That's cool, there are also vids on youtube of female to male individuals who are attracted to males. Some gay men dig, that they got other genitalia so a chance of having kids is present. But that's a sick way of falling in love with body parts instead of the individual. I hope you don't deal with weird problems like that.. love your vids btw
@argylesock74 Ooh, I am like the gay male version of you. I am attracted to all sorts of men, bio or trans and all sorts of body types, etc. *high five*
The only problem I have with you is your intolerance toward people who believe in life ENERGY - Not even Judeo-Christian Ideology, which I left behind long ago.
I mentioned Yin-Yang energy and you got indignant.
@tomken8dy I don't believe in it and am intolerant because it has no evidence to support it. If no actual proof (not just something that someone associates to something as evidence) then yes I am intolerant of anything that is not rational. A large number of people lack problem solving skills, and basic reasoning mechanisms, and I don't place on unsupported beleif above another because it sounds "nice".
@tomken8dy Fantastic, but arguing that thing cannot be explained is an argument from ignorance. Attributing your efforts to an outcome doesn't prove anything. I am also not interested in agreeing to disagree. Either present me with evidence or it doesn't matter lol. It's like saying "Well I can't explain how the universe began, so there MUST be a God". No.
@karmatic1110 I sincerely wish that everyone thought like this. It's astounding (and somewhat depressing) to think of where humanity could be if no one wasted time on mystical nonsense.
It totally spins me out how folks can mess up something so obvious! All my girlfriends have been queer in some way. Men just don't do it for me. I totally understand where you're coming from.
I was firm with people when I transitioned that I will become myself - a woman - first, *then* I will worry about my sexual orientation. In the 1980s it was only just barely acknowledged that trans people might not be straight.
I experimented, and concluded that women did it for me, but men didn't.
Don't worry about the "no makeup" angle. You look fine.
forget trans forget lesbian, forget gay forget straight, male and female and other labels. LABELS SUCK, you're you=] I keep being reminded of labels everywhere I go, I'm not transgender or transsexual or lesbian but I do confront labels A lot and yeah it's hard. but the truth is that out of the six point something billion people out there chances are there are AT LEAST 10 people that will love you for you and be your almost perfect match=]
alright, so you're a transwoman who likes women, so you're a lesbian? I hope im not labeling here, i myself am i trans guy, pre everything but i'm very open to anysort of sexuality. I find it interesting :) i dont come across lesbian mts's...ever. I'm bisexual myself. i like both men and women, masculine women, femmine men and genderqueer androgens. So i understand where your at when people are shocked i could like men at all.
I've been away for a little while, looking good charlotte (idk if I spelled your name right). Yeah, sex, sexuality, and gender totally different things. :D
I'm attracted to either, but been experimenting with males. :)
You never know, I still like women and we could hook up when my transitions ends. xD hehe
Anyway, yeah I've known but some may not have.
I'm a woman (sorta), I listen to your breathing much as your vids. ^_^
hey sweetie! I just wanted to say that your looking really great! I also am a long time viewer of your vids! I am also trans and have found your thoughts so very helpful! you and some of the other trans members here have helped give me the confidense i needed to come out to my friends and family! i just wanted to thank you!
I've been having a pretty shitty day, well week, er months or what ever. All I know is after watching this video I feel much better, not really sure but I just am. Thanks for setting me back up straight and level.
I wonder if there is some sort of resource out there which you haven't found yet. I'm convinced that everyone has to find the way that works for them to find a mate. There is no universal solution. For example, I simply can't go meet women in person. It just doesn't work for me, no success. I gave online dating a try at the age of 27 and met my fiance' within a couple of months. I know you're already doing the online thing, I just think there is some way out there you haven't thought about.
I love you, Dont let no one turn you around baby, stay close in the lord.... I'am trans myself .... Ive been down the road you're traveling n the going only gets better you'll always have hates n very few who truly love u but most important remember 2 love you.
If you feel like it could you make a video sometime showing your hairline? I'm thinking that one day I might get my hairline pulled forward if I ever get ffs and I wondered what the potential results looked like. Thanks
I so know what you are talking about. I myself feel the say way. I am on the inside a female, I mean I feel feminine, I have always felt that way, I'd rather date girls too. So I guess you could I am a girl who dates girls and probably be a tomboy I guess. You should email me sometime, I'll fill you in on what I do every day. Thanks for being there for me and chatting, It means alot to me.
I find my own sexuality is fexabil as a man I had around 20 beautiful women.I was considered a good looking guy(I think!). I also found love with one beautiful man(Mark)since begining transition 3 years ago I find myself more and more atracted to men.I don't know what you intend to about S.R.S it's a massive change and not for all!.I need to do it because I need to be with a man in that way.what ever you choose to do with your life I wish you every happyness.
Just be yourself ... you're beautiful as you are. It's easy to get discouraged but determined perseverance will eventually pay off. There's a girl out there who will see you for the beautiful and thoughtful girl you are. Keep smiling!
I'm curious... do you work in the computer field? I am a software designer and coder and have noticed many transgirls like myself are into women. Even before I transitioned I never had or wanted a male friend even. I am lucky I suppose because my wife jumped on board relatively quickly and loves the new me :) Having always been fem, 'guy mode' has always been awkward and stressful for me. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
Hi! I hope this doesn't sound stalkerish, but it probably does, I've been a long time watcher, but have never commented, I'm subscribed, and have to say I really enjoy your videos. I wanted to thank you for taking the time to discuss various topics and how they relate to you. I have questioned things about myself for some time, and have yet to reach out to anyone whos gone through some of the same things. I'm not transgender, but have questioned it. Thank you again! Hope you are doing well!
