and let me guess your straight and you have that assumption correct? heres an idea ask a gay person if its a choice. its not a choice. why would a gay person choose to have sex with same sex if they are not sexually attracted to them. its as simple as that. your fuck head
I'm not gay. I don't care if your gay. I agree being gay isn't a choice but, being effeminate is. Your not a woman don't pretend to be. I feel this is the reason gays recieve so much hate. - "My own personal view."(I get mine too)
@rockergirll13 riiiiiight. So when following your logic you are basically saying there aren't any mental diseases at all, only "something in the brain wired differently". Look, I can honestly say I don't mind gay people at all nor do I feel any animosity/prejudice against them. But I ALWAYS try to see things in a rational way. Therefore in the light of modern western society it's the biggest hypocritical bullshit EVER not to label homosexuality as a mental disorder. I mean, If some guy rather...
@rockergirll13 ... sit in his room and play a videogame instead of being a caveman douchebag talking bullshit to some bimbo's trying to get into her pants he has "antisocial personality disorder". Throw in a little bit of being fond off routine and habit and BAM autism it is. Hell take my sister for christ sakes. Just a kid with lots of energy, can easily play some games of chess with me (at the age off 13) but she has trouble sitting still in class--> ADD and hyperactivity disorder it is!
@rockergirll13 ... I mean, every kind of behavior that society doesn't consider the norm or a little disruptive get labeled and treated. But when people are being gay and ignore the biological imperative to procreate (the most important besides self-preservation), and while doing so endanger the survival of the entire human race, "the wires are just a little different..."
Of course being Is not a choice... I've lost like 3 of my friends already because I'm gay and I get made fun of sometimes to so if I could wake up the next morning and say to myself "I'm not gonna be a lesbian today" that's exactly what I'd do
Having sex is a choice. Skipping a meal is a choice. Drinking alcohol is a choice. Smoking a cigarette is a choice. Buying a new vehicle/clothes/entertainment, etc. is a choice.
On the other side are things not specifically chosen, such as physical attributes you're born with - hair color, skin color, gender, weight - the 2 parents you were born to.
After your birth, life is made up of choices and good or bad consequences often resulting from choices made.
If you faith urges you to fight against love and promote hate, you should question your faith.
Gay marriage equality is a wonderful thing. If you disagree, you simply are not a decent human being.
Heterosexuals and closeted gays can still do what they've always done. Gay marriage equality gives those who would prefer being happy an option they were previously denied.
I'm sorry, but it all seems so freaky to me. Today, it seems like it's a 'fashion'. People, esp. teens, follow fashions like cattle. The attitude seems to be that way these days. I mean, they hear some pop song singing about it and just like that, they want to copy. People are pathetic creatures. Sometimes I'm sad to be one.
It's definitely a choice to be gay. I would know. When I was sixteen I decided to be a lesbian. I was 100% lesbian until I met my exfiance & then I decided to be straight again. And no, I'm not joking. I even came out of the closet. Y'all have NO idea how hard it is to come out of the closet to a bunch of conservative locals & then be like "Oh yeah about that...changed my mind!".
Using the whole "oh do you think we'd want to live through the discrimination for this 'choice'?" ect is a cop out
If where you place your penis makes you a minority and you have no control over where you place your penis and God made you this way then everybody gets to use that excuse. Child molesters cant help it God made them that way, bestiality enthusiasts cant help it God made them that way, men who cheat on their wives cant help it God made them that way. You cant say who would chose this life cuz its bad cuz people chose to be junkies, drunks prostitutes and they are bad too yet they chose em daily
happened in the mother’s uterus after she delivered her older children that altered the fetus of the last child in a way that makes him gay. It is speculated that hormonal changes occur in utero resulting in the brains of the individuals who become gay being affected in ways that are as yet unknown.
