I love being a wife. I have great examples before me. My parents have been married for 35yrs in counting. My grandparents for 60! It is a learning process. When I first got married I thought we would be in the honeymoon stage for yrs. Marriage is beautiful but it takes works. I have a role, he has a role. We don't try to imitate anyone else relationship, do what works for us, remembering @ the end of the day it's just the two of us. Always support his vision. And God is the head of our lives.
As a brother I believe men and women should be submissive to each other, I believe in a partnership. And people get it twisted "submissive" as the Bible teaches isn't about dude sitting on the couch waiting for wifey to bring him a hot plate of food it's about sacrificing your all for your woman like Christ did for the church.
I'm a Black Married Submissive Women who is a HomeMaker and I love it. It is so sad that only 30 % of Black women are Married in the U.S. If the Black Women Learns the Art of Submission are Community will change over night. I am a Christian and most Christian women dont understand what a Godly women's role is. The Black Muslim sisters understand submission this is why they have a husband before a Christian sister does. Black women must learn the Art of Submission. Thanks
true. many beleive that its weak to yield to a man but there is a difference between a controlling man and a man thats in control. It is easy to submit to someone that is your life partner and he has no problem listening to you. ppl forget that marriage is the ultimate team. Also, there r women who submit 2 men who r NOT their husbands! I dont believe in that. Giving like a wife when u r NOT a wife takes away incentive to marry..peace to you!
@deatha44 I'm a Black Married Submissive Women who is a HomeMaker and I love it. It is so sad that only 30 % of Black women are Married in the U.S. If the Black Women Learns the Art of Submission are Community will change over night. I am a Christian and most Christian women dont understand what a Godly women's role is. The Black Muslim sisters understand submission this is why they have a husband before a Christian sister does. Black women must learn the Art of Submission. Thanks
things are ok I want to get some dred extentions I hope it's not a whole lot of money to get it done and I see that crazy wisenubian sent you a vid response me and him argued a few months ago
thank you I made a video about the rape of Shania Davis and he sent me a vid. saying how some women enjoy it and going off on me about blk women wich didn't have anything to do with the vid. and talking shit about me
When it comes to disagreements..ive learned, especially on youtube that ppl can say alot of things and some things are worth the argument..and then some..well, no matter what you say, ppl choose to believe what they want, whether you make sense or not. Religion and race and relationships: ALWAYS STICKY! lol........
SOme things are worth the fight..and then some things are.., well, u know....better left alone.
That'll never happen. Beyonce is the ideal Blackwoman independent strong beautiful (in drag) powerful and married to a powerful man... with no children yet?
Thats what feminisim gets you...
I wont talk to a sister with a perm; its gotten so bad! These sister need to study and get grounded or we will always be divided and bottom feeders
Great video sister. Adding it to the playlist. I see you said this video was EXCLUSIVLEY to a certain group of women, but SOME people seem to be INCAPABLE of respecting that. If you are not dating black women, no one cares what you think of us or needs your chiming in (ahem!)
black women just need 2 know that respect is a 2 way street. if they know that they can keep a black husband. being sassy , lowdown , none supportive, & 2 dam religious . they don,t have be subservant just be respectful...then the brothas wouldn,t look 4 the white woman or other...
BigLyfe09---- No this is not a steriotype but sadly the truth about most sistas. Stop being rude all the time. Blackmen don,t get treated like that with other women . I been dating a hindu sista & she is darker than most sistas but has much longer hair so color doesn,t matter just respect..
again... you speak as If you know me and all of my personal and cultural influences... we should treat individuals individually.. ESPECIALLY IN PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS... Your slandering doesn't feel respectful and makes it hard for anyone on the other end to receive your message positively... you are trying to make constructive statements right?????
BigLyfe09---- I see sistas in relationships with men other races & sometimes i see the disrespect they show them. The problem in that sistas think it suppose 2 B about them all the time when in a relationship it suppose 2 be about both.
while true for some.. you're still making a huge stereotype in a fast changing society.. you can't assume that I was raised in an abusive or poor household just because of the fact that I'm a black woman... I guess some folks get things stuck in their minds and don't want to see it any other way. good luck.
BigLyfe09--- it has nothing 2 do with your social or economical back ground. Black women can,t handle a good relationship they always got 2 add drama 2 it. Quite listening 2 those mary j blige songs. peace sista.
garychldress74- you just said it doesn't have to do with my SOCIAL or ECONOMIC (class) background.. then you said that Black women (all black women anyone would assume from your reading) can't handle a relationship.. THAT IS A STEREOTYPE. as bad as black males have it.. I'm not gonna be another person making judgment on my own race of men and point fingers at all for my OWN problems (we all have them). We really need each other's support... this is ABSURD. good day.
What the hell does the length of her hair matter then ? This video was to BLACK WIVES, not black men DATING Hindu women who hate black women... YOU DON'T KNOW MOST SISTAS.. You don't know ONE percent of the black women on this continent, let alone in your state. So you should scoot on to a Bollywood video.
EbonyLoveAndMarriage---- No No i don,t hate blackwomen i just hate what u do. 4 instance U all R on tv & radio trying 2 be like or act like white women. with the fake hair , eye lashes, nails etc then talking about u wanna real man. most of all its the Attitude which is horrible especially towards brothas its like ( some) of u sistas have a slave mentality wasah taught u 2 hate yourself & ME. its not about the hair.
"No No i don,t hate blackwomen i just hate what u do... U all R on tv & radio trying 2 be like or act like white women." YOU don't know ME to know what I DO~! YOU don't even know ONE percent of BW. You boast about being with a HINDU woman when HINDUISM creates a PERMANENT lower class of Untouchables for ANYONE born BLACK you imbecile! You are the one with a slave mentality in THIS CONVERSATION. If it wasn't about the hair, your stupid ass wouldn't have mentioned it u WILLIE LYNCH critter!
iEbonyLoveAndMarriage---- I,m not saying all sistas but some. U talk about the hindu sista but she knows her history b4 the aryan invasion. i bet u & the rest of your friends think black history started in Alabama or mississippi or slavery . i,m not the 1 dying my hair blond wearing blue contacts & talking with a nasal voice. always puttin the brothas down then wondering y they with other women. u read the willie lynch letter it seem like the black woman has fell 4 it.
AGAIN, YOU ARE ON A VIDEO where the poster SPECIFICALLY said it was for BLACK WIVES- you aren't one. You are a Hindu woman praising BW basher- therefore disrespectful in the utmost. <No surprise that you don't respect the sister's wishes. I don't give a damn if she knows the history of the Eskimos.
You keep addressing me as some figment of your stupid, vapid imagination. My hair is not blond, nor straightened & my eyes are brown. YOU ARE THE 1 PRAISING ppl OTHER than ur own.
