I started using the men's bathrooms about a month ago (I'm not on T, nor had top surgery but I do bind). I've gotten pretty confident about it bc I pass so well unless I speak. But Last night I went to a big party with a bunch of my guy friends and bumped into someone I knew in the men's room, and he was like, "oh hey hows it going!" I totally forgot that if I spoke I'd be outed haha, so I just started gabbing away, then when I realized what I did I was like "fuck!" and ran into the stall.(cont)
@alexhaney100 ... and then a guy who'd been in the stall next to the one I was in was like "DID I JUST HEAR A GIRL IN HERE?!" and then he got out of the stall, and kept repeating that, asking everyone in there if they'd seen a girl. I was so nervous I almost stayed hidden in the stall, but then I realized if I just came out like nothing was the matter and didnt open my mouth, he probably wouldn't suspect me. haha so I did, and he never figured it out!
Yeah, this happens to me too. Either bathroom I go into I get weird problems and stares. It sure does get frustrating. You can make pretty easy stand to pee devices yourself, with things such as plastic lids. It takes practice. I'm with you though, going to the family bathroom. I have a pretty fancy stand to pee weener, and I pee all over myself, so I sit mostly. Maybe I just have to practice more.
I never knew that peeing while sitting down was an issue. I have the necessary "parts" but it makes me so uncomfortable that I never ever pee while standing and always use the stall. I actually tried it once and I actually couldn't pee because I am not used to doing it. Nobody ever mentioned anything and I have been going to the bathrooms at my university all the time no matter how large the crowd is.
their was a girl in the guys bathroom you should have seen the guy's face who was going in...like his dreams was coming true...at that moment Danny came out of the bathroom and almost walked right into this guy and his eyes went straight for the chest and a huge smile came over this dudes face...i still tease him about it...i must say i did a good job on him....he's sort of feminene looking we get stares if we kiss in public like we're lesbians its funny....
awesomely said....and boy do i know what you mean about guys looking directly at your chest...you have no idea how tired i am of guys talking to my chest....and its not even a big one..their just perves...i hate that...i really never had an experience with the bathroom thingy...but for holloween one yr i dressed my BF up as a girl..dress boobs heels all we stopped in pizza hut and ate and he had to go...he went into the guys bathroom and some guy came out and said to a guy going in that .....
althou I'm not your mom or so...lol I have to say that I am proud of you.. is that an ok statement? I have seen you grow over the years and I am finally seeing you happy to be who you really are and I think that once you reach that truth you can go forth with your life as it should be. We are here as much as we can be for you and you have our support. and Jonny as well of course. His belief in you is like his uncle. That is why I named him Jon. lol Precious one.
Yeah,it's complicated. We talked about it actually a several weeks ago. But ever since you're automatically a boy for me. Well,you've always been. I've been just confused by the whole transgendered thing. It's something new for me. But I'm not anymore. And I believe that you shouldn't be scared. Be who you are. And act like it in every situation. Even with this bathroom stuff. It's the next step after all :) I know (we all believe) that you can do it. And it's important. For you :) So good luck!
I always try to go to unisex bathrooms or family bathrooms as well but only because most men's bathrooms are really dirty and gross and they stink of old, stale urine. There are only a few select places where I can actually stand to go in the men's bathroom.
I really admire you for stating that the parts you have does not define your gender, and I couldn't agree more.
I started using the men's bathrooms about a month ago (I'm not on T, nor had top surgery but I do bind). I've gotten pretty confident about it bc I pass so well unless I speak. But Last night I went to a big party with a bunch of my guy friends and bumped into someone I knew in the men's room, and he was like, "oh hey hows it going!" I totally forgot that if I spoke I'd be outed haha, so I just started gabbing away, then when I realized what I did I was like "fuck!" and ran into the stall.(cont)
alexhaney100 1 month ago
@alexhaney100 ... and then a guy who'd been in the stall next to the one I was in was like "DID I JUST HEAR A GIRL IN HERE?!" and then he got out of the stall, and kept repeating that, asking everyone in there if they'd seen a girl. I was so nervous I almost stayed hidden in the stall, but then I realized if I just came out like nothing was the matter and didnt open my mouth, he probably wouldn't suspect me. haha so I did, and he never figured it out!
