This may seem ignorant, but cutting seems extremely selfish. It hurts fam/friends who love you more then it does you. I know Life is hard and sometimes it feels as though you will never be happy, but I can assure you you will, maybe it's just a shitty time in life atm or maybe your not happy with your life and you want things to change, And if so then you must change things in your life you gotta work for the person you wanna be. "Scars don't heal when you keep cutting"
@Anarke51 yeah, it's true that it hurts those you care about. But whatever hurt they feel is probably nothing compared to someone who has been cutting for possibly years in secret. Life really is tough and sadly not everyone makes it through.
today is my seventh week of not cutting i feel like it truly never gets any easier to not cut and today feels like life is just raping me in the ass i hate everything i just wanna freakin die
@jellywigglz17 i've been clean for almost 9 months now and it's still something i think about every single day. life does get hard and sometimes it's like it just knocks you right on your ass and keeps kicking you...but the best part is waking up every morning knowing that you are alive, and that's a something i've held onto to get me through
This song I can really relate to. It's got me through a lot.. I really just wish I had a friend to open up to though :( Check my video about my self harm story and inbox me, if you want a friend
@SeriesRunescape -.- 1. Emo means 'emotional'. And you don't 'turn' 'emo'. People have screwed up lives. They don't have anyone to turn to. So they decide to harm themselves to get the anger out. You can't stop it. Once you cut/burn/etc for the first time....its hard to stop.
I was depressed for about 5 years. I somehow resisted cutting though I often thought about it. Here's what I realized after I finally got help.... You have to be the one to ask for help or you won't get it. I know a lot of people are just waiting and waiting for someone to notice and won't say anything but guys, everyone has their own life to deal with. It is YOUR life. Take control and tell someone. That's the first step. I promise you life CAN get better.
That's the part i always cry at. You feel so guilty when you know that you're also hurting the few people that care about you. It makes you want to cut again...
For every like my comment gets I will draw a butterfly on my wrist. I don't normally ask for this, but I need to stay away from that blade, I'll do anything.
I'm a seventeen year old girl. I've suffered depression for about 5 years now; and i've been cutting for a year and a half. I just cut about 10 minutes ago and they still sting. It all started with just scratching at ym skin. I had convinced myself that that was ok. It's never ok. If you start scratching or cutting once, it'll get worse.
Please...people, don't end up like me. Right now I can only see it getting worse...
@BornToJustBeMe I'm like you but I'm only fourteen. I've had bipolar for years. Once you start, it never stops. Keep trying though hun, you can always inbox me <3
this will forever be my favourite song. i've never heard something that i can relate to so much, and everytime i watch the video i cry, it's so amazing. thank you so much between the trees <3
It saddens me how little views this song has. People need to be aware of this, its real and serious. I started cutting in middle school, and now I'm in college and still cutting. For people who needs someone to talk to, I'm a real good listener <3
@ILoveHim818Mine if you ever need to talk, message me. i had gotten over it but my boyfriend cut because of my ex so this is my life again. i'm use to it by now /:
That line makes me stop and think of the ones I love and how much they'll hurt if i sh, but then I think. Why bother? They're part of the reason anyway :/
That awkward moment when I see him sing and I look at his blue eyes and I feel they pierce through me while I listen to his words and my eyes go blurry and I start crying.
Hey guys, to everyone in the UK who's feeling like this song says... We've got a website to help. It's really new and isn't 100% finished but I still want you all to have a look. thatgirl.jimdo.com
It's made by a teenager who has been through depression, self harming, you name it. This teenager wants to help, but we can't do it without you! If you ever want to talk to someone about how you're feeling, need advice, or just someone to talk to head over to that website.
the only reason why i started in the first place was because of bullying, then it became an addiction and it became worse. I can't stop, my mom and dad knows and I have help but non of it is working. then I have some family problems and that dose not help at all, I have tried suicide 10 times in the past 3 weeks, This song and another band makes me not feel alone, I pry every night hoping I get better, But it's not working. I'm lost.
@4everKilljoy i'm the same, i'm 13 to, i know how u feel, accept i really am alone, my mum doesnt know and my dad is half the reason i cut, i know it feels like no one else in the world is going thru what u are, but trust me, i know, if u ever need to talk, i'm here <3
@4everKilljoy i know what its like i started at 11 cause of bulling and how everyone wanted me to be someone i wasnt. it took me 4 years to stop and for the first 3 no one knew of it. things can get better. kia kaha (be strong) and youlll get through it trust me
I try and try to stop, it's killing my Dad I can see it. I feel so selfish, I'm draining his money from counsellors, and draining his life from trying to end mine.
I am... so sorry Daddy <3 I will get better, I promise.
i used to sing this song everyday so i wouldnt cut i stopped singing because i had no more feeling...i cut and stop and start agani its gotten so bad iv filled the bathtub... i hate cuting but its liek its my only escape... </3 much love to all with depression and bi polar and skitzo or any disorder and if you guys every need anything add me on fb and we can talk i nkow how shitty life can be and i nkow how bad it hurts.. My name on FB is Cathryn Elizabeth Lette.
There are days where I stop, but then start again..
And this song really does make me feel better. "The deeper you cut the deeper I hurt" This line makes me stop and think...Think about the ones I'm hurting even though they don't know...Makes me stop from hurting myself.
I hope one day all of u guys who suffer from this and myself can one day find happiness at last. Stay Strong!!! <3 <3 <3
I self harm through scratching, never hard enough to bleed, but enough to leave red marks for a day or 2. Been doing this for 3 months. And 2 weeks ago I picked up a knife..just staring at it...but I thankfully put it down and walked away..I know what it'll lead to, but the pain can be so overwhelming and just hurts so much...
I wish I could have a happy ending like the song. But I can't stop. I've been trying for so long and I just can't. I hate this. This song and band have helped me a lot, though. I wish they hadn't broken up <l3 This song is amazing. This band should've been way more famous.
