Effects of Divorce on Children

[phoenix73662]

dude my dumb ass parents stayed together for me and my sister. i hated my idiot father turned out he was using hardcore drugs. he was a narcissistic prick and my mother was a retard for putting me and my sister through that. Some people need to get divorced. y would a child want to listen to constant fighting and tension. just break it off

[stephenaustinmeehan]

"Divorce" does not have to cause these problems...it is the "custody" that needs focus. Shared parenting should be a legal presumption to protect CHILDREN's rights to both parents. Regarding the "emotionally abusive" comment...what divorced adult doesn't feel emotionally abused...a term that has become a red flag for a weapon against custody...or sharing our "dolls" nicely after Divorce.

[liglugtheslug]

WHY DO YOU MAKE THIS LOOK HUMOROUS? BURN IN HELL!!!!!

[liglugtheslug]

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[KidsNeedParentsEqual]

Sole custody is narcissism most of the time. Sole custody increases narcissism in children, which teachers and employers see more. Why? A recent German study confirmed that 85% of divorced people aren't happier after divorce. So get help for yourself first. When one parent gets almost anything she wants by using the mafia courts and police, children think they can have whatever they want by using people to their advantage. That is the model of behavior they grow up under with sole custody.

[KidsNeedParentsEqual]

Sole custody is narcissism most of the time. Sole custody increases narcissism in children, which teachers and employers see more. A recent German study confirmed that 85% of divorced people aren't happier after divorce. So get help for yourself first.

[SuperTruth77]

I always make DAMN SURE my kids know my bitch ex-wife was WHOLLY responsible for our divorce.

Every time they come round mine I let them know the facts- even let them watch video footage of her screwing around with her other men (some of it bedroom-cam!), as captured by the private investigator I hired. It’s working too- at first they were on her side, but now they’ve fully come over & ‘The Bitch’ (that’s what they have to call her in my house) is starting to moan about it!

[BurningMountin]

@SuperTruth77 You and your wife sound like white trash. I feel sorry for your kids.

[SunniLuvsU]

I'm really scared. My parents are fighting alot. My brother is 4 and he is really sad. I usually and really strong and dont cry much at all , But now I have been, alot. All this fighting makes me feel like crap. My mom takes all her anger out on my brother and I :( I'm scared that they are gonna divorce.

[MightyXee]

@SunniLuvsU Maybe life will be more peaceful after your parents separate.... together or apart, troubled people will need to work at making life good for each other and their children. Being in an unhappy family isn't good whether married or separated or divorced..... many blessings to you You have the power.. yourself... to create a wonderful life!

[BurningMountin]

@SunniLuvsU Do you have a pair of really good head phones? Try listening to music until the fighting stops. It's not good for you to listen to adult fighting.

[chaselucker]

this article shows what divorce does to children and families.

taylorlueck.hubpages.com/hub/T­­he-Product-of-Divorce

[HALEYRIS]

my mom and dad have been fighting. they never agree on anything... and he treats us and my mom like crap... i'm so scared :(

[MrIsabel84]

i don't get it, bunch of pictures, where are the facts...a bit repetitive and comes no where near the effects of divorce on children. Good Intentions though, I suppose.

[bloddynose13]

This was real informative. Thanks a bunch.

[MrsBrettBretterson]

I was thinking this video would be somewhat helpful or relevant. It's just pictures of sad kids set to classical music. Am I missing something?

[BlackVeilBonnie]

Fuck you Mom! No wait, you don't deserve that title! Fuck you Martha!

[leon1st]

it is very easy to put all the blame on the father since most of the times is the mother who ends up with the children therefore having the advantage to give the kids her side of the story, one day when you grow up maybe you will realize it wasn't all true what your mummy just to say about him... peace and love to all ...

[ClassicRockfan79]

@leon1st youre right, when i was 3, mom left my dad for another guy. Its not always the dads fault, women are just as much to blame. The court gave my dad full custody of me, the court system was right with that choice. now almost 30 years later i look back and think how lucky i was that dad ended up with custody, and by what i saw of my moms choices back then, i hate to think what would have become of me if mom had won.

[ilikenewbies457]

i got divorced and whated to tell my step father thanks for Divoring my family, i always whated to kill him, i Always whated to tell him to go to hell, but i can't cus the damn laws.

