@rctriplefresh5 she meant that it's not possible to be popular or at least adaptable in society and be full of friends at the same time. if you're very good at doing something, even if you dress well or you're bright, you have plenty of chances of drawing attention towards yourself and some people will envy you.
I have battled social anxiety my whole life. I have battled being viewed like a criminal because of being alone due to not having any friends because of social anxiety. I am now more determined to win my battle over social anxiety by means of doing adrenaline sports. I will break myself in the process if that is what has to be done for me to make friends.
@RB902050 listen, i don't know you but let me tell you that there's nothing wrong with you. again, i don't know you but judging by what you've just said in your prev comment, i'd say the people around you are the ones with problems. you don't have to change in order to make someone like you, just be yourself. usually people are surrounded by those with the same prefferences and hobbies so since most people are assholes, i'd say to lighten up and don't b to hard on yourself. srry,
@sk8ternoy71923 sorry to hear that... I'm a 15 y.o girl and I hate school and blush and always do things that are so incredibly awkward but my advice is don't worry about what other people think about you! Just know this and now that you family loves you and cares for you so ignore all the duschbags! idk how to spell that but yeah feel better!
Please help me!!! I'm an 18 year old boy and I might sound like a big puss for saying this but I've been crying myself to sleep everynight because I've never felt so alone in my whole entire life. If there is ANYTHING, ANYBODY can do. Please help me I'm so shy!!!
Hang in there buddy.......it's get easier as you get older. Realize that you aren't the only one that feels like this, it will get better. Just be happy, live your life, find something that makes you happy, maybe riding a bike, a motorcyle, a skateboard, or playing a guitar. Put your energy into things you enjoy and know that it will get better with time.
I don't think that by repeatedly saying that it is ok for someone to have a piece of shit for life will make him/her happy or help to improve his/her life...
i find it helpful especially that i'm surrounded with people who r never pleased, they look down to others and even tho i know i am better than them in many ways but still i care for what they think of me and they r never pleased and they make me feel bad about myself , so yes its ok if they don't like me i think this was going toward people like my with the same situation
@mayuarijo The simple truth is that none is liked by everyone and trying to make everyone to like you or wishing for it is unnessesary and stupid. So focus on people that like you. The only real problem is when none likes you, but this is highly unlike.
All this shit is okay when you're a girl looking the way you do. If you don't fit into this category then it's obviously pretty fucking far from okay...
I think you should get a really stupid haircut and stop wearing make-up. After that you come back and tell us just how okay it is, okay?
thats just perspective man. your belief is that she looks nice, but why don't you think you look nice? And there are loads of possibilities to be more attractive in whatever kind of way you want. Looks, body langauge, intelligence, confidence, outgoing etc.etc. selfpity is very unattractive. work harder, live better. It's in your power.
@JordiSmulders looks are actually pretty objective, based on our biological desires and being the same from culture to culture, from time to time. Watch the documentary "The Science of Sex Appeal", it can be found on here. It clearly shows what's male features and what's female, some have it and some don't.
It's also a scientific fact that beatiful people are treated better with people being much nicer, holding up doors, offering free things etc. It's just the way it is.
@BigDog91527 Most sexy features are based on behaviour, dress, body and generaly things that can be learned or obtained by training and practice. Most people have not reach their full potential so the average sexines around us is relatively low. By making some improvements to him(her)self one can easily go well above average.
@ntomata0002 No, simply not true. Beauty is strictly biological and what we find beatiful today is very much the same across all cultures and across all time-periods. Looks tell us about the bearers genetical dispositions wich in turn makes us wishing to spread our genes with the same one.
It's also been proven time and time again that people who are considered beatiful (looks) get treated better in society. Everyone is more kind; holding up doors, smiling more, giving you free stuff etc...
@conversechickx33 same even if i am in a happy mood. it will only take 1 person to make the slightest comment and ill be unhappy and depressed for ages :/
I guess that is one way of thinking. BUT I think people should learn to improve themselves to be more confident around others and their environment. I know that I am continually striving to be better at everything I do everyday and that alone brings me enough satisfaction.. To me just thinking that it's "ok to be so and so" is like accepting defeat. No matter what you become or who you become people are always going to have an opinion of you nontheless.
how do you get rid of people ?? 1 with a gun 2 i am talking about the ass wholes that come to the house and sell you stuff like met or fish or the newspaper how do you just tell them to go away or just fuck off i dont need people at all i want everyone to die and go away thanks
I am not ugly, nor do I have a bad voice. My problem is that I am always worrying that I will say something wrong, and I am always worried that people will think that I am into them-romantically when I talk to someone, even if I know that is not so.
