8 month post op update

[LiLtinee]

Well, I've been out of the dating game for so long that I don't have any advice there. But you look great! And the fat girl mentality takes a while to get over, if we ever do. I'm not sure I'm over it yet.

Dena

[Fabydee]

OMG, you look awesome! OK first of all, If you want someone responsible you need to forget about the boy & find yourself a man. You can't expect a whole lot from a 22 year old! Fab

[Therocksgrl]

I know Fab I guess I was just dreaming! I tend to do that!

[blkfem4whtmen]

The dog was thirsty...LOL

You look awesome...there will be more out there don't even trip.

[Therocksgrl]

But I am trippin and I dont know why!!! ha!

[gastricRose]

you look sooooooo gooooooood girl and I think your sweet and dress nice now love your long hair...rosemary

[Therocksgrl]

Thank you rosemary!!!

[bbolam72]

good luck on the man front!!

nice to see you are moving along in your journey,take care!

-barry

[Therocksgrl]

Thanks Barry!!

[allforliving]

You look incredible!!!! And they are all right! You don't need him! You deserve better than that!

[Therocksgrl]

I know thats my head says but I wish someone would explain it to my heart and its crazy. It was one night you know? But my starts messing with me and I question myself why doesnt he want me? ahhhhhhhhhh

[imaswtgrl]

girl, you don't need him. You need to find yourself a MAN who will be there for you, and who will treat you like you deserve to be treated, with RESPECT! He's out there, waiting to find you. You look AWESOME!

[Therocksgrl]

Thanks. I know someones out there but I am very impatient. ha

[winelover215]

HOLY CRAP GIRL! I don't know if it's the hair or what but your smokin!! Call the fire department and warn them. You need to do a side by side photo comparison! Send them to me and I'll do em for you. Tom

[Therocksgrl]

Whats your email? I have one comparision pic I saved on my computer as a word doc but I dont know how to put it in a video or anything.

[winelover215]

PM on the way.

[VANVALIS]

Looking great! Remember, the maturity level of that guy is very very low. Please don't let that hold you back. Get the man you deserve!

[Therocksgrl]

Well he is 22! ha! I guess it at least proved I still got it at 36!!! ha

[reneluvsbeads]

I'll tell you one thing, you look beautiful so just know that! I'm 49 and single and I was married for 22 years and I will never settle for anything but what I deserve and you should do that too friend!!! {{{HUGS}}}

[Therocksgrl]

Thank you!  I am not gonna settle! I promise!

[ThatzHotxoxo]

wow you look great! i cant wait till i look like that in jeans, i totally know what you're talking about with men i'm worried about the whole single thing after surgery. - Becca

[Therocksgrl]

I know those jeans are from the junior section! woo hoo!!!

[DeniseNJ37]

you are looking awesome.. OMG>. what a difference.

[Therocksgrl]

I know I dont recognize myself!!!

[divataunia]

OH. MY. GOD! Look at how skinny you are, girl! It sounds like there's a waterfall in your kitchen. lol You look gorgeous and I love your hair straightened like that too. And believe me, you don't need to do anything to get guy's attention...look in the mirror!! :)

[Therocksgrl]

Thank you Taunia I needed that! :)

[MissJanieHere]

you are looking awesome! you are too good for that guy...throw him to the curb, enjoy being yourself and lo and behold you will attract to you the person you want in your life...but just enjoy yourself (as in love yourself) first!

[Therocksgrl]

I know I think I just latched on because he actually paid attention to me and didnt make me feel bad about myself. I am trying to let it go!!

[mammabeardee]

Wow You look amazing! And do not let some guy not calling you back put a dent in your self esteem girl! He obviously doesnt know what he is missing out on and is NOT the one for you. Your prince will come along. Just stay positive and confident and dont settle.

[Therocksgrl]

Thanks Dee! The thing is I still have low self esteem but I am working on it.

[slcinoz]

You look fabulous! Wow...just gorgeous..woo hooo....great job. Shannon

[Therocksgrl]

Thanks Shannon!