The reason you get SO many coments from strieght guys is you own fault... It's because you are such a beautiful woman, REALLY BEAUTIFUL.!! So, see how it's your own fault? LOL ...By the way I am bisexual so I know a true beauty when I see one,.Take care girl, and you will find your Miss Right , when the time is right!
think you should follow your feelings. Listen to what your heart says. I totaly understand that you are only attracted to women and heck, that's fine. I also understand how and why you started transforming and find yourself attracted to womem heck, there are thousands of natural born women that are attracted to women, so why should a transgender girl be any differant. Girl, just follow what you feel and you'll do just fine,
@GirlCraft I think Talkingtaco5 was asking an honest question about something he or she dose not understand. Most people do not understand the differnece between sex, gender and sexuality, they usually believe they are all linked. Most people thing your sex(what is between your legs) determines your gender and your gender determines your sexuality. when in reality these things are all separate aspects of a person. Lets try to answer honest questions form open minded people honestly.
I actually had a conversation about "changing your preference" with a "friend" today. Anyone who thinks they can just change who they are and what they like is delusional.
I'm trying to understand and I hope that I'm not insulting in anyway, I just can't comprehend how someone is a man, and changes to a woman, then likes women. Surely if you like women you should have stayed a man, I don't know. I'm pretty uneducated on the topic I admit so no offense meant, just hard for me to understand that, I guess transgender is different than what I first thought, more about what you feel like you should be I guess
I mean, i do believe attraction is to the person not to the gender and so everyone is a little Bi, just odd trying to factor in transgender to that as well
@talkingtaco5 Who you're attracted to has nothing to do with what gender you are. If that were the case then anyone attracted to a man would have to be a woman and vice versa, which would totally negate every gay person out there.
@talkingtaco5 Who you are and who you are attracted to are totally different. If I didn't transition I surely would have killed myself. There is a big difference between gender and sexuality. I am a girl who happens to like girls, plain and simple.
@talkingtaco5 Like Karmatic I too was born with a male body but always identified as female. I have also always been attracted to woman & pretty much women only. A lot of people assume trans women are gay men looking to have an easier time finding and dating a man. This is not the case we were born with female brains and we feel uncomfortable when not treated as female, so we change our bodies to match our minds, so in a very real way we have been female all our lives, we are just showing it now
oh thanks for the comments and for understanding I meant no offense :) You've given me a lot to think about, I think Karmatic is really inspiring I've been following her story for a while. I never really knew about the whole trans world before and I think everyone involved like this on youtube are very brave nice people. It's been an educating experience
@talkingtaco5 I know you meant no offense it was a very honest question and a common misunderstanding. Because we have to deal with our issues around gender, trans people end up with a very good understanding of what gender is and what is going on with us. Its a complicated thing gender and if you have not studied it there can be a lot of misunderstandings. I'm more then happy to help clear things up when the person is asking a honest questions, how else are you going to learn about it :)
@fireflygirl246 Sex is not something that changes. Of course you have been female all your life. Nature does experiment broadly however, but variety is both desirable, and essential for our very survival. Shame on society for not rejoicing in all the diversity Nature provides. Gay, Trans, Bi, Pan, Straight, Whatever... like different varieties of Roses, we are all just varieties of Human Beings. "A Rose, is a Rose, is a Rose..." It IS that simple! I like peach-colored Roses. How 'bout you?
@MsBilijoe yep I'm a firm believe in "do what you will as long as it harms none". Variety is a very good thing and we are blessed for having it, but we must watch out for the bad variety too, the kind that harms people. Sociopaths and pedophiles are also examples of this variety. We can't judge on personal opinion alone we must objectively show harm is being cause like in the cases I mentioned, but otherwise yeah yay for variety.
@talkingtaco5 - Nobody changes gender. Transsexualism is a physical birth condition where a person is born with the brain of one gender & the body of the opposite gender. A Transsexual woman was never a man. She's a female who was born with a male body. Transition is the process of correcting the anatomy via hormones & surgery to match the brain. Sexuality (who you're attracted to) has nothing to do with gender identity. Transwomen can be straight, lesbian or bisexual, just like anyone else.
I always thought you were an exceptionally beautiful Girl (with or without makeup). I cannot explain this, but I live (exist?) in 2 realities. In [this] one, I am a straight man (Bill), in the other I am a lesbian (Gabriella). I love both my lives and wouldn't change anything about either one. For the record, Gabriella also finds you exceptionally attractive, and we both guessed you were gay (though it was none of our business). I have no doubt, soon many beautiful Girls will be pursuing you.
@MsBilijoe lol your bi-gendered ? have not really encountered this before. I have know genderqueer people that a sort of in the middle equal parts male and female, but never someone that had 2 separate genders. I'm not saying this is not a real thing, just something I have not encountered before. well Bill good luck and Gabriella *peck on the check* good luck to you too hun.
People sometimes forget that just because you're transexual doesn't mean you're bisexual or are transitioning just to be with someone of the same sex you were born as.
Just as humans have the ability to be straight, gay, bi, etc transgendered people fit into the same catagory.
Hence, this is why transgendered people are human too.
No harm in asking though which is better then assumption.
Ok!Ok! you like women great. I am just saying that you can not say i will never. Dating and love are like a bolt from the blue. I know first hand. I am Trans and gay and am married to a Chinese woman. North American females won`t even give me the time of day because i look too feminin.Before meeting her i always said ( date or even consider marring a female? no way! not gonna happen). Guess i am eating crow now. By the way the relationship sucks. My big oooP`s. my fault my pain.
Hi girl! What can i write about this,hum? Ok here goes. Follow your feelings. Listen to what your heart says. The gender of the person does not enter into it. It`s chemistry. If you feel atracted to the person talk to that person but leave transgenderism for later. If it clicks between you two then you can decide if it is safe to reveal the beautiful secret you hold inside.Passion is a one night stand, Love is a heart felt relationship. Lucky you.
What I find to be intriqueing is that not only do people have a hard time understanding transgenderism. Generally speaking they think that somehow we are confused gay folks. But the icing on the cake is that when we declare our sexuality which we really should all conceptually understand, (straight,trans, gay and lesbian) alike is that our sexuality is very much set in stone and not a choice. Basically we are what we are, nothing more or less.
