Just my opinion , the government makes alot of laws in womens favor to create chaos amongst men and women to make them fight ,,, = divide and conquer .
@livevilife I don't necessarily disagree with that, though I think it's a lot more to do with financial gain by certain groups. There are lots of things that feminists campaign for that benefit elitists in society.
Men NEED Sexual Intimacy and Respect and Feminism takes that away. Thats why many more men are fucking and chucking these days, theres no advantage to marry if your needs aren't met and your penis is locked down. Feminism sounds bigotted just saying it. How bout Humanism? how bout being the other half of humanity hey feminists. Oh well what can I do
very moving story man, i wish u all the best and hope things get better, i really do... im starting to see my life in somewhat of a similar matter, a demonized disposable male that is constantly disrespected an unappreciated by females and society as a whole, there's an unwritten bias that females=good, and flawless and males=bad and evil, a life of no value, other then getting used constantly and tossed away after, even though i am personally an easygoing fair and moral nice guy.
@RockingMrE ya i had a suspicion that it was... but still whether fact or fiction it's pretty compelling, good thing it didnt happen to u, but i bet there are many similar stories out there that need to be heard... all the best
Not sure how to take the underlying ideas presented here, but as listen to and read more and more MRA works, I'm starting to catch perception that the very pride of maleness; being the builders and maintainers of society, the backbone, the stronger sex is being turned into a bad thing.I'm open to correction though
I feel that MRAs and Egalitarians would be best served by responding to the positions of Feminism with knowledge and kindness. Even I have a hard time living up to that standard, but it's an important one if we wish to actually find equality and a man's place in society.
This is a good story, and one that I've heard similar stories to in real life.
@Reapbot "I feel that MRAs and Egalitarians would be best served by responding to the positions of Feminism with knowledge and kindness."
When you've been dealing with feminist arguments for a while, you will understand why this is basically impossible. Feminism had a purpose in the past, but today it is only driven by its own agenda. Only by vehemently challenging the lies and hateful tactics that feminism perpetuates will it evolve into something genuinely egalitarian.
@RockingMrE I fully support an engage in the refutation of gender biased femanism, however I also recognize that 90% of the average people are generally ignorant of the specifics of both sides, especially in America. The majority are the ones to judge between the positions, and based on the prevailing "wisdom" of the day, coupled with the vitriol I've seen from many on the MRA front, I can't see them persuading the average joe. I do truly enjoy your channel and your calm reason.
@Reapbot The men's rights movement has existed for a very long time, and has been largely ignored. Many men hurt by the system we live in are right to be angry, and if we look at feminsm it is anger that drove this forward, albeit a massive amount of false propaganda too. In fact rarely does anything change without anger at its core. Check out the video below if you want to understand why amicable tactics will not work.
@RockingMrE Not to drag this out, but I'm well familiar with Girlwriteswhat (respect the hell out of her too). She actually turned me on to you. I also very much understand the anger being personally involved in the sadistic child support system in America for my daughter. I try to use my anger as fuel, but often times I see others simply point and flame their anger at women rather than the specific people involved in leading radical feminism or the sucker politicians.
@Reapbot Anger is a perfect fuel, but it has to be channelled and focussed, as opposed to let free (which can be very destructive). Sorry to hear about your daughter. I have a lot of respect for GWW too.
@JPVeigaaaa Agreed. Mr E is a good model to showcase my point of efficiency in MRA or egalitarian argumentation. His logic, research, and willingness to change his mind based on information, while maintaining calm, is critical to reaching the "moderate" or "casual" masses.
I am thankful Girlwriteswhat clued me in to his channel. Thanks for what you do Mr. E
@greenhell666 The story is really about how normal it is for men to be disposable. If men want to break this pattern they will reguarly find that there is no one there to listen to them. It will take a cultural transformation to alter this, one which will not come easy.
“It’s hard being a man today. Why’s it so hard to be a man? Because nobody cares about men. Nobody gives a f#@k about men. You see a homeless man on the street with a dog… you feel sorry for the dog. You say ‘We got to get that dog some food.’ ‘What about the man?’ ‘Aw f#@k him’” ~Chris Rock
Just as women are expected to be cautious on where they go at night, men need to question if joining the military is really a viable option for them; otherwise, people don't feel sorry for those 'less than cautious' decision makers and who are 'victimized' by those decisions.
@rainbowbrainhead What about propaganda teaching male duty, lack of employment, providing for family, or the draft? This is the same as "going out at night" to you?" At the least men who get PTSD should not be thrown on the scrapheap, put in prisons, and used by feminists to trump up domestic violence claims. What's more this story is about male disposability, and how they are exploited via this. Men have no reproductive rights for example, and are treated like utlilities.
@RockingMrE Feminists are not teaching male duty. That's something men learn from other men. I also think there's a bit of externalization and not accepting responsibility and some 'victimhood' thinking going on here - the very thing that MRA's accuse feminists of doing. I think people, not just men get PTSD should be treated for it and by the way, a lot of people are violent because of it. Still despite this, your vids are better than some of the others on these topics.
@rainbowbrainhead Feminists teach that men have an obligation to women because we live in a patriarchy. Feminists teach that it's "her body, her choice," but they don't care that it's 'his' responsibility. That's just two examples. If PTSD is a man's fault, because they get violent due to lack of support, then feminists need to stop making excuses about post-partum making women kill babies by throwing them into house fires.
@RockingMrE I don't believe that PTSD is a man's fault. If PTSD was caused by joining the military than one takes the responsibility upon joining of what may happen physically and psychologically to that person. I don't 'feel sorry' for someone who joins the military knowing how dangerous it may be. Both post partum depression and PTSD ARE illnesses that need to be treated.
@rainbowbrainhead Well if you feel that PTSD should be treated that is a start. However, with full respect you are oversimplifying the reasons men join the military, especially among the impoverished, or those that come from dysfunctional backgrounds.
@RockingMrE This is what I heard in your story. It seemed to me you were implying that the man in the story took the military position to help his wife and family and then when the relationship didn't work out blamed her for it when it was his decision to join to begin with. No one made him take this dangerous job that put him on the front lines. No one says in order to be a man you have to join the military! Of course PTSD should be treated! It's definitely a mental illness.
@rainbowbrainhead You've truly allowed your deep-seated misandristic nature to be exposed with this comment haven't you. Round and round we've gone, though I've seen the signs. Unbelievably you are making excuses for a woman dumping a man and making him pay alimony to kids he never sees, after he joined the military to help pay the bills, AND after she became "accidentally" pregnant twice! People like you are precisely the type perpetuating this misandristic culture. I'm disgusted. Blocked!
I actually did a research project on men and depression and wrote an essay that supported the idea that men are in danger because they rarely ever speak up about their depression, mainly because of the social pressure of what it means to be a "man". Got an A on it.
@BlissfulMelancholy Men have always been expected to suck it up since the dawn of mankind, but this is out of control now that the social contract between men and women has been torn up. What's more many groups like to blame and demonise masculinity for everything, when in actual fact it is the pressure put on men to perform that harms their character. War is an example of this; it just makes men suffer from issues like PTSD. Then they get little to no help for this.
@RockingMrE Well I'm a firm believer that if men are going to be drafted, women should be too. I know all too well about PTSD, my grandfather saw his best friend cut in half by machine gun fire in WWII. He was never treated for his PTSD and so took it out on his family by beating his seven kids and wife.
@BlissfulMelancholy That's awfully tragic, and perfectly exemplifies the plight of men. Many groups will use this scenario to suggest that men are inherent abusers. But the truth of the matter is that atrocities of vioence make men behave inhumanely. Without proper support, people like soldiers are going to lash out, and it's unfair to use this to demonise men.
