I agree, and for us that really are bisexual we get looked down apon because there are girls out ther who just do it because they think its cute or fun. I am so scared to tell anyone right now and I feel like if I do then everyone will just think that I am doing it for attention and Im really not that kind of person, but that is how a lot of girls act now
Well im glad someone else takes it srsly like me like omg y would u take it as a joke its just uncool n that guy getting beated just cos he is gay omg the people who did it need to grow up
i knew around the age of 7 that i liked girls....when all of my friends had crushes on the boys, i liked the girls. but i covered it up because i thought i was weird or different. when i was 12 i heard the term "bisexual" and just stuck with that, hoping one day i may "come to my senses", if you will" and like boys...well i didnt..im nearly 15 now and i know what i want. i like girls. im gay...i dont really know what that had to do with anything...just thought id share(:
what the hell? do you see that you're confusing people by telling them that bisexuality is or is related to monogamy.... I'm 14 and I'll decide who the fuck I like. Of course once you chose someone you'll stick to them, the people who decide not to are just ignorants, just as some straight people cheat on their own partners And then you blame katty perry? the fuck is wrong with you? Are you going to blame avril lavigne for having written girlfriend when a straight man cheats on his gf?
I Understand where you're coming from. I made a similar video just recently. However, I feel it is inaccurate to blame either Katy Perry or the Emo Scene. I remember being in high school and seeing myspace profiles where girls said they were bisexual when they weren't years prior to "I kissed a girl". Also, the Emo scene has it's roots all the way back to 1985. People back then weren't even politically correct, let alone posing as sexually ambiguous. However, I blame both for not helping.
I also agree that Katy Perry probably had a big role in the bisexual/homosexual fad, with her Kissed a Girl song (not sure about other songs, I don't pay much attention to her). There needs to be a medium between the hate and the popularity, where it's just a normal thing some people are born with. That's what I hate about pop culture, things become so popular so fast, and for really stupid reasons... People need to actually think about the things they do everyday.
lol I remember my first (and only) girlfriend I had was like in grade 7. Looking back on that, I realize that I only agreed to go out with her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings or something. And then after we broke up, some grade 5 girl wanted to go out with me, and I was like "fuck that" (not literally). I've gone through a TON of changes since then though, so that won't be happening again. Taking that into account, I agree that sexuality shouldn't be taken so lightly.
This is the most sense I have heard anybody speak about the topic in quite a while. Loved the story about the kid faking to be gay to get into girls' pants. I should say, tho', that there's a lot of people being really hurt by this fad. I know of some lesbians that make a sport out of trying to "turn" straight girls into lesbians (especially ones with boyfriends) just to shag her; and then they leave her with a huge sex identity crisis afterwards. Sounds almost socopathic...
There's a lot of girls at my old school who say they are lesbians, but sleep with guys all the time. They told me they turned lesbian because guys are douchebags. Its almost becoming so common that its fake. That was about 15 girls in a school of 100.
I agree, I'm bi and I don't date a female and male at the same time. It is just the same as when your straight you don't date two girls or two guys at the same time. Well I've seen that happen but it's not too common. My best friend is gay but didn't come out until she was 16, she even a had a boy friend in middle school, and now she is 20 & still gay. But What I'm saying is what you said made sense haha I really don't like the girls who say they are lesbian and sleep with men.
I see what you're saying exactly. I'm only 13. I know, I'm very young but I've found my self attracted to both genders since i was 8. I know for a HUGE fact I am bisexual. I haven't done it to be "cool". I just know.
You are right all except when you said that a 14 year old cannot decide their sexuality. I am 14 and I have known for sure that I am bisexual since I was twelve, all I needed was the hormones to start flowing and it was clear as day.
@elsietabatha okay - im fourteen i wouldnt dare to even come up with something naive. im pansexual and ive been since i was possibly 5 years old. And no - i still dont believe that this will stay with me for the rest of my life. maturity is key to everythinng. No you think your bi for 2 years? bullshit. it takes alife time to know what sexuallity you are. so just shut up and move on and dont leave comments on more mature videos like these because itll just makeyou look stupid.
@trumpeterjen you do have a point. but i did say it does take a lifetime to find your sexuality. i mean- there was even a story about A 40 YEAR OLD WOMAN who had 3 children and a husband for 18 years. Then she came out with that shes a lesbian. And to be honest i never really decided my sexuality at 14. And im having the you know, balls to say i dont think it might stay with me forever. Maybe at one point it might even grow! Thats what my point is. dont be so sure cause it might change.
@shiarainex3 Many gays marry and have kids to hide who they are. It's a lot more common than you'd think.
Your last post said you were 14. Did you have your birthday since then? You say, "Well, when I was 14..." as if you ooze maturity now. I've been both 14 and 15, and there isn't that much of a difference.
I've never met anyone whose bi/pan/homosexuality was "just a phase;" that's usually used by homophobes who can't accept the truth. It drives me nuts when people tell me I won't be bi at 30.
@trumpeterjen i understand that. And no my birthday hasnt passed actually . im turning 15 in 2 months. But i guess i put into some thought of what i said to her . get it now ?
and no , i dont believe its a phase. i believe HIDING IT is a phase. My sister is actually a lesbian. and she hid it from me and my mother till she was 18. It wasnt a big shocker to me.
But she was trying to so hard to make it seem as if she was 'straight' .
i never said you wont be bi when your 30 - your 20
@shiarainex3 What you said implied you weren't 14.
You said you don't think you'll always be pansexual, which shows you think it CAN be a phase. Do you see how you're contradicting yourself here?
I never said you told me that. I said that I hate it when people do, and thinking that sexuality goes in "phases" is what gets people to say that to me.
I knew what I was for sure when I was in early high school. Don't try to tell me I didn't. Do you still not understand that not everyone's like you?
@trumpeterjen and so to me that means your mature enough to know what goes through your head. I believe how society is now- no one really knows who they are at 12,13,14,15,16 or even 17.
youre so right! on top of everything you just said, i hate when people think that you HAVE to be with someone of the opposite sex. you fall in love with an individual, not a gender.
but sometimes it takes people long into their youth to understand their sexuality full.
i had a friend who was bisexual until he was 16 and finally came out. i also had a friend who didn't come out until he was 23. everyone is different.f
i have a young cousin who knew he was transgender at only 2. i also have a uncle who was openly gay at the age of only 6.
some people "grow up" quicker then others, like yourself.
My philosophy is "live n let live"..People should be FREE to be themselves at all times and not have to hide behind a mask! With the majority that mask fit's so tightly they are not even aware that they are wearing one!.From day one we are "groomed" and that just should not be so!..NO ONE should fear persecution for being THEMSELVES!..Let's face it here..There is NO better way to be than just being YOU!! =]
well done you! your message and morals are really great :) i totally understand. i've known i'm pansexual for a few years now, and my town is extremely stereotypical to gays/bi's etc. im really glad there are people out there who understand, and share similar problems, thanks :D <3
ah i agree. its so dumb. theres some guy on my bus and he tells everyone hes bi but then when he sees a gay man hes all oh look at that fagg*t err somethin like that. sexuality should be based on whether you like boys or girls, not if you just want the attention. who evers doing that dumbass fad thing is just plain stupid.
I agree! the only thing is that i'm 14 and i know i'm bisexual. it is possible some people just know they are Bisexual or gay at 14 or even 13. not everyone finds out at the same age some people can just tell they are. But i do understand about how you shouldn't just say your bisexual or gay and then find out later your not because that would hurt alot being heart broken like that. And i am sorry that thats happened to you.