This reminds me of my bestfriend.Her dad was gone for academy.Her grandfather died the day after her birthday.Her boyfriend that treated her like crap broke up with her.We told her not to go out with him or we won't be her friend.Well she went out with him again & we turned against her.Then she switched schools.& at 1:30 Christmas night she took a bunch of different pills four bottles of them & cut her arms 95 times.She didnt want to wake up but she did & was taken to the hospital.Keep hope<3
i use to cut a while back , my scars on my arm went away but on my legs are still there . i havent cut for bout 1 or 2 months . sometimes i think about it but never do . i just wish i could talk to someone ); but my aunt and sometimes my friend is always here. but my cousin said she doesnt care.
@bestgoaliegirl, I'm sorry for whatever drives you to cut. My girl girlfriend used time cut, So trust me when I say it really does hurt people around you that know.. but if they love you they will always be there for you. Never give up hope. :-) if you ever need someone to talk to find me on Fb. Michael L. Cecil :-)
I was 2 months clean but all of that changed tonight i have been cutting for years now..and no im not saying this for attention..nobody has ever noticed that i cut even tho its clearly there.. ohwell i love this song <3
i never wanted my dad to find out that i cut. but when he did he didnt really care. my family jokes about it now, but they dont realize how real it is for me. i love my dad and the rest of my family but they dont get it, and they think its funny and that im doing it for no good reason :/ anyways i love this song
@ImNotNormal Maybe they don't know what to do or how to handle it. Mine sure didn't. They still don't. If you need someone to talk to you can email me im a great listener and good at helping people who cut StayStrongUnspoken99@yahoo
@ImNotNormal Maybe they don't know what to do or how to handle it. Mine sure didn't. They still don't. But always find that one person you can talk to and if you need someone to talk to you can email me im a great listener and good at helping people who cut StayStrongUnspoken99@yahoo.com
my parents have found me cutting more then ounce and dont do shit!! they just look at me like im a freak. it hurts and makes me cut more. i hate that they wont help me and think im a freak. ive been cutting for years and im just getting worst D:
okay seriously if anyone is going to think about cutting aagaim, pleaseplease talk to me because i can listen to your problems, which is a hell of alot better than cutting them, even though im a stranger, i want to help..
My dad is like this, when he found out I was cutting he helped me through it. I sometimes look back at the scars and think to myself "WTF was I thinking" because these scars will never disappear. I've learned that my scars are a way of showing how strong I am, because although I cut, I still got through everything, and the past is the past, just look towards the future. <3
The people who don't like this are most likely those who think life is a Disney movie with a dancing sun and singing flowers. But it's not. Blood is shed, lives are taken, and homes destroyed. And it's those who face that make everything stay together cause they can face it.
my mom wants me to have my scars sergically removed, because it's embarrassing to her...this video is a fantasy it's what we all wish would happen but there is no way that would happen in real life
I don't know why but I've always hated this song/video. I guess it just seems too over dramatic and unrealistic in my opinion. I'm not trying to be insensitive or whatever but I really don't care for this video.
@abercrombiebitch001 There aren't very many options when it comes to self harmed themed music. I want to like it but unfortuneatly don't and keep thinking that I will come to like it if I try hard enough....if that makes any sense. :p
im a 16 year old gay male, i have serious depression ever since i was a child and have attempted suicide twice. last time i cut my mother saw my wrist and cried... i made it my new years resolution to never cut again. i haven't cut since that day almost a month ago now, i still have my depressed days but im a lot better now.
whenever i feel a urge to cut i watch this video and i cry away my bottled up emotions instead of bleeding them away.
@MrBrayden55 Jesus loves you. Iv'e been there. Iv'e felt alone. God provides a feeling of security. You may not be religious, or a believer....but He is there for you regardless. Good luck with you resolution. There is hope. Your'e not alone.
My mum has never forgotten what I did so she checked my wrists every day for 7 months. I stayed clean for a year. Then it got bad again so I cut for a week, then stopped.
It's been a year since I last cut and I thought I was going to be OK, I'm wrong, tonight I'm going to cut again, I just hope that my friends will forgive me.
When school told my mum that I had been cutting my wrists she acted upset but when we got home I got yelled at for ruining her life and her image. She said I would never get rid of the mark on my reputation. We never told my dad. I attempted suicide 5 times and should have been taken to hospital but I didn't tell anyone what I had done so I got by on my own.
I really wish my dad was like the dad in this video... But there's a difference. When I hold the blade to my wrist there's no one there to stop me. Let's face the facts, real life isn't like movies.
@MsDemonKairi Well, that's not true, I'm as real of a human being as you. I think that you should stop cutting your wrist, I felt like life was pointless too, and I agree, cutting feels like the only solution. To everyone who cuts, I am a person who doesn't know a single thing about you, but still I'm commenting to tell you that I care about you, and that if no one is there to stop you, always believe that there is someone that will. Life isn't like the movies, compassion is still there
@ErwinKing95 Maybe it doesn't seem as if life is exactly pointless to me. But it sure as hell isn't like anything else. Life will never be like the movies. This is a place where we're forcefed lies and we won't ever be able to be ourselves for the fear of being rejected. So we cut to forget the pain that's on our hearts. I've not cut for about a week and a half now, but that's only because I have a friend helping me. But I'm close to relapsing, because it's just not worth it.
@MsDemonKairi Well, life always will want to throw you off, we are living in hard times, but what happens in life just can't compare to life itself. Almost nothing in life can make you feel the way you do as much as knowing that you are living life
please stop talking about happy ur lives r. ur making people tht dont have good lives feel worse about theres. if ur life is so freken great then dont be watching a video about suicides!!!
@SUICIDEANGEL0160 That's so fucking rude right there alright I've try to commit suicide 3 times already and what if that person did die honestly it would be in your hands you fault because your cyber-bullying
hi yeah she or he is fucking rude. she/he told "kill your self you worthless pest" i dont think the person get some day it's gunna push some one a bit too far. and that day's here. well done :suicideangle" I'll see you when you die.
Im sorry for what they said to you <3 hope your well.
@randomemolol If you get a hug, hug back. If you get a smile, smile back. Using this logic, if you get a slap, SLAP BACK. Or me and the army of people who know how you feel will come and do the slapping for you xXx
@XBreezyBooX Oh wow, you're lucky...I'm just the beginning...My friends and I have made a deal that if we do it again I can't talk to my bf for a week and that would scar me for life....so I'm trying to live to the end...