And apparently you dimwit, you don't know your OWN history, which is why you spend time disrespecting ALL black women on this board, salivating over a Hindu woman's hair-length,as if that was a virtue, when that HIndu woman, knowing her history ( as you say) of the Aryans, would STILL FOLLOW THEIR RELIGION WHICH SANCTIFIES RACISM AGAINST ALL BLACK PEOPLE IN INDIA BASED ON SKIN COLOR AND SKIN COLOR ALONE and your COON ass is over here talking about BW Who dye their hair blond. LOOK IN THE MIRROR!
A marriage is based on God. God is the Glue that keeps your marrigae in tact. Without God What is a marriage? If there is conflict in a marriage Go to God. Live for God. So true I love your video.
God is apart of my marriage. I don't know about the rest of the World. Im speaking what i know to be True in my Heart. You dont have to agree. Its Good to hear others input. But i will stick to what i know. Thanks and God Bless.
As you should.. I just want you to realize that other ppl outside of your paradigm also have happy marriages & don't believe what you believe. I know so many couples who say that "god" told them this or that person was the one and they marry despite the things they should be more cautious of and when they divorce, the whole "god told me they were the one for me" becomes as irrelevant as their marriage vows.
I am with you on that one. My X said to me, her friend left and went to MIA. Wondering why she saying this to me? It appears to me that she told my X to leave me and to treat me like crap, take the kids, and make him pay, saying she deserves better than me... It is her fault for listening to her. accept the consequences.
IIts good to hear that some of us are working it out as true Kings and Queens should family building equates nation building we as a people need to reconize this fact as a black man i know the struggles of working towards balance,truth,and rightousness
this is a beautiful video. im in my 20's and i am married. i have learned so much. its crazi cause when a pretty women walks by, i dont get jealous at all. when i see a nice looking guy when im out with my friends, i might look, but thats it. the only person i want to be with is my husband and thats it. my husband has told me a number of times when we first got together, that he may see attrative women but he only wants to be with me. Marriage is a beautiful thing and a life experience
its funny because, I HATe the thought of having to learn ANOTHER person. lol. I know his good points, his bad, his peeves, his qwerks, etc. I ve seen some some fine men (!) and Im sure he's seen s0me fine women, but im very content with whats at home. Ive learned so much too. About him and myself. We have to remind ourselves that were only human....GOds blessing upon you and yours!
I'm not gonna lie sometimes it gets hard uplifting each other when the other is down, fighting against the world when they hear I am married and how young I was when I got married, and the fact I got married a virgin! it wears on you, but marriage is a blessing at least mine is and now that we are parents our marriage has been taken to a higher level and has brought us closer. It feels good to have true love yet I understand he is human. GOD BRINGS BLESSINGS TO MY MARRIAGE & MY LIFE!
I pray that God sustains you and your husband and open up financial doors and answer your prayers. NEVER allow ANYONE to cause you to question your decision on your commitment to your family. Very few men have had the honour of marrying a virtuous woman who has kept her precious virgin. The scriptures calls you an honourable and priceless. IT can get rough but as long as you remain a team, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. I will send up a special prayer for you and yours.
Very wise honest and excellent points.We make vows at the alter and by the grace of God we keep them.The best gift we can give to our kids is a good and godly marriage.
MArriage is the vehicle that provides the stablity and balance that we need ( both children and adults). No one says it s easy, but NEGOTIATION is key. ONe thing Ive lerned friend is that at some point, you cant take too much too serious, otherwise youll be breaking up an otherwise stable relationship over socks on the floor and video games!
we have learned and am learning to accept the "glitches" in one another. In the end, its worth the investment...in each other, the children& their security
Exactly! Pride leads to destruction in any relationship.Both spouses have glitches,because they are both human in need of some type of deliverance+salvation.Prideful
I have come to the conclusion that people in general lack coping skills. They are easily angered, impatient, selfish and all the things that only come through hard work and patience they want it as fast as the moment they desire it.
Sista you right about dat! you're on point but I don't think women are patient anymore conciously or unconciously. You are being a good example know that.
Luv this vid, saved it as favorite and sent it to my wife, if she doesn't understand this i think i have no choice but to file for a divorce. Thank you sister, come from a brother to the bottom of my heart, you are very much appreciated for making this vid. Thank you.
white is basically pasty, shallow, translucent-like, with no black blood also, want to know what or who white really are, where they come from ? The Caucasoid history is a hell of a story - want to go there ?
I know its hard to believe and quite a shock Im sure. But whites and all man evolved from the original man.....and who was the original man...the first man of the earth???
It is a powerful thing, to learn from our mistakes and not just recognize that we make them. The fortunate thing is that , as long as there is breath in us , we have the opportunity to get it together and do it right the next time.
Peace to you and blessings on your future endeavors and may all your dreams be fulfilled as you seek to do His will.
This is very ture Ive been married almost 2 years now and God, Love< Trust and Respct for eachother is what keep us going...thanks for the great advise
I pray that God Blesses you and your husband for your desire to honour God in each other. Thats really what it takes in a marriage. DOnt ever let ANYONE cast doubt on your ministry or cause you to second guess it.
You are highly favored in Gods sight. I pray that God opens doors for you and your husband as you continue in his will.
I am so happy to finally find a black woman that thinks like I have been for over 17 years. so many women call me stupid for doing for my husband they think I am a slave for him but, I dont care because he is a slave for me. and both of us is slaves to God! we are so happy together, we have fun together and appreciate each other so much. I just cant meet sisters like me that can be positive about marriage and love. Girl I am so happy you wrote this. I wish I cam meet more sisters like you.
I'm very impress to hear a sister speak like that most video's i see on youtube are sisters shaking their behind,talking nasty,degrading brothers a bunch of f-class females.You are the 2nd sister on youtube,who sound knowledgeable in this subject ,with black woman dropped the ball(youtube)great vid.I'm glad i have a A-class female.Keep up the good work.
This is so beautiful. I'm not married but I have SOOOOO much respect for women like you...family/marriage is the first ministry...its soo beautiful*tears*
I will finish by saying that the thing I am working hard on is letting things go. I am very hard on a man who tells household business to his family. I believe that whatever goes on in our home should stay in our home and my EX husband broke a lot of rules that was hard for me to get over. If a man don't stand by me when things get hard, when emergencies happen then I can not forgive that. See to me that is how you test if you have a good spouse. His/Her ability to stand by you in bad times.
No matter where I am at, I never let a black women, disrespect a black man. I reasonly went to a fast food restaurant and while standind in line, the manager, who was a black women in her late 20's early 30's was going off and embarrasing a young brother...he was about 18 - 20. It was so many people of all raises in line whil this was happening and I said loud to her face, "What is wrong with you, you don't put down or disrespect a black man like that and emasculate in public" and she felt bad.
learn how to "GET OUT OF A MAN FACE". We as black women are always chanllenging our brothers all up his face like we are going to whip his butt or something. We need to respect our black men and and know that no one is perfect and put to much on him to be.
True. I dont understand how a female could challenge a male, as if to fight, knowing full well that they cannot beat a 280 pd male. Also knowing that the likelihood of him hitting her is minimal ( though not impossible).
