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  • i "loved" a girl for 2 years lets just say it ended shit all of my relations have ended shit but i dont take it as something wrong with me i tryed so hard to get this girl but if she never felt the same way then what could i of possible done? u gave it ur all in these past relationships and it didnt work out thats fine u just godda know u carnt change for anyone or if u want that one person to love u godda be urself becaues if they love you for u AND THEY WILL :) you will both be happy

    and i h

  • for a sec. i thought thats how u spoke

  • Oh AJ, this video broke my heart! I think you're amazing and would be so honored to love you forever and ever! Plus, we could share birthday cake... mine is the day before yours. :)

  • this is gay

    YEAH I SAID IT

    and aj looks like a boy

  • What made you decide to be gay/lesbian? (this isnt like an offense question im jus wounderin)

  • @Beyoncechrisjonas Nobody decides that. It's not a choice.

  • you are so AMAZING.

    that is all.

    p.s. I'm a sucker for love too. it's a gift and a curse.

    okay nooow that it all.

  • Thank you so much for speakin the truth. It's probably so hard to do when you know so many people watch. But, it gives others strength-like me! I love you AJ!

  • I don't like crowds either >.<

  • i love this! especially your explanation of losing yourself in someone else. perhaps the previous people weren't right for you......we have to fail in order to succeed;) the end. love, clyde

  • <3 feel you on this fo sho.

    Remember that you are what you choose to be, and that you can choose anything, and if that doesn't work, it doesn't make you wrong and you can just choose something else. I haven't been with anyone for quite a while and share the trait of giving it all away. The way I see it? And this is for real: we haven't happened to run into the people who can appreciate who we really are, and we will find them through failing with lots of other people. It is exciting, and new :)

  • Just as of tonight I became single and I was in one of those relationships where I lost my self completely and I hated my self everyday for it I never should have put up with shut I put up with and I guess to overcome it you have to get pissed off enough either at them or your self to stop doing what your doing grow some balls and be confident in your self and well I'm growing my balls and I feel much more confident with my self cause I'll do my own thing and when I'm solid I'll think about let

  • I would love for you to marry me...but I am in arkansas :((

  • AJ sounds a lot like me and we have the same glasses. She is like the bomb.com. AJ if u ever need someone to talk to I am here. We arent suckers for love. We just have the romantic gene in us. Happy Bday!!!!

  • Greyskull! Gray? Gay? Ha... letters are fun... Cool video!

  • you figure the "featured videos" would be entertaining somehow.

  • HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ!!! :D

  • This is a featured video!!!!!!

  • Oh no! What happened to Melody? ;(

  • @MademoiselleMinerva we broke up MONTHS ago :)

  • HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAY

    1. I fear that i will never be good enough for myself (does that make sense?)

    2. I also get way too involved in my relationships. so i relate there!

    3. That i will not accomplish anything worth noting

    4. I procrastinate like no other, like legit no kidding terrible procrastination

    5. I love the rain! only when there are epic clouds too!

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^­^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    If anyone knew me that would prolly be on their list O stuff

  • Happy Birthday! I'm probably late in saying this but happy birthday!!

  • I would go to all of your performances, 'cause you're hilarious. Happy late b-day. XD

  • Not trying to be rude but is this a guy or a girl?

  • my mind.... MY MIND

  • Finally, a video with great sound.

    BTW, everyone is afraid to fail. You are not alone.

    Speaking of being alone forever, I think that is common as well.

    Thanks for the update.

  • Happy Birthday AJ!!! Good luck in all that you do and take care. :)

  • wtf is this guy or girl?

    by face - guy

    by voice - girl

    

  • I'm so glad you shared all these things thanks so much. It's great o learn about you. Happy Birthday and it was George Michael after Wham.You really don't sound liek any kind of failure to me, you're so consciencious.

  • Ahh... I like you soooo much..

    so sensitive and soooo cute :DDD

    No but really, i think that you're really really cute. I think that whoever gets to go out with you will be really special in an envious way.

    PS Happy Belated Birthday! Thanks for sharing with us!!

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo­xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  • Hey, sorry I'm late ... Happy birthday AJ !!! :)

    You know what ? You''ll be absolutely fine AJ. To acknowledge insecurity *is* strength.

  • Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

  • Happy Birthday! :)

  • i fucking love your video and i can totally relate!