Words cannot describe how lucky I feel to have a man in my life who's been just like the father in this video to me, and helped me though everything. I love my boyfriend :') <3
parents don't care like the father in the video... if they did... cutting... wouldn't happen... nearly as much.... even if they to get "help..." wtf... is the point if... after they're considered "rehabilitated..." they're send them right back... to the same people... who caused it in the first place...? and... it's just... how... i deal... with the pain... so... why... should that... be... taken away...? it's not... going to get... better... anyway... even if... the music... helps... a bit...
@bvbfallenangel0 Most parents care but just don't know how to help so they try to pretend they don't see the problem..and even if they don't care, I do. If u ever need someone I will always be around. I pretty much live on YouTube so send me a message. I've been where u r and I know that it doesn't seem like it and u're probably tired of hearing it but it DOES get better. I've been clean almost 5years and eventually, you can't get worse and the only way is up ♥ There IS still hope, I promise ♥
@bvbfallenangel0 You are SO wrong! some parents may be like you metion, but it's definitely not everyone! Sure I can only speak for myself, but my parents actually do care, just as much as the father in this vid does, the fact that I'm dealing with cutting, has nothing to do with my parents, I shove them out, cause it hurts to much to see them hurt so bad, but I'm sure if I would let them hold me like the father does, they would!
I see visions. I see things that never happened, but might happened if I snapped. Its driving me insane, I see people getting killed, the world becoming a worse place than it already is. But the only thing thats keeping me sane, are the good visions and dreams. And I cut, to help understand these visions.
This song made me pour tears,and NO song has ever really made me do that. This is coming from a girl who barely cries,even when she cuts. I love this song,it helps me (:
If parents were like the dad in this video things would be so much better for most teenagers. When my mum found out I cut she called me a freak. What happened? I cut more and then ran away. When they realized that something was wrong when they found me was when they took me to get help. They fail to realize that things are not okay, and then when they finally do realize it the situation has already reached wicked new heights.
Im confuzzled, If youre feeling all bad....Then why do people cut them selves if it hurts, And its just gunna make things more worse in the future :S?
@YellowDucker123 Physical pain masks emotional pain. It makes the emotional pain ''go away'' for a while, it makes it bearable for long enough so that you can do homework or tidy up or fall asleep without any thoughts bumping around in your brain. There's the science involving endorphins and such, but really, it kind of just covers up whatever is hurting mentally.
@YellowDucker123 takes the pain away from the actual thing you are concentrationg on, you rproblems, why are you listening to this song if you dont get it????
This time last year I had been cutting myself for over 2 years. It was my relief from everything bad in the world. Last May is when I officially stopped. Since I stopped, I've learned that I dont need the razor to make it through things. If youre someone thats struggling with cutting thats reading this, I promise you that you can make it through.<3 Please stop hurting yourself. I promise that it will get better if you just have a little hope. <3
ive been cutting since i was 12 im 15 now its hard to stop but ive been clean for almost a month thanks to my boyfriend of 6 months i used to cut 3-4 times in one day it became my life the thing i lived for its hard it really is but just find something to give u a reason all i have left are scars of every time i hurt myself n i look at them n think im pretty fucked up to do this to myself
ugh one year ago to the day my best friend that i knew since kindergarden got hit by a car and died. without him i just cant put down this knife god how i would love just to get rid of these painful memories of that day. there circling inside my head over and over again and no one in my family can understand this pain that i feel right now .,..god how i would love to just end it all right now
I've tried to stop cutting 15 times it never works I wonder if I actually had someone I could trust to talk to I wouldn't need to cut but that will never happen fuck you dad and everyone thats screwed me over I hate you for making me have so many trust issues!)':
@Melovesyouify it will work, it takes time. for me it took me just trying to go longer without cutting.. i used to cut at least 3-4 times a week for a year.. i've been cutting since 5th grade and now i'm a junior in highschool. but soon those 3-4 times turned into once a every two weeks. then i went for months without doing it and now i have overcome the impulse to pick up a blade.. you just have to believe in yourself and love yourself. because you are the only person you are forever with. <3
i stopped cutting exactly 1 months ago and guys, in this short time, i realized that it can get better. it does.i swear it. i know u dont want to do it, but the next time u want to cut, STOP YOURSELF, and do what u wudv wanted to do before this all happened. Stop feeling down. FAKE IT. for just 1 day. u'll feel better.u'll want to feel happy, like u did, once again. and finally, "you'll put down your knife" like i did. peace, luv u :) if you need to talk, im always here. feel free to contact :)
You know whats the point in quitting cutting if no one really cares that much about you and it makes you feel better.. I just dont see the point in stopping
@LivingThisHell i care more than you think <3 i pick it up...almost everyday.Recently i did it yesterdat cause i cant escape this hell.Well if you need me to stop and tell you every good thing about you i will.Your fucking beautiful (dont believe me?) well yea girl i went on your channel,viewed your video....YOUR BEAUTIFUL <3 and i know anybody would wanna be your friend....Whatever the reason for you doing this to yourself...well dont let them get to you...ok my inbox is always open and (cont)
@brittylovesRANDOM101 That's just it though, i'm not beautiful or anything. I've let cutting become me. It's who I am. It's what I do. It's what I know best. There's nothing left. Everybody who said they care and will never leave, left. Really, I've been alone in this from the beginning, and i'm going to go out alone. Because, I can't take much more of this.
