I am a Guardian Ad Litem at the New York City Civil Court. First, there is NOT enough information in this video to determine why a judge granted an Article 81 Guardianship for this man. Second, I did NOT hear that he was medically re-evaluated. Third, as A Guardian Ad Litem, I provide a good service for people who are unable to defend themselves. I have defended a multitude of people from opposing attorneys who wanted to have them evicted. Thus, guardianship is not all bad.
He should find a lawyer some one who is willing to take his case to appeal the decision of the court also he should contact someone who is responsible for the apartment he lives in like his land lords boss write a letter to them explaining what is wrong in his apartment and what needs to be fixed and tell them that the land lord refuses to do anything about it and if this continues he wont be paying any of his rent ! (cont)
@wildstarfall my family also lives in an apartment and when we find problems with any part of the apartment needs repairs we put it in writing and give it to the landlord and if nothing is done we don't pay rent it actually states by the company that if we put it in writing the repairs that need to be done and give it to the land lord and she doesn't fix it we are allowed to withhold money until the repairs are done
MY neighbor had a guardian. The guardian paid herself every time she visited and charged $1.00 per mile to drive from her house to visit my neighbor and 18.00 dollars an hour - again from her house to see him every day. I know this because she told me so and bragged about it! This man gets social security but ownes his house... the way I see it the guardian is sucking this guy dry. The judge needs to know that using guardian needs to be a last choice not a first choice.
Amen to the NASGA. As a family member, I had to suffer on multiple accounts by the abuse of an incompetent lawyer, then a second lawyer who referred me to a so called "social worker" who in turn wasn't able to get secure funding for my loved one in the nursing home. Then the guardian appointed only cared about money and I doubt did any work regarding securing government funding for my loved one. It's a nightmare.
Hi. I am seeking justice for Clara Marsh and her rightful heirs. You could help by taking the time to repost your YouTube comment on the video: CLARA'S TALE.
I found the judges name in the notes - nevermind. Judge Cutrona will pull his head out of the sand and be glad to - just to get me off his back. Hang on Murry.
Check out Clara1916 on youtube. Even after Clara passed away, her guardian tried to use Clara's cremains as a bargaining chip in his dealings with his former ward's family.
NASGA is made up of victims of guardianship, past and present, and we are not being emotional, but factual. Guardianship is a black hole that is almost impossible to escape from, fostered by a corrupt legal system. Our stories are very real. Hope you never have to experience what we have been through.
Would you be willing to help out the victim of an unwarranted and unnecessary guardianship initiated by a greedy daughter and son-in-law with their own agenda? Although Clara Marsh is now deceased, she is still being mistreated by people she thought she could trust. PLEASE REPOST YOUR YOUTUBE COMMENT TO THE VIDEOS ON ON CLARA'S CHANNEL - Clara1916. Thanks!
According to the law of NY, appointment of a guardian for a person should only be done as a last resort. Most Judges just appoint a guardian, period. It seems to me that many times, the whole issue is about money.l Once appointed, it is almost impossible to get rid of the guardian, unless you run out of money.
This man may have needed a guardian before, but he seems to me to understand and know what he wants, needs, and and what would be in his best interest now.
He is working and he knows what he needs and what is in his best interest so leave him alone.
NASGA hears daily of the abuse that they as family members of the elderly are acused of doing to their loved ones. The error comes by that family member not being charged with abuse, but then APS, courts and attornies ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS, and I for one would love to bring CRIMINAL CHARGES against each and every one of these people.
Questionable guardianship? First of all, how Murray became conserved is not as relevant today as how he can improve his life with a replacement. Health needs must be met, dental and hearing, which equals understanding.
There are many elderly who have problem hearing and are perceived incompetent becasue
they seem not to understand when all they
really suffer are not being able to hear you.
In any event, a family or friend seem best to
aid Murray in his life choices-as most of us want.
If the man is capable of working, how can it be claimed that he is incapacitated? He's DEAF, judge - not dumb! Give him his hearing aids and terminate the guardianship!
If the law says PROTECT, what is the guardian service doing to protect the man - when they are denying him his own money for hearing aids and dentistry?
If the law says CONSERVE, how are they conserving his assets, while billing his estate for fees?
BAD JUDGES ARE TO BLAME FOR NOT OBEYING THE LAW! GET THEM OFF THE BENCH!
Murray doesn't want the "protection" of a guardianship. That's all that matters. I'm free to improve my life or destroy it, why shouldn't he have the same freedom? NASGA can't be wrong, we are giving Murray a voice when no one else will listen.
Okay, nasga that is fine, but here's the problem I am having. Why did he need the "protection" of a guardian in the first place? If he was having issues with his landlord why didn't he just file and HPD action? Something isn't right here. One doesn't get a guardian because you have a problem with your landlord. Why can't you be wrong? are you infallible? Why has everyone rejected his claims? This is all I am asking, but it seems that I am being attacked for asking sensible questions. Thanks
You use the words "et al" a legal term, and by the way you answered the question as to whether you work for the guardian, I would guess you are the attorney. Are you an attorney for selfhelp community services inc?
No. I guess my education just lends to the usage of certain words and phrases. I am just a person with intimate knowledge of guardianship, the legal system and the like. I've seen all sides of the issue, abuse, protection and all the rest. I can appreciate watchdogs. I know about MHLS and other advocates. I just see many holes in this case. I'm sorry, just my viewpoint. I won't post anymore, but I do believe that your group made a mistake here and it's unfortunate. Take care.