  • I try not to judge others...and I myself would do jut about anything for the one i like/love, which sets me up 4 getting stepped on alot of the time, but I can't help it. So many nights I've wondered what was wrong with me, what I'm doing wrong, etc...I still don't know. Thanks for sharing =) And happy birthday!!

  • effff, i live in ct. :( if i had a person to get married to, and i was of age, i would buy you a plane ticket. <3

    we have the same "if you really knew me" secrets. i love youuuu <333

    "we only accept the love we think we deserve". it's hard to acomplish, but we can all do it.

  • i wanna get married but im not gay.....could you still do my wedding?

  • I call shenanigans on your reason for fearing failure! ;) If you didn't go to class, unless you were afraid of your 6th period, you just decided not to go! Afraid of failing would be the fear of actually TRYING (and showing up) and failing! :P Dork!

  • @WndrBr3d i hated my 6th period class, so i didnt go, and since you're my BROTHER you know all about this already...foo

  • i can totally relate to all of these things! much love to you AJ

  • Wow! AJ.. You just described all my biggest fears and biggest insecurities in one video. I have a horrible thing with failing. I'm such a perfectionist with myself. I have higher expectations for myself then others. I'm also incredibly shy and I don't do good in crowds. I feel like when I first meet people I don't know I am too dorky for them to get a good sense of me in a quick and crowded situation. I also am a sucker for love and I tend to give my all in relationships. So I know what you mean

  • i feel the same way about giving my all and giving my best. thakns.

  • Youre so sweet! Happy (late) birthday!!

  • you are wonderful

  • happy birthday AJ! stay classy!

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ! :)))))))

  • happy birthday AJ:)

  • AJ! How did you get ordained? It seems like there are a lot of scams out there and i'd prefer to do it through a non-denominational process.

  • Wishing you a freggin' amazing birthday from your fan down in OK!

  • Happy birthday AJ!

  • Happy Birthday, AJ!!!

  • Happy Birthday!!

  • Happy Birthday AJ

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ!!!!!!! HOPE YOU HAD AN AMAZING B-DAY

  • Happy bday, yo AJ!!!

  • i think you should go for the comedy thing aj.

    at leats give it a shot.

  • how much you charging aj...to marry people that is ;)

  • i really love your videos ^.^

    happy birthday =] hope its fantastic =D

  • Happy Birthday AJ!!!

  • Happy Birthday!

     ♡

  • HAPPY B-DAY AJ :)

  • Happy Birthday

  • Happy BIRTHDAY AJ!!!! 

  • Happy b-day

  • I would say 90% of regular people, notice I didn't say normal, have those same insecurities or fears. Feel safe in the realization that you're not the only one out there!

    Happy birthday!

  • A-J it's your Birthday! Hap-py Birthday A-J!!!

    (*Sung to the tune of that one Birthday song from The Simpsons, with Michael Jackson, you know the one)

  • @WeirdAl68 Youtube-it!

  • @WeirdAl68 oh i dont need to youtube that song, I HAVE that episode, ON TAPE!

  • @beaverbunch TAPE, wow AJ is still using a VCR, haha! I love that song so much! Happy Birthday again!

  • @WeirdAl68 i had the tape from when i was a kid...

  • happy birthday aj u rock!!!!

  • Happy Birthday AJ!!

  • Happy Birthday AJ.... and I loved ur video this week. I can really relate to a lot of those sentiments. Just know that u are amazing <3

  • ♪ Happy birthday to yoooooooouuuuuuuu ♫

  • i'm loving this weeks topic!! its like therapy! haha! 

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I bet u'll find luv now with this video!

  • This is probably the realest, most heart felt video I've ever seen on youtube to date.

    And you, my friend, are amazing for allowing yourself to become to vulnerable in front of the camera.

    Keep it real!

    I hope you have an amazing birthday!

  • Happy Birthday!

    You're so great AJ, have no doubts about yourself! =)

  • OMG. I'd totally have to say the same 3 things about myself. TOTALLY.

    And I'm a senior now and yeah... I would seriously die if that would happen to me.

    And! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR AJ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOUUUUU=]

  • happy birthday AJ!

  • happy bday aj!!

  • Happy Happy Birthday AJ! Hope you have a great day!

  • happy birthday aj!!!

    trust me i know where u are coming from, putting in all the effort and love and getting nothing back...ur perfect person is out there and u will find her and she will love every inch of you.