Well, long-story-short..there's a difference between gender identity (how u feel) & who your attracted too, both which are innate, and are not by choice. Thank you :) U r beautiful. inside & out.
sexuality is so confusing. i mean i would call myself a lesbian but in my case that couldn't mean being attracted to feminine individuals because i am very attracted to butchy women and i am also very attracted to transguys. it could also not mean only being attracted to butchy individuals because i find feminine women and transwomen very attractive too. it's all just so confusing. the only people i don't seem to be attracted to are cis men. i hate definitions! also, you're hot. :)
Hiya Charlotte, spot on,I DON'T, as I keep having to tell men on myspace, find men sexually attractive, ok,there good for a laugh,to carry heavy stuff sometimes, yet they still ask.Mmm its like my sexual orientation does not compute in there minds.I tell them I'm a gay trans woman right from the start,heellooo its in plain English,first line of my profile.so its a pervert or simple curiosity,either way I'm in no hurry to find Ms soulmate.take care babe, Samantha
I know that's a blanket statement, but it's generally very true. And part of me understands that if you've never had to question yourself, you've never thought about sexuality the way others have. And the other part just says "think about it for ten seconds! It's not that difficult a concept!"
gnaa, who the hell likes dating vids... candle light never gets over authentically via screen. hehe, [alt]strg-shft-L as long as ya wanna, im getting phermo-vision^^. im really starting to think, turning out sapiosexal would be pretty awesome... but well... explain that to a cis-gendered macho projekting his mediaval superstition on ya... confortably... guess its bout what they want to hear and beliefe...
@karmatic1110 One where you lie on your bed, yawning, after a night out to the club and Abby making herself seen too? Pretty please with a bandana on top?
haha "no make up be gentle" you my dear have Nothing to worry about in that department, you look absolutely fabulous,and ya I finally took BI off my FB stats,guys are in time out til further notice ya there is an occasional guy that is attractive to me but EVERY guy seems to turn into a total ass because of my trans status, girls...not so much,I just wish it wasnt an issue to anyone of any gender, but I own it, I have no choice. Hope you and your world are better than the last vid I commented on
@tspaige1 I don't think it's because of your trans status. It's a sorry fact, but, in my experience, pretty much EVERY guy eventually turns out to be a total ass. I don't think they turn INTO one, I think it's just part and parcel of what a guy [really] is. Some just hide it better (or longer) than others. As with any stereotype, there are, of course, [a few] exceptions, and for anyone reading this who is into guys, Dear God, I hope you find one of those exceptions!
@MsBilijoe they make it pretty clear that it is because of my trans status, then they run to the hills,and women do the same but in a different way, as a rule it seems that women that are ok with trans people mean that they are ok with trans men, trans women tend to be a wholly different story.
@tspaige1 I am sorry to hear that such has been your experience. Unfortunately, people tend to fear what they don't know. That is, it's a matter of ignorance. It's hard to fault ignorance, since it's simply a state of not knowing. What IS intolerable though is when someone learns they are ignorant (in a given subject), and chooses to remain so. I try to avoid such people, but in every case I know of where a person chose to remain ignorant or mis-informed, they were always the ones who missed out
It's unfortunate that some straight men think lesbians should be with the right man, or straight woman to gays, although I don't see that as often. People should respect other people's sexual identity, but since heterosexuals dominate, they still tend to treat homosexuals as a choice that can be changed. It's pretty rude, I think. But you are right that being solely homosexual limits your dating possibilities. I hope you choose the one you want to be with, not based on outside pressure.
@nochokin Completely agree that men suck. Though I still find it hard to believe, I've heard from bisexual girls that it's not any better with women. It's just different.
Can't really imagine that to be the case, but they have the personal experience, so I can't really argue..
Really good video. I too went through this. Attraction is still a foreign concept for me though. I am glad you know. I am glad you actually went throgh discovery and were honest about it. So many, especially when I hear, "I am going to be a lipstick lesbian," make they think they say that to hide their true self.
I'm so glad i watched this video cause I honestly did not know that...I learned that just because a person changes gender does not mean gay. I love all your videos!
@deathsminion25 Right right. I went through a period where I didn't want sex at all (I still really don't care for it much) and people just couldn't comprehend it. Before I was in that situation neither could I.
@deathsminion25 Yep. I mean I can still take or leave sex. It's not something that is on my mind all that often. It's the affection and bond that I love about relationships.
@karmatic1110 Amen! Affection and bonding are, in my humble opinion, at the core of true Love (which, actually, has nothing to do with sex). I really hope you find someone to bond with who showers you with affection. You're such a great person, you deserve the best.
@karmatic1110 I actually went through a period for about a year that asexual would be the best title for me,I felt no attraction to anyone on that level, and that feeling was mutual then I had to go and fuck it all up and start being attracted to people again, which really sucks cos that year or so of being asexual was probably the best time of my life,completely unburdened by attraction and bottom line a soft butch lesbian trans girl makes no sense to anyone but me I guess people don't get it
People tend to put transgender with gay a bit too much sometimes, it's natural to think something like that if you've never been introduced to transexuality. Anyone I speak to about it always ask me first 'so wait, your gay' which I'm not. I believe the reason for this is because they think gay people are just feminine men, and a transexual is a leveled up gay man, without thinking that transexuals and gay people are two separate classifications that sometimes cross.
@AveyLithia Agreed. I don't think that many people in the general population ever have to think about sexuality and gender in the broader sense, so while I understand on some level, a lot of it just seems intuitive to me.
@karmatic1110 It would seem like that, but you have to remember the kind of society we live in. The homosexuality is just getting to the point where they can be understood for whom they are, and now it's time for transgender people to go through the same issues. Most people only learn by one thing and one thing alone, their parents. And unless they are told and proved otherwise, this is the only way they can think, because it is the way that society views transgender people nowadays.
right on. live your life the way your heart tells you to and you'll be fine. can make yourself love men is you simply just don't find them attractive.
You totally make a good point and I go through this same exact thing. It is kind of insulting. I still find you attractive, super attractive, wish we didn't have the rough patch.
