You are going about this the right way. Take your time, and tell the people whom you feel the most comfortable telling first. See how that goes, and, then, tell the rest, in your own time, and at your own pace. Good luck with your coming out to your close friends.
Hey Buddy, you seem like a sweet guy. Kudos to you for making this vid. It's great that you're coming out at your own pace. It's very liberating once you're completely out of the closet, but I respect that you're taking your time. I hope it all goes well. It looks like you have a great outpouring of support already, but if you ever need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out to me.
@CaseCloseted: This video was great because I feel that you did a really good job of explaining where you are in your stage of coming out. I am glad that you are happy. Please be careful, be safe, and remember stay focused on what is best for you. You are very brave to do the videos as a way of coming out of the closet. Just don't rush coming out to please other people once you start letting people know, come out when you are 100% sure that you want to be ou completely.
@CaseCloseted: Awesome! I think that your videos are great for a number of reasons. No need to mention them all, but I do want to mention the most important reason, in my opinion. The fact that making these videos is obviously helping you come out in a way that is comfortable, safe, within your control at all times and most if all, it works for you... is what matters most right now. Seeking input from viewers is good too, but always remember that you need to focus on what's best for you!
Do you see yourself as *potentially* having relationships with women in the future? I guess it's not something you really need to think or care about; if it happens, it happens. I just find the wide range of sexual orientations to be really interesting. Labels are definitely inadequate because no two people are exacts fits for any one label!
Anyway, I'm curious to hear how your roommates and friends back home take the news.
Dude, labels suck, but it's a common thing that we consider ourselves "bi" before we accept ourselves as gay. I saw you put "bi" but I knew what you meant when you wrote that. I'm pretty sure that if your friends are true friends, they won't give two sh*ts who you want to be with, so long as you're happy. Hopefully, you are happy
I subscribe to the idea that sexuality is a line, some move up and down, some stay at either end of the line
mruppity64 4 months ago
You are going about this the right way. Take your time, and tell the people whom you feel the most comfortable telling first. See how that goes, and, then, tell the rest, in your own time, and at your own pace. Good luck with your coming out to your close friends.
RCSVirginia 4 months ago
Hey Buddy, you seem like a sweet guy. Kudos to you for making this vid. It's great that you're coming out at your own pace. It's very liberating once you're completely out of the closet, but I respect that you're taking your time. I hope it all goes well. It looks like you have a great outpouring of support already, but if you ever need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out to me.
Jimplicit 4 months ago
Is there a certain person in your life that made you want to start coming out? Love the videos :)
justinbobby20 5 months ago
Thanks for your videos. I am in same situation as you. It helps to hear others talk about their progress.
vinnpu 5 months ago
Soooo proud of U... Take your time and do this your way. Much love to you from those of us watching. Pervs and haters can answer to me.
mpmikemp 5 months ago
Just remember that I am here if you need to talk or even some of the others such as @nmcb7433, @x1Prince, @brandonshire1
garyapatton 5 months ago
@CaseCloseted: This video was great because I feel that you did a really good job of explaining where you are in your stage of coming out. I am glad that you are happy. Please be careful, be safe, and remember stay focused on what is best for you. You are very brave to do the videos as a way of coming out of the closet. Just don't rush coming out to please other people once you start letting people know, come out when you are 100% sure that you want to be ou completely.
garyapatton 5 months ago
@CaseCloseted: Awesome! I think that your videos are great for a number of reasons. No need to mention them all, but I do want to mention the most important reason, in my opinion. The fact that making these videos is obviously helping you come out in a way that is comfortable, safe, within your control at all times and most if all, it works for you... is what matters most right now. Seeking input from viewers is good too, but always remember that you need to focus on what's best for you!
GottaBme4me2bFree 5 months ago
Another great video :)
th3g00dstuff88 5 months ago
Oh, and by the way, excellent YouTube name. Very clever.
gocallyoualawyer 5 months ago
Do you see yourself as *potentially* having relationships with women in the future? I guess it's not something you really need to think or care about; if it happens, it happens. I just find the wide range of sexual orientations to be really interesting. Labels are definitely inadequate because no two people are exacts fits for any one label!
Anyway, I'm curious to hear how your roommates and friends back home take the news.
gocallyoualawyer 5 months ago
I’m glad your finding your way out, good for you. Labels do suck, just be you. I wish you the best :o)
Have a great Day :o)
~Russ
Rfritz09 5 months ago
Dude, labels suck, but it's a common thing that we consider ourselves "bi" before we accept ourselves as gay. I saw you put "bi" but I knew what you meant when you wrote that. I'm pretty sure that if your friends are true friends, they won't give two sh*ts who you want to be with, so long as you're happy. Hopefully, you are happy
ERAUPRCWA 5 months ago