Wow this is great! Bear in mind also that men get fed up with relationships due to unfulfilled relationships and numerous rejections. what sort of advice can you give to men like this?
I love the way that you express things but...the reality is that when men are attractive and ellite they do not generally choose the less attractive women!! I have been in this situation many times and most ellite men are attracted to very beautiful shallow women who really end up being the gold diggers because all she cares about is a name while the more simple women or poor women get looked over because she is labled too needy!!
as black man i think that black women need to stop trying to be us and be just woman. as black woman or mother of you own black race you need to understand how to please to your black man and do everything for us just like white women do for her white bitch azz lil dick azz white men only then you got black man as a husband, a boyfriend and real black family and real dark/brown skin black looking kids and not all these fake azz mixed looking for white race who will be hate your black azzez! smh!
it's the TRUTH SMH SO SAD!! but hopefully a woman as well would have enough DISCERNMENT to distinguish men like that..& ALSO LET THEM BE, SOMETIMES LADIES WANT TO HAVE A MEN JUST TO HAVE A MEN ..FOR THE SAKE OF BEING ALONE, i do not understand!! GOD CAN HELP I BELEIVE THAT.. HAVE AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, ITS BOTTOM LINE DO NOT TAKE YOUR MATE FOR GRANTED
So refreshing to hear a man talking like this. Everything you say in this video is so accurate! Men, listen to this man- he really knows what he's talking about.
The thing is that the grass isn't always "greener" on the other side.....what makes these people think they are going to leave or push a great woman away and find somebody better? I would have been willing to give some of my ex boyfriends another chance, but I didn't because of how they left me or pushed me away. If you left on bad terms you aren't coming back.
Everyone has a breaking point.....no matter how much a man believes a woman loves him, she ain't going to keep putting up with his foolishness....she may stay one, two or even three years, but once she is fed up...that's it. Once a woman has disconnected emotionally from you....it's a wrap. So when these men are ready to get serious, they either end up with someone that is just as "no good" as he is, or he ends up alone and miserable.
Dedan this goes for the Women too. Ladies if you have a good man, Dont dog him. Hoodrats and golddiggers make it hard for those of us Who are Good Women. Keep doing what you do Dedan.
Wow this is great! Bear in mind also that men get fed up with relationships due to unfulfilled relationships and numerous rejections. what sort of advice can you give to men like this?
riacharda 1 month ago
God Bless Bro!
scretching08 1 month ago
WOW!!! LOVE THIS!!! Good Job Dedan!!! U preaching GOOOOOOD!!!!
I'm running from a no good cheat right now,who's tryin to get back in the
door and I ani't having it!!
enayb 1 month ago
I love the way that you express things but...the reality is that when men are attractive and ellite they do not generally choose the less attractive women!! I have been in this situation many times and most ellite men are attracted to very beautiful shallow women who really end up being the gold diggers because all she cares about is a name while the more simple women or poor women get looked over because she is labled too needy!!
kyciaingod 2 months ago
BLESS YOU!!
spainishgirl 4 months ago
Crazy black chicks with attitudes keep dogging brothers over everything. What is a man to do? Maybe not deal with them any longer...
sandinyourshoes 4 months ago
as black man i think that black women need to stop trying to be us and be just woman. as black woman or mother of you own black race you need to understand how to please to your black man and do everything for us just like white women do for her white bitch azz lil dick azz white men only then you got black man as a husband, a boyfriend and real black family and real dark/brown skin black looking kids and not all these fake azz mixed looking for white race who will be hate your black azzez! smh!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
wooooow what an intro
prettypinkjan 6 months ago
it's the TRUTH SMH SO SAD!! but hopefully a woman as well would have enough DISCERNMENT to distinguish men like that..& ALSO LET THEM BE, SOMETIMES LADIES WANT TO HAVE A MEN JUST TO HAVE A MEN ..FOR THE SAKE OF BEING ALONE, i do not understand!! GOD CAN HELP I BELEIVE THAT.. HAVE AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, ITS BOTTOM LINE DO NOT TAKE YOUR MATE FOR GRANTED
licialicous 8 months ago
PREACH!
BaldButWigged 8 months ago
Well said dude
DEFACTO9 8 months ago
So refreshing to hear a man talking like this. Everything you say in this video is so accurate! Men, listen to this man- he really knows what he's talking about.
Thanks Dedan.
feibz88 9 months ago
good advice!
theRubyRunner 9 months ago
The thing is that the grass isn't always "greener" on the other side.....what makes these people think they are going to leave or push a great woman away and find somebody better? I would have been willing to give some of my ex boyfriends another chance, but I didn't because of how they left me or pushed me away. If you left on bad terms you aren't coming back.
Annazayla 1 year ago
Everyone has a breaking point.....no matter how much a man believes a woman loves him, she ain't going to keep putting up with his foolishness....she may stay one, two or even three years, but once she is fed up...that's it. Once a woman has disconnected emotionally from you....it's a wrap. So when these men are ready to get serious, they either end up with someone that is just as "no good" as he is, or he ends up alone and miserable.
Annazayla 1 year ago
So true! I like this one... I have been victim to this type of man before, it's sad, you do whine up hating them.
blessedlady7 1 year ago
To sum this all up, honesty is the BEST policy. As woman, I want to sincerely thank you. Now, IF only more men were to see this!
QueenLioness84 1 year ago
thank-you, brother.
spainishgirl 1 year ago
O_o this is an eye opener.....
PieIsForLife 1 year ago
another great video congrads on your engagement
JBoyOnDemand 1 year ago
Dedan this goes for the Women too. Ladies if you have a good man, Dont dog him. Hoodrats and golddiggers make it hard for those of us Who are Good Women. Keep doing what you do Dedan.
SilkyBrownLady 1 year ago