Who hasnt messed up!? Don't really feel bad.. you have no idea how much i and everyone has been a lier in their life! no one's life IS perfect! even... if they say it is.. it never is. Peoples lifes were not ment to be perfect. I'm sorry for what happened to you =( don't blame yourself tho! those ppl are disscusting! And deserve to be put in jail.. you are awesome. i hope you can forget this one day..
I'm sorry to hear you're treated like this. Nobody deserves something like that. Being threatened, put down, joked about. It hurts. And nobody deserves to be hurt like that.
If anyone threatens you either verbally or physically, gather and take evidence to the police and file a complaint and a restraining order against them. That has a way of making things both a bit worse for a short while, but they WILL get the message through their head. Do not stand for it, or think how to fall to their level of behavior. Sometimes you have to say enough is enough. Good luck. Don't let this get out of control. Stay sane, and safe!
I have so much respect for you. We all lie. I have told many lies in my life. I tell fewer now than I used to.
But for what is happening to you now after your relationship, I am so sorry. I'm sure you know it will pass, but things like that can be so hurtful as they're happening, and can be difficult to recover from. What your ex is doing, or allowing to happen is unacceptable. I am so sorry you have to be in that position.
However, while I probably painted this as my ex's fault, the reality is that people are responsible for their own actions. It just so happens that I have associated myself with someone who has associated themselves with horrible people.
Clearly, you are directing this video at the "tall, large man", but methinks you are just playing into his needs by posting it. Whether you "need" or "want" to not be hounded doesn't seem to be among his priorities. You need to deal with him differently--he is just a bully. It would also help your video if you provided at least some detail, rather than just a lot of generalities. I like your vids---they are very real--but let's get a little detail in them so we can understand.
Like most of my videos, this is directed at myself. It's not so different from a journal that I am letting people read. Biggy is just a bully, but speaking out with the truth is not playing into his needs. Maybe a little bit, but the big picture is that the truth is out there, which isn't good for conniving assholes like him. He feeds on intimidation which is strongest when it serves to isolate.
I am withholding details (like names and threats) because I've had issues with that in the past.
No deserves to be hounded like that. In the end they're cowards who have nothing better to do. They'll eventually realise that hounding you for something you did, perhaps just once, doesn't make much sense and leave you alone.
It's hard just now, but things like this make us stronger (as I'm sure you know), so just hang in there :)
I don't think you deserve it!! We are human and we all make mistakes. Sounds like this big man and this girl have nothing better to do in their life and I am pretty sure they are doing this cause the turmoil going on inside of them.
Hey. I just feel really compelled to tell you two things.
First off, you're not in the wrong. Yeah, maybe you've made some mistakes, but as is the human nature, and as is the human life. Don't let this get to you.
Secondly, just be strong. No matter what comes your way, what horrible hurtful things are thrown at you, be the kind of person who can stand there and brush them off your shoulder and continue walking down the street unaffected by them.
Of course not all people deserve my love, trust, and respect. But I do not throw these things around lightly. Those I invest in, I truly invest in. I don't just run away when the going gets tough. If I've bothered to be friends with them in the first place, in the long run, they are worth it. Unless I was wrong about them...
Who hasnt messed up!? Don't really feel bad.. you have no idea how much i and everyone has been a lier in their life! no one's life IS perfect! even... if they say it is.. it never is. Peoples lifes were not ment to be perfect. I'm sorry for what happened to you =( don't blame yourself tho! those ppl are disscusting! And deserve to be put in jail.. you are awesome. i hope you can forget this one day..
Shaunzygirl1116 2 years ago
I'm sorry to hear you're treated like this. Nobody deserves something like that. Being threatened, put down, joked about. It hurts. And nobody deserves to be hurt like that.
xUberAndrex 3 years ago
Keep this very much in mind....
If anyone threatens you either verbally or physically, gather and take evidence to the police and file a complaint and a restraining order against them. That has a way of making things both a bit worse for a short while, but they WILL get the message through their head. Do not stand for it, or think how to fall to their level of behavior. Sometimes you have to say enough is enough. Good luck. Don't let this get out of control. Stay sane, and safe!