Hey Nasga. I think it's only fair that you know that I am a someone who's worked for MANY years in the social service arena. Much like yourself,I try to save lives daily.I know these issues and I can easily read this story and see the SERIOUS problems with it. I see the posts and people are simply emotional. There are too many regulations on guardianship. I believe you made a serious error. just my understanding from what i've seen here. just wanted to post my thoughts. I'll go away. take care
urgieingadavis please be sure to check in to find out how this case concludes.
I will add I think you are jumping to conclusions assuming you know the unknown and most importantly you are missing the point.
You see emotion we see INJUSTICE in the guardianship system and many of us have been forced to watch our beloved family member endure cruel inhumane treatment with approval of their guardians.
I strongly believe Mr. Feingold must be set free from his slave owners.
Errors are being made daily, and the main errors being made are from people like APS, judges, attornies, and guardians who take people over, and say that they are going to PROTECT them, and in fact the world needs to know that what is happening to our elderly is that they are infact being abused by the SAME ONES WHO TAKE AN OATH TO PROTECT THEM.
One more thing Nagsa, I think it's wonderful that you want to give a voice to the people, However, what if you made a mistake here, what if you are wrong? (which I believe you are) What then? What a HUGE disservice this would be for your cause. You'd be completely discredited and viewed as crusading kooks. That would be very unfortunate for people who honestly may need this type of assistance. This is why I find this deplorable. I'm done here, as you have not convinced me of anything. Take care
just one question to helensniece, nasga et al. if you are wrong, would you be honest and apologize to the guardian, the judge, the people that would have been duped? Would you? Take care
urgieingadavis with my knowledge and my background I do not and I am not jumping to any conclusions, ever.
What I know about Mr. Feingold and how I know it is not a topic for debate in a public forum.
The truth will come out and we will see who is apologizing to whom.
READ THE BOOK: MARKED FOR DESTRUCTION by John Caravella. His book is based on facts, the guardian was convicted the loop of crooks, were outed and identified and in the end no one apologized to victim Adele.
Thank you Helensniece. I appreciate the book recommendation. However, I still do believe that you have not vetted this situation appropriately, but that is my opinion. Moreover, I do believe that you are correct that when the truth does surface I believe I will be proven correct, as there is probably much more to this story than appears here. You have a right to your opinion, I just believe it is not based on facts. Please stay objective. Take care
@urgieingadavis so true, we don't know the whole story behind an old person being so called "abused" we don't know for fact if some people are being provoked to abuse the elderly.
maybe some old people are really the criminals, maybe some old people always start the fights, no one knows.
@Pedrewthemegatard Actually people who are victimized no all too well how the system is not fair. If someone needs help the state should pay for it not the person who needs the help. This will take away incentive to prematurely appoint guardians.
If anyone thinks a guardianship can't just be appointed for no reason, do a search on youtube for "Esta Varon" and follow it up with the Fox 5 videos by Mary Garafalo part 1 and part 2.
MARKED FOR DESTRUCTION is a shocking account by JOHN CARAVELLA a retired WI police officer the victim's name is Adele. Her guardian was investigated prosecuted and convicted of felonies. The facts proved that Adele was not her first victim "mark" but Adele was the guardian's last victim. There were 3 in this loop of probate crooks.
A true account of one example of how the guardianship system is being used as a way of seizing and stealing money with court approval.
What I find abusive Imamensa is that you exploited a person with issues for your own gain. You are not interested in helping Murray, for if you were you would have spoken to the guardian BEFORE you posted this. You took the word of Murray, and only murray. Does murray have family? do they receive income, as well? Might murray have ordered inappropriate hearing aides for his condition? Do you think investigations done about murray might have found his claims to be unsubstantiated?
Dear urgieingadavis, as a matter of fact, a person can "just get PUT INTO guardianship," if he has money that someone wants to steal. If you actually think that APS and the courts aren't corrupt, then you are living in fantasyland. Tell me why APS took legal action against me, accusing me of abusing my mother, for whom I had provided care for five years, without filing charges against me. We are in the USA, not Russia. Conveniently, this happened after my dad died.
Hey, I'm sorry about you experience with APS, but I am talking specifics here. Guardianship agencies are accountable to the courts aren't they? you can't just paint a broad brush here. they have to file accountings of how they handle money. So I again ask a very simple question. What was it that got this guy into guardianship? What was up with his behavior or issues? A group shouldn't smear a guardian without cause or having done a complete investigation. Do you see my point?
Nasgaadvocate, what I am seeing in "this" case is a one-sided attack without any evidence. a story concocted to tug at people's heartstrings without any real back up or evidence. I see a smear against a guardian, an attack on a Judge and all sorts of allegations, but NO PROOF. Look, I am not trying to pick a fight, but I know guardianship and it is not always as cut and dry as this video has attempted to make it out. Unfortunately, it appears that those that did this didn't properly investigate
Excuse me urgieingadavis but you are picking a fight without knowing the facts of the case.
Have you reviewed the case? The file?
The truth about Mr. Murray Feingold's guardianship situation will come out in full.
Mr. Feingold asked for help. Did he contact you to come to his rescue? If not, please withhold your opinions and assumptions until the facts of this case are released.
