David DeAngelo Sexual Communication Intro

[blackdigr]

The funniest thing I just realized is that success with women and anything is a slow incremental process that requires years of practice. Atleast for me anyways some dudes get this shit fast

[PhamvanDong]

I haven't read this book but as far as I've listened from this clip makes absolutely no sense :S if you're in a club, spot a nice hot girl, and just walk up to her "hey" or ask: wanna dance? yes that could work.. if the girl is a HOE just waiting to get cock up inside her. re-directing: there's a real diffrence between "women" and "bitches". when u ask: wanna dance? real women answers: who the fuck are you? bitches answers: fuck yeah lets go. plz correct me if im wrong?

[milinm]

@PhamvanDong This is only intro, as stated in the video. I have all of his material, including the book, and the book is the base of EVERYTHING he teaches. With what you said, neither "real women" or "bitches" as you like to call them, will respond to a simple "hi". There is much more that is needed to be done e.g. asking her opinion on something, use an "out there" opener etc. It's worked for me, but it will takes a LONG time to explain all this.

[dannyhood66]

Hey.....Perfect!

[Johnny8109]

Those dudes he talk about that are so "amazingly" succesful with women" in my experiencce they are only sucessful at getting laid with lots of women in short periods of time, not so sucessful at actually getting the girls they WANNA be with.

[DurexDurpaneu2]

Pua friend of mine suggested I should listen to David's material "it's magic".

My opinion ? It's magic.

[qwerly45]

Voice tone is a killer. You'll be surprised at how many looks you get from using the deeper commanding voice. With a bit of C&F then you have a killer combination.

[slim0221]

can i have 7 minutes of my life back? I didnt learn anything from this video

[davoisakoollord]

This is gold.

[fuah999]

boring, says nothing just fawns--you are suckers

[playboyv12]

If you get to know Eben Pagan (David D's real name), his voice is similar but definitely not as annoyingly forceful....

Go look for Eben Pagan videos online, you'll see the difference.

[playboyv12]

David D's voice in the first 7 seconds are SOOOOO PUT ON

[53v3N7]

I'm gonna be a superstar :D

[guarani527]

holy shit what a great video. Deangelos such a good orator and i could see his friend anthony being indifferent to that girl. I'm going to use that one...

[Laurelindo]

Please don't get *too* absorbed in this sexual communication theory stuff - remember that there are no clear rules when you have a crush on someone.

Of course it's highly advantegous if you have charisma and love yourself, but don't let precise rules for absolutely everything guide you - follow your feelings instead.

I know self-confident guys who have given careful signals to the same girl for over a month, and they ended up together simply because they liked each other.

[Tootzie]

"... and they ended up together simply because they liked each other." like and attraction are completely diffrent things, completely...

[Prick777]

this guy here, changed my live...

[Flyba1]

CAn someone help me. My ex has gotten engaged to anther guy but has said she wants to keep in touch with me. We had been moving slowly back together and then she has a whirlwind romance. I initially agreed to keep in touch but now I am think I will just let her go. Can anyone advise me? Please I need to act on this. I was going to email her to say goodbye. Any ideas? Suggestions? Help?

[GacKy27]

well for starters I'd say you should probably avoid seeking help on youtube?

[Flyba1]

I was simply looking for a perspective. It's not life or death. Thanks for your comment.....

[stevenb19871]

I agree with the other guys. Your best bet was breaking it off with her. Tunnel vision is your subconcious needtyness showing its ugly face by you acting like as David says a wussy. I hope you moved on and stopped being needy...

[Flyba1]

Hey Thanks for your comment.

The thing is. I did break it off. I told her she had chosen another guy...and that was that. I did not hear from her again. Until last week. She has contacted me again and saud she was thinking about me. She is NOT looking for help in her current relationship. She says she just feels a strong connection with me. She is still engaged to this guy who is very rich..Thanks again.

[stevenb19871]

Your welcome man. If she is with this guy who's very rich and she calls you saying that she feels a connection with you then need I say more. I mean, she's using you as the shoulder..don't put up with it. You did great by the way. If she calls you again, say something Cocky and Funny and then say ohhh I kinda busy all me back later. Something like that. Goodluck

[tmsbnds01]

I say just let her go. Otherwise youll just become her personal therapist whenever she has relationship issues. Pretty soon she:ll only contact you for answers and not talk about anything else. This is usually the case. Break off now b4 the tunnel vision gets really bad.

[Flyba1]

Hey Thanks for your advice. What do you mean by tunnel vision though??

[tmsbnds01]

i don't know the depth of ur situation with ur ex but if it is similar to a situation i had, then it would be like waiting around for her to come to u and start something new. when this happened, i would not be able to think about other girls and i got depressed when it seemed like a hopeless situation. it's a term David D uses for being overly focused on one thing or person

[Flyba1]

Hey. Thanks for your good advice. I have broken off contact. I asked her not to contact me anymore. It was and is tough. It is hard to simply let go but I am trying. I am hoping that I'll wake up one day soon and I won't care any more.

Thanks again for your help. Any more advice would be appreciated.

[tmsbnds01]

the next few weeks r going to suck its true. the best advice i can give is to go out and be as adventurous as possible. Just dont give urself a chance to think about ur ex and how much u miss her. if u have any female friends bring them along also. talking to them is always great company and increases ur chances of finding another somebody

[SunnyShawFilms]

You work for divid?

