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  • Gay yor right it does take

    Courage to come out

    I lost male friends over it

    And those people were never

    My friends to begin with.

    Thank God my family were

    Very supportive. Davy listen

    To das Lila lied.the lavender song its on YouTube i subscribe

    To your videos

  • Agreed. The people who are the so called 'sissies' are the ones who are scared of us (for whatever reason) OR the ones who are scared of what the ones who are scared of us will do and therefore spend their lives in the closet

  • I'm lucky i guess .... Im young gay man who live in serbia and travel lot .... But still as gay in this environment is sometimes hard cause people are homophobic... but still if you are strong and hardcore nobody can fuck around with you ... Peace out bitchez !

  • You know I have to agree with Davey. As a gay mechanic in the automotive world my job is 10x harder. But I never let it bring me down. I keep on doing what i do best, wrenchin.

  • I'm so tired of this bullshit stereotype. Gay people aren't sissies for two reasons. We have gay troops (both "manly" and "sissie") risking and giving their lives for this country which shows that you don't have to be straight or "manly" to serve this country admirably in the face of extreme danger, and when gay people come home from the battlefields of war they have to deal with a very homophobic society that hates them. Gay people are some of the bravest and strongest people I've ever met.

  • I know for a fact it is hard to be gay. I get harassed at school everyday. I have had people threaten me with things like knives and bats. I walk into a lunch room and all i hear from all the way on the other side is "go away you fu***** f** no one wants a f** in their school." it hurt and i don't think i could have made it without people that care about me and love me, but i know because they are doing that i have become a stronger person.

  • I know Tobias and he is one of the most strongest people i have ever met in my life. he is a real inspiration.

  • It Definately takes some Horseballs to be Gay. DON'T really know anybody with "Horseballs".

  • ...but you are really sissie...and that faggy kisees at the end are even sissier

  • I'm Pansexual. I get picked on. I beat the shite out of one of my classmates who was bullieng me. Guess he's the fucking fairy now...

  • Not even going to lie. I have the EXACT same Union Jack pillow as you!!! :D

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  • Thank you. I work with suicidal gay youth as young as 11, most are Christians, and your site gives them hope and encouragement.

    blaine USAF Retired

  • There is nothing wrong with being gay. Where a person points their penis or butt is their business, as long as it's with a consenting adult. However, a lot of gay men use that odd high pitched voice, swish a lot, call other guys girl, and act weak, like they can't open a soda can. To me it looks like so many gay men speak and act as if a fire was happening with a hysterical high voice and Charley Chaplin moves. The make-up also, if you must use it,don't look like a clown.

  • @stargate4698 whaaaat??? some women wear makeup, others dont...some men are quiet, others are loud douchebags...some gays are flamboyant, others arent...i dont see the point...

  • @stalematesibling The point is, the swishers are all you see on TV or in the movies, so it is me who only gets one viewpoint on how gay men act. I can't say how all gay men act, I only see what I am shown in the media. It really does bother me though that gays call one another girl. That is simply too much. That really scratch on the chalkboard high voice is another thing that makes me shudder. Tone it down, or look silly.

  • @stargate4698 here's a question...is there something that is intrinsically you that people that you know find extremely irritating and would you change it?

  • @stalematesibling Yes me, and no I like myself.

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  • @stargate4698 i think those "swishy gays" you're talking about also like themselves...

  • @stalematesibling This is my final comment to you, as I'm simply tired of saying anything to anyone who actually thinks acting like the skirt swirling girl at the gate- so to speak- is OK. How truly sad a man Must act like a woman, and call himself and other grown men girl. Should these men truly like themselves,I cannot see how, when they must think they are women. Thinking one is a woman, (not all gays to be sure), I guess gives  such an individual something, sad to contemplate.

  • @stargate4698 i bet you'd never tell a straight black guy from the ghetto to "tone it down"...

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  • @stargate4698 Gay =/= transgender.

  • This is sooo true we are strong and courageous ! I love this video and all the others ! And most importantly I love you ! Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  • What gays don't see is how they do not accept their surrounding's world views but want their acceptance.

  • @zurechtweiser What are you talking about : "Don't accept other people's views?" Nobody said you had to accept gays. But when gay people are murdered and kicked out of their home, then it tends to be a problem. I'd say treat a gay with disrespect if you feel that's your views. Gays are perfectly fine with people hating us, but why shouldn't we be allowed to fight for basic rights such as marriage?

