Dan Savage on Steak and a Blow Job Day

[Estragon17]

Agreed. There is NOTHING better than lots of incredible sex followed by going out to get something to eat (I prefer pizza for some reason, though I am open to any delicious food) and then going back home... likely for more sex.

[TruthSpeaker1010]

This old aging bitter faggot is teaching the 14 yo idiot girls who listen to him that they should suck guys dicks and fuck them. This faggot should be shot.

[Elithrae]

@TruthSpeaker1010 And what, exactly, makes you think his target audience is 14 year old girls? When he gave this little speech, he was at a University. If there are 14 year old girls there? They shouldn't be.

There is absolutely no reason this man should be harmed for speaking his mind and being honest. And I'm sorry but guess what? Most women suck dick and fuck men whether anyone tells them to or not. As a matter of fact, maybe this is a strange concept, but many do it because THEY ENJOY IT.

[Kruezoraxe]

My girlfriend and I did not celebrate valentine's day until we decided to celebrate steak and blow job day.

[sillykatz]

i'm a lady and i hate valentines day! just saying!

[poobah1966]

right on Dan, fuck FIRST, eat the steak later on after a nap.....

[PlatypuSPawn]

Amen - Romance dies in restaurants.

[BassBOY0GIRL]

I think sandwhich and a hj day is better

[romanval69]

Do not feed the anti-gay troll by replying to him. Just thumbs down his posts until they disappear.

Nobody will see his posts .... and he won't know he's wasting his time by writing them.  It's a win-win for everybody!

[xtacee1990]

@BDSR40 ur disgusting.

[BDSR40]

@xtacee1990 I am disgusting? Look who is talking. Atleast I was able to figure out back in my teenage years that the right way to have sex is for the penis to go into the vagina not some guys ass or mouth and mentally healthy girls figured out in their teenage years that the vagina is NOT for a dildo or a strap on. I am disgusting?! lol Have you looked in the mirror lately? Go ahead, take a look. You'll see a reflection of a mentally messed up perverted gay individual starring back at you.

[packoftwenty]

Who is this sick individual, and why is anybody actually listening to him?

Oh, I forget. The TELEVISION told you that being 'gay' is normal, in fact, just wonderful, didn't it! And you can't actually think for yourselves about the levels of depravity that this sicko will stoop to, to get his rocks off...

He wants homosexual paedophiles to be able to 'adopt' little boys so they can rape them repeatedly, any of you care to discuss THAT?

[cosmosman]

@packoftwenty since when did dan savage want to rape little boys?

You have homosexual and pedophile mixed up.

Pedophiles are attracted to children....male or female....sometimes just female...sometimes just male. women can be pedophiles as well.

homosexuals are people who find members of the same sex attractive.

Pedophilia is a horrible crime because an adult is over powering a child

Homosexuality is between 2 consenting adults unless rape is involved which is a different story.

[cosmosman]

@cosmosman i personally don't find anal sex appealing but i am Gay....Gay does not equal Anal sex.

I did not say that men who "know" (aka think they know) that homosexuals are sick perverts are insecure in their sexuality. I stated that the use of the saying NO HOMO makes men look insecure...like they have to prove that they aren't gay.

The scenario you offer of a child saying pedophiles are sick perverts is completely different and irrelevant. gay people cannot be compared to pedophiles

[cosmosman]

@cosmosman Children do not have sexuality until it is forced upon them. Children is not a sexual orientation but a sexual deviation and causes great harm to said child. (loss of innocence, physical and mental trauma)

Consenting Gay adults do not prey on eachother unless they are in an abusive relationship (present in both the gay and straight world) in many cases, they mutually give and take from a relationship as straight couples would.

simply put...you are a bigot

[BDSR40]

@cosmosman "i personally don't find anal sex appealing but i am Gay....Gay does not equal Anal sex." So basically you are just fucking yourself all the time? Oh yeah, I guess you can also fuck your boyfriends mouth. You are fucking sick. Get off the planet, sicko.

[cosmosman]

@BDSR40

lol necro'd from ages ago....

