Within the first 15 seconds you said something very, very important. The husband is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. You can't run ANYTHING, not even a corporation without someone at the top (CEO-chief executive officer) running the company. Does that mean you don't need a CFO (chief financial officer) & other managers and supervisors? NO! So it is with a relationship. Men plays their roles and we, as women, have our roles to play.Get wisdom.Get understanding(Proverbs 4:5).
@framboise595 Not right! The Bible tells us where wisdom comes from:"For the Lord giveth wisdom. Out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding"(Proverbs 2:6)-KJV.There are MANY unwise men and unwise women in the world. If a woman is unfortunate enough to be teamed up with an unwise man, it will not be beneficial to her to depend on his "wisdom" when he clearly is lacking in that department.So, both the woman AND the man's source of wisdom comes from GOD! The WORD is clear!
You are awesome more people need to see this especially black women. They don't realize how much harder they make it on themselves,when they interfere with the man's responsibility. And I didn't know they still had real women like you.Please tell me where I can find a lady like you. I'm a very responsible,real man.:)
a man and a woman can stand as one unit and together be head of the home,they can both share responciblities and be effective by working together, no one has to be put one over the other, men and women intellectually both have the same capasities and are each capable of seeing to any responsibilities of the home, dont allow men to brainwash u into thinking they are the smarter gender thank u
@dBeaUtyOFimAgNatiOn I think a lot of people think that being the head means the man does not need or want the woman's input. Since the woman is the helper, it will be silly of the man to not enlist his wife's help because after all, she is there to help him out. So they both work together.
@ladiesletsbefrank YOU ARE A VERY STRONG SISTER & WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IS VERY TRUE! IT DOES NOT TAKE AWAY ANYTHING FROM THE WOMAN TO LET THE MAN BE THE MAN IN A MALE & FEMALE RELATIONSHIP.... AS A MATTER OF FACT IT ONLY MAKES THE WOMAN STRONGER & HELPS PROMOTE HEALTHIER & STRONGER FAMILIES IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY! I LOVE YOU FOR THAT & MAY GOD BLESS & KEEP YOU SISTER. PEACE,LOVE & HOTEP!!!
@Leopardgirl8282 If a man is not doing all that, he is not doing his part. and he will be held accountable by God. I think some men also on their part could be slacking on their responsibilities but that doesn't change the fact that they are still the head it just means that the head has taken a leave of absence and is not taking care of his responsibilities. (THIS part is the conclusion, sorry girl, read the
the comment that started with "I REALLY appreciate your thoughts" to start this off)
@Leopardgirl8282 . A man can be the head no matter how much money he brings in because after all, the money brought in is for the whole family. It should no longer be his money or her money but our money. When i think of the man being the head, i think that it simply means he is held responsible by God for the smooth running of his family, to ensure that whatever money is brought in takes care of the provision of his families needs and to ensure all other needs are taken care of as well.
@ladiesletsbefrank My whole point to this is you can tell a man a million times, your the man of the household and cook and clean but there are some women out there (me) lol that make nearly double what he does and he has the feeling he is not the head because he doesn't bring the food and the shelter, I do. LOL this was a fun debate! Love ya girl!
the man is the head even if you make all the money in the world. see the problem is women dont listen to there men.thats why you bit that fruit. women gets her wisdom from man.you need that man to feed you. that is why woman need good fathers.thats why yall running around here like chicken with your head chopped off. degrading yourselves. money is not everything. Also you need to stop falling for the whiteman b**l sh*t. perming your hair. black women dont look good with permed hair
@Leopardgirl8282 I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts. I hope this clarifies things better. I think when people think about the man being the head, sometimes they could think in terms of who brings home the most bacon(money) . I actually don't believe money has anything to do with who will be the head. (this is actually going to be a long post so watch out for three more posts to your comment, lol).
@ladiesletsbefrank If you bring God into it, the head to him means the man brings home the food and provides shelter. In today's terms, that needs money. If the man is not providing sufficient funds to purchase groceries and pay for the home, he is not fufilling the head of the house responsibilities God has bestowed upon him. As a result, women must fend for themselves or die of no shelter or food. Therefore, we have to pick up the slack and the man feels like he is not the head.