[angelpup715]

Like this if your dad is an asshole and want/are completely cut off with him. Show that you are not alone.

[themightythor27]

Divorce is a tricky business. My parents are divorced and it really does effect you in a lot of ways. Some more noticable than others and often times it isn't noticed at all. I have a fear of love and commitment, taking risks, and opening myself up to other people. I am quick to shut others out when they are trying to help me. I tend to interpret that as people just picking on me. It is something that I have become aware of and I am working on improving about myself. None of you are alone.

[MsPingu112]

@themightythor27 i agree. it always has an effect i think. my parents have an unhappy marriage and i am no different than the kids whose parents are divorced. i have similar issues.

[themightythor27]

@MsPingu112 For sure, all you can really do in those moments is seek solace of friends. It can be very difficult to do, but it's very worthwhile. Good luck!

[OneAgainstMarriage]

I should wonder why you'd want to marry in the first place. Marriage is a lie and a con job, simple as that. Marriage doesnt protect ANYTHING or ANYBODY and the world knows this by now. Marriage DOES NOT PROTECT the abused spouse! Marriage DOES NOT PROTECT the abused children! Marriage DOES NOT PROTECT you from being abused and decieved by your spouse while he goes out, cheats on you,. gets HIV and tells others you're abusing HIM! Monsterous divorces are the result of monsterous marriages.

[BurningMountin]

@OneAgainstMarriage Marriage isn't the problem, people are.

[UyhgtNkjui]

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[TheTwilightGirrl]

@superlacrossegirl

U r right !

And I'm so sorry :'(

I know it's really rough !

My friend hates everything all because of her parents divorce :(

[TheTwilightGirrl]

It's been more than 3 years my friend was 9 she is 14 now an she still cries and upset :(

[MrBlessedmind]

Fuck .. you .. dad..

[Daffie0500]

I think that she is not afraid of taking chances and she is a woman who knows her own strength. --> - Naked Lady Gaga. C0000M - -

[traviasa]

Better for children to be from a broken home then to live in a broken home.  Children suffer more from having to listen to the arguing. Living in peace with a single parent is far better.

[BillzProductions]

My dad is still cheating on my mum and I truely do hope he get's hit by a car

[UltimateGroup47]

(2)Fuck You Dad!

[SuperLacrossegirl]

WHAT IS with u ppl! all u guys saying u hate ur dad in these comments i mean my dad has hit me he lies and gets in fights with my mom and yells at all of us and swears but i still love him and my parents r gertin a divorce i have been crying for 3 hours

[EuanGuiney]

my parents are splitting up i might have to move back to the UK leave all my friends :(

[virgoptrex]

I m Mama's boy and usually take her side but my dad is also very caring....

May god let them be together in their next 7 births as well....love to all from India.

[xTealWebkinzx]

My parents have been together for as long as I have been living..now they have one huge fight and are getting divorced..I hid in my room curled up in my room crying last night..i cried myself to sleep..i don't know how I will live without seeing my dad everyday..I am crying as I type this on my phone..(they started fighting last night at 1 am and fought for 2 hours)

[idkwht2name]

my dad keeps on saying tht hes gna get me and my bro as custody but whn i tell the judge tht he abused me as a child and STILL BEATS ME TILL I BLEED!! then im staying wit my mom :) btw my dad hates animals!

[lupinebenitabk]

GaGa attended the MAC Viva Glam launch @ London she encouraged her fans to use a condom or else they die that guy in The Deer Hunter - - Naked Lady Gaga. C0000M - -

[TheHouda1234]

Fuck non of em guys. Its just the way the gotta do it. We gotta stay tough and take it on. We have to or either we just cant live. Ofc your gonna see them both, but i know how hard it is to be divorced, its hard on the parents too. So guys stay tough be good. The worst case in my sanaereo is that i hate my dad and i will have to live with him. So just hang in there. We have to.

[SeanSnyder15931]

yeah my parents getting a divorce changed my life...THE BEST THING EVVVAAAA lol i hated my dad

[devol264]

i really do not get divorce. i honestly think that if a couple gets into a divorce then they probably should never have gotten married, i mean you do not really hear as much about a happy couple getting married and then one day someone changes. most of the time someone was hiding something and then lies start and all this other crap. iv never really understood why people always need to get angry and go out of reason, if people just sorted it out and came to a agreement it would be peachy.