That's cool, there are also vids on youtube of female to male individuals who are attracted to males. Some gay men dig, that they got other genitalia so a chance of having kids is present. But that's a sick way of falling in love with body parts instead of the individual. I hope you don't deal with weird problems like that.. love your vids btw
RomanThatsMe 3 months ago
@argylesock74 Ooh, I am like the gay male version of you. I am attracted to all sorts of men, bio or trans and all sorts of body types, etc. *high five*
DarkWillUser 7 months ago
Date who you want, sweetie. Congrats on having a lovely girlfriend! :)
DarkWillUser 7 months ago
@Jaidsy I would, but I currently have a lovely girlfriend :D
karmatic1110 10 months ago
You're cute <3
Adigitayy 1 year ago
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@BridgetteDeneice "I'm glad that you made the transition. I know you will find that one and true man for you"
I don't get that comment. Did you actually watch her video?
cvaze1 1 year ago
are you a boy or a girl?
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Yes i had A quick ?
i know transitioning is something i really reallyyyy!!!!! with a capital R ... want to do..
but i cant figure out if im making the rite choice...
is it bad to think that anddid yu....
how do you cope with it..
thhaannkks and i looovve yu by the way mwwwaaahhh:P yourso inspirational thank you
MissKylieHere 1 year ago
Yes i had A quick ?
i know transitioning is something i really reallyyyy!!!!! with a capital R ... want to do..
but i cant figure out if im making the rite choice...
is it bad to think that anddid yu....
how do you cope with it..
thhaannkks and i looovve yu by the way mwwwaaahhh:P yourso inspirational thank you
MissKylieHere 1 year ago
@MissKylieHere I would find a gender therapist in your area to talk about it with.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
weard questoin what if it was a guy who had a SRS? lol just thought i would ask
dornoob 1 year ago
1:24 They ask me if I had sex with women without asking me if I like they.. I answer "I think i just like boys"
krisagui 1 year ago
The only problem I have with you is your intolerance toward people who believe in life ENERGY - Not even Judeo-Christian Ideology, which I left behind long ago.
I mentioned Yin-Yang energy and you got indignant.
I still remember that.
Just had to get it off my boobs. :)
I like you even though you're snotty.
tomken8dy 1 year ago
@tomken8dy I don't believe in it and am intolerant because it has no evidence to support it. If no actual proof (not just something that someone associates to something as evidence) then yes I am intolerant of anything that is not rational. A large number of people lack problem solving skills, and basic reasoning mechanisms, and I don't place on unsupported beleif above another because it sounds "nice".
karmatic1110 1 year ago 2
@karmatic1110
I practiced Tantra.
It works.
I have seen and done things
(with Chi) that cannot be "explained."
Let's just agree to disagree and
BOTH keep open minds heavily
spiced with skepticism.
tomken8dy 1 year ago
@tomken8dy Fantastic, but arguing that thing cannot be explained is an argument from ignorance. Attributing your efforts to an outcome doesn't prove anything. I am also not interested in agreeing to disagree. Either present me with evidence or it doesn't matter lol. It's like saying "Well I can't explain how the universe began, so there MUST be a God". No.
karmatic1110 1 year ago 2
@karmatic1110 I sincerely wish that everyone thought like this. It's astounding (and somewhat depressing) to think of where humanity could be if no one wasted time on mystical nonsense.
aamesxdavid 1 year ago
It totally spins me out how folks can mess up something so obvious! All my girlfriends have been queer in some way. Men just don't do it for me. I totally understand where you're coming from.
controlfunction 1 year ago
I was firm with people when I transitioned that I will become myself - a woman - first, *then* I will worry about my sexual orientation. In the 1980s it was only just barely acknowledged that trans people might not be straight.
I experimented, and concluded that women did it for me, but men didn't.
Don't worry about the "no makeup" angle. You look fine.
raingirl53 1 year ago
forget trans forget lesbian, forget gay forget straight, male and female and other labels. LABELS SUCK, you're you=] I keep being reminded of labels everywhere I go, I'm not transgender or transsexual or lesbian but I do confront labels A lot and yeah it's hard. but the truth is that out of the six point something billion people out there chances are there are AT LEAST 10 people that will love you for you and be your almost perfect match=]
you'll find the girl of your dreams=]
last0name0Rosa 1 year ago
Good for you :)
314tudor 1 year ago
OK, Do you date other women, like yourself, ones that were not born with a female body?
314tudor 1 year ago
@314tudor I date women period :) I don't make the distinction between the two.
karmatic1110 1 year ago 4
I understand about you only datting women, my daughter is also gay,
the only qestion that I have about this is, do or would you date a tranny?
314tudor 1 year ago
@314tudor You mean a woman? Don't say the word tranny...
karmatic1110 1 year ago
I was wondering what sites you use. I have had no luck other then chasers on any site i have checked out.
ShellySummers 1 year ago
alright, so you're a transwoman who likes women, so you're a lesbian? I hope im not labeling here, i myself am i trans guy, pre everything but i'm very open to anysort of sexuality. I find it interesting :) i dont come across lesbian mts's...ever. I'm bisexual myself. i like both men and women, masculine women, femmine men and genderqueer androgens. So i understand where your at when people are shocked i could like men at all.
Good to meet you friend.
and you look great w/o makeup!!
HaydenShyBoi 1 year ago
I've been away for a little while, looking good charlotte (idk if I spelled your name right). Yeah, sex, sexuality, and gender totally different things. :D
I'm attracted to either, but been experimenting with males. :)
You never know, I still like women and we could hook up when my transitions ends. xD hehe
Anyway, yeah I've known but some may not have.
I'm a woman (sorta), I listen to your breathing much as your vids. ^_^
HeartStrong4ever 1 year ago
hey sweetie! I just wanted to say that your looking really great! I also am a long time viewer of your vids! I am also trans and have found your thoughts so very helpful! you and some of the other trans members here have helped give me the confidense i needed to come out to my friends and family! i just wanted to thank you!
anddorr 1 year ago
I've been having a pretty shitty day, well week, er months or what ever. All I know is after watching this video I feel much better, not really sure but I just am. Thanks for setting me back up straight and level.