Are you a teenager who is looking to find success and happiness in your life? I am too so come check out my Channel. I offer a lot of valueable advice and help you go beyond "Just Potential"
@mileyrocks110 girl because not everyone will like you....you better learn that early on in life...you could be the most sweetest person and people still wont like you...thats life.
In the future I look forward to reading your books, and hope the best for you in every situation. Thank you for sharing a personal and important message and hang in there
I feel like I am no longer alone anymore. I still feel shut off from others, but now I know there are others that share my same dark feelings. Thank you so much for helping me to become a less shy person.
One phrase that I found helpful was this: "You wouldn't care about what people thought about you if you knew how seldom they do." It has taken me years to learn this,but I have found that it is the truth.
This video show your brilliance. Its deprograming of all the damage from my alcoholic parents. I hope this video sets deep into my sub conscious mind. I'm so tired of seeking other people's approval to be happy.
I came here cause im shy obviously. Thanks for the tips. What can boost my confidence the most though is if you go out with me :) you are cute. Please reply back either way. I will give u my facebook too.
@Treylogan218BR well thats a new aggressive comment, different from the "attention seeker" theme of comments and unoriginal "ugly bitch" style. so why do you feel threatened by me causing you to think of me in a degrading way and think or act aggressively towards me?
@NoSocialAnxiety Just ignore him, he obviously has had a troubled life and clearly has no girlfriend, and is unhappy. If I were you, I'd just laugh at him - well you probably won't because you're too nice.
This is so boring. Shutup and stop repeating yourself. "You dont need....... to prove youre happy" SHUT UP OMG. Youre so annoying. Remove this stupid video
I love your accent. But anyways. Im soo shy. Its not even funny. People are always like do you talk or your so quiet! I want to slap them because they barely know me and then they say im shy. Then i have lower confidence in myself and become even more shy. But when i talk to people they. A.) ignore me. Or B.) are not interested. So what do you want? Me to talk or me to keep my mouth shut? Make up your damm mind..
if no one cares about you, then isn't it better to not be around people and not be social, and be happy? i guess that might defeat the purpose of social anxiety, but maybe not the topic of happiness??
I'm so shy that I haven't been going to school this year, I've been doing school at home just to avoid it altogether. Next year I am forcing myself to go back. But I am absolutely terrified!! I have zero friends. I'm very self conscious and have a very hard time being myself. I'm actually a very crazy person with a personality. But nobody even talks to me at school, I sit by myself at lunch, on the bus, and in class, I've never been in a relationship because of SAD! I hate it, I always feel rea
hey, i'm shy and i find it hard to talk to people . i have a group of friends but i find it hard to talk to people i don't know. i am extremely shy around guys and i always think that i'm ugly why would any guy wanna talk to me. eventhough, people say i'm pretty i think the opposite. i am a people pleaser as i always want to make others happy i also lack confidence :(. i find it very hard to keep eye contact my friends always tell me to look at people when i talk
WOW!!! i really love your voice. kick that SA's ass!!! not worth time and effort thinkin about it. ur right just gotta be who u are. just say whatever comes out and let your brain piece do the work 4 you. im just a very impulsive person with a bad case of ADHD. so my head is ALWAYS all over the place....people think that is strange. but i also know i am strange...and I embrace that. talk or no talk...you do what you want. its your head. your life. not mine, not theirs. just do what u do!!!!!!!!!
I'm very shy at school, I'm so shy that I hear people in my class around me say stuff like "Can she talk?" or "What's wrong with her?" but most the time I hear "She's weird." or "I think she's emo or something?" and when I hear my classmate's say stuff like that I feel left out or a loner but most the time I become more shy.....Please inbox me or reply to my comment cause I need you're help or atleast some advice. :/
@WolfGurl4ever1 just simply BE YOURSELF, dont ponder what others say, teach yourself to be confident, negative voices inside your head are fake and get you nowhere, shut them out. start off by asking questions in class...ask the most simple questions, it leads into more convos than you expect
@WolfGurl4ever1 You are not shy! your comment is proof of this. if you can post here then you can talk to others as well. dont under estimate yourself, Speak and rock.:)
I want the picture of the horsie behind u! give it to me now! u hear me? please! Well anyways i love the way u talk please please dont stop, us shy people need u to help us break out of our shyness k? thanks!
@XxsNiPEnNoObSxX well that wouldn't be intelligent because if they don't like the vid they could just go away and do something else. Who's forcing anyone to watch it?
@NoSocialAnxiety YOU MURDERED 40 PEOPLE!!!....well its funny to me... are you sure your not a introvert.. i am.. cast aside by your family.. no friends.. its cause thay dont understand us cause we think diffrent and thay cant understand and when people cant understand someone thay put then off as stupid..and some times rant on like a retard like me... (im not really retarded) i thought i had Social Anxiety cause my family said i had it.. thay where wrong.. i dont think i hate them?