alexhaney100 1 month ago
Yeah, this happens to me too. Either bathroom I go into I get weird problems and stares. It sure does get frustrating. You can make pretty easy stand to pee devices yourself, with things such as plastic lids. It takes practice. I'm with you though, going to the family bathroom. I have a pretty fancy stand to pee weener, and I pee all over myself, so I sit mostly. Maybe I just have to practice more.
ClosetTransgender 1 month ago
I never knew that peeing while sitting down was an issue. I have the necessary "parts" but it makes me so uncomfortable that I never ever pee while standing and always use the stall. I actually tried it once and I actually couldn't pee because I am not used to doing it. Nobody ever mentioned anything and I have been going to the bathrooms at my university all the time no matter how large the crowd is.
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their was a girl in the guys bathroom you should have seen the guy's face who was going in...like his dreams was coming true...at that moment Danny came out of the bathroom and almost walked right into this guy and his eyes went straight for the chest and a huge smile came over this dudes face...i still tease him about it...i must say i did a good job on him....he's sort of feminene looking we get stares if we kiss in public like we're lesbians its funny....
Dreamsofbabys 1 month ago
awesomely said....and boy do i know what you mean about guys looking directly at your chest...you have no idea how tired i am of guys talking to my chest....and its not even a big one..their just perves...i hate that...i really never had an experience with the bathroom thingy...but for holloween one yr i dressed my BF up as a girl..dress boobs heels all we stopped in pizza hut and ate and he had to go...he went into the guys bathroom and some guy came out and said to a guy going in that .....
Dreamsofbabys 1 month ago
@Dannijules ya maybe u should give it a bit more time but if you'd come to mens toilet and i'd be their i would'nt eve think u'd be a boy LOL
rebornsLover1 1 month ago
althou I'm not your mom or so...lol I have to say that I am proud of you.. is that an ok statement? I have seen you grow over the years and I am finally seeing you happy to be who you really are and I think that once you reach that truth you can go forth with your life as it should be. We are here as much as we can be for you and you have our support. and Jonny as well of course. His belief in you is like his uncle. That is why I named him Jon. lol Precious one.
chulanueva 1 month ago
Yeah,it's complicated. We talked about it actually a several weeks ago. But ever since you're automatically a boy for me. Well,you've always been. I've been just confused by the whole transgendered thing. It's something new for me. But I'm not anymore. And I believe that you shouldn't be scared. Be who you are. And act like it in every situation. Even with this bathroom stuff. It's the next step after all :) I know (we all believe) that you can do it. And it's important. For you :) So good luck!
EruvieBruinen 1 month ago
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EruvieBruinen 1 month ago
Men's bathrooms tend to be dirtier, though ;-)
The best bathrooms are those for one person only and that can be locked.
SpiritAscent 1 month ago
@SpiritAscent girl bathrooms arent clean either trust me they smell the same way
DanniJules 1 month ago
I always try to go to unisex bathrooms or family bathrooms as well but only because most men's bathrooms are really dirty and gross and they stink of old, stale urine. There are only a few select places where I can actually stand to go in the men's bathroom.
I really admire you for stating that the parts you have does not define your gender, and I couldn't agree more.
CounselorBaer 1 month ago
dont be shy be a man who cares about people as long as ur happy if that happened once its not gonna happen everytime ;)
rebornsLover1 1 month ago
@rebornsLover1 it doesnt make me happy though, im not comfortable yet
DanniJules 1 month ago
LoL but u dont look like a girl u look jist like boys LOL
rebornsLover1 1 month ago
I guess there are a lot of men's bathrooms without doors on the stalls. sorry you have to go through this.
wildmanwesva 1 month ago
@wildmanwesva ew i didnt know that, i never seen a mens bathroom wothout doors gross!
DanniJules 1 month ago