Obviously, you are not reading what has already been posted. Someone already tried to call the guardian, and no response. Murray's case was fully investigated, and your only purpose is to being up irrelevant issues to take the focus off the main complaint which is that the man is not having his basic needs met. SelfHelf Community Services takes a commission out of Murray's money and they are not doing their job. Case closed.
are you POSITIVE they take a commission? are you certain the case was FULLY investigated. Would you swear to that? That's a strong accusation! Do you have any proof of that? I hear your allegations, but that's all they are. I read the print very carefully. How do you know his needs aren't being met? Please tell me ONE THING, Why did he come into a guardianship? I keep asking that, but no one can seem to answer it. What was going on that he couldn't handle?
you never investigated anything! this is onesided garbage. People are hanging on your every word, but you KNOW you did not do an investigation. Was murray in rent arrears? What was the condition of his home at the time of guardianship? What were his debts if any? One person indicates he would have been homeless if not for guardianship. Are all his bills paid then he get $325 walking around cash? what are his spending habits? might that have warranted a guardian? what. you are misleading folks!
I would guess that you might work for SelfHelp...Why dont you identify that fact? Murray's situation has changed since 2002 when he first got a guardian. Now be honest, if you made $ 50,000 a year PLUS overtime would you turn it over to a guardian if the guardian gave you an allowance of $325 "walking around cash" for you and your spouse, Oh wait, there would be one more condition, you would have to give up ALL OF YOUR RIGHTS. Does this sound like a good deal to you???
I don't have to work for a guardianship agency, I just have to know guardianship which I do. My question to you is this, what precipitated this man's guardianship. You just don't get PUT INTO guardianship now do you? How has his situation changed? was it because of the guardian? These are the questions you seem to have left out, and I find that deplorable. Are there abusive situations? I am sure, but is this one? It doesn't seem to add up to one. as far as the money, are his bills paid?
you said this man works, his bills are paid, so again WHY DID HE COME INTO GUARDIANSHIP? My knowledge of the procedures indicates there must be a court hearing. In NY, don't you have to go through APS first? Why wasn't the family initially made guardian. Do you see why there seems to be more to this than you've indicated? Again, I suggest you go visit the guardian with murray. wouldn't they speak with you if murray says it's okay? you'd have more credibility and I'll bet you're mistaken
So Imamensa, if you did not contact the guardian, then you posted this only based on one point of view, then it sounds like you were coaching him, IMHO that would be an injustice. You've exploited someone and discredited your agency or group by misleading people. That's a travesty. You've attempted to ignite a fire without doing a thorough investigation. Unfortunately, I believe that discredits you and your organization. Sorry, just my opinion.
His guardian is a company called Selfhelp Community Services in NY. I met with Murray in person and he is in need of a hearing aid and dental work. A family member wants to be his guardian instead of Self help. You may not know that a guardianship takes away all of his rights. Would you word full time OVERTIME like Murray does? You should visit this website and learn the truth about how this legal process is a nightmare for the person and their family
you are clueless, and you don't know anything about murray or the guardianship, for if you did, you wouldn't be making baseless accusations. Did you contact the guardianship? did you try to verify any of your claims? NO YOU DID NOT. DO you know why he is in guardianship? You are doing a disservice not only to murray, as you've exploited his situation, but to others that might actually need real help with abusive guardians. You should be ashamed!!!
I read Murray's entire file at the courthouse, spoke to his family, met him in person, saw the accounting from Self Help, and tried to contact them but they did not return my calls. Please advise me what you think I should do to help him get a hearing aid and dental work which are needed for his physical well being? Learn about abusive guardians at the website for NASGA. National Association to Stop Guardian abuse. Thanks for your help.
THen, you obviously don't understand what you read, and you don't know murray. If you read his file and you spoke to family then you know that what you posted is nonsense. Why was family denied guardianship? when did he go to get his hearing checked? how many years did the guardian encourage him to go? Same with his teeth. what is murray's condition that warranted a guardian? Why don't you go visit the guardian with murray, I am sure they'll speak with you. Find out what's really up!
I was Murray's gaurdian. if it wasnt for the gaurdianship murray would have been homeless, psychotic, wandering the streets or in a psychiatric facility. None of you have any clue about Murray, his condition or his situation
AMAZING! Absolutely an amazing statement according to you Mr. Murray Feingold would be:
1)Homeless?
2)Psychotic?
3)Wandering the streets?
4)In a psychiatric facility?
My, oh, my you and the NY guardian system must be classified as: THE MIRACLE WORKERS, because Mr. Feingold appears to be a very normal productive human being who is angry that he is being used as a slave with court approval.
How many other MIRACLE cases are related to your position as a guardian?
You said something interesting, that he APPEARS to be a very normal productive person. Do we know that for sure? What do we know? That's my point. I've seen many guardianship cases and it's not always that simple. What if those statements are true, how would you feel then? Would you apologize to the guardian, the judge etc.. or would you continue supporting baseless allegations?
This man has had his civil rights violated and to add insult to injury, you are profiting from it. If we had the same system in place for children, everyone would scream from the rooftops and yet somehow the elderly have become paychecks to you predators. This man has lost his ability to make choices in his life, frankly I would opt to be homeless before I would want you monsters to run my life. You may think you are enlightened when in fact you are simply a common criminal.