@XxsNiPEnNoObSxX hahah yea I was thinking the same thing when she first started. ppl who already depressed and anti-social really don't need to hear this
its late here in UK,i'm curled up in my duvet just about to go to sleep i have anxiety and i think i'm depressed.how do you stay so positive emily?has your anxiety gone completly?
ok. i randomly get panic attacks in public places, but it's because i'm scared i'm going to pass out.. (i did before) i dont leave my house really, & my mom wants me to go shopping with her but i can't bcuz my anxiety is holding me back.
i get really nervous when im around people i dont know, i have a feeling theyre gonna say something about me and i cant keep my mind off it so i start stuttering alot, i always think people are going to say something bad about me. please help!
most of the time it hard for me to deal with other shy people.
i just dont know what to say my mind is too slow like the writers block.
about my background i have done security work for about 4 years. alot of people espeacially females were frightened when i would aproach them it wasn't always in a negitve manner. alo i have a very bad eyesight and astigmatism people ask me all the time what i am looking at or iam looking at them.
i feel that my anxiety is due to the fact that i am a big guy. when iam try to talk to a girl.
they close up, and they are nervous. it hard for my to work with that type of attitude.
i can feel the tension in the air.
but then at times i run into a frinendlygirl, it is like i don't want to make them feel uncomfortable (because of my size....because that has happen before.
@braveboldbatman hey :) Possible turnaround perspectives to what you said: when you try to talk to a girl, YOU have a closed up, nervous attitude and thoughts. you find it hard to work with that with YOUR type of attitude, when you try to talk to a girl, perhaps they OPEN up and are comfortable (have you had evidence for this? how do you really know?) You can't feel tension in the air, you can feel tension in YOUR thoughts and YOUR attitude. You don't want to make YOURSELF feel uncomfortable :)
@braveboldbatman hey braveboldbatman im the same way u r with girls, but if i were u i wouldnt feel intimitated with women, girls love tall guys, im only 5 6
i am very shy around girls. i always think they dont want to talk to me, and i get very nervous it's like writers block expect i dont know what to say.
@braveboldbatman possibilites: maybe girls think you don't want to talk to them. girls do what to talk to you (people love connecting with other people) You don't get nervous, you just have a nervous attitude and have nervous thoughts. Do you know what to say when you are confident and being your self? Then you do know what to say. Not being able to talk is a SYMPTOM of social anxiety, it is not who you are. :)
@braveboldbatman It's normal to be nervous. It's deeply rooted from your childhood because the lack of female contact. It's like the first time you go on a trip yourself, or first time giving a speech. It's always frightening. But more you do something, more comfortable you will feel. So just start talking with girls and you will master the art in no time.
i'm not a shy guy, but i blush uncontrollably around beautiful girls when i'm talking to them. how do i prevent this? it's keeping me from talking to a girl i really want to talk to at work because i'm afraid she'll think i'm way too into her (which i am, but i want to play it cool and not like some weirdo) or she'll think there is something wrong with me
@bigfuckdaddy this might help go to my website sociallypositive . com then click on the shop tab then read about the first item. it also has some dating advice. all the best :)
remember! its erkay!!
alexdoodd 9 hours ago
*after watching this video* "It's orkay if everyone hates me" @_@ *brainwash mode*
TheMoxyFoxy 6 days ago
It's ok if u just say things once and not repeat it.
NicoleFarkas123 1 week ago
''it's ok if people tht know you nvr like you'' how is tht ok?
rctriplefresh5 1 week ago
@rctriplefresh5 she meant that it's not possible to be popular or at least adaptable in society and be full of friends at the same time. if you're very good at doing something, even if you dress well or you're bright, you have plenty of chances of drawing attention towards yourself and some people will envy you.
11MasterBlade 2 days ago
I have battled social anxiety my whole life. I have battled being viewed like a criminal because of being alone due to not having any friends because of social anxiety. I am now more determined to win my battle over social anxiety by means of doing adrenaline sports. I will break myself in the process if that is what has to be done for me to make friends.
RB902050 1 week ago 2
@RB902050 listen, i don't know you but let me tell you that there's nothing wrong with you. again, i don't know you but judging by what you've just said in your prev comment, i'd say the people around you are the ones with problems. you don't have to change in order to make someone like you, just be yourself. usually people are surrounded by those with the same prefferences and hobbies so since most people are assholes, i'd say to lighten up and don't b to hard on yourself. srry,
11MasterBlade 2 days ago
@RB902050 , guess i couldn't resist writing you this.
