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  • I am in this situation right now, but the to guys I love are my best friends in the whole world... </3

  • damn....this is my situation right now !!!

  • This song was definietly made for me sheez

  • what a load of dross!! how did I end up here??

  • like!!! its the hardest thing ill ever have to do!!!

  • I know all about this from the other womans standpoint

  • I was in this situation. Fallen between two. I let go of the other one, but I dont understand myself why... till now.. after a year.. i still think of him non stop. I miss him, and whenever I see him around.. i just rly wanna hug him and tell him how much i have missed him. I dont know what to do now.. any help?

  • @Ellieghant be honest with yourself...if you are missing him...then its not right with the other one...something is going on between you that is making you want the other or you just really want the other one and might not want to admit it...sit down by yourself and figure out who is the right one for you and go after him.

  • He right when he says: "There can be no happy ending" Because in the end it sucks to be both these women because even if you love two people, they are both going to end up getting hurt in the end anyway

  • this is my life right now.. my boyfriend left me yesterday because he has to get married to someone else.. our strict and conservative families and religious differences just won't accept our relationship... i feel so lost without him i don't know how my heart will ever heal, he was the best thing that ever happened to me.. this song really hits home..

  • @shoegal690 It's okay! Everything happens for a reason. If it is meant to be, you guys will find a way back to each other. But for now, you just have to accept it and move on with your life. Good luck!

  • @laiphan93 in our situation, it just can't work out, inside i know we're not meant to be, it just hurts either way :( thank you for your comment though, it means a lot

  • so true, that was me 2 years ago, when i was with my ex.... & i left him for my husband im married to now...

  • One of mi friends Felicia Laboy is in this situation! :'( Im sorry Felicia!!! I love you girl!

  • wow ! i love this song !! ... <3

  • ive heard this song since i was little, ive nvr been in this situation and i hope i nvr have to

  • I've been in love with this song since i was little, i was born in the 90's and this was always one of my songs when i first heard it. It's a sad song yet its simply amazing <3. It's been a major part of my life and even though i cant relate to it relationship wise I can apply it to my life and the people whole walked out of my life....

  • i love this song. it would also sound cool as a female version too

  • I'm not gonna cry, I'm not gonna cry...

    Okay, I may cry.

    DANG, this is a sad song. :'(

  • Stuck in this situation right now. )8

    & I am so lost.

  • i may be a girl but ive been in that situation and it sux when u love 2 people and u know that one of them HAS to get hurt

  • Great song from an amazing decade. As much as people hate on the 90's, it was probably one of the more 'coming together' decades with the best memories.

  • baby u in ma heart!!

  • story of my life.. guy had to leave..he had to be the strong one..

  • This beat go HAM

  • I'm in love to someone who'll be married in less than 2 weeks........the worse part is we are both in love and wanted to go on with the relationship but its to late to stop the wedding and they have been together for 8 years....We met too late and we have to settle with this forbidden love.....I LOVE YOU JOJO....

  • The hardest thing

    Thats what she said.

  • i discovered this is "suggested videos" off backstreet boys. WOW. thank god i did. SO AMAZING. it makes me think of the future of me and my boyfriend, i hope that it doesn't come to this, but it may. at least i have this wonderful song to get me through it. thank you. (:

  • @SingingSteph1996 So did i. i saw it from BSB too

  • i want to listen to 2pac rap to this beat.

    very good song.

  • This is kinda how I feel atm...it's sad. :(

  • Group that kept mainly singing westlife and row ballade in existing boy's group a lot in old times. It is easy to hear the chorus beautifully. Having dissolved at once doesn't become it very regrettably if it thinks now.

  • niceeeeeeeeee

    

  • i really love this song since i was in college, i dnt know why but it always touched my heart everytime i heard this.....

  • this user hates exclamation point..isn't it obvious ?

  • Ouch. LOL. He's married.. i thought I have moved on, but it still hurts. :O

  • i really miss 80's and 90's songs!

  • I had to say goodbye to someone i always loved, when i was with my boyfriend, i had to do it right infront of him. A week later my boyfriend left me.

  • Yoooo, this was the most remembrance song by 98 degrees!!! Still think that they were a pretty good boy band! But, not up there like NSYNC. lolzx.

    I never really liked the Backstreet Boys like that!

  • @RoxxiRay True that. They were good, but not at the level N Sync was. lol N Sync could do a MEAN acapella! I think the two groups who did acapella the best were N Sync and Boyz II Men. =)

  • @81Nickelbabe, AGREED! :-)

  • when i heard this song..i always remember my ex bf.......i guess i love him very much....its the hardest thing to pretend that i dont luv him.........

