EXACTLY! My last boyfriend was ALL of those things in a boy, but I knew that and let him treat me cruelly for so long, but NOT ANYMORE! If all he's giving me is excuses and trashy treatment, I need to keep my heart as FAR away from him as possible!
I think all the Cowboys are Gone b/c "being a Man" is mis-understood in our culture of "get shit done". If you've got a mirror, you don't get shit done, b/c you realize a lot of it is isn't worth doing [insert React vs. Respond here, b/c we've learned we can't change other people b/c they just React!], which brings a loss of cause, and a loss of "manliness".
Solution? Fuck getting shit done for people that react [aren't men!]. Learn to Be a Man.
I, speaking as a woman/girl, believe that most women are still girls for the same reasons that you say, and I agree, that most men are still boys. Particularly, most women/girls react instead of responding and put far too much stock in emotion instead of rational thought.
@SavingThePlanet4Ever I am an unusual fifteen-year-old female and when I recently participated in a study, the neurospychologist told me that, mentally, I'm about twenty. I think of myself as a woman because I live by the rules you outlined, but I do not pretend to make no mistakes and I let others decide whether I am a woman or a girl. Some think of me as a girl because I believe it's really important to sometimes just have fun, but others say I am a woman because I'm unusually mature.
EXACTLY! My last boyfriend was ALL of those things in a boy, but I knew that and let him treat me cruelly for so long, but NOT ANYMORE! If all he's giving me is excuses and trashy treatment, I need to keep my heart as FAR away from him as possible!
HateDoctor 1 month ago
Just wanted to comment and say this video kicks ass and your channel does too! Keep up the good work!
NewSocialSystems 1 year ago
now a days men have lesser responsibility. thats the reason, i guess.
mildpace 1 year ago
I think all the Cowboys are Gone b/c "being a Man" is mis-understood in our culture of "get shit done". If you've got a mirror, you don't get shit done, b/c you realize a lot of it is isn't worth doing [insert React vs. Respond here, b/c we've learned we can't change other people b/c they just React!], which brings a loss of cause, and a loss of "manliness".
Solution? Fuck getting shit done for people that react [aren't men!]. Learn to Be a Man.
Shileikis7 1 year ago
I, speaking as a woman/girl, believe that most women are still girls for the same reasons that you say, and I agree, that most men are still boys. Particularly, most women/girls react instead of responding and put far too much stock in emotion instead of rational thought.
SavingThePlanet4Ever 1 year ago
@SavingThePlanet4Ever I am an unusual fifteen-year-old female and when I recently participated in a study, the neurospychologist told me that, mentally, I'm about twenty. I think of myself as a woman because I live by the rules you outlined, but I do not pretend to make no mistakes and I let others decide whether I am a woman or a girl. Some think of me as a girl because I believe it's really important to sometimes just have fun, but others say I am a woman because I'm unusually mature.
SavingThePlanet4Ever 1 year ago
Wow, I really like this one. It was both funny and informative. Would you ever collaborate with someone?
lcgator321 1 year ago