[jerzeymick]

allways 2 sides too every story ,,,there are dads out there who really try ,,,

[valsotto27]

TWO SIDES COLLIDE; people who found love and treated them like trash AGREES to DIVORCE (types of people like this expects divorce after marriage), on the other hand, people who experienced happiness, did overcome a lot of struggles together with the partner, who treat each other special, with freedom, thinks divorce is bullshit, does any one agree with me?

[Alixcool123]

i hate my dad

[singinfreak4958]

FUCK U DAD

[KillaCamMan93]

yep......amen.....they're ass holes

[franc1994]

Im 15 years old and my mom is divorcing my dad i always cry its really depressing

[RebDomain1996]

Thumbs Down This If U Want But Im Glad My Parents Are Doing This... My dad Is Emotionally Abusive And hes An Asshole So Fuck you Dad!

[RebDomain1996]

@RobertW1809

Yep...Exactly

[JayTAkins]

@RobertW1809 FUCK YOU MOM. 65% of divorces are initiated by women. STUDY FUCKIN SHOWN. BLAME FEMINISM!!!

[RobertW1809]

@JayTAkins - I regret posting that comment and I ask you not to follow my example. Whatever our parents have done, we are the ones responsible for becoming hateful towards ourselves and others. Whatever our parents have done, we are who we are because it is us.

[JayTAkins]

@RobertW1809 oh

[Kawiia17]

@RebDomain1996 Divorce usually gets a bad rep, eh?

[mijnshit]

Fuck that shit

[roreta1001]

ghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[nyjets48]

I stopped feeling bad for myself after the third year of my parent's divorce. I thought it would only get worse so I basically gave up and lost my innocence with everything lol. But it is extremly tough because my brother and mother constantly fought and my mom and my father, I would walk home not wanting to open the door.

[gymman1031]

Great video. My parents split up in 1994. My sister and I haven't gotten along since. She chooses to take her anger out on me, and it is so hurtful. She loves to tell me when I am saying something and/or doing something wrong.

[todopor]

Is better get a divorce than life in a bad marriage,life is only one's

[victoriasecretgirl14]

tell that to my mom. she won't get a divorce because she says the situations not 'urgent enough'. she says if my dad hits her shes getting a divorce but by then it will already have gotten too bad

[PurpleGurlx3]

this is sad

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[SnookumsDude]

the pictures are good but i don't find it related to the song.... It seems that divorce is a happy thing....

[victoriasecretgirl14]

i know! the song was all happy and lively...when divorce is serious. it almost seemed like the song was mocking the idea of divorce...

[Miley4myfans]

I thinks its kinda a bad song choice for this kind of video....

[court4362]

lol i agree

[Cdenton95]

yeah... its kinda disturbing. the moment when u hear music like that garbage come in, u kno it was maid by the government.

[just2w4tch]

This video didn't explain a thing....

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

It has been pointed out to me that some of my comments such as the one below, can be seen as "biased" against females. and although that was NOT my intent, i see the point. So allow me to expand. There CAN be no argument. Women ALSO are horribly abused in marriage. Who doesnt know this? the marriage contract virtually BINDS her to an abusive husband, who she either thought she could "change" or who went to great lengths to hide his abusive nature till after the CONTRACT was signed.

[AmariLLoTexasCorrupt]

marriage is a bunch of baloney.

i fell for it and i never got back up.

got the shit kicked out of me. and now im a "criminal" too. im also in debt. dont get married in the first place. that is my advice. marriage isnt flowers and love. marriage is a contract. GO TALK TO SOME LAWYERS before you sign that contract or you are fucked. she loves you yeah. youll see how much she LOVES you later.

[TediusZanarukando]

Yes, that is why I am afraid to fall in love.

[dellz77]

Wow, feel bad for you that ic stuffed u up that much but ic good that you'r coming out and saying what u really mean, cuz most people hide it and it deosnt really help anyone.

