Changing who we are for LOVE..

[TeIdleTeen]

watching you makes me happy :)

[Yellomushroom69]

Eh...... meh too. My Boyfriend is OBSESSED with screamo music DX

Then I started listening to screamo.

Now I never ever listen to the black eyed peas.

they used to be my favorite band.

I don't know what to do.

I love the black eyed peas,

But i love him too.

HELP ME CHRIS!

He makes me so happy, but I never listen to my favorite music anymore!

[maybeimamonkey]

@Yellomushroom69 hey you should just listen to what you like and not worry about what your bf thinks. if he likes you he wont care about that stuff

[Meggi218]

your camera was shaking more than the camera in cloverfield xD SIEZURE CHRIS XD rofl jus kidding :)

[theehotgurl]

Wow. this just cleared something up for me. i can't thank you enough for bringing this to light(:

preech brother preech!

[enrigayboy]

Thank you

[ExMxO59002]

@TankTooHotTV Homo-Latin word for man; same.

You just made yourself look like a dumbass.

[kiefersbird3]

i'm watching this totally gobsmacked! Where has the girly chris gone? I have'nt seen his videos for a while, so seeing chris with short dark hair and stubble has shocked me. It's a good change tho, he looks cute!

[SSTrueLoveMarinus]

This was nice Chris. Where can I get the background music? Thx!

[allyiscrazyful]

not copying the last comment.. but i needed this today too <3

[NicholeHeartsxx]

I really needed this today <3 thankies

[WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWVWW]

@TankTooHotTV

Even if this guy is gay and you are not, he is hotter than you so most straight girls would rather have this guy's penis in their vagina even though this guy's penis have been in other men's anus, straight girls would rather have sex with this guy cause he's hotter than you straight ugly retard. :)

[Myforever31]

dud i totallyknow what you mean..... one of my bestfriends is doing that and this guy is a total fake asshole!

[ckyhunkameat]

I like this look for you. And, no, I'm not being an asshole saying "you look better as a boy" or whatever, I just think your face and face shape look great with short hair. This has nothing to do with your sex, sexual preference, etc. And I think you're a very smart human being. I like watching your videos. I like hearing your thoughts and opinions on things. And sometimes you make me laugh my ass off. You're one of the coolest gays I've discovered (ha), regardless of what dumb homophobes think.

[JhonPaoloD]

truesay.

[lovelyleon33]

i'm funny, can we go out then?

[rosesdiary]

what do you use on your skin? or have you made a vid on this?

[GayIrishPigBoy]

THATS EXACTLY THE WAY I AM WHEN IM BEING SERIOUS I NEED OTHERS TO REALIZE THAT AND BE SERIOUS WITH ME. MY SENCE OF HUMOR NEVER GETS A BREAK AND THATS WHY ALL MY GAY FRIENDLY FRIENDS STAY AROUND BECAUSE IM ALWAYS THEIR TO CHEER THEM UP. TRUE TRUE TRUE YOU HAVE TO BE YOUR SELF BECAUSE IF YOU DONT YOUR CHEATING YOURSELF AND OTHERS OUT OF THE POSITIVE THINGS YOU HAVE TO OFFER AND THE TALENTS AS WELL. CHRIS YOUR AWSOME AND YOUR A GAY MAN WHO I'D LOVE TO HUG RIGHT NOW ALL MY FRIENDS LOVE YOU

[jdrakepandalove100]

dont change !!!!!!!!!!

[adam1130a]

Love the wisdom! Keep doing videos like this. U B A WORLD CHANGER!

[ConfeshunzzZ]

u flicked on the wise switch thid vid

[RoodeTube]

Seriously you are so cool! I so want you to be my gay best friend. I love how you love yourself and take no crap from anyone!!! You inspire me sugar!!

[GleeLovaChic]

Cris is indeed wise.

[Phantomhaivuru07]

This reminds me of Erin, when I was in love with her I was being someone else but then I found my true love, German girls are so sweet. >__< It's important to go by your own principals and to believe and love yourself and do what you desire, not for others but yourself. Thanks Chris, best video ever. *abuses the like button*

[xXBaBYliiCouSXx]

I agree (: There's no point changing ourselves , and we should just be ourselves :D

[iDIGRESSalot]

so true! Thanks chris!

[TheSchwarz1000]

I completely agree. Thx for the vid.

[LivvsBelieber]

<3



[givingtothekidds]

Cruising in the park huh? lol so what happen?

[Gaablove]

I almost cried.. idk why, but thanks, you opened my eyes ... <3

[missKmR3]

my thoughts exactly... i have always said that... your spouse should not be the completion of you... but a great addition to you...

