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  • Yeah dude times like this blows

  • And now, you have over 90000 subscribers, and you sound much better. You are one of the best commentators I have ever seen, and one who actually has emotion that's open.

  • Dunkus your my fav commentator :) hang in there man.

  • I remeber when i saw this video in my subbox on september 14th that something was, wrong. when i read the annotation i was guessing divorce. Unfortunatley so i was right. Ive been watching since 800 subs, made a youtube account and subbed when you had 1000, stay strong Matt.

  • Wow, now I feel bad. I tweeted at you recently asking if you were married because I was hearing much from your ex-wife, you answered just a "no" and I know you are a happy person. Now I know. Hope everything goes well, I've been through HORRIBLE moments and very depressed.

  • True life talk..

  • MAN, you're making me cry here. I really can't tell you anything different that what others have already said but the only thing I can say is that things however bad they are now will get better, just keep your head up and you'll get through this.

  • The thing about your dog could be worse, imagine if you had a child, keep your head up man.

  • I cried i really did, only about the dog part though.

  • Sorry to hear that Dunkus! I feel bad for you and hope you get better! Thank you for sharing! I watched a dual comm you did with Hutch now that you are at Machinima which is great news!

  • Everything's hard before its easy.

  • Iam so sorry Dunkus

  • Chin up. You'll find someone soon. I really hope you do. I hope you get Shelby back. All you have is family in this world, and you will find that special someone that will love you. I hope you get through this.

    Remember sadness is always temporary. This, too, shall pass. - Chuck T. Falcon

  • Keep your head up Dunkus. You are a young fella you're only like what 27/28? Most people don't get married till their mid thirties where I hail from. There will be plenty more opportunities for you to take advantage of man, that's the beauty side of life. Get involved in your weight-lifting and your working out build some confidence then whenever you feel ready (Don't force yourself) whenever you feel comfortable to let by-gones be by-gones, go find someone new. Good Luck big guy, happy trails.

  • This sux man I'm soooo sorry this has happend to you too...

  • I'm sorry dude I hope u are doing better

  • I was late to see this video but I can feel for you dude. I too am divorced and all I can say is that it does get better. You will meet somone new and likely get another dog because you clearly are a dog lover. I'm not going to lie. You will constantly compare the new to the old and think about them a huge amount. This will eventually happen less and less although it does actually take years for it not to impact you any longer. Hang in there and rest assured life does go on :)

  • that is crazy im to young to be in a a relationship like that but that sucks

  • mate, you dont need to be sorry for anything in that vid, its obviously a hard thing for you to talk about, alot of people wouldn't have done that, lots of respect dude

  • Bold stuff man. I don't watch a ton of commentary videos, but an old timey director for the main channel, I've kept a spectators view on everything Respawn. Your name has always been popping up since it's birth. You've added a ton to the gaming community, and though I don't know you directly, I can still commend you on the guts it takes to post something like this.

    Sometimes, it takes something like this to help heal the pain. Keep strong man, best of luck with your endeavors, and push on.

  • sorry man, hope u r ok

  • i only just saw this because of the sub box issues :( everything happens for a reason and im sure you'll find someone you can spend the rest of your life with, i know you're only 27 but its better that it happened now and not years later when you would have been all old and wrinkly ;) anyway, i hope you feel better soon, much love from a loyal sub

  • that is so sad

    

  • i went through a very similar thing a few years ago, and felt very much the same as you have done. i still get to see my dog from time to time years on. if i can give 1 piece of advice, dont get into anything too serious until youre ready. it will mess with your head all over again. good luck on getting your dog back where she belongs

  • so sorry to hear that bro. I dont understand why you weren't the one to keep Shelby :(

  • i feel ya...

  • I wish you the best Dunkus. Keep making more videos!

  • This is quality man. Serious respect :)

  • Dunkus I just want to say that I've been watching your videos since just before black ops, I know people have been subscribed to you longer, but how you can do this I dont know. You are a true inspiration, not only to Youtubers, but to people in their real life situations. You are so brave, doing this and keeping yourself together as well as you did. After watching this video, I will definitely keep watching your videos until you stop. Thanks for being such a great inspiration to me.Stay Strong!