@RockingMrE It was also partly his father's fault (my great grandfather) I think, because he beat my grandfather, too. I'm not sure what may have caused his abusive tendencies, though.
...similar thing happened to one of my mates! Got stationed in Iraq - his wife wanted the extra money so he volunteered.. After his third tour she divorced him!
She does not work. She lives in a house that he still has to pay for. He gets to see his kids twice a year at most! But he still has to pay for ALL of them ...while dodging bullets and IEDs.. The situation needs to STOP!
@FatTurTleMusic This sort of story is the type of thing that inspired this one. It is the ignored plight of men in our culture. It's so sad to think that men go out and fight or provide, only for a woman to dump him for her own self absorbed reasons.
I look at that backstabbing bitch every moring as I drive past, wondering how she can live with herself! Over the years she has doubled in size, she is as fat as hippo now -- thanks to his military pay-cheque! Her ex just got shipped out to Kabul last week! He got to see his kids @ Christmas for 3 days -- then back to the combat zone to pay for *HER* house and ever widening arse!
I used to help her out when he was away; but I now I refuse! :(
I tend to believe that the reason why Western society is in the rut that it's in, broken family unit, love replaced by lust, morally/spiritually dead people with lust for entertainment and material wealth, dumbed down population, extreme poverty, is not by coincidence. The elite are creating an army to fight their neo-colonial wars, the broken population back at home. Why else would the economic structure look like an hourglass, wealth at the top, military in the middle and poor below.
Holy fuck man that was powerful. I could not help being brought back to my time in the service and burying friends one guy was just a kid 18 years old and the life just snuffed out in a blink of an eye.
Norway recently withdrew all the funding to so called "gender studies" in scientific research much due to a documentary "hjernevask" (Brainwash) shown on National Tv NRK. It shines the light on how these ideas do not hold up to science when faced with biology and psychology.
sweden still keeps up the gender racism.
The show has English subtitles and should be seen and spread by anybody antifeminist and interested in the present nordic situation.
Holy shit, this is heavy. But, both sexes are objectified to some extent, males for money females for sex. This whole misandry thing is entirely directed at women, as though they are all at fault. There are tendencies within both genders, sexual and lifestyle that are expressed according to its culture. In a consumerist culture the female seems to get enraptured by it, the male perpetuating it. Its equal game from the top of the problem to the bottom. Sadly, the finger pointing is a bit flawed.
@underatedly Feminist theory has basically done nothing but demonise men for the last 50 years, ignoring that men always have been invisible and disposable, while women have been excessively protected for various reasons throughout history, sometimes out of necessity. Unless people open their eyes and care about men it's not flawed to show that human beings naturally care about women more than men. This is called gynocentrism, and it is an evolutionary mindset.
In the 6 years that I spent in the service (US -- mid to late 80's, ramping-up into the Gulf-war(s)) I saw alot of this (as well, the infidelity -- I was even propositioned 5 times myself and I'm NOT good looking at all -- by wives of guys that were TDY.)
I felt as if some portions of the story were from my own life and some portions were from those of friends.
Brilliantly done. I think the story-line flows very well too -- smoothly.
@drochalsey It's good to hear that my story resonates with people who have experience with the military. I find it tragic the way men are discarded in this sense, not to mention in general within society, which is also what the story addresses.
Thanks for your feedback and sharing your experiences.
That was an excellent description of how men are disposable. But most feminists would be sympathetic to a lot of your experiences, like the pressure to be an alpha male, being judged for your earning capacity and being thrown into a useless war. The one thing that feminists don't seem to appreciate is the issue of joint custody, which is bizarre since they are so big on a man's responsibility to help raise their children. All in all, I think that you have more issues with non-feminist women.
@prschuster I don't think it's that simple. Feminism has failed miserably as a movement for true gender equality, shaming men and using terribly inflated stats to gain funding and support. Men were equally as oppressed by gender roles in the past. Today men are still stuck in old gender roles, but gynoentrism will make it far harder for male change, while society benefits greatly from the blood and sweat of men. Feminists have shown they are all talk when it comes to male issues.
@RockingMrE As if gynocentrism is standing in the way of men getting rid of the pressure to live up to alpha male standards... as if gynocentrism is what encourages men to kill eachother in senseless wars. I sincerely don't get your reasoning. The only legitimate complaint of feminism is the misandry of the rad fems and ignoring men's issues. But the last thing feminists want is to reinforce male gender roles.
@prschuster There are only two types of feminists; radical manhaters and the naively deluded. The naively deluded simply wont accept that they are useful tools that can't see the wood for the trees. As for your gynocentric comments; men are biologically programmed to fight for "alpha status" so that the species can thrive, and women and the state have benefitted from their blood and sweat since the beginning. Thus it is not simply a case of "switching this off." This (cont)
@RockingMrE is why feminism is so easy to sell to men - it is natural for men to put women first. I looked at your channel and noticed your comments about MRA's, as well as your association with Sickmouth. What is your business trying to sell this angle on my channel? I am not some uninformed, poorly versed videomaker...
@RockingMrE There will always be alpha males and there will always be a desire for men to compete in this regard. I know there is a biological basis for this. But I think hat culture has a big role in how this plays out. Gender roles have to do with how male status is defined and that's largely socially constructed. I like some of Warren Farrel's insights on this. That's what I want to clarify right now.
@prschuster Culture has an affect on gender roles, but they're mostly based on nature. The key to understanding this is the latest research on male and female brain functionality. Male and female hormones create gender based personalities and skills. While there are exceptions this is something based on science, not unproven philosophy. See my latest vid for more info. The reason why gender roles have a darker side is largely due to the corrupting elements of power, especially via statism.
@RockingMrE (cont) Just thought I'd add that I have studied Farrell's work in great detail. He and I both agree that patriarchy is a biased theory, and that gender roles are primarily based on nature, not nurture as feminists try to suggest. We both however agree that gender roles being adapted in a modern society is a good thing, though feminism has done very little, and in many cases made it worse, when it comes to male roles..
I don't understand how parents and doctors can all think it is a good idea to cut part of a babies penis off. Shows you right there how disposable men are.
The other teacher of mine had this mentality of ladies first, etc.. When she have my whole class get height measured, she even brought up her height, then she added: the reason I don't tell anyone because it is none of "men"'s business. I don't mean to be sexist, but these former teachers of mine are unbelievably stupid. Now have you ever had teachers like that in school MrE?
@mike61524334251 I think many of us remember the preferential treatment of girls growing up, not just in schools but at home too. Females now have the best of every world - they are protected AND get to have the same advantages given to men over the ages, which of course men had to earn woth great sacrifice. Many men died for the betterment of mankind, though this doesn't fit with the feminist ideology that has embedded itself in our culture.
Thanks for showing your video. Now the more you talk about feminists, the more I remember a couple teachers I remembered in high school (which they were women). This teacher I remembered where my classmate (who is male) asked to excused, but she wouldn't let, but when the other classmate of mine (who is female) asked to be excused, and my teacher let her, the same classmate asked why does she go? My teacher said: cause she's a female. Continued.
If theirs one thing I've learned as a man it's survival at all costs. Honor the living before the dead. Make neglect Your ally. History books are filled with stories about dead heroes written by illustrious grave robbers. Proud trees are the first cut. Don't mistake fame for greatness, greatness is no respecter of station. Lean hearts move like locusts in the pangs of their own destruction, mourn those without introspection. Breathe Deep, Focus, Bring Truth, Bring Resolution.
