Lets Talk: How To NOT be a Controlling Girlfriend

[Frequencitee]

I think people are just kissing your ass in the comments section, because you're attractive.

So. I'll ask the obvious question. "When you're not preoccupied with how you look, or the inane bullshit that you're boyfriend is preoccupied with, what is your contribution to humanity?"

Is tanning helping to stop unnecessary wars? Is the right make-up, going to stop corporations from poisoning the food and water supply? Sorry to be a buzzkill. but I can't believe there are still videos like this.

[89lilmssunshine]

I Love love love your videos, im using all your advice and my boyfriend is definately noticing the change and our relationship is getting better by the day. Thanks :)

[babygirlzaqueen]

@89lilmssunshine im so glad to hear that. it really does pay off :)

[12scarey]

This video was great what you said was amazing I totally understand and it helped a lot (:

[babygirlzaqueen]

@12scarey good im so glad. thats what I make them for. :)

[Rebeca2009becky]

OMG i just told you in your other video that it was sooo hard not to be controlling and you just said the same thing lol thanks for the advice!!!

[babygirlzaqueen]

@Rebeca2009becky great minds think alike :)

[erricaax333]

SO inspiring. good job girl :)

[babygirlzaqueen]

@erricaax333 thanks hun!

[TylerAndAmandaShow]

i LOOOVE your video's. the "LETS TALK" series is my absolute ever. also- i value your advice ALOT! i used to kind of be controlling but then I realized the more you act like you don't care then the happier you'll be. you need to realize if they're going to screw you over, they are going to no matter what you do. like, you can't keep a short leash- and if you do.. let it go! if you take away someone's privacy it's nothing but problems. show your man you trust them! :)

[babygirlzaqueen]

@TylerAndAmandaShow preach it sister. couldn't agree more. :) thanks for the comment. xo

[hernandezf69093]

I really like your videos...subscribed :)

[babygirlzaqueen]

@hernandezf69093 thanks girl! :)

[jenniferDOTlove]

my suggestion for a next lets talk video would be about how do deal with a breakup..... and i think since u and ur boyfriend were on a 3 month break it would be really good to hear what u wish u woulda done diff or how u coulda handled a situation better or if u feel what u did actually did work and wanna give ur advice :) idk if u would wanna but yeah just an idea :) love ur videos amy! :)

[babygirlzaqueen]

@jenniferDOTlove how to deal with a breakup, good suggestion. that'll be my next video once this flu bug goes away. thanks for the comment and the support xo

[TheBigManda]

I really love these kinds of videos!

[babygirlzaqueen]

@TheBigManda good im glad. I find them very fun to make also! 

[rachellv1]

I don't need this necessarily as I am married, and thank goodness I got over the controlling thing years ago. But I think your advice is good :)) I followed you on twitter and sent you a tweet : ))

[babygirlzaqueen]

@rachellv1 right lol once you're married I feel like all that extra baggage needs to be left at the door so good job. thanks for the tweet and sub xo

[vanessacarolina21]

You seem to have such an amazing relationship with great communication! I feel like many people lack in that department when it comes to relationships, but it's such an important thing!

[babygirlzaqueen]

@vanessacarolina21 communication is def key. it took a lot of arguments and fights to get where we are today but I wouldn't change it for anything. thanks for the comment. :)

[jenniferDOTlove]

ur gorgeous&so genuine!i wish i wouldve found u earlier.i use 2b so jealous cuz of my past &cuz of my man not being use 2 a serious relationship and ive gotten so much better.i realized if were not planning on breaking up at all then i have2show him he made the best decision he could ever make on choosing a girlfriend and i know that will pay off.i was so insecure but u helped a great deal when u said if he didnt wanna be with u he wouldnt thanks soooooo much amy,i love watching your vids :)

[babygirlzaqueen]

@jenniferDOTlove you're comment made me smile! :) glad you took something from this video. thanks for the comment xo

[trippychick47937]

You're advice is really amazing, and your pretty <3

[babygirlzaqueen]

@trippychick47937 thanks babygirl xo :)

[Alliem2255]

If someone has hurt you many times, not drastically, but has..how do you trust them again and give them another chance? Because I love this guy but it's hard.

[babygirlzaqueen]

@Alliem2255 you need to think if this is really the life / relationship you want. hurt me once shame on you hurt me twice shame on me. you shouldn't have to live your life in fear of being hurt. happiness and bliss is out there. sometimes some people are just better off as friends until he can get his act together. hope this helps. :)