  • OMG you're so awesome AJ. You know, the end of a relationship doesn't mean it was a failure. remember it takes two to make it work. you should try doing stand up, cause you'd be good at it and maybe sometimes it takes failures to succeed so don't worry too much. 誕生日おめでとう AJ !! :)

  • Hey AJ great video you should post some stand up comedy on youtube just to test the waters :) happy birthday!

  • Happy birthday aj ur beautiful :)

  • HAPPEH BIRTHDAY!! :]

  • Happy Birthday AJ!

    Remember, everyone has their own insecurities but it takes someone greate to be able to voice them...especially to 5000+ people XD

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ!!!!!

  • Hey, Congrats on the ordination. How much would you charge? Happy B-day, mine was yesterday : )

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! <3

  • happy birthday AJ! xoxo

  • Happy birthday! Hope you have a good day. Congratulations on becoming ordained too. And thank you for your honesty, I think hearing all of the fears you guys have not only bring us closer, but reminds us all we're not alone with our worries.

  • <3 HOPELESS ROMANTICISM <3

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ. Great vid and can totally understand where your coming from...i feel the same alot of the time so no need to worry your totally cool and totally not alone :) X x

  • Happy birthday! Hope u had a great day :)

  • Your not alone i really insecure and i hate crowds even crowds of family. I get shy when larg crowds prefer small groups. I'm 28 never dated anyone because of my shyness but am trying to overcome. Happy Birthday AJ Woooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

  • Your not alone i really insecure and i hate crowds even crowds of family. I get shy when larg crowds prefer small groups. I'm 28 never dated anyone because of my shyness but am trying to overcome. Happy Birthday AJ Woooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Happy birthday! You're right, we're all the same. I'm so afraid of failing that I usually sabotage myself, or don't even try at all. It's paralyzing, and it prevents you from actually living. I think it's a self-worth issue. You have to realize that you deserve to be happy too!

  • oh that so cool my b day is on the 8 of tthis month

  • Happy birthdayyyyy :D:D

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY! :D

  • happy birthday I ♥ u! :)

  • There is nothing wrong with you, just by watching your videos i can tell that there is nothing wrong with you! You just have to believe that you haven't found someone who is worth your all in a relationship sort of way! :)

    Happy Birthday AJ

  • Happy Birthday! I have a fear of failing and being alone as well. My fear of failing ties into my fear of love... My fear of love comes from the fact that I give my all until I die inside, because I don't get them same dedication in return. Maybe we should talk... What is your number? ;) Have a wonderful day!

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

    I hope you have an awesome day =)

  • happy birthday my love! i hope this next yr is a great one for you. keep your head up and never give up on the world.. you never know what can happen tomorrow.

    fyi.. you'll never know if your any good at something until you get out there and try. start small!

  • haha yes it was nearly a wham song and also i'll happy to discuss fear of failing at stand up comedy any time! ;)

    happy barfday AJ!

  • Happy "29th" birthday AJ :P

  • Happy Birthday!!!!!!!

  • Also Happy Birthday :)

  • AJ your amazing. Your one of my role models, for real.

  • Tell it to Lady Gaga's face. That sucks you couldn't graduate with your high school. You will over come those fears and be better in your life.

  • Happy Happy Birthday gorgeous!

    The way you loved your past girlfriends IS the way you're supposed to love, so DON'T change nuttin! Those lovelies just didn't happen to be "the one", they were just practice.

  • Congrats and Happy Birthday AJ! Your honesty was very touching, thank you for sharing.

  • You're too cute AJ! Happy birthday!!

  • And HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

  • AJ, you have me lost for words... That was beautiful. I'm hugely touched. xx

  • Happy Birthday AJ!! Loved your video, i think you'd be suprised with how many people share your views, and feelings, even though everyone copes with thing's differently. Just know that they're is someone that's waiting for you to give them your all, and that want to do the same. That day will come. Be happy, you never know what your next chapter will bring. x x

  • Happy birthday!!!

  • Congrats Aj! Happy birthday~~

    Relationship: Its not you it them!! Respect your honesty

  • Happy birthday baby!

    Hugs and kisses with a cheek pinch too!

  • happy birthday!!!!