@TheAetherspeak Very profound post. It's good to see that there are men out there who understand that it is through our acceptance of guilt that we are thrown into the meat grinder.
@cowtippin4u I agree. I learnt that message a long time ago. No one will respect a person who compromises unconditionally - it is a mark for the exploitative.
@RockingMrE Just to carlify though, this story was a piece of fiction. I was nfluenced by my research of male disposability and my experiences as a male.
funny how you dont see feminists clamoring to get more women on, as combat troops in the field. There are many more women than men in the USA, yet 90% of the military is male and greater than 99% of combat troops are male. You wouldn't hear the end of it if these stats represented a safe job market like, medicine. Women claim equality and want all the benefits that males have earned dover the centuries by sacrificing their lives for their tribe/village/country but balk at sacrifice. Typical.
@cellectify - Quite frankly we men don't want women in the military either. When it comes to national security I don't think we're doing ourselves a favor by arguing in favor of more women in the military - especially in combat roles .
@cellectify What I have realised is that unless women are expected to fulfill the same role as men in society there can be no hope for men to stop being disposable. What I also believe is that the day women are expected to sacrifice to the same extent as men will mark a time when people move away from war and coercion.
this needs to become a book, with more detail obviously, if men started to write books about their life experinces with wemen, equaling the amount of books that wemen have written books over the past decades, honest accounts of their enslavement by society and feminism, a flood of truth would come streaming forth plain for all to see and of which no-one could ignore, cleansing them of the works of "Jane Austine" and her like of her version of a real man, along with all the typcal crap wemen
@mansuka1 I think you're onto something by suggesting that books about male disposability will help to awaken men from their slumber. Perhaps in time writers will start to see the potential of this medium, thus expressing the true picture of manhood in society.
@RockingMrE well made films would also help, but you know the script would hit the trash can quicker and harder then any of the latest comedy films script should of. the only way I can see it becoming a reality is through dramatised genres, a victorian period drama, would be accepted because wemen love them lol, but as for a film my idea would be to use a fitting gothic vampires (females) verses werewolf (male) futuristic setting thus allowing the real message to get across, safely.
@ProtoCosmos If I do more short stories it will be based on a variation of topics in the vein of my vids. I have a new idea which I will be exploring in the future though. Cheers for watching.
@crypter27 Yes, I'm hoping that people can reflect on the underlying message in the story and learn not to be dragged down a road of what society demands of men.
How to get the girl: Listen to everything she says she looks for in a man, do the opposite, ignore her & act like a douche. Make lots of money, & don't expect her to contribute ANYTHING to the relationship. DON'T EVER fall in love with her, and if you DO, don't ever show it, that will show what a weak whiney pussy you are and she will leave. Wait for her to get bored & she will leave on her own. Usually they will find a new man before leaving you & will NOT try to improve things.
@acuriousbeast Thanks. I wanted to create a piece of fiction which isn't based in "facts," which is what I usually do, but instead gets people to see the hard and emotional side of what men go through. I hope I did it justice in an honest sort of way.
@acuriousbeast FICTION!?! It was pretty realistic. I've heard many a similar tale. Nice writing job, more believable than a lot of the crap I see on TV (when I watch).
This is so powerful. I can't usually sit through 20mins, sadly. It's unreasonable to expect a man to pay for everything in a day when woman earn plenty. At twenty-something, how is a man supposed to pay his bills, his college, his debt *and* her expenses... and still save enough for that ring & house she'll want? This makes being a man all about money, something that didn't even always exist.
@proteanview I wondered about cutting it in two but in the end took a chance on this format :-P
In answer to your question men often can't afford to pay for these things for many reasons, like reduction in wages since the 70's. When men get divorced the trouble really starts though. Many are left living at a very low standard because they pay so much to the mother. The real kicker is that then men don't have easy access to their children. Thanks for listening - I really appreciate it.
Great work RockingMrE. Excellent narrative. Many themes you have touched upon have been written about by an excellent author by the name of Warren Farrell.
@yipster0290 Yes, I'm familiar with Warren Farrell and have read "The Myth of Male Power." Personally I think it's an essential read if you want to understand male disposability. Thank you for watching.
I've never been able to write short fiction that encompasses and encapsulates a lifetime of experience. Mine are always just vignettes, little glimpses. It's something I envy you for. :)
Your story reminds me of "A Very Short Story" by Ernest Hemingway (his is *really* short). I hope you find that a compliment. If it wasn't so early here and me in housecoat, bed-head and yesterday's makeup, I'd be complaining that you'd made me wreck my mascara.
@girlwriteswhat Thank you very much. I'm really glad you commented - It crossed my mind what you would think if you listened to this given that you understand male disposability so well. Yes, your post was very complimentary btw. I felt as though the length of the story worked for what I wanted to put across. I could have made it longer or shorter, but in the spirit of creativity I felt that this worked.
Even though this is fiction, my PTSD is this for me everyday and night. Thank you for knowing how the system works, and how us soldiers do have it rough, in different ways than civilians.
@Bllackguard666 I'm sorry you have to go through that. It must be hard. Don't be afraid to get support. It's important that we stop the government and society treating soldiers and veterans like pieces of trash when they are done with them. They don't deserve to be discarded and then thrown in jail when they can't cope, which is what often happens.
@RockingMrE Thank you. It is hard, and sleeping is just way off. I also have seizures, so I'm usually wore out by 2pm. And with the bad sleep patterns, nightmares, night sweats, I get very little sleep. I talked to my local Vet. Association, but they only tell me to see a shrink. I've done that, and didn't help. The support was lousy at best, and with the economy as bad as it is, my doctors kept leaving.
Thank you. Glad to see that good ppl like you see what is really happening :)
@RockingMrE Not yet, sadly. I looked into it, and they tell me there isn't much of anything. There might be in the future, but we don't know. We would think with as long as they have known about it, there would be somekind of program, but either there isn't enough funding, or they just don't care.
@Bllackguard666 I've been thinking for a while that PTSD should be a major focus for men's issues. Supporting and developing charities that help soldiers and veterans is a very important and noble goal.
@RockingMrE It really would be a good investment for soldiers coming home from war. Considering also the fact that there are protesters like crazy now to make them even more uncomfortable. There is a phase us US veterans have "Not all scars are visible" and it doesn't seem our govt. has this in their interests. It's sad, considering how it hurts not just the vet. but everyone around him. No one wants to see their friend or family member suffer this.
@RockingMrE And I meant every word. If I ever get around to actually making videos, I'll probably narrate a few of my own fictions based on misandry. If I do, then I hope you'll give em a listen.
@MGsven This is a work of fiction but the bit about the first girl Henry met is based on a man's first love, so it's partly based on my own. What usually happens is a girl kicks him in the nuts really hard and then he learns to toughen up. From there he learns to use women because he doesn't want to get hurt. If men don't break out of this they can go downhill. I've never been in the army though and I'm happily married now. This story is just a mish-mash of things relating to male disposability.
My ex said when the economy got bad and I lost my jobs that she couldn't be with a guy who couldn't keep a job and take care of himself. I think it's a social illness. Women need security from a man, and in this system they think it's monetary. It's sad how easily we are tossed to the sidelines, called dogs or whatever.
@ChristopherJManess If only people could see how easily men are discarded in life. It's always been this way, and even men at the top have to struggle to retain power. It is an offshoot of humans striving to survive and pass on their genes to the next generation. Men need to learn to keep this in check, and women need to stop feeling that they are entitled to things off the backs of men. They most certainly are not if they expect to be treated differently to history.