[shaunaghmck]

Fuck all the haters!!!! I Love You Chris,,,, You have great advice and you make me feel better  about myself because your advice helps :). . . ignore all the people who like to talk shit they don't know what there on about :)

[vanessahgirl1]

Uhhhh yeah i kinda disagree with a lot of stuff you say but hmm......you look a lot better. I love this whole new look you got going on. I'm trying my best not to sound like a creep.

[GamerThreeThousand]

Dude, it's been like a while since I last saw you and... you look hot. :O

[froo13]

my uncle is gay so shutup about gay people

[crycan1985]

You know Chris, I take my hat off to you :) and I totally agree with what you're saying here. You look and speak so naturally now compared to your original videos and I know you probably still get a lot of stick from them. But you seem to have really settled with yourself and your identity and how you think and you are probably now the most beautiful I have seen you in any of your videos :)

Change can be good, its an adventure providing its natural and not (like you say) for other people :)

[2l3s24]

shut up! all you guys are faggots!

ooh and btw thats the point! make fagg people feel bad about themself! for being a homo!

[disinterestful]

@2l3s24 Dream on....

[HorroribleCosplayers]

@2l3s24 Say that to a gay person's face! my mama's gay, watch how bad she kicks your ass.

[zimmiekimmie1]

@2l3s24

first of all you just made yourself sound stupid in your first post because you cant put a sentence together or spell right, second stop callin people that and get over it you dont like gays we get so what stop trying to make yourself feel better and come out of the closet already :)

[2l3s24]

you're SO GAY! wakala!

you should cut your pines off!!! i mean if you still have it ofcourse.. you not should living on this world cuz you're from gayland little friend! dick sucker

[catsfat1]

@2l3s24 if you don't like it DON"T COMMENT there's no need to make other people feel bad because you have problems with them they are who they and they aren't going to change

how would you feel if someone said that kind of thing to you? don't give other people negative feelings about themselves

[Jorrdunn]

@2l3s24 Penis*, Dumbass. Go kill yourself.

[katzeyez1979]

@2l3s24 its ppl like you that give GOD reason enough to go apocalyptic lol

[ShadowEyes245]

Love yourself before you love someone else~ ='DD

that was always something i stuck by, and man did it help.

[chicken4metoo]

i want to meet you so badly <3 you inspire me <3

[kaitlynhaas]

i love that quote

"when we love ourselves,other people loving us is just a bonus"

and its soo true!!

loveyou chris!!

[nykstukaigeriakava]

Wow, Chris. You just said something that I was thinking, actually living for a couple of years. I wasn't myself, was just in kind of a misery, and when people loved me, even told me compliments, I felt bad, I felt like they weren't complimenting me, but someone I am not. That was a vicious circle (I'm not happy, therefore I can't love myself, therefore I'm not happy, etc.) and I have exited it. I am finally happy.

p.s. It's amazing to know someone else thinks the same as I do :))

[Ccchoman]

1:56 how are we gonna be happy with them being happy.....with us being something we are not.

do you get what iam saying? no i definly dont get what the hell u are even talking about , all i heard that video was happy us them realtionship you i think (me) too

[ashleymariexx333]

your amazing.

[DrunkenStrawburry]

Wow you just totally solved my problem. Thank you.

[zero021one]

"When we love ourselves, other people loving us is just a bonus."

Wonderfully put!

[WowMeliTV]

You just helped my problem..

[ghew88]

Chris, to quote a little, southern girl you once were quite protective of...for some reason. " You'll find it in rebellion "

[HabRihanna]

I'm going to sound like some weirdo but is someone asleep there cos i can hear someone snooring lmaoo

[MrGotTallent]

Dang chris

[scratchyB13]

Everyone keeps saying that Chris is such a strange person. I personally love him and what messages he gives out because its all things peoople can live by and i especially like this one. Thank you Chris Crocker, you are my inspiration and you taught me to live my life the way i want to and to love myself. <3

[Mizzanon163]

@555dreadnaught I seen your comments on all his other recent videos. If he's a "FAG" why are you watching all his videos? And commenting mean, hurtful and cruel things when you could be doing something much more productive with your life...like...getting up off your fat arse and taking some classes in how to treat people properly!!!

[Slipknot02345678]

This is so true!

[EsotericWisdom33]

You're more intelligent than most people would think at face value. Stay hungry stay foolish ;)

[fukinLOVEcamelsMAN]

over and out is glozels thing :@

[amaterasukamisama]

holy shite you look hot out of drag O:

[swtlilvi3t]

why did you cut your hair????!?!?!?!?!!?!?

[DoLLlook]

this is totally true!!!!

[Amazingbeautyx]

Yu dont look like you! ♥ I still love you :)

[InesHecate]

I adore that guy!



[ilikeyoghurt1]

You are damn awesome.

