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  • even tho spoke.. yea i call em spoke.. looks kinda high I have to personally thank him for this.So much insight.I love when something awakens in me that I didnt even know I had.

  • This man is awesome when it comes to relationships. This man calls himself Donklue. To know what it stands for and to watch him go to the youtube search bar and type Donklue.

    He was Illuminating. I hope you like him as much as i did.

  • Why is it so many books about men being dogs and cheaters etc.. when women are the same exact way.

  • good stuff

  • ooooooooooh i want your booksssss

  • Hooah Brother. Thanks for your service, and you are a miitary success story :) Thank you for being an inspiration, and our past are kind of the same and I want to thank you for being another inspiring person. As a young lady you give all the right advice that I give my friends. Please keep it up.

  • this is my first time hearing of JL and I love him already! *heads to amazon to look for his books*

  • 4:00 and beyond. REAL TALK.

  • I would love love love if he would come speak at Augsburg in MN!!

  • I love this guy...when are you coming to Jamaica?

  • here's how you avoid getting cheated on..........date an ugly guy, a square guy, or a nerdy guy

  • Great Interview. I think JB should take some classes on interviewing or just some classes in general just to add to his awesomeness. Nothing sexier than a man who can make you laugh but is also smart and intelligent.

  • I def needed to hear that...

  • Keep God first buddy!!!!

  • DAMNNNN THAT WAS SOME REAL SHIT RIGHT THERE!

  • men thanks , i can see now

  • lmao this is on point!! I know people that have this problem, hahahaaaa

  • Thumbs Up If Your The 9,631 Viewer..

  • dats y i frustrate my dude lmao

  • so true

  • What about the good men that get cheated on,does this apply to them too!!Excluding myself ,because I ain't s)-(it yet!!LOL!!

  • Don't know how I ended up here but I'm glad I did,NOW THAT'S A MAN THAT KNOWS WHAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT!!👍

  • Des Nigga SpokenReasons Taking This Shit To The Brain

  • Look at that head thou..lmaooo

  • he makes so much sense wow!!!

  • Man where the fuck was J.L. Ford when I was being cheated on :(

  • i want them books dead serious

  • how do you prevent your self from being like a mother to him?

  • Buddy got a peanut head lol but good advice tho

  • that makes complete sense. but i think women dont mean to change, i think its just something they do because its their way of trying to be a better lover. Unfortunately its a double-edged sword. By giving us what we want you make us happy, but we loose the excitement. At the end of the day you just need to find a balance between giving us what we want & giving us a challenge. Women are not the only 1's who need to work in the relationship though.

  • Dam so true

  • FRUSTRATION IS NOT A GOOD THING

  • damn, this was deep. alright alright, good interview.

  • Good shit bro get that money

  • wow! good stuff damn! fuxed me up lol

  • I like him I cant wait for part two!!!!

  • dat guy gotta BIG head!

  • @ghost0ds

    which one

  • WELL ILL BE... ...

  • mann o mann all i could do was clap while watching this! everything he said was sooo real! I can honestly say I learned the hardway, but at the end of it all, I came out strong and confident in myself instead of the woman that I turned myself into to keep him! Thank you author JL Ford and thank you SpokenReasons for having this interview :)

  • Exactly! If the woman in a man's life losses herself and her own identity, she untimately becomes his alter ego.....it's like he's dating himself and not he woman he liked in the beginning.

  • yo TdanceTV2 you didnt get an interview with spoken reasons did you? DIDNT think so stop hating

  • God Deam it this might be true lol

    

  • Have to disagree with cat about men not knowing what they wont: correction clueless and dumb-founded boys don't know what they won't. I was born ahead of my own time homie and always knew what I wanted so you need to check out my relationship book ''The Imperfect Man''

    After listening to this dude he comes off like Steve Harvey real talk I didn't agree with any of it.

  • as a fellow successful author of 14 books! I'll definitely check it out.

  • How can I get a #FCHW shirt?

  • He makes good points, but there are always some exceptions to the rules.