@RockingMrE (cont) I feel as though I should add that there is a minute percentage of people (men AND women) in life who benefit from absolute inherited power. The Occupy movement talks about 1% - it's probably more like 0.1%.
@RockingMrE Ironically, when I went to work last night a woman brought up someone who said, "If there were no men, there would be a lot of fat, happy women.", and she agreed. I think she's missing a massive foresight. If there were no men, there would eventually be no women! Starvation or farming (so no fatties), depression and perhaps suicide of no future, and Zoophilia at last hope to repopulate (or lab sperm). Then if that doesn't work, extinction...yay! No humans! - Game Over
@ChristopherJManess Nothing new about women making sexist comments about men. It's just typical of the misandristic attitude of society to mock men in spite of their blood and sweat which formed human civilisation. The poor women were kept away from manual labour and bloodshed - so you can see why they're angry! :-P
@ChristopherJManess - Without men, women would run out of food and starve. They wouldn't get fat, they'd get really skinny (skeleton skinny) and just die. Men do all the hunting, fishing, slaughtering, farming, and all the factory work to process food. Men also maintenance the factories when the equipment begins to breakdown. A lot of it requires a strong back, strong muscles, and a set of balls. But you're right - Women would rapidly die off too.
This was really powerful. I feel a great deal of sympathy for the man who wrote this. Women are destroying their own safety through acting without integrity and by inflicting this kind of emotional abuse on their sons. However, in the US it seems the delaying of immediate gratification for long term wellness is a rarity. Even I have problems with it, because of my enormous lack of self-esteem that I'm trying so hard to recover. I wish the man who wrote this the strength to seek help when he can.
@slaughtz Just to let you know I wrote this. It's a work of fiction, but it's based on elements of truth I attained through my understanding of being male, as well as research.
@RockingMrE Oh, I feel quite embarrassed but relieved at the same time. I think you did a wonderful job writing it and I would love to see more like it.
It's interesting that you say 'through your understanding of being male.' Could you elaborate on this? My first impression of that was that you might think I'm female (which I am not.)
@slaughtz I'm not sure why you feel embarassed, there is no need to be. I never thought you were female. What I meant by my statement is that I'm male, and so I can personally see male disposability around me. Also, naturally I've known many men in my life, and this has also allowed to me to garner inspiration. It helps if you look at the world with open eyes, as opposed to the lens of feminist propaganda and chivalry.
Just my opinion , the government makes alot of laws in womens favor to create chaos amongst men and women to make them fight ,,, = divide and conquer .
livevilife 5 days ago
@livevilife I don't necessarily disagree with that, though I think it's a lot more to do with financial gain by certain groups. There are lots of things that feminists campaign for that benefit elitists in society.
RockingMrE 5 days ago
Sadly this is the same in the united states.
M1NDC0N7R0L 1 week ago
Men NEED Sexual Intimacy and Respect and Feminism takes that away. Thats why many more men are fucking and chucking these days, theres no advantage to marry if your needs aren't met and your penis is locked down. Feminism sounds bigotted just saying it. How bout Humanism? how bout being the other half of humanity hey feminists. Oh well what can I do
MrROTD 1 week ago 2
the title fits perfectly,because that's how society views men
TrueBlueCanuck 2 weeks ago
@TrueBlueCanuck Oranges are Orange. Water is Wet.
esepc40991 1 week ago
So, that team manager guy who shacked up with Lorna while the story's main character was away at war? Why on Earth did he do that?
TableWolfMusic 2 weeks ago in playlist My Artistic Side
@TableWolfMusic Because there's always a mangina somewhere to be taken advantage of by a woman.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
very moving story man, i wish u all the best and hope things get better, i really do... im starting to see my life in somewhat of a similar matter, a demonized disposable male that is constantly disrespected an unappreciated by females and society as a whole, there's an unwritten bias that females=good, and flawless and males=bad and evil, a life of no value, other then getting used constantly and tossed away after, even though i am personally an easygoing fair and moral nice guy.
daleva187goligo 2 weeks ago
@daleva187goligo Thanks for your comments. But just to let you know, this was a work of fiction. So thankfully, it wasn't about me.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@RockingMrE ya i had a suspicion that it was... but still whether fact or fiction it's pretty compelling, good thing it didnt happen to u, but i bet there are many similar stories out there that need to be heard... all the best
daleva187goligo 2 weeks ago
@daleva187goligo MGTOW
Amsterdamned33 2 days ago in playlist Uploaded videos
A well read and written piece of work. You really did an excellent job at articulating a way of life for many men in such an emotionally moving way.
Deimos118 2 weeks ago
Not sure how to take the underlying ideas presented here, but as listen to and read more and more MRA works, I'm starting to catch perception that the very pride of maleness; being the builders and maintainers of society, the backbone, the stronger sex is being turned into a bad thing.I'm open to correction though
WBrizzle81 2 weeks ago
I feel that MRAs and Egalitarians would be best served by responding to the positions of Feminism with knowledge and kindness. Even I have a hard time living up to that standard, but it's an important one if we wish to actually find equality and a man's place in society.
This is a good story, and one that I've heard similar stories to in real life.
Reapbot 2 weeks ago
@Reapbot "I feel that MRAs and Egalitarians would be best served by responding to the positions of Feminism with knowledge and kindness."
When you've been dealing with feminist arguments for a while, you will understand why this is basically impossible. Feminism had a purpose in the past, but today it is only driven by its own agenda. Only by vehemently challenging the lies and hateful tactics that feminism perpetuates will it evolve into something genuinely egalitarian.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago 2
@RockingMrE I fully support an engage in the refutation of gender biased femanism, however I also recognize that 90% of the average people are generally ignorant of the specifics of both sides, especially in America. The majority are the ones to judge between the positions, and based on the prevailing "wisdom" of the day, coupled with the vitriol I've seen from many on the MRA front, I can't see them persuading the average joe. I do truly enjoy your channel and your calm reason.
Reapbot 2 weeks ago
@Reapbot The men's rights movement has existed for a very long time, and has been largely ignored. Many men hurt by the system we live in are right to be angry, and if we look at feminsm it is anger that drove this forward, albeit a massive amount of false propaganda too. In fact rarely does anything change without anger at its core. Check out the video below if you want to understand why amicable tactics will not work.
/watch?v=K9G9AAhlMo4
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@RockingMrE Not to drag this out, but I'm well familiar with Girlwriteswhat (respect the hell out of her too). She actually turned me on to you. I also very much understand the anger being personally involved in the sadistic child support system in America for my daughter. I try to use my anger as fuel, but often times I see others simply point and flame their anger at women rather than the specific people involved in leading radical feminism or the sucker politicians.
Reapbot 2 weeks ago
@Reapbot Anger is a perfect fuel, but it has to be channelled and focussed, as opposed to let free (which can be very destructive). Sorry to hear about your daughter. I have a lot of respect for GWW too.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@Reapbot True. I wish more MRA's were like this sir.
When MRA's are angry, to me, they just sound people who have no control and perhaps women were right to fuck with them.
RockingMrE, on the other hand, is someone any average man can relate to.
I hope he never gets "extreme" and "militant angry".
JPVeigaaaa 2 weeks ago
@JPVeigaaaa Agreed. Mr E is a good model to showcase my point of efficiency in MRA or egalitarian argumentation. His logic, research, and willingness to change his mind based on information, while maintaining calm, is critical to reaching the "moderate" or "casual" masses.