LouSaydus 1 year ago
good luck honeyy.....
anita000000ful 1 year ago
I wonder if that piercing feels good on others. Just sayin.... Hmmmmm....
Rh1no1 1 year ago
@Rh1no1 It's still healing so I haven't had a chance to try it out, but I can keep you posted haha.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
I wonder if there is some sort of resource out there which you haven't found yet. I'm convinced that everyone has to find the way that works for them to find a mate. There is no universal solution. For example, I simply can't go meet women in person. It just doesn't work for me, no success. I gave online dating a try at the age of 27 and met my fiance' within a couple of months. I know you're already doing the online thing, I just think there is some way out there you haven't thought about.
FergusonTO35 1 year ago
I love you, Dont let no one turn you around baby, stay close in the lord.... I'am trans myself .... Ive been down the road you're traveling n the going only gets better you'll always have hates n very few who truly love u but most important remember 2 love you.
soulfullsongbird88 1 year ago
If you feel like it could you make a video sometime showing your hairline? I'm thinking that one day I might get my hairline pulled forward if I ever get ffs and I wondered what the potential results looked like. Thanks
ReGreta9 1 year ago
I so know what you are talking about. I myself feel the say way. I am on the inside a female, I mean I feel feminine, I have always felt that way, I'd rather date girls too. So I guess you could I am a girl who dates girls and probably be a tomboy I guess. You should email me sometime, I'll fill you in on what I do every day. Thanks for being there for me and chatting, It means alot to me.
wqfs650 1 year ago
peaple r ignorent i mean im straight but but ive dated men its not right how peopel can be realy fucked up im with you on this ^-^
andrewsales222 1 year ago
I find my own sexuality is fexabil as a man I had around 20 beautiful women.I was considered a good looking guy(I think!). I also found love with one beautiful man(Mark)since begining transition 3 years ago I find myself more and more atracted to men.I don't know what you intend to about S.R.S it's a massive change and not for all!.I need to do it because I need to be with a man in that way.what ever you choose to do with your life I wish you every happyness.
jsnedd66 1 year ago
Just be yourself ... you're beautiful as you are. It's easy to get discouraged but determined perseverance will eventually pay off. There's a girl out there who will see you for the beautiful and thoughtful girl you are. Keep smiling!
mystriousgrl 1 year ago
I'm curious... do you work in the computer field? I am a software designer and coder and have noticed many transgirls like myself are into women. Even before I transitioned I never had or wanted a male friend even. I am lucky I suppose because my wife jumped on board relatively quickly and loves the new me :) Having always been fem, 'guy mode' has always been awkward and stressful for me. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
quanteum 1 year ago
@quanteum
We are slowly changing perceptions no matter how many times "LGB & oh yeah T" throws us under the bus.
quanteum 1 year ago
Hi! I hope this doesn't sound stalkerish, but it probably does, I've been a long time watcher, but have never commented, I'm subscribed, and have to say I really enjoy your videos. I wanted to thank you for taking the time to discuss various topics and how they relate to you. I have questioned things about myself for some time, and have yet to reach out to anyone whos gone through some of the same things. I'm not transgender, but have questioned it. Thank you again! Hope you are doing well!
vzballa 1 year ago
@vzballa I hope you are doing well also :) Feel free to comment whenever, and don't be shy :)
karmatic1110 1 year ago
The reason you get SO many coments from strieght guys is you own fault... It's because you are such a beautiful woman, REALLY BEAUTIFUL.!! So, see how it's your own fault? LOL ...By the way I am bisexual so I know a true beauty when I see one,.Take care girl, and you will find your Miss Right , when the time is right!
314tudor 1 year ago
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314tudor 1 year ago
think you should follow your feelings. Listen to what your heart says. I totaly understand that you are only attracted to women and heck, that's fine. I also understand how and why you started transforming and find yourself attracted to womem heck, there are thousands of natural born women that are attracted to women, so why should a transgender girl be any differant. Girl, just follow what you feel and you'll do just fine,
314tudor 1 year ago
Even without makeup you are absolutely beautiful :)
mlinn1980 1 year ago
@GirlCraft I think Talkingtaco5 was asking an honest question about something he or she dose not understand. Most people do not understand the differnece between sex, gender and sexuality, they usually believe they are all linked. Most people thing your sex(what is between your legs) determines your gender and your gender determines your sexuality. when in reality these things are all separate aspects of a person. Lets try to answer honest questions form open minded people honestly.
fireflygirl246 1 year ago
You kind of look like a hot lesbian girl version of michael cera :)
Reklawniks 1 year ago
I'm a gay, transsexual man, and I can relate to a lot of what you mentioned in this video. Thanks for posting.
kevghst1 1 year ago
Iaido....(Eye, ay, do). The art of drawing(a sword) and beheading ones opponent in one stroke. Explaining oneself is an afterthought. Know thyself.
kd0bgz 1 year ago
I actually had a conversation about "changing your preference" with a "friend" today. Anyone who thinks they can just change who they are and what they like is delusional.
EmaznBoy 1 year ago
I'm trying to understand and I hope that I'm not insulting in anyway, I just can't comprehend how someone is a man, and changes to a woman, then likes women. Surely if you like women you should have stayed a man, I don't know. I'm pretty uneducated on the topic I admit so no offense meant, just hard for me to understand that, I guess transgender is different than what I first thought, more about what you feel like you should be I guess
talkingtaco5 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5
I mean, i do believe attraction is to the person not to the gender and so everyone is a little Bi, just odd trying to factor in transgender to that as well
talkingtaco5 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5 Who you're attracted to has nothing to do with what gender you are. If that were the case then anyone attracted to a man would have to be a woman and vice versa, which would totally negate every gay person out there.