Along with the study of genes and chromosomes the environment in the womb of the mother, as well as other prenatal factors, have been studied to understand how it can affect sexual orientation. A very recent study found that mothers who had given birth to several male children are more likely to have a son born who will be gay. It is thought that something
During the 1990's evidence was found that a gene could be the root cause of homosexuality. It was thought that the X chromosome, which is passed from the mother to the son, carried the variability that accounted for becoming gay. More recently, both the X and Y chromosomes have been
During the 1990's evidence was found that a gene could be the root cause of homosexuality. It was thought that the X chromosome, which is passed from the mother to the son, carried the variability that accounted for becoming gay. More recently, both the X and Y chromosomes have been
I think being gay is a choice, my cousin is gay and the thing is I'm the only family member that doesn't mind. A lot of people think harsh things about gay people but it's not a big deal if a person is gay! I think it is wrong for a person to say such cruel things about people that like the same sex, I for one love gay people. I think that gay guys are awesome because they are so awesome! And it makes me smile when gay people aren't afraid to express their selfs.
hey rock on dude! i am not gay and in fact i used to be a religious nut who believed that being gay was in many many ways wrong. not anymore.... for lack of more educated sounding terms, rock out with your cock out. and his too i guess. lol! follow your heart my man.
I almost wonder if this has some truth to it: Everyone is potentially attracted to the same sex, and everyone is potentially attracted to the opposite sex. Throughout the early years of life, some sort of bottle-necking occurs dependent on a number of factors, some of which are pre-destined, and some of which are based on occurrences in early life.
I've always been very pro-gay, but as a seeker of the truth, this thought has come up.
It doesn't matter in the grand scheme if it is a CHOICE or not. Go be a homo, don't question it. You are what you are. People take too much time analyzing ideas. Point: You are gay. Go do your gay thing and don't worry about it or analyze.
i believe this is when you bring up the whole nature vs. nurture debate.... i have a feeling it is more so influence by your surroundings and how you were raised... even if you were raised around straight people all your life there was probably something that happened that made you change your way of thought towards a more so feminine approach and thus starts the realization of being gay. personally i don't believe it's a choice and it's influenced during early years of childhood.
You didn't really offer much in this video lol. Thought you would reference scientific evidence or something because there is TONS to show that being gay is mainly predetermined while also influenced by environmental factors and then a small amount to no choice.
Mike, i totally agree! I am gay myself, and i realized this early early on. Homosexuality has been proven over, and over again thru the 1970's-present. When i hear people say this (that being gay is a choice i mean) i get so angry and upset. THAY dont know how it is to be gay. THEY have never prejudized in that way before. I just want you to know that the gay community and i here in illinois are all behind you.
@pianoplayer95 Maybe we cant control thoughts or impulses that we have, but we do choose which ones we act on (I have had at least brief impulses in both directions myself). If you feel that the choice you are making is the only way that you can be true to yourself, more power to you, but its still a choice. I may not be "gay" but my being heterosexual is actually a choice, I could also choose to be celibate, or gay for that matter. My brain is sweet. It lets me do whatever I want! cont...
...U are operating under the assumption that your body knows best. Any addict will tell U that this is not the case. Sometimes it behooves one to ignore certain impulses. Sometimes it doesn't. It's U'r choice. Don't deny it, celebrate it. Its your right to say "just because u don't like sugar in your tea doesn't mean I cant have any". If your choice makes other people uncomfortable, its their problem. But, be honest with yourself first. U can do whatever U want. Its called FREE WILL, U have it.
you sound like just some newly open gay young kid who thinks hes smart. no offense, you act like youre 16 or 17, so i hope youre a teenager, and not some weird gay senseless adult idiot.
its a choice bc its ur choice if u find boy or girls attractive but its also who u are and u cant help it so its a thinker i think a scientist would have to go into tht one
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IMHO being gay is most definitely not a choice. I grew up thinking for sure that I was straight... but also crushing hard on a lot of my girl friends. I always thought everyone felt that way sometimes.
A majority of my friends are completely homophobic, and my community is not gay friendly.
Why would I choose something that could hurt me so much?