@LivingThisHell i know exactly how you feel,and you feel really helpless.But as people say it must get better.I dont really know that it will but keep your head up.And you say you think you're not beautiful or anything...but if thats you in your profile and all your fucking gorgeous...(i would love to look like you).Even if people say your a failure,THEIR THE FAILURE and i promise you your life is gettting somewhere good.<3
@brittylovesRANDOM101 I really don't believe that I will get better anymore, I've had this problem for too long. ..It is me in my profile, but i'm really not. Trust me, yo
I just want someone....
savannahmusiclife 3 days ago
@savannahmusiclife im here if you want to talk. you might be suprised how much i can relate
xxxmehbrokensoulxxx 2 days ago in playlist Liked videos
.....what do I say...?
savannahmusiclife 3 days ago
This may seem ignorant, but cutting seems extremely selfish. It hurts fam/friends who love you more then it does you. I know Life is hard and sometimes it feels as though you will never be happy, but I can assure you you will, maybe it's just a shitty time in life atm or maybe your not happy with your life and you want things to change, And if so then you must change things in your life you gotta work for the person you wanna be. "Scars don't heal when you keep cutting"
Anarke51 3 days ago
@Anarke51 yeah, it's true that it hurts those you care about. But whatever hurt they feel is probably nothing compared to someone who has been cutting for possibly years in secret. Life really is tough and sadly not everyone makes it through.
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hailshysteria 4 days ago
That moment when ur friend sends u this and says it reminds them of me...:'(
BVBloverXD 5 days ago
today is my seventh week of not cutting i feel like it truly never gets any easier to not cut and today feels like life is just raping me in the ass i hate everything i just wanna freakin die
jellywigglz17 6 days ago
@jellywigglz17 i've been clean for almost 9 months now and it's still something i think about every single day. life does get hard and sometimes it's like it just knocks you right on your ass and keeps kicking you...but the best part is waking up every morning knowing that you are alive, and that's a something i've held onto to get me through
SnackPackz1 3 days ago
today marks 18 months i have gone without cutting THANK YOU JESUS =D
andreasblog21 1 week ago
This song I can really relate to. It's got me through a lot.. I really just wish I had a friend to open up to though :( Check my video about my self harm story and inbox me, if you want a friend
RevolutionaryPain 1 week ago
This is why you shouldn't turn emo guys.
SeriesRunescape 1 week ago
@SeriesRunescape -.- 1. Emo means 'emotional'. And you don't 'turn' 'emo'. People have screwed up lives. They don't have anyone to turn to. So they decide to harm themselves to get the anger out. You can't stop it. Once you cut/burn/etc for the first time....its hard to stop.
zombieinwaiting 6 days ago 5
I was depressed for about 5 years. I somehow resisted cutting though I often thought about it. Here's what I realized after I finally got help.... You have to be the one to ask for help or you won't get it. I know a lot of people are just waiting and waiting for someone to notice and won't say anything but guys, everyone has their own life to deal with. It is YOUR life. Take control and tell someone. That's the first step. I promise you life CAN get better.
blondyblueeyes08 1 week ago
i stopped cutting a while ago, but i still sometimes have to, i narrowed it down to once or twice a week though :) im getting better :D
RedSkittles0304 1 week ago 2
@RedSkittles0304 Yay! I am proud of you!:)
sweetpee1231 1 week ago
@sweetpee1231 lol thanxx :D
RedSkittles0304 1 week ago
'The deeper you cut, The deeper I Hurt
The deeper you cut,It only gets worse"
That's the part i always cry at. You feel so guilty when you know that you're also hurting the few people that care about you. It makes you want to cut again...
JesicaYesicaRosa 1 week ago
For every like my comment gets I will draw a butterfly on my wrist. I don't normally ask for this, but I need to stay away from that blade, I'll do anything.
cassielove00 1 week ago 9
@cassielove00 just do it for the heck of it... i have my friends draw one on me..... please stop ctting... if you stop i will
Bellztherockeremogir 1 week ago
@cassielove00 draw 2 butterflys for me, and ill draw 2 for you ?<3
smilefornoreason00 1 week ago
@cassielove00 can i draw one for u as well?
mandislayer45 1 week ago
this song sucks after 3:32 <3
vkix12 1 week ago
I'm a seventeen year old girl. I've suffered depression for about 5 years now; and i've been cutting for a year and a half. I just cut about 10 minutes ago and they still sting. It all started with just scratching at ym skin. I had convinced myself that that was ok. It's never ok. If you start scratching or cutting once, it'll get worse.
Please...people, don't end up like me. Right now I can only see it getting worse...
BornToJustBeMe 1 week ago
@BornToJustBeMe ur like me,... ive cut for 3 years.... its horrible... good luck in life...
Bellztherockeremogir 1 week ago
@BornToJustBeMe I'm like you but I'm only fourteen. I've had bipolar for years. Once you start, it never stops. Keep trying though hun, you can always inbox me <3
cassielove00 1 week ago
i cred at this video as i looked down at my wrist
vkix12 1 week ago
the first time i heard this song, my friend sent it to me to explain how she was feeling, and i balled my eyes out...
ksw3333 1 week ago
@LivingThisHell uhmm ,maybe a councillor (their trained for that) or someone more personal like your guardian.
brittylovesRANDOM101 2 weeks ago
I so love this song. The first time I heard it, I cried for such a long time.
xxxxtokishonexxxx 2 weeks ago
this will forever be my favourite song. i've never heard something that i can relate to so much, and everytime i watch the video i cry, it's so amazing. thank you so much between the trees <3
emmadrayton 2 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos
this song actually helped me about 4.5 years ago. i cry everytime i see this <3
teekeylee 2 weeks ago
Clean for 3 days. The most I've went without is 2 weeks, but then start again. But gotta stay strong!!!