  • HAPPY BRITHDAY DUDE

  • AWW nice vid dude

  • Happy birthday AJ :) xo

  • im also scared that im gonna be alone forever...

  • awww i love u ..your such an inspiration ...Happy birthday !!!

  • HaPpY bIrThDaY aJ!!!!!! I hope it's the best birthday you've ever had and that ever day this year is equally as awesome

  • happy bday. I'm a new watcher.

  • Happy Birthday, AJ!!!

  • happy bday! :D

    *though technically it would be in 20ish minutes... bt hey, miami time... xD*

  • Happy Birthday AJ! :D

  • happy birthday

    we share the same zodiac I'm 25 August

    Virgo ppl always shy and scare of facing new ppl

  • Awww.... Happy Birthday, AJ. :)

    And minister??? Are you a Christian??!?

  • Happy Birthday AJ!

    if you really knew me, you'd know that

    ....I am a hopeless romantic, i believe that there is one special (butch) woman out there for me. and i'm willing to keep giving it my all until i find her. because if i give anything less than that i'm not being true to myself.

    ....that this is my first youtube comment.

    ....i'm afraid of frogs and toads.

    ....i'm worried about getting cancer... again. but i won't let it stop me.

    and

    ....how i finally feel like i'm coming into my own.

  • *Happy B-day AJ* You better have a great one lol!:O)

  • Yeehhh! Happy birthday, AJ! Don't worry, we're all suckers for love!! (It's Sept 2 EDT now!)

  • I would feel pretty darn lucky to actually know you.....too much in common!!; o)

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  • AJ! It's awesome that you opened up like that! I think you should do stand-up! Maybe start writing your routines and posting them on Youtube! :D

  • Happy Birthday AJ!! All I could think of while watching ur video was 'how could someone NOT love you?' You're awesome, and I always enjoy watching ur videos! Have an awesome day :D

  • Awwww HAPPY BIRTHDAY from Montreal .... Chin up and celebrate.

  • happy bday tomorrow!

  • if you really knew me, you'd know that I'm 20 years old and I'm still in the closet and it totally suck!

  • dude ur totaly doing my weddingu talk alot faster when ur uncomfortable about something

  • dude ur totaly doing my wedding

  • happy birthday!!

  • I got ordained 6 years ago, but the first wedding I did was last year. It was also for a straight, Catholic, military couple, so I'll work on getting the gays in on the deal, lol!

  • Happy birthday!!! i totally understand the fear of being alone forever!!! thats my biggest fear ever!!! I'm so afraid that no one will ever see the inner me! i really appreciate this video!

  • With regard to your relationship problems (or lack thereof), the words to Tegan and Sara's Northshore may be pertinent. ##ridiculousbutiloveit

  • Minister AJ. That's the first time I've heard of a Minister with an acronym name. That's pretty rad! Congrats on getting ordained :)

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ!!!!!

  • Happy birthday!

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

  • Happy birthday! I hope you have a fabulous day tomorrow, and every day after. (:

  • Happy Birthday in an hour!!! <3

  • Thank you for your honesty! No judging. We are all essentially the same and have the same needs!

  • the Ad under your video is for a christian dating site.......... eek! also. ill date you

  • My twin nephews share a b-day with you. Bradley and Brayden will 4. Happy early Birthday!

  • hey we love you haha ya i am afraid to fail im only in 8th grade but i keep thinking i am going to fail and get kicked out of school and have to repeat the 8th grade i think about that every day i cant get it out of my mind ahhhhh

  • You have to fail to succeed (:

    Happy early Birthday :D

  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ!!!!!!!!!

  • You have to fail to succeed (:

  • would you be willing to do another callab as well as this one?

  • you're forgetting that the 5,000 viewers are people who continue to watch because we like your videos, we love you and we for sure support you. Aj I think you're hella awesome.

  • Happy Birthday AJ!!!!!!! (Tomorrow of course!)

    As most people do that watch these videos, I think you are fantastic. You are so smart and funny and very insightful. (Not to mention extremely sexy....im just sayin!!! :) Any girl would be lucky to have you. I hope you enjoy your birthday and have a great night!

  • I believe in you AJ :) Happy Birthday!

  • {{{AJ}}} happy prebirthday :)

  • Awe!!  That was so friggin awesome:). Love to see that realness. Thank you! And happy b day tomorrow:). Party like a Rock Star!!