Homophobic & Haters are the real problem because some Homophobic Humans & Haters tends to verbally & physically hurts & even kill other Humans for just being different in sex orientation.
Homophobia should end, Prescribed-behavior in lives based on the shape of genitals should end too.
We are just a big family on one little speck in the universe.
A lot of adults, bisexual or not, practice polyamory, in which they carry on fulfilling and meaningful relationships with more than one partner. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, because all involved parties are aware and are happy with their situation. I am both bisexual and polyamorous, and I am always open and honest with my partners, and they, in turn, are open and honest with me, and we all live happily every after.
you are very wise. so true. i have had many types of pan sexual and open type relationships and i must be 10 years older than you and you seem to already know what it takes many people years and alot of pain and broken hearts to learn. good for you. stick with your heart. you are right that young people are just not mature enough to have those types of relationships.
@katnikkerkayla yes you can fall in love at any age, yes love is possible alllwayyys! she is NOT being closed minded, are YOU retarded? This is serious discussion about how people who are GAY get tormented for it, and it isn't a joke to just lie and say you are something for attention, or follow the shitty trends. Honestly you are 14, and yes, you COULD fall in love, but you are also a kid. you don't know what is ahead of you in life. trust me, i thought i was in love at your age too.
@katnikkerkayla Uhm, how am I lowering myself to any level when Im defened what SHE, the creator of this video, is saying? Unless you are a fucking homophobe, your statement is irrelavent and makes. no. sense. Oh and pretty sure it's four years. not three. go home and suck your your moms tit you fucking annoying brat. seriously when did they let little kids on youtubee
Most people has feelings, some attraction to both genders, but that doesn't mean they're "bisexual", very few people are actually bisexual. The great majority of them who feels attracted to both men and women are more attracted to one side, actually.
But it's stupid to say there aren't people who are fully heterosexual or homosexual. It's as stupid as saying bisexuality doesn't exist.
Moreover, Katy's proven our society is VERY SEXIST, cuz girls kissing girls is ok, but boys kissing boys is not
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I don't believe in dating at the age of 14, either, lol....Even though I am 14 :) Anyway....I completley agree about the fad thing. Sexuality shoudn't be considered a joke.I'm bisexual, and I haven't told anyone because of the whole fad thing. No one would take me seriously...and my parents are homophbic, lol.
I agree with you that being bisexual and gay is becoming a fad but saying that there is a certain age to know what your sexuality is just doesn't make sense to me. I've known my controversial sexuality since I was 6 years old. I've also known that I cannot function in a monogamous relationship since I was 14. Now what's different between me and the people that you see?
I'm not trying to be rude I just want to understand your point of view here.
@StarlightEcho Saying I was 6 is confusing. At the time I didn't have to proper words to describe the way I was feeling, in fact I didn't know it was called pansexual or omnisexual until a few years ago, but at that age I understood that I was genderblind. I didn't admit it to anyone until about 6 years later but I was aware at the age.
You seem very close minded. I'm pansexual and I have been for a very long time, I've always found an attraction to females and males in the sense I don't see them differently. I'm not a teeny bopper following fads and you can't label every person out there. Perry made a song and it was a song, nothing wrong with it. I myself enjoy it.
LOL obviously you didn't really get the point of the video... I'm pansexual and have been also for a very long time. I just feel like when girls kiss girls (and guy kissing guys) just for attention of the opposite sex and to gain things.. I find it in a way offensive and rude to the people who truly are apart of the sexual status: pansexual, gay, bisexual, trisexual, ect. i used katy perry's song as a reference because the barsexual boom was created because of it. sorry you got the wrong idea.
@LilMissPUKEfce Yeah I completely agree with you, where I lived a few months ago felt kind of unsafe creepy. Cause the guy's daughter pretended to like girls for attention and she was constantly looking at me and it was very unnerving. Just sad what people will do just for attention and friends.
I totally understand you. In modern times there's a mass content of youth sexuality. It is a fad of the moment to being bisexual, they see it like something cool just like you said. I think it's just a stupid fashion of the moment. Don't think we should worry too much.
Yeah, sexuality it's not something you should joke. I think it's should be a natural thing and that's all. No more homophobics, no more fights..etc
I would like to chat with you but I have 39 characters remaining LOL
dude, that's what it's like here. all the "bisexual" girls go and date all the other "bisexual" girls and then when they break up they both become straight again. it really bothers me.
i so agree i mean ima a guy but still i mean look personally if your gonna be bisexual do that in your own place own time and stuff but i mean if your adult thats different such as tila tequila she was a model and was the star of her show a shot of love with tila tequila based on shows like the bachelor and bachelorette
People honestly shouldn't date until they're out of school is what I think. >.> I'm pretty sure I'm a pansexual as well, and I think I know where you're coming from. I'm still coming to grips with it, but I remember feeling the deeper connections with both sexes as a kid, and loving it. I've never believed that someone should make a decision based off of anyone's music. XD
I can totally understand you.See, I don't really know what my sexuality is and I'm only 13, I think might, just might , be bisexual.But I have no idea yet, I have the rest of my life to figure that out, so I'm not gonna say I'm bisexual.All my friends wanna say they're bisexual.And I don't wanna come out cuz I don't want people to think I'm just trying to be cool.But useually went I try to come out to some one I say I'm undecided and I'll figure it out someday.
i agree with you. i love katy perry, but it pisses me off that people think that because you like both genders, you should date one person of each gender. its just not right.
but younger people are also very confused in every way, including sexually. hopefully, they'll learn as they mature.
" i do like to kiss girls.. i like to do more than kiss girls" ha ha that gets mee laughing each timee and thee voicee you use. iloveyou! you're soo funny but so agree on thiss.
not all "14 year old girls" choose to be bisexual because it's cool.....i am bisexual. and i'm 14. and not because it's cool, but because i like girls and boys. and it is cool to be gay, because now people are actually learning to accept gays, which makes it easier to come out.
This bothers me so much. All these little kids are choosing to be homosexual and they think its so cool. Especially when there are people in my town that are so ashamed of being homosexual because they cant help it and they think theres something wrong with them.
Why are emo and scene people to blame? Yes,most emo/scene people are bisexual,but that doesnt mean they arent faithful. I happen to be emo,and when I see my friend and his boyfriend it disgusts me honestly but the point still remains.
i so agree!!! im bi and i dont agree with people useing it as an excuse to cheat!!! and openly!!! like wtf!!! thats why bisexual people get the tag "greedy"!!!! most of us arent but those who are give us a bad name!!!!! x
What a Minute - Are you associating Emo and Scene for people's choice in sexuality??
how do we influence anyones choice? What makes you think we're ALL bi/gay and not just some?? Its just generality. Tbh - you look scene/emo - so dont blame other people.
Ok, so i agree with the whole.."Sexuality shouldn't be a fad" since i'm a Lesbian...I get greif for it but i find it funny that they take their time to shout "Lesbo", stating the obvious at me, in the street. Yet i don't get that if you're a perfectionist... You wouldn't really be Bisexual yourself..
if you are really 13-14 (im guessing that cause your screen name) i bet you, that you dont even know if you like guys or girls. and i bet you because of that, you just do it cause your friends are.
Kay, I have a few problems with your statement XxconversegirlxX.
- She said in the video "I like kissing girls.. I like to do more then just kissing".. Why would she have sex with a chick.. because her friends are bi? That doesn't make sense.