I believe that if a Husband is treating and caring for his wife like the bible say....making reference to a verse that says a man should love his wife like Jesus loved the church...I may not be totally accurate on the correct wording...continueing, A women who is being RESPECTED, loved, and treated well by her husband have no problem taking care and loving her husband. For me it is hard to love or do the extras when a man is not doing the above mentioned. I do believe that black women need to
(Apocrypha)ECCL 25:23--A WICKED WOMAN abateth the courage, maketh an heavy COUNTENANCE AND A WOUNDED HEART: A WOMAN that will NOT COMFORT HER HUSBAND IN DISTRESS MAKETH WEAK HANDS AND FEEBLE KNEES.
I agree sista. I think one thing that makes it easier to misiter to hubby if and when he ahs his "moments" is to not make a big deal if he is usually NOT a butthead. If he doesnt take out the bathroom garbage every single time..why make issue over it? I have learned not to major in the minors. It makes it easier on me, not to flood my mind with why he leaves his socks on the floor when he takes them off.(lol)
Tell your husband that he's one of the most luckiest men in North America to not only have a very beautiful women, but that has intelligence as well. And i mean that in the most respectible way. And that says a lot about himself. U can always judge a man by the women he has. Black power goddess!!
I think there are more sistas out there who feel the way I do...they r the quiet simple girls most would call corny...I was one of those corny girls! (lol) Peace to you!
This is one of the most powerful videos I have seen on YouTube. Every Black woman in America, both single and married, should be REQUIRED to see this. This really brought tears to my eyes as a man who has gone through two trying marriages. Your husband is so very lucky to have you and I'm sure you are lucky to have him because he must be quite a man to have earned your love. Wow, this world would be so much better if all the sistas were like you.
The women I surround myself with are older women who believe in the ministry of a wife. I dont see myself as a slave but rather a minister. Though not perfect I strive to exemplify the kind of woman that has been the driving force in the securing of her family as she covenants with her life partner. all sistas let us strive to represent the kind of woman our daughters can mirror, our sons can pride and our husbands honour and respect.
I'm an unmarried sister and although I do not qualify to weigh in on what you said I can say that I've heard single women criticize married sisters who take pride in being good wives. What you said made a lot of sense. I enjoyed watching this a lot.Thank you
I am a husband and I know this vid is not for me, but this is a very profound vid... I am so glad to hear from a black woman's point of view... I have an opinion, and maybe soon I will post a response video.... Black Family Values are at the cornerstone of our liberation and marriage between a man and woman is central to that....
Women ought to submit, but the Bible also says HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES!!!!!! But, I guess they miss that part. If you want a woman to submit, you also have to love your wife too, and not treat her like a slave.
I have always believed that our men want stability and a woman that they can covenant with thru marriage. I think too many of our sistas have assumed that the feminist ideas by whte women were meant for them as well. We have failed to realize that white women were trying to get out of the house (already being established housewives). We should have been trying to come back home (having been forced to work outside of home to complement our hubbys income due to racism).
deatha44 I really think serious black men want to marry, trust me we just don't feel that there is that many black women that are marrying material. A sister like you will no problem with black man and i know they respect you too
I cherish the respect of BM but more importantly cherish my self respect. I know, in order for me to ask for honor, I must behave in a way that is honorable. I also make it a habit of saying sir to BM. Though they r sometimes caught off gaurd by this, it lets them know that there are BW left who are willing to respect them and also conditions them to be more respectful.
First of all, people need to stop getting married for all the wrong reason, second make sure you marry somebody you are truly in love with, IN LOVE IS THE KEY, cause if you are IN LOVE. Washing his dirty draws,and cooking for him, and submiting, will be easy. If I love somebody its nothing for me, to things for him. People be in love with the ideal of marriage, but NOT THE PERSON.
SO true. Additionally, we must be clear on what love is. Im not even sure if many know. MAny confuse infatuation and lust with love, ppl forget tht luv is unconditional though w/ expectations. ANyone who falls "out of love" because superficial things change, were never in love in the first place.not true love. PPL do fall in love with the idea of marriage and whats worse is that they r still unclear about what is truly involved in marriage:committment, compromise, tolerance, hard work,all 4 luv
Thats also true, But I know people that marrying folks, just so they can move out their parents house lol, and because they are getting older, and need to settle down, and feel they can't do better. So they are not dating who they should be in compatible with. Just so they can be married. and their with these men lol, dogging them out callin the all types of names. So guess what the marriage fails. Cause that person really don't like that man. Why marry what you really don't want.
true sista true. I dont even know if many of us know what we truly want. Our perceptions about valuable principles of life have been distorted by slavery and we r STILL trying to get healed.
This was an awesome message coming from a beautiful, wise sistah. I totally agree with you, Sis. This is definitely excellent advice to unmarried BW! Marriage is definitely
You are an impressive woman. I like your locs too.
After listening to the first part of your message to the (strong, independent)sistas...I said to myself "DAMN, I can see why the number of brothers jumping the fence is rising."
We definitely need more women with your attitude...we need to clone you. *chuckle*
I've had positive and negative feedback regarding my position on the so called independent , strong sista..Goes with the territory I guess (lol)..
I looked at the census bureau on AA and found that more BM r married than BW..how about that??!!ANd although BW outnumber BM, the age ratio sorta balances it out.Demographics also lend to availabilty of BM. There r plenty of brothas who r tired of the "game" and ready to settle down than was first believed... peace 2 u!
I love this vid. 5 stars. This is what I'm talking about. This is how it should be. Now don't you have peace and security in your heart? I do. I've never felt this level of peace and joy before.
peace to you Golden LAdy and thank you.Your right. This is how it supposed to b. No one ever says its perfect but the value and power of your covenant with your husband stretches past you and lights the way for generations to come.
I've read the women are opting to remain single 51 percent. I believe it's do to the "It's a mans world." theory.
I was married twice, I found that it can be a great thing when you have that one. You must be realist about marriage, not think of it as a story book romance. It takes a lot of work to make it WORK.
I don't want to marry again...but in time my mind can change. Marriage to me truly is a blessing and should be treated as such. Always be grateful for the commitment.
It is real work but workable. Your theory on Bppl is that of an psychologist...in the raw! lol. I respect your expression. I also respect ,very highly, where you are in life and know that the road there has been bittersweet, just as I. Peace to you. Lets stay connected.
deatha 44 u r so preety. i love cn black women wearing there hair naturally.a lot of black women wander y there shit dont grow and it b becuz of the relaxers they get n there shit.i love ur locks
Deatha how did I miss this video. You are a beautiful person. Marriage is not about being perfect it is two people enjoying the journey of life together. great video sis.