  • the songs back in the days from boybands are so meaningful. Compared to all the trash out there now!

  • I find this song to be so true. If you have ever loved two people, and each of them have qualities that you wish the other had, and a kinship that just can't be formed with the other, you fall in love with BOTH... You have a relationship that might be better then the one you're with, but truth is when you make the commitment to be with someone forever, if you really care for that person you're in love with, you'll continue to be with the person you have commitment to and walk away from the other

  • ooh, I really cried and cried to this song two years ago...having to say goodbye to the man I love because I'm already committed to a really good man but we're together now and really happy...listening to this makes me remember those gloomy days

  • @marapple10stiffy i dont sympathise with you, not a single bit. You are the one who said goodbye, not said goodbye to.

  • love this song!!

  • I just started ballin into tears. This song is so amazing and reminds me of my ex . :(

  • perfect song for me

  • I MISS BOYBANDS!!!! T__T

  • t.t...

  • SO tRUE!!!!!!!!!!

    =( ouCH!

    

  • i used to listen to them. and i miss listening to them cuz i got rid of the CD. now im having the BEST time looking for the songs again. fun fun.

  • reaaly love 98 degrees... ♥♥♥

  • pssssst .

    

  • rwrwrereet

    

  • i can so relate to this song with me and my ex kinda he kept playin me basically after he told me he couldnt handle a relationship cause of college now he has a new and is still in college and he would still flirt, its the hardest thing ill ever have to do to turn around and walk away and pretend i dont love him =/ we're still friends but its kinda hard still...i love this band though <3

  • this song is dedicated to my bbf bestbud... :( if only he knew how much i love him..

  • i hope this dont happen to me. ever. dun wanna be the 3rd person to anyone. i just wan to be the only one. without lie.:(

  • @muldersmyhubby yeah right.. :(

  • ILOVE THESES GUYS THEY ARE SOOO CUTE!!!!!

  • the only thing i understand is .... "DSHH DAN HRT S TO DOO

  • @pussyred03, ur right men like them wer jerk .. i dont know y there r boys like them wen someone has give them almost everything .., dont they know how it hurts for gurls wen they wer cheated by their bf whom they love so much..

  • @azelleish did someone hurt your feelings girls make the same songs

  • ah 90's boy bands still love them all with now shame :) !!

  • love thm ...i wish i was bak in those times wit good music

  • i fricken LOVE this song!! gahh i miss 98 degrees , and NSYNC , and bsb , and uhh s club 7 , and O-Town , and BBMak... should i go on ? ughh , i just miss the 90's

  • yeah it's so hard to pick between to girls that u are in love with..

  • i've done this:[ and i regret it very much...

  • This is the shit. 98 degrees and on fire.

  • listened to this song a million times another classic....

  • "were not meant to be".. awts!! T.T

  • i know you still love meT.T mooy..

  • in the end it sucks to be both these girls, no guy has the right to be with 2 girls at the same time or vice versa...i think its being too greedy... mean, what kind of heartless person would hurt someone who loves them unconditionally?

    I wish people valued their relationships more...cuz love is precious,and when the heart gets broken, it seldom heals fully...=,(

  • I cant let you see what you mean to me, coz my hands are tied and my heart's not ree.. He's been good to me and he deserves better than that. Its the hardest thing..really it is. haayy..

  • thinking what to do...i had a dream this would end badly...its soo hard to let him go...i dont want anything to happen to him....we are both good ppl soo..how did we end up like this..in this situation..

  • Can someone tell me what the reference to Dr. Zhivago means? I should of read that book for AP and never did! I regret it now! I like this song(:

  • I nostalgiad

  • wooohh.! BRAVO.,BRAVO.!

  • Dear Vevo,  Let me start by sayin get your corporate asses off youtube! Ever since these big companies started paying off youtube so they could post their friggin videos we can't post ours. We are flagged for infringement evry time we include a song we like in our videos.This is YOUtube,the place where we can post OUR videos. If we wanted to listen to music from you wed go to your damn website.

    To people who want greedy corporates gone thumbs up and copy and paste this Vevo shit

  • Amazing song, i love how there is always a song that can relate to any situation.