It must be based mostly on societal and personal issues, as well as others. There must be some type of "choice" involved. It may "run in the family" to a certain extent, but I still highly doubt that has much of an impact. I don't believe its a "choice" but moreso something that unexpectedly occurs as a person grows up, as they develop their values and interests. So back to the beginning, I strongly believe societal issues and societal occurrences are the strongest determinant.
@sabresrock9 I really think society has nothing to do with it, I was born this way and this is how it is. I know twins and triplets who are all gay. It is for sure in people's genes.
@mikeae102 You really think that societal issues have nothing to do with it? I believe society shapes the individual in so many indirect, subtle ways. Unfortunately I can't get into into on Youtube though. I'm a bisexual university student from Montreal, and I was not born that way. I developed my interests over time. So who would be responsible for that? However, I don't completely disagree with you. I have gay friends who hold the same beliefs as you.
Although it must be the result of a multitude of influences. You cannot pinpoint the cause of someone being gay or bi on one aspect of life or one phenomena, or by just saying, "oh, i was born that way." To me, that's inefficient and incomplete reasoning.
It must be based mostly on societal and personal issues, as well as others. There must be some type of "choice" involved. It may "run in the family" to a certain extent, but I still highly doubt that has much of an impact. I don't believe its a "choice" but moreso something that unexpectedly occurs as a person grows up, as they develop their values and interests. So back to the beginning, I strongly believe societal issues and societal occurrences are the strongest determinant.
@MrAdcomedy yah but it is not a choice when you go crazy if you are not true to yourself. This is one of the reasons suicide is so high in the gay community. People think we can make the "choice" to not act on what comes naturally to us. How would you like to not act on your straight urges?
Just a point I've always pondered - why do so many gay males (I am not so slow as to say all) speak in such a similar manner? I mean, is it part of the neural organisation that makes you attracted to men that also makes you elongate your S's? And why do some guys start speaking that way as soon as they come out?
I hope you can shed some light on a matter that has perplexed me for so long.
@justanotherguyagain you know whats funny is that im gay, and when i was growing up i always thought that it was really annoying that some gay guys talk that way. and so i made a promise to myself that i would never be THAT guy. But recently i have been catching myself talking like that, which leads me to beleive that its just simply unavoidable. i dont know, im only 16, but its quite the predicament.
It is not a choice, the fact you lead a harder lifestyle does not justify that it is not choice. Many people choose the do harder jobs that give the same pay for many reasons. Tell why so many people have change from gay to straight and vice versa without ever turning back. Tell me why as a young boy I was attracted to both genders until my mother told me that boys should like girls because thats how nature works. I simply decided one day that girls are what I like and from then on its been so
thats really stupid andrew whatever cuz if being gay was a choice then why would you choose being gay over just living a normal life and also there are no such thing a ex gays cuz inside they will always be attracted to who they are attracted to even if they go out with girls... also i love you (to the guy who made this video)
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Being gay is a choice. Smoking is a choice. You can quit both. What about ex-gays? If you're "born gay" why aren't identical twins both gay all the time? They share the same genetic material.
Maybe you can quit sleeping with the same sex but you can't quit being attracted to them. 70 percent of identical twins are both gay. There has to be some proof there.
@TheAndrew668 That identical twins argument is total BS. Do you think identical twins are exactly the same in all aspects of their lives, with the same personalities and preferences?
The ex-gay things is ridiculous too. "Gay converters" teach gay people how to suppress their feelings and hide their sexuality, not actually change their sexual orientation. According the the American Psychological Association, there is absolutely no proof that it works, and it is actually more likely to be harmful.