@ladiesletsbefrank nah i was just joking but there will be many women in this US culture who will disagree with you 100% as they are holding on tightly to a woman controled society with the strongly indoctrinated belief that man is an oppressive beast who must be held at bay, never married, and marginalized as much as possible. Many of the more traditional women will agree though, but they are rapidly disappearing as the decades go by
@vincerashaad I agree with you completely. Men left us to go to war and we had to run the household and do it all, they changed society. Way back in the day. So from that experience, we as women have to look out for our best interests in education, who we marry, and our ability to work. Anywho thats my 2 cents!
@Leopardgirl8282 men went to war so that you would have a household to run unless you think lobbing cornbread dough and a skillet at the troops of an invading army is gonna stop them from making you the slave you condemn your hubby of making you. Men fought for every freedom, priveledge, and advantage you enjoy today.
@vincerashaad I agree with you completely about the necessity of the war, I am engaged to an ex military! However, I was simply saying that war made women start working and once the men returned the norm of the woman staying at home and taking care of the children morfed into women working as well and hence the changes in the way men are labeled as "heads of household" and them feeling like they're not
Within the first 15 seconds you said something very, very important. The husband is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. You can't run ANYTHING, not even a corporation without someone at the top (CEO-chief executive officer) running the company. Does that mean you don't need a CFO (chief financial officer) & other managers and supervisors? NO! So it is with a relationship. Men plays their roles and we, as women, have our roles to play.Get wisdom.Get understanding(Proverbs 4:5).
manyara02 2 months ago
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Great point.... Are you married or in a relatonship?"
33wizeman 3 months ago
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33wizeman 3 months ago
Women get their wisdom and strength from men and men get them from Christ.
framboise595 4 months ago 2
@framboise595 Not right! The Bible tells us where wisdom comes from:"For the Lord giveth wisdom. Out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding"(Proverbs 2:6)-KJV.There are MANY unwise men and unwise women in the world. If a woman is unfortunate enough to be teamed up with an unwise man, it will not be beneficial to her to depend on his "wisdom" when he clearly is lacking in that department.So, both the woman AND the man's source of wisdom comes from GOD! The WORD is clear!
manyara02 2 months ago
Beautifully said. I feel the same way (and so does a lot of black women, contrary to popular belief). Any way girl, I subbed, good stuff!
m0renachula704 11 months ago
@m0renachula704 Thanks for subbing lady. You are the best. Much love.
ladiesletsbefrank 11 months ago
I've been married 15 years. In my marriage things run smoother if the woman is the head of the household.
OfficialGetGln 1 year ago
You are awesome more people need to see this especially black women. They don't realize how much harder they make it on themselves,when they interfere with the man's responsibility. And I didn't know they still had real women like you.Please tell me where I can find a lady like you. I'm a very responsible,real man.:)
sirstrong1st 1 year ago
a man and a woman can stand as one unit and together be head of the home,they can both share responciblities and be effective by working together, no one has to be put one over the other, men and women intellectually both have the same capasities and are each capable of seeing to any responsibilities of the home, dont allow men to brainwash u into thinking they are the smarter gender thank u
4013368 1 year ago
i think in a marriage is a collaboration both are head of the house..
dBeaUtyOFimAgNatiOn 1 year ago
@dBeaUtyOFimAgNatiOn I think a lot of people think that being the head means the man does not need or want the woman's input. Since the woman is the helper, it will be silly of the man to not enlist his wife's help because after all, she is there to help him out. So they both work together.
ladiesletsbefrank 1 year ago 2
@ladiesletsbefrank YOU ARE A VERY STRONG SISTER & WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IS VERY TRUE! IT DOES NOT TAKE AWAY ANYTHING FROM THE WOMAN TO LET THE MAN BE THE MAN IN A MALE & FEMALE RELATIONSHIP.... AS A MATTER OF FACT IT ONLY MAKES THE WOMAN STRONGER & HELPS PROMOTE HEALTHIER & STRONGER FAMILIES IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY! I LOVE YOU FOR THAT & MAY GOD BLESS & KEEP YOU SISTER. PEACE,LOVE & HOTEP!!!
