Dustin's Marriage Advice - Friday Night With Jonathan Ross - BBC One

[sooperfukker]

Thumbs up if you're slowly but safely fed up with this anti-men sexist shit.

[NinjaRunningWild]

So, in basic terms, Hoffman is saying his marriage works because he's "the bitch".

[ExtremeBogom]

Wow people relax. All in good humour, K?

[Volf99]

@ExtremeBogom some people feel wronged. Asian, White, Black, ect. religious, atheist, poor, mid, or rich, this is probably one of the very few "issues" that all men can see eye-to-eye on. Wouldn't you agree?

[ExtremeBogom]

@Volf99

I do.

[madwalrus]

So his marriage has lasted so long because he's not a prick like the rest of us. Wow Hoffman we must all bow down to your greatness, oh great one. Women are all infinitely perfect after all aren't they?

I guess the reason his marriage has lasted so long has nothing to do with his multi-million bank balance.

[Volf99]

@madwalrus I don't think he believes that they are perfect, but after years of marriage he "knows" to say what women want to hear because his wife would probably find out if he was talking "shit". Don't you think so?

[chucknchar]

Dustin you have been with one women for 34 yrs, so you are totally missing all those insensative women out there. Insensatvity is a human condition

[ostime14]

the way he delivered that last line...oscar material

[budwhite1]

I bet Hoffman wasn't saying the same thing when he was in his twenties lol

[lympheneas]

excellent!

all those who post comments like ''this is random stuff, pathetic line'' and so on I suggest you count your bees. you will find that one is missing.

[VernePhilleas]

can't believe he's using the "men are jerks, women are angels" line...so pathetic. come-on hoffman, thought ya had more grit and originality than that, ya old codger. jonathon ross is awesome.

[choleric6priest]

@VernePhilleas hey use restrain. you give away ur immaturity.

[RickBrownImago]

Dustin makes some entertaining points regarding marriage longevity.

I found this video that gives some great, practical advice on having a long marriage of your own.

[MrPointyarrow]

uh huh

[robotracking]

We pay hundreds for a TV licence, yet all they will show is 1:06 of an interview that lasted at least 20mins. WTF is wrong with the BBC, the greedy sods they are.

[fro7k]

Why would any man be scared of his wife?

[NinjaRunningWild]

@fro7k Because he's a pussy and allows himself to be.

[ace666999]

lol true say

[mongolenpup]

You say something about women, you're immediately a sexist...being a man is already sexist...insane...women are just as selfish as men if not even more...If a man acts like a pussy and doesnt live up to her standards as a provider, she'll kick him out just as fast, regardless of his reasons....Try it...you'll see what I mean. this simple minded black and white double standard bullshit in today's society is annoying as fuck.

[giolk28]

right, i agree.

[BooJoMan]

@mongolenpup Couldnt agree more. Equal rights both ways.

[NinjaRunningWild]

@mongolenpup Women just won't look at or admit responsibility their tactics objectively due to being, by-nature, indirect.

[Knoxvicious]

omg, are you kidding me? Women get bashed CONSTANTLY on damn TV shows, radio, books, etc. There are even websites dedicated to why men are better than women and we put up with it. And you men whine over the truth...

Dustin Hoffman is a true man!!!!

[dontleademsomuch]

he's right

[tudordinasty]

It's meant to be funny and it does have a bit of truth in it ;)...

[avok23]

stupid advice.

[nonameisavailable]

i agree with you. Extremely stupid advice. I am a man, and I am very caring and sensitive to my woman.

[wsiklogfh]

good for you man, props to you, that is how a really good man must treat his woman

[joshmosh79]

hahaha wisdom from the rainman

[nomrtuna]

girls smell

[shows82]

seriously people mellow out. the guy is in his 70's and been married for 28 years he must know something. i am guessing he is pointing out that because are so nuturing and caring and men can be dogs that if a man doesn't know his wife has a backbone to go along with that tender side that he could take advantage of her. not that all men would, but men want a woman who will be their equal i think, not their mother.

[fosky075]

sounds about rite in the married life hehe !!

[DAZ486]

I have removed my comments if you have gotten the wrong end of the stick. I was trying to prove a point. But sorry if I offended you, like this guy offended me.

And men are not selfish, just like a woman isn't. Its down to two people to make a marriage work or fall apart not just one. Because that's what a marriage is. A unity.

[OscarPiddletrentHyde]

what a man. How hot is he? even at 70 or whatever he is

[Filmzie]

oh dustin you still make me chuckle

[Morecake2]

What he's saying is that marriage can only work if the guy learns to kiss ass and make like he believes it.

[evesheehan]

I LOVE DUSTIN :D

[billiejones25]

Yeah yeah very nice dustin but on a serious note plz VOTE UKIP get us out of this stupid union which costs the british tax payer £ 40 million a day say NO to the EU

[alexdude1991]

fuck off, votes over, ukip didnt win, whats your point?

[ameliabedelia99]

daz, you need to put aside your bitterness and get out more. it seems as though you've formed your negative view of women from a bad experience and images from certain media. there are many women of substance in this world. my family, my friends, myself are not at all how you describe us.

[ameliabedelia99]

Well, it seems as though you do have a problem with women because you think that women have been asking for handouts from men. We have what we have - inalienable (one would think) rights, responsbilities - because thinking women and some progressive men have fought for them. As for male-bashing - I must say that I cringed at the cheering at Dustin's comment about all/most men being a certain way, but got sidetracked by your vitriol.