Your a fucktard plain and simple.

[Traitorfish]

@BDSR40 Actually, the rest of us are pretty cool with him. I mean, it's his cock, why the hell do I care where he puts it? Maybe go find your own planet, then you can set the rules how you like.

[BDSR40]

@Traitorfish Well yeah of course you are pretty cool with him. You are just as sick and perverted as he is. Oh and by the way, who are all these "the rest of us are pretty cool with him"? You can't possibly be talking about this planet. Have you been out of the UK? Been to Russia? China? Any muslim country? There is way more opposition to your sick gay lifestyle than there is support for it on this planet. You are the one that needs to go find your own planet and set the rules how you like.

[Traitorfish]

@BDSR40 1) I'm not gay. 2) I' from the UK, and I'd say we're pretty cool with it. 3) You're a fucking idiot.

[Aicirt8]

@BDSR40 Why do you think being gay is wrong? Please don't say because of abuse because there are abusive people in any orientation. I'd like to understand where you're coming from.

[BDSR40]

@Aicirt8 Sex is intercourse between man/woman. Family has a mom, dad, children. Thats how 90% of people world wide define family. Gays can't have sex, the parts don't line up. Men scewing men in the ass and women screwing women with strapons is not normal sex, thats imitation of sex. Basically its two men or two women masturbating together. That act isn't going to produce any children, (thank god), therefore they need to adopt, and thats not a healthy environment for a kid to grow up in.

[Aicirt8]

@BDSR40 So being gay is wrong because they can't have sex and can't create children? Hm. Do you believe being gay is a choice or an in-born trait?

[BDSR40]

@Aicirt8 Its a choice. I nearly became gay when I was 13 growing up in San Francisco. Thank god for the evens that happened in my life that got my at the time 13 year old fully undeveloped mind pointed in a dfferent direction. Otherwise, today I'd be living a homosexual lifestyle. I personally know people who went from gay to straight. Had a girl in class my freshman year at WSU that went from a loud mouth on campus for gay rights lesbian to today being married to a guy with a kid. Its a choice.

[Aicirt8]

@BDSR40 Ya, I have a friend who thought she was lesbian for awhile, but now she's been steady with her boyfriend for 3 months. So you think whether someone is gay or not depends on the influence others have on that person when they're young?

[BDSR40]

@Aicirt8 Thats a fact. My parents are russian, I was born in San francisco. I still have relatives living in moscow. I visit them every year. There is a small group off gays spread across russia and for the most part they are living their lifestyle in the closet. Therefore, half the people don't even know that something like homosexuality even exists. Even the whores at moscow strip clubs are all straight. find me a straight whore at us or canada strip club that isn't bi.

[BDSR40]

@BDSR40 In countries where there isn't much support for homosexuality, the % of gays is close to zero. Unlike in countries where that lifestyle is strongly supported. Thats why u have all these bi. Especially comon in girls. They have boyfriends, but there is this new cool thing going around, girls screwing girls. So they want to be that way, and they claim to be bi and start living that way. Plus their perverted porn addicted boyfriends urge them on, because it turns them on.

[BDSR40]

@Aicirt8 95% of it has to do in which society u live in. I've read all the brain scanning stuff they did, I know that the gay peoples brain are different from those that are straight, but here is the deal: those people that are 'supposedly' gay grow up in countries like china and russia for example, where homosexuality is not supported, most of the time they don't even know it exists, they see how people around them are living, man/woman, couple kids, and they strart living the same way.

[Aicirt8]

@BDSR40 Thank you, that was very informative. I think I understand both sides of the argument better now.

[aaronjsherman]

@Aicirt8 Keep in mind that sexuality isn't always polar. Your friend who thought she was a lesbian, but now has had a steady boyfriend for 3 months might not be straight either... @BDSR40 you're rambling on quite a lot, but I don't buy your statistics. Cite a source that says there's no homosexuality in China, because I'm fairly certain you're wrong. As for Russia, the Moscow Pride '11 Festival probably has something to say on that point...