dude. is being straight a choice? no. so why would being gay be a choice? you're born that way so....its not like i woke up one day and made a pros and cons of gay or straight. i've just always been like that. keep on making videos. :)
Being gay is definitly not a choice. I have a lot of gay friends and I hate to see some of the things they are forced to go through because of narrow minded people. :(
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themattthomsen234 3 months ago
Nothin personal against gays but it's choice
EddieCCanegetitin 4 months ago
@EddieCCanegetitin
and let me guess your straight and you have that assumption correct? heres an idea ask a gay person if its a choice. its not a choice. why would a gay person choose to have sex with same sex if they are not sexually attracted to them. its as simple as that. your fuck head
RankinMatt 1 month ago
I'm not gay. I don't care if your gay. I agree being gay isn't a choice but, being effeminate is. Your not a woman don't pretend to be. I feel this is the reason gays recieve so much hate. - "My own personal view."(I get mine too)
Thiskaio 5 months ago
I was going to say something i just thought of, but I realized it might be offensive and make gay people hate...
Gabriellaella23 5 months ago
No, it's a mental disease...
jherrman1987 5 months ago
@jherrman1987 its not a disease, it's something in the brain wired differently. that's all, it's not a sickness
rockergirll13 5 months ago
@rockergirll13 riiiiiight. So when following your logic you are basically saying there aren't any mental diseases at all, only "something in the brain wired differently". Look, I can honestly say I don't mind gay people at all nor do I feel any animosity/prejudice against them. But I ALWAYS try to see things in a rational way. Therefore in the light of modern western society it's the biggest hypocritical bullshit EVER not to label homosexuality as a mental disorder. I mean, If some guy rather...
jherrman1987 5 months ago
@rockergirll13 ... sit in his room and play a videogame instead of being a caveman douchebag talking bullshit to some bimbo's trying to get into her pants he has "antisocial personality disorder". Throw in a little bit of being fond off routine and habit and BAM autism it is. Hell take my sister for christ sakes. Just a kid with lots of energy, can easily play some games of chess with me (at the age off 13) but she has trouble sitting still in class--> ADD and hyperactivity disorder it is!
jherrman1987 5 months ago
@rockergirll13 ... I mean, every kind of behavior that society doesn't consider the norm or a little disruptive get labeled and treated. But when people are being gay and ignore the biological imperative to procreate (the most important besides self-preservation), and while doing so endanger the survival of the entire human race, "the wires are just a little different..."
jherrman1987 5 months ago
@jherrman1987 Exactly.
Gabriellaella23 5 months ago
Of course being Is not a choice... I've lost like 3 of my friends already because I'm gay and I get made fun of sometimes to so if I could wake up the next morning and say to myself "I'm not gonna be a lesbian today" that's exactly what I'd do
GeorgeMichaelLover1 7 months ago
Having sex is a choice. Skipping a meal is a choice. Drinking alcohol is a choice. Smoking a cigarette is a choice. Buying a new vehicle/clothes/entertainment, etc. is a choice.
On the other side are things not specifically chosen, such as physical attributes you're born with - hair color, skin color, gender, weight - the 2 parents you were born to.
After your birth, life is made up of choices and good or bad consequences often resulting from choices made.
Stinger2578 7 months ago
There never is any good coming from hate.
If you faith urges you to fight against love and promote hate, you should question your faith.
Gay marriage equality is a wonderful thing. If you disagree, you simply are not a decent human being.
Heterosexuals and closeted gays can still do what they've always done. Gay marriage equality gives those who would prefer being happy an option they were previously denied.
multitalentino 8 months ago
are you gay?? i serusly diddnt now but noo
megerkul 11 months ago
are you gay?? i serusly diddnt now
megerkul 11 months ago
I'm sorry, but it all seems so freaky to me. Today, it seems like it's a 'fashion'. People, esp. teens, follow fashions like cattle. The attitude seems to be that way these days. I mean, they hear some pop song singing about it and just like that, they want to copy. People are pathetic creatures. Sometimes I'm sad to be one.
ladybluluv 1 year ago
it is a choice because everone is curiose for the same sex its like a fanisy but you choice to do that fanisy
cjperkins1 1 year ago
It's definitely a choice to be gay. I would know. When I was sixteen I decided to be a lesbian. I was 100% lesbian until I met my exfiance & then I decided to be straight again. And no, I'm not joking. I even came out of the closet. Y'all have NO idea how hard it is to come out of the closet to a bunch of conservative locals & then be like "Oh yeah about that...changed my mind!".