[DAZ486]

I never said I have a problem with women, I said I had a problem with modern day feminism which are not looking for equality but right after right and showing the image of men as bad oppressors. I never said Women wanted handouts from men. As I said I am for equality, which means i want women and men to be equal. And men's rights. I think men are given an unfair dis advantage in the courts and portrayed badly in the media (as you can see here).

I was trying to prove a point. Not hating women.

[godlessKnowledge]

why bother fighting modern feminism when all you'll be doing is slowing the progress of equality that still does not exist today.

[NinjaRunningWild]

@godlessKnowledge You want equality? Go earn it LIKE A MAN.

[ameliabedelia99]

well, isn't that convenient of you to remove your hateful comments? you can now say "i never said..." without your previous comments showing quite the opposite. lame.

[DAZ486]

I was proving the point that when he says hateful things about men he is cheered but it is different the other way around. That's the last time i will explain it.

Now, please realise this was a miss understanding and not hate. I removed my (non hateful points) before i said "never said". Because you were offended. Make up your mind or just let it go.

[jfkjrlover]

From my experience with men and from what other women have told me, Dustin's right about them being selfish and insensitive by nature. I guess women are selfish in their own way but I think women do care more about their partner's happiness than men do. If men would just put in as much effort into relationships as women do, we'd have a lot more long-lasting ones.

[DAZ486]

That's not the point. The point is, if i went on TV and said to everyone of the women exactly the same thing he did to men, true or not, how would you feel? I am sure there would be many complaints. And you, neither Dustin can say that about all men on personal experiences (that's insulting). And if men are insensitive, why am I angry at him right now? Or should I just BE A MAN about it?

Its the norm right now, go into a shop look at the T-Shirts and I am sure you will find one with Boys Suck

[ImNotThere100]

uh, being angry and sensitive are two entirely different emotions. way to fool yourself

[DAZ486]

Never said they were the same emotion but you can be angry and sensitive. So, everyone marks me down and the reason for this is because of two emotions, yet they can't counter the massive double standard? Way to fool yourself.

[OscarPiddletrentHyde]

I disagree with most of your points here. Women are incredible creatures

[DAZ486]

And you agree all men are selfish pricks?

You don't see the point I am trying to make. I don't mean what I say.

The point is to see what reaction I get. Dustin got a cheer for his comments and I get complaints for saying the same type of thing about women. Its one way and not the other. Point proven. Us guys gotta take the shit but its not ok the other way around?

[LTJska]

said exactly the same thing on parky

[yowassupbro]

who the fuck is this nobody?

[ghbaby08]

you should know - nobodies generally know each other, right?

[rikijamie]

the guy speaking or the presenter..coz if your serious..you dont get out much

[DragChungy]

mr focker! roflmao

[naughtystepUGC]

I think Dustin is 100% right, something must be working right in his relationship. Mental maturity and intelligence also plays a big part and being totally in love with someone. If you don't truly, madly, deeply, passionately, don't even bother answering the phone, it won't work!

Jonathan Ross has another good marriage. I think these two guys are similar red-blooded males with the right outlook. Men are full of testosterone, but women have the brains (lol).

[TrillionMcMillan42]

I disagree that a man should be scared of his wife - this isn't an equal relationship at all and thats all you need to make a relationship work - respect for each other. Men aren't always known for being sensitive...thats often but not always true but the idea is that both members adapt to one another's needs and learn how the other person thinks so they can understand them better.

[babylonjunglist]

what a load of shit, pathetic white knight

[jfkjrlover]

He's right about men but not about them needing to be afraid of their wives in order for marriages to work.

[ignfan4life]

What a dickless whiteknight

[RacistWinker]

To make a marriage work, a man has to surpress his needs to bang other women and pass on all the offers of sex by sexier and slutty women.

In brief, a man has to live a life of misery to keep a marriage working.

[DayDreamerProduction]

Why would a man marry a woman knowing that he would have to do that and feel miserable? A man and woman marry because they love eachother and don't need anyone else >>

[wsiklogfh]

exactly, nobody could'nt had siad it better

[abbass007]

Ha ha, very true...

Cheack out Jerry Leadbetter afraid of Margret 'Margo' leadbetter in

' A Good Life'

and also Basil Fawlty afraid of Sybil 'The Dragon' Fawlty in 'Fawlty Towers'

[ghbaby08]

in a world where men are brainless apes - or racistwinkers

[jfkjrlover]

With a bitter, woman-hating attitude like that, you'll be doing women a favor by staying away from them. No woman in her right mind would ever want to end up with you, you disgusting asswipe!

[RacistWinker]

Why respond to a comment I made a week ago? It doesn't matter anymore.

What makes you think I hate women? You're a bitter and twisted person who wants to be offended because you live an empty life. You probably were scrolling through pages and pages of comments for this video until you found mine so that you could throw a hissy fit.

I feel sorry for you. Cheer up. Comfort yourself in the knowledge that although you are wallowing in the depths of despair, there are others who are happy.

[bababoum]

he was cool.

[cheekylass23]

He seems such a nice guy, and friend of mine has met him and his family many times in new york ,and says that Dustin seems a real family man who is still happily married after all these years

[GregRoberts1979]

This is true! but his punchline was just that - a joke. from my experience, its really "the man has to completly adore his wife and look to her needs above his own". but there is also truth hiden in his very funny punchline. Fear - maybe another word would be respect. Disagree if you like - but it works for me...

[shelooksthroughme]

whatever dustin mate lol

[Nihilanth1982]

What a load of bullshit.

[ste4test]

I Concur.

[anonj08]

I concur with the concurer

[Steeveness]

Yeah thats so true lol.