11MasterBlade 2 days ago
you want to learn the real way to overcome social anxiety, pm me a message saying "social anxiety" and ill tell you how to completely.
xlhotlx 2 weeks ago
shes the next little jon
KiriouSs 4 weeks ago
orkey lol
xHDFuZe 1 month ago
@swimbait1
Thanks for the advice friend! It really helps :)
sk8terboy71293 1 month ago
@stacieandliz thanks for the advice!!! And this is how you spell douchebags...i think Lol :)
sk8terboy71293 1 month ago
@sk8ternoy71923 sorry to hear that... I'm a 15 y.o girl and I hate school and blush and always do things that are so incredibly awkward but my advice is don't worry about what other people think about you! Just know this and now that you family loves you and cares for you so ignore all the duschbags! idk how to spell that but yeah feel better!
stacieandliz 1 month ago
why do i feel worse after watching this...lol..
PurpleFurryOtter 1 month ago 8
Please help me!!! I'm an 18 year old boy and I might sound like a big puss for saying this but I've been crying myself to sleep everynight because I've never felt so alone in my whole entire life. If there is ANYTHING, ANYBODY can do. Please help me I'm so shy!!!
sk8terboy71293 1 month ago
@sk8terboy71293
Hang in there buddy.......it's get easier as you get older. Realize that you aren't the only one that feels like this, it will get better. Just be happy, live your life, find something that makes you happy, maybe riding a bike, a motorcyle, a skateboard, or playing a guitar. Put your energy into things you enjoy and know that it will get better with time.
swimbait1 1 month ago
but...but...my shyness makes me feel sexy and confident ;'3
Hrko1992 1 month ago
marry me!
MrDerbestewogibt 1 month ago
I don't think that by repeatedly saying that it is ok for someone to have a piece of shit for life will make him/her happy or help to improve his/her life...
ntomata0002 1 month ago
your hot lemme FUCK YOUR FACE
andyflys 1 month ago
pep talk fail. wr either already know this, or it's not true. i'm leaning towatdd the latter.
Spidey23girl 1 month ago
i find it helpful especially that i'm surrounded with people who r never pleased, they look down to others and even tho i know i am better than them in many ways but still i care for what they think of me and they r never pleased and they make me feel bad about myself , so yes its ok if they don't like me i think this was going toward people like my with the same situation
mayuarijo 1 month ago
@mayuarijo The simple truth is that none is liked by everyone and trying to make everyone to like you or wishing for it is unnessesary and stupid. So focus on people that like you. The only real problem is when none likes you, but this is highly unlike.
ntomata0002 1 month ago
is this hipnosis?
EverithingGoesWrong 1 month ago
Okay, but what of people liking you makes you happy? How can you be happy if no one wants to even talk to you lol
HunterRossTV 1 month ago
@HunterRossTV lol,
rctriplefresh5 1 week ago
All this shit is okay when you're a girl looking the way you do. If you don't fit into this category then it's obviously pretty fucking far from okay...
I think you should get a really stupid haircut and stop wearing make-up. After that you come back and tell us just how okay it is, okay?
BigDog91527 1 month ago
@BigDog91527
thats just perspective man. your belief is that she looks nice, but why don't you think you look nice? And there are loads of possibilities to be more attractive in whatever kind of way you want. Looks, body langauge, intelligence, confidence, outgoing etc.etc. selfpity is very unattractive. work harder, live better. It's in your power.
JordiSmulders 1 month ago
@JordiSmulders looks are actually pretty objective, based on our biological desires and being the same from culture to culture, from time to time. Watch the documentary "The Science of Sex Appeal", it can be found on here. It clearly shows what's male features and what's female, some have it and some don't.
It's also a scientific fact that beatiful people are treated better with people being much nicer, holding up doors, offering free things etc. It's just the way it is.
BigDog91527 1 month ago
@BigDog91527 Most sexy features are based on behaviour, dress, body and generaly things that can be learned or obtained by training and practice. Most people have not reach their full potential so the average sexines around us is relatively low. By making some improvements to him(her)self one can easily go well above average.
ntomata0002 1 month ago
@ntomata0002 No, simply not true. Beauty is strictly biological and what we find beatiful today is very much the same across all cultures and across all time-periods. Looks tell us about the bearers genetical dispositions wich in turn makes us wishing to spread our genes with the same one.
It's also been proven time and time again that people who are considered beatiful (looks) get treated better in society. Everyone is more kind; holding up doors, smiling more, giving you free stuff etc...
BigDog91527 1 month ago
ITS OERRKAY.........
jasmineflower7794 1 month ago
I don't think this was very helpful.