And hope u guys can do the same!! ♥ ♥ ♥
ultimatedbzgtdbfan 2 weeks ago
@ultimatedbzgtdbfan Good luck!! one day for me :]
KeepHope0821 2 weeks ago in playlist Liked videos
@KeepHope0821 Thanks! Same 2 u! Good luck! ♥ =)
ultimatedbzgtdbfan 2 weeks ago
@ultimatedbzgtdbfan i sincerely you keep it up<3 stay strong.
ksw3333 1 week ago
and then she closed her eyes, and found relief in a knife. ♥
awyeahletsdothis 2 weeks ago
I cried
kimmytjelovesyou 2 weeks ago
I opened my eyes and found relief in Gods life3 don't you wanna do the same?
nsnskilletandjblvr 2 weeks ago
@nsnskilletandjblvr no.
xxxxtokishonexxxx 2 weeks ago
Everytime I see this I cry. Such painful memories.
nsnskilletandjblvr 2 weeks ago 2
this song makes me ball my eyes out
folieex 2 weeks ago
It saddens me how little views this song has. People need to be aware of this, its real and serious. I started cutting in middle school, and now I'm in college and still cutting. For people who needs someone to talk to, I'm a real good listener <3
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@KeepHope0821 Hey, I see your post on here, and it's wonderful that you can offer people help yourself for everything you've been through :)
You say you're still cutting though; if you need someone to talk to
I'm here
BBKatsu1 2 days ago
@ILoveHim818Mine if you ever need to talk, message me. i had gotten over it but my boyfriend cut because of my ex so this is my life again. i'm use to it by now /:
chippylalala 2 weeks ago
anyone who has depression, cuts, or just wants someone to talk to; msg me, i swear, i'll be here if you need me <3
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blackveilbridesninja 3 weeks ago
i head to the dresser drawer... to dive my pain away... but then i realsied i dont need too.....
i wish that where true for me :(
Bellztherockeremogir 3 weeks ago
@Bellztherockeremogir hey...i used to cut...msg me if you ever need a friend okay?
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ultimatedbzgtdbfan 3 weeks ago
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"The deeper u cut the deepr I hurt"
That line makes me stop and think of the ones I love and how much they'll hurt if i sh, but then I think. Why bother? They're part of the reason anyway :/
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ultimatedbzgtdbfan 3 weeks ago
That awkward moment when I see him sing and I look at his blue eyes and I feel they pierce through me while I listen to his words and my eyes go blurry and I start crying.
theprettylittleraind 3 weeks ago 41
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Hey guys, to everyone in the UK who's feeling like this song says... We've got a website to help. It's really new and isn't 100% finished but I still want you all to have a look. thatgirl.jimdo.com
It's made by a teenager who has been through depression, self harming, you name it. This teenager wants to help, but we can't do it without you! If you ever want to talk to someone about how you're feeling, need advice, or just someone to talk to head over to that website.
xlovezashley4evax 3 weeks ago
I'm 13 years old and I cut, Badly.
the only reason why i started in the first place was because of bullying, then it became an addiction and it became worse. I can't stop, my mom and dad knows and I have help but non of it is working. then I have some family problems and that dose not help at all, I have tried suicide 10 times in the past 3 weeks, This song and another band makes me not feel alone, I pry every night hoping I get better, But it's not working. I'm lost.
4everKilljoy 3 weeks ago 3
@4everKilljoy
:(awwz hun
you'lll get better <3
do you have a facebook account?
nicoleAdorablemonkey 3 weeks ago
@nicoleAdorablemonkey Yeah i do<3
and @bonnietheone94 Thankyou so much, I'm here if you want a chat too<3
4everKilljoy 3 weeks ago
@4everKilljoy i'm the same, i'm 13 to, i know how u feel, accept i really am alone, my mum doesnt know and my dad is half the reason i cut, i know it feels like no one else in the world is going thru what u are, but trust me, i know, if u ever need to talk, i'm here <3
bonnietheone94 3 weeks ago
@4everKilljoy i know what its like i started at 11 cause of bulling and how everyone wanted me to be someone i wasnt. it took me 4 years to stop and for the first 3 no one knew of it. things can get better. kia kaha (be strong) and youlll get through it trust me
blackveilbridesninja 3 weeks ago
@4everKilljoy if you ever want to talk to someone, add me on skype: marcuroth
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xlovezashley4evax 3 weeks ago
she got hugs and love- i got hate resntment and mental health treatment
MrJAKEOFF69 3 weeks ago 3
I wish my dad hugged me....instead he moved 500 miles away..
shutterbugxoxo 4 weeks ago
Im about to cry
SweetUnwanted 4 weeks ago
I try and try to stop, it's killing my Dad I can see it. I feel so selfish, I'm draining his money from counsellors, and draining his life from trying to end mine.
I am... so sorry Daddy <3 I will get better, I promise.
ZombehChloe 1 month ago
i used to sing this song everyday so i wouldnt cut i stopped singing because i had no more feeling...i cut and stop and start agani its gotten so bad iv filled the bathtub... i hate cuting but its liek its my only escape... </3 much love to all with depression and bi polar and skitzo or any disorder and if you guys every need anything add me on fb and we can talk i nkow how shitty life can be and i nkow how bad it hurts.. My name on FB is Cathryn Elizabeth Lette.
babygirl8252005 1 month ago
*continued*
There are days where I stop, but then start again..
And this song really does make me feel better. "The deeper you cut the deeper I hurt" This line makes me stop and think...Think about the ones I'm hurting even though they don't know...Makes me stop from hurting myself.
I hope one day all of u guys who suffer from this and myself can one day find happiness at last. Stay Strong!!! <3 <3 <3
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I self harm through scratching, never hard enough to bleed, but enough to leave red marks for a day or 2. Been doing this for 3 months. And 2 weeks ago I picked up a knife..just staring at it...but I thankfully put it down and walked away..I know what it'll lead to, but the pain can be so overwhelming and just hurts so much...
ultimatedbzgtdbfan 1 month ago in playlist Other Songs
I wish I could have a happy ending like the song. But I can't stop. I've been trying for so long and I just can't. I hate this. This song and band have helped me a lot, though. I wish they hadn't broken up <l3 This song is amazing. This band should've been way more famous.
bvbarmy4lyfe 1 month ago 2
This reminds me of my bestfriend.Her dad was gone for academy.Her grandfather died the day after her birthday.Her boyfriend that treated her like crap broke up with her.We told her not to go out with him or we won't be her friend.Well she went out with him again & we turned against her.Then she switched schools.& at 1:30 Christmas night she took a bunch of different pills four bottles of them & cut her arms 95 times.She didnt want to wake up but she did & was taken to the hospital.Keep hope<3
xXCatieBugXx 1 month ago
i use to cut a while back , my scars on my arm went away but on my legs are still there . i havent cut for bout 1 or 2 months . sometimes i think about it but never do . i just wish i could talk to someone ); but my aunt and sometimes my friend is always here. but my cousin said she doesnt care.
destinee490 1 month ago
cutting is serious...i saved my girlfriends life just talking to her....she realized what she had and stopped...oLd i love her. Never again Siarra!
