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  • THANK YOU SISTER!........YOU ARE A JEWEL!...FINALLY SOMEBODY SPEAKS UP AND TELLS THE (REAL TRUTH) ABOUT THIS SITUATION!

  • @gmasonspage thank u

  • You told the absolute truth here.

  • AMEN SISTER!!!!

  • I'm sorry but I do feel sorry for black women and women in general but wake up ladies. Don't go and give up your body yourself and have a man children when he makes no commitment or financial investment in you. Go and better, educate yourself and then a good man will have to come and work hard to get you.

  • The American black women that complain are the ones that have made very bad choices in men in their lives. If black men were soo bad and no good you would'nt have so many white and other ethnic women snatching these men today like no other time in history.The American black women are finding themselves all alone.

  • well spoken

  • you onpoint with what u said.finially some truth!!!!

  • "Too many BW choosing thugs over good BM"

    In order for this statement to be true there must be ample supply of BM who are thugs to choose from. Why should black women sit around and wait for a good black man when she could find a good man of other races. The high number of single black women is because they sit around waiting for good black men, and the numbers are just not there. Even if she finds a good bm he also needs to like her as well. Stop making excuses for bm, go find someone bette

  • @vcdna1 .........Thankyou ...you can say that again......These BW that are single or let me rephrase that "complain" about being single,.... some are alone because they keep tripping over the same stone and making the CONSCIENCE decision to STAY running after BM..I gave up that logic a long time ago. Stop looking at race and look at the "essence" of a man.

  • @Creditgirl2020

    Now why would you advise a woman to look at the essence of a man when you don't look at the essence of a man? Oh I get it, you meant that a black woman can look at the essence of man as long as he's anything but-God forbid-BLACK.

  • Actually there are about 12 forms of contraception for women so these women truly have no excuse. Good job sista!

  • she keepin it real one of the few take a look at my video's on why black women can't find good black women it's raw but it is sharp yet funny and will make you take a look at yourself so check it out good job on the video thank you for this real video ! ! !

  • Black women really need to stop complaining. There are good men that come your way but you just choose to either ignore him or give him the run around. Also what's up with the attitudes black women. Big turn off. It's like a guy approaches a black woman honest direct and respectful and they like snap on him or try to ignore him. So stop complaining. You always fall for the same bull$hit lines the thugs and playas give you instead of respecting a guy thats honest and respects you.

  • @e84fresh What you said is the truth and, sadly, most of them are in denial about these problems.

  • @cgiwattgrrl99 Thanks :) I try not to be

  • Wow,you are definantly on point ! Too many times I've been told by black women, "You talk white". End of conversation. That's a deal breaker for me. What would she think if I said, "You talk black".

    I think I have plenty to offer but it's obviously not wanted nor appreciated. I choose to date only black women. I love em. After all, from the moment I first came to earth their was a beautiful, loving black woman waiting for me. Could she have been the only one?

  • @cgiwattgrrl99 i dont i only search it because i see black women hating when i'm with my beautiful Moroccan woman, the way they look at her like they want to kill her so i had to google it

  • @philly1537 You are a damn liar. LOL!!

  • Women can't force their way around a relationship. It's up to the man to walk up to the girl to ask her out. But, girls getting mad for cause the guy no or getting mad at the guy for asking them out.

    Now some women going with guys who are losers who don't have no life, no money, no car, no job, and no dick. Me and other great guy who ain't in trouble, drama free, have everything that got alotta to offier and avoid a woman who a golddigger.

  • geat vid. honest, brutal, and intelligent. I hope this goes viral.

  • speak the true girl : )

  • Black women have no business complaining about their inability to find men after having spent well in excess of 30 yrs claiming that they were so strong and totally independent that they would never need a man for anything under any circumstances. Pre 1975, no one had ever heard of black women having a problem getting men, however, after govt assistance, educational grants, female military recruiting, etc. there are books on what has come to be called "The Black Girl Curse" all over the place.