Cavin21 1 month ago
Can i marry you???? Your beautiful
jerome34895 1 month ago
I actually adore your voice :)
punkgabe 1 month ago
So its ok if people dont like you or respect you or care about you.
muthh 2 months ago
I Get sooo depressed when people point out my illest flaws :O
conversechickx33 2 months ago
@conversechickx33 same even if i am in a happy mood. it will only take 1 person to make the slightest comment and ill be unhappy and depressed for ages :/
AKBeazBoi 1 month ago
its ok if people never like you!
autographedtoaster 2 months ago
I guess that is one way of thinking. BUT I think people should learn to improve themselves to be more confident around others and their environment. I know that I am continually striving to be better at everything I do everyday and that alone brings me enough satisfaction.. To me just thinking that it's "ok to be so and so" is like accepting defeat. No matter what you become or who you become people are always going to have an opinion of you nontheless.
iwantastrat 2 months ago
Is ok if you shut the fuck up ????
Joseravenmask 2 months ago
yesitwas5 2 months ago
I am not ugly, nor do I have a bad voice. My problem is that I am always worrying that I will say something wrong, and I am always worried that people will think that I am into them-romantically when I talk to someone, even if I know that is not so.
kpmonkeygirl 2 months ago
Its Eerkay if other people make you feel like crap>>>> I think watching this video made me feel like crap and Ive got a presentation 2mrw FML lol
fastqas 2 months ago
STOP TRYING TO BRAINWASH ME, DAMMIT!
TheBigChill10 2 months ago
stop reading from that fucking screen and give some real advice
andrei3600 3 months ago
no offense I'm sure you are very mature for your age but I just feel weird taking life advice from a 12 year old
GasparJaspar 3 months ago
Pretty girl pretty accent
kevyn0921 3 months ago
Her accent is like a mix of British and Southern lol
MrAce2161 3 months ago
@MrAce2161 it's fucking australian, you tard
Wh3tst0nE 1 month ago
Gosh another little kid selling psychology support garbage.
People who truly wish to spread positive energy on youtube do it as an end in itself. (Not for money)
SRNF 3 months ago
Erkay
aXceraTe 3 months ago
I don't think your aight I think your errkay
978eddaayy 3 months ago
I love you accent
youwydady 4 months ago
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Are you a teenager who is looking to find success and happiness in your life? I am too so come check out my Channel. I offer a lot of valueable advice and help you go beyond "Just Potential"
PotentialSuccess 4 months ago
Ok, that last comment I made was needlessly mean. I have an accent myself..
zeppelin0110 4 months ago
Errrkay!!
zeppelin0110 4 months ago
I like you. You look attractive and have a nice voice. :D
Just try not to be so dang repetitive hah. :P
nothatsaknife 4 months ago
how is it positive if "it's orkay if people don't like you"?
mileyrocks110 4 months ago
@mileyrocks110 girl because not everyone will like you....you better learn that early on in life...you could be the most sweetest person and people still wont like you...thats life.
SHoward152 4 months ago
In the future I look forward to reading your books, and hope the best for you in every situation. Thank you for sharing a personal and important message and hang in there
laurenyoungm 4 months ago
Good video but why do you keep saying It's Orkay?
TaperKingNJ 4 months ago 19
is she a robot ?
emokidcutmyself 4 months ago
Great video! Make more
undeadgil 5 months ago
hello!
nannerboom222 5 months ago
I feel like I am no longer alone anymore. I still feel shut off from others, but now I know there are others that share my same dark feelings. Thank you so much for helping me to become a less shy person.
TankEngineMadman 5 months ago
These are the kinds of things you learn in CBT right? I really want to try that.
StillWaters91 5 months ago
Lol I will tell my self its erkay
donnakaye87 5 months ago 4
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Its Erkay
TeeHeeeTV 5 months ago
Its erkay
HebusxJebus 5 months ago
I had big ambitions , but shyness stopped me , im still at the starting line
MrJonnyboyification 5 months ago
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MrJonnyboyification 5 months ago
i love your accent. i'd like to meet you
mshooter2000 5 months ago
I hate the sound of my own voice when played back on a recording!! feels like a knife in the heart when i hear myself! :-(
MrJonnyboyification 5 months ago
@MrJonnyboyification I know how you feel. I hate my voice too :|
Kool4Sure 2 months ago
BRITISH!!! (get rid of that background music)
lyraxbelanquaxx 5 months ago
@Heronofheaven I'm a boy and I'm shy and I'm not nerdy u bitch
linusbomb 5 months ago
i like you :) ty for this :)
blackthornpvp 5 months ago
My fav part is when she says "You don't need people..." that's the only part that matters to me :)
BasicsProductions 5 months ago
Shy girls are polite, decent and amiable
but shy boys are fucking nerdy losers
sad but true
HeronOfHeaven 5 months ago
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mangotaiwansabrina 6 months ago
wow that's so boring sorry :/
shifterfighter1 6 months ago
I like her ,
MSalakeel 6 months ago
yeah I know all is ok, but how will it be ok with me when it is not btw thanx for sharing
sham6698 6 months ago
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sham6698 6 months ago
its orkayy :)
superuglyman888 6 months ago
umm... how come i get the idea that you use a brainwashing technique to overcome shyness? Either way... Im sure it helps! Thanks
Tamtam635 6 months ago
I THINK YOU ARE VERY OERRKAY
adelRX7 6 months ago 19
Keep up the good work. :-)
oscarcanterbury 6 months ago
im sorry but its ERR k to not be like d XD
shadoworsonic 7 months ago
its urrk
dakiller444 7 months ago
One phrase that I found helpful was this: "You wouldn't care about what people thought about you if you knew how seldom they do." It has taken me years to learn this,but I have found that it is the truth.