- If she said she's against 14 year old's dating.. why would she say she's had her heart broken by girls? Kind of a hypocrite statement eh? Unless she's older.. say 17 or 18? Cause you can't get the piercings she has until you're of the age 16.
i was talking about Breelo94 or whatever her screen name. not LilMissPUKEFce. so think you need to get your facts straight before you say anything. and how did anything i say be hypocritical? im not 13-14 and i know if i like guys or girls, and i dont do shit influenced on my friends.
I agree 100%. These little firls are making a complete joke of it. I don't think people should be killed because they are gay, but people shouldn't only like someone because they're gay, or tell people they are bisexual because they have to to be liked. It bugs me.
I think people should just be able to do whatever the hell they want if they wanna date a boy and a girl and it makes them happy...go for it! but if their doing it to be cool and prove a point then i feel bad for them, but like i said if it makes you happy and your not hurting anyone go for it...its america xoxox
Pansexual is a sexual orientation that can be described as "gender blind". For example, likee.... people who have a sexual attraction to someone, regardless of their gender, can be classified as Pansexual. Like, you can like someone for who they are, and what they mean to you, and have a sexual attraction to them, and not care weather they're male or female. Whereas, Bisexuals are attracted to both male and female, and they know it. Pansexuals don't really care. Either way, as long as they're
I Made a Commitmant when i decided to start telling people i was bi .. i guess i was one of those who are kinda born with it i didnt make my choice .. as of now im dating a girl
Beautiful one !! but i know picking the choice to tell people your bi at age 11 kinda does affect cause .. when you go into junior high you get made fun of and then your like well im bi and there like ohh and it gets all serious ..
and noone in my Schoo lreallly Cares .. there like your dating X** Sweet !! idc
I confirmed myself to be bisexual when I was 14, this is during the time where being bisexual was disgusting and people would be homophobic around you. I'm almost 18 and I still like girls more than guys and I see bisexuality going around as a fad, and people that made fun of me for liking girls are claiming they're bi, even LESBIAN? LIES! It's extremely fucking rude that people are using sexuality as a thing to get points. I don't believe anyone that says they're bi anymore -_-
I hate it when pple make jokes about sexuality grrrrrrrrrr...... i'm 16 n' bi but i cant really show cuz i'm frm eygpt n' pple here dont get the idea of 2 girls or 2 boys 2gether ..OG i'm not making anysense soo now i'm gonna stop writtin' lol
i dont think people should go around and think "oh, am i bisexual or am i not???" .. so, if you are, you are.. and if you don't, you don't. it's just the way it is. I don't think it really matter anyway. everybody should let the gay ones be gay and so on. why does everybody care?
But it's true. those people who isn't, who says to people that they are.. they are patethic..
(sorry for my bad english, Im not english. im from sweden!)
Gay people do get their asses beaten, if you know what I mean? ;)
Also, people follow trends, and people always piss on those doing it. In actual fact, everyone follows a trend at some point.
You say the 'whole emo trend thing' as if you're not part of it. I'm not judging you here, but if there's one thing I'd say you follow (trend-wise) it'd be the emo fad.
i'm 14 and gay, and i do get alot of abuse for my sexuality. And i see it as unfair for people to 'come out' posing as gay to get the advantages of being gay (such as attention from females).
these days i also see bisexuality to be looked at as an 'emo thing'. and some people come out as bi just to seem 'more emo'.
Katy Perry just wrote a song...she didn't say it was cool to be bi. That's how people took it. Blame the people who actually live their lives by fads. Not the people who happen to randomly spark something.
I understand what you are saying. I completely hate when people say they are gay then straight then gay then bisexual then straight. I am bisexual and I have known i like men and women for 3 years now and it is never easy to admit that because of all the things that are bad that could and have happened to me. I totally agree that people should take sexuality seriously and be only with one person at a time. Thanks for making this =)
i agree with you but like im 13 bi and dating but i don't take being bisexual as a joke...cause pretty much....ive dated boys...and well...how i became bi was that this friend of mine talked me into kissing him 2 years ago.....i liked it then to make sure i was bi....we did....other stuff if you could guess...and....wow...i really like it...XD
I completely agree, I know what you're getting at. I think it's terrible to date each sex at the same time, it's actually really unfair. Of course I'm aware people have different opinions. And I'm tired of people calling themselves gay or a lesbian, or bisexual, even though they know they aren't. I am, and that's my choice, I don't announce it to the world, or keep changing my mind, I am and that's that.
Thank you for this video, I hope people understand.
It isn't your life to be judging, though. If someone wants to have a 3 way relationship, what the hell gives you the right to tell them they're wrong?
I'm bi, and trust me, people don't choose this lifestyle. It isn't easy. So unless you've walked in someone else's shoes, you need to shut the fuck up.
its alot of these stupid young ones that are making it look like a "phase" and girls kissing girls for attention to impress those dopey thirsty men and this pisses off alot of bisexual people from what ive heard and seen
its cos of them all the stereotypes and negitivity form
I totally agree, bisexuality is becoming such a fad now and it's pathetic . I am
bisexual and it's fucking stupid how some
people act . I know some one who said they " turned " gay and then went bi then found out they were straight likee I think thats stupid like you can fucking undo it or something . I understand if you are curious about your sexuality or confused but you don't need to be like OMG i'm gay then nevermind i'm bi no WAIT i'm Straight. Like fuck off dude. ps my nex is DREAMBOAT?
Yeah, I knew I was attracted to both sexes when I was young (I'm not sure what age, it just seemed to be there, you know)
I began exploring my sexuality with others at about 13 and my first was actually a girl.
Today, I am married and I am happy to be
in a monogamous relationship with the man I love. Being bisexual does not mean that you HAVE to have one of each at all times. It is a choice to be with one person that you love.
Just as a heterosexual orientation doesn't require you to f*ck EVERY member of the opposite sex. If I had fallen in love with a woman and chosen to build a life with her, I would be faithful to that ONE person.
I also do not like the current trendiness of bisexuality because sexuality is personal and a person needs space and solace to feel it from the inside, not a new age society touting a "not only is it OK to be gay, but you should be because everyone says it's cool" mentality
i understand what u r trying to say. That you are frustrated with people taking advantage of and/ or exploiting the titles of "gay" or "bi" and using them to a manner that degrades the people who are naturally gay or bi. But also I dont think you can place age limits on things like finding out your sexuality. You have to look at everyone differently. you cant generalize groups of people. There are always anomolies. But For the most part I understand what you are trying to say in this.
i totally agree being bi and gay isnt a fad its a sexuality and i have been beaten up cause of me being pansexual it sucks and im sick of guys and girls going around saying they are bi when there not it annoys me cause then you cant tell the difference between real bis and fake ones that are just trying to get attention
I`m bisexual. I dont do it cause i think im cool, i just dont like to kiss girls. I actually like a girl. And i like, am obsesse. But its not because i have no chance with guys or whatever.
I feel this is a problem that goes around everywhere, it's happening in your town, and in mine as well. and I'm sure many others too. Its not something that needs to be joked with, or looked at as "cool" it is a real decision you make much later in life, NOT when you are 14.
I just agree with you so much, it's not even funny.
Being only seventeen myself, I find it ridiculous that people my age, who are almost adults, are still running around joking about their sexualities, because they think it's "cool" or "fun". it just pisses me off. and then, the same people go on to call real homosexuals such cruel names and treat them like shit.
dude lilMISSpukeFce i defiantly agree with you, 14 is very young age, yes people are making bisexuals look really bad, yes people don't care for gays, yes people are trying to be someone they are not, "scene" i don't understand still where that came from and plus over your very right, just wait a couple years and it will become the past and not cool, i'm straight and damn proud of it, yes i have kissed a couple chicks in my day, but it wasn't over attention, more like experience and drunk,
.......What really pisses me off is that she tells her parents, friends, about the whole situation, and told people how we were in a relationship and giving me a bad rep. anywho I have had experience with all this crap, and I definitely think its not right to say or do things when there not true or your unsure.
