I know I'm super late on this video but I couldn't pass up giving you my bit of advice. Take it from someone that has done it JUST DON"T DO IT, you have nothing to gain and everything to lose by sleeping with a married man. They don't really care about you more than likely they are seeking excitement, and change. Often they just want validation and to know they've still got "it". Save yourself, your time, your feelings and your energy for someone that wants to be with you exclusively.
Why its always women have to stay away from married man? sometime it just happend, if the woman is lonely/single there is a lot choice out there for her too, sometime it just have to be a married man, I dont believe in that bull women should take care, if I'll ever fall for a married man I will just get him no metter what, regret or not its no ones bussiness. lol I know I'm gonna get lot of abuse for my true opinion :)
So for the rest of us women that are not cheap, just hold your head up, no your worth and have nothing to do with people like that. But at the same time, leave all the judging to God! (Sorry make that 3 parts!)
I have yet to get married, but one of my married friends calls it "the Seven Year Itch". After being married for a while, the guy gets tired of his wife. He starts to see the women at his job with their plunging necklines and tight skirts as more appealing(versus his wife who probably no longer dresses to thrill him anymore). But whatteva you call it, it's not right. Strength of character should keep a man in a woman's love. I noticed that a lot of my friends married awfully early.
They were barely out of highschool. Some people hook up before getting to know THEMSELVES and what they really want in a woman(or man).
Later down the road, they can no longer stand their partner. It'll help to date smart and take our time. It'll also help to keep the spice going in a relationship. Never stop "dating" because you are married.
In conclusion though, cheating husbands are crazy. How can they hope to build a meaningful relationship with somebody else when they can't even be honest and upfront with their spouses. A relationship with a cheater is DOOMED from the start in most cases. Yet, sometimes the cheating husband might just want another sexual partner on the side. But then again, he's not taking either of the women's feelings into consideration---just his own cravings.
Talking from experience, I think wives should always keep one eye open. Check your man's things and if any suspicion arises then be on his trail cos he definitely is up to something. Don't let them get away with it. Those who spend more time out then in the home will get the chance to cheat. We stay home look after the kids and so on, they go out looking for fun and excitement, it's so common. Why do you think we have so many divorces?
I'm sorry that you had such an experience. I watched my Dad as a young boy, and learned what not to do once I get married. Too many guys think that it's all right to continue hanging out in the clubs all night or with the fellas a lot. My Dad did these things and wound up cheating. Nightlife is packed with people on the prowl!
It is also unwise for a married man to spend a lot of time with a woman who is not his wife or close relative whether it is at a club or a church.
Thank you so much for the comments! Good observations and excellent point about nightlife. Married people should not be out clubbing all the time with single people. Once in a while is ok. On a regular basis? Naw.
Part 3-Remember that if he is married and trying to talk to you, "YOU AI'NT THE FIRST NORE THE LAST!!!" So make you life a little eaiser and do'nt do it.
Part 2-He says that he don't do it but I found stains on the bottom of his shirt last night. Then he left again today. He left his friend at my house and I asked him where he was. But of course birds of a feather flock together. So let me tell this to all the ladies out there, "If a married man approches you run the hell away because god only knows what they have contracted from another woman he has already cheated with.
PT. 1-I can tell you one thing. I have been with a man for 12 years, and he has cheated on me throughout them. I was stupid and married him last year and he is still doing the same thing. He has told me that if he ever caught me cheating on him he would kill me. I'm not worried about that threat. I'm more worried about the nasty desieses he could bring home to me his wife.
I know I'm super late on this video but I couldn't pass up giving you my bit of advice. Take it from someone that has done it JUST DON"T DO IT, you have nothing to gain and everything to lose by sleeping with a married man. They don't really care about you more than likely they are seeking excitement, and change. Often they just want validation and to know they've still got "it". Save yourself, your time, your feelings and your energy for someone that wants to be with you exclusively.