Geardoodle 7 months ago 2
This video show your brilliance. Its deprograming of all the damage from my alcoholic parents. I hope this video sets deep into my sub conscious mind. I'm so tired of seeking other people's approval to be happy.
Miamiprops07 7 months ago
I came here cause im shy obviously. Thanks for the tips. What can boost my confidence the most though is if you go out with me :) you are cute. Please reply back either way. I will give u my facebook too.
ThisDayInNews 8 months ago
Thanks for posting this video... really helped me out!
KickAssFan2010 8 months ago
Good video. What it boils down is be your own friend and advocate. :)
chalk20 8 months ago
You're cute.....
When will u start making videos again?
cyraxthehedgehog 8 months ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
at then end of the day she drps her bfs pants and sucks his 3 inch cock
Treylogan218BR 8 months ago
@Treylogan218BR well thats a new aggressive comment, different from the "attention seeker" theme of comments and unoriginal "ugly bitch" style. so why do you feel threatened by me causing you to think of me in a degrading way and think or act aggressively towards me?
NoSocialAnxiety 8 months ago 13
@Treylogan218BR well I'm guessing it has aggressive intent
NoSocialAnxiety 8 months ago 6
@NoSocialAnxiety Just ignore him, he obviously has had a troubled life and clearly has no girlfriend, and is unhappy. If I were you, I'd just laugh at him - well you probably won't because you're too nice.
Bye.
zaheenx 7 months ago
This is so boring. Shutup and stop repeating yourself. "You dont need....... to prove youre happy" SHUT UP OMG. Youre so annoying. Remove this stupid video
xCTaylor7x 8 months ago
I love your accent. But anyways. Im soo shy. Its not even funny. People are always like do you talk or your so quiet! I want to slap them because they barely know me and then they say im shy. Then i have lower confidence in myself and become even more shy. But when i talk to people they. A.) ignore me. Or B.) are not interested. So what do you want? Me to talk or me to keep my mouth shut? Make up your damm mind..
YouTunesxD 8 months ago
if no one cares about you, then isn't it better to not be around people and not be social, and be happy? i guess that might defeat the purpose of social anxiety, but maybe not the topic of happiness??
RandyBakkelund 9 months ago
I feel like im being hypnotized..
DkGBoss 9 months ago
I'm so shy that I haven't been going to school this year, I've been doing school at home just to avoid it altogether. Next year I am forcing myself to go back. But I am absolutely terrified!! I have zero friends. I'm very self conscious and have a very hard time being myself. I'm actually a very crazy person with a personality. But nobody even talks to me at school, I sit by myself at lunch, on the bus, and in class, I've never been in a relationship because of SAD! I hate it, I always feel rea
BekahLeePodesta 9 months ago
SOO annoying accent. U dount neeed-its oukaiy-
Blackhawk3452 9 months ago
you´re hot but stupid
OneManArmy144 9 months ago
thank you
along4r1 9 months ago
Shy people are the best!!!