  • i am so in line with what you are saying. i agree with you totally

  • @ThePh1972 Thank you

  • there is no such thing as a bad black man, these hoes bring out the evil in men, if you want to go to the club every weekend go do that dont ask me to treat u like a house wife

  • Today i was at the mall ( am a Black man) ajnd i saw this white guy flirting and talking to a black woman, and i pushed the white man tothe ground AND SPIT IN HIS FACE LOL TRUE STORY AND I FEEL GREAT ABOUT IT. white men need to leave black women alone or esle ....

  • @MRbossman1982 oh... wow

  • @ambi101 yeah that was real macho manly of me right lol.

  • @ambi101 The white dude deserved it , dontfeel sorry for the bastard/

  • @MRbossman1982 what made him deserve it

  • @ambi101 He was an idiot, he hit me first, so i defended myself. i love black women. and thats all i date you know and seeing him with a black woman added to my hate too.

  • @MRbossman1982 oh yea.. well thats i understand self defense I feel you.

  • This is how U Rsuppose 2read da Bible.A little here & a little there = ( Isaiah 28:9-10/45;15). God even tells U how2 find him if U want understanding.. God is playing hide & seek with us.He is leaving a little bit of bread crumbs on a trail and wants to see if we will follow the clues. He knows when he was putting us in slavery that he had2 hide his message so his book would make it to Barnes & Nobles. U think they wouldn't have burnt it if they knew they were da devil?
  • why are you always sucking on candy wen you talk and you are not light skinned fyi you look typically black.

  • @Ihavemyownmind F.Y.I... I'm a light skinned black thank you and what does the rest of the comment have to do with the topic?

  • This is the most intelligent video I`ve seen on Youtube for a very long time! Thanks Sister!!!!

  • I love you ambi101, I bet most women don't like you because you keep it real and your are accountable for your actions.

  • @CrazyBrah21 a lot of people don't like me lol when I speak about black issues. I try to speak about both men and women and not be one sided.

  • You made some good points. I was impressed by your logic because many of us fail to realize that it starts with self. There are no good brothers or sisters out here....bullshit. I can not comment on dating outside my race because I never have, but I will say this I have dated some good sisters and some not so good sister. However, not so good for me does not mean not so good for the next man. One thing for sure, I learned a lot from those relationships and became a better man.

  • The only black women who date inter-racially are the house negroes and sellouts.

  • do u like black gangster types who litsen to 50 cent and snoop dog?

  • @OldaurGold did you not listen to my video.. I clearly said I don't like thugs

  • Last days are here white men have did what they set out to do. Weaken the black (african) races families.

  • Im White Men And I Like Black Women... btw. You r Beautiful ! :)

  • @TheBlackGlenBeck you're comment makes no sense.. there are more black women in college than black men and there are more black women earning more than black men... so you "trying" to sound intelligent by using false statistics is very pathetic on your part... comment has been removed.

  • @ambi101 that is not true. black men make more u dummy

  • @TheBleachwater No.. there are more black women getting COLLEGE EDUCATIONS... therefore they are making more money than a man who hasn't graduated from college... so stfu

  • @ambi101 no i think its u who needs to stfu:(

  • @lialovesyou1 Nah... I'll talk as much as I want..but guess what STFU!

  • @ambi101 BW earning more money than BM is a myth.BW are seventy-one percent of black graduate students, but black men are still making more money annually doing blue collar work with less formal education than black women. These women are working in pink collar professions such as nursing, social work, and elementary education and calling themselves "progressive" and "educated".

  • @ambi101

    You're wrong there, the real reason why there are more "black women" in college than "black men" is because there's 2 MILLION MORE BLACK WOMEN IN POPULATION.

  • @TheFinishlinesports okk.. you obviously didn't listen to the video... ignorant

  • @TheFinishlinesports see black women....many of them don't care for you..so stop it

  • @TheFinishlinesports i so believe that you are a white guy! lol. no i think you are a troll! lol

  • Hi.

  • @nineteen68er hi..