Sister, I agree with your statements. In addition, what a disappoint for me to find out that you are married. YOU ARE GORGEOUS and very much so intelligent. God bless you and your husband. I hope he knows how fortunate he is!!!!
it is true.men @ women want it both ways its just not how God intended it. God never meant for women to lead. This changed the whole dynamics of order and has the family topsy turvy! We r not created equal..that's y a man is called a man and a woman is called a woman. A man who can b in control w/o being controlling @ a woman who submits to the Godly authority God has placed on that man? WOW! They r unstoppable, when combined with the direction of God @ enveloped by unconditional luv Peace to u.
Breath of fresh air. Much love sister. I wish I was able to find a sister like you. I would be married by now. You have women that believe to submit to their husband is slavery. It's hard to get a woman to cook a brother a meal. Feminism done took over this wicked country but watching your video still gives me hope.
"Submit"? Men (and women) are created equal. Why do you have a problem with that? If this country is so "wicked" why not look around for another country that suits you more?
Yeah, whats wrong with that word. God stated in his word that wives should submit to their husband. I don't know about you, but I going believe what God say.
Far as me searching other countries, thats already happening. I will be in Dominican Republic this Wednesday. Chillin and talking to some latin women. I also plan to go back to Brazil this year. Jaimaica and Africa will be on my list next year.
I love being a wife. I have great examples before me. My parents have been married for 35yrs in counting. My grandparents for 60! It is a learning process. When I first got married I thought we would be in the honeymoon stage for yrs. Marriage is beautiful but it takes works. I have a role, he has a role. We don't try to imitate anyone else relationship, do what works for us, remembering @ the end of the day it's just the two of us. Always support his vision. And God is the head of our lives.
tcvejones 9 months ago
damn can you say beautiful black woman 5x fast
mccclarren 10 months ago
As a brother I believe men and women should be submissive to each other, I believe in a partnership. And people get it twisted "submissive" as the Bible teaches isn't about dude sitting on the couch waiting for wifey to bring him a hot plate of food it's about sacrificing your all for your woman like Christ did for the church.
Geezyone 1 year ago
Your husband has a good wife. Rare these days. Too many many women have become just as thoughtless self centered as we've always been.
Those are areas that women should NEVER strive for equality in.
Be better than us in that regard!
nunayobiz 1 year ago
make your search babi lady DATEMEDEAR.INFO
gaiphicl 1 year ago
start off very SLOW...SOUNDS UNPREPARED...BUT I SEE YOUR SINCERITY ...AND YOUR RIGHT ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE SPEAKING ABOUT
PEB979 1 year ago
@PEB979
lol...sometimes impromtu better captures your original thought
my mooma always says to "think b4 you speak" so I guess thats what I do ..;)
deatha44 1 year ago
your hot... Just had to state that
bossthra 1 year ago
@bossthra
lol..IM glad you think so!
deatha44 1 year ago
@deatha44
I'm a Black Married Submissive Women who is a HomeMaker and I love it. It is so sad that only 30 % of Black women are Married in the U.S. If the Black Women Learns the Art of Submission are Community will change over night. I am a Christian and most Christian women dont understand what a Godly women's role is. The Black Muslim sisters understand submission this is why they have a husband before a Christian sister does. Black women must learn the Art of Submission. Thanks
ivydreams 1 year ago
@ivydreams
true. many beleive that its weak to yield to a man but there is a difference between a controlling man and a man thats in control. It is easy to submit to someone that is your life partner and he has no problem listening to you. ppl forget that marriage is the ultimate team. Also, there r women who submit 2 men who r NOT their husbands! I dont believe in that. Giving like a wife when u r NOT a wife takes away incentive to marry..peace to you!
deatha44 1 year ago 3
@deatha44 I'm a Black Married Submissive Women who is a HomeMaker and I love it. It is so sad that only 30 % of Black women are Married in the U.S. If the Black Women Learns the Art of Submission are Community will change over night. I am a Christian and most Christian women dont understand what a Godly women's role is. The Black Muslim sisters understand submission this is why they have a husband before a Christian sister does. Black women must learn the Art of Submission. Thanks
ivydreams 1 year ago
nice locs.
southsideroy 1 year ago
alot of black women have aids because they are whores!!! just go to the hood on a hot summer day and you will see these tramp ass hoes!
skisgy 1 year ago
@skisgy
who are these females sleeping with?
deatha44 1 year ago
@deatha44 gay ass jail niggas! they love these niggas more beyonce loves a gay ass soldier!
skisgy 1 year ago
Thats whats up sister.
madamegrace 1 year ago
Thanks for posting this and stressing the importance of commitment in marriage.
GentlemanAmerican 1 year ago
I love your dreds
CerebralMadness 1 year ago
thanks sis,
Im trying to combine them to make them bigger...
hows r things?
deatha44 1 year ago
things are ok I want to get some dred extentions I hope it's not a whole lot of money to get it done and I see that crazy wisenubian sent you a vid response me and him argued a few months ago
CerebralMadness 1 year ago
you would look great with locks!
BTW, what was the argument about??
deatha44 1 year ago
thank you I made a video about the rape of Shania Davis and he sent me a vid. saying how some women enjoy it and going off on me about blk women wich didn't have anything to do with the vid. and talking shit about me
CerebralMadness 1 year ago
Shanias story was a tragedy.
When it comes to disagreements..ive learned, especially on youtube that ppl can say alot of things and some things are worth the argument..and then some..well, no matter what you say, ppl choose to believe what they want, whether you make sense or not. Religion and race and relationships: ALWAYS STICKY! lol........
SOme things are worth the fight..and then some things are.., well, u know....better left alone.
Peace to you sis.
deatha44 1 year ago
Damn, if all sisters were like here we would conquer the world in a week!
I know some look at her as a "slave/maid"
but she knows her stuff... those independent haters can't stand a woman like her. How many of them are married?
011238 2 years ago 12
I have to cosign on your comment. We need to clone this woman. You would see a big change if all sistas were like her.
nosimpin1 2 years ago
That'll never happen. Beyonce is the ideal Blackwoman independent strong beautiful (in drag) powerful and married to a powerful man... with no children yet?
Thats what feminisim gets you...
I wont talk to a sister with a perm; its gotten so bad! These sister need to study and get grounded or we will always be divided and bottom feeders
011238 2 years ago
Great video sister. Adding it to the playlist. I see you said this video was EXCLUSIVLEY to a certain group of women, but SOME people seem to be INCAPABLE of respecting that. If you are not dating black women, no one cares what you think of us or needs your chiming in (ahem!)
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
lol...take it easy tiger
deatha44 2 years ago
Rawwr! lol Okay.. purrr. meow.
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
lol
deatha44 2 years ago
black women just need 2 know that respect is a 2 way street. if they know that they can keep a black husband. being sassy , lowdown , none supportive, & 2 dam religious . they don,t have be subservant just be respectful...then the brothas wouldn,t look 4 the white woman or other...
garychldress74 2 years ago
I see your point.. but I feel steriotyped by this :-/ ps. in a happy relationship.