SolZocalo 3 years ago
JennDer you dont and will never deserve that type of treatment from anyone! You are an amazing person who has alot to share with the world!
While right now things kinda suck just know Karma is a bitch with vengeance!
You are amazing person and I can imagine my days without seeing your videos pop up! =]
CrazedDramaGuy 3 years ago 2
I feel for you - and know that you will get through this somehow. Vent as much as you need to.
Charterways 3 years ago
I have so much respect for you. We all lie. I have told many lies in my life. I tell fewer now than I used to.
But for what is happening to you now after your relationship, I am so sorry. I'm sure you know it will pass, but things like that can be so hurtful as they're happening, and can be difficult to recover from. What your ex is doing, or allowing to happen is unacceptable. I am so sorry you have to be in that position.
PickThisCar 3 years ago 2
I appreciate your sentiment.
However, while I probably painted this as my ex's fault, the reality is that people are responsible for their own actions. It just so happens that I have associated myself with someone who has associated themselves with horrible people.
JennDer605 3 years ago
Clearly, you are directing this video at the "tall, large man", but methinks you are just playing into his needs by posting it. Whether you "need" or "want" to not be hounded doesn't seem to be among his priorities. You need to deal with him differently--he is just a bully. It would also help your video if you provided at least some detail, rather than just a lot of generalities. I like your vids---they are very real--but let's get a little detail in them so we can understand.
nexttsar 3 years ago
Like most of my videos, this is directed at myself. It's not so different from a journal that I am letting people read. Biggy is just a bully, but speaking out with the truth is not playing into his needs. Maybe a little bit, but the big picture is that the truth is out there, which isn't good for conniving assholes like him. He feeds on intimidation which is strongest when it serves to isolate.
I am withholding details (like names and threats) because I've had issues with that in the past.
JennDer605 3 years ago
No deserves to be hounded like that. In the end they're cowards who have nothing better to do. They'll eventually realise that hounding you for something you did, perhaps just once, doesn't make much sense and leave you alone.
It's hard just now, but things like this make us stronger (as I'm sure you know), so just hang in there :)
peesemould 3 years ago
I don't think anyone deserves treatment like that. :(
paisleypower30 3 years ago
Love is very rare. Sartre says hell is other people! Don't let yourself get discouraged!
indoiala 3 years ago
hmm. what if someone tells you that everything good happeneds because of you?
:]
i like that you tell your life here. everything you say seems like it should be in a book, or in a poem.
goodness.
idk what to day now
italianabella567 3 years ago 3
this video makes me sad :"[[
italianabella567 3 years ago
I don't think you deserve it!! We are human and we all make mistakes. Sounds like this big man and this girl have nothing better to do in their life and I am pretty sure they are doing this cause the turmoil going on inside of them.
russtex 3 years ago
I'm very sorry JennDer. No matter what you've done, you don't deserve to be harassed like that.
CalebWandering 3 years ago 3
I'm saddened by this "Screaming at the Void" video.
Divinewatersfan79 3 years ago
no one no matter what they have done should have to be ridiculed like that, hang in there.
jpol01 3 years ago 2
Hey. I just feel really compelled to tell you two things.
First off, you're not in the wrong. Yeah, maybe you've made some mistakes, but as is the human nature, and as is the human life. Don't let this get to you.
Secondly, just be strong. No matter what comes your way, what horrible hurtful things are thrown at you, be the kind of person who can stand there and brush them off your shoulder and continue walking down the street unaffected by them.
I don't need to know you to tell you this.
Bouyondo 3 years ago 2
Have you ever considered the notion that some people do not deserve your love, trust or respect?
I mean, think of the company they attract. Do you really want to be in that group? I sure as hell don't.
repgurl 3 years ago
Of course not all people deserve my love, trust, and respect. But I do not throw these things around lightly. Those I invest in, I truly invest in. I don't just run away when the going gets tough. If I've bothered to be friends with them in the first place, in the long run, they are worth it. Unless I was wrong about them...
JennDer605 3 years ago