azumanation 1 year ago
nope its 50/50 4 me
FireBallThePony 1 year ago
Great video... I agree with you 100 percent. Thanks for keeping it real.
backhomeforgood 1 year ago
A beautiful sister with a beautiful mind ... the world needs more young ladies like you
bayareamayne 1 year ago
@Leopardgirl8282 If a man is not doing all that, he is not doing his part. and he will be held accountable by God. I think some men also on their part could be slacking on their responsibilities but that doesn't change the fact that they are still the head it just means that the head has taken a leave of absence and is not taking care of his responsibilities. (THIS part is the conclusion, sorry girl, read the
the comment that started with "I REALLY appreciate your thoughts" to start this off)
ladiesletsbefrank 1 year ago
@Leopardgirl8282 . A man can be the head no matter how much money he brings in because after all, the money brought in is for the whole family. It should no longer be his money or her money but our money. When i think of the man being the head, i think that it simply means he is held responsible by God for the smooth running of his family, to ensure that whatever money is brought in takes care of the provision of his families needs and to ensure all other needs are taken care of as well.
ladiesletsbefrank 1 year ago
@ladiesletsbefrank My whole point to this is you can tell a man a million times, your the man of the household and cook and clean but there are some women out there (me) lol that make nearly double what he does and he has the feeling he is not the head because he doesn't bring the food and the shelter, I do. LOL this was a fun debate! Love ya girl!
Leopardgirl8282 1 year ago
@Leopardgirl8282 Really enjoyed chatting with you too. By the way, i sent you a message in your inbox, can you check it? Thanks.
ladiesletsbefrank 1 year ago
the man is the head even if you make all the money in the world. see the problem is women dont listen to there men.thats why you bit that fruit. women gets her wisdom from man.you need that man to feed you. that is why woman need good fathers.thats why yall running around here like chicken with your head chopped off. degrading yourselves. money is not everything. Also you need to stop falling for the whiteman b**l sh*t. perming your hair. black women dont look good with permed hair
rod14525 10 months ago
@Leopardgirl8282 I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts. I hope this clarifies things better. I think when people think about the man being the head, sometimes they could think in terms of who brings home the most bacon(money) . I actually don't believe money has anything to do with who will be the head. (this is actually going to be a long post so watch out for three more posts to your comment, lol).
ladiesletsbefrank 1 year ago
@ladiesletsbefrank If you bring God into it, the head to him means the man brings home the food and provides shelter. In today's terms, that needs money. If the man is not providing sufficient funds to purchase groceries and pay for the home, he is not fufilling the head of the house responsibilities God has bestowed upon him. As a result, women must fend for themselves or die of no shelter or food. Therefore, we have to pick up the slack and the man feels like he is not the head.
Leopardgirl8282 1 year ago
uh oh, better get ready for hate messages over this one.
vincerashaad 1 year ago
@vincerashaad lol you think so?
ladiesletsbefrank 1 year ago
@ladiesletsbefrank nah i was just joking but there will be many women in this US culture who will disagree with you 100% as they are holding on tightly to a woman controled society with the strongly indoctrinated belief that man is an oppressive beast who must be held at bay, never married, and marginalized as much as possible. Many of the more traditional women will agree though, but they are rapidly disappearing as the decades go by
vincerashaad 1 year ago
@vincerashaad I agree with you completely. Men left us to go to war and we had to run the household and do it all, they changed society. Way back in the day. So from that experience, we as women have to look out for our best interests in education, who we marry, and our ability to work. Anywho thats my 2 cents!
Leopardgirl8282 1 year ago
@Leopardgirl8282 men went to war so that you would have a household to run unless you think lobbing cornbread dough and a skillet at the troops of an invading army is gonna stop them from making you the slave you condemn your hubby of making you. Men fought for every freedom, priveledge, and advantage you enjoy today.
vincerashaad 1 year ago
@vincerashaad I agree with you completely about the necessity of the war, I am engaged to an ex military! However, I was simply saying that war made women start working and once the men returned the norm of the woman staying at home and taking care of the children morfed into women working as well and hence the changes in the way men are labeled as "heads of household" and them feeling like they're not
Leopardgirl8282 1 year ago