  • @MrOutrighteous Killing people is no problem, it's reality in iraq

  • 0:23 I disagree. They tell they are gay cause they cannot help themselves in another way. When it comes to taking risks where no sex drive is involved and that is being simply uncomfortable(like having a fight) gays are in fact sissies. They avoid responseability at all costs. They come out because they want to get rid - again - of the obviously uncomfortable feeling that comes with other people doubting them. They say "OK I am gay" like "dude, whatever don't bother me".

  • @zurechtweiser Well you go ahead and move to Iraq and kill gays, since clearly, they're so bothersome.

  • I laughed my ass off recently when I heard a comedian (male and straight btw) say that having sex with a man was the least gay thing a guy could do.

  • Love your lil peace out -3

  • Courage

  • no hits just wrong to look at a man like that

  • Then why is he topless

  • @MegaCraftGuy

    because he have a great body why covering it up :P ,

    and ur sad if he's topless?:P

  • Its all age dependent like I don't think a child is mature enough to make that decision, but an adult can and is entitled to that decision. I however (in my opinion) think gays aren't supposed to do that stuff. I mean surely the (intercourse) was meant to be with a man and a woman. But I also think hating on them doesn't fix anything.

  • Im straight and i think i tolerate homophobic people less than gay people tolerate them :p My cousin just came out and she was given a really hard time by her mother. Honestly, when she came out to me, I didn't see her any differently than i had always seen her. A person's sexual orientation has nothing to do with their morals, integrity, or value.

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  • is it true tho that all gay people have lisps?

  • @GoodFriendsForever i dont think tho...lmfao

  • Totally agree with you :) Serious gay people r some of the strongest people I know.

  • I'm bisexual, came out at school, everyone started screaming to me but when they saw me kissing my girlfriend at some party they were all like ''oh it's cool that you came out''. So they just have to get used to it, I think. If they don't understand it, give them some time ;)

  • without sexual feelings, neither for men nor for women, It might be hard to believe for some people, that there are actully men and women like this, whom prefer not to have any kind of sexual behavor at all, but there are people who live this way and we have to respect them.

  • davey, i am gay and 15 years old and i live in a home with my grandparents who are extreamily religous and i want to come out to them but im afraid of what may happen if i do come out.. if u have any advice pls let me know :) -logan

  • @logan88810 It's a very scary thing when the people you love most are the people you feel will judge who you are the most. I honestly believe that the longer you wait to come out, the more it builds and it becomes a pressure that weighs you down so intensely that when you do come out, it's not in the way you wanted. But, before you come out, remember that you need to be able to love yourself enough to take that step because sometimes, you're only left with yourself to love.

  • Some gays can give as good as they get.... but we are as diverse as any other random group of people.

  • I don't get why this queen is naked in all these videos.

  • why not?

  • "You're only manly if you can take pain". Well then, if you can take a cock to the ass, bottoms are the manliest people of the world.

  • @STATUSreality what's funny about that is in a couple where one is more flamboyant and the other is more butch, if both aren't versatile it's usually the butch one that's the bottom.

  • @phoenix3370 THAT IS SOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE! lol

  • @STATUSreality just fuck you.

  • @originalNova When and where?

  • i love you davey wavey! (^;^)

  • Alittle off topic but why is everyone named to Tobias a redhead

  • Wow, people will come up with anything to cut others down. ANYONE can be a wimp! Even straight people can be flamboyant or weak.

  • MUST HAVE YOUR BRITISH PILLOW!

  • Amen to that. :)

  • Flamboyant gays, I think are very brave, just to express themselves in the way that they want to without any fear of what people think of them. So whenever I see them doing their thing, and being the way they wanna be I'm like "Wow, I wish I could be that happy with myself."

  • @animabi they dont choose to just "express themselves" like that, to be flamboyant, generic and "happy", they just try to go on with it...some at least.

  • @animabi flamboyant gays are the ones who make society hate gays in general because straight people do not walk around telling people "I am so masculine i can fuck three women without any break and if there is a fourth one, i can keep going" Flamboyant gays should realize that their attitudes bother other people but are accepted by others. They should be flamboyant where there is a majority that accept that attitude. Everything has its own place on earth. Fishes do not walk on land for example

  • @supercloss okay wait a minute. Do you really think that flamboyant gays choose to act the way they do? I mean I know some beef it up a little, but some guys (straight or gay) are just not what other people think of as masculine acting. Just like some women no matter how hard they try are just not feminine. If you've never answered the phone and had the person on the other line respond "*yourmom'sname*?" you don't know what it's like. You either go with it or act