I am thankful Girlwriteswhat clued me in to his channel. Thanks for what you do Mr. E
Reapbot 2 weeks ago
@Reapbot Thank you for your support.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
moral of the story ... don`t be a dumbass
greenhell666 2 weeks ago
@greenhell666 So you think the guy in this story was dumb?
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@RockingMrE not exactly dumb, but needy and submissive,
the character put too much value on the female and no value in himself
there`s a good book that I think fits it perfectly
No More Mr Nice Guy - by Robert Glover
greenhell666 2 weeks ago
@greenhell666 The story is really about how normal it is for men to be disposable. If men want to break this pattern they will reguarly find that there is no one there to listen to them. It will take a cultural transformation to alter this, one which will not come easy.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@RockingMrE
“It’s hard being a man today. Why’s it so hard to be a man? Because nobody cares about men. Nobody gives a f#@k about men. You see a homeless man on the street with a dog… you feel sorry for the dog. You say ‘We got to get that dog some food.’ ‘What about the man?’ ‘Aw f#@k him’” ~Chris Rock
greenhell666 2 weeks ago
Just as women are expected to be cautious on where they go at night, men need to question if joining the military is really a viable option for them; otherwise, people don't feel sorry for those 'less than cautious' decision makers and who are 'victimized' by those decisions.
rainbowbrainhead 3 weeks ago
@rainbowbrainhead What about propaganda teaching male duty, lack of employment, providing for family, or the draft? This is the same as "going out at night" to you?" At the least men who get PTSD should not be thrown on the scrapheap, put in prisons, and used by feminists to trump up domestic violence claims. What's more this story is about male disposability, and how they are exploited via this. Men have no reproductive rights for example, and are treated like utlilities.
RockingMrE 3 weeks ago
@RockingMrE Feminists are not teaching male duty. That's something men learn from other men. I also think there's a bit of externalization and not accepting responsibility and some 'victimhood' thinking going on here - the very thing that MRA's accuse feminists of doing. I think people, not just men get PTSD should be treated for it and by the way, a lot of people are violent because of it. Still despite this, your vids are better than some of the others on these topics.
rainbowbrainhead 3 weeks ago
@rainbowbrainhead Feminists teach that men have an obligation to women because we live in a patriarchy. Feminists teach that it's "her body, her choice," but they don't care that it's 'his' responsibility. That's just two examples. If PTSD is a man's fault, because they get violent due to lack of support, then feminists need to stop making excuses about post-partum making women kill babies by throwing them into house fires.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@RockingMrE I don't believe that PTSD is a man's fault. If PTSD was caused by joining the military than one takes the responsibility upon joining of what may happen physically and psychologically to that person. I don't 'feel sorry' for someone who joins the military knowing how dangerous it may be. Both post partum depression and PTSD ARE illnesses that need to be treated.
rainbowbrainhead 2 weeks ago
@rainbowbrainhead Well if you feel that PTSD should be treated that is a start. However, with full respect you are oversimplifying the reasons men join the military, especially among the impoverished, or those that come from dysfunctional backgrounds.
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
@RockingMrE This is what I heard in your story. It seemed to me you were implying that the man in the story took the military position to help his wife and family and then when the relationship didn't work out blamed her for it when it was his decision to join to begin with. No one made him take this dangerous job that put him on the front lines. No one says in order to be a man you have to join the military! Of course PTSD should be treated! It's definitely a mental illness.
rainbowbrainhead 2 weeks ago
@rainbowbrainhead You've truly allowed your deep-seated misandristic nature to be exposed with this comment haven't you. Round and round we've gone, though I've seen the signs. Unbelievably you are making excuses for a woman dumping a man and making him pay alimony to kids he never sees, after he joined the military to help pay the bills, AND after she became "accidentally" pregnant twice! People like you are precisely the type perpetuating this misandristic culture. I'm disgusted. Blocked!
RockingMrE 2 weeks ago
I actually did a research project on men and depression and wrote an essay that supported the idea that men are in danger because they rarely ever speak up about their depression, mainly because of the social pressure of what it means to be a "man". Got an A on it.
BlissfulMelancholy 3 weeks ago
@BlissfulMelancholy Men have always been expected to suck it up since the dawn of mankind, but this is out of control now that the social contract between men and women has been torn up. What's more many groups like to blame and demonise masculinity for everything, when in actual fact it is the pressure put on men to perform that harms their character. War is an example of this; it just makes men suffer from issues like PTSD. Then they get little to no help for this.
RockingMrE 3 weeks ago
@RockingMrE Well I'm a firm believer that if men are going to be drafted, women should be too. I know all too well about PTSD, my grandfather saw his best friend cut in half by machine gun fire in WWII. He was never treated for his PTSD and so took it out on his family by beating his seven kids and wife.
BlissfulMelancholy 3 weeks ago
@BlissfulMelancholy That's awfully tragic, and perfectly exemplifies the plight of men. Many groups will use this scenario to suggest that men are inherent abusers. But the truth of the matter is that atrocities of vioence make men behave inhumanely. Without proper support, people like soldiers are going to lash out, and it's unfair to use this to demonise men.
RockingMrE 3 weeks ago
@RockingMrE It was also partly his father's fault (my great grandfather) I think, because he beat my grandfather, too. I'm not sure what may have caused his abusive tendencies, though.
BlissfulMelancholy 3 weeks ago
...similar thing happened to one of my mates! Got stationed in Iraq - his wife wanted the extra money so he volunteered.. After his third tour she divorced him!
She does not work. She lives in a house that he still has to pay for. He gets to see his kids twice a year at most! But he still has to pay for ALL of them ...while dodging bullets and IEDs.. The situation needs to STOP!
FatTurTleMusic 4 weeks ago
@FatTurTleMusic This sort of story is the type of thing that inspired this one. It is the ignored plight of men in our culture. It's so sad to think that men go out and fight or provide, only for a woman to dump him for her own self absorbed reasons.
RockingMrE 4 weeks ago
@RockingMrE -- My story is 100% REAL!
I look at that backstabbing bitch every moring as I drive past, wondering how she can live with herself! Over the years she has doubled in size, she is as fat as hippo now -- thanks to his military pay-cheque! Her ex just got shipped out to Kabul last week! He got to see his kids @ Christmas for 3 days -- then back to the combat zone to pay for *HER* house and ever widening arse!
I used to help her out when he was away; but I now I refuse! :(
FatTurTleMusic 3 weeks ago
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FatTurTleMusic 3 weeks ago
A great video; the best ever on this subject.
Albacorewing 4 weeks ago
@Albacorewing Thank you :-)
RockingMrE 4 weeks ago
This was epic! There's a lot of truth to this..
derektheproducer 1 month ago
@derektheproducer Glad you liked it :-)
RockingMrE 1 month ago
You should of became a police officer, or fireman instead.
SelfDisgust 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@SelfDisgust Well it's a work of fiction, so it isn't really about me. I based the army part of the story on research and real life anecdotes.
RockingMrE 1 month ago
And THAT'S our story!!
cjjaxxon 1 month ago
I tend to believe that the reason why Western society is in the rut that it's in, broken family unit, love replaced by lust, morally/spiritually dead people with lust for entertainment and material wealth, dumbed down population, extreme poverty, is not by coincidence. The elite are creating an army to fight their neo-colonial wars, the broken population back at home. Why else would the economic structure look like an hourglass, wealth at the top, military in the middle and poor below.
LovelesOne 1 month ago
you kissed Jimmy Page!