I had one of my friends come up to me and say that all of a sudden she's bisexual and starts ranting on about how much she likes me.
And well I was kinda like "uhmm but you're not even bisexual?" I think there is definitely a fad going on. Girls are just running around saying there bisexual, gay, or what not. I could just be taking all of this to serious and maybe she's Bi Curious & wants to get to know me and maybe start a relationship, it's just soo complicated. ....
let me marry you D:
ThisIsForAshley 1 day ago
I agree, and for us that really are bisexual we get looked down apon because there are girls out ther who just do it because they think its cute or fun. I am so scared to tell anyone right now and I feel like if I do then everyone will just think that I am doing it for attention and Im really not that kind of person, but that is how a lot of girls act now
IlovB513 2 weeks ago
Well im glad someone else takes it srsly like me like omg y would u take it as a joke its just uncool n that guy getting beated just cos he is gay omg the people who did it need to grow up
bellsLuvsYou 2 months ago
i knew around the age of 7 that i liked girls....when all of my friends had crushes on the boys, i liked the girls. but i covered it up because i thought i was weird or different. when i was 12 i heard the term "bisexual" and just stuck with that, hoping one day i may "come to my senses", if you will" and like boys...well i didnt..im nearly 15 now and i know what i want. i like girls. im gay...i dont really know what that had to do with anything...just thought id share(:
paytie18 2 months ago
Kudos to u girl I agree completely.
iamspecial14 3 months ago
what the hell? do you see that you're confusing people by telling them that bisexuality is or is related to monogamy.... I'm 14 and I'll decide who the fuck I like. Of course once you chose someone you'll stick to them, the people who decide not to are just ignorants, just as some straight people cheat on their own partners And then you blame katty perry? the fuck is wrong with you? Are you going to blame avril lavigne for having written girlfriend when a straight man cheats on his gf?
DemetriIsMe 3 months ago
I Understand where you're coming from. I made a similar video just recently. However, I feel it is inaccurate to blame either Katy Perry or the Emo Scene. I remember being in high school and seeing myspace profiles where girls said they were bisexual when they weren't years prior to "I kissed a girl". Also, the Emo scene has it's roots all the way back to 1985. People back then weren't even politically correct, let alone posing as sexually ambiguous. However, I blame both for not helping.
SpenceDaFence 5 months ago
I also agree that Katy Perry probably had a big role in the bisexual/homosexual fad, with her Kissed a Girl song (not sure about other songs, I don't pay much attention to her). There needs to be a medium between the hate and the popularity, where it's just a normal thing some people are born with. That's what I hate about pop culture, things become so popular so fast, and for really stupid reasons... People need to actually think about the things they do everyday.
Netugi 7 months ago
lol I remember my first (and only) girlfriend I had was like in grade 7. Looking back on that, I realize that I only agreed to go out with her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings or something. And then after we broke up, some grade 5 girl wanted to go out with me, and I was like "fuck that" (not literally). I've gone through a TON of changes since then though, so that won't be happening again. Taking that into account, I agree that sexuality shouldn't be taken so lightly.
Netugi 7 months ago
This is the most sense I have heard anybody speak about the topic in quite a while. Loved the story about the kid faking to be gay to get into girls' pants. I should say, tho', that there's a lot of people being really hurt by this fad. I know of some lesbians that make a sport out of trying to "turn" straight girls into lesbians (especially ones with boyfriends) just to shag her; and then they leave her with a huge sex identity crisis afterwards. Sounds almost socopathic...
increiblo 8 months ago
14 year olds shouldn't be dating, in general.
MissEMCsquared 9 months ago
There's a lot of girls at my old school who say they are lesbians, but sleep with guys all the time. They told me they turned lesbian because guys are douchebags. Its almost becoming so common that its fake. That was about 15 girls in a school of 100.
patdchicks4 9 months ago
I agree, I'm bi and I don't date a female and male at the same time. It is just the same as when your straight you don't date two girls or two guys at the same time. Well I've seen that happen but it's not too common. My best friend is gay but didn't come out until she was 16, she even a had a boy friend in middle school, and now she is 20 & still gay. But What I'm saying is what you said made sense haha I really don't like the girls who say they are lesbian and sleep with men.
burritolessfool 10 months ago
i hate stupid trends, they ruin every fucking thing
just be your self for gods sake
NeonRainCloud 11 months ago
I see what you're saying exactly. I'm only 13. I know, I'm very young but I've found my self attracted to both genders since i was 8. I know for a HUGE fact I am bisexual. I haven't done it to be "cool". I just know.
DarianDesire98 1 year ago
1. That sucks that it happened like that to his chest.
2. and for your guy friend thats amazing to get laid like that cause when i tell girls about me being bi they shudder. maybe its cause I'm black -.-
silentboxer1989 1 year ago
You are right all except when you said that a 14 year old cannot decide their sexuality. I am 14 and I have known for sure that I am bisexual since I was twelve, all I needed was the hormones to start flowing and it was clear as day.
elsietabatha 1 year ago
@elsietabatha okay - im fourteen i wouldnt dare to even come up with something naive. im pansexual and ive been since i was possibly 5 years old. And no - i still dont believe that this will stay with me for the rest of my life. maturity is key to everythinng. No you think your bi for 2 years? bullshit. it takes alife time to know what sexuallity you are. so just shut up and move on and dont leave comments on more mature videos like these because itll just makeyou look stupid.
shiarainex3 1 year ago
@shiarainex3 Or she could be like you and leave comments on videos to make herself look like an asshole.
You don't know anything about her at all. Everyone is different, and you're born with your sexuality.
If you've decided your sexuality at 14, why can't she? Don't be presumptuous.
I first noticed I was bi when I was 12. It took me until age 14 to come to grips with it. By then, I knew for sure.
Well, at almost 20, I'm still (shocker!) bisexual.
trumpeterjen 9 months ago
@trumpeterjen you do have a point. but i did say it does take a lifetime to find your sexuality. i mean- there was even a story about A 40 YEAR OLD WOMAN who had 3 children and a husband for 18 years. Then she came out with that shes a lesbian. And to be honest i never really decided my sexuality at 14. And im having the you know, balls to say i dont think it might stay with me forever. Maybe at one point it might even grow! Thats what my point is. dont be so sure cause it might change.
shiarainex3 9 months ago
@shiarainex3 Many gays marry and have kids to hide who they are. It's a lot more common than you'd think.
Your last post said you were 14. Did you have your birthday since then? You say, "Well, when I was 14..." as if you ooze maturity now. I've been both 14 and 15, and there isn't that much of a difference.
I've never met anyone whose bi/pan/homosexuality was "just a phase;" that's usually used by homophobes who can't accept the truth. It drives me nuts when people tell me I won't be bi at 30.
trumpeterjen 9 months ago
@trumpeterjen i understand that. And no my birthday hasnt passed actually . im turning 15 in 2 months. But i guess i put into some thought of what i said to her . get it now ?
and no , i dont believe its a phase. i believe HIDING IT is a phase. My sister is actually a lesbian. and she hid it from me and my mother till she was 18. It wasnt a big shocker to me.
But she was trying to so hard to make it seem as if she was 'straight' .
i never said you wont be bi when your 30 - your 20
shiarainex3 9 months ago
@shiarainex3 What you said implied you weren't 14.