DannyKam4 1 month ago
@bestgoaliegirl, I'm sorry for whatever drives you to cut. My girl girlfriend used time cut, So trust me when I say it really does hurt people around you that know.. but if they love you they will always be there for you. Never give up hope. :-) if you ever need someone to talk to find me on Fb. Michael L. Cecil :-)
michaelcjr94 1 month ago
I was 2 months clean but all of that changed tonight i have been cutting for years now..and no im not saying this for attention..nobody has ever noticed that i cut even tho its clearly there.. ohwell i love this song <3
Bestgoaliegirl 1 month ago 3
Repeat repeat.
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klb4112 1 month ago
i never wanted my dad to find out that i cut. but when he did he didnt really care. my family jokes about it now, but they dont realize how real it is for me. i love my dad and the rest of my family but they dont get it, and they think its funny and that im doing it for no good reason :/ anyways i love this song
AquaGirl4Life 1 month ago
@ImNotNormal Maybe they don't know what to do or how to handle it. Mine sure didn't. They still don't. If you need someone to talk to you can email me im a great listener and good at helping people who cut StayStrongUnspoken99@yahoo
MckaylaRenee99 1 month ago
@ImNotNormal Maybe they don't know what to do or how to handle it. Mine sure didn't. They still don't. But always find that one person you can talk to and if you need someone to talk to you can email me im a great listener and good at helping people who cut StayStrongUnspoken99@yahoo.com
MckaylaRenee99 1 month ago
my parents have found me cutting more then ounce and dont do shit!! they just look at me like im a freak. it hurts and makes me cut more. i hate that they wont help me and think im a freak. ive been cutting for years and im just getting worst D:
ImNormalNot 1 month ago
A month and a week clean♥
worldwidesweetheart 1 month ago
Society has killed so many teens.
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Templar679 1 month ago
He has the most gorgeous eyes I've ever seen.
xohHoLliB3rRyxoh 1 month ago
2 weeks clean <3
cheekiemypony 1 month ago
@cheekiemypony Congrats ^^
IntoTearsWine 1 month ago
It's such an addiction.. I'm addicted to the pain I feel. I'm addicted to how it drives out the sadness that;s been numbing me...
AllTimeLowDeirdre 1 month ago
93 days clean. <3 I couldn't be more proud of myself.
aleshavalentine 1 month ago
okay seriously if anyone is going to think about cutting aagaim, pleaseplease talk to me because i can listen to your problems, which is a hell of alot better than cutting them, even though im a stranger, i want to help..
n368100 1 month ago
okay seriously if anyone is going to think about cutting aagaim, pleaseplease talk to me because i can lise
n368100 1 month ago
i wish someone cared about me like that...
483furimmer 1 month ago
@483furimmer I care
leannova 1 month ago
love this and it is so true!!! cause ive been a cutter for sence 7th grade..
supportSH 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
My dad is like this, when he found out I was cutting he helped me through it. I sometimes look back at the scars and think to myself "WTF was I thinking" because these scars will never disappear. I've learned that my scars are a way of showing how strong I am, because although I cut, I still got through everything, and the past is the past, just look towards the future. <3
jlong666 1 month ago
The people who don't like this are most likely those who think life is a Disney movie with a dancing sun and singing flowers. But it's not. Blood is shed, lives are taken, and homes destroyed. And it's those who face that make everything stay together cause they can face it.
ChocolateFan1234 1 month ago 3
Im trying to stop cutting. This song is getting me through it. <3
westcoast857 1 month ago
this is all a lie...life will never be like this... because every one in this world is a hypocritical judgmental DICK ......
FANGqRODUCTIONS 1 month ago 6
my mom wants me to have my scars sergically removed, because it's embarrassing to her...this video is a fantasy it's what we all wish would happen but there is no way that would happen in real life
ArtisticallyinsaneXD 1 month ago
I cry everytime I see thus video.. :'(
xxlovelyxxladyxx 1 month ago
I don't know why but I've always hated this song/video. I guess it just seems too over dramatic and unrealistic in my opinion. I'm not trying to be insensitive or whatever but I really don't care for this video.
MistressWhispers 1 month ago
@MistressWhispers Then why are you watching it...
abercrombiebitch001 1 month ago
@abercrombiebitch001 There aren't very many options when it comes to self harmed themed music. I want to like it but unfortuneatly don't and keep thinking that I will come to like it if I try hard enough....if that makes any sense. :p
MistressWhispers 1 month ago
im a 16 year old gay male, i have serious depression ever since i was a child and have attempted suicide twice. last time i cut my mother saw my wrist and cried... i made it my new years resolution to never cut again. i haven't cut since that day almost a month ago now, i still have my depressed days but im a lot better now.
whenever i feel a urge to cut i watch this video and i cry away my bottled up emotions instead of bleeding them away.
say strong and dont ever give up <3
MrBrayden55 1 month ago 66
@MrBrayden55 Jesus loves you. Iv'e been there. Iv'e felt alone. God provides a feeling of security. You may not be religious, or a believer....but He is there for you regardless. Good luck with you resolution. There is hope. Your'e not alone.
djscubasteve2012 4 weeks ago 2
@MrBrayden55 I stopped because of the same reason. I didn't want to be the reason for her tears.
theprettylittleraind 3 weeks ago
Every time i see him hug her i bawl. :(
LaurenMacP1994 1 month ago
My mum has never forgotten what I did so she checked my wrists every day for 7 months. I stayed clean for a year. Then it got bad again so I cut for a week, then stopped.
It's been a year since I last cut and I thought I was going to be OK, I'm wrong, tonight I'm going to cut again, I just hope that my friends will forgive me.
4evaJaredLeto 1 month ago
@4evaJaredLeto Don't cut!!
Please
It wont do anything and what if your friends don't forgive you!?
Talk to me if you need to.