Creeativemind 2 years ago
Why its always women have to stay away from married man? sometime it just happend, if the woman is lonely/single there is a lot choice out there for her too, sometime it just have to be a married man, I dont believe in that bull women should take care, if I'll ever fall for a married man I will just get him no metter what, regret or not its no ones bussiness. lol I know I'm gonna get lot of abuse for my true opinion :)
kitty8x88x64 3 years ago
So for the rest of us women that are not cheap, just hold your head up, no your worth and have nothing to do with people like that. But at the same time, leave all the judging to God! (Sorry make that 3 parts!)
LittlePinkGuitar 3 years ago
I have yet to get married, but one of my married friends calls it "the Seven Year Itch". After being married for a while, the guy gets tired of his wife. He starts to see the women at his job with their plunging necklines and tight skirts as more appealing(versus his wife who probably no longer dresses to thrill him anymore). But whatteva you call it, it's not right. Strength of character should keep a man in a woman's love. I noticed that a lot of my friends married awfully early.
jemzWorld 3 years ago 2
They were barely out of highschool. Some people hook up before getting to know THEMSELVES and what they really want in a woman(or man).
Later down the road, they can no longer stand their partner. It'll help to date smart and take our time. It'll also help to keep the spice going in a relationship. Never stop "dating" because you are married.
jemzWorld 3 years ago 2
In conclusion though, cheating husbands are crazy. How can they hope to build a meaningful relationship with somebody else when they can't even be honest and upfront with their spouses. A relationship with a cheater is DOOMED from the start in most cases. Yet, sometimes the cheating husband might just want another sexual partner on the side. But then again, he's not taking either of the women's feelings into consideration---just his own cravings.
jemzWorld 3 years ago 4
Talking from experience, I think wives should always keep one eye open. Check your man's things and if any suspicion arises then be on his trail cos he definitely is up to something. Don't let them get away with it. Those who spend more time out then in the home will get the chance to cheat. We stay home look after the kids and so on, they go out looking for fun and excitement, it's so common. Why do you think we have so many divorces?
zorina786 3 years ago
I'm sorry that you had such an experience. I watched my Dad as a young boy, and learned what not to do once I get married. Too many guys think that it's all right to continue hanging out in the clubs all night or with the fellas a lot. My Dad did these things and wound up cheating. Nightlife is packed with people on the prowl!
It is also unwise for a married man to spend a lot of time with a woman who is not his wife or close relative whether it is at a club or a church.
jemzWorld 3 years ago 3
Thank you so much for the comments! Good observations and excellent point about nightlife. Married people should not be out clubbing all the time with single people. Once in a while is ok. On a regular basis? Naw.
HashBrown424 3 years ago
Part 3-Remember that if he is married and trying to talk to you, "YOU AI'NT THE FIRST NORE THE LAST!!!" So make you life a little eaiser and do'nt do it.
tyboaaliyah 4 years ago
Thanks for sharing with us ;)
HashBrown424 4 years ago
Part 2-He says that he don't do it but I found stains on the bottom of his shirt last night. Then he left again today. He left his friend at my house and I asked him where he was. But of course birds of a feather flock together. So let me tell this to all the ladies out there, "If a married man approches you run the hell away because god only knows what they have contracted from another woman he has already cheated with.
tyboaaliyah 4 years ago
PT. 1-I can tell you one thing. I have been with a man for 12 years, and he has cheated on me throughout them. I was stupid and married him last year and he is still doing the same thing. He has told me that if he ever caught me cheating on him he would kill me. I'm not worried about that threat. I'm more worried about the nasty desieses he could bring home to me his wife.
tyboaaliyah 4 years ago 2
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thelinked1 4 years ago
Thank you. Props on asking about the court documents. Bet they'll leave us alone then! lol
HashBrown424 4 years ago
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thelinked1 4 years ago
No girl you are not alone! I just don't know what's going on with the world today.
HashBrown424 4 years ago
Men are dogs! There are married women out there doing the same thing.
riverjustin 4 years ago