  • sorry about that , the comment wasn't meant for you it was to somebody else who commented on your video ! And just to add! yes, I can read and write

  • @PrecisionConnections lol okk just checking

  • You're wrong: to you should here the dis-respectful stuff that's said about black woman check right here on you tube! The problem is that some black woman prefer the wrong black man to be with. in my opinion black women should stay with black men so we can be a stronger race.

  • @PrecisionConnections ... you're wrong... if you ACTUALLY LISTENED to my video I wasn't talking about what you thought I was talking .. LISTEN first then comment! ..smh

  • @PrecisionConnections and its obvious you cant read either because i even said in the title that this had nothing to do with race.. -_-

  • seriously ... there is good and bad in everyone. we have been doopped we are separated from the black man. but we need a RE education and reinvention both men and women. not all white men MARRY black women they also have a certain amount of white supremacy in them too. dont forget that.. dating them is one thing marrying them is another.

  • @author of this vid: Your Statement is pretty hilarious and your arguments are very rational and logical ones. I wonder why there are still so many girls outside tellin be OH ANDY MY BOO S SUCH N ASSHOLE WHAT AM I WONNA DO WRONG WITH EM? So I'm gonna tell them all the same: DON'T LET U BEING BANGED AT THE FIRST DATES AND DONT U COMPLAIN ABOUT THINGS U GOTTA HAVE KNOWN IN THE FIRST PLACE!

    Thanks for the arguments pro guys - black/white/green.

    :-)

  • I love black women!

    They are so beautiful!

    They are more intelligent!

    They are the best!

    And I'm withe!!!

  • @soares156 right ! i love black women too ! now i known black grils i cant go with withe women !

  • Women's birth control options does not abdicate Black men from their responsibilities in our community. 70% of them are not taking care of their children and a million of the are in jail. Black women do not need to more responsibility for the actions of others.

  • @clmason33172 no black women need to take responsibility for their own actions.. we wouldn't have men not taking care of their kids if the black women that I talked about in my video would 1. use birth control and make him wear a condom 2. stop whoring around 3. make better relationship choices 4. not falling for every man that has something nice to say to them 5. value themselves more

  • Abdicating parental responsibility is just the tip of the iceberg. What about the idleness, the lack of drive and the lack of leadership of Black males? Black men don't get anyone's respect because they don't PROVIDE like men are expected to.

    I'm interested how you believe Black women's sexual choices factor in the lack of Black males in college or the business world.

    By the way, not every Black woman is a whore or have OOW children and we still get shit Black men to deal with at work, etc.

  • @clmason33172 of course I know every black woman is not a whore... still both parties need to get their lives together and make better choices overall and stop tearing each other down

  • Great Video!!!!! Thanks for telling the truth!

  • @AlmightyAs87th a woman ..obviously

  • @AlmightyAs87th No.. but what are you??? 

  • I never thought I'd see the day that a bw would be honest on a subject such as this. The young woman speaking in this video is speaking the truth. I pray one day I can share my life with a woman like her.

  • @tonkaaaaa Thanks for the commentary....and don't worry you will find a good woman :) they're out there

  • @ambi101 you kept it 100 % real i use to try to approach black women and they dissed me so i just stop approaching all together i am concentrating on my education. i am a so called nice guy been in church most of my life. very ambitious but women diss me because i didnt fit this thuggish image like you said in your video i am glad a mature women speak on the subject maybe younger black women want make this mistake

  • You are so right. Women need to start making choices in what they want in a man and stop messing with these thugs, drug dealers and uneducated losers and get with a man your mom will approve of. Even though I'm married to a white man (not for his race, we have a lot of stuff in common) and we just had a daughter 2 weeks ago, my mom and his mom approve of us being together. Plus I hate today's hip-hop culture and I hear some of these women want to have Lil' Wayne's baby, SHM!

  • @MaxwellPayne84 You are so ignorant. you comment has been deleted thank God I only saw this.