How do you know anything that you are saying? that's all I am asking. How do you KNOW the guardian is "profiting" from him? Is there any proof of this? Can anyone tell me why he came into guardianship? PLEASE, stop for one minute and answer that question. iammensa, you mentioned you read the file, please tell me how he came to have a guardian. What type of guardianship is it? See, I am asking what I believe are relevant questions before I draw any conclusions. Thank you.
All guardians profit from the wards funds sir. That is a fact. Some states set limits but most leave it to be discretionary. As a social worker, you make referrals but probably have little contact after the fact when the estates are drained and the family is kept away.
Murray Feingold just wants his life back and to end the nightmare of guardianship which has seen to taking his money without tending to his health needs.
He stands proudly and asks for help and for the judge to listen to him.
Please pass this video link around. The power of the people can help Murray.
You are in my prayers Murray. If this doesn't get people to stand up against elder abuse by the guardianship system, I don't know what will. How can this be happening in America?
I'm so sorry you have to go thru this nightmare. I can understand your frustrations. These greedy slimebag guardians need to be stopped,as well as the corrupt Judges in Probate. I hope the National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse can be of some help. There are a lot of us in the same boat from many different states. I'm from Connecticut.
Murray, I'm so sorry that you are in this situation! It's unbelievable how much power these people have but I know from my own experience that it is true and there appears to be no way out.Guardianship is a racket, a court sanctioned RACKET and the public at large is unaware or apparently does not believe this can happen. It can and it does. Thank you for sharing your story with youtube. Getting the word out to the world will make all the difference.
Does this video sound too terrible to be true? Think this couldn't possibly happen in the USA? Think again. It can happen to you or a loved one, and once you are in the system it is virtually impossible to get out. You are a prisoner of the court system- slavery DOES exist!!!
You can read more details of what happened to Muarry at the top right hand side of this page. Under the date October 12, 2008, there are the words (more info). Click on them.
This is shameful. This shows that holding job is no defense against predatory guardians. Murray, Get this out in the open as much as possible. Hopefully public pressure will free you.
This guardianship treats Mr. Feingold as a dog - he works and performs for his master, the guardian, and then is "rewarded" with a mere pittance -- of his own money! The guardian eats steak; Feingold eats scraps.
Is this guardianship in Feingold's best interest? No way!
Hopefully, Feingold's judge will see this video and pay attention to him - for once.
What's happening to this man is absolutely outrageous!
ripping this man and his wife off to pad his/her own pockets.......and the Judge....you deserve to be REPRIMANDED to the full extent of the LAW.....the Judge and the Guardian are nothing but ABUSERS to line your own pockets...........Citizens/Taxpayers WE NEED TO STAND UP AGAINST GURADIANSHIP ABUSE and the INJUSTUSTICE SYSTEM because if they can do this to Feingold, they can do this to you and me......
Do you or someone you know have a similar story? If so, we would like to hear from you. Please visit our webpage at National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse where you will find a way to email us. All correspondence will be kept confidential.
GUARDIAN AD LITEM
I am a Guardian Ad Litem at the New York City Civil Court. First, there is NOT enough information in this video to determine why a judge granted an Article 81 Guardianship for this man. Second, I did NOT hear that he was medically re-evaluated. Third, as A Guardian Ad Litem, I provide a good service for people who are unable to defend themselves. I have defended a multitude of people from opposing attorneys who wanted to have them evicted. Thus, guardianship is not all bad.
CrookedJudges 6 months ago
Taking a look at what has been posted myself
He should find a lawyer some one who is willing to take his case to appeal the decision of the court also he should contact someone who is responsible for the apartment he lives in like his land lords boss write a letter to them explaining what is wrong in his apartment and what needs to be fixed and tell them that the land lord refuses to do anything about it and if this continues he wont be paying any of his rent ! (cont)
wildstarfall 1 year ago
@wildstarfall my family also lives in an apartment and when we find problems with any part of the apartment needs repairs we put it in writing and give it to the landlord and if nothing is done we don't pay rent it actually states by the company that if we put it in writing the repairs that need to be done and give it to the land lord and she doesn't fix it we are allowed to withhold money until the repairs are done
wildstarfall 1 year ago
yes a middle aged person should NEVER ABUSE AN OLD PERSON
but...
an old person should NEVER ABUSE A MIDDLE AGED PERSON!!!!!!!!
quit the ageism already.
the fact is no one should abuse no one.
Pedrewthemegatard 1 year ago
MY neighbor had a guardian. The guardian paid herself every time she visited and charged $1.00 per mile to drive from her house to visit my neighbor and 18.00 dollars an hour - again from her house to see him every day. I know this because she told me so and bragged about it! This man gets social security but ownes his house... the way I see it the guardian is sucking this guy dry. The judge needs to know that using guardian needs to be a last choice not a first choice.
AuDNetvideo 1 year ago
that's true but there are old people who are the abusers too and that's no better,
it's probably even worst,
verbal abuse counts.
SergentSpain 1 year ago
I'm really getting sick of your continuing abuse of the elderly
vowelsNverbsRbrokeOr 2 years ago
Amen to the NASGA. As a family member, I had to suffer on multiple accounts by the abuse of an incompetent lawyer, then a second lawyer who referred me to a so called "social worker" who in turn wasn't able to get secure funding for my loved one in the nursing home. Then the guardian appointed only cared about money and I doubt did any work regarding securing government funding for my loved one. It's a nightmare.