FallenAvenger24 9 months ago
u seem to be repeating yourself
pyramidhead138 10 months ago
hey, i'm shy and i find it hard to talk to people . i have a group of friends but i find it hard to talk to people i don't know. i am extremely shy around guys and i always think that i'm ugly why would any guy wanna talk to me. eventhough, people say i'm pretty i think the opposite. i am a people pleaser as i always want to make others happy i also lack confidence :(. i find it very hard to keep eye contact my friends always tell me to look at people when i talk
05BREEZYBABE 10 months ago
cool accent
misslolsmileyface911 10 months ago
I love shy girls :)
Blad771 11 months ago 26
@Blad771 i eat them
pavlmatt801 5 months ago
@Blad771 Yep, they are misterious and cute :) I guess they like shy boys too, I hope so :P
VicCrisson 4 months ago
Love your accent!!
cuntsip 1 year ago
WOW!!! i really love your voice. kick that SA's ass!!! not worth time and effort thinkin about it. ur right just gotta be who u are. just say whatever comes out and let your brain piece do the work 4 you. im just a very impulsive person with a bad case of ADHD. so my head is ALWAYS all over the place....people think that is strange. but i also know i am strange...and I embrace that. talk or no talk...you do what you want. its your head. your life. not mine, not theirs. just do what u do!!!!!!!!!
sadplateofbacon 1 year ago
if everyone thinks your a cunt then maybe your a cunt. its not ok to be a cunt.
jetulik 1 year ago
I'm very shy at school, I'm so shy that I hear people in my class around me say stuff like "Can she talk?" or "What's wrong with her?" but most the time I hear "She's weird." or "I think she's emo or something?" and when I hear my classmate's say stuff like that I feel left out or a loner but most the time I become more shy.....Please inbox me or reply to my comment cause I need you're help or atleast some advice. :/
WolfGurl4ever1 1 year ago
@WolfGurl4ever1 just simply BE YOURSELF, dont ponder what others say, teach yourself to be confident, negative voices inside your head are fake and get you nowhere, shut them out. start off by asking questions in class...ask the most simple questions, it leads into more convos than you expect
itstrever32 1 year ago
@itstrever32 thank you so much for you're help. :)
WolfGurl4ever1 1 year ago
@WolfGurl4ever1 You are not shy! your comment is proof of this. if you can post here then you can talk to others as well. dont under estimate yourself, Speak and rock.:)
mrmkhokhar 9 months ago
Emily you are helping me alot. I like hearing your voice and the words really make me feel better ;)
roony1974 1 year ago
Dude...when I saw this girl, she was very hot! But I heard her speak and I was like...dude....is she ok...?
GOODBADGAMER 1 year ago
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its errrrrkay people its really errrrrkay seriously it is so errrrrkay...
2007killa 1 year ago
thank you Ashitanoyuki.
braveboldbatman 1 year ago
People want happiness but most people are looking for happiness at the wrong places.
Ashitanoyuki 1 year ago
i love you. thanks for the tips
nsmilitia 1 year ago
I think people talk about me and don't like so i dont like myself! please help and give me advice
GenevieveCleopatra 1 year ago
@GenevieveCleopatra Your happiness is depend on what other think?
Ashitanoyuki 1 year ago
sounds like shes sayin "its erkay...."
myhaterz3411 1 year ago
I just killed myself.
blackconor 1 year ago
I want the picture of the horsie behind u! give it to me now! u hear me? please! Well anyways i love the way u talk please please dont stop, us shy people need u to help us break out of our shyness k? thanks!
Nitepup 1 year ago
thanks for the tips
Hummers222 1 year ago
will you marry me!!!!!!
chacalmexico 1 year ago
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I bet 40 people killed them selves listening to this
XxsNiPEnNoObSxX 1 year ago
@XxsNiPEnNoObSxX well that wouldn't be intelligent because if they don't like the vid they could just go away and do something else. Who's forcing anyone to watch it?
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago 31
@NoSocialAnxiety YOU MURDERED 40 PEOPLE!!!....well its funny to me... are you sure your not a introvert.. i am.. cast aside by your family.. no friends.. its cause thay dont understand us cause we think diffrent and thay cant understand and when people cant understand someone thay put then off as stupid..and some times rant on like a retard like me... (im not really retarded) i thought i had Social Anxiety cause my family said i had it.. thay where wrong.. i dont think i hate them?
MegaHayhayhayhay 9 months ago
@XxsNiPEnNoObSxX hahah yea I was thinking the same thing when she first started. ppl who already depressed and anti-social really don't need to hear this
kaniness 1 year ago
You could have summed this video up with 2 words : people suck
or
"What you think of me is none of my businesses"
GaryNull 1 year ago
quite repeating the same shit everytime
yshifai 1 year ago
OMFG shut up ur voice is so annoying god damn!
yshifai 1 year ago
its late here in UK,i'm curled up in my duvet just about to go to sleep i have anxiety and i think i'm depressed.how do you stay so positive emily?has your anxiety gone completly?
Wrestlingwatchingfan 1 year ago
i hope this video will help! im more of a suffer in silence typy
xxxashleynicole15xxx 1 year ago
your a cute one
dontoadz 1 year ago
ok. i randomly get panic attacks in public places, but it's because i'm scared i'm going to pass out.. (i did before) i dont leave my house really, & my mom wants me to go shopping with her but i can't bcuz my anxiety is holding me back.
tony1pup 1 year ago
i get really nervous when im around people i dont know, i have a feeling theyre gonna say something about me and i cant keep my mind off it so i start stuttering alot, i always think people are going to say something bad about me. please help!