You said you don't think you'll always be pansexual, which shows you think it CAN be a phase. Do you see how you're contradicting yourself here?
I never said you told me that. I said that I hate it when people do, and thinking that sexuality goes in "phases" is what gets people to say that to me.
I knew what I was for sure when I was in early high school. Don't try to tell me I didn't. Do you still not understand that not everyone's like you?
trumpeterjen 9 months ago
@trumpeterjen and so to me that means your mature enough to know what goes through your head. I believe how society is now- no one really knows who they are at 12,13,14,15,16 or even 17.
shiarainex3 9 months ago
I don't look for gender, I just look for personality and looks :)
xxblackonyxlovexx 1 year ago
youre so right! on top of everything you just said, i hate when people think that you HAVE to be with someone of the opposite sex. you fall in love with an individual, not a gender.
Raechel97 1 year ago
you´re fuckin right rii!
TheSuckMyPeeps 1 year ago
haha i knew i was lesbian when i was 9 do you think i was to young? I don't. You don't "turn" gay you are born gay!
LeeAnnElizabeth 1 year ago
@LeeAnnElizabeth
it's quite obvious that you don't "turn" gay.
but sometimes it takes people long into their youth to understand their sexuality full.
i had a friend who was bisexual until he was 16 and finally came out. i also had a friend who didn't come out until he was 23. everyone is different.f
i have a young cousin who knew he was transgender at only 2. i also have a uncle who was openly gay at the age of only 6.
some people "grow up" quicker then others, like yourself.
LilMissPUKEfce 1 year ago
THANK YOU! I've had so many failed relationships because of this.
Straight girls claiming they are bisexual or lesbians when they really
aren't. It's fucking ridiculous.
misspulliplolita 1 year ago
My philosophy is "live n let live"..People should be FREE to be themselves at all times and not have to hide behind a mask! With the majority that mask fit's so tightly they are not even aware that they are wearing one!.From day one we are "groomed" and that just should not be so!..NO ONE should fear persecution for being THEMSELVES!..Let's face it here..There is NO better way to be than just being YOU!! =]
dgenerated 1 year ago
AMEN!
i tottaly agree with this
even though its like an old video,
your point still is valid (:
Xzeeling 1 year ago
I have a gay friend in the hospital right this second because he got beaten for being gay..this is a great video!!
msiphone4ever 1 year ago
@msiphone4ever That's a true shame!..Good luck on their recovery!...NO ONE should be met with harsh remarks or violence for being THEMSELVES!!..AMEN!
dgenerated 1 year ago
well done you! your message and morals are really great :) i totally understand. i've known i'm pansexual for a few years now, and my town is extremely stereotypical to gays/bi's etc. im really glad there are people out there who understand, and share similar problems, thanks :D <3
TamakeFan 1 year ago
ah i agree. its so dumb. theres some guy on my bus and he tells everyone hes bi but then when he sees a gay man hes all oh look at that fagg*t err somethin like that. sexuality should be based on whether you like boys or girls, not if you just want the attention. who evers doing that dumbass fad thing is just plain stupid.
MagnMango 1 year ago
Omg I LOLED so hard when you said "that doesn't mean you flip a coin in the morning to decide which gender youll be liking this day."
SeaMonkey12441 1 year ago
Agree girl because i feel same...
MrAivariokas 1 year ago
I agree! the only thing is that i'm 14 and i know i'm bisexual. it is possible some people just know they are Bisexual or gay at 14 or even 13. not everyone finds out at the same age some people can just tell they are. But i do understand about how you shouldn't just say your bisexual or gay and then find out later your not because that would hurt alot being heart broken like that. And i am sorry that thats happened to you.
Greenmantim3 1 year ago
OMG IVE BEEN TRYING TO GET THAT SAME POINT ACROSS TO ALL MY FRIENDS!!! IM SO SHAREING THIS!!!
sorapalpu 1 year ago
agreed
sheliescold 1 year ago
Homophobic & Haters are the real problem because some Homophobic Humans & Haters tends to verbally & physically hurts & even kill other Humans for just being different in sex orientation.
Homophobia should end, Prescribed-behavior in lives based on the shape of genitals should end too.
We are just a big family on one little speck in the universe.
Jink5 1 year ago
A lot of adults, bisexual or not, practice polyamory, in which they carry on fulfilling and meaningful relationships with more than one partner. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, because all involved parties are aware and are happy with their situation. I am both bisexual and polyamorous, and I am always open and honest with my partners, and they, in turn, are open and honest with me, and we all live happily every after.
cealchyth 1 year ago
I BLAME LADY GAGA!
TheSnipersnake45 1 year ago
you are very wise. so true. i have had many types of pan sexual and open type relationships and i must be 10 years older than you and you seem to already know what it takes many people years and alot of pain and broken hearts to learn. good for you. stick with your heart. you are right that young people are just not mature enough to have those types of relationships.
junglejezzabel 1 year ago
i really respect your point of view and feel the exact same way
rollercoasterbarbie 1 year ago
I am 14 and I know I am Gay :x Its pretty much undeniable xP I dont understand the Bi-sexuality fad, I dont think many people are faking it though :x
groo737 1 year ago
im 14. im in love.
love is not defined by age
you are very close minded.
and like, are you sick? you sound like it..
katnikkerkayla 1 year ago
@katnikkerkayla yes you can fall in love at any age, yes love is possible alllwayyys! she is NOT being closed minded, are YOU retarded? This is serious discussion about how people who are GAY get tormented for it, and it isn't a joke to just lie and say you are something for attention, or follow the shitty trends. Honestly you are 14, and yes, you COULD fall in love, but you are also a kid. you don't know what is ahead of you in life. trust me, i thought i was in love at your age too.
sheliescold 1 year ago
@sheliescold
and because you are a mere 3 years older than me, you think you know better than I do?
you're the one lowering yourself to my level so.
;D
katnikkerkayla 1 year ago
@katnikkerkayla Uhm, how am I lowering myself to any level when Im defened what SHE, the creator of this video, is saying? Unless you are a fucking homophobe, your statement is irrelavent and makes. no. sense. Oh and pretty sure it's four years. not three. go home and suck your your moms tit you fucking annoying brat. seriously when did they let little kids on youtubee
sheliescold 1 year ago
Most people has feelings, some attraction to both genders, but that doesn't mean they're "bisexual", very few people are actually bisexual. The great majority of them who feels attracted to both men and women are more attracted to one side, actually.
But it's stupid to say there aren't people who are fully heterosexual or homosexual. It's as stupid as saying bisexuality doesn't exist.
Moreover, Katy's proven our society is VERY SEXIST, cuz girls kissing girls is ok, but boys kissing boys is not
hugovsky5 1 year ago
WORD.
Paloomi 1 year ago
ur pretty all the other people r blind and i agree with wat ur saying
morganXraptor 1 year ago
(comment to my comment) um 1st. off you are strange and yet super attractive for some reason 2nd. your voice is kinda ...mmm anyways 3rd. i live in iowa is there ANY WAY you live close so i can met you :) 4th. ................ :)))))
TheKingGummyBear 1 year ago
R U SICK!?!?
fashiz09 1 year ago
I don't believe in dating at the age of 14, either, lol....Even though I am 14 :) Anyway....I completley agree about the fad thing. Sexuality shoudn't be considered a joke.I'm bisexual, and I haven't told anyone because of the whole fad thing. No one would take me seriously...and my parents are homophbic, lol.