Using the whole "oh do you think we'd want to live through the discrimination for this 'choice'?" ect is a cop out
lorelainoah 1 year ago 2
@lorelainoah I hope you are being sarcastic here.. The be honest I dont think you were ever gay.
Ranokian 1 month ago
Not trying to be mean so dont answer if you dont want to, but, which male family member or friend molested you when you were young?
bethaddjkp 1 year ago
If where you place your penis makes you a minority and you have no control over where you place your penis and God made you this way then everybody gets to use that excuse. Child molesters cant help it God made them that way, bestiality enthusiasts cant help it God made them that way, men who cheat on their wives cant help it God made them that way. You cant say who would chose this life cuz its bad cuz people chose to be junkies, drunks prostitutes and they are bad too yet they chose em daily
bethaddjkp 1 year ago
happened in the mother’s uterus after she delivered her older children that altered the fetus of the last child in a way that makes him gay. It is speculated that hormonal changes occur in utero resulting in the brains of the individuals who become gay being affected in ways that are as yet unknown.
Addyking2419 1 year ago
Along with the study of genes and chromosomes the environment in the womb of the mother, as well as other prenatal factors, have been studied to understand how it can affect sexual orientation. A very recent study found that mothers who had given birth to several male children are more likely to have a son born who will be gay. It is thought that something
Addyking2419 1 year ago
During the 1990's evidence was found that a gene could be the root cause of homosexuality. It was thought that the X chromosome, which is passed from the mother to the son, carried the variability that accounted for becoming gay. More recently, both the X and Y chromosomes have been
Addyking2419 1 year ago
During the 1990's evidence was found that a gene could be the root cause of homosexuality. It was thought that the X chromosome, which is passed from the mother to the son, carried the variability that accounted for becoming gay. More recently, both the X and Y chromosomes have been
Addyking2419 1 year ago
I think being gay is a choice, my cousin is gay and the thing is I'm the only family member that doesn't mind. A lot of people think harsh things about gay people but it's not a big deal if a person is gay! I think it is wrong for a person to say such cruel things about people that like the same sex, I for one love gay people. I think that gay guys are awesome because they are so awesome! And it makes me smile when gay people aren't afraid to express their selfs.
CuppycakezEaterz 1 year ago
ya its a choice
hopelesscase7326 1 year ago
Man I totally agree. im gay also and ppl keep saying its a choice and we go to hell. im gay and im going to heaven. love the vid
guy3911 1 year ago
hey rock on dude! i am not gay and in fact i used to be a religious nut who believed that being gay was in many many ways wrong. not anymore.... for lack of more educated sounding terms, rock out with your cock out. and his too i guess. lol! follow your heart my man.
nogroupthink 1 year ago
so when you see a really hot naked chick... you don't get a boner?
jsanford91 1 year ago
@jsanford91 duh , he won't find that chick hot like you do!
roxyislove 1 year ago
I almost wonder if this has some truth to it: Everyone is potentially attracted to the same sex, and everyone is potentially attracted to the opposite sex. Throughout the early years of life, some sort of bottle-necking occurs dependent on a number of factors, some of which are pre-destined, and some of which are based on occurrences in early life.
I've always been very pro-gay, but as a seeker of the truth, this thought has come up.
JoarSupurEthics 1 year ago
It doesn't matter in the grand scheme if it is a CHOICE or not. Go be a homo, don't question it. You are what you are. People take too much time analyzing ideas. Point: You are gay. Go do your gay thing and don't worry about it or analyze.