Widdledoo 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5 Who you are and who you are attracted to are totally different. If I didn't transition I surely would have killed myself. There is a big difference between gender and sexuality. I am a girl who happens to like girls, plain and simple.
karmatic1110 1 year ago 11
@karmatic1110 Plain and simple. It really is, isn't it? Why is it that so many people can't get it?
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
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MsBilijoe 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5 Like Karmatic I too was born with a male body but always identified as female. I have also always been attracted to woman & pretty much women only. A lot of people assume trans women are gay men looking to have an easier time finding and dating a man. This is not the case we were born with female brains and we feel uncomfortable when not treated as female, so we change our bodies to match our minds, so in a very real way we have been female all our lives, we are just showing it now
fireflygirl246 1 year ago
@fireflygirl246
oh thanks for the comments and for understanding I meant no offense :) You've given me a lot to think about, I think Karmatic is really inspiring I've been following her story for a while. I never really knew about the whole trans world before and I think everyone involved like this on youtube are very brave nice people. It's been an educating experience
talkingtaco5 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5 I know you meant no offense it was a very honest question and a common misunderstanding. Because we have to deal with our issues around gender, trans people end up with a very good understanding of what gender is and what is going on with us. Its a complicated thing gender and if you have not studied it there can be a lot of misunderstandings. I'm more then happy to help clear things up when the person is asking a honest questions, how else are you going to learn about it :)
fireflygirl246 1 year ago
@fireflygirl246 Sex is not something that changes. Of course you have been female all your life. Nature does experiment broadly however, but variety is both desirable, and essential for our very survival. Shame on society for not rejoicing in all the diversity Nature provides. Gay, Trans, Bi, Pan, Straight, Whatever... like different varieties of Roses, we are all just varieties of Human Beings. "A Rose, is a Rose, is a Rose..." It IS that simple! I like peach-colored Roses. How 'bout you?
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
@MsBilijoe yep I'm a firm believe in "do what you will as long as it harms none". Variety is a very good thing and we are blessed for having it, but we must watch out for the bad variety too, the kind that harms people. Sociopaths and pedophiles are also examples of this variety. We can't judge on personal opinion alone we must objectively show harm is being cause like in the cases I mentioned, but otherwise yeah yay for variety.
fireflygirl246 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5 Just remember that gender and sexual orientation are different parts of the brain.
1Vella 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5
Maybe this page helps? Go to a webpage called transgendercare, choose guidance
There you will find a featured article about what is gender and who is transgendered.
NaomiClareNL 1 year ago
@talkingtaco5 - Nobody changes gender. Transsexualism is a physical birth condition where a person is born with the brain of one gender & the body of the opposite gender. A Transsexual woman was never a man. She's a female who was born with a male body. Transition is the process of correcting the anatomy via hormones & surgery to match the brain. Sexuality (who you're attracted to) has nothing to do with gender identity. Transwomen can be straight, lesbian or bisexual, just like anyone else.
Erica2Lives 1 year ago
@SabeHaywood What wonderful comment. I agree wholeheartedly.
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
I always thought you were an exceptionally beautiful Girl (with or without makeup). I cannot explain this, but I live (exist?) in 2 realities. In [this] one, I am a straight man (Bill), in the other I am a lesbian (Gabriella). I love both my lives and wouldn't change anything about either one. For the record, Gabriella also finds you exceptionally attractive, and we both guessed you were gay (though it was none of our business). I have no doubt, soon many beautiful Girls will be pursuing you.
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
@MsBilijoe lol your bi-gendered ? have not really encountered this before. I have know genderqueer people that a sort of in the middle equal parts male and female, but never someone that had 2 separate genders. I'm not saying this is not a real thing, just something I have not encountered before. well Bill good luck and Gabriella *peck on the check* good luck to you too hun.
fireflygirl246 1 year ago
@fireflygirl246 Thanks for the comment. Something about it made me feel good when I read it, so I just wanted to say, "Thanks."
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
whooooooooooooo yay for lesbos :P
chellehrtsnapo 1 year ago 16
@chellehrtsnapo Haha I agree :P
karmatic1110 1 year ago
People sometimes forget that just because you're transexual doesn't mean you're bisexual or are transitioning just to be with someone of the same sex you were born as.
Just as humans have the ability to be straight, gay, bi, etc transgendered people fit into the same catagory.
Hence, this is why transgendered people are human too.
No harm in asking though which is better then assumption.
itspaul70 1 year ago
Ok!Ok! you like women great. I am just saying that you can not say i will never. Dating and love are like a bolt from the blue. I know first hand. I am Trans and gay and am married to a Chinese woman. North American females won`t even give me the time of day because i look too feminin.Before meeting her i always said ( date or even consider marring a female? no way! not gonna happen). Guess i am eating crow now. By the way the relationship sucks. My big oooP`s. my fault my pain.
underloved1 1 year ago
Hi girl! What can i write about this,hum? Ok here goes. Follow your feelings. Listen to what your heart says. The gender of the person does not enter into it. It`s chemistry. If you feel atracted to the person talk to that person but leave transgenderism for later. If it clicks between you two then you can decide if it is safe to reveal the beautiful secret you hold inside.Passion is a one night stand, Love is a heart felt relationship. Lucky you.
underloved1 1 year ago
@underloved1 Well the point of this video is to state that for me it does matter; I'm only attracted to women.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
What I find to be intriqueing is that not only do people have a hard time understanding transgenderism. Generally speaking they think that somehow we are confused gay folks. But the icing on the cake is that when we declare our sexuality which we really should all conceptually understand, (straight,trans, gay and lesbian) alike is that our sexuality is very much set in stone and not a choice. Basically we are what we are, nothing more or less.
Jenna08848 1 year ago
kewl piercing
KrisMTL 1 year ago
Well, long-story-short..there's a difference between gender identity (how u feel) & who your attracted too, both which are innate, and are not by choice. Thank you :) U r beautiful. inside & out.
AsiaThePrincess 1 year ago
Who cares if you like girls? Whatever makes ya happy, darling, I'm all for it!