  • This brought tears to my eyes. I have a dog too and i dont know what i would do without her... Things will get better i can promise u. Look at all the people that have ur back from the comments... We all love u man. Stay strong bud :)

  • I care for you about the break up with your wife but even more so with your dog. I'm so sorry for u

  • love you dunk

  • man that sucks im so srry for what happend even tho ive never been married but i have seen the affects of a divorce im srry matt

  • man i have been subbed to you for a long long time, when u had mw2 and waw vids flowin, i am really sorry to hear about you and your wife, you and here were amazing, i hope you find some one and have a good life, stay up dude, when i was "down in the dumps" i would watch your videos, i have subbed to you on all my youtube accounts and i reallyt hope you stay up

  • @DrippingDestiny thanks for the support :)

  • Just got around to seeing this, and I feel like crying. Honestly. You're a trooper. I know that sometimes these types of things are difficult to talk about, but it's a good thing to talk about them. Reminders are the fucking worst, and those take the longest to get over. I feel for you dude, I really do. I know this was late, but it's still all the support I can give as some guy on the internet. <3

  • Keep you head up Dunkus!

  • I know how hard it is to deal with a dog like that. I have a beautiful boxer that looked identical to yours. I got her on my 8th birthday, she was immediately my bestfriend. I took her on walks, we took naps, we spent a ton of time together. Then one day she looked very down and had a horrid limp. I rushed her to the Pet Vet and they took xrays and found out that she had hip dysphasia, she was in horrible pain. Then oneday the next week I came home to find her dead in her Kennel. RIP Rosie <3

  • Aww. It brought a tear to my eye. Keep strong dude. Eat Vodka pasta. :) 

  • @OxNatashha Hey I know you :)

  • @MrDunkus Ahh yes. You called me a fail :P

  • So sorry to hear this dunkus. Stay strong, youre an awesome person.

  • sorry i feel bad for doing this but south park moment "They took his deog" sad vid

  • Can someone please tell me what is/had been going on with him?

  • @Flash3169mia listen to the video and it shouldnt need explaining

  • Hey man. I'm glad to finally hear you're doing better. As hard as life can come to be, remember what God has in store for you. You have thousands of people who wake up every day excited to hear your voice. It's got to be a hard loss for you, but remember tons of people have love for you. God bless you, man. You know you're in all our prayers.

  • this is so sad I fucking love you Matt! <3

  • Very good video. I rarely sit through commentaries to it's fullest and comment. I hope you're okay, Dunkus.

  • Not gonna lie, when he talked about his dog, man tears were shed.

  • Proud of you Dunk. It takes a real man to talk about their personal life. Hope everything starts working out for you again.

  • Greatest respect for talking about this.

  • It must take a lot of courage to speak about this. Well done. I wish you the best of luck for the future and would like to congratulate you on your career and success on Youtube.

  • rough patch man, just keep your chin up, everyone has hard timesbut the biggest thing ive learned in life is summed up in 3 words - it goes on. just tell that woman to give you your dog back! lol all the best to you man.

  • I'm really sorry to hear that man, Time heals and better days are ahead.

  • Haha, you're starting to become Ross from Friends, xD.

    But in all seriousness, I love you Dunkus, and life goes on. :)

  • Really sorry to hear that Dunkus. Losing two big parts of your life must suck. But even if I don't know you personally, I support you and wish the best for your future. A lot of support from Sweden all across the Atlantic for you :)

  • Sorry to hear that bro. I noticed something wasn't really right with you the past few months but I didn't think it would be this. Its a shame man, I've been sub'd to you from the start and watched most of your videos and I can see you are a nice guy, things will fall into place eventually. In the mean time, pump some TF2 videos!

  • Hey Dunkus, I really feel for you man. It's hard going through pretty much two separations at once. You said cat people wouldn't understand what you're going through. But I think you're off base in that mindset. I would consider myself a cat person (although I love dogs too), and recently my cat that I had for 19 years passed away. There's seriously been a void in my life ever since. I don't think it matters what type of animal you have just as long as there's a connection between the two of yo

  • hope you can work things out with your wife about Shellby....I had the experience of loosing my pet dog... it totally feels different when you come home :(

  • @Deucee whatever the fuck your name is. He just lost his best friend and his wife how about you go through that and see if you aren't depressed. And plus he's 27 and has a JOB he's plays video games in his free time. So now who needs to do the growing up? And I'm sorry Dunkus I no you're goin through a lot just keep your head up, man.

