I agree w/ you, 4DBT. Both parties have a responsibility in preventing pregnancy. Don't intentionally set out to make someone a parent before they're ready. A baby is no guarantee that they're going to stick around for YOU. But if you do have a child under these circumstances, that's no excuse. You are still responsible.
Years ago a teacher of mine said that every time you have sex, there's a possibility that person could be the mother/father of your child. When you think of it that way...
I can't imagine this situation. I grew up with both parents and middle class. Lucky! I realized as I got older and met children from "this background", why the world is so damaged. Families are important! If you have kids, please take care of them. The future is screwed if this doesn't change.
I agree that the breakdown of the family, esp. absent fathers, is a contributing factor in many of society's social problems. I also think many social problems have contributed to this breakdown. It's sad. It's crazy how easy it is to walk away from something you created.
People can't even manage their dogs/cats. We have lost our sense of discipline and drive in many areas of living. Obesity has taken over people in American/UK. It's quite sad.
I've seen parents who do not blink at their children's eating habits too. I am a teacher.
Some of the guys like that are also pro-life. How can a man, like that want to have a say on abortion if they will not take responsibty of the baby. I don't think a woman should have a abortion if they are in that situation. I think a woman should make sure the baby is taken care of. If She feels she can't take care of the child then give it up for adoption. But I know some will have an abortion.
Sometimes a bby is born with cancer or some terminal disease in the womb. So in cases like that you have to bort the child to save the mother's life. You should educate yourself about why abortions happen. You are right though. You can always give a baby up for adoption if you can't take care of it.
Good topic 4, it makes me ill that young men /women in this day and age have no respect for the consequences of their actions. A friend of mine is part of a group who mentors young men who's fathers aren't around, most of the time its due to said party not being man enough to step up to the plate. I also agree there's a lot of selfish women out there who use things of this nature as a trap, My cousin as an example being the trapped party..Gotta learn respect for each other.
I don't know what to say about this topic. If you make child you should be part of it's life. The reason I don't understand it is because is ask "how can anyone reject their own a flesh and blood?". We see it everyday though. There are some people out there that are not fit to be parents and should not be, but they crank out more babies than I'd care to mention. I guess it's part of the human condition.
Because thats just how I roll But as far as the music goes you can only use certain music by artists without worrying a bout copyrights issues on YouTube and CREED is one of them
What? A sin? A child is a sin? Maybe the child was conceived "in sin" (if that is in line with the parents beliefs) but the child him or herself a sin? I don't think so. Children who were conceived during a marriage between married people (i.e., not "in sin") are also abandoned, not conceived by honest means, etc. So, are those children sins, too?
I do agree that parents must take responsibility for their children.
1. odd that u made this video..just found out last thurs. that my 18 year old is pregnant.
2. u r correct on every point u made in this video...
3. men taking dad duties over for men who "spermed" a woman. these are the real heros in society. my step dad picked up where my bio dad never left off...best man i know..now, Marcus, dont know if u like country music, but do a youtube search for this song "he didnt have to be" by brad paisley. it sums up xactly what u said about those men
I did a refresh on youtube before bed just now JUST to see if posted a video. This is pretty random I think, but yeah I would have to agree, running from the responsibility is wrong.
I really don't want kids myself, but if something happened I wouldn't run.
The Same Thing happened with My Sister's Ex-Boyfriend he got her pregnant and said it wasn't hers i kinda did something and knocked him out he got a NASTY Shiner which made me think i should be a Boxer
you literally just described my brother in law,my aunts' husband/boyfriend/asshole and my grandfather. i got alot of deadbeat dads in my family, probaly because im from new jersey.
I agree w/ you, 4DBT. Both parties have a responsibility in preventing pregnancy. Don't intentionally set out to make someone a parent before they're ready. A baby is no guarantee that they're going to stick around for YOU. But if you do have a child under these circumstances, that's no excuse. You are still responsible.
Years ago a teacher of mine said that every time you have sex, there's a possibility that person could be the mother/father of your child. When you think of it that way...
lifeinterrupted 2 years ago
I can't imagine this situation. I grew up with both parents and middle class. Lucky! I realized as I got older and met children from "this background", why the world is so damaged. Families are important! If you have kids, please take care of them. The future is screwed if this doesn't change.
wowhornby 2 years ago
I agree that the breakdown of the family, esp. absent fathers, is a contributing factor in many of society's social problems. I also think many social problems have contributed to this breakdown. It's sad. It's crazy how easy it is to walk away from something you created.
lifeinterrupted 2 years ago
People can't even manage their dogs/cats. We have lost our sense of discipline and drive in many areas of living. Obesity has taken over people in American/UK. It's quite sad.