34thstreetman 2 years ago 2
Breat video!
These "guardians" are crooks. A similar scam is happening in the secret family courts - Cascass.
realzoomy 2 years ago 5
Anyone who watches this video can see for sure that Murray Feingold is competent and is a slave to his "guardian".
scuds2 2 years ago 4
This is horrible. This is worst than torture.
What can we do to help?
mechanesthesia 2 years ago 5
The guardianship racket is working in the best interest of the guardians!
This guardianship abuse with court approval is out of control it is worse than physical torture.
Mr. Feingold is forced to submit his entire paycheck to these crooks since 2002.
7 Years!
What are the guardians doing to begin to justify why they are taking his paycheck from him?
He cannot retire he knows the guardians will seize his pension.
Want to help? Please Join NASGA
helensniece 2 years ago 2
we cant really do anything, but i completely agree with what u said.
its actually up to the ppl to want to do something about it
SuperStarstruckGirl 2 years ago
He should buy a gun and shoot the crooked judge!
pjperalta 3 years ago 5
This is yet another shame in this sick sick situation. These people who take over peoples lives are animals.
ImAngeIam 3 years ago 7
Hi. I am seeking justice for Clara Marsh and her rightful heirs. You could help by taking the time to repost your YouTube comment on the video: CLARA'S TALE.
Thanks!
Clara1916 3 years ago 3
I found the judges name in the notes - nevermind. Judge Cutrona will pull his head out of the sand and be glad to - just to get me off his back. Hang on Murry.
hangingonat60 3 years ago 10
What is the name of the judge?
Anthony Jacob ____________
The man just has a hearing problem!
My boss has half the intelligence of this man. This is awful!
hangingonat60 3 years ago 9
Check out Clara1916 on youtube. Even after Clara passed away, her guardian tried to use Clara's cremains as a bargaining chip in his dealings with his former ward's family.
ChapalaFan 3 years ago 7
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Check out Clara1916 on youtube...
Clara's Nightmare and Clara's Nightmare - Part II.
Clara1916 3 years ago
NASGA is made up of victims of guardianship, past and present, and we are not being emotional, but factual. Guardianship is a black hole that is almost impossible to escape from, fostered by a corrupt legal system. Our stories are very real. Hope you never have to experience what we have been through.
IndependentFMXer 3 years ago 7
Would you be willing to help out the victim of an unwarranted and unnecessary guardianship initiated by a greedy daughter and son-in-law with their own agenda? Although Clara Marsh is now deceased, she is still being mistreated by people she thought she could trust. PLEASE REPOST YOUR YOUTUBE COMMENT TO THE VIDEOS ON ON CLARA'S CHANNEL - Clara1916. Thanks!
Clara1916 3 years ago 5
According to the law of NY, appointment of a guardian for a person should only be done as a last resort. Most Judges just appoint a guardian, period. It seems to me that many times, the whole issue is about money.l Once appointed, it is almost impossible to get rid of the guardian, unless you run out of money.
imamensa 3 years ago 3
This man may have needed a guardian before, but he seems to me to understand and know what he wants, needs, and and what would be in his best interest now.
He is working and he knows what he needs and what is in his best interest so leave him alone.
kimmanire1 3 years ago 2
NASGA hears daily of the abuse that they as family members of the elderly are acused of doing to their loved ones. The error comes by that family member not being charged with abuse, but then APS, courts and attornies ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS, and I for one would love to bring CRIMINAL CHARGES against each and every one of these people.
kimmanire1 3 years ago 3
Questionable guardianship? First of all, how Murray became conserved is not as relevant today as how he can improve his life with a replacement. Health needs must be met, dental and hearing, which equals understanding.
There are many elderly who have problem hearing and are perceived incompetent becasue
they seem not to understand when all they
really suffer are not being able to hear you.
In any event, a family or friend seem best to
aid Murray in his life choices-as most of us want.
dee2utube 3 years ago 2
If the man is capable of working, how can it be claimed that he is incapacitated? He's DEAF, judge - not dumb! Give him his hearing aids and terminate the guardianship!
If the law says PROTECT, what is the guardian service doing to protect the man - when they are denying him his own money for hearing aids and dentistry?
If the law says CONSERVE, how are they conserving his assets, while billing his estate for fees?
BAD JUDGES ARE TO BLAME FOR NOT OBEYING THE LAW! GET THEM OFF THE BENCH!
LoriView 3 years ago
Murray doesn't want the "protection" of a guardianship. That's all that matters. I'm free to improve my life or destroy it, why shouldn't he have the same freedom? NASGA can't be wrong, we are giving Murray a voice when no one else will listen.
NASGAadvocate 3 years ago
Okay, nasga that is fine, but here's the problem I am having. Why did he need the "protection" of a guardian in the first place? If he was having issues with his landlord why didn't he just file and HPD action? Something isn't right here. One doesn't get a guardian because you have a problem with your landlord. Why can't you be wrong? are you infallible? Why has everyone rejected his claims? This is all I am asking, but it seems that I am being attacked for asking sensible questions. Thanks
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
You use the words "et al" a legal term, and by the way you answered the question as to whether you work for the guardian, I would guess you are the attorney. Are you an attorney for selfhelp community services inc?
nasgamedia 3 years ago
No. I guess my education just lends to the usage of certain words and phrases. I am just a person with intimate knowledge of guardianship, the legal system and the like. I've seen all sides of the issue, abuse, protection and all the rest. I can appreciate watchdogs. I know about MHLS and other advocates. I just see many holes in this case. I'm sorry, just my viewpoint. I won't post anymore, but I do believe that your group made a mistake here and it's unfortunate. Take care.