Rok2Slayr 1 year ago
i believe this is when you bring up the whole nature vs. nurture debate.... i have a feeling it is more so influence by your surroundings and how you were raised... even if you were raised around straight people all your life there was probably something that happened that made you change your way of thought towards a more so feminine approach and thus starts the realization of being gay. personally i don't believe it's a choice and it's influenced during early years of childhood.
asushiroll 1 year ago
good for you for getting your opinions out there!! MUUAAHHH!!
zomgshay 1 year ago
You didn't really offer much in this video lol. Thought you would reference scientific evidence or something because there is TONS to show that being gay is mainly predetermined while also influenced by environmental factors and then a small amount to no choice.
jacksonofalltrades 1 year ago
Mike, i totally agree! I am gay myself, and i realized this early early on. Homosexuality has been proven over, and over again thru the 1970's-present. When i hear people say this (that being gay is a choice i mean) i get so angry and upset. THAY dont know how it is to be gay. THEY have never prejudized in that way before. I just want you to know that the gay community and i here in illinois are all behind you.
P.S.
We share the same name! =] <3
pianoplayer95 1 year ago
@pianoplayer95 thank you, that means alot!
mikeae102 1 year ago
@pianoplayer95 Maybe we cant control thoughts or impulses that we have, but we do choose which ones we act on (I have had at least brief impulses in both directions myself). If you feel that the choice you are making is the only way that you can be true to yourself, more power to you, but its still a choice. I may not be "gay" but my being heterosexual is actually a choice, I could also choose to be celibate, or gay for that matter. My brain is sweet. It lets me do whatever I want! cont...
MaRioNeRd9 5 months ago
...U are operating under the assumption that your body knows best. Any addict will tell U that this is not the case. Sometimes it behooves one to ignore certain impulses. Sometimes it doesn't. It's U'r choice. Don't deny it, celebrate it. Its your right to say "just because u don't like sugar in your tea doesn't mean I cant have any". If your choice makes other people uncomfortable, its their problem. But, be honest with yourself first. U can do whatever U want. Its called FREE WILL, U have it.
MaRioNeRd9 5 months ago
you sound like just some newly open gay young kid who thinks hes smart. no offense, you act like youre 16 or 17, so i hope youre a teenager, and not some weird gay senseless adult idiot.
nathantim 1 year ago
its a choice bc its ur choice if u find boy or girls attractive but its also who u are and u cant help it so its a thinker i think a scientist would have to go into tht one
sassmaster8 1 year ago
I'd have to think aboot it.
CrispMusic 1 year ago
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theseeker2k5 1 year ago
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iceskater1998 1 year ago
IMHO being gay is most definitely not a choice. I grew up thinking for sure that I was straight... but also crushing hard on a lot of my girl friends. I always thought everyone felt that way sometimes.
A majority of my friends are completely homophobic, and my community is not gay friendly.
Why would I choose something that could hurt me so much?
AngstyArtist 1 year ago
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sabresrock9 1 year ago
It must be based mostly on societal and personal issues, as well as others. There must be some type of "choice" involved. It may "run in the family" to a certain extent, but I still highly doubt that has much of an impact. I don't believe its a "choice" but moreso something that unexpectedly occurs as a person grows up, as they develop their values and interests. So back to the beginning, I strongly believe societal issues and societal occurrences are the strongest determinant.
sabresrock9 1 year ago
@sabresrock9 I really think society has nothing to do with it, I was born this way and this is how it is. I know twins and triplets who are all gay. It is for sure in people's genes.
mikeae102 1 year ago
@mikeae102 You really think that societal issues have nothing to do with it? I believe society shapes the individual in so many indirect, subtle ways. Unfortunately I can't get into into on Youtube though. I'm a bisexual university student from Montreal, and I was not born that way. I developed my interests over time. So who would be responsible for that? However, I don't completely disagree with you. I have gay friends who hold the same beliefs as you.
sabresrock9 1 year ago
@mikeae102 Continued...