I know I am a stranger but I am also a self harmer
SexySillyMonkey16 1 month ago
When school told my mum that I had been cutting my wrists she acted upset but when we got home I got yelled at for ruining her life and her image. She said I would never get rid of the mark on my reputation. We never told my dad. I attempted suicide 5 times and should have been taken to hospital but I didn't tell anyone what I had done so I got by on my own.
4evaJaredLeto 1 month ago
I really wish my dad was like the dad in this video... But there's a difference. When I hold the blade to my wrist there's no one there to stop me. Let's face the facts, real life isn't like movies.
MsDemonKairi 1 month ago 3
@MsDemonKairi Well, that's not true, I'm as real of a human being as you. I think that you should stop cutting your wrist, I felt like life was pointless too, and I agree, cutting feels like the only solution. To everyone who cuts, I am a person who doesn't know a single thing about you, but still I'm commenting to tell you that I care about you, and that if no one is there to stop you, always believe that there is someone that will. Life isn't like the movies, compassion is still there
ErwinKing95 1 month ago
@ErwinKing95 Maybe it doesn't seem as if life is exactly pointless to me. But it sure as hell isn't like anything else. Life will never be like the movies. This is a place where we're forcefed lies and we won't ever be able to be ourselves for the fear of being rejected. So we cut to forget the pain that's on our hearts. I've not cut for about a week and a half now, but that's only because I have a friend helping me. But I'm close to relapsing, because it's just not worth it.
MsDemonKairi 1 month ago
@MsDemonKairi Well, life always will want to throw you off, we are living in hard times, but what happens in life just can't compare to life itself. Almost nothing in life can make you feel the way you do as much as knowing that you are living life
ErwinKing95 1 month ago
@ErwinKing95 And the question I ask you: What if we don't want to live life? You haven't looked at all perspectives of the situation.
MsDemonKairi 1 month ago
@MsDemonKairi thats not true, there are points where i didn't want to live, and I'm glad I'm still alive
ErwinKing95 1 month ago
please stop talking about happy ur lives r. ur making people tht dont have good lives feel worse about theres. if ur life is so freken great then dont be watching a video about suicides!!!
LlamaTubeify 1 month ago
i cried so much when i watched this... :'(
MissSoccergirl04 1 month ago 2
She got a hug..I got a slap :/
randomemolol 1 month ago 25
@randomemolol hmmm
LlamaTubeify 1 month ago
@LlamaTubeify HHmmmm??
its true.
randomemolol 1 month ago
@randomemolol i got a why dont you kill yourself you worthless pest
SUICIDEANGEL0160 1 month ago
@SUICIDEANGEL0160 That's so fucking rude right there alright I've try to commit suicide 3 times already and what if that person did die honestly it would be in your hands you fault because your cyber-bullying
XxXTheLegacyXxX 1 month ago
@XxXTheLegacyXxX
hi yeah she or he is fucking rude. she/he told "kill your self you worthless pest" i dont think the person get some day it's gunna push some one a bit too far. and that day's here. well done :suicideangle" I'll see you when you die.
Im sorry for what they said to you <3 hope your well.
randomemolol 1 month ago
@SUICIDEANGEL0160
Ok.fine i will. thank you for showing me what i should do cunt -_-
randomemolol 1 month ago
@randomemolol If you get a hug, hug back. If you get a smile, smile back. Using this logic, if you get a slap, SLAP BACK. Or me and the army of people who know how you feel will come and do the slapping for you xXx
0sexiest0nerd0 1 month ago
@randomemolol I got a trip to the ER, and a huge messy fight.
model1166 4 weeks ago
For a long time I was the beginning of the story. I never thought I'd be living the end of the song. It feels good. :)
XBreezyBooX 1 month ago 2
@XBreezyBooX Oh wow, you're lucky...I'm just the beginning...My friends and I have made a deal that if we do it again I can't talk to my bf for a week and that would scar me for life....so I'm trying to live to the end...
How do you do it?
firelight222 1 month ago
@firelight222 I can give you the whole break down of my story if you'd like. would you like m email or my facebook or something?
XBreezyBooX 1 month ago
hawethorne hights
SirChazzington 1 month ago
Words cannot describe how lucky I feel to have a man in my life who's been just like the father in this video to me, and helped me though everything. I love my boyfriend :') <3
afanofmeanythings 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
but... i do love... this song...
bvbfallenangel0 1 month ago
parents don't care like the father in the video... if they did... cutting... wouldn't happen... nearly as much.... even if they to get "help..." wtf... is the point if... after they're considered "rehabilitated..." they're send them right back... to the same people... who caused it in the first place...? and... it's just... how... i deal... with the pain... so... why... should that... be... taken away...? it's not... going to get... better... anyway... even if... the music... helps... a bit...
bvbfallenangel0 1 month ago 36
@bvbfallenangel0 I'm with you, dear.
ilovetoastymedia 1 month ago
@bvbfallenangel0 i soooooo agree. with u thank u very much
LlamaTubeify 1 month ago
@bvbfallenangel0 Most parents care but just don't know how to help so they try to pretend they don't see the problem..and even if they don't care, I do. If u ever need someone I will always be around. I pretty much live on YouTube so send me a message. I've been where u r and I know that it doesn't seem like it and u're probably tired of hearing it but it DOES get better. I've been clean almost 5years and eventually, you can't get worse and the only way is up ♥ There IS still hope, I promise ♥
KatieLingleMusic 1 month ago
@bvbfallenangel0 You are SO wrong! some parents may be like you metion, but it's definitely not everyone! Sure I can only speak for myself, but my parents actually do care, just as much as the father in this vid does, the fact that I'm dealing with cutting, has nothing to do with my parents, I shove them out, cause it hurts to much to see them hurt so bad, but I'm sure if I would let them hold me like the father does, they would!
SoenderjyskE91 1 month ago
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@bonnietheone94 do :/ my friends think i just like the pain, not why i need it, sometimes their idiots
RachLuvsParamore 1 month ago
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RachLuvsParamore 1 month ago
what album is this off?
bonnietheone94 1 month ago
I see visions. I see things that never happened, but might happened if I snapped. Its driving me insane, I see people getting killed, the world becoming a worse place than it already is. But the only thing thats keeping me sane, are the good visions and dreams. And I cut, to help understand these visions.
