Active Listening

[Italianinfowarrior]

I think he should add stay awake as a tip

[nadia96378]

كوس اختك اذا صدك

[LucisFerre1]

No, the first problem of listening in interpersonal relationships is that men need to learn to NOT listen to women. Women have two minds, the mouth-mind and the action-mind. Show me a woman who talks about piety and 'god', finding a "nice guy", or someone who treats them well, and I'll show you a woman with two kids and two missing baby daddies.

A woman will tell a nice guy that she can't find a nice guy, & that works until the next jerk comes along who "needs fixing", & she's off to the races.

[seekperfection]

Most people do not listen actively:

Are you a good Listener?

Are you open to what other people say to you, or do you make up your mind about things before you hear other people's view?

Do you become bored when other people speak?

Do you interrupt people when they are speaking?

Are you hesitant to ask clarifying questions?

Instead of asking if a person understands a message, it is much better to request that the receiver explain what he or she has heard.

[Shufflingjesse2526]

What jake and amir episode is this off?

[shanetoons1]

@Shufflingjesse2526 Cologne

[shivsaxena]

the amount of irony. i cant deal

[kaneisthebest123]

jake and amir...

[ccohn0]

Ive seen all 355 episodes like 5 times each! Ya i remember the cologne one.

[ccohn0]

@ccohn0 Jake and Amir episodes that is...

[blabbityblah]

This guy seems to have a great understanding of listening skills, and the importance of healthy communication.

[ydrjtt]

that last part was confusing I wasn't listening

[ydrjtt]

i dont know what this has to do with those two comedians but listening is like the most important thing in relationships

[silverwolf163]

:D it works when i was reading the message on the screen i totaly skipped what he said

[blabbityblah]

That was really cool. Thanks for posting up this video. I learned something about better listening skills, which seems to be very clearly represented in this video. I really like how you mention empathy. Here's something I'm curious about: When I'm trying to figure out how someone feels about a subject, I tend to focus on their personality and love language. Does this mean that I'm not listening to the actual words? Or am I simply overthinking the conversation?

[WeCedig]

can u help me what his say?

[Josehsito]

what a Borind DUDE. #fail

[ryanacehigh]

You can tell this guy does a lot of listening and not a lot of talking!

[TheActionSpot]

JAKE. AMIR. PRODUCT PLACEMENT.

[coolsvilleowner]

well jake and amir know how to advertise

[UberSky]

Jake. And. Amir

[TekGeekify]

Greatest Deus Ex: Human Revolution walk-through ever.

[NFL1623]

How the hell did Amir sit through this whole thing!?

[webcam224]

hahah i love that most people are here for the same reason

[s10dlka]

Hearing is the….preception….of the err...voice and other communication that the person is err…zzz….sending to us…...zzzzzz…..Hearing is not the understanding…….err…. of the message…..zzzzZZZZZZzzzzz

[tine307]

Too long! Did not listen...

[Axion3812]

came here cuz of Jake and Amir.

[heeheex2]

SO you're the one who taught amir how to do this crap

[oronm]

jake and amir TOOO!

[monkeyafg]

Damn it, I heard this video I didn't listen

[monkeyafg]

JAKE UND AMIR!

[Axion3812]

@monkeyafg Das ist toll xD

[alexman706]

@SHPUDY Lmao same here.

[craigfrosttv]

hands up if you're watching this because of Jake and Amir? By the way, all his talking i found really hard to listen to. I could hear him, but found ir hard to listen

[johnmateyko]

Where do Jake and Amir find this stuff?

[SHPUDY]

Jake and Amir

[ghidfg]

@SHPUDY haha ya

[dragonfangxl]

@SHPUDY Yes!

[AcerN2]

@SHPUDY so.. to be like amir do i exacctly the opposite of this video's teachings?

[NapolionTNT22098]

@SHPUDY

it took me like three days to find out what this is called i was going over abd over the video trying to listen what jake said lol

[janwannaku1]

too long to listen

[1234567milagros]

graciasss

[madmercenary]

I fond that the dialogue between the two individuals was not too complicated and there was too much paraphrasing involved. In other words too little of a debate and too much reiteration instead.

[3jelle]

thank you so much

[sands10101986]

thank you sir and your team, i have understand that i have active listening problem and i am aware of my problems and thanks again to give out a solution for that . please keep it up bcause of your such a wonderful help many people out there will be benefit .

[joeyvlog2]

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[WitchTheWicked]

ALERT READ READ READ

blahblah blah...........blah..........b­lah..........boring at 3:14 lost interst. if u beat me reply to this comment

[sephiria5]

@elllllectro Boia de, io invece so italiana e studio pure ir coreano, e vi parlo anche in toscanaccio ghiozzo, così un 'apite una sega di uello e vi di'o! tiè!

[sajjad7972]

if anyone practice of english languuage alote add me on my skype id

sajjadhellokhankhan

[londonpie72]

Excellent am glad I saw this because my listening skills need improvement and this has shown me the problem and solution Thanks

[MrJesusGuadalajara]

¡QUÉ cojonoes ! escribéselo en castellano a ver si es capaz de entenderlo, al menos tú sabes inglés, él es tan inculto que no se da cuenta que la gente intenta ser más abierta e intenta aprender un lenguaje que es muy útil.

Did you understand anything?

What fuck on hell! write him on spanish, I´m sure that he isn´t able to undestand it, at least you know English, he is so uncultered that he doesn´t realize that people learn to understand others cultures and cause It is very usefull.