  • i'm currently in this kind of situation...it's really really hard!..:'(

  • i had an ex that i lived very much. we broke up. i got with someone else and had kids. a few years later we find each other again. and we still love each other like we always have. we stayed in contact for a while. and a few months later he passed away. he was always suppose to be there. i always thought we were ment to be. and now he is gone forever. its very hard for me to accept that hes gone. i didnt get a chance to tell him good bye.

  • I never thought I would be in this position: hands are tied, heart's not free. Yet my heart is yearning for someone else. I love you Brian and I'm so sorry that we met so late when i'm already taken. But plz believe that I love you and I wish you all the best. If fates allows it, I hope we will meet again in the future. And if we are really meant to be, we will be together. I promise that my love for you will never end. I will love you till my last breath. I love you Brian.

  • @pixienshifu we're on the same situation..i could relatewith your message so much!

  • my ex bf dedicated this song to me.it made me sad when i heard this but i know it was my fault too why we parted ways.only time will tell if we really meant for each other.

  • @MishAmanda i know what you meann </3

  • this song just fucking sucks.

    wtf.

    :'(

    I just want you back...

  • I've been in this situation before. It really does hurt both sides.

    It also hurts to hear this song, Because It brings back the Memories.

  • This song reminded me of past experience.. It is hard... to walk away... or even walked away from... its sucks...

  • dang this sounds famliar........there was this guy tht i dated for a cuple months then we broke up nd i got together with someone else nd then the 1st guy nd i spent a weekend with eachother nd i had to tall the other guy tht i had to leave him cus i ddnt love him anymore even though tht was a big lie

  • This reminds me of an O.J. the juiceman song. Its called make the trap aye

  • nice song i really like it

  • This song makes my heart breaks. </3 I feel like the words of the song are coming from my ex-boyfriend. I know he still loves me even though his heart is already taken by somebody else now.

    If you are reading this, Richard Qin, I just want you to know that I still love you.

    It's so hard for us to be together again. I hope to meet you again in the future since fate has a place and time. <3

    Maybe another time... another day...

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  • now i know we all make fun of boy bands from back then now but you got to admit that they made good songs...better than the bullshyt they try and make us listen to now days

  • @Olynicole1234

    Thats because there is no more Lou Pearlman

  • @Olynicole1234 definitely agree!

  • @Olynicole1234 compared to today's pop scene, or most of it at least, the people who wrote the music for these boybands were master craftsmen. and to be honest, this is one song from that whole scene that has really stood the test of time.

  • @Olynicole1234 so true!

  • @Olynicole1234 so ture right

    

  • @Olynicole1234 exactly! the songs nowadays are usually about sex and not love anymore...

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  • @bsbluv22 i miss the good ol' haydays of boybands *sigh*.

  • @Olynicole1234

    amazingly the bullshit nowdays is produced by the exact same people that produced the boy bands back in the 90's, i think people have just become more lazy with what they listen too cause autotune makes everyone sound perfect and the same

  • @spikethegoth89 You're right!

  • @Olynicole1234 Agreed.

  • why do people post there sob stories for strangers they dont even know to read?

  • @volleyballer1996 i know it doesnt matter but even if you dont know the person you can still help them and harsh not to listen to em im that kind of guy that would listen to anybody whos feelings are hurt its really helpful to help strangers and know that your not alone like me im not im goin through somthin that i never wanted to happen

  • *insert sob story that the song reminded you of and no one cares about* wah lol

  • We were best friends. Best friends aren't always meant to be. I accepted that and moved on months ago so why don't we talk anymore?

  • Whenever I here this song I cry :'(

  • for about 2 years on and off communication.... you have finally

    made your choice..... and unfortunately.... its not me.... you choose

    them..... maybe that' s the right thing to do..... but don't you know its killing me

    your memories kill me.....

  • This is horrible i feel like such a bad person, but i am in this situation now. : /

  • ouchh

  • i was said goodbye to last night. after a year together. I knew something was going on for the past 4 months but didn't want to bring it up because I feared the inevitable. finally last night i couldn't take it anymore, brought it up, and he said, he's just not inlove with me anymore, but still loves me. been trying to figure out what to do for months and still can't figure out... we both know it's best to leave, i just wish 4 months ago i would have known...

  • @Hotness10102 im in a twenty year marriage in love with someone else.. and yet the pain of leavin in the next 18 days to be happy else where is extremly HARD cause I have care and love for him jus not in love with him.. i agree .. dont wait .. the longer u wait the harder it get's and the pain is unforgivble..

  • today someone said she cant fight for me anymore. i couldnt say anything. it is really painful. just like that she left..