BigLyfe09 2 years ago
ps.. he's white.. but it doesn't matter either
BigLyfe09 2 years ago
BigLyfe09---- No this is not a steriotype but sadly the truth about most sistas. Stop being rude all the time. Blackmen don,t get treated like that with other women . I been dating a hindu sista & she is darker than most sistas but has much longer hair so color doesn,t matter just respect..
garychldress74 2 years ago
again... you speak as If you know me and all of my personal and cultural influences... we should treat individuals individually.. ESPECIALLY IN PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS... Your slandering doesn't feel respectful and makes it hard for anyone on the other end to receive your message positively... you are trying to make constructive statements right?????
BigLyfe09 2 years ago
BigLyfe09---- I see sistas in relationships with men other races & sometimes i see the disrespect they show them. The problem in that sistas think it suppose 2 B about them all the time when in a relationship it suppose 2 be about both.
garychldress74 2 years ago
while true for some.. you're still making a huge stereotype in a fast changing society.. you can't assume that I was raised in an abusive or poor household just because of the fact that I'm a black woman... I guess some folks get things stuck in their minds and don't want to see it any other way. good luck.
BigLyfe09 2 years ago 2
BigLyfe09--- it has nothing 2 do with your social or economical back ground. Black women can,t handle a good relationship they always got 2 add drama 2 it. Quite listening 2 those mary j blige songs. peace sista.
garychldress74 2 years ago
garychldress74- you just said it doesn't have to do with my SOCIAL or ECONOMIC (class) background.. then you said that Black women (all black women anyone would assume from your reading) can't handle a relationship.. THAT IS A STEREOTYPE. as bad as black males have it.. I'm not gonna be another person making judgment on my own race of men and point fingers at all for my OWN problems (we all have them). We really need each other's support... this is ABSURD. good day.
BigLyfe09 2 years ago 2
What the hell does the length of her hair matter then ? This video was to BLACK WIVES, not black men DATING Hindu women who hate black women... YOU DON'T KNOW MOST SISTAS.. You don't know ONE percent of the black women on this continent, let alone in your state. So you should scoot on to a Bollywood video.
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
EbonyLoveAndMarriage---- No No i don,t hate blackwomen i just hate what u do. 4 instance U all R on tv & radio trying 2 be like or act like white women. with the fake hair , eye lashes, nails etc then talking about u wanna real man. most of all its the Attitude which is horrible especially towards brothas its like ( some) of u sistas have a slave mentality wasah taught u 2 hate yourself & ME. its not about the hair.
garychldress74 2 years ago
"No No i don,t hate blackwomen i just hate what u do... U all R on tv & radio trying 2 be like or act like white women." YOU don't know ME to know what I DO~! YOU don't even know ONE percent of BW. You boast about being with a HINDU woman when HINDUISM creates a PERMANENT lower class of Untouchables for ANYONE born BLACK you imbecile! You are the one with a slave mentality in THIS CONVERSATION. If it wasn't about the hair, your stupid ass wouldn't have mentioned it u WILLIE LYNCH critter!
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
iEbonyLoveAndMarriage---- I,m not saying all sistas but some. U talk about the hindu sista but she knows her history b4 the aryan invasion. i bet u & the rest of your friends think black history started in Alabama or mississippi or slavery . i,m not the 1 dying my hair blond wearing blue contacts & talking with a nasal voice. always puttin the brothas down then wondering y they with other women. u read the willie lynch letter it seem like the black woman has fell 4 it.
garychldress74 2 years ago
AGAIN, YOU ARE ON A VIDEO where the poster SPECIFICALLY said it was for BLACK WIVES- you aren't one. You are a Hindu woman praising BW basher- therefore disrespectful in the utmost. <No surprise that you don't respect the sister's wishes. I don't give a damn if she knows the history of the Eskimos.
You keep addressing me as some figment of your stupid, vapid imagination. My hair is not blond, nor straightened & my eyes are brown. YOU ARE THE 1 PRAISING ppl OTHER than ur own.
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
And apparently you dimwit, you don't know your OWN history, which is why you spend time disrespecting ALL black women on this board, salivating over a Hindu woman's hair-length,as if that was a virtue, when that HIndu woman, knowing her history ( as you say) of the Aryans, would STILL FOLLOW THEIR RELIGION WHICH SANCTIFIES RACISM AGAINST ALL BLACK PEOPLE IN INDIA BASED ON SKIN COLOR AND SKIN COLOR ALONE and your COON ass is over here talking about BW Who dye their hair blond. LOOK IN THE MIRROR!
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
A marrige is a contract between to partners. Thats why she gets 'alf.
decus69 2 years ago
A marriage is based on God. God is the Glue that keeps your marrigae in tact. Without God What is a marriage? If there is conflict in a marriage Go to God. Live for God. So true I love your video.
DimeDiva200 2 years ago 3
There are people who are not religious, married and happy.
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
God is apart of my marriage. I don't know about the rest of the World. Im speaking what i know to be True in my Heart. You dont have to agree. Its Good to hear others input. But i will stick to what i know. Thanks and God Bless.
DimeDiva200 2 years ago
As you should.. I just want you to realize that other ppl outside of your paradigm also have happy marriages & don't believe what you believe. I know so many couples who say that "god" told them this or that person was the one and they marry despite the things they should be more cautious of and when they divorce, the whole "god told me they were the one for me" becomes as irrelevant as their marriage vows.
EbonyLoveAndMarriage 2 years ago
I am with you on that one. My X said to me, her friend left and went to MIA. Wondering why she saying this to me? It appears to me that she told my X to leave me and to treat me like crap, take the kids, and make him pay, saying she deserves better than me... It is her fault for listening to her. accept the consequences.
fairfaxmalelove 2 years ago
IIts good to hear that some of us are working it out as true Kings and Queens should family building equates nation building we as a people need to reconize this fact as a black man i know the struggles of working towards balance,truth,and rightousness
princedortch 2 years ago
this is a beautiful video. im in my 20's and i am married. i have learned so much. its crazi cause when a pretty women walks by, i dont get jealous at all. when i see a nice looking guy when im out with my friends, i might look, but thats it. the only person i want to be with is my husband and thats it. my husband has told me a number of times when we first got together, that he may see attrative women but he only wants to be with me. Marriage is a beautiful thing and a life experience
The1YouWishUKnew 2 years ago 4
its funny because, I HATe the thought of having to learn ANOTHER person. lol. I know his good points, his bad, his peeves, his qwerks, etc. I ve seen some some fine men (!) and Im sure he's seen s0me fine women, but im very content with whats at home. Ive learned so much too. About him and myself. We have to remind ourselves that were only human....GOds blessing upon you and yours!
deatha44 2 years ago
Its nice to see and hear an attractive, balanced, non-diva sista talk sense.
Khemistry101 2 years ago
Peace and thank you.
deatha44 2 years ago
there's more than one ;-)
BigLyfe09 2 years ago
Indeed there are.