  • :(

  • Also dunks I dint want to act like I'm some kind of expert but my parentsot divorced and they are now both much much happier...as for the dog I'm sire you can persud your ex to give her to you just be grateful it's not a child

  • Dunkus...you can move on from this...It's like Any relationship,.you can still move on and recover and get better

  • Love you Dunkus!!!:) You're a great commentator and a great person! Much love<3

  • @DueceeeBadAsss bro why are you such a dick

  • Wish u the best bruh

  • BEST.COMMENTATOR.EVER seriously dude your like the best person alivefor doing this my mind id about to explode because of this awesomeness

  • @DueceeeBadAsss You're a dick!

  • I'm sorry about everything that happened. I don't know why you couldn't get to have your best friend stay with you. I dont know how much your ex wife cared about shelby, but its obvious that you rly loved her. Goodbye Mrs. Dunkus and Shelby

  • @DueceeeBadAsss you are probably a fat 15 year old bitch who suck your dads dick and you say that lmao

  • Don't worry Dunkus there's nowhere to go but up. You're a great person so don't worry everything will get better.

  • Dunkus, I'm sorry man. This may seem weird because I don't know you personally, but I feel like I know exactly how you feel. But the truth is, things always get better. Your true subs will always be here for you man, we're not going anywhere. Best of luck.

  • dunkus. if you haven't done so already i seriously want to recommend that you find help like professional help. believe me see somebody doesn't make you crazy or mental. you're not the only who is going through something. i hope that you haven't waited this long.

  • April 25th is my Birthday lol

  • im sorry dunkus I had no idea about what happend everything will work out for the better and I am extremely greatfull for you sharing this with us.

  • I'm sorry Dunk. It must be tough for you. When I dropped out of college and all my friends went back to school, I was home alone, not many friends around cause they were all back at their respective schools. I was very depressed and being alone didn't help that. My dog was my best buddy, I can't imagine what to do without him.

    Maybe you should look into getting another dog.

  • i will like and favorite this video everyday

  • i love you

  • @DueceeeBadAsss cool story brah tell it again

  • <3

  • I'm sorry to hear that man. love you bro <3 hang in there!

  • Listen Dunk, this vid has really touched me. I'm not the type of person that feels sympathy for people, but this video really has touched me. I wish u best of luck in the future.

  • My girlfriend is in grad school, and she took her dog with her. I stayed at my job, but we are still together. I miss the dog so much =(

  • @DueceeeBadAsss I block people for a lot less. You're not welcome here. See ya.

  • Thank you for sharing this with us. I know it took everything you had to put yourself out like that. Just know that we're all here for you. I wish you the best of luck in life man. You can get through this.

  • Much love man <3

  • Huge respect for sharing this dunkus, it obviously was far from easy and you know how much of a nasty place youtube can be at times. This vid pulled on my heart strings a bit as i have followed you since your first machinima video (highrise if i remember rightly) and i feel i actually know you after watching so much great content. Glad to hear things are looking up a little tho, chin up brah.

  • @stylianou69 Thank you man, and yes it was Highrise! Great memory :)

  • seriously got choked up man....keep your head up and as odd as it is to say, even though everyone that watches your videos/subscribe to you are faceless nameless people you'll more than likely never meet, we support you and hurt for you. much love man

  • dude props to you for sharing this personal stuff with all us randoms!!! keep your head up man

  • a dog is calld mans best friend for a reson

    keep ur chin up

  • I feel you man, Goodjob I know it takes a lot to open up.

  • relationships and women in general are so mind fucking. they give you the BEST feeling in the world and at the same time they can give you the worst most terrible feeling in the world. at the end of the day youll make it man.

  • Hey Dunkus, I know this is really hard for you and I hate to hear that.

    Ever since I've been following you (the very beginning), you've always been happy Mr. Dunkus! And I hate to see people down, especially if it's someone I used to know somewhat personally. I know there's not much to do, and I know losing Shelby is hard, but you can get through this! Stay strong Dunk. Best of wishes for you.

  • @Var4Drakill Thanks Mario ;)

  • @MrDunkus You remember me?! :o

  • @MrDunkus You remember me?! :o

  • i missed this video cause the sub box was all screwed up but im really glad you mentioned it in your new video

    my mom and stepdad recently went through the same thing and i understand how you feel

    but just remember things can only go up from here and youll be happy again soon it just takes time

  • @DueceeeBadAsss Enough with the tough guy act. We all know you get beat by your parents.

  • hey dunk hold your head up man i hate seeing people like this :(

  • i really dont know if i should like or dislike this... i mean obviously we all appreciate your honesty and sharing, but i am sad that it did not work out for you. Wish you the best of luck in the future!