MrTalktothebear 1 month ago
Holy fuck man that was powerful. I could not help being brought back to my time in the service and burying friends one guy was just a kid 18 years old and the life just snuffed out in a blink of an eye.
mraNewfoundland 1 month ago in playlist My Artistic Side
Laaaaaaaame.
opivyran 1 month ago
@opivyran Why???
infidel1978 1 month ago
Norway recently withdrew all the funding to so called "gender studies" in scientific research much due to a documentary "hjernevask" (Brainwash) shown on National Tv NRK. It shines the light on how these ideas do not hold up to science when faced with biology and psychology.
sweden still keeps up the gender racism.
The show has English subtitles and should be seen and spread by anybody antifeminist and interested in the present nordic situation.
Just search " hjernevask english " on youtube.
crangdaniel 1 month ago in playlist My Artistic Side
@crangdaniel I'll definitely check it out. Sweden is easily the worst example of gender prejudice in the Western world. It's a misandristic hotbed.
RockingMrE 1 month ago
Damn you nailed it man. Glad I subbed to you. You rock, but I guess you know that.
igotsissues 1 month ago
@igotsissues Thanks. Glad to have your support :-)
RockingMrE 1 month ago
Holy shit, this is heavy. But, both sexes are objectified to some extent, males for money females for sex. This whole misandry thing is entirely directed at women, as though they are all at fault. There are tendencies within both genders, sexual and lifestyle that are expressed according to its culture. In a consumerist culture the female seems to get enraptured by it, the male perpetuating it. Its equal game from the top of the problem to the bottom. Sadly, the finger pointing is a bit flawed.
underatedly 1 month ago in playlist My Artistic Side
@underatedly Feminist theory has basically done nothing but demonise men for the last 50 years, ignoring that men always have been invisible and disposable, while women have been excessively protected for various reasons throughout history, sometimes out of necessity. Unless people open their eyes and care about men it's not flawed to show that human beings naturally care about women more than men. This is called gynocentrism, and it is an evolutionary mindset.
RockingMrE 1 month ago 14
@RockingMrE a gilded cage, the pedestal of women, trading rights/privelages, for security.
Oblivionic 1 month ago
@Oblivionic or in more modern terms, the price of femininity is often respect and dignity.
bah. ignore more. Too much debate potential here.
Oblivionic 1 month ago
@RockingMrE <<<< Excellent comment.
GoVir4l 2 weeks ago
This powerful and one of the best vids on Youtube,I really feel for that guy
infidel1978 1 month ago in playlist My Artistic Side
@infidel1978 That's quite a compliment - thanks :-)
RockingMrE 1 month ago
We should have you writing movie scripts instead of those Hollywood bozos!
rendarsmith 1 month ago
@rendarsmith Thanks for your positivity, but let's see how I do with future stories. They may not be so good :-P
RockingMrE 1 month ago
In the 6 years that I spent in the service (US -- mid to late 80's, ramping-up into the Gulf-war(s)) I saw alot of this (as well, the infidelity -- I was even propositioned 5 times myself and I'm NOT good looking at all -- by wives of guys that were TDY.)
I felt as if some portions of the story were from my own life and some portions were from those of friends.
Brilliantly done. I think the story-line flows very well too -- smoothly.
L8r,
drochalsey 2 months ago
@drochalsey It's good to hear that my story resonates with people who have experience with the military. I find it tragic the way men are discarded in this sense, not to mention in general within society, which is also what the story addresses.
Thanks for your feedback and sharing your experiences.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE :
Great Video ! .. and Good Point !
We Definitely live in a Misandric Society today. Men are abused by Women every day, in the home, at work and in the street.
Women/Girls see Men/Boys as Sources... of Money, Security, Emotional Support ... and Narcissistic Supply.
When the Man/Boy is of no use to them any more, well, then there is Divorce to end everthing but... the Man's responsibility to keep paying.
Feminism is Clearly the culprit of this Horrible Destruction...
MarthaLauraGranados 2 months ago
That was an excellent description of how men are disposable. But most feminists would be sympathetic to a lot of your experiences, like the pressure to be an alpha male, being judged for your earning capacity and being thrown into a useless war. The one thing that feminists don't seem to appreciate is the issue of joint custody, which is bizarre since they are so big on a man's responsibility to help raise their children. All in all, I think that you have more issues with non-feminist women.
prschuster 2 months ago
@prschuster I don't think it's that simple. Feminism has failed miserably as a movement for true gender equality, shaming men and using terribly inflated stats to gain funding and support. Men were equally as oppressed by gender roles in the past. Today men are still stuck in old gender roles, but gynoentrism will make it far harder for male change, while society benefits greatly from the blood and sweat of men. Feminists have shown they are all talk when it comes to male issues.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE As if gynocentrism is standing in the way of men getting rid of the pressure to live up to alpha male standards... as if gynocentrism is what encourages men to kill eachother in senseless wars. I sincerely don't get your reasoning. The only legitimate complaint of feminism is the misandry of the rad fems and ignoring men's issues. But the last thing feminists want is to reinforce male gender roles.
prschuster 2 months ago
@prschuster There are only two types of feminists; radical manhaters and the naively deluded. The naively deluded simply wont accept that they are useful tools that can't see the wood for the trees. As for your gynocentric comments; men are biologically programmed to fight for "alpha status" so that the species can thrive, and women and the state have benefitted from their blood and sweat since the beginning. Thus it is not simply a case of "switching this off." This (cont)
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE is why feminism is so easy to sell to men - it is natural for men to put women first. I looked at your channel and noticed your comments about MRA's, as well as your association with Sickmouth. What is your business trying to sell this angle on my channel? I am not some uninformed, poorly versed videomaker...
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE There will always be alpha males and there will always be a desire for men to compete in this regard. I know there is a biological basis for this. But I think hat culture has a big role in how this plays out. Gender roles have to do with how male status is defined and that's largely socially constructed. I like some of Warren Farrel's insights on this. That's what I want to clarify right now.
prschuster 2 months ago
@prschuster Culture has an affect on gender roles, but they're mostly based on nature. The key to understanding this is the latest research on male and female brain functionality. Male and female hormones create gender based personalities and skills. While there are exceptions this is something based on science, not unproven philosophy. See my latest vid for more info. The reason why gender roles have a darker side is largely due to the corrupting elements of power, especially via statism.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE (cont) Just thought I'd add that I have studied Farrell's work in great detail. He and I both agree that patriarchy is a biased theory, and that gender roles are primarily based on nature, not nurture as feminists try to suggest. We both however agree that gender roles being adapted in a modern society is a good thing, though feminism has done very little, and in many cases made it worse, when it comes to male roles..
RockingMrE 2 months ago
I don't understand how parents and doctors can all think it is a good idea to cut part of a babies penis off. Shows you right there how disposable men are.
johnman1911 2 months ago
This is a very powerful video. Thank you for sharing it.
johnman1911 2 months ago
Nice video. If you are from the uk at least you did not have part of your penis cut off.
johnman1911 2 months ago
@johnman1911 Yeah, it always makes me cringe how men in the US have to go through that. Thanks for watching.
RockingMrE 2 months ago 5
I meant since you were in school? My bad
mike61524334251 2 months ago
The other teacher of mine had this mentality of ladies first, etc.. When she have my whole class get height measured, she even brought up her height, then she added: the reason I don't tell anyone because it is none of "men"'s business. I don't mean to be sexist, but these former teachers of mine are unbelievably stupid. Now have you ever had teachers like that in school MrE?
mike61524334251 2 months ago
@mike61524334251 I think many of us remember the preferential treatment of girls growing up, not just in schools but at home too. Females now have the best of every world - they are protected AND get to have the same advantages given to men over the ages, which of course men had to earn woth great sacrifice. Many men died for the betterment of mankind, though this doesn't fit with the feminist ideology that has embedded itself in our culture.