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
Hey Nasga. I think it's only fair that you know that I am a someone who's worked for MANY years in the social service arena. Much like yourself,I try to save lives daily.I know these issues and I can easily read this story and see the SERIOUS problems with it. I see the posts and people are simply emotional. There are too many regulations on guardianship. I believe you made a serious error. just my understanding from what i've seen here. just wanted to post my thoughts. I'll go away. take care
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
urgieingadavis please be sure to check in to find out how this case concludes.
I will add I think you are jumping to conclusions assuming you know the unknown and most importantly you are missing the point.
You see emotion we see INJUSTICE in the guardianship system and many of us have been forced to watch our beloved family member endure cruel inhumane treatment with approval of their guardians.
I strongly believe Mr. Feingold must be set free from his slave owners.
helensniece 3 years ago
Errors are being made daily, and the main errors being made are from people like APS, judges, attornies, and guardians who take people over, and say that they are going to PROTECT them, and in fact the world needs to know that what is happening to our elderly is that they are infact being abused by the SAME ONES WHO TAKE AN OATH TO PROTECT THEM.
Continiue
kimmanire1 3 years ago
One more thing Nagsa, I think it's wonderful that you want to give a voice to the people, However, what if you made a mistake here, what if you are wrong? (which I believe you are) What then? What a HUGE disservice this would be for your cause. You'd be completely discredited and viewed as crusading kooks. That would be very unfortunate for people who honestly may need this type of assistance. This is why I find this deplorable. I'm done here, as you have not convinced me of anything. Take care
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
I can't think of a better way of expressing it than the words you've chosen here!
scuds2 3 years ago 9
just one question to helensniece, nasga et al. if you are wrong, would you be honest and apologize to the guardian, the judge, the people that would have been duped? Would you? Take care
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
I'm just being reasonable, no fishing. What do you know about the case? You know about as much as me, NOTHING, but you will jump to conclusions!!!
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
urgieingadavis with my knowledge and my background I do not and I am not jumping to any conclusions, ever.
What I know about Mr. Feingold and how I know it is not a topic for debate in a public forum.
The truth will come out and we will see who is apologizing to whom.
READ THE BOOK: MARKED FOR DESTRUCTION by John Caravella. His book is based on facts, the guardian was convicted the loop of crooks, were outed and identified and in the end no one apologized to victim Adele.
helensniece 3 years ago
Thank you Helensniece. I appreciate the book recommendation. However, I still do believe that you have not vetted this situation appropriately, but that is my opinion. Moreover, I do believe that you are correct that when the truth does surface I believe I will be proven correct, as there is probably much more to this story than appears here. You have a right to your opinion, I just believe it is not based on facts. Please stay objective. Take care
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
@urgieingadavis so true, we don't know the whole story behind an old person being so called "abused" we don't know for fact if some people are being provoked to abuse the elderly.
maybe some old people are really the criminals, maybe some old people always start the fights, no one knows.
Pedrewthemegatard 1 year ago
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34thstreetman 4 months ago
@Pedrewthemegatard Actually people who are victimized no all too well how the system is not fair. If someone needs help the state should pay for it not the person who needs the help. This will take away incentive to prematurely appoint guardians.
34thstreetman 4 months ago
If anyone thinks a guardianship can't just be appointed for no reason, do a search on youtube for "Esta Varon" and follow it up with the Fox 5 videos by Mary Garafalo part 1 and part 2.
nasgamedia 3 years ago
READ THIS BOOK:
MARKED FOR DESTRUCTION is a shocking account by JOHN CARAVELLA a retired WI police officer the victim's name is Adele. Her guardian was investigated prosecuted and convicted of felonies. The facts proved that Adele was not her first victim "mark" but Adele was the guardian's last victim. There were 3 in this loop of probate crooks.
A true account of one example of how the guardianship system is being used as a way of seizing and stealing money with court approval.
helensniece 3 years ago
What I find abusive Imamensa is that you exploited a person with issues for your own gain. You are not interested in helping Murray, for if you were you would have spoken to the guardian BEFORE you posted this. You took the word of Murray, and only murray. Does murray have family? do they receive income, as well? Might murray have ordered inappropriate hearing aides for his condition? Do you think investigations done about murray might have found his claims to be unsubstantiated?
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
Dear urgieingadavis, as a matter of fact, a person can "just get PUT INTO guardianship," if he has money that someone wants to steal. If you actually think that APS and the courts aren't corrupt, then you are living in fantasyland. Tell me why APS took legal action against me, accusing me of abusing my mother, for whom I had provided care for five years, without filing charges against me. We are in the USA, not Russia. Conveniently, this happened after my dad died.
NASGAadvocate 3 years ago
Hey, I'm sorry about you experience with APS, but I am talking specifics here. Guardianship agencies are accountable to the courts aren't they? you can't just paint a broad brush here. they have to file accountings of how they handle money. So I again ask a very simple question. What was it that got this guy into guardianship? What was up with his behavior or issues? A group shouldn't smear a guardian without cause or having done a complete investigation. Do you see my point?