  • @supercloss btw, what got me the most about what you said is that basically I understood from what you said "Everybody should act how I think they should act so I'm not unconfortable." or better yet "Everyone should people please and be whomever everyone in the room wants them to be." Good luck with that. Totally takes the responsibility for you own level of comfort off you, doesn't it. Be yourself, Love yourself, at least one person will be happy because you can't please everybody

  • We r brave. Most ppl never know what we go through

  • Excellent points. Most straight people do not have the inner strength gay people have. :-D

  • lgbt people rock...its just most are in denial :)

  • Yes I agree I came out at school and I had people call me names and try to assult me but never got to because of one teacher. I am the only open gay guy in my grade and some sayit is ëasy to come out" F**K no it is hard. Also you have an amazing body and voice

  • Man. U trippin. Put on a shirt

  • I totally agree it is really scary and hard to come out even just to ur friends and half the time they don't understand or at least in my experience -angeleena

  • it takes a real man with balls to put on a dress and not give a fuck who's watching him strut down the street with high heels on..

  • Churr bro :D

  • Don't you love how he says courage, strength, and current??

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  • a real man can walk the journey of life proud of who he is and with his head held up regardless of any adversities he may face along the way

  • australian flag pillows in the background? nice :)

  • Hi Davey, the video featuring Tobias was very inspirational. You're right he's strong and courageous and I admire him for his accomplishments. I also appreciate you bringing Tobias' profoundly moving story to all of us. Cheers to you and Tobias!! Chip

  • Thanks so much for mentioning Tobias and sharing his story. My partner and I have had the pleasure of getting to know him through our participation in the gay collab channel, ForACoupleOfGays. He is truly one of the bravest, strongest people I have ever known. Thanks again. Carrie.

  • I couldn't agree more. The strength, perseverance & courage necessary to be yourself isn't congruent with sissies. (I don't have it.) Thanks for the message.

  • I think you have to be very strong and brave to be able to admit to being gay and live the life. Some people get it easy and some people get it hard but no matter what the reaction of those around us after we come out just saying those words "I'm Gay" for the first time to those we love is scary. I was petrified to tell my mom and she didnt care but my dad flipped out and tried to "save" me. Cudo's to those who are brave and strong!!!!!!

  • I don't always agree with you davey but you are correct about this..I swear I was just telling a friend the other day that there are alot of weak people in the world..although not all gays are strong and courageous the ones that are truly are..xoxox

  • ah you own ^-^ i don't actually get how the whole sissy thing came about but... still, you own ^-^

  • Tobias's Story is really something else, but this or any other story wont put things into perspective in the mind of extremists. Seeing an openly gay person suffer just fuels their self-righteousness, and instead of making them feel remorse for deliberately hurting an innocent man, its pride that they feel, because in their eyes, these extremists are performing gods work.

    I truly wish there was a story that could change their opinion about gay people.

  • @9623sam I'm sorry but I have to disagree with you. I believe in gay and I think it is wonderful that people aren't afraid to come out of the closet. But just becuz someone disagrees with gay doesn't mean there retarded or stupid. They can believe what they want. Please respect others opinions.

  • so true (im straight) but wen you think about it gay's have to put up wit wat every1 else does plus the judgemental retards that dont understand just because ur gay doesn't mean theres some thing wrong wit you ur just the same as every1 else

  • I hate how gay perverts comment on all your videos. Gives us an even worse stereotype.

  • Strong kid.

  • I'm 14, pansexual and in a relationship with the same sex. I walk the hallways of highschool holding hands with her, people stare, I don't mind. However, no one in my family knows I'm pansexual. My dad is homophobic, my mom is judgmental, and most of my family think not being straight is a curse. I have the guts to show that I'm dating Tracie to strangers, yet my family has no clue.

  • Gandalf.

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  • i totally agree Davey. Well said

  • Wow Never realized that after being called a sissy by every guy at my school now I know they were WRONG! Lol

  • Agreed.

  • The gays, blacks, handicapped and transexuals have big balls. My Respect. From a straight guy

  • y dunbledore??

  • @lonelybanana1 The actor who played Dumbledore is gay in real life.

  • @IceMoonPetal Hey cool!!! nvr knew that!!! yay yay!!!

  • Great message as always. But, how much more muscle are you gonna pack on? You're huge bro!

  • I'm not gay but i have friends who are! Cop's! NAVYSEALS! Airborne Rangers! People who would beat your ass and then Help you to the hospital .. Respect them thy could be saving your life one day or your mothers ...

