For Teens Teased About Weight

[airsoftpro808]

if you take away all the skinny people and super models all the fat overweight people will feel good about themselves. i mean all the people in shape are putting pressure on the people that are out of shape but thats good. i mean at least that could give them the commitment and courage to actually get up, exercise, and lose weight. i mean the supermodels and skinny people made the right decision. the other people didnt. its their fault. but they still have a chance to fix their mistakes..

[MsRosepose]

Im primary school I was friends with someone who was teased from her weight so they teased me too. This year I went to first year. Everyone in my class wanted to be my friend. All my friends thought i was so funny and I was popular. They only liked me because I wasnt with the girl who was teased. Then I noiced people are jerks. They decide to bully people because of their weight when most of the time the bully is the person who IS bigger!

[zekemcshan]

I was self confident and great. Self esteem then I came out of the closet and then started noticing my weight then I had so low confidence I didn't even want to go get an tunes gift card i stuttered when I talk the I we to target with my dad and got underwear and he told me everyone dose the same thing we eat go to the bathroom ware underwear and exercise being over weight is something you need do your self with goals set for you wanting to be healthy and not look like someone els you want to l

[kaleybby1]

Tour amazing ! (:

[sniqerz45678]

im also a size zer i have lower stomache fat obliqe fat arm fat and inner theigh fat what do i do?

[thecrazykristy1997]

I'm a size 0 and 1 and i feel fat

[iheartonedirectionxx]

thankyou so very much for your words

i dont get teased out my weight

i just suffer from very low self esteem

your advice has helped me so much, i genuinley appreciate it :)

[AmandaxKiddo]

Im 15 years old and over weight, Im thinking about talking to my mom about checking into rehab for over eating.

[boobie201014]

@AmandaxKiddo good luck

[so2cute4u2002]

You're wrong about saying that the bullies are teasing because they're insecure about themselves. Some people just tease because it's funny

[XbeyourselfisbestX]

Thank you so much would it be the same thing with race?

[mimi10115]

Thank you for this video! The only thing is that I don't deal with teasing from other teens or other people in my school. My parents are the ones who do all the teasing. Everyone at school accepted me for who I was/am. I have to hear it from my mom everyday. She's always calling me names and saying that I'm ugly and I won't ever have a boyfriend because I'm fat. I have learned that guys have to like me for me now that I've accepted myself but how can I deal with everything I hear from my mom?

[Blondie1309x]

inspirational :)

i still get teased by my weight and im 5'4 and UK size 6

i dont want to be skinnier but i have big self esteem been through tons of eating disorders and been to therapists

but non of them have been good as her- shes changed the way i think about myself and others coments :) xx

[isis4hearts]

shes right it depends on the self esteem

[pk1lebgirl87]

this video is amazing!!!

[GermanPancakePro]

Thanks so much! This helps a lot. And it's true, even if your fit, people will find ways to tease you if you have low self esteem.

[longhornsforBCS]

That teen does have a point though. If there wasnt super models and actresses they wouldnt care how they looked. 5*

[mua10]

VERY inspirational and helpful! and that is soooo true! thank you so much! :D

[cassidy1412]

Wow this video has totally changed my perspective about myself. Im going to start with that journal idea tonight:D

Thank you so much.

[JenniferCuppett]

i dont wanna lose weight for guys cause they need to accept me how i am i just wanna lose it so i think i look better plus im tryin to get into martial arts and bein thin would help

[syderena]

OMG!!! I like this women, she just made me realize that I don't have to loose weight to look beautiful, my personality is more important. Because guys call me names all the time in school and sometimes I don't care, but sometimes it really hurts me, they now don't mean ANYTHING to me...I LOVE MYSELF!!! =D

[marinennovi]

I LOVE UR ADVICE! i think u will be a great mom! :)

[ziKaMina72]

How does one know if they have baby fat? And also, you mentioned something in your site about how a friend of yours thought she was overweight in Junior High but instead she only still had baby fat then and when she went to High School she lost all her baby fat. Did that happen over a period of time or did she just lose it instantly?? Please reply to my comment I'd really like to know! Thanks!

[MrMing0102]

Cool Lisa, great video as always!

[thedafe]

I would also like to say that since I started to like myself more I've made more friends and boys have started to notice me ;)

[thedafe]

This is so true: everyone can be attractive, it's just like Lisa says, it's all about your self esteem. If you stop criticizing yourself and start loving you for who you are and look like, you will definitely "glow" and be much more attractive :)

In my school we did this thing in our class where the girls asked the boys what a girl should be to attract them. Of course they said a bunch of things like boobs and stuff, but in the end they said that it's all about their self esteem and personality

[JinxyLenux]

I'm 15 turning 16 in 2 weeks, and at this moment i am feeling down, i have been on tones of weight loss programs and i can't keep on them. This video made me cry, and it was exactly what i needed to hear. I came across this video by accident and i don't know how to thankyou because you have made my day.

[iibryant2]

thanks for the advice it made me see thing in a whole new way.

[Gorillazfreak18]

I think the girls have it worse. Most guys won't date a fat girl and they make fun of fat girls.

Most girls WILL date an overweight guy and people get along with them just fine.

[flatstomachexercises]

Sad but very true. Girls definitely have more of the pressure.

[Gorillazfreak18]

Yeah, they do.

For example, I know a dude who is a BIG GUY, fat, and he has a LOT of friends ang he has dated girls before. People at school think he's THE COOL GUY.

I also know a FAT girl who GUYS make fun o every day and nobody dates her or goes out with her. Everyone thinks she is DISGUSTING.

Guys are assholes.

[srinivaskari]

@Gorillazfreak18 wrong. Its a myth that guys dont have it as tough as girls. Guys are equally teased for being fat. Casey hynes is an excellent example. Its just that guys dont talk about it as much as girls do. Ask any fat guy about it. He'll tell you the reality of what goes on.

[Gorillazfreak18]

@srinivaskari I was mainly talking about High School. Casey was in elementary school, it's different when you're a kid, but changes as a teen. Go to ANY high school. The fat guy can get hot, skinny girlfriends and the fat girl is tortured and called "nasty". My second cousin went to the same High School I went to, he's 5'9 weighs 300lbs and he had HOT girls and was super popular. It's a double standard but it's the way it goes.

[srinivaskari]

@Gorillazfreak18 wrong. Its a myth that guys dont have it as tough as girls. Guys are equally teased for being fat. Casey hynes is an excellent example. Its just that guys dont talk about it as much as girls do. Ask any fat guy about it. He'll tell you the reality of what goes on.

[CuriousSmiles]

Thank you so much for this video. Im a 15 year old teen from England, and am actaully very overweight. My weight is 76 Kg. I have tried to lose weight healthily by exercising and eating right, but I tend to give up alot. I keep telling myself oh I'll start again but I can never stick to what I say. I also get teased at school but I tend to ignore them. Can you please tell me what I can do to not give up, and to actaully lose weight. Thanks

[tinkerbellluvr34]

When i watched this I listened to you very well. Because I am a 13 year old thats over weight....Im really trying to build my confidence And i do love my self I just am very insecure I do love my body and you told me that and i beleived it! Thank you so very much you helped so much!

[negativethreeRandR]

and people should aim to healthy and strong, not skinny.

[flatstomachexercises]

Exactly! And people also need to realize not everyone is genetically able to be a size 2. A size 10 may be a perfectly normal, healthy size for someone based on their natural frame/shape

[negativethreeRandR]

thank you for this video! I know a lot of people including me compare themselves to super models, and that's not how it should be.