke :) hit me up :)

[PierreOnTheTrackTV]

@RappersFame Dude u Should See Her Other Vids, She Sexy To Me

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@RappersFame: Lol. Thanks.

[shiggadee]

either way ya still beautiful, and you rock!!!... and love the videos!! : )

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@shiggadee: Thank you!!

[tbey82]

Never thought about it before...I guess you are androgynous now that you mention it. However, you seem very feminine to me. 

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@tbey82: I believe I'm feminine in a sense too. I'm not WAY out there masculine, just the things that I do like rap, make music, film, dreads, some things I do aren't the most feminine stuff, but hey, everyone sees me differently.

[tbey82]

@LeslieMoniqueTV All the things you mention don't seem masculine to me...especially the dread part ;-)I understand. My oldest daughter has many so called "masculine" traits too. She plays softball and she wrestles but she also does cheerleading. She hates wearing anything femine like dresses etc. She wears jeans and t-shirts all day. She loves her hair braided in girly styles and loves the color pink. She's very athletic and assertive so I guess she may be labeled androgynous in the future.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@tbey82: Your daughter reminds me of me... I just don't like showing my legs that much... But I bet if you hung out with me for a day, you may get a different perspective. I guess in some ways, I am feminine, I bet lots of ppl wouldn't consider my androgynous... it's sometimes even weird to call myself that, but I know I'm different.

[msfullroller]

@tbey82 Your daughter is a lot like I was when I was her age.

[imahoopa32]

i like your vids...a lot...i always wanted a cannon camera but can't really afford bc im currently jobless. but about this video i completely understand where you're coming from. i don't label myself at all but other have just called me boyish instead of "STUD" but androgyny just pretty much sums it up!!!

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@imahoopa32: Yep!!! And save up for that Canon!!!

[PeanutButta123456789]

I've gon threw the same exact thinglol and now since my hair is way short they really think so now lol but i embrace it ! XD

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@PeanutButta123456789: Even though you may look like something... You're actually you!!! I know I'm different, but at the end of the day, I'm human like everybody else.

[12249pEST]

I'm androgynous, its all good. I get mistaken as a guy all the time, no sweat off my back.

[PrettiBoiShai]

Im androgynous...I started labeling myself that when I got tired of explaining myself when it came to justifying the qualities of a stud. But then again you have many different people with many levels of masculinity and femininity...some in between. Im kinda in between i guess. i like to look at it this way....although i am biologically female & display certain emotional qualities that of a female, my mannerisms & persona are more so masculine. lol i hope its understood.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@PrettiBoiShai: Stud seems more easy for your personality. Who don't know what a stud is but not androgynous!? unless you're in the professional world like an interview and they're not educated on studs and femmes. I feel you're stud cuz androgynous seems more like in between and I see strictly more male than you. But then again, I did wonder if you were a boy or a stud.

[PrettiBoiShai]

@LeslieMoniqueTV til this day i still get asked if ima boy or a girl lol smh...even on here. but i dont get offended by it lol.

[KCpro15]

When I was younger, alot of people confused me for a girl, mostly for my long hair (when I had long hair, lol). I thought that was weird then, but now I would take it as a compliment...Also, I think it's cool when a girl wears out of the ordinary not so typical clothing.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@KCpro15: That is so awesome that you found something in yourself that you love.

[Telisaking]

This would be a good video for those that struggle with intersexuality.....everyone has a range of masculine and feminine traits. No one is strictly male or female.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@Telisaking: That is freakin' true. And yeah... I'm glad to be able to help people in this video!!!

[sebkhetsabur]

she thought you was a Boy, I see a full woman, am i losing my eyesight?

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@sebkhetsabur: No you're not!!! It's funny cuz men don't see it, but women can!!! Why do my own kind judge me???

[lilme2me]

and trust me: many lesbians understand the difference between gender performance and sexuality. and the misinterpretations work both ways. some people read a femme lesbian's gender performance and assume that she's straight.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@lilme2me: hmmm. Interesting.

[lilme2me]

androgynous, genderfu*k, genderqueer, metro, gender non-comforming, whatever we call it: i'm just glad that more people are upsetting the gender binary. let's be proud of our gender non-conformity. more of us should opt of the either/or choice and consider the options of being both/neither.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@lilme2me: Niccccceeeee..... Thanks!!!

[ceedotceeTV]

yes for the androgyny!

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@ceedotceeTV: Thanks! I'm gonna call myself a female. I'm not a she-male or drag or whatever they call it...

[ceedotceeTV]

@LeslieMoniqueTV its all good babe..who cares really...sometimes i wanna rock my bball shorts and a tee n go too..people gon think what they wanna think. its whatever as long as u happy

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@ceedotceeTV: Exactly!!!! Thanks girl!

[isaac504111192]

You so beautiful. I'm sorry if I ever said something that I didn't mean.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@isaac504111192: Thanks. And that's cool!! I'm not offended.

[isaac504111192]

@LeslieMoniqueTV Ok you should try witch N hazel or ambi or clearisil they work

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@isaac504111192: hmm... Was that not rude? Are you saying that my face is breaking out?

I'm pretty aware that I need to take care of my face. I'm using Aloe Gel, Aloe Vera Scrub, Apricot Scrub, Apricot Masque, Ambi Fade Cream, and Vitamin E.

[isaac504111192]

@LeslieMoniqueTV No No..... I'm not trying to be rude i was telling you some stuff I use right now cause my acne getting bad its worst then yours but your face look way better then mine im trying stuff to get rid of it my bad i didn't mean it like that.

[SeleahTV]

Uh oo..all the lesbians are going to be after you now...alot of them consider androgynous females to be lesbians...which isnt always true...but..I'm just saying :-p

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@SeleahTV: Lesbians are already after me!!! They already think I'm gay. Just cuz I have dreads... I don't care.

[seth5876]

nice vid my niqqic .thats true tho .

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

@seth5876: Thank you :)