[joelcarnice]

Thank you so much, this video is very useful! Do you have more videos? I wish see it!

thanks again!

[elllllectro]

@joelcarnice whachasayin? you fucking batshit-crazy bitch, whore? should i just relentlessly claw your eyes out with a crooked rusted fork? is that what you suggesting? god forbid you reaaly piss me off and i start shitting in your mouth and all over your fucking face, you dipshit?

[joelcarnice]

@elllllectro It's obviously that for you it's so stupid this, but.. I would like see how you speak, listen and understand another language, i'm from Catalonia and my mother language it's catalan and spanish so... c'mon why u don't try to understand catalan or spanish?

pd: it's very easy insult, the difficult is help another people.

[ABOM420]

@joelcarnice he noticed your bad English and decided to troll you. your PD, which i think you meant as P.S. for Post Script is half correct. the reason he insults is to feel better about himself and hopefully look good on youtube. take a guess at why. I bet in real life hes full of character, everyone loves him. hes not a total loser looking for validation by insulting people on youtube for having bad English. we all suck at English and we're native STFU retards

[ABOM420]

@joelcarnice

i am sorry for all that slang and hard English.

the part where i talk about him is sarcasm,

not sure if were your from has that Indians dont.

[livenoor]

very good

[JohnnyRock2000]

Sure. But I work with an ADD person. They think while talking. They cannot organize and plan what they have to say. Listening to a person that really doesn't have well formed thought and are oblivious to that, is agony. It's like you have to turn aroung and do something else and just nod as if you are just listening. It sounds rude, but all people do that to ADD people because the alternative is to just shoot yourself. ADD people do it too. They cannot focus long enough to listen.

[clovis2012]

Sorry I wasn't listening...Can you explain all that again?

[bofhd89o]

very important topic : )

[spiffylightguy]

anyone out of newly out of High School will have these so called "listening skills"

[MonaLenka]

For me this video is very helpful! Thank You :)

[rafflecupter]

Listening is an issue because of this long ass video.

[1428angel]

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[108jlc]

Great information - the delivery could be "pepped" up.

[Prophetess7]

An active listening course should be mandatory for all managers.

[krismak31]

lol your the kind of speaker that people will be bored enough and sleep and for sure will never understand a word your saying hahahaha

[elfiallos]

This is a great video. The explanation is clear and has been well exposed by him. Thank you.

[slickintern]

Bueler......Bueler.....Bueler.­...Bueler.....

[kapaleev]

Great video for people who are interested in active listening or realize the benefits of active listening. People with interest in conflict resolution or channeling should be interested in this video.

[mEch11289]

I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sleepy watching you!

[cray32]

@mEch11289 then stop watching

[shalinirikh]

Very useful, thank you !!

[carolinajessamine]

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[cesaryusuf]

cool I can understand most of the world he is saying , it is a good way in order to practice listening I am taking the TOEFL ITP in the next future I have to do my best thanks for this sort of video, very useful resource, thanks again

Mexico

[shtaimoor84]

i think if we listen to the words then could better understand aswell...

[splash6667]

I can't understand him because I have problems with listening...

[lhaksam1959]

Prof. thank you very much for your awesome tips and advices. It really helps to the entire english learning and listening community. My question is while listening i understand everything, but when i write i forget everything. what do you think. is this my listening problem or memory weakness.

[fabianlimones]

thank you!

[davidd2005]

I cant listen to him ......LOL

[vladimirvincent325]

hey man, im not even half way done listening to your lecture, but i must say that i like the idea of writing the important messages while your talking. this helps me to keep the major points in mind while you explain the less important ones. thanks

[scarpred666]

NO doodling around!

[luchoplena]

I  have to listen to him to pass my exam....

[calamitif]

C'est vraiment bien d'avoir pris son temps pour faire ça, c'est super ce qu'il dit, ça remet bien dans le contexte.

Bravo !

[JasonTaa]

Active listening , once  you master this skill, there will be huge payoff.

[ndw0122]

at the beginning of his speech as he seems a bit nervous.

[nnad]

good

[NiceTubeAccount]

I guess this example at the end is NOT added value to those rules...

[NiceTubeAccount]

I had some of the NLP aspects during the Project Management postgraduate program.

[niny322]

haha I watched this in my class, very informative

you should be proud that my teacher showed it because our college is very well known

[mmaximm2000]

Did you study COMM-405 in SAIT?

[niny322]

I think so, dont remember the coruse code that well, but deffinatly close 2 that. m in mohawk

[rikie001]

no its was Comm 325. lol

[rickiis]

I'm guessing offering empathy may be up a notch from listening as it is an understanding of what someone may be experiencing. Anytime we can listen or offer empathy and be present with another is a gift.

[metalhaze1982]

Gr8 video I ve seen it with the one about assertiveness so many times. thumbs up!

[minus2months]

Really helpful. It is a bit dry but this only helps challenge viewers to develop their listening skills surely...

[luigiperso]

excellent ,thank you. All these aspects influence our lives and everything we do,a lot more than it appears.

[dalesantos1979]

Yeah, very useful indeed. I wonder if there's any way for me to download this so I can share it with my friends who don't have any internet connection at home; so they can just watch it through Windows Media Player?

[JohanesSajer]

haha, my mind kept wandering as he talked...

FORTUNATELY, I am much better in person. haha

[michaelpoconnor25]

to aid me in active listining

[pinaymom2007]

very helpful tips thanks

[quieroquemeamen]

really useful!thanks!!!

[SuprDuprWoow]

This is very usefull!!! Thanks!!!