  • Im gay and i am strong. I rann away from home because my father was abusive. My mother came and found me and took me to her home in cali, which my father kidnapped me from when i was 4 yrs old. For two day i ran through forest and swamp through florida until my stepfather helped me

  • It's true! It's hard. We are strong.

  • Davey you rock!! I love how you tell it like it is!!!!

  • He needs to get a tumblr!

  • thank you so much!!!! i love you!!!!

  • I love you davey we are not sissies!

  • gay people? straight people? it dons't matter if you are gay, straight, bisexual or asexual, your sexuality IS NOT what you are, it is just a part of you.

    So we can't say that ALL straight people have it easy, or that ALL gay people are brave.

    each person is diferent and not just because He/she is gay, it means that is a sissy OR a brave person.

    A prejudice, even if it is about a good thing, stills a prejudice

  • @louischido True, but the thing is that gay people are more likely to be brave because of all the shit they have to face on daily basis (and i'm not even talking about coming out, which can be really tough).

  • @louischido whats asexual?

  • an australian flag pillow? i live in aus and I've never seen one.

    PS COME BACK TO AUSTRALIA....be like Oprah

  • i agree and dissagree with you. Tobias is verry brave 100% and so are the people who come out when they know or are taking that unknown risk of being disowned. I knew my family and friends would still love me so i think i am a little less brave than he is because i didnt have to worry about the risk and i didnt need to go though all the things he did. Overall i do agree we are brave to be openly gay

  • ok it doesn't take bravery to BE gay as that is something that we have no control over, however it takes bravery to be OPENLY gay.

  • Dumbledore!!!

  • asexual @ilovemidna222

  • I this young Man's family should have been held responsible for him living under a bridge and subject to Legal Actions! Whether he returned home or not, his parents should have been held accountable. Guess they never loved him unconditionally!!!

  • i respect anyone who has the confidence to be the way god made them :)

  • I agree with you all the way Davey. It takes alot of Courage for us gay men to stand up for ourselves and what we believe in

  • I really appreciate this video. Thank you @DaveyWaveyRaw

  • I have NEVER understood how a parent can disown their child for something like this, they could be out doing much worse things then being true to themselves and sharing love with the world. I do not see how who I fall in love with defines me as a person, I have a home, a job, a car, I go out with friends, I eat food, I give money to charity, I would still be the same person if I preferred the same sex. Baffles me how parents out their still not capable of loving their children unconditionally.

  • Hello, this is sort of irrelevant but I have a kind of serious question that I would like one of you dandy davey followers (or even davey) to help me with. I can date a guy or a girl, but the idea of touching a boy just... disgusts me horribly. Like I've thought about it and it's like the opposite of being turned on... it's like my crotch closes not allowing something like that to happen. But at the same time I can DATE a guy... what does that make me?

  • You tell em, Davey! People should take a moment and actually THINK before they judge!

  • your intro is gross, but thats because im strait. haha anywhore i 150000% agree with you and glad to see another strong voice speaking out for those who are interpreted as "weak, weird, or just wrong" (gay) i hope you know just how much courage you fill peoples hearts with just making videos like these! and as an add on bonus, the vast majority of gay individuals are not only usually more intellectual, but are also more successful earlier in life.

    science said so, not me.

  • it really does...it takes alot. and plus theres not been one gay guy ive talked to that would say that they are sissies...most straight people know their not too...its just the few that say that.

  • I join the chorus of voices wondering in bewilderment how a "Christian" family could throw out their 12 year old son. Tobias you are a strength for us all. Thank you :) Davey, your choice was perfect. Thank you :)

  • how can anyone not love gay people. gay peoples are the best! ... i don't have any gay friends though... any gays want to be my friend??? ... please?... I NEED DIVERSE FRIENDS!!! : /

  • I totally agree with this video. I also want to add that being transgender is brave and isn't the "easy" way out like so many people seem to think. It is hard and puts you at risk of being assaulted, raped or even murdered.

  • Only if people saw the huge cocks I took they wouldn't call me a sissy for taking that!

  • @xxzxcxxmetwin :) ha ha...nice one! :D

  • @xxzxcxxmetwin hahaha i know

  • @xxzxcxxmetwin tow up LMAO do that then :)

  • One thing I could never figure out. If we are all such weaklings, wimps, not real men etc, how come it takes three of them to beat up one of us? 