Khemistry101 2 years ago
I'm not gonna lie sometimes it gets hard uplifting each other when the other is down, fighting against the world when they hear I am married and how young I was when I got married, and the fact I got married a virgin! it wears on you, but marriage is a blessing at least mine is and now that we are parents our marriage has been taken to a higher level and has brought us closer. It feels good to have true love yet I understand he is human. GOD BRINGS BLESSINGS TO MY MARRIAGE & MY LIFE!
Dbestmanicure 2 years ago
I pray that God sustains you and your husband and open up financial doors and answer your prayers. NEVER allow ANYONE to cause you to question your decision on your commitment to your family. Very few men have had the honour of marrying a virtuous woman who has kept her precious virgin. The scriptures calls you an honourable and priceless. IT can get rough but as long as you remain a team, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. I will send up a special prayer for you and yours.
deatha44 2 years ago
FOR REAL, GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE!!
kickercvrcomp 2 years ago
Wow So sweet and beautifully said may you two have much love and happiness.
50dog 2 years ago
great great great video!!!
ExtremelyClassy 2 years ago
thank you and peace to you!
deatha44 2 years ago
i can dig it
uckhigh 2 years ago
that's one pretty sista right there
sunmanpatoo 2 years ago
Very wise honest and excellent points.We make vows at the alter and by the grace of God we keep them.The best gift we can give to our kids is a good and godly marriage.
aflame4God 2 years ago
Wow I love your hair.
enyawix 2 years ago
thank you!
deatha44 2 years ago
If we gotta tell black women that there is nothing
wrong with marriage&a family tree...then something is seriously wrong.
magirecords2004 2 years ago 6
so true
deatha44 2 years ago
Real humble&blessed video sis. !
magirecords2004 2 years ago
peace and blessings to you.
deatha44 2 years ago
I've been married 14 1/2 yrs.
Our best move.
magirecords2004 2 years ago
MArriage is the vehicle that provides the stablity and balance that we need ( both children and adults). No one says it s easy, but NEGOTIATION is key. ONe thing Ive lerned friend is that at some point, you cant take too much too serious, otherwise youll be breaking up an otherwise stable relationship over socks on the floor and video games!
we have learned and am learning to accept the "glitches" in one another. In the end, its worth the investment...in each other, the children& their security
deatha44 2 years ago
Exactly! Pride leads to destruction in any relationship.Both spouses have glitches,because they are both human in need of some type of deliverance+salvation.Prideful
people aren't ready for marriage nor life.
Shalam,
K.
magirecords2004 2 years ago
I have come to the conclusion that people in general lack coping skills. They are easily angered, impatient, selfish and all the things that only come through hard work and patience they want it as fast as the moment they desire it.
You said it best when you said,
" peole arent ready for marriage...or life"
Blessings to you!
deatha44 2 years ago
Sista you right about dat! you're on point but I don't think women are patient anymore conciously or unconciously. You are being a good example know that.
etherick 2 years ago
God bless!
deatha44 2 years ago
very insightful comments Queen.
SacredCarvings 2 years ago 3
Peace and Many Blessings to you.
deatha44 2 years ago
Wow, did I step into a hornets' nest or what? I squirm when I hear the word righteous.
I'm sure you're a wonderful person. Cheerio.
kumoja 2 years ago
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kumoja 2 years ago
Luv this vid, saved it as favorite and sent it to my wife, if she doesn't understand this i think i have no choice but to file for a divorce. Thank you sister, come from a brother to the bottom of my heart, you are very much appreciated for making this vid. Thank you.
NYDASH28 2 years ago
God Bless you and yours.
deatha44 2 years ago
You are a fine, smart and strong sister!
Your husband is very lucky to have you!
cleanface100 2 years ago
Peace to you and thank you!
deatha44 2 years ago
why are you named after 'death'?
templarkc 2 years ago
i love this video
loveyourposture 2 years ago
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You got some nappy ass hell for a white girl.
longhairedblonde83 2 years ago
she is a sister. Her hair is beautiful.
BlakeBarbieDoll 2 years ago
white is basically pasty, shallow, translucent-like, with no black blood also, want to know what or who white really are, where they come from ? The Caucasoid history is a hell of a story - want to go there ?
sundautres 2 years ago
They came from us.
I know its hard to believe and quite a shock Im sure. But whites and all man evolved from the original man.....and who was the original man...the first man of the earth???
deatha44 2 years ago
If all of our Sisters took this advice, there would be very few single Sisters left.
But to be fair, every single Brother has not measured up to deserve Sisters such as this.
I count my past in the "idiot" column. I have hurt good Sisters years ago in my past.
I give God credit for every decency that comes from me this day and now on.
Beautiful msg, gorgeous Sister, thank u very much.
dbrunsonsr 3 years ago
It is a powerful thing, to learn from our mistakes and not just recognize that we make them. The fortunate thing is that , as long as there is breath in us , we have the opportunity to get it together and do it right the next time.
Peace to you and blessings on your future endeavors and may all your dreams be fulfilled as you seek to do His will.
deatha44 3 years ago
Do you have a sister....;)
wallstreetyoung 3 years ago
two more but their all married too!lol.
wishing you well.
deatha44 3 years ago
why do you say something and then quickly contradict it?
wallstreetyoung 3 years ago
It depends on wht your talking about.
Sometimes it can appear to be a contradiction if taken out of context in which it was spoken.
deatha44 2 years ago
Yo, I'm glad you said that about church! Many (fake believers)need to hear that.
rep5281 3 years ago
CHurch is the new hangout for Black folk. They faithfully attend with no change of mind or lifestyle and no conscience.
Though there are a few who realy take their relationship with God seriously, the rest are just church goers.
deatha44 3 years ago
typo...really...;)
deatha44 3 years ago
This video is sooooo positive. Please make some more videos!
luvcoco05 3 years ago
peace and thank you!
deatha44 3 years ago
you should post this video on ms. "lovein30days" videos.... I really think her subscribers need to hear it....
wallstreetyoung 3 years ago
This is very ture Ive been married almost 2 years now and God, Love< Trust and Respct for eachother is what keep us going...thanks for the great advise
BlackOnyx77 3 years ago
LAdy ONYX,
I pray that God Blesses you and your husband for your desire to honour God in each other. Thats really what it takes in a marriage. DOnt ever let ANYONE cast doubt on your ministry or cause you to second guess it.
You are highly favored in Gods sight. I pray that God opens doors for you and your husband as you continue in his will.
Peace to you!
deatha44 3 years ago
I am so happy to finally find a black woman that thinks like I have been for over 17 years. so many women call me stupid for doing for my husband they think I am a slave for him but, I dont care because he is a slave for me. and both of us is slaves to God! we are so happy together, we have fun together and appreciate each other so much. I just cant meet sisters like me that can be positive about marriage and love. Girl I am so happy you wrote this. I wish I cam meet more sisters like you.
newfriends002 3 years ago
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You seem like a good Black woman but you look like you're not 100% black.Them real black bitches crazy:-)))
fenderbass 3 years ago
Many A-American's aren't 100% black lol
jazzyphay21 2 years ago 4
We NEED to SEE more videos from black women, like you, who LOVE, SUPPORT, and RESPECT blackmen.