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
Nasgaadvocate, what I am seeing in "this" case is a one-sided attack without any evidence. a story concocted to tug at people's heartstrings without any real back up or evidence. I see a smear against a guardian, an attack on a Judge and all sorts of allegations, but NO PROOF. Look, I am not trying to pick a fight, but I know guardianship and it is not always as cut and dry as this video has attempted to make it out. Unfortunately, it appears that those that did this didn't properly investigate
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
Excuse me urgieingadavis but you are picking a fight without knowing the facts of the case.
Have you reviewed the case? The file?
The truth about Mr. Murray Feingold's guardianship situation will come out in full.
Mr. Feingold asked for help. Did he contact you to come to his rescue? If not, please withhold your opinions and assumptions until the facts of this case are released.
helensniece 3 years ago
Obviously, you are not reading what has already been posted. Someone already tried to call the guardian, and no response. Murray's case was fully investigated, and your only purpose is to being up irrelevant issues to take the focus off the main complaint which is that the man is not having his basic needs met. SelfHelf Community Services takes a commission out of Murray's money and they are not doing their job. Case closed.
nasgamedia 3 years ago
are you POSITIVE they take a commission? are you certain the case was FULLY investigated. Would you swear to that? That's a strong accusation! Do you have any proof of that? I hear your allegations, but that's all they are. I read the print very carefully. How do you know his needs aren't being met? Please tell me ONE THING, Why did he come into a guardianship? I keep asking that, but no one can seem to answer it. What was going on that he couldn't handle?
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
CAUTION:
urgieingadavis in on a FISHING TRIP. I wonder why? Is this person baiting you to see what you/we know about this case?
helensniece 3 years ago
you never investigated anything! this is onesided garbage. People are hanging on your every word, but you KNOW you did not do an investigation. Was murray in rent arrears? What was the condition of his home at the time of guardianship? What were his debts if any? One person indicates he would have been homeless if not for guardianship. Are all his bills paid then he get $325 walking around cash? what are his spending habits? might that have warranted a guardian? what. you are misleading folks!
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
I would guess that you might work for SelfHelp...Why dont you identify that fact? Murray's situation has changed since 2002 when he first got a guardian. Now be honest, if you made $ 50,000 a year PLUS overtime would you turn it over to a guardian if the guardian gave you an allowance of $325 "walking around cash" for you and your spouse, Oh wait, there would be one more condition, you would have to give up ALL OF YOUR RIGHTS. Does this sound like a good deal to you???
imamensa 3 years ago
I don't have to work for a guardianship agency, I just have to know guardianship which I do. My question to you is this, what precipitated this man's guardianship. You just don't get PUT INTO guardianship now do you? How has his situation changed? was it because of the guardian? These are the questions you seem to have left out, and I find that deplorable. Are there abusive situations? I am sure, but is this one? It doesn't seem to add up to one. as far as the money, are his bills paid?
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
you said this man works, his bills are paid, so again WHY DID HE COME INTO GUARDIANSHIP? My knowledge of the procedures indicates there must be a court hearing. In NY, don't you have to go through APS first? Why wasn't the family initially made guardian. Do you see why there seems to be more to this than you've indicated? Again, I suggest you go visit the guardian with murray. wouldn't they speak with you if murray says it's okay? you'd have more credibility and I'll bet you're mistaken
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
So Imamensa, if you did not contact the guardian, then you posted this only based on one point of view, then it sounds like you were coaching him, IMHO that would be an injustice. You've exploited someone and discredited your agency or group by misleading people. That's a travesty. You've attempted to ignite a fire without doing a thorough investigation. Unfortunately, I believe that discredits you and your organization. Sorry, just my opinion.
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
His guardian is a company called Selfhelp Community Services in NY. I met with Murray in person and he is in need of a hearing aid and dental work. A family member wants to be his guardian instead of Self help. You may not know that a guardianship takes away all of his rights. Would you word full time OVERTIME like Murray does? You should visit this website and learn the truth about how this legal process is a nightmare for the person and their family
imamensa 3 years ago 2
you are clueless, and you don't know anything about murray or the guardianship, for if you did, you wouldn't be making baseless accusations. Did you contact the guardianship? did you try to verify any of your claims? NO YOU DID NOT. DO you know why he is in guardianship? You are doing a disservice not only to murray, as you've exploited his situation, but to others that might actually need real help with abusive guardians. You should be ashamed!!!
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
Dear urgleingdavis:
I read Murray's entire file at the courthouse, spoke to his family, met him in person, saw the accounting from Self Help, and tried to contact them but they did not return my calls. Please advise me what you think I should do to help him get a hearing aid and dental work which are needed for his physical well being? Learn about abusive guardians at the website for NASGA. National Association to Stop Guardian abuse. Thanks for your help.
imamensa 3 years ago 2
THen, you obviously don't understand what you read, and you don't know murray. If you read his file and you spoke to family then you know that what you posted is nonsense. Why was family denied guardianship? when did he go to get his hearing checked? how many years did the guardian encourage him to go? Same with his teeth. what is murray's condition that warranted a guardian? Why don't you go visit the guardian with murray, I am sure they'll speak with you. Find out what's really up!
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
To all,
I was Murray's gaurdian. if it wasnt for the gaurdianship murray would have been homeless, psychotic, wandering the streets or in a psychiatric facility. None of you have any clue about Murray, his condition or his situation
sirToucs 3 years ago
AMAZING! Absolutely an amazing statement according to you Mr. Murray Feingold would be:
1)Homeless?