I've seen parents who do not blink at their children's eating habits too. I am a teacher.
wowhornby 2 years ago
very true
DrHoedown 2 years ago
Some of the guys like that are also pro-life. How can a man, like that want to have a say on abortion if they will not take responsibty of the baby. I don't think a woman should have a abortion if they are in that situation. I think a woman should make sure the baby is taken care of. If She feels she can't take care of the child then give it up for adoption. But I know some will have an abortion.
imaginepeace63 2 years ago
there is the option of a adoption too. so I dont think they should just jump to killing the baby.
stink183 2 years ago
Sometimes a bby is born with cancer or some terminal disease in the womb. So in cases like that you have to bort the child to save the mother's life. You should educate yourself about why abortions happen. You are right though. You can always give a baby up for adoption if you can't take care of it.
imaginepeace63 2 years ago
Good topic 4, it makes me ill that young men /women in this day and age have no respect for the consequences of their actions. A friend of mine is part of a group who mentors young men who's fathers aren't around, most of the time its due to said party not being man enough to step up to the plate. I also agree there's a lot of selfish women out there who use things of this nature as a trap, My cousin as an example being the trapped party..Gotta learn respect for each other.
DangerNation, OFF!
thedangernation 2 years ago 3
I don't know what to say about this topic. If you make child you should be part of it's life. The reason I don't understand it is because is ask "how can anyone reject their own a flesh and blood?". We see it everyday though. There are some people out there that are not fit to be parents and should not be, but they crank out more babies than I'd care to mention. I guess it's part of the human condition.
echo1v 2 years ago
I say that Person is a coward,
I love my son with everything I have, and would never leave his side.
Good video concept bro.
Real men don't abandond their children.
JiNxSFifty1Fifty 2 years ago 7
Why Do You Have To Capitalize Everything You Write? And Stop Playing Shitty Bands In The Background.
malinko35 2 years ago
Because thats just how I roll But as far as the music goes you can only use certain music by artists without worrying a bout copyrights issues on YouTube and CREED is one of them
4DaBigTime 2 years ago
fair nuff'
malinko35 2 years ago
true
09FL0W 2 years ago
your right man. thats exactly what happens.
blackenfist 2 years ago
If u make a sin
u must take resposibillity
abumefak 2 years ago 2
What? A sin? A child is a sin? Maybe the child was conceived "in sin" (if that is in line with the parents beliefs) but the child him or herself a sin? I don't think so. Children who were conceived during a marriage between married people (i.e., not "in sin") are also abandoned, not conceived by honest means, etc. So, are those children sins, too?
I do agree that parents must take responsibility for their children.
lifeinterrupted 2 years ago
the child himself is not the sin
leaving your child is the sin
abumefak 2 years ago
3 things.
1. odd that u made this video..just found out last thurs. that my 18 year old is pregnant.
2. u r correct on every point u made in this video...
3. men taking dad duties over for men who "spermed" a woman. these are the real heros in society. my step dad picked up where my bio dad never left off...best man i know..now, Marcus, dont know if u like country music, but do a youtube search for this song "he didnt have to be" by brad paisley. it sums up xactly what u said about those men
BigVOLdaddy 2 years ago
men taking dad duties over for men who "spermed" a woman
Hard, but I think your father instinct would go beyond any barrier and let you love that child just like if it were yours.
7omnia7 2 years ago
I did a refresh on youtube before bed just now JUST to see if posted a video. This is pretty random I think, but yeah I would have to agree, running from the responsibility is wrong.
I really don't want kids myself, but if something happened I wouldn't run.
jloiterer 2 years ago
The Same Thing happened with My Sister's Ex-Boyfriend he got her pregnant and said it wasn't hers i kinda did something and knocked him out he got a NASTY Shiner which made me think i should be a Boxer
peniswizard39 2 years ago
you literally just described my brother in law,my aunts' husband/boyfriend/asshole and my grandfather. i got alot of deadbeat dads in my family, probaly because im from new jersey.
dejowa92 2 years ago