BethGoth15 1 year ago
sexuality is so confusing. i mean i would call myself a lesbian but in my case that couldn't mean being attracted to feminine individuals because i am very attracted to butchy women and i am also very attracted to transguys. it could also not mean only being attracted to butchy individuals because i find feminine women and transwomen very attractive too. it's all just so confusing. the only people i don't seem to be attracted to are cis men. i hate definitions! also, you're hot. :)
plindiful 1 year ago
Hiya Charlotte, spot on,I DON'T, as I keep having to tell men on myspace, find men sexually attractive, ok,there good for a laugh,to carry heavy stuff sometimes, yet they still ask.Mmm its like my sexual orientation does not compute in there minds.I tell them I'm a gay trans woman right from the start,heellooo its in plain English,first line of my profile.so its a pervert or simple curiosity,either way I'm in no hurry to find Ms soulmate.take care babe, Samantha
03sams 1 year ago
Straight guys are just so damned ignorant.
I know that's a blanket statement, but it's generally very true. And part of me understands that if you've never had to question yourself, you've never thought about sexuality the way others have. And the other part just says "think about it for ten seconds! It's not that difficult a concept!"
aamesxdavid 1 year ago
Your tuff.. You rock!!! Thank you..
wrt7 1 year ago
gnaa, who the hell likes dating vids... candle light never gets over authentically via screen. hehe, [alt]strg-shft-L as long as ya wanna, im getting phermo-vision^^. im really starting to think, turning out sapiosexal would be pretty awesome... but well... explain that to a cis-gendered macho projekting his mediaval superstition on ya... confortably... guess its bout what they want to hear and beliefe...
LaxinTwilight24 1 year ago
well girls are hotter than guys lol
enigmatically 1 year ago
@enigmatically Duh! Does ANYONE dispute that Girls are hotter than Guys?
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
So you talk about how you like women. Does that include other male to female transgendered lesbians?
LazyTaterLikesApples 1 year ago
@LazyTaterLikesApples Well yeah...a girl is a girl is a girl to me
karmatic1110 1 year ago 4
Trans lesbian just doesn't make sense to some small minded people...fuck the haters.
blickblocks 1 year ago
Bring back the butchy bandana!
sailorsailme 1 year ago
@sailorsailme Lol! I don't know if it would fit my haircut. I'll do a throwback video one of these days lol.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 One where you lie on your bed, yawning, after a night out to the club and Abby making herself seen too? Pretty please with a bandana on top?
NaomiClareNL 1 year ago
@NaomiClareNL Haha! Abby is her own little being, so idk how easy that would be to arrange, but I'll work on it.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@sailorsailme I don't know. I think I prefer [the current] Beautiful to butchy--but that's just me.
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
OMG ur such a fag
Widdledoo 1 year ago
@Widdledoo no sh!t... and why are you watching this ?? u had to watch it enough to understand what shes saying. deal with your issues
s412100000 1 year ago
@s412100000 lol, she's a friend of mine
Widdledoo 1 year ago
@Widdledoo ooops.. sorry.. a lil sarcasm warning wont hurt..
s412100000 1 year ago
@s412100000 a lil sarcasm warning isn't warranted when the person you're talking to knows you're being sarcastic...a.k.a. A - B conversation.
Widdledoo 1 year ago
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Fiorwestcoast 1 year ago
@Fiorwestcoast Aww, you removed your comment lol.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
my life is quite simple- it's either
chicken or beer
1x93cm 1 year ago
haha "no make up be gentle" you my dear have Nothing to worry about in that department, you look absolutely fabulous,and ya I finally took BI off my FB stats,guys are in time out til further notice ya there is an occasional guy that is attractive to me but EVERY guy seems to turn into a total ass because of my trans status, girls...not so much,I just wish it wasnt an issue to anyone of any gender, but I own it, I have no choice. Hope you and your world are better than the last vid I commented on
tspaige1 1 year ago
@tspaige1 I don't think it's because of your trans status. It's a sorry fact, but, in my experience, pretty much EVERY guy eventually turns out to be a total ass. I don't think they turn INTO one, I think it's just part and parcel of what a guy [really] is. Some just hide it better (or longer) than others. As with any stereotype, there are, of course, [a few] exceptions, and for anyone reading this who is into guys, Dear God, I hope you find one of those exceptions!
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
@MsBilijoe they make it pretty clear that it is because of my trans status, then they run to the hills,and women do the same but in a different way, as a rule it seems that women that are ok with trans people mean that they are ok with trans men, trans women tend to be a wholly different story.
tspaige1 1 year ago
@tspaige1 I am sorry to hear that such has been your experience. Unfortunately, people tend to fear what they don't know. That is, it's a matter of ignorance. It's hard to fault ignorance, since it's simply a state of not knowing. What IS intolerable though is when someone learns they are ignorant (in a given subject), and chooses to remain so. I try to avoid such people, but in every case I know of where a person chose to remain ignorant or mis-informed, they were always the ones who missed out
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
You don't need make up! ♥
froet 1 year ago
I consider myself pansexual but tend to lean toward individuals who are more feminine.
GothBBW 1 year ago
Good for you, sweetness! Don't let other people try and tell you who you should or shouldn't be attracted to. *hugs*
GothBBW 1 year ago
It's unfortunate that some straight men think lesbians should be with the right man, or straight woman to gays, although I don't see that as often. People should respect other people's sexual identity, but since heterosexuals dominate, they still tend to treat homosexuals as a choice that can be changed. It's pretty rude, I think. But you are right that being solely homosexual limits your dating possibilities. I hope you choose the one you want to be with, not based on outside pressure.
Forlorn79 1 year ago
wtf happened to ur face! u have something stuck in ur lip! :P
Jigsjigz 1 year ago
no hunny...men suck.....i wish i could be attracted to women. Your lucky
nochokin 1 year ago
@nochokin I wouldn't know, unfortunately. I do have some friends who are great guys that I wouldn't mind dating if I were attracted to them.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@nochokin Completely agree that men suck. Though I still find it hard to believe, I've heard from bisexual girls that it's not any better with women. It's just different.