  • @1cambiamos what the hell are you talking about.. if you actually listened to the video you'd know I'm not even talking about how white men treat women..smh listen to the video BEFORE you comment

  • True talk, honey...keep speaking the truth.

  • im black nerd looking for black girlfriend, im very sweet and want a hug

  • @new9876 ... wow

  • @BigBlaqueKat idk you tell me

  • You talk about the bw who disrespect bm and even though at the end of the day it's very stupid do you ever look at the bm who started it and made some bw change their views?

  • @HKid1617 yep . I don't take sides.. again it still comes down to choices .. you have your bitter black men esp. on youtube bashing women because of the women they've have dealt with so now they take it out on all BW thats just as wrong as the BW taking their anger out on all BM

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    THANK YOU!!!!!

  • You are so correct sister the problem is they try to put all black men in a box. They think dating Gucci mane is the same as dating Drake or Jay z. Common sense all of us think and act differently.

  • thank u so much for this so glad to hear a REAL queen speak wisdom unlike these silly misguided women of today thank u queen !!!!!!!

  • @dnicejhr2005 Thank you for commenting and watching

  • You make some excellent points in here. I agree 100%, it is all about the choices we make.

  • You make some excellent points in here. It is really refreshing to see videos that demonstrate clear non-biased videos.

    I too, strongly believe it is all about choices we make.

  • @StonFX I think this is all over the U.S! I get this everyday! Look like they want to fight, I dont even look anymore.

  • Thank you for saying what most women wont.

  • One love to u my sister, You hit that right on the head, I've been saying that for years and you express real love for the good brother out there and letting these women know the truth. I know some women are mad at u cause u should them there true colors-i saved this in my favorites and I thank u baby from the heart. blkmag

  • @moblacker :) thanks for commenting 

  • @vinoivoire1 HELLO listen to the actual video and stop judging the video based on the title it has absolutely nothing to do with WHITE PPL damn.. ppl listen first then comment

  • Most of the black women I date ( now we are married and have a son together) and know dont bad mouth black men at all. For them its all about what they want. So if they want a white guy like me ar a black man thats up tp them. But I see were BW might have a problem, hell just watch most rap videos and see how they are treated. for the most part they are treated like scank.

  • @kd5icr1967 They choose to dance in the video, no one put them up to it.

  • Good video, Ambi!! I totally agree, sweetheart. If they want men, slamming them and degrading them is certainly NO WAY to get them..

  • White men cannot satisy a black woman. PERIOD!

  • @MrmaN5932 The video has nothing to do with race.. listen to the actual content before you comment.. thank you

  • @MrmaN5932 wanna bet?

  • @MrmaN5932 bullshit my man does!

  • You are so on point sister Destiny child put out a song called soulja the lyrics say "If yo status aint hood you better be street if you looking at me.

  • THANK U SISTA!!!!....I'VE BEEN TELLING LADIES THAT 4 THE LONGEST. ESPECIALLY IF UR A CUTE CHIC, U GOT MORE OPTIONS. DONT GET MAD AT ALL MEN IF U CHOOSE BAD DUDEZ. LOOK @ URSELF!!!.......THANK U SISTA!!!!!!

  • @MemphisFling thank you for watching and commenting :).. I've been telling the ladies for the longest too but you know how a lot of women are in one ear and out the other ..just glad I'm one of the few that has some sense

  • SO TRUE

  • honestly its about time somebody speaks the truth, this does not surprise me at all...

  • i agree

    i'ma low-down, disgusting, piece of shit, the truth is the truth

  • Damn,... LOFL@ Black women have reduced themselves to mail order brides on YouTube, are you fucking serious?

  • @LucaDeBeau what are you talking about ?

  • Good job sister....I'm so tired of my black men getting bashed because of mistakes us women make in choosing our men...women we sit and choose the man who is bad for us not the other way around. We have to start taking personal responsibility and once we do then the black women and men will find each other much easier and without all the hostility. Thank you sister

  • Here's what I think. If you're attitude is "black men ain't shit" or that bullshit. That's the type of me you'll attract. Why because subconciously you're putting all black men in this bubble and expecting the worse. So guess what you're gonna get?