SNYDER219 3 years ago
There is no NAtion without you, our Black man
deatha44 3 years ago
I'm very impress to hear a sister speak like that most video's i see on youtube are sisters shaking their behind,talking nasty,degrading brothers a bunch of f-class females.You are the 2nd sister on youtube,who sound knowledgeable in this subject ,with black woman dropped the ball(youtube)great vid.I'm glad i have a A-class female.Keep up the good work.
aaazzaoo99 3 years ago
This is so beautiful. I'm not married but I have SOOOOO much respect for women like you...family/marriage is the first ministry...its soo beautiful*tears*
scarletrose17 3 years ago
This video is not directed to me, your opinion on the subject seems sound. Hope you change some lives for the good. ~Peace
RonRabbit69 3 years ago
I love your spirit- you are an encouragement.
ivylainespeaks 3 years ago
Thank you and Peace to you!
deatha44 3 years ago
(Apocrypha)ECCL 36:24--He that getteth a wife beginneth a POSSESSION, A HELP LIKE UNTO HIMSELF,and A PILLAR OF REST.
Executor2012 3 years ago
I will finish by saying that the thing I am working hard on is letting things go. I am very hard on a man who tells household business to his family. I believe that whatever goes on in our home should stay in our home and my EX husband broke a lot of rules that was hard for me to get over. If a man don't stand by me when things get hard, when emergencies happen then I can not forgive that. See to me that is how you test if you have a good spouse. His/Her ability to stand by you in bad times.
utopiad4 3 years ago
I agree. These are the same things expected of us and is afair expectation.
deatha44 3 years ago
No matter where I am at, I never let a black women, disrespect a black man. I reasonly went to a fast food restaurant and while standind in line, the manager, who was a black women in her late 20's early 30's was going off and embarrasing a young brother...he was about 18 - 20. It was so many people of all raises in line whil this was happening and I said loud to her face, "What is wrong with you, you don't put down or disrespect a black man like that and emasculate in public" and she felt bad.
utopiad4 3 years ago 5
learn how to "GET OUT OF A MAN FACE". We as black women are always chanllenging our brothers all up his face like we are going to whip his butt or something. We need to respect our black men and and know that no one is perfect and put to much on him to be.
utopiad4 3 years ago
(Apocrypha)ECCL 6:20--She is very unpleasant to the UNLEARNED: he that is without understanding WILL NOT REMAIN WITH HER.
21--She will lie upon him as a mighty stone of trial; and HE WILL CAST HER FROM HIM ere it be long.
Executor2012 3 years ago
True. I dont understand how a female could challenge a male, as if to fight, knowing full well that they cannot beat a 280 pd male. Also knowing that the likelihood of him hitting her is minimal ( though not impossible).
deatha44 3 years ago
I believe that if a Husband is treating and caring for his wife like the bible say....making reference to a verse that says a man should love his wife like Jesus loved the church...I may not be totally accurate on the correct wording...continueing, A women who is being RESPECTED, loved, and treated well by her husband have no problem taking care and loving her husband. For me it is hard to love or do the extras when a man is not doing the above mentioned. I do believe that black women need to
utopiad4 3 years ago 3
(Apocrypha)ECCL 25:23--A WICKED WOMAN abateth the courage, maketh an heavy COUNTENANCE AND A WOUNDED HEART: A WOMAN that will NOT COMFORT HER HUSBAND IN DISTRESS MAKETH WEAK HANDS AND FEEBLE KNEES.
Executor2012 3 years ago
I agree sista. I think one thing that makes it easier to misiter to hubby if and when he ahs his "moments" is to not make a big deal if he is usually NOT a butthead. If he doesnt take out the bathroom garbage every single time..why make issue over it? I have learned not to major in the minors. It makes it easier on me, not to flood my mind with why he leaves his socks on the floor when he takes them off.(lol)
deatha44 3 years ago
I totally agree
deatha44 2 years ago
wow... it was a great blog great topics.. but it was so hard to focus... u are beautifullll
1nalawest 3 years ago
I'm am soo glad to have watched this video. Thank you sis.
NubianOne 3 years ago
God Bless and Peace LAdy Nubian.
deatha44 3 years ago
Tell your husband that he's one of the most luckiest men in North America to not only have a very beautiful women, but that has intelligence as well. And i mean that in the most respectible way. And that says a lot about himself. U can always judge a man by the women he has. Black power goddess!!
BlaccSuhn21 3 years ago
Peace to you Black SUn and thank you!
I think there are more sistas out there who feel the way I do...they r the quiet simple girls most would call corny...I was one of those corny girls! (lol) Peace to you!
deatha44 3 years ago
iam so amazed by your train of thought and your beauty keep preaching deatha 44 we need more sistas like you in this world
Thirdworldsolider 3 years ago
This is one of the most powerful videos I have seen on YouTube. Every Black woman in America, both single and married, should be REQUIRED to see this. This really brought tears to my eyes as a man who has gone through two trying marriages. Your husband is so very lucky to have you and I'm sure you are lucky to have him because he must be quite a man to have earned your love. Wow, this world would be so much better if all the sistas were like you.
Phoenixspin 3 years ago
Thank you Blessed Brother,
The women I surround myself with are older women who believe in the ministry of a wife. I dont see myself as a slave but rather a minister. Though not perfect I strive to exemplify the kind of woman that has been the driving force in the securing of her family as she covenants with her life partner. all sistas let us strive to represent the kind of woman our daughters can mirror, our sons can pride and our husbands honour and respect.
deatha44 3 years ago
nice vid sista
bloodadvocate 3 years ago
thank you and peace to you.
deatha44 3 years ago
I'm an unmarried sister and although I do not qualify to weigh in on what you said I can say that I've heard single women criticize married sisters who take pride in being good wives. What you said made a lot of sense. I enjoyed watching this a lot.Thank you
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Peace diva,
I am so proud to be able to encourage you as you seek to be the profound balanced woman God has destined you to be.
Peace Ms. Diva
deatha44 3 years ago
Hannibaltharadio wrote:
I am a husband and I know this vid is not for me, but this is a very profound vid... I am so glad to hear from a black woman's point of view... I have an opinion, and maybe soon I will post a response video.... Black Family Values are at the cornerstone of our liberation and marriage between a man and woman is central to that....