RockingMrE 2 months ago 2
Thanks for showing your video. Now the more you talk about feminists, the more I remember a couple teachers I remembered in high school (which they were women). This teacher I remembered where my classmate (who is male) asked to excused, but she wouldn't let, but when the other classmate of mine (who is female) asked to be excused, and my teacher let her, the same classmate asked why does she go? My teacher said: cause she's a female. Continued.
mike61524334251 2 months ago
And this is what feminists tell us is 'equality' ... sick fucks.
videodads 2 months ago
If theirs one thing I've learned as a man it's survival at all costs. Honor the living before the dead. Make neglect Your ally. History books are filled with stories about dead heroes written by illustrious grave robbers. Proud trees are the first cut. Don't mistake fame for greatness, greatness is no respecter of station. Lean hearts move like locusts in the pangs of their own destruction, mourn those without introspection. Breathe Deep, Focus, Bring Truth, Bring Resolution.
TheAetherspeak 2 months ago
@TheAetherspeak Very profound post. It's good to see that there are men out there who understand that it is through our acceptance of guilt that we are thrown into the meat grinder.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
wow this was pretty profound. I myself haven't had this happen to me but I know of plenty of Marines that it has happened to.
SLRok 2 months ago
You should have never gave up being your self bro, ever.
cowtippin4u 2 months ago
@cowtippin4u I agree. I learnt that message a long time ago. No one will respect a person who compromises unconditionally - it is a mark for the exploitative.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE Just to carlify though, this story was a piece of fiction. I was nfluenced by my research of male disposability and my experiences as a male.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
funny how you dont see feminists clamoring to get more women on, as combat troops in the field. There are many more women than men in the USA, yet 90% of the military is male and greater than 99% of combat troops are male. You wouldn't hear the end of it if these stats represented a safe job market like, medicine. Women claim equality and want all the benefits that males have earned dover the centuries by sacrificing their lives for their tribe/village/country but balk at sacrifice. Typical.
cellectify 2 months ago
@cellectify - Quite frankly we men don't want women in the military either. When it comes to national security I don't think we're doing ourselves a favor by arguing in favor of more women in the military - especially in combat roles .
NautyKnight 2 months ago
@cellectify What I have realised is that unless women are expected to fulfill the same role as men in society there can be no hope for men to stop being disposable. What I also believe is that the day women are expected to sacrifice to the same extent as men will mark a time when people move away from war and coercion.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
This is so deep.
NorthMSBashEnt 2 months ago
consume.
mansuka1 2 months ago
this needs to become a book, with more detail obviously, if men started to write books about their life experinces with wemen, equaling the amount of books that wemen have written books over the past decades, honest accounts of their enslavement by society and feminism, a flood of truth would come streaming forth plain for all to see and of which no-one could ignore, cleansing them of the works of "Jane Austine" and her like of her version of a real man, along with all the typcal crap wemen
mansuka1 2 months ago
@mansuka1 I think you're onto something by suggesting that books about male disposability will help to awaken men from their slumber. Perhaps in time writers will start to see the potential of this medium, thus expressing the true picture of manhood in society.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE well made films would also help, but you know the script would hit the trash can quicker and harder then any of the latest comedy films script should of. the only way I can see it becoming a reality is through dramatised genres, a victorian period drama, would be accepted because wemen love them lol, but as for a film my idea would be to use a fitting gothic vampires (females) verses werewolf (male) futuristic setting thus allowing the real message to get across, safely.
mansuka1 2 months ago
@mansuka1 rather then the typical portrail of werewolves being mindless murderous, I would want to add a more noble savage quality to the characters.
To be honest I should get off my arse and start putting it down on paper lol
mansuka1 2 months ago
This is brilliant!
roharatube 2 months ago
@roharatube Thanks :-)
RockingMrE 2 months ago
I enjoyed it very much. Great writing ! Looking forward to more if you should choose to put it on here.
ProtoCosmos 2 months ago
@ProtoCosmos If I do more short stories it will be based on a variation of topics in the vein of my vids. I have a new idea which I will be exploring in the future though. Cheers for watching.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
Well recieved indeed bro
seeqr9 2 months ago
Its a sad story,but it could be a life lesson that all men could learn!
crypter27 2 months ago
@crypter27 Yes, I'm hoping that people can reflect on the underlying message in the story and learn not to be dragged down a road of what society demands of men.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE so true
crypter27 2 months ago
Sad and true story for many people. Your a good story writer and teller Mr E.
Pikers81 2 months ago
nice!
rooftopeagle 2 months ago
Well done.
siggyboss 2 months ago
@TheLordmep I'd be happy to check out your work. Let me know.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
How to become a misogynist: Have relationships with several women.
nightmathzombieethan 2 months ago 8
How to get the girl: Listen to everything she says she looks for in a man, do the opposite, ignore her & act like a douche. Make lots of money, & don't expect her to contribute ANYTHING to the relationship. DON'T EVER fall in love with her, and if you DO, don't ever show it, that will show what a weak whiney pussy you are and she will leave. Wait for her to get bored & she will leave on her own. Usually they will find a new man before leaving you & will NOT try to improve things.
nightmathzombieethan 2 months ago
That was harrowing. And neccessary. Thank you, Rocking Mr, E.
djsuperbadd 2 months ago
@djsuperbadd Thanks. I feel as though fiction is a good avenue for people to go down when making a point about men's issues.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
that's a sad story...women have soo much power....we only have the power of proposal...they have the power of decision of what is to be or not.
AccuracyMarked 2 months ago
A sad but all too common tale, unfortunately. It left me numb in 'a WTF is wrong with people' kind of way.
acuriousbeast 2 months ago
@acuriousbeast Thanks. I wanted to create a piece of fiction which isn't based in "facts," which is what I usually do, but instead gets people to see the hard and emotional side of what men go through. I hope I did it justice in an honest sort of way.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@acuriousbeast FICTION!?! It was pretty realistic. I've heard many a similar tale. Nice writing job, more believable than a lot of the crap I see on TV (when I watch).
acuriousbeast 2 months ago
This was a really great story man. It would make an excellent short film. :)
stevenwalton8177 2 months ago
A sad and all too common story, unfortunately. Good job to post this, sad but important to hear.
acuriousbeast 2 months ago
This is so powerful. I can't usually sit through 20mins, sadly. It's unreasonable to expect a man to pay for everything in a day when woman earn plenty. At twenty-something, how is a man supposed to pay his bills, his college, his debt *and* her expenses... and still save enough for that ring & house she'll want? This makes being a man all about money, something that didn't even always exist.
proteanview 2 months ago 17
@proteanview I wondered about cutting it in two but in the end took a chance on this format :-P
In answer to your question men often can't afford to pay for these things for many reasons, like reduction in wages since the 70's. When men get divorced the trouble really starts though. Many are left living at a very low standard because they pay so much to the mother. The real kicker is that then men don't have easy access to their children. Thanks for listening - I really appreciate it.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
Great work RockingMrE. Excellent narrative. Many themes you have touched upon have been written about by an excellent author by the name of Warren Farrell.
yipster0290 2 months ago
@yipster0290 Yes, I'm familiar with Warren Farrell and have read "The Myth of Male Power." Personally I think it's an essential read if you want to understand male disposability. Thank you for watching.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
I've never been able to write short fiction that encompasses and encapsulates a lifetime of experience. Mine are always just vignettes, little glimpses. It's something I envy you for. :)
Your story reminds me of "A Very Short Story" by Ernest Hemingway (his is *really* short). I hope you find that a compliment. If it wasn't so early here and me in housecoat, bed-head and yesterday's makeup, I'd be complaining that you'd made me wreck my mascara.