[Raslon1297]

my parent are divorced and i used to see my dad every 3rd day but now only on the week ends. :(

[Mayline18]

the pictures say more than words and they show like i feel

[SydneyTaylorA]

Me too

[suksamad]

yes, it is NOT a happy event!!!!

so a otherc would be better..

[aliasaddiction]

what is with the song choice?! as if it's a happy event...

[bratwerstninja]

dude fuck you all, im going to be able to have a happy healthy marriage with no problems at all! what is so hard about it? my girlfriend is not a whore like most women, and im not a fucking pig like most men, my parents and her parents nor our grandparents were ever divorced, i dont think im going to be divorced either, it is all of you that ruin america. have fun in your sad lives!!! :)

[CasperUnFriendLY]

Marriage is an abusers, and con artists dream. most of you are either abusers or con artists or will marry one. One of many- your spouse goes round town badmouthing you behind your back. then comes home and says these people are harassing me! im scared! please protect me. your spouse now has you suspicious and snarling at people. you are now isolated and often will be put in jail or mental hosp. your spouse maybe even using YOUR money to confer with lawyers behind your back. DOWN With Marriage.

[xaharai]

I must say- I was not a child when my parents divorced. The act of the divorce itself did not bother me. Infact, my mothers influence in family life had been hurtful and was destructive. But the way she left, that is what effected me the most. Child or adult, actions still hurt. I guess it was a lesson I will carry with me always.

[joshj2j]

really funny ass joke fucker..i dont mean to be mean but the song makes it sound so happy

[Baskeeters]

i know seriously...terrible song to use lol

[joshj2j]

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[born2act135]

my parents are divorced but it never really effected me much. i barely knew my dad.

[EmIsPimp123]

it know both my parents very well and for some reason i didnt really feel that bad when my parents got divorced... this weirdo lady talked to me and my sister about how we felt and she was talking to us as if we were 5 years old and i was like 10 and my sister was 12.....that was 2 years ago...that lady was sooooo retarded

[BALANCE94015]

the purpose of DIVORCE is to INSTITUTIONALIZE CHILDREN. RESTRAINING ORDERS is to isolate, decimate, ruin, manipulate, and destroy men. CHILD SUPPORT is the modern day slavery, with no accountability as to how that support is being spent, and that quickly leads to poverty, crime, imprisonment, and suicide, in the worst case, a family genocide. WOMEN IN THE UNITED STATES HATE MEN FOR WOMEN HATE THEMSELVES. POWER AND CONTROL, RIGHT?

[Macsy08]

Ok first of all divorce is a part of life, it is happening more and more as the years go on. Instead of tackling why it is so widespread I think people should learn how to better deal with divorce and how to now let it ruin their lives but merley look at it as an end to a chapter and a beginning of a new one. People can get divorced and still continue a normal life. I know because I have seen families that have gotten divorced and still manage to keep the family dynamics.

[LaurenAndBeauShow]

But have you ever been in a personal relationship where your parents are divorced? It's harder on the child then everybody thinks. It really is hard. My parents aren't divorced, but my best friend (since kindergarten) parents are and it's so hard for her not to seem like a lot of other people with a complete family. The families can keep structure but it's still very hard emotionally.

[StlyDutch]

My parents divorced and now I live with my mom, I still see my dad like twice a month, but its not the same. My whole life has changed and it will never be the same..

I dont think you really understand how hard it is for a child..

[EmIsPimp123]

i see both my mom and dad equaly, but now each of my parents live in a smaller house, have less money (seperated) and stuff like that... it so much better with your parents together because u can live in a bigger house be a better family, afford more things...and stuff like that

[Baskeeters]

you know what? dont make a comment like that about something you know NOTHING about...imagine having to deal with switching homes all the time, seeing your mom 6 days out of the month, moving from apartment to aparment to apartment, losing EVERYTHING you have...including pets and friends, your parents refusing to talk to eachother and when they do they stick you right in the middle of it, you dont understand what its like so SHUT UP!!!!!!

[Jitpring]

Why must you soil Mozart's divine music by associating it with the filth of divorce?

[BALANCE94015]

DID YOU KNOW...Mozart came from a divorced family.

[batmanscrew]

the filth of divorce?

wtf? a divorce is not filth :O

do you know anything about a divorce??