  • awesome lyrics

  • understood

  • I was in this situation a little bit ago... It hurts more than anyone can imagine.... Especially when you know they loved you with all they had.... but you know in your heart it's the best for you both... great song

  • T-T good song

  • i have been in this situation before and having to pretend you don't love someone because you know in your heart it is the Right thing to do, But it is a pain that has no words to express in adequate depth. but there are more people who are hurt by such a situation and you can't be selfish..Beautiful Song. I love it.

  • para ti J....

  • nice song,,,,

  • Very Beautiful SONG! Love it.... This is when hiphop was good!

  • @mcpark2012 umm..this isn't hiphop..this is POP.

  • I miss and love the 90's! even tho i was born in 1990 lol but still i remmeber all of this!!!! Why did 98 degrees stop singing??? they were amazing and had good songs..if you asked me they had betetr voices then Nsync and BBB!!! seriously! i miss all this and Britney Mania and Christina and Mariah ughhhhhh :( bring it back.

  • I miss 98 Degrees :'(

  • nice voice!

  • i realy realy realy realy like thiz song>>>>

  • This really bites! I've been there, done that, not the one saying goodbye but the one being said goodbye to, and it hurts!!! :((, its so hard why some people can't stand up and fight for you..and what can we say to make them stay? nothing, cause its a matter of having NO CHOICE. :((

  • @caroline007maridel i am here now and it hurts so much

  • @caroline007maridel Are you really surprised that happened? You are a horrible person. Who would want to be with you? Be lucky they told you and didn't just spit in your face and walk away. That's what I would have done to you.

  • @caroline007maridel me too :( I totally agree with u :'(

  • i think 7 people missed the like button.

  • sheena!! you know i can;t stop loving you!! it's the hardest thing i'll ever have to do!! ano kb!

  • i want u back baby please

  • I love most sappy love and break-up songs, but I find myself being drawn back to this one. Sometimes, they just get it right.

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  • @purpleadik21 The song basically means that you already love someone else, and the other person that loves you, yet you can't love them back because you already love someone, and that's the hardest thing.

  • this song is heart-wrenching.

  • Nick has a sexy voice!

  • Two idiots arguing on YouTube. It never ceases to amuse me.

  • Simple as this... Dont get married, just find a woman/man your gonna hate in 5 years and give them your house, easy as that

  • OMG, now that I pay attention to the song is about an infidelity....that sucks. Ok, now I don't like the song anymore. I do not support los cuernos!

  • I'd forgotten how much I love this song.

  • <3 <3 <3 LoVe It <3 <3 <3

  • wen did tis sng relese in wich gener??

    is it sum 90's or sumthin?? ma frnd tld me bout tem n she doesnt no 2!

    anyways da sng's awesum!

  • Im 16 and really young 2 b likeing 98 degrees but I like them <3 :D

  • Wow, a Dr Zhivago reference! That take me by surprise I must say.

  • I love this song, except it makes me feel sad haha.

  • the 90's was the best years EVER!!!!

  • OMG I grew up to 98 degrees! I remember my mom used to play their music in the mornings while she got us ready for preschool ♥

  • @ParadisePoint09 i was in the fifth grade when this song came out. i had all the girls at fowler drive elementary chasin me when i sung this song to them!!!

  • @jed2j no, u didnt.

  • @paschen2219 well, no, just the one i had a crush on lol

  • @jed2j aww thts soo cute. lmao

  • @Lalita175 thanks lol. the 90's were awesome

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  • nice song ;;) .. :D

  • my girlfriend broke up with me because we were 47 years apart...i mean..big deal

  • @nightscrawler62 sorry buddy but that dosent seem like a relationship it sounds more like an experiment.

  • @nightscrawler62 thts like..fuckin retarded to go out with a girl whos 47 years older/younger than you.

  • man i remember me and my friends made a music video to this song it was on tape playing and we were filmed in the playground :P good days :p we were 8 lol

  • i love this

  • we're not meant to be........:(

  • I was in this situation before. People please if you love the person your with but your doubting or questioning the relationship or marriage then you shouldn't stay with him/her, because it hurts a lot worse when you put it off just because you don't want to hurt him/her. Explain it to them and yeah they will be upset but they will forgive you but if you wait then it hurts 20x more. Trust me I waited to long and it hurt the both of us more than it should have.

  • @Hotness10102 hi umm i had a situation like 8 months ago but i dont wanna tell you here, can u private msg and ill let ya know