LegendaryBlackSkies 1 month ago
This song made me pour tears,and NO song has ever really made me do that. This is coming from a girl who barely cries,even when she cuts. I love this song,it helps me (:
BriaBites17 1 month ago
If parents were like the dad in this video things would be so much better for most teenagers. When my mum found out I cut she called me a freak. What happened? I cut more and then ran away. When they realized that something was wrong when they found me was when they took me to get help. They fail to realize that things are not okay, and then when they finally do realize it the situation has already reached wicked new heights.
idealisticdreaming 1 month ago
I love this song, not only the music but also the lyrics
webleedblack74 1 month ago
Im confuzzled, If youre feeling all bad....Then why do people cut them selves if it hurts, And its just gunna make things more worse in the future :S?
YellowDucker123 1 month ago
@YellowDucker123 Physical pain masks emotional pain. It makes the emotional pain ''go away'' for a while, it makes it bearable for long enough so that you can do homework or tidy up or fall asleep without any thoughts bumping around in your brain. There's the science involving endorphins and such, but really, it kind of just covers up whatever is hurting mentally.
Shazlaarrr 1 month ago
@YellowDucker123 To distract from the emotional pain.
roflsilvershadow 1 month ago
@YellowDucker123 takes the pain away from the actual thing you are concentrationg on, you rproblems, why are you listening to this song if you dont get it????
LlamaTubeify 1 month ago
This time last year I had been cutting myself for over 2 years. It was my relief from everything bad in the world. Last May is when I officially stopped. Since I stopped, I've learned that I dont need the razor to make it through things. If youre someone thats struggling with cutting thats reading this, I promise you that you can make it through.<3 Please stop hurting yourself. I promise that it will get better if you just have a little hope. <3
EmilylovesParamore 1 month ago
this song makes me cry, every time.
LoveMeBeccaBear 1 month ago
ive been cutting since i was 12 im 15 now its hard to stop but ive been clean for almost a month thanks to my boyfriend of 6 months i used to cut 3-4 times in one day it became my life the thing i lived for its hard it really is but just find something to give u a reason all i have left are scars of every time i hurt myself n i look at them n think im pretty fucked up to do this to myself
Pr0udGeek19 1 month ago
ugh one year ago to the day my best friend that i knew since kindergarden got hit by a car and died. without him i just cant put down this knife god how i would love just to get rid of these painful memories of that day. there circling inside my head over and over again and no one in my family can understand this pain that i feel right now .,..god how i would love to just end it all right now
jellywigglz17 1 month ago
@jellywigglz17 im sorry.. tht really made me cry..
tumblenerd26 3 weeks ago
This song means so much to me.
foREVerXgray 1 month ago
I've tried to stop cutting 15 times it never works I wonder if I actually had someone I could trust to talk to I wouldn't need to cut but that will never happen fuck you dad and everyone thats screwed me over I hate you for making me have so many trust issues!)':
Melovesyouify 1 month ago
@Melovesyouify it will work, it takes time. for me it took me just trying to go longer without cutting.. i used to cut at least 3-4 times a week for a year.. i've been cutting since 5th grade and now i'm a junior in highschool. but soon those 3-4 times turned into once a every two weeks. then i went for months without doing it and now i have overcome the impulse to pick up a blade.. you just have to believe in yourself and love yourself. because you are the only person you are forever with. <3
fireofthehearts 1 month ago
i stopped cutting exactly 1 months ago and guys, in this short time, i realized that it can get better. it does.i swear it. i know u dont want to do it, but the next time u want to cut, STOP YOURSELF, and do what u wudv wanted to do before this all happened. Stop feeling down. FAKE IT. for just 1 day. u'll feel better.u'll want to feel happy, like u did, once again. and finally, "you'll put down your knife" like i did. peace, luv u :) if you need to talk, im always here. feel free to contact :)
ngd123LA 1 month ago
You know whats the point in quitting cutting if no one really cares that much about you and it makes you feel better.. I just dont see the point in stopping
jellywigglz17 1 month ago
ive never struggled with cutting, but my heart goes out to people who struggle with anything like that. its so sad..
lesuhhXD 1 month ago
god shes so emo....and hes so cute....self harming its not funny...
michares1701 1 month ago
I know this feeling all too well. I just wish somebody cared enough like that to stop me from hurting myself.
I wish it was as easy as she makes it look, when she put down the blade, but it's not. It's impossible.
I wish I wasn't addicted to cutting. To harming myself. To causing all these scars on my body.
I just want somebody to care enough to get me to put down the blade.
LivingThisHell 1 month ago 3
@LivingThisHell i care more than you think <3 i pick it up...almost everyday.Recently i did it yesterdat cause i cant escape this hell.Well if you need me to stop and tell you every good thing about you i will.Your fucking beautiful (dont believe me?) well yea girl i went on your channel,viewed your video....YOUR BEAUTIFUL <3 and i know anybody would wanna be your friend....Whatever the reason for you doing this to yourself...well dont let them get to you...ok my inbox is always open and (cont)
brittylovesRANDOM101 1 month ago
@LivingThisHell haha well this got long! but im subscribing cause you seem really cool and everything <3 stay strong,love ya girl
brittylovesRANDOM101 1 month ago
@brittylovesRANDOM101 That's just it though, i'm not beautiful or anything. I've let cutting become me. It's who I am. It's what I do. It's what I know best. There's nothing left. Everybody who said they care and will never leave, left. Really, I've been alone in this from the beginning, and i'm going to go out alone. Because, I can't take much more of this.
LivingThisHell 1 month ago
@LivingThisHell i know exactly how you feel,and you feel really helpless.But as people say it must get better.I dont really know that it will but keep your head up.And you say you think you're not beautiful or anything...but if thats you in your profile and all your fucking gorgeous...(i would love to look like you).Even if people say your a failure,THEIR THE FAILURE and i promise you your life is gettting somewhere good.<3
brittylovesRANDOM101 1 month ago
@brittylovesRANDOM101 I really don't believe that I will get better anymore, I've had this problem for too long. ..It is me in my profile, but i'm really not. Trust me, yo