MINIMININOTCH 1 year ago
its errrrrkay...
kitkat0395 1 year ago
if this helps anyone i would like to share a quote that has helped me through my anxiety issues
" all life is a chance so take the risk"
i know how hard it is to talk about your emotions and that weird feeling in your gut and the words going through your head"how will they think of me"
i dont judge people and im always willing to talk if you want to talk
remember im just like you i have social anxiety too
your not different you are you and everything that makes up you is unique
FAMES4S 1 year ago
thank you for the advice nosocialanxitey,
your contribtuion to s.a disorder is inspiring and giving me strength by connecting with you who have the disease,
thank you and god bless!
braveboldbatman 1 year ago
This girl is really very soft and beautiful
jre7soso 1 year ago
Its easy said then done.
Its NOT that simple!
If you were in OUR shoes, then you would understand.
SpIcKaLiCiOuS 1 year ago
most of the time it hard for me to deal with other shy people.
i just dont know what to say my mind is too slow like the writers block.
about my background i have done security work for about 4 years. alot of people espeacially females were frightened when i would aproach them it wasn't always in a negitve manner. alo i have a very bad eyesight and astigmatism people ask me all the time what i am looking at or iam looking at them.
braveboldbatman 1 year ago
@braveboldbatman yea me to my mind is to slow as well :(
SpIcKaLiCiOuS 1 year ago
thank you i will think of what you said
i feel that my anxiety is due to the fact that i am a big guy. when iam try to talk to a girl.
they close up, and they are nervous. it hard for my to work with that type of attitude.
i can feel the tension in the air.
but then at times i run into a frinendlygirl, it is like i don't want to make them feel uncomfortable (because of my size....because that has happen before.
braveboldbatman 1 year ago
@braveboldbatman hey :) Possible turnaround perspectives to what you said: when you try to talk to a girl, YOU have a closed up, nervous attitude and thoughts. you find it hard to work with that with YOUR type of attitude, when you try to talk to a girl, perhaps they OPEN up and are comfortable (have you had evidence for this? how do you really know?) You can't feel tension in the air, you can feel tension in YOUR thoughts and YOUR attitude. You don't want to make YOURSELF feel uncomfortable :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@braveboldbatman hey braveboldbatman im the same way u r with girls, but if i were u i wouldnt feel intimitated with women, girls love tall guys, im only 5 6
TheMaciel89 6 months ago
thank u, this actually cheered me up :) F them all!
myangelmichael1 1 year ago
@myangelmichael1 You're welcome, glad it cheered you up :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
you need yourself to like you
you are a supermodel
steven7121 1 year ago
@steven7121 good Turnaround thank you ^ ^
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
i am very shy around girls. i always think they dont want to talk to me, and i get very nervous it's like writers block expect i dont know what to say.
braveboldbatman 1 year ago
@braveboldbatman possibilites: maybe girls think you don't want to talk to them. girls do what to talk to you (people love connecting with other people) You don't get nervous, you just have a nervous attitude and have nervous thoughts. Do you know what to say when you are confident and being your self? Then you do know what to say. Not being able to talk is a SYMPTOM of social anxiety, it is not who you are. :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@braveboldbatman It's normal to be nervous. It's deeply rooted from your childhood because the lack of female contact. It's like the first time you go on a trip yourself, or first time giving a speech. It's always frightening. But more you do something, more comfortable you will feel. So just start talking with girls and you will master the art in no time.
Ashitanoyuki 1 year ago
i'm not a shy guy, but i blush uncontrollably around beautiful girls when i'm talking to them. how do i prevent this? it's keeping me from talking to a girl i really want to talk to at work because i'm afraid she'll think i'm way too into her (which i am, but i want to play it cool and not like some weirdo) or she'll think there is something wrong with me
please help
bigfuckdaddy 1 year ago
@bigfuckdaddy this might help go to my website sociallypositive . com then click on the shop tab then read about the first item. it also has some dating advice. all the best :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety thanks. ill give your site a look after im done with my errands in a bit
bigfuckdaddy 1 year ago
Hi, ,always so wonderful to hear/see u on You Tube,,, Your such a blessing to me,,, Thank you for making these videos,,,,,,,,,,, HUGS!! Blessings!!
NaturesFairy 1 year ago
ur the greatest
waitaminute991 1 year ago
the idea is that these ideas realease you from perfectionism
waitaminute991 1 year ago