Very powerful. Thank you for sharing it.
girlwriteswhat 2 months ago
@girlwriteswhat Thank you very much. I'm really glad you commented - It crossed my mind what you would think if you listened to this given that you understand male disposability so well. Yes, your post was very complimentary btw. I felt as though the length of the story worked for what I wanted to put across. I could have made it longer or shorter, but in the spirit of creativity I felt that this worked.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
Even though this is fiction, my PTSD is this for me everyday and night. Thank you for knowing how the system works, and how us soldiers do have it rough, in different ways than civilians.
Bllackguard666 2 months ago
@Bllackguard666 I'm sorry you have to go through that. It must be hard. Don't be afraid to get support. It's important that we stop the government and society treating soldiers and veterans like pieces of trash when they are done with them. They don't deserve to be discarded and then thrown in jail when they can't cope, which is what often happens.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE Thank you. It is hard, and sleeping is just way off. I also have seizures, so I'm usually wore out by 2pm. And with the bad sleep patterns, nightmares, night sweats, I get very little sleep. I talked to my local Vet. Association, but they only tell me to see a shrink. I've done that, and didn't help. The support was lousy at best, and with the economy as bad as it is, my doctors kept leaving.
Thank you. Glad to see that good ppl like you see what is really happening :)
Bllackguard666 2 months ago
@Bllackguard666 Make sure you keep fighting through it. Never give up and find hobbies and activities that you can do to make life enjoyable.
Isn't there a charity in the US that deals with PTSD for soldiers? They are starting to emerge in the UK..
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE Not yet, sadly. I looked into it, and they tell me there isn't much of anything. There might be in the future, but we don't know. We would think with as long as they have known about it, there would be somekind of program, but either there isn't enough funding, or they just don't care.
Bllackguard666 2 months ago
@Bllackguard666 I've been thinking for a while that PTSD should be a major focus for men's issues. Supporting and developing charities that help soldiers and veterans is a very important and noble goal.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE It really would be a good investment for soldiers coming home from war. Considering also the fact that there are protesters like crazy now to make them even more uncomfortable. There is a phase us US veterans have "Not all scars are visible" and it doesn't seem our govt. has this in their interests. It's sad, considering how it hurts not just the vet. but everyone around him. No one wants to see their friend or family member suffer this.
Bllackguard666 2 months ago
Nice story, sad but very good.Cheers.
Bllackguard666 2 months ago
Thank you for sharing. Your story is very touching and moving.
alita589 2 months ago
@alita589 Thank you
RockingMrE 2 months ago
Keep writing every minute of effort is worth it in the end! Life at its' best!
sgone0 2 months ago
Damn man. :) I fancy myslef a writer but I've never done anything so profound and engaging.
TheLordmep 2 months ago
@TheLordmep That's a great compliment, and it means a lot that someone would think of my writing in that way.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE And I meant every word. If I ever get around to actually making videos, I'll probably narrate a few of my own fictions based on misandry. If I do, then I hope you'll give em a listen.
TheLordmep 2 months ago
wow, such a sad story, the first girl u met sounded like my ex
but man, u nearly made me cry, so sad, b3eing a father myself i can relate completely to the birthgiving part
i would never join the army, its a men extermination machine
and the state is like a car, its fuel: young men
MGsven 2 months ago
@MGsven This is a work of fiction but the bit about the first girl Henry met is based on a man's first love, so it's partly based on my own. What usually happens is a girl kicks him in the nuts really hard and then he learns to toughen up. From there he learns to use women because he doesn't want to get hurt. If men don't break out of this they can go downhill. I've never been in the army though and I'm happily married now. This story is just a mish-mash of things relating to male disposability.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
My ex said when the economy got bad and I lost my jobs that she couldn't be with a guy who couldn't keep a job and take care of himself. I think it's a social illness. Women need security from a man, and in this system they think it's monetary. It's sad how easily we are tossed to the sidelines, called dogs or whatever.
ChristopherJManess 2 months ago
@ChristopherJManess If only people could see how easily men are discarded in life. It's always been this way, and even men at the top have to struggle to retain power. It is an offshoot of humans striving to survive and pass on their genes to the next generation. Men need to learn to keep this in check, and women need to stop feeling that they are entitled to things off the backs of men. They most certainly are not if they expect to be treated differently to history.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE (cont) I feel as though I should add that there is a minute percentage of people (men AND women) in life who benefit from absolute inherited power. The Occupy movement talks about 1% - it's probably more like 0.1%.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE Ironically, when I went to work last night a woman brought up someone who said, "If there were no men, there would be a lot of fat, happy women.", and she agreed. I think she's missing a massive foresight. If there were no men, there would eventually be no women! Starvation or farming (so no fatties), depression and perhaps suicide of no future, and Zoophilia at last hope to repopulate (or lab sperm). Then if that doesn't work, extinction...yay! No humans! - Game Over
ChristopherJManess 2 months ago
@ChristopherJManess Nothing new about women making sexist comments about men. It's just typical of the misandristic attitude of society to mock men in spite of their blood and sweat which formed human civilisation. The poor women were kept away from manual labour and bloodshed - so you can see why they're angry! :-P
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@ChristopherJManess - Without men, women would run out of food and starve. They wouldn't get fat, they'd get really skinny (skeleton skinny) and just die. Men do all the hunting, fishing, slaughtering, farming, and all the factory work to process food. Men also maintenance the factories when the equipment begins to breakdown. A lot of it requires a strong back, strong muscles, and a set of balls. But you're right - Women would rapidly die off too.
NautyKnight 2 months ago
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double edge sword.
grady1610 2 months ago
This was really powerful. I feel a great deal of sympathy for the man who wrote this. Women are destroying their own safety through acting without integrity and by inflicting this kind of emotional abuse on their sons. However, in the US it seems the delaying of immediate gratification for long term wellness is a rarity. Even I have problems with it, because of my enormous lack of self-esteem that I'm trying so hard to recover. I wish the man who wrote this the strength to seek help when he can.
slaughtz 2 months ago
@slaughtz Just to let you know I wrote this. It's a work of fiction, but it's based on elements of truth I attained through my understanding of being male, as well as research.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
@RockingMrE Oh, I feel quite embarrassed but relieved at the same time. I think you did a wonderful job writing it and I would love to see more like it.
It's interesting that you say 'through your understanding of being male.' Could you elaborate on this? My first impression of that was that you might think I'm female (which I am not.)
slaughtz 2 months ago
@slaughtz I'm not sure why you feel embarassed, there is no need to be. I never thought you were female. What I meant by my statement is that I'm male, and so I can personally see male disposability around me. Also, naturally I've known many men in my life, and this has also allowed to me to garner inspiration. It helps if you look at the world with open eyes, as opposed to the lens of feminist propaganda and chivalry.
RockingMrE 2 months ago
Like hitchens use to say: If you can talk you can write. Interesting video.
lashkaretoiba 2 months ago
Woooo, with so many uploads this week, I feel like this is a real Ferrero Rocher moment MrE!
apekillssnake 2 months ago
This was an amazing listen and so painfully true of the male condition in Western society.
xXChrisHATEXx5 2 months ago
@xXChrisHATEXx5 Thank you
RockingMrE 2 months ago
wow. All I can say is wow.
irishalpha 2 months ago