    If I went around saying "all black women are bitches" guess what I'm gonna be looking for...the bitches. Why because in my mind all I think of are black women=bitches. (This was an example not how I really feel)

  • that not turn they are some good men in the world

  • excellent video,it's so rare hearing a sister speaking logically.

  • @whitebitchnigga Thank you :)

  • not just black women, but ALL women should see this video. and what you say about black men, is exactly the same for white men.

    this shouldnt be a race thing. black women, white women, black men, white men, what you said goes for all of them.

  • We will never solve our relationship issues until we realize that we "both" (black men and black women) bring bagage to the table, not just the men. It gets old hearing black women talk as if they have a monopoly on all that is good and decent when it comes to relationships and then she even has the nerve to tell me how to be a "real man". Also, when she refers to herself as a strong woman, it usually only refers to her ability to talk alot of unnecessary crap

  • ambi, thank you for posting your comments. Women that complain want you to believe they are "victims" when they are actually "participants" in their own misery. When a black woman says she is a strong black woman, that usually only tells me that she has the ability to talk alot of crap and somehow thinks that makes her a strong woman.

  • @summersbr1 I agree with you on that... I've always taken responsibility for my own actions..

  • It was funny how she said that some Black women want what they see in the media, for instance, they want a Lil' Wayne or a SOULJA BOY. Soulja Boy LOL!!!

  • @return2k2 well I didn't mean to say soulja boy .. I meant the verse from Destiny's Child's song. "Solider"..and its true... some stupid black women find that thug type cute..smh

  • how she going to say that and she havent even met all the black guys thats why i dont mess with black girls there senseless

  • @TERRELL396 Idk if you were addressing your comment to me but... Your comment is senseless.. I was taking up for black men in the video if you actually listened to it..smh next time listen to the video.. and you haven't met all black women so you can't say all black women are senseless... :/

  • @ambi101 that basically what i just said that she cant judge all blackmen since she hasnt met all of them

  • @TERRELL396 yea I feel you but it was more than one woman that did it tho... thats why I HAD to make the video..smh I don't like when black men judge black women or vice versa... sorry if I came at you wrong in the beginning I had just woken up when I read your comment smh :/ lol

  • @ambi101 its ok i get that alot

  • I agree with you, and this video could really be about black guys as well. I'm so glad you mentioned red flags, too, because too many people make sucky decisions and choices and then want to complain later.

  • @StonFX Thats great :)

  • @StonFX Yea.. don't ever give up hope you'll find that woman that is just for you

  • @StonFX :) thank you .. I consider myself the lucky one

  • i think that bullshit. a man is a man. regardless, whatever race, white men can treat you like shit too. nasty fuckers. but anyway

  • amdi101 thank you finally a sister who know the truth about black women

  • amdi101 thank you finally a sister who know the truth about black women

  • Of course white men treat black women better than black men do.

    That isn't saying much.

  • ...ughhh next time LISTEN to the actual video..I'm not even talking about white men treating black women better than black men.. SMH ppl hooked on phonics

  • @hermanglimsher wow thanks for generalizing, just because you had a bad experience with a black man, you believe all black men are bad......so what you're saying is all black men are bad, and all white men are good huh? how do you know there arent any bad white men out there? i thought there were good and bad people in all races!

  • @hermanglimsher wow thanks for generalizing, just because you had a bad experience with a black man, you believe all black men are bad......so what you're saying is all black men are bad, and all white men are good huh? how do you know there arent any bad white men out there? i thought there were good and bad people in all races!

  • @hermanglimsher, its lame to say who treats who better. it could be possible that black women dont give white men as much drama as they do black men. Its possible she isnt as negative and talkative with white men. How is it that inspite of all that white men have done and continue to do, you still trust and want them more? How does that work? Black and white men experience life differently in this country but we all have issues.