  • @DueceeeBadAsss Wow dude, you could have kept that comment to yourself. Show some Respect.

  • Sorry Dunk i hate to see another person hurt this bad, and i can see your truly hurt. Keep ya head up!!!

  • I've been there with the woman trouble too. Everyone told me it just takes time; you gotta focus on yourself; there's plenty of fish in the sea, etc. And I remember that feeling like all you want to do is punch them all in the mouth. but.. it is true. Everyone one of them was right. Just use it to lift you up when you're down, man. It will not last forever. And, most importantly, beauty is not uncommon. Your wife probably was beautiful, and great. Most women are. Get a puppy and go find one!!

  • I'm pulling for you. If talking about this helps, continue doing it. I gave you a like and favourite if that means anything also subbed. Hope everything works out for you.

  • it is good to know that there is a real person inside. Not all gamers would be so up front with their personal life. A lot put on the "Internet tough guy" role. I do Hope things work out in your life for you. Even though I don't know you, Divorce is a bitch. I've seen it happen several times in my life. With the men taking advantage of a caring mother. And I hope not to ever know what it feels like personaly. Stay strong Matt. You rock! HyperRoach

  • Blessing in disguise. I'll tell you a story. I moved overseas when I was 14. We couldn't take my dog, so we gave him to my uncle and his family. No dog will ever fully replace Copper (he was my frist puppy..) but, when we got to Italy we got a new puppy, and I met so... many.... CHICKS!! just taking my puppy outside. he was THE playmaker.

    So my advice is, still love abby, of course. But go out and get yourself a puppy. And just let the puppy do all the work. You might just meet a nice girl.

  • I favorite about one video a month. This video deserves 20.

  • Ugh dude, this actually brought a tear to my eye, I'm really sorry for what's happened and I really hope everything turns out for the best. :)

  • Everyone should like and favorite this video, it takes alot to talk about this

  • Going thru exactly the same thing... Keep your head up bro

  • I'm sorry for everything that's happening in ur life at the moment. As someone else said u really need a hug. Your one of my fav commentators and I'm telling u if u need a break take one

  • dunkus u need a hug i kno what ur feeling

  • You had me tearing up Matt. Keep it up :)

  • helloo im a new sub :) this is a good first video of yours i see

  • I love you Dunkus.

  • Dunkus dude ur the reason I got my youtube account and the reason I want to one day be a commentator. And u are a total insperation to me so thank you for being this strrong man.

  • That is so sad hope everythink works out <3

  • I'm sorry Dunkus. I went through something similar this year and I won't pretend to know what you're going through. After my split I ended up losing my Boxer too. Don't really have any advise other than let time pass and maybe...maybe get another dog. Hang in there bro

  • @MrDunkus sorry to hear that Matt i wish nothing but the best for you in the future, keep your chin up and in dark times remember the good times you had and you'll be fine

  • I just found this video. And now im subbed, and gonna watch all your vids. I dont really know you. But your amazing.<3

  • Seriously bro? She took your dog after not even being there for the dog for 2 years? She's an evil one. I had one like that in the past. All it does is make you better for the next chick that comes along. Be strong man.

  • I can`t say that I know what you`re going through with the divorce and all.

    I`m single and not about to settle down anytime soon, but I had a girl for almost 4 years before we ended it, so I can relate to some extent.

    But as far as the dog goes, I totaly understand, Matt..

    I got my little staffie boy, Hercules, 3 months ago and he is already my world.

    I am so sorry with regards to Shelby..

    Feel better.

    And to the people saying "Just get another one"; You are idiots. You really are.

  • i hope it helps to know that no matter you will always have us if you need a shoulder.

  • Stay strong Dunkus. Love you man <3

  • i love you so fucking much

  • damn bro, sorry to hear it. I know how hard it is to lose your best friend. Stay strong Dunkus, you legend!

  • Dunk keep your head up! Its just something in your life you have to go through. Also im not old enough to be married nor divorced.... But. it has to be better to go through this as adults with your wife. Dont be mad at each other.... Were here for your bro. Head up!

  • I'm sorry mr. dunkus, that was real big of you to let out, wow. Been here for a while and always will be

  • Matt, I'm really surprised you were able to get together this commentary. I would never be able to get enough guts to do it, especially with trolls. I'm really happy to know you actually know you subscribers aren't just a random group of people, you actually see them as individuals. Lots of love, good luck in the future

  • Keep your head up dude! <3

  • Wow... I got teary eyed during this commentary. I feel your pain and I'm sorry about your situation... hope it gets better.