15twilightlover15 1 year ago
I agree with you that being bisexual and gay is becoming a fad but saying that there is a certain age to know what your sexuality is just doesn't make sense to me. I've known my controversial sexuality since I was 6 years old. I've also known that I cannot function in a monogamous relationship since I was 14. Now what's different between me and the people that you see?
I'm not trying to be rude I just want to understand your point of view here.
StarlightEcho 1 year ago
@StarlightEcho Saying I was 6 is confusing. At the time I didn't have to proper words to describe the way I was feeling, in fact I didn't know it was called pansexual or omnisexual until a few years ago, but at that age I understood that I was genderblind. I didn't admit it to anyone until about 6 years later but I was aware at the age.
StarlightEcho 1 year ago
You seem very close minded. I'm pansexual and I have been for a very long time, I've always found an attraction to females and males in the sense I don't see them differently. I'm not a teeny bopper following fads and you can't label every person out there. Perry made a song and it was a song, nothing wrong with it. I myself enjoy it.
KnifeBloodRomance666 1 year ago
LOL obviously you didn't really get the point of the video... I'm pansexual and have been also for a very long time. I just feel like when girls kiss girls (and guy kissing guys) just for attention of the opposite sex and to gain things.. I find it in a way offensive and rude to the people who truly are apart of the sexual status: pansexual, gay, bisexual, trisexual, ect. i used katy perry's song as a reference because the barsexual boom was created because of it. sorry you got the wrong idea.
LilMissPUKEfce 1 year ago
@LilMissPUKEfce Yeah I completely agree with you, where I lived a few months ago felt kind of unsafe creepy. Cause the guy's daughter pretended to like girls for attention and she was constantly looking at me and it was very unnerving. Just sad what people will do just for attention and friends.
KnifeBloodRomance666 1 year ago
You have the right idea.
EternalDrummer1990 1 year ago
I totally understand you. In modern times there's a mass content of youth sexuality. It is a fad of the moment to being bisexual, they see it like something cool just like you said. I think it's just a stupid fashion of the moment. Don't think we should worry too much.
Yeah, sexuality it's not something you should joke. I think it's should be a natural thing and that's all. No more homophobics, no more fights..etc
I would like to chat with you but I have 39 characters remaining LOL
bye!
RogueScarf 1 year ago
dude, that's what it's like here. all the "bisexual" girls go and date all the other "bisexual" girls and then when they break up they both become straight again. it really bothers me.
hilasaurusrex 1 year ago
you should just stop talking.
mariaday 1 year ago
naaaaaaah. ;) i'd rather stick around and piss morons like yourself off.
LilMissPUKEfce 1 year ago
@LilMissPUKEfce Well fucken said!
Camgurlof1990 1 year ago
i so agree i mean ima a guy but still i mean look personally if your gonna be bisexual do that in your own place own time and stuff but i mean if your adult thats different such as tila tequila she was a model and was the star of her show a shot of love with tila tequila based on shows like the bachelor and bachelorette
mageowns938 1 year ago
Yes, yes, we all blame Katy Perry.
TheDinosaur99 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
does anyone else realize how ugly she is?
TRIPPxROCKS 1 year ago
quite hideous. =]
LilMissPUKEfce 1 year ago
@TRIPPxROCKS She's quite attractive indeed. :)
TheDinosaur99 1 year ago
@TRIPPxROCKS without piercing she'd probly look better
mageowns938 1 year ago
I love this, it's exactly how i feel about the subject :)
litexupxmyxworld 1 year ago
People honestly shouldn't date until they're out of school is what I think. >.> I'm pretty sure I'm a pansexual as well, and I think I know where you're coming from. I'm still coming to grips with it, but I remember feeling the deeper connections with both sexes as a kid, and loving it. I've never believed that someone should make a decision based off of anyone's music. XD
PiccuPie 1 year ago
I can totally understand you.See, I don't really know what my sexuality is and I'm only 13, I think might, just might , be bisexual.But I have no idea yet, I have the rest of my life to figure that out, so I'm not gonna say I'm bisexual.All my friends wanna say they're bisexual.And I don't wanna come out cuz I don't want people to think I'm just trying to be cool.But useually went I try to come out to some one I say I'm undecided and I'll figure it out someday.
straightjacketgirl97 1 year ago
i totally agree with you
magenluver1234 1 year ago
Fuuuuck the scene
MarceloTapiaXXX 1 year ago
@MarceloTapiaXXX FUCK the YOU
nunchukr 11 months ago
i agree i hate when ppl r just bisexual just to b w whoever they want
DARKSOULXxXx13 1 year ago
well done
i agree with you!
tricksta234 1 year ago
awesome
juliaxfurxshur 1 year ago
I don't like bisexuality either. It's stupid how popular it's gotten... You have TWICE the chance of being cheated on..
aryonas 1 year ago
i agree with you. i love katy perry, but it pisses me off that people think that because you like both genders, you should date one person of each gender. its just not right.
but younger people are also very confused in every way, including sexually. hopefully, they'll learn as they mature.
katiepaintsthesky 1 year ago
" i do like to kiss girls.. i like to do more than kiss girls" ha ha that gets mee laughing each timee and thee voicee you use. iloveyou! you're soo funny but so agree on thiss.
gnatalia22 2 years ago
not all "14 year old girls" choose to be bisexual because it's cool.....i am bisexual. and i'm 14. and not because it's cool, but because i like girls and boys. and it is cool to be gay, because now people are actually learning to accept gays, which makes it easier to come out.
andersonisadinosaur 2 years ago
This bothers me so much. All these little kids are choosing to be homosexual and they think its so cool. Especially when there are people in my town that are so ashamed of being homosexual because they cant help it and they think theres something wrong with them.
socialVANITY 2 years ago
woooot =)
mercedess5593 2 years ago
Why are emo and scene people to blame? Yes,most emo/scene people are bisexual,but that doesnt mean they arent faithful. I happen to be emo,and when I see my friend and his boyfriend it disgusts me honestly but the point still remains.
xXDarkkprincessXx 2 years ago
egsact same im bi and omg im 13 so what shes saing might be true and i guess you know when you know
nikita4eva 2 years ago
well I agree you should not decide on your sexuality just because seems cool.
The kids who do do that don't have a clue about biphobia or homophobia and gay hate crime, they just do because they're ingaront.
TheGoddessofArt 2 years ago
I rarely tell people I'm bi. I am genuinely attracted to both men and women, but in general, I keep those cards up my sleeve, so to speak.
OzaiFan 2 years ago
when you say you dont think 14 year olds should be dating, do you mean as bisexuals or like, not at all?
rachaeljaynee 2 years ago
Thank you for this!
Bisexual, polyamory and unfaithfulness are different from each other. It's amazing how few people understand this.
BiJaneWhite 2 years ago
i so agree!!! im bi and i dont agree with people useing it as an excuse to cheat!!! and openly!!! like wtf!!! thats why bisexual people get the tag "greedy"!!!! most of us arent but those who are give us a bad name!!!!! x
kfireangel 2 years ago
Bisexuality is a trend. I am bisexual. I am a Christian, and believe in monogamy. You are very right.
TriCIAnoVACK 2 years ago
couldnt agree more.<3
xxmirrorsenemyxx 2 years ago
XD I think Katy Perry should get OJ'd
MrUltimateTKO 2 years ago
im gay and i agree with that aii.
at all parties i go to there are girls hooking up with each other and stuff and they are just doing it to be able to get with more boys..
teethmouth 2 years ago
i totally agree.
i think that people should not take sexuality as a trend.
i am bisexual though.
not for attention.
i actually rarely tell people, unless they are my best friends.
this IS part of the struggle that bisexuality and transexuality IS a trend now.
and i do not like it.
ever since i was a little kid,
i HAVE been attracted to girls and ive always known it.
i just hate it when people say they're bi to be cool.
emxempthy 2 years ago
What a Minute - Are you associating Emo and Scene for people's choice in sexuality??
how do we influence anyones choice? What makes you think we're ALL bi/gay and not just some?? Its just generality. Tbh - you look scene/emo - so dont blame other people.