Thank you and peace to you.
deatha44 3 years ago
Women ought to submit, but the Bible also says HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES!!!!!! But, I guess they miss that part. If you want a woman to submit, you also have to love your wife too, and not treat her like a slave.
godsholywoman 3 years ago
I have always believed that our men want stability and a woman that they can covenant with thru marriage. I think too many of our sistas have assumed that the feminist ideas by whte women were meant for them as well. We have failed to realize that white women were trying to get out of the house (already being established housewives). We should have been trying to come back home (having been forced to work outside of home to complement our hubbys income due to racism).
deatha44 3 years ago
deatha44 I really think serious black men want to marry, trust me we just don't feel that there is that many black women that are marrying material. A sister like you will no problem with black man and i know they respect you too
whitebitchnigga 3 years ago
I cherish the respect of BM but more importantly cherish my self respect. I know, in order for me to ask for honor, I must behave in a way that is honorable. I also make it a habit of saying sir to BM. Though they r sometimes caught off gaurd by this, it lets them know that there are BW left who are willing to respect them and also conditions them to be more respectful.
Peace to you.
deatha44 3 years ago
You are the type of "strong black women" we brothers need.
whitebitchnigga 3 years ago 3
First of all, people need to stop getting married for all the wrong reason, second make sure you marry somebody you are truly in love with, IN LOVE IS THE KEY, cause if you are IN LOVE. Washing his dirty draws,and cooking for him, and submiting, will be easy. If I love somebody its nothing for me, to things for him. People be in love with the ideal of marriage, but NOT THE PERSON.
coolbreezegirl27 3 years ago
SO true. Additionally, we must be clear on what love is. Im not even sure if many know. MAny confuse infatuation and lust with love, ppl forget tht luv is unconditional though w/ expectations. ANyone who falls "out of love" because superficial things change, were never in love in the first place.not true love. PPL do fall in love with the idea of marriage and whats worse is that they r still unclear about what is truly involved in marriage:committment, compromise, tolerance, hard work,all 4 luv
deatha44 3 years ago
Thats also true, But I know people that marrying folks, just so they can move out their parents house lol, and because they are getting older, and need to settle down, and feel they can't do better. So they are not dating who they should be in compatible with. Just so they can be married. and their with these men lol, dogging them out callin the all types of names. So guess what the marriage fails. Cause that person really don't like that man. Why marry what you really don't want.
coolbreezegirl27 3 years ago
true sista true. I dont even know if many of us know what we truly want. Our perceptions about valuable principles of life have been distorted by slavery and we r STILL trying to get healed.
deatha44 3 years ago
This was an awesome message coming from a beautiful, wise sistah. I totally agree with you, Sis. This is definitely excellent advice to unmarried BW! Marriage is definitely
"honorable" ministry to a husband. 10 Stars!
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago
Peace to you.
SIS, I pray for God's guidance in your life and his blessings as you strive to be an integritous woman!
deatha44 3 years ago
Thank you, Sis. :-)
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago
You are an impressive woman. I like your locs too.
After listening to the first part of your message to the (strong, independent)sistas...I said to myself "DAMN, I can see why the number of brothers jumping the fence is rising."
We definitely need more women with your attitude...we need to clone you. *chuckle*
Peace
--The Khemist
Khemistry101 3 years ago
Thank you Khem...
I've had positive and negative feedback regarding my position on the so called independent , strong sista..Goes with the territory I guess (lol)..
I looked at the census bureau on AA and found that more BM r married than BW..how about that??!!ANd although BW outnumber BM, the age ratio sorta balances it out.Demographics also lend to availabilty of BM. There r plenty of brothas who r tired of the "game" and ready to settle down than was first believed... peace 2 u!
deatha44 3 years ago
Yeah. But included in "jumpin" the fence is also dating women of other nationalities (that includes non-american black women too).
However, I think that the civil war in the Ameican Black community will self-correct...hopefully before its too late.
Khemistry101 3 years ago
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MSG me on MSN. ID is in my profile. lets do something tonight! P
benedicto16 3 years ago
IS this a joke? why would you disrespect my husband in that way?
ANd why would you seek to dishonour me?
deatha44 3 years ago
great video
memee1978 3 years ago
peace to you!
deatha44 3 years ago
Beautiful Lesson
Again, you come through with a great message.
TEACH!
EV
Evens1 3 years ago
I love this vid. 5 stars. This is what I'm talking about. This is how it should be. Now don't you have peace and security in your heart? I do. I've never felt this level of peace and joy before.
tonyatunez 3 years ago
peace to you Golden LAdy and thank you.Your right. This is how it supposed to b. No one ever says its perfect but the value and power of your covenant with your husband stretches past you and lights the way for generations to come.
PEace and Blessings to you.
deatha44 3 years ago
I've read the women are opting to remain single 51 percent. I believe it's do to the "It's a mans world." theory.
I was married twice, I found that it can be a great thing when you have that one. You must be realist about marriage, not think of it as a story book romance. It takes a lot of work to make it WORK.
I don't want to marry again...but in time my mind can change. Marriage to me truly is a blessing and should be treated as such. Always be grateful for the commitment.
Sahbisun 3 years ago
It is real work but workable. Your theory on Bppl is that of an psychologist...in the raw! lol. I respect your expression. I also respect ,very highly, where you are in life and know that the road there has been bittersweet, just as I. Peace to you. Lets stay connected.
deatha44 3 years ago
You husband is lucky you are dimepiecy!
aahronb 3 years ago
deatha 44 u r so preety. i love cn black women wearing there hair naturally.a lot of black women wander y there shit dont grow and it b becuz of the relaxers they get n there shit.i love ur locks
dcnot420 3 years ago 2
thank you brotha and peace to you!
deatha44 3 years ago
Deatha how did I miss this video. You are a beautiful person. Marriage is not about being perfect it is two people enjoying the journey of life together. great video sis.
goldengoodas 3 years ago 6
Thank you Brotha. Dear brothers, I still believe in you!
deatha44 3 years ago
Sister, I agree with your statements. In addition, what a disappoint for me to find out that you are married. YOU ARE GORGEOUS and very much so intelligent. God bless you and your husband. I hope he knows how fortunate he is!!!!
THEMAN200711 3 years ago 2
it is true.men @ women want it both ways its just not how God intended it. God never meant for women to lead. This changed the whole dynamics of order and has the family topsy turvy! We r not created equal..that's y a man is called a man and a woman is called a woman. A man who can b in control w/o being controlling @ a woman who submits to the Godly authority God has placed on that man? WOW! They r unstoppable, when combined with the direction of God @ enveloped by unconditional luv Peace to u.
deatha44 3 years ago
Breath of fresh air. Much love sister. I wish I was able to find a sister like you. I would be married by now. You have women that believe to submit to their husband is slavery. It's hard to get a woman to cook a brother a meal. Feminism done took over this wicked country but watching your video still gives me hope.
reignsupreme 3 years ago
"Submit"? Men (and women) are created equal. Why do you have a problem with that? If this country is so "wicked" why not look around for another country that suits you more?
kumoja 3 years ago
Yeah, whats wrong with that word. God stated in his word that wives should submit to their husband. I don't know about you, but I going believe what God say.
Far as me searching other countries, thats already happening. I will be in Dominican Republic this Wednesday. Chillin and talking to some latin women. I also plan to go back to Brazil this year. Jaimaica and Africa will be on my list next year.
reignsupreme 3 years ago
You mean, you're se