  • I have also been through a divorce and at the age of only 25 after 5 years of marriage. We just found that things were not going in the direction we liked and knew that if we stayed together it would only have made things worse. It was very rough at the time because I felt very lost, but it was also the best thing for my life. I ended up meeting a wonderful woman years later who was the jelly to my peanut butter lol. We now have two kids and life is great. Stumbling blocks are only temporary

  • i thought she took your xbox lol jk... stay strong bro

  • i had a tears in my eyes listening to this

  • go live with Bendro

  • This left me speechless, such an incredible video you've put out here my friend. I'm so glad you shared this with us as you know we're all here to support you. Stay strong bud, stay strong.

  • I'm so sorry to hear that Dunkus...

    Just want you to know that we're all here for you man.

    Stay strong! <3

  • OH MY GOD. Dunkus, i love you for this man. For you to be this real with us is truly amazing. If it means anything we can share my dog now. He's a boxer too and his name is Tyson.

  • its ok dunkus i am here for you

  • I completely understand why you're so broken up about shelby, stay strong man you have lots of people who love you and your videos

  • ya dunkus!

  • i fucking love you

  • Coming from a Cat person, I understand this entirely. I come home from work and look forward to my cat laying on my pillow next to me. While there's not nearly the amount that you can do with cats as you can with dogs, we still understand man.

    Keep strong.

  • Matt i am so sorry and i was confused in the new you posted a coupe of minutes ago but when i saw this i understand man im sorry you need a hug ill give you a youtube hug right now i hope that makes you feel better i am a true fan of your vids man

  • this never ended got to my sub box.... much love

  • @l0l0l0lTONYl0l0l0l just realized I tried to say that 2 different ways at once

  • <3 you Matt.

  • Wow you should've kept Shelby. That's bs. I'm sorry man. :(

  • aww man she took the dog!? dude that sucks. i would be sooo angry. i hope things get better buddy because you deserve more.

    Love Crackice :)

  • how does someone dislike that? like really

  • Damn dunk im sorry.

  • wow he really loved her, what ever happened between them must of been bad cause he is really hurting.

  • We still love you Matt and its unfortunate that you had to get divorced so early in life, but i'm sure you'll find a new Mrs Dunkas

    <3 the Shelby we miss you too

  • Matt, I totally understand what you are going through. Why? I am older than your average sub and I also went through a rough time with a divorce. I like that fact you are sounding positive in that life is good now. Hang in there man, it will get better. You are a great guy and somewhere out there is a great girl, it just takes time.Sorry about the dog, man that is rough, really rough. Good luck

  • that's tough man. i've been with a girl for a while, and the only reason i ain't moving forward is because i'm terrified of this happening. i can't imagine the hurt you're feeling, and i know a comment from a random isn't going to instantly brighten your world. but i hope things turn out well for you and you're ok moving on. the night is darkest right before the dawn... right?

  • It doesn't matter who ends a relationship, it still hurts. Especially when it's a marriage. Being hateful to the other person isn't the mature thing to do in a situation like this. Support is whats really needed. We love ya.

  • I just want to say that we aren't heartless bastards and i would like to help you on a personal level. Your a cool guy and sound like you need a hug. I would give it to you but i don't know where u live.

    Stay strong man i would feel the same way if my dog (Max) was taken from me.

  • Good luck dunkus. I wish you the best. I feel your pain for Shelby. I had a dog too and it died when I was 10. Though that was a long time ago and that event was totally different then what has happened to you, I feel what you are going through. Good thing is that of only gets better now.

  • i love animals too. feel ya bro

  • I love you Dunky. I hope the best for the future!

  • I wish u the very best of luck man... take care of urself... couse u are a great man and a great person, so stay strong and things will get better

  • I wish u the very best of luck man... take care of urself... couse u are a great man and a great person, so stay strong and things will get better

  • Good luck man, i wish you the best.

  • take care of yourself man!

  • keep up the great work Matt, its funny how things fall into place sometimes. But it'lll get better. Take care.

  • I wish only the best for you Mr. Dunkus.

  • i like this video everyday <3

  • Dunkus I'm glad you felt you could share that with your subscribers and i thank you. Everyone please stop hating or responding to the haters, it doesn't make matters better it just makes them worse. -3