Although it must be the result of a multitude of influences. You cannot pinpoint the cause of someone being gay or bi on one aspect of life or one phenomena, or by just saying, "oh, i was born that way." To me, that's inefficient and incomplete reasoning.
sabresrock9 1 year ago
@mikeae102
i agree
RankinMatt 1 month ago
It must be based mostly on societal and personal issues, as well as others. There must be some type of "choice" involved. It may "run in the family" to a certain extent, but I still highly doubt that has much of an impact. I don't believe its a "choice" but moreso something that unexpectedly occurs as a person grows up, as they develop their values and interests. So back to the beginning, I strongly believe societal issues and societal occurrences are the strongest determinant.
sabresrock9 1 year ago
@MrAdcomedy yah but it is not a choice when you go crazy if you are not true to yourself. This is one of the reasons suicide is so high in the gay community. People think we can make the "choice" to not act on what comes naturally to us. How would you like to not act on your straight urges?
mikeae102 1 year ago 5
Definitely not a choice.
hshea11 1 year ago
@hshea11 :)
mikeae102 1 year ago
Just a point I've always pondered - why do so many gay males (I am not so slow as to say all) speak in such a similar manner? I mean, is it part of the neural organisation that makes you attracted to men that also makes you elongate your S's? And why do some guys start speaking that way as soon as they come out?
I hope you can shed some light on a matter that has perplexed me for so long.
justanotherguyagain 1 year ago
@justanotherguyagain you know whats funny is that im gay, and when i was growing up i always thought that it was really annoying that some gay guys talk that way. and so i made a promise to myself that i would never be THAT guy. But recently i have been catching myself talking like that, which leads me to beleive that its just simply unavoidable. i dont know, im only 16, but its quite the predicament.
institution12 1 year ago
It is not a choice, the fact you lead a harder lifestyle does not justify that it is not choice. Many people choose the do harder jobs that give the same pay for many reasons. Tell why so many people have change from gay to straight and vice versa without ever turning back. Tell me why as a young boy I was attracted to both genders until my mother told me that boys should like girls because thats how nature works. I simply decided one day that girls are what I like and from then on its been so
papertreegun 1 year ago
this made me really happy mike. i'm so glad i went on youtube at 2am and this was on my homepage. <3
Dee and I will make a video for you soon :)
Xo
jaimzboo 2 years ago 2
thats really stupid andrew whatever cuz if being gay was a choice then why would you choose being gay over just living a normal life and also there are no such thing a ex gays cuz inside they will always be attracted to who they are attracted to even if they go out with girls... also i love you (to the guy who made this video)
micreekandelfie 2 years ago
a normal life? i see what you mean but i'm pretty sure you can be gay and still have "normal" life
Lepageobx 1 year ago
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Being gay is a choice. Smoking is a choice. You can quit both. What about ex-gays? If you're "born gay" why aren't identical twins both gay all the time? They share the same genetic material.
TheAndrew668 2 years ago
Maybe you can quit sleeping with the same sex but you can't quit being attracted to them. 70 percent of identical twins are both gay. There has to be some proof there.
mikeae102 2 years ago
"Ex-gays" lol, how fucking stupid can you be.
Kizillia 2 years ago 2
@TheAndrew668 That identical twins argument is total BS. Do you think identical twins are exactly the same in all aspects of their lives, with the same personalities and preferences?
The ex-gay things is ridiculous too. "Gay converters" teach gay people how to suppress their feelings and hide their sexuality, not actually change their sexual orientation. According the the American Psychological Association, there is absolutely no proof that it works, and it is actually more likely to be harmful.
pigwidgeonfan 1 year ago 3
dude. is being straight a choice? no. so why would being gay be a choice? you're born that way so....its not like i woke up one day and made a pros and cons of gay or straight. i've just always been like that. keep on making videos. :)
wildnout001 2 years ago
I Love You <3
and can i borrow your smartie pants somtime?
laddymischief 2 years ago
nope
kiaza70 2 years ago
yay, you're back making videos! :D
& I completely agree with you.
Being gay is definitly not a choice. I have a lot of gay friends and I hate to see some of the things they are forced to go through because of narrow minded people. :(
MandaMakesNoise 2 years ago
yay for supportive friends
lela151 2 years ago