I think i was with you till the emo/scene part..
FelixB666XD 2 years ago
strongly agreed
weckiewicz0bunny 2 years ago
agreed
TrAwrK 2 years ago
Ok, so i agree with the whole.."Sexuality shouldn't be a fad" since i'm a Lesbian...I get greif for it but i find it funny that they take their time to shout "Lesbo", stating the obvious at me, in the street. Yet i don't get that if you're a perfectionist... You wouldn't really be Bisexual yourself..
WoWBloodrend 2 years ago
your voice sounds diffrent from the other video
pai03251998 2 years ago
well screw it being a fad!!
m bi bc i lyk guys & girls
breelo94 2 years ago
if you are really 13-14 (im guessing that cause your screen name) i bet you, that you dont even know if you like guys or girls. and i bet you because of that, you just do it cause your friends are.
XxconversegirlxX 2 years ago
nah actualy i dont know many bi/gay ppl...& ppl i know r firmly againist it!!
breelo94 2 years ago
Kay, I have a few problems with your statement XxconversegirlxX.
- She said in the video "I like kissing girls.. I like to do more then just kissing".. Why would she have sex with a chick.. because her friends are bi? That doesn't make sense.
- If she said she's against 14 year old's dating.. why would she say she's had her heart broken by girls? Kind of a hypocrite statement eh? Unless she's older.. say 17 or 18? Cause you can't get the piercings she has until you're of the age 16.
x3moxBabex 2 years ago
i was talking about Breelo94 or whatever her screen name. not LilMissPUKEFce. so think you need to get your facts straight before you say anything. and how did anything i say be hypocritical? im not 13-14 and i know if i like guys or girls, and i dont do shit influenced on my friends.
XxconversegirlxX 2 years ago
bisexuality should not be a trend
DeadEndJustice13 2 years ago
I agree 100%. These little firls are making a complete joke of it. I don't think people should be killed because they are gay, but people shouldn't only like someone because they're gay, or tell people they are bisexual because they have to to be liked. It bugs me.
FoolishLaughter 2 years ago
THANK YOU .
4everdemented 2 years ago
YES YES YES AGREEMENT TOTALLY WIN!
boxcutter916 2 years ago
I think people should just be able to do whatever the hell they want if they wanna date a boy and a girl and it makes them happy...go for it! but if their doing it to be cool and prove a point then i feel bad for them, but like i said if it makes you happy and your not hurting anyone go for it...its america xoxox
p.s I ♥ Katy Perry
daisygirrl1234 2 years ago
attracted to them, gender doesn't really matter to them. They almost don't even notice what their sex is.. Is that confusing?
BillieJoesgirl4ever 2 years ago
Pansexual is a sexual orientation that can be described as "gender blind". For example, likee.... people who have a sexual attraction to someone, regardless of their gender, can be classified as Pansexual. Like, you can like someone for who they are, and what they mean to you, and have a sexual attraction to them, and not care weather they're male or female. Whereas, Bisexuals are attracted to both male and female, and they know it. Pansexuals don't really care. Either way, as long as they're
BillieJoesgirl4ever 2 years ago
"its not like u wake up in the morning and flip a fuckin coin and see which gender u will be likin that day" LOL!
BlackRockstar13 2 years ago
someone acctually carved :Faggot" into someone? OMG thats fucking terrible
MultiRant 2 years ago
im also glad you dont care what people thing :) .
but what's the difference between bisexual and pansexual ?!
jessalovesyouxox 2 years ago
i like you ... a lot ahha .
i like you're opinions and how your not affraid to tell people .
add me on nex ;
pkjessica
jessalovesyouxox 2 years ago
I Made a Commitmant when i decided to start telling people i was bi .. i guess i was one of those who are kinda born with it i didnt make my choice .. as of now im dating a girl
Beautiful one !! but i know picking the choice to tell people your bi at age 11 kinda does affect cause .. when you go into junior high you get made fun of and then your like well im bi and there like ohh and it gets all serious ..
and noone in my Schoo lreallly Cares .. there like your dating X** Sweet !! idc
juebjuebjellybean 2 years ago
I confirmed myself to be bisexual when I was 14, this is during the time where being bisexual was disgusting and people would be homophobic around you. I'm almost 18 and I still like girls more than guys and I see bisexuality going around as a fad, and people that made fun of me for liking girls are claiming they're bi, even LESBIAN? LIES! It's extremely fucking rude that people are using sexuality as a thing to get points. I don't believe anyone that says they're bi anymore -_-
stillprince 2 years ago
could someone help me out with this
whats pansexual?
sorry i sound real annoying :/!
gnrqueen 2 years ago
I hate it when pple make jokes about sexuality grrrrrrrrrr...... i'm 16 n' bi but i cant really show cuz i'm frm eygpt n' pple here dont get the idea of 2 girls or 2 boys 2gether ..OG i'm not making anysense soo now i'm gonna stop writtin' lol
zoneofemo 2 years ago
i dont think people should go around and think "oh, am i bisexual or am i not???" .. so, if you are, you are.. and if you don't, you don't. it's just the way it is. I don't think it really matter anyway. everybody should let the gay ones be gay and so on. why does everybody care?
But it's true. those people who isn't, who says to people that they are.. they are patethic..
(sorry for my bad english, Im not english. im from sweden!)
Lizeii 2 years ago
Gay people do get their asses beaten, if you know what I mean? ;)
Also, people follow trends, and people always piss on those doing it. In actual fact, everyone follows a trend at some point.
You say the 'whole emo trend thing' as if you're not part of it. I'm not judging you here, but if there's one thing I'd say you follow (trend-wise) it'd be the emo fad.
mahcuz 2 years ago
I'm heterosexual and there is nothing wrong with it...LOL
Actually I agree with you. I have a lot of gay friends and I find it unreal and totally stupid to claim to be bisexual because "its thing."
midnightdogs 2 years ago
yeah i totally aggree with you there.
i'm 14 and gay, and i do get alot of abuse for my sexuality. And i see it as unfair for people to 'come out' posing as gay to get the advantages of being gay (such as attention from females).
these days i also see bisexuality to be looked at as an 'emo thing'. and some people come out as bi just to seem 'more emo'.
HEARTbreakMason 2 years ago
Let People Do Want, Well They Going To Anyway
Jess89s 2 years ago
Katy Perry just wrote a song...she didn't say it was cool to be bi. That's how people took it. Blame the people who actually live their lives by fads. Not the people who happen to randomly spark something.
(By the way, you make me sick.)
Pabapfc 2 years ago
I understand what you are saying. I completely hate when people say they are gay then straight then gay then bisexual then straight. I am bisexual and I have known i like men and women for 3 years now and it is never easy to admit that because of all the things that are bad that could and have happened to me. I totally agree that people should take sexuality seriously and be only with one person at a time. Thanks for making this =)
Rach6453 2 years ago
i agree with you but like im 13 bi and dating but i don't take being bisexual as a joke...cause pretty much....ive dated boys...and well...how i became bi was that this friend of mine talked me into kissing him 2 years ago.....i liked it then to make sure i was bi....we did....other stuff if you could guess...and....wow...i really like it...XD
saruto1 2 years ago
I agree. *nods* I also love your hair... *steals*
DeathOfSilentWings 2 years ago
I completely agree, I know what you're getting at. I think it's terrible to date each sex at the same time, it's actually really unfair. Of course I'm aware people have different opinions. And I'm tired of people calling themselves gay or a lesbian, or bisexual, even though they know they aren't. I am, and that's my choice, I don't announce it to the world, or keep changing my mind, I am and that's that.