[XxmissdanierandomxX]

@DrinkSanJuice. Um hes been a dude fur a long time now....dont you watch his vids and keep up w/ he twitter,i wud if i hade one /=

[WOAHitsKemo]

Chris gay crocker , ur cute.

[garvin0313]

AMEN

[MyWorldIsUgly]

No. I broke up with myself yesterday.

[GingersAreGimps]

itschriscocker

[IsNadineMe]

So true. My boyfriend told me he loved me but didn't like how I was "overweight" I'm not overweight at all. :(

[DrinkSanJuice]

When did you turn into a boy?

[lauraaa3]

You are so fucking right.

[taradrama]

BRILLIANT

[xHybridMoments]

I think you are actually a great person.

[lillydachic]

CHRIS I LOVE YOU

I get told to change myself and I'm turnin 16, and I always put people first,but when it comes to me I ruin things with friends,but if they aren't meant for me,are they just putting me down for their shits and giggles?Please reply back =c

[HayleyyyLouise89]

I used to watch chris when he was shall we say very 'out there' with the crazy videos of him putting on shit loads of make up and generally being crazy it's seems that he has toned it down a little and got kinda serious and I have to say I'm liking this video it's so true what he is saying! Never change yourself for anybody!

[sassy2420]

I have seen alot of people trying to change themselves, and so have i.

[ChaZziLuvzsxYuh]

He sounded like a girl when daa video started, but i don't care(; hes awesome!!

[wetdream09]

my EX bestfriend, she's a serial bf dater. everytime she's changing for them too. one moment shell be pale cause her bf likes pale and have dark hair, next shes blonde n tan again. i can get wanted to make someone happy, but make sure it makes YOU happy first.

[neromagick]

@kblast2131 I'm a cancer

[ADevilsHollywood]

I absolutely love the new look... :)

[M3devac]

I hope you're happy with the way you are now, especially with your new look, because you look very handsome.

[kblast2131]

chris you have to be a cancer because we are too much alike!!!!

[kimmyfreak200]

love even friendship seems like such a miracle. its a wonder how it happens. everyone i knew was so fake they'd lie just to be accepted. none of their friendships are real then. friendship is sharing, being who u are, being loved and caring when we're hurt. but these days people live inside their own head so selfish, alotta repressed anger. people have forgotton the meaning of love and friendship

[Botlecher]

Wake up you fuckin asshole you are borned with penies so you are a man you are changing is not a new haircut you are still a fuckin gay God is watcing you See you in hell

[TinkersWinkers]

@Botlecher Hell is the common grave of man, dumbass. You are going there too. We all are. Read the Bible before you go and try and condemn people by it and you don't even know what it says...smh...

[Botlecher]

@TinkersWinkers well you should fuckin know that i wish i dont go to hell and i dont read Bible cuz i am muslim so STFU

[Botlecher]

@TinkersWinkers Okay i dont read bible cuz i am muslim And this dude sucks He is in a deep shit he should get a life

[MusicElskerLove]

@Botlecher stop the hate congratulate.

[CherryxVanillah]

Soooooo sexy.(:

[LegendGamingMC]

So Inspiring:D

[jassy4694]

U help alot ;).....you are amazing chris! :)

[XXhurlgurlXX]

Love the hair (: Or, lack of.

[BrisbaneGoFish]

itschriscrapper

[KaylaShanni]

what's the significance of your "Complete" tattoo? Just wonderin' :)

[2004EAR]

Dont mind my last comment I figured itmout.

[2004EAR]

Kinda new to you. Please tolerate this question: Are you just the bubbly type?

[LovieDovieBear]

ur cute as hell

[TheOblivixX]

dude, i totally agree with this

[benzackry]

chris you changed. and you're awesome.

[yellowspottedtoad]

you're so pretty! :)

[AbbieLikesMuffins]

@yellowspottedtoad LOL! Isn't he just :-)

[yellowspottedtoad]

@AbbieLikesMuffins totally dreamy. gj chris!

[LillyButtx3]

i remember chris having so many haters. now he's loved so much.

[SonyaKano]

@LillyButtx3 I agree with you, he's definately matured. :)

[EmmyNorth]

wise words : )

[dancefohhheva]

chris youre so skinny! im effing jelous!!!

[4EverMusica]

The comments below vvv I am gay, and I don't talk girly. I sound "normal".

[TheSlowy3327998]

gh

[houssamnintendofan]

u gived me the real mean of self respect 10x chris i love u

[poodleKIKA]

Wow..that's amazing. :) You're amazing. :)

[12achoo]

I have never agreed with you so much in my life, you actually opened my eyes to some things. Wow, props.

[paperdynamite]

Wooooah, when I saw the thumbnail I was like, so motherfucking hot. So fine, hot, hot sexy as hell.

But your still gay.