Can't really imagine that to be the case, but they have the personal experience, so I can't really argue..
aamesxdavid 1 year ago
Really good video. I too went through this. Attraction is still a foreign concept for me though. I am glad you know. I am glad you actually went throgh discovery and were honest about it. So many, especially when I hear, "I am going to be a lipstick lesbian," make they think they say that to hide their true self.
joneyhits 1 year ago
your response really opened up my mind about sexuality and character. i love you! :)
suhaili 1 year ago
@suhaili Haha thanks :P
karmatic1110 1 year ago
I'm so glad i watched this video cause I honestly did not know that...I learned that just because a person changes gender does not mean gay. I love all your videos!
johanna8379 1 year ago
@johanna8379 Well lol as a woman that dates women that would make me gay :)
karmatic1110 1 year ago
Would you want to like men if you could?
deathsminion25 1 year ago
@deathsminion25 Not at the expense of liking women lol but I suppose liking both would be desirable.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 So you would be OK with being bi if given the choice? I wonder what people do if they don't like either or something very abnormal.
deathsminion25 1 year ago
@deathsminion25 Asexuality isn't as uncommon as one may think.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 but is difficult to understand for how simple of a concept it is
deathsminion25 1 year ago
@deathsminion25 Right right. I went through a period where I didn't want sex at all (I still really don't care for it much) and people just couldn't comprehend it. Before I was in that situation neither could I.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 Was that after you started transitioning?
deathsminion25 1 year ago
@deathsminion25 Yep. I mean I can still take or leave sex. It's not something that is on my mind all that often. It's the affection and bond that I love about relationships.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 Amen! Affection and bonding are, in my humble opinion, at the core of true Love (which, actually, has nothing to do with sex). I really hope you find someone to bond with who showers you with affection. You're such a great person, you deserve the best.
MsBilijoe 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 I actually went through a period for about a year that asexual would be the best title for me,I felt no attraction to anyone on that level, and that feeling was mutual then I had to go and fuck it all up and start being attracted to people again, which really sucks cos that year or so of being asexual was probably the best time of my life,completely unburdened by attraction and bottom line a soft butch lesbian trans girl makes no sense to anyone but me I guess people don't get it
tspaige1 1 year ago
People tend to put transgender with gay a bit too much sometimes, it's natural to think something like that if you've never been introduced to transexuality. Anyone I speak to about it always ask me first 'so wait, your gay' which I'm not. I believe the reason for this is because they think gay people are just feminine men, and a transexual is a leveled up gay man, without thinking that transexuals and gay people are two separate classifications that sometimes cross.
AveyLithia 1 year ago
@AveyLithia Agreed. I don't think that many people in the general population ever have to think about sexuality and gender in the broader sense, so while I understand on some level, a lot of it just seems intuitive to me.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 It would seem like that, but you have to remember the kind of society we live in. The homosexuality is just getting to the point where they can be understood for whom they are, and now it's time for transgender people to go through the same issues. Most people only learn by one thing and one thing alone, their parents. And unless they are told and proved otherwise, this is the only way they can think, because it is the way that society views transgender people nowadays.
AveyLithia 1 year ago
"transition's really about being yourself" - QFT.
also I think something to remember about dating is that no matter how small your "dating pool", or whatever, is, you really only need one person :)
Estrogenetics 1 year ago
Ah, phooey! You look beautiful without makeup. ;)
LicoriceLain 1 year ago
oh and there is a youtube group of people
and there called the beverbunch or something like that
and there all gay
so if you want to check them out there pritty cool :)
flyingpunk87 1 year ago
@flyingpunk87 Yeah, I frequent their videos from time to time :)
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 cool :)
and i just want to tell you
your my bigsnt insperayshin as far as being a yough trains girl
i love your videos and i am also only actrakted to girls
and im sorry about my bad spelling i hope you can read it
i have a learing disabildy D:
but again i love your videos and keep up the great work :D
- Emily :D
flyingpunk87 1 year ago
@flyingpunk87 Aww! Well thank you peaches, and if you have any questions or need anything lmk
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 imk? im sorry i dont know what that means :c
but if have any thing to ask ill be sure to come to you frist :)
i hope you would remmber me and repley that is :P
flyingpunk87 1 year ago
@flyingpunk87 I send you a private message :) Also lmk means let me know :P
karmatic1110 1 year ago
i love your hair :D
flyingpunk87 1 year ago
right on. live your life the way your heart tells you to and you'll be fine. can make yourself love men is you simply just don't find them attractive.
slurpaliciouslatex 1 year ago
Girl Power! You'll find one hun!
Took me awhile to find a good girl, but I did, and couldn't be happier!
So as good lokking as you are, you'll nab one in no time! ^_^
=^.^= *meow*
~Lizz
LingMistressLizz 1 year ago
@LingMistressLizz Haha, well thanks. I never now how to take a compliment gracefully.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 You're welcome! ^_^ I kinda spelled 'looking' wrong huh... Damn typos! lol... Good luck there!
From Russia with love,
~Lizz
LingMistressLizz 1 year ago
You totally make a good point and I go through this same exact thing. It is kind of insulting. I still find you attractive, super attractive, wish we didn't have the rough patch.
Bitemeartzombie 1 year ago
@Bitemeartzombie I was always talking to you as a friend, not a potential date.
karmatic1110 1 year ago
@karmatic1110 Ouch. I didn't really mean it like that, I just meant I always found you physically attractive.
Bitemeartzombie 1 year ago
You look beautiful, with or without makeup :3
xRejectedJessikax 1 year ago
@xRejectedJessikax Well thank you :)
karmatic1110 1 year ago
i don't understand those str8 people! i just don't.
yurchardonnay 1 year ago
It seems to be extremely confusing to people that gender & sexuality are two different things all together.
creact 1 year ago
@creact Agreed :)
karmatic1110 1 year ago