Wk 24, NSV, "The Complete Package", and alter ego

[rosewolfe48]

I am not sure people dislike you when your fat it is just that you are sort of invisible, you don't count as one of the in or cool people...maybe your friend was thinking in a sexual context especially since he is male and thinks in that direction allready..LOL...I thought I would be more out going but I feel a little more vunerable recently I started back at a temp job with about 500 people who know me or know me through my hubby it was very intimidating having everyone commpliment on my looks

[seemego2150]

Hey - I'd take it as a compliment!  ;) but

I can see how that might make you feel like you felt. I am so happy for your weight loss and it's very encouraging to me as I wait to join the losers bench with you. Take Care!

[swtpeainmd]

I would if it was any other person... I know that is bizarre- but you would have to know him

[swtpeainmd]

Thank you :) I wish I could see the progress. I know that my tummy is shrinking but I don't see it in my face yet. Doing the videos helps. I'm sure what he said was meant to be a compliment- but it certainly didn't come out that way. Im working on handeling compliments

[hotrail1]

This is great news ! Great job ! All that hard work is showing ! If you could see what we see! What do people think of us before we lost wt. ?( stupid , ugly) Now im mad ! get a lemon make lemon-aid ! Its a double edge sword isnt it ?They should do psych evals AFTER WLS !! how great is this , one less med ! yaaaa !!! I use crest white strips . Im sorry that made you mad and sometimes people just are trying to be nice. But we cant handle complements yet .Glad to see you !!! lots of love