  • Yep 100% right...been thru it b4 myself.

    Black women luv deez in/outta jail type niggas.But then when dey get shitted on and dey feelings hurt....then all black men aint shit.

    Truth is a lot (not all) of black women are fucked up mentally,dey like gettin played and are bi-polar as shit.You SEEM to have a good head on your shoulders...but as alwayz errything isn't always what it seems.

  • Well with me.. what you see is what you get.. I aint the pretty girl that everyone wants like most men want a trophy gf/wife and pass up on women that'll treat right it goes both ways because I've seen men so hurt by making bad choices with women they try to group all women as the being the same

  • @ambi101-Beauty iz in tha eye of tha beholder.I'll take a 7-8 with a good head on her shoulders anyday over a 10 thatz a fuckin airhead that doesn't know who/what she wants.

  • @ambi101 u shouldn't say that love i myself and other bm who aren't well blassed with Denzel washington looks would definitely give u the time of day. Ur comment rings true in terms of looks as far as some of us bm r concerned not all of us are tall dark and handsome, attimes I've been called ugly nerdy looking so on and so forth, yet it does not deter me from finding my black queen. If u r checking for a brother pay attention to those bm who many bw wouldn't give the time of day.

  • @blackwolverine1 Thats why I don't judge ppl by how they look.. I talk to everyone and if what the say is garbage then chances are their personality is too..

  • i agree with this lady in the video 1000%

    Black man here

  • Thanks for your input :)

  • WHITE WOMEN OVER BLACK WOMEN ALL-DAY!

  • lol.. wow.. well ok if that works for you.. but did you even listen to the actual content of the video? .. my video wasn't even talking about white women vs black women.. :/

  • It should never be about what race the man is but about what kind of man he is. Because the grass isn't greener on the other side I know some black females who have made babies with white guys and those guys are not around anymore so don't think that because the man is non black means their won't be any problems.

  • The problem here is that most black females are not real women themselves and they complain about things they bring on themselves. But thanks ambi101 for touching on few of these issues peace.

  • @MegaZeitgeist yea thats very true..thanx for your input :)

  • You are right ambi

  • As easily as you clicked on it.. you've could easily clicked off of it.. Especially if you saw the title has nothing to do with basketball... so that was a dumb move on your part.. because if I'm solely looking for basketball videos I'm not going to click on a video that has nothing to do with basketball..

  • @ambi101 i wasn't "solely" lookin for basketball videos , it was just a good basketball video stunt thing with music in the background..... ANYWAY , im over this , I LOVE YOU marry me :)

  • wow.....I bet you do... :/

  • @ambi101 well you gotta admit ur kinda ok very pretty BUT im not gunna start flirting with you in comments on youtube so .... give me ur name , phone number and adress and name and let me stalk u :D

  • @ambi101 don't have to accept this comment i guess but uhmmm i sent u a message COS I SAW U HAVE BLOGTV :O ... i sent u a message on blogtv ,,,, so sign onto blogtv once in a while

  • Well said sister. There are many good black men and many bad balck men just as you have the same in other races. You re spot on with your comments. But to others its seems its mostly African American and Carribean women in the UK that say this. African women hardly say this. But your right the women have to look within themselves. I think they are just confused and have a chip on their shoulder.

  • Hello.. I already know white people were slaves... in fact white people were the first slaves until they went to Africa so I have done my homework you. And the point of slavery was brought up because I was trying to show why race is such an issue America..but that flew right over your head...and now you putting in points that don't even matter... a duh I know I'm not a slave.. its obvious

  • People as whole look down on the black race.not just white people thats why I said PEOPLE get your facts straight.. even black people look down on their own race so you don't know what your talking about.. you don't live here so you don't know the issues that go on in the black community ..and LOOK at the vid.. It says "RE" before the title meaning this is a video response to another video that was on here and that was the title of the ORIGINAL video..again you don't know what your talking about

  • "you're talking about*" not your.... : )