2)Psychotic?
3)Wandering the streets?
4)In a psychiatric facility?
My, oh, my you and the NY guardian system must be classified as: THE MIRACLE WORKERS, because Mr. Feingold appears to be a very normal productive human being who is angry that he is being used as a slave with court approval.
How many other MIRACLE cases are related to your position as a guardian?
helensniece 3 years ago 2
You said something interesting, that he APPEARS to be a very normal productive person. Do we know that for sure? What do we know? That's my point. I've seen many guardianship cases and it's not always that simple. What if those statements are true, how would you feel then? Would you apologize to the guardian, the judge etc.. or would you continue supporting baseless allegations?
urgieingadavis 3 years ago
This man has had his civil rights violated and to add insult to injury, you are profiting from it. If we had the same system in place for children, everyone would scream from the rooftops and yet somehow the elderly have become paychecks to you predators. This man has lost his ability to make choices in his life, frankly I would opt to be homeless before I would want you monsters to run my life. You may think you are enlightened when in fact you are simply a common criminal.
stopbernardini 3 years ago
How do you know anything that you are saying? that's all I am asking. How do you KNOW the guardian is "profiting" from him? Is there any proof of this? Can anyone tell me why he came into guardianship? PLEASE, stop for one minute and answer that question. iammensa, you mentioned you read the file, please tell me how he came to have a guardian. What type of guardianship is it? See, I am asking what I believe are relevant questions before I draw any conclusions. Thank you.
urgieingadavis 3 years ago 2
All guardians profit from the wards funds sir. That is a fact. Some states set limits but most leave it to be discretionary. As a social worker, you make referrals but probably have little contact after the fact when the estates are drained and the family is kept away.
stopbernardini 2 years ago 3
This abuse is typical, and it happens in every state. Don't give up, Murray, there are lots of us working to help you,
NASGAadvocate 3 years ago 3
Murray Feingold just wants his life back and to end the nightmare of guardianship which has seen to taking his money without tending to his health needs.
He stands proudly and asks for help and for the judge to listen to him.
Please pass this video link around. The power of the people can help Murray.
scuds2 3 years ago
You are in my prayers Murray. If this doesn't get people to stand up against elder abuse by the guardianship system, I don't know what will. How can this be happening in America?
guardianshipvictims 3 years ago 3
Dear Murray
I'm so sorry you have to go thru this nightmare. I can understand your frustrations. These greedy slimebag guardians need to be stopped,as well as the corrupt Judges in Probate. I hope the National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse can be of some help. There are a lot of us in the same boat from many different states. I'm from Connecticut.
Berta4949 3 years ago 4
Murray, I'm so sorry that you are in this situation! It's unbelievable how much power these people have but I know from my own experience that it is true and there appears to be no way out.Guardianship is a racket, a court sanctioned RACKET and the public at large is unaware or apparently does not believe this can happen. It can and it does. Thank you for sharing your story with youtube. Getting the word out to the world will make all the difference.
kdlady92 3 years ago 3
Does this video sound too terrible to be true? Think this couldn't possibly happen in the USA? Think again. It can happen to you or a loved one, and once you are in the system it is virtually impossible to get out. You are a prisoner of the court system- slavery DOES exist!!!
IndependentFMXer 3 years ago 3
You can read more details of what happened to Muarry at the top right hand side of this page. Under the date October 12, 2008, there are the words (more info). Click on them.
nasgamedia 3 years ago
This is shameful. This shows that holding job is no defense against predatory guardians. Murray, Get this out in the open as much as possible. Hopefully public pressure will free you.
-Dave Orvis
daveandmartha 3 years ago 3
The Judge is a Disgusting PIG and I hope he ROTS in HELL
Debba99 3 years ago 4
This guardianship treats Mr. Feingold as a dog - he works and performs for his master, the guardian, and then is "rewarded" with a mere pittance -- of his own money! The guardian eats steak; Feingold eats scraps.
Is this guardianship in Feingold's best interest? No way!
Hopefully, Feingold's judge will see this video and pay attention to him - for once.
What's happening to this man is absolutely outrageous!
scuds2 3 years ago 5
I want to know who the Guardian ABUSER is;
he/she is a Disgusting LOW LIFE subhuman
ripping this man and his wife off to pad his/her own pockets.......and the Judge....you deserve to be REPRIMANDED to the full extent of the LAW.....the Judge and the Guardian are nothing but ABUSERS to line your own pockets...........Citizens/Taxpayers WE NEED TO STAND UP AGAINST GURADIANSHIP ABUSE and the INJUSTUSTICE SYSTEM because if they can do this to Feingold, they can do this to you and me......
Debba99 3 years ago 3
the guardian is a company called "Self help community guardianship, inc."
nasgamedia 3 years ago
This is beyond outrageous! Clearly, this is: Elder Abuse AND slavery. This is worse than a mugging in a dark alley by street thugs.
I would hope people in this victim's area would unite to protest and march on the courthouse until the judge grants this victim's request.
helensniece 3 years ago 6
Do you or someone you know have a similar story? If so, we would like to hear from you. Please visit our webpage at National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse where you will find a way to email us. All correspondence will be kept confidential.
imamensa 3 years ago 5