  • Does he have eyes?

  • this was b.s. i do want a woman to cook and clean!

  • @MrPunch36 he not saying you dont.

  • some of the realest shit I ever heard

  • Ayee UCFFFF in the building!!.. Both of them past students!!

  • does he have a YT channel. he is GOOd!!!

  • True

  • Im sooooooooooo proud of you J!!!! love you bro!! get it!!!

  • wow i got somthing out of this

  • that's real shit

  • speakin the true....

  • JL Ford look like a bald headed kevin durant

  • im def buying all 3 books!

  • im def buying all 3 books!

  • im def buying all 3 books!

  • This guy really has a knack for looking into the bigger picture for what's really going on in the minds of guys in a relationship, this is some good stuff.

  • So if my girl stop texting me a whole week but can clearly be on FB and still don't talk to me; should I keep being frustrated or try to change her in the criteria?

  • look at 5:17 lol JB looks enlighten!!

  • men i need to buy all 3 of his books on da real reasons were can i get his books

  • I think I have just found something new to read.

  • Great interview!!

  • Ok u showing u got depth Dats gon be key wen u get older as your brand gud look

  • I will not have SOPA stop all this good shit.

  • suga daddy hump head having ass nigga lol but nah good book and great motivational speaker!!

  • Guys go check my new videos out subscribe and comment plz :)

  • STOP SOPA

  • this should've been longer man, you need to get him on again lol

  • damnnn....im bout to major in woman studies now haha

  • aye ladies dont watch this shit. he doesnt know what hes talking about ]O_o[

  • good video homie but there are good men out there that would like a woman to be able to do the small things, not sayin she has to bow to my every command like im high and almighty but its def a two way street. some good men jump through hoops for their woman and lose her still. even if a woman puts herself at number 1 in TODAYS society she will end up single cuz most are not gonna stick around jus to be a back burner. none the less good vid

  • Those Interviews Are Great But I Need To See More Funny Jokes... #ASAP

  • Why a man attacking men I don't get it cause men learned how to cheat from women and women cheat more then men they just don't get caught smh y'all should be ashamed

  • word

    

  • ok, that is all good for the women, but what about the good brothas who need guidance to analyses their women??? He speak about men not knowing about men(internally) and how to have a successful relationship; where is the help section for the good brothas????

  • HAHAHAHA!

  • omgg that just opened up my eyes...with my bf im always saying stuff like im not good enough for him he needs this he needs that or like i want to be wat he wants me to be....but this is some real interesting stuff i might have to see into that book....my bf is confident in always saying i am good enough for him and he only wants me...<3 thanks for the info love :)

  • This dude TJ a Simp Sorry.

  • omg not another nigga author pandering to insecure women pssssssssssssssh!

  • Much respect to JL Ford, your a great man! You guys are doing a GREAT job, for real. However, Peep the game though...there are women that cheat too. I'v seen really nice guys that do alot for their girl, but his girl has a fling on the side(I know alot sadly). Humans are humans. Lust is just that thing we get from time to time, its up to the individual to "Tame the beast". I'm glad you wrote the books...just hope you keep a balance for Male and Female issues so its not just one sided...feel me?

  • I don't completely agree with what he's saying, I don't think every man needs to stay frustrated because of a woman. Why would I want/need to stay frustrated and not stay happy? =/

  • so fukin true !!!

  • Hell yea he broke it down

  • Truth!

  • Kind of interesting.

  • WHOOO!!! SOCIOLOGY MAJORS!!!!!

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  • Awesome interview. He made a lot of sense. Hope a lot of people heed his message.

  • I see spoken reasons is stepping his interviewing game up. Good shit.

  • I want tha t shirt!

  • YOU AINT SHIT >:o

  • i cheat

  • Good Interview bruh...

  • Where can i buy that Shirt 

  • first one to say 'first'

  • ?????

  • swag

    

  • YO BRO I WANA MAKE A VID WITH YOU!!!

  • WOOOOOOOOOOOT

  • #FCHW

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