[BDSR40]

@packoftwenty "Who is this sick individual?" This is the pervert that leads this whole fucked up gay movent in america. He looks like some pedophile. Thats why he talks all the time about letting gays adopt. Than he and his boyfriend could spice up their sex life by adding a little boy or a little girl to the mix to spice up their sex life. Oh wait, no little girls for them, they'll stick with the little boy, they have nightmares about vaginas.

[magojuice]

Fuck and then eat... Nice...

[CanTake8]

Steak makes your spunk taste bad? I thought it was cigarettes… maybe both.

[accordguy0325]

"Romance Dies in Restaurants" lol

[misterdirtyharry]

this guy is awesome lol

[xxashyy]

So this is what homosexuality is about.

[skycibul]

I'd suck this dude off.

And maybe tongue his balls.

No homo.

[ldao88]

@skycibul I'm pretty sure it's at least half homo, seeing as Dan Savage, himself, is a homo.

[Rmatlock]

@ldao88 watch his clip on straight men

[cosmosman]

@skycibul how can you say no homo after a statement like that.

baffling

[hollabooiers]

@cosmosman Pretty sure it was intentional. :D

[cosmosman]

@hollabooiers i generally dislike the "no homo" statements....makes you sound insecure in your sexuality and like there's something wrong with being gay.

[hollabooiers]

@cosmosman Yeah of course, I understand that, so do I. I just think he added that -because- it sounds ridiculous, as in to make fun of people who actually mean it. And I personally don't mind it being used in that context.

[cosmosman]

@hollabooiers i never looked at it like that...i thought he was being serious.

[packoftwenty]

@cosmosman Another 'gay' cliche... If you're a normal man and you know that homosexuals are sick perverts, you're "insecure in your sexuality"? Really? So if I say paedophiles are sick perverts, am I also "insecure in my sexuality" if I'm a child?

Of course there's something wrong with being 'gay', but you're too stupid to have been able to think outside what a lifetime of propaganda from the MEDIA has told you is the truth.

In what way is wanting to stick your penis into a man's anus, normal?

[MargaretHJ]

Great advice! My husband and I fuck first most of the time. We joke that we just can't wait until after dinner.

[jefgain]

Very, very funny... I didn't know that about steak!!

[chpoptart]

Dan is absolutely funny and smart, and, second, the restaurant advice is spot-on. This is one of the simplest rules to live by - F*** first!

[skotoseme]

after briefly glancing at the comments it seems that there's some debate over whether dan is funny or not-- it's not worth my time to look up the original comment. all i can say is that, for what it's worth, dan savage's podcast, since i started listening to it a few months ago, has made me laugh out loud more times than any tv show, movie, comedian, whatever in recent memory.

it may be an easy crowd here, but that's not his fault. i personally think he's hilarious.

[Jwa107]

To me it doesn't matter if he's funny or not, because I think that overall, he's full of great advice =]

[ciaochowbella]

He's an advice columnist, not a comedian.

[faliklunj]

That is as self-evident as his 'advice'.

[ciaochowbella]

His advice is more acute than your sense of humor.

[koishiou]

*shrug* You don't agree with what he says, write your own advice column.

[MishaVargas]

In addition to what ciao said . . . um, people are laughing. I'm guessing that's the only reason you commented the way you did, which is actually sort of paradoxical.

It's an easy crowd, as it's in a college speaking engagement, and the slight formality of the situation makes it funnier for the people attending.

[midare]

I find it funny, in Japan it's the other way around. Valentine's day is geared toward giving gifts of chocolates to the important MEN in your life, and the women have something called "white day" I think? In March if I'm not mistaken... and basically that's when the guys who got nice crap the month before are supposed to come through and be nice to their lady in return.

[MijaeDjinn]

White Day, that's right. I always thought that was kind of a ripoff since I think white chocolate sucks compared to regular chocolate! But yeah, it's funny to know it's reversed somewhere. And the girls don't get to just stop at something nice for their partners either, they're supposed to give out at least small gifts to coworkers and shit too - "giri-choko" or "duty chocolate".

[aghneyya]

wow japan sure is patriarchal. damn.