[basoul]

It was funny his last story. Just pulling out the natual compettiveness of women and using it in such a way they would all be fighting against this random guy.

[luigiperso]

I have learned more about social skills from DeAngelo and Brian Tracy in a few months than I have done in my whole life.

DeAngelo is a great educator and a very intelligent and inquisitive mind. What I like about his material is that he teaches you to work on yourself rather than trying to change people or waiting around for things to happen.

'You live in my reality' is a statement that I will never forget. His material is empowering and liberating. He really knows what he's talking about

[johnnyponny4]

These are handles invented by deangelo to make his work sell

[namrengav]

Good LUCK WITH YOUR IDEAS. MAYBE YOU ARE WRONG? I'M SURE, IN MANY PARTS OF THE WORLD YOU "ARE" WRONG!

[surfersaucer]

Minus 6 for your comments, but you're dammed right. Too many people are looking for definitive answers, and willing to pay a hefty price. NLP, in general has a few grains of truth in it (obvious truths dressed-up, re-packaged and sold in jargon form), but most of it is unsubstantiated and unverifiable bs. Women are not commodities, sweeping generalisations are seldom true, and trying to use 'tricks' will transmogrify you into even more of dick than you already believe yourself to be.

[davesurfjapan]

the first thing i have to say is that all this info is true. the second is that if i were david then i'd be soo pissed that this is on youtube.

[lifexpedition]

HEY... what are you on dude!!!

[zitloaf]

how the hell is this supposed to help anyone?

[biglowgs]

this isnt the program. this is just his beliefs and the intro i think.

[Laurelindo]

I think you can summarize all that has to do with "building attraction" the following way:

Don't be an insecure pushover.

If you avoid being this, everything falls into place.

[AwakenAnimus]

fail

[Laurelindo]

Why is this fail?

If you're self-confident, things DO fall into place much easier.

You start thinking of yourself as a reward that gives girls a chance, rather than a sad guy who hopes he's welcome among the ladies.

Seriously, self-confidence is almost everything.

[Driven000]

"Self-confidence is almost everything."

I agree, the other part is Social Calibration. Have you ever seen those guys who are extremely confident but lack basic social skills? It's almost like a delusional confidence.

Confidence + Calibration = Pimp

[surfersaucer]

Great comment! And I'll wager that about sums up the entire DeAngelo oeuvre!!

[Laurelindo]

Yeah, but it's important to remember that flirting should be something sweet and special.

Some people forget about the tactful charm and practice merciless technical PUA tricks on every girl in sight.

I think you should have a serious interest in a girl before you approach her, this makes everything much more memorable and beautiful.

[WickedG5150]

@Laurelindo so true.

[Jeorney]

Has anyone found that women you are friendly with but not attracted to, just won't leave you alone.

[Johnny8109]

@Jeorney

Yeah ,,why is that ?

[bokiboy]

his teachings are the best things ever. I wish I learned them when I was 19. I wouldn't make so many mistakes.. You rock D.  :D

[luigiperso]

Buying this guy's programs is one of the best things that I have ever bought. Total educations.

[loveboatsinger]

This dude is boring. His theory about meeting and picking up chicks is too clinical - belive it or not, guys, it's not THAT complicated. What it all comes down to is developing a fashion sense that suits your age/frame, confidence and the ability to playfully flirt - that's it.

[luigiperso]

loveboatsinger ,your judgement on Deangelo is narrow minded . You can pick up girls,but this guy educates guys into being a man. A different story. I have the program 'On being a man' and I would buy it again 5 times over.

[loveboatsinger]

Last time I checked, his program was called "Double Your Dating", not "How To Be A Man". I'm not saying that socially-challenged guys can't learn something from him, but I don't really believe that psycho-analyzing an entire gender is suddenly going to transform any guy into a babe-magnet, which is pretty much what he's preaching. Just look at the multitude of programs he's selling - do you really believe a guy needs all that to score? Dude, get a life (and a girlfriend, while you're at it).

[Bluedragon094]

Nope, and you see for a great majority of men out there, the advice "get a life/girlfriend" is EXACTLY what they're trying to do, and they don't know how to do it!

That's basically giving a kid a fishing pole and telling him, "Kk go catch us a bunch of fish!" when he's never caught anything in his life.

Really, i don't think you know what you're talking about.

[biglowgs]

haha thats kinda what David is explaining in a broad perspective.

[eastsidewilliams408]

to all my peeps in cali...what they saying is true.."pimpin aint eazy"..peace and love from San Jose Ca.

[luigiperso]

brilliant stuff,I have learned a lot!

[imamuppet]

...is it really all about sex? Really? where's the fun in that? What happened to the pursuit? ):

[Legend90210]

u got the 2nd part of this? he's awesome

[RynoZ]

I respond better to David's form of teaching. His words alone corresponds to my level of comprehension on an intellectual basis.

Although i'm a visual learner, watching Mehow or Mystery to say the popular don't really help me. David does a great job in simplifying the main ideas in so little words.

[TheDmashisno]

ya he's the man

[laetrille]

Your reasoning??

[grrreatman2]

shut up shut up

[freestylefighter123]

David the best teacher ever

[raileymartin]

D2 is da man.

[michaelpyro]

thanks, dude

[HolyVegeta]

David Deangelo is an ass kicker! YOU RULE MAN!

[Prick777]

he is so good.

[TheBlackMethod]

Yup! :)

[BecksterPUA]

Cheers for the big up (-;

Rob Beckster