Thank you for this video, I hope people understand.
BTW, you're gorgeous.(:
gaara1hinata2 2 years ago
It isn't your life to be judging, though. If someone wants to have a 3 way relationship, what the hell gives you the right to tell them they're wrong?
I'm bi, and trust me, people don't choose this lifestyle. It isn't easy. So unless you've walked in someone else's shoes, you need to shut the fuck up.
goatgirl08 2 years ago
LMFAO
"doesn't mean you flip a fking coin in the morning, deciding wat gender you'll be likeing that day"
SweetKizzies72 2 years ago
FUCK YOU IM GAY
EVILFUR 2 years ago
i don't think she ment to be rude
i think she was saying people that are bisexual or gay just to get attention.
jmAkaMcBam 2 years ago
That was awesome and I completely agree with everything said. FUCK KATY PERRY!!!
GoatMaggot07 2 years ago
its alot of these stupid young ones that are making it look like a "phase" and girls kissing girls for attention to impress those dopey thirsty men and this pisses off alot of bisexual people from what ive heard and seen
its cos of them all the stereotypes and negitivity form
TastyAcidMilk 2 years ago
I totally agree, bisexuality is becoming such a fad now and it's pathetic . I am
bisexual and it's fucking stupid how some
people act . I know some one who said they " turned " gay and then went bi then found out they were straight likee I think thats stupid like you can fucking undo it or something . I understand if you are curious about your sexuality or confused but you don't need to be like OMG i'm gay then nevermind i'm bi no WAIT i'm Straight. Like fuck off dude. ps my nex is DREAMBOAT?
sxcbabie123 2 years ago
Yeah, I knew I was attracted to both sexes when I was young (I'm not sure what age, it just seemed to be there, you know)
I began exploring my sexuality with others at about 13 and my first was actually a girl.
Today, I am married and I am happy to be
in a monogamous relationship with the man I love. Being bisexual does not mean that you HAVE to have one of each at all times. It is a choice to be with one person that you love.
NitaBMe 3 years ago
Just as a heterosexual orientation doesn't require you to f*ck EVERY member of the opposite sex. If I had fallen in love with a woman and chosen to build a life with her, I would be faithful to that ONE person.
I also do not like the current trendiness of bisexuality because sexuality is personal and a person needs space and solace to feel it from the inside, not a new age society touting a "not only is it OK to be gay, but you should be because everyone says it's cool" mentality
NitaBMe 3 years ago
i understand what u r trying to say. That you are frustrated with people taking advantage of and/ or exploiting the titles of "gay" or "bi" and using them to a manner that degrades the people who are naturally gay or bi. But also I dont think you can place age limits on things like finding out your sexuality. You have to look at everyone differently. you cant generalize groups of people. There are always anomolies. But For the most part I understand what you are trying to say in this.
crazypirate03 3 years ago
i think you should decide your sexuality after you have sex.
MADELINEISYOURMOM 3 years ago
no.
people dont have to have sex to decide their sexuality.
They can decide before they do anything sexually...
oblivious0rebellion 3 years ago
I know. but to decide uppon like, your life choice i think you have to have had sex.
alot of people who haven't even been in a relationship are running around claiming they're bisexual.
MADELINEISYOURMOM 3 years ago
yeah, i know what you mean.
oblivious0rebellion 3 years ago
but if someone says they are straight without sex, no one questions them....
Karewmoz 3 years ago
I know. It also has to do with what your attractive. but alot of people say their gay or bi without ever being in a relationship.
MADELINEISYOURMOM 2 years ago
but the whole thin is that straight people do it too. and some of them end up being gay or bi.
Karewmoz 2 years ago
i creep yew on nex .. XD
btw , i LOOVE yewr piercingz i haz snakebites [;
also , i totally agree wiff yew .
at my school there are so many girlz in grade 7 claiming that they are ' bisexual ' all of a sudden .. it pisses meeh off .
X1olimpia1X 3 years ago
true dat! true dat!
twfroggy 3 years ago
i totally agree being bi and gay isnt a fad its a sexuality and i have been beaten up cause of me being pansexual it sucks and im sick of guys and girls going around saying they are bi when there not it annoys me cause then you cant tell the difference between real bis and fake ones that are just trying to get attention
RazorBladeBoyJoey 3 years ago
I agree because at 14 your still finding your identy and figuring out who you are . and your definition of bisexual .. i also agree with that .
HOLYmonstersxo 3 years ago
I Completely Agree.
Im Only 16 && I Know Better Than That.
But Im A Lesbian( A REAL Lesbian ) Lol.
Youre So Fucking Gorgeous
<3
morbidxatrocity 3 years ago
thumbs up to u ;P
dolefruitycup 3 years ago
I`m bisexual. I dont do it cause i think im cool, i just dont like to kiss girls. I actually like a girl. And i like, am obsesse. But its not because i have no chance with guys or whatever.
FooItzBuffy 3 years ago
I agree totally.
I feel this is a problem that goes around everywhere, it's happening in your town, and in mine as well. and I'm sure many others too. Its not something that needs to be joked with, or looked at as "cool" it is a real decision you make much later in life, NOT when you are 14.
andrea18mydear 3 years ago
i completely agreee
jhste12 3 years ago
wow. i'll be honest, that left me speechless.
I just agree with you so much, it's not even funny.
Being only seventeen myself, I find it ridiculous that people my age, who are almost adults, are still running around joking about their sexualities, because they think it's "cool" or "fun". it just pisses me off. and then, the same people go on to call real homosexuals such cruel names and treat them like shit.
... it's just not fair, really.
mmkay, so that was all rambly, but w/eeee. lol.
xDjinnix 3 years ago
i totalllllly agree wif youu. :]
zombiecranberry86 3 years ago
dude lilMISSpukeFce i defiantly agree with you, 14 is very young age, yes people are making bisexuals look really bad, yes people don't care for gays, yes people are trying to be someone they are not, "scene" i don't understand still where that came from and plus over your very right, just wait a couple years and it will become the past and not cool, i'm straight and damn proud of it, yes i have kissed a couple chicks in my day, but it wasn't over attention, more like experience and drunk,
dollyisdead 3 years ago
OMFG!
i've totally thought about ranting about this topic on soooo many occasions
for me, its not just younger kids, but i know a bunch of tryhard kids trying to embrace the stereotype that 'emos' are bi
now, i believe imma go rant about this right now
TylerTR4G3DY 3 years ago
.......What really pisses me off is that she tells her parents, friends, about the whole situation, and told people how we were in a relationship and giving me a bad rep. anywho I have had experience with all this crap, and I definitely think its not right to say or do things when there not true or your unsure.
nowdropdead 3 years ago
kay wow totally agree.
I had one of my friends come up to me and say that all of a sudden she's bisexual and starts ranting on about how much she likes me.
And well I was kinda like "uhmm but you're not even bisexual?" I think there is definitely a fad going on. Girls are just running around saying there bisexual, gay, or what not. I could just be taking all of this to serious and maybe she's Bi Curious & wants to get to know me and maybe start a relationship, it's just soo complicated. ....
nowdropdead 3 years ago