  • @VEHEMENTBLACK Everyone who uses BIRTH CONTROL are outside of the laws of nature! So that whole it's nature to have children is rubbish as we CHOOSE when to have children on our terms. So the parent 'to be' should ask them selves if a child could grow up gay/bi, would they love the child no matter what and if the answer is no then they should CHOOSE NOT to have a child. And yes the child could be gay or could be str8 but its not something you can give back if you don't like it.

  • @VEHEMENTBLACK BUT in the circle of life show me one animal that puts their off spring through the mental and physical abuse that "humans" do. I am right,. If people want to have children then they undertake that responsibility to care for that child, but instead, off load them when things don't go their way. So "life is life" is NOT a good enough reason. We are evolved enough to over come our primordial urges.

  • I truly agree

  • Definitely agree <3

  • truly a great video and makes a point that we often do NOT flaunt in others faces we are strong, independant people beacuse society has FORECED to be that way. I love being me and would NOT trade it for anything! It gets better I PROMISE!

  • I wish I were a gay male. Just imagine how great the orgies must be...

  • @VEHEMENTBLACK Wanting your blood line to carry on is not a good enough reason in my book to create life. To have a child to pass on your DNA is a purely selfish reason and is a tick in the 'not fit to be a parent' box.

  • The whole proces leading up to coming out takes courage (Admitting to yourself you're different, the soul searching, the actual coming out). After all that, not quite fitting in is usually not that much of a problem for the individual concerned. This has the advantage of being 'allowed' by society -and by the individual!- to actually be a bit different. This is ideal for creativity. Is this why gays are relatively over-represented in creative fields of work?

  • Agreed!

  • 1 person doesn't have the courage to come out...

  • the losers are the parents and friends, I can understand how people just can't get their heads around same sex relationships, and lets face it, it is their right.

    But because of their ignorance,or failing to understand the needs of that person for that there is no forgiveness. If you are one of these people, just take a step back pause a while, try and understand. Gay's are born gay, it is genetic so if you are a parent you may just be to blame, so why take it out on your child.

  • i dont see why there is so much hate on gays, we are people too!!!!

  • agree all the way

  • I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    your videos

  • I'd say those 'parents' and I use that term loosely, should be put in jail. Child abandonment. Its one thing to get kicked out at 18, but -12-? Oh hell no.

  • I completely agree with you. It takes a lot of courage and strength to be gay and anyone who says it doesn't, can shut the fuck up.

    Hugs

  • I do believe that it does take a strong person to be a gay or lesbian or bisexual but I also believe that to go against the grain of what society views as proper also takes alot of courage, but I believe the people that go outside of society's expectations are the backbone of this nation =) Cause being unique is what makes everyone amazing

  • i love you davey but right now im mad at you, because i have to stay up till 3 am to see you on blogtv, and i have school tommorrow.... *frustrated*

  • Considering the fact that life is just one big heterosexual pride day slash gay bashing tournament I'd say we are a pretty strong community...

  • Is not about bravery is about being who you are to me being gay is no more different than the color of your eyes

  • wauw your body...

  • nta mazal ma3fa 3lik lah ?!!

  • I totally agree Davey, it takes a lot of strength to be yourself in a society telling you it's wrong. Thanks for spreading this message. Being gay helps you accept and cherish other people for who they are and the sooner people see that the better. It's great to see how young gay people can have a role model such as yourself. Keep up the good work!

  • please pec bounce

  • Thanks for being so supportive to one and all. Love you Davey XXXXX

  • I agree; furthermore, I think that coming out can be a powerful tool to many gay people. When you are faced with so much adversity and resistance for your sexuality, it forces you to become a stronger, more independent person. You are forced to reflect on yourself and in doing so, many find that they are able to do just about anything (given the restrictions of the laws of physics). Coming out is one of the harder things to do; all other things are easy compared to it. I'm gay but I'm not weak.

  • you speak the truth Davey

  • Agree.

  • mama you know i love you

  • Today here in the uk, the laws changed meaning that instead of gays never being able to give blood, they will be able to give blood if they can prove that they have no engaged in gay sex for the past 12 months. It's still amazing that even governments in countries where the laws for gays are meant to be good, can still discriminate against gays. Just sometimes feels like youre banging your head against a wall and no one is listening to the beat.

  • Takes more to be a transwomen teen.. Just say'n..

  • Being special on this world is the biggest challenge for the human..

  • @fbeter just like Neil Patrick Harris and Lance Bass

  • In my experience being Gay doesn't take a lot of courage, but coming out does. But it must be different for everyone, I was lucky to have the friends and family I have.