Damn, smart & gay :(

I hoped it was acting :(

[FeatherfulHeatherful]

As much as a "bad rep" he has, he's a fricken genius.. he's so smart. If he wrote a book I'd read it.

[wakeupitslife]

he's hot.

[mike93345]

Explain this to me - why do all gay guys sound the same? No offense but I suspect that gay guys change their voice on purpose...

[ParkLeeNa]

@mike93345 they change their voice on purpose as much as I am asian on purpose.

[CK3890]

@ParkLeeNa No, they do change their voice on purpose. I've seen it. Dude named Jeff came out of the closet and 3 months later he sounded exactly like this.

[AdamBlueification]

@mike93345 I'm gay.. and yes. The REALLY REALLY gay ones put on that voice.. I don't. I use my own voice.

[demoncry54]

@mike93345 not ALL gay's have the same voice some have deeper ones others very high some around normal voices it all depends.

[ThatEpicGuy123]

Gay

[cu95474]

you have a point. just like what rupaul always say, "if you can't love yourself, how in the world are you gonna love somebody else?"

[TheScorpio290]

Sorry to say but creepiest hi I ever heard.

[persianeyez01]

this is perfect, chris you are so insightful and empowering.

[FrostbiteHDFX]

is that your normal voice or what

sounds a little high for a mann

[FunkyDuttyButty]

I totally agree with u...LOVE U!!

[IAmBland]

Finally, you're a guy. stick with that.

[eatsomechowder]

@IAmBland he's always been a guy.

[MrBarbyboy]

Lol you look normal now

[xirisillusion]

you're so right

 thanks ^^

[StudleyMuffinGurl]

Gahhh you're so cute :3 lolol. you're completely right, too(:

[Punky14597]

I Watched your old vids and this is likea huge difference xD Ur actually very nice :3

[BunBun969]

;O you look so different ever since you dropped the mascara and cut of your blonde hair!

[TheMarii1986]

You have wise advice far beyond your years. Xooox

[TheMarii1986]

:0)

[howcomewefall]

Just going to throw this out there... You look like Andy from Weeds... which is a good thing! <3 You're greatness

[Druidfull]

He looks so good as a guy.. why shouldn't he be like that? And stop being a bitch?

[tanishadwyer]

what does your tattoo say?

[marshandomness]

chriss.... tell me something i dont know.

kbye

[TheSlowy3327998]

lov this video an a u right chirs

[STAYP0SITIVE]

THIS IS WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE

[ZulKoji]

"I've been there for love" and the title of your video explains how you changed from feminine to a "man". So this guy changed you and now that you two broke up, you are stuck with this look.

[F5FURU12]

my big brother was fat and nice when he was fat and he liked some fat bit*h who didnt want and she was playin with him

[ShadeGirl123]

You look nice with that hair. :3

[SummerOreosGirl]

I hope you get "the bonus" :)

[MsEminem120]

omg you look so cute in thr thumbnail xD

[Luv202]

I love you and yur great advice!!

[Uhawk2521]

I think this guys gay.

[RyoRidicule23]

@Uhawk2521

Duh?

[dave13111]

@Uhawk2521 No shit, Sherlock.

[Karopex]

@Uhawk2521 Are you sure?

[RainbowBalloon22]

"Never apologize for what you feel It's like saying sorry being Real"

[LovinAutumn88]

Wow... awesome thoughts there. Keep rambling lol

[LoveGlueGunnin9]

The first time i feel you are right ! am sick of being fake !

[gabrella98]

well chris u look so better than when u were a girl well i kinda like u and if u like work out and be all muscled the girls will be following u :P! ^.^ ill be one of them XD!

[courtney888888888]

This is really good advice ^^!

[PeterAct2]

Truer words were never spoken. Thank you.  :-)

[Strangerhobo]

Btw chris i like the fact that you live in your skin now rather than shoving makeup on you face or dying your hair or fake hair etc. good improvement:)

[Weaponx1569]

Gay people have no souls so therefore you...chris croker you have no soul faggot

[Shithead123CRAP]

@Weaponx1569

Gays have more soul then other person in the world

they understand peopel and they understanding girls better then a girl:P

so just shut up and fuck up

[Strangerhobo]

@Shithead123CRAP how can you even justify those statements?! 1. that is one byass opinion you fucktard:L even if you were an offensive redneck twat you still have soul:P and 2. gays no girls better than girls do?!XD gays dont have the things girls do e.g periods, boobs, female hormones:L what was it again....

"so just shut up and fuck up"

[Shithead123CRAP]

@Strangerhobo

I am stupid and by the way you don´t have to tell me what girls have i am a girl lol -.-'

[shadowgurl27]

I love these relationship videos you're making.

They are making me think pretty hard!

Haha :)