Ya and my ex his Best Friend was a girl and she got between us, ya she thought we where a cute couple... But they always talked to each other he alway talked about her he never said anything about it... Then he cheated and it's UGH!!
OMG you are so right! Okay so my bf cheated on me then he broke up with me because my best friend in the whole world yelled at him for it! You know what I can do a lot better I can get someone who is worth my time and will take me seriously!! And BTW you are GORGEOUS!!!!
To me it seems like this other girl is clearly jealous, obviously the guy is friends with her, but she has never made it past the friends with benefits.. From my perspective the other girl feels like she deserves what you have, and it jealous because the guy doesnt feel the same, and is dating someone else.
Great advice! My daughter is going through a similar situation (no kids involved). It's hard as a mom to give her advice. She seems to want to do the opposite of our advice; well she just doesn't like advice.
Amen. Amen... Amen. Easier to get out after 2 mo than after 2 yrs. Think he just "not that into you," because if he was, he'd take your side & tell her to back off even if your feelings about her intentions are wrong. And how does he know your kids?
One thing only "he had sex with his 'best friend' " although it was before the relationship..that's an automatic red flag. Like why is he keeping her around, if he's with you. That girl def. needs to leave that guy. He's not right for her at all.
another angle I would suggest is that this relationship is very new, I mean 2 months is not long at all, &I would assume you haven't spent every single day with him. In saying that, you don't really know him or the best friend. I could understand how he might feel, having to chose between his ex girlfriend/best friend of years &his now girlfriend of 2 months. He might not want to risk losing his friendship with the girl &having his relationship not work out with you later.
GREAT advice Jess! (to the girl) You do not need that kind of drama for yourself or your kids. It seems obvious to me that the "friend" is jealous of YOU and is trying to get YOU to back off. Your boyfriend is being disrespecful to you by telling you that YOU'RE the jealous one. I mean WTF? That right there tells me that he puts the friend before you. Stay strong girl rise above that petty BS and take charge of your life by holding your head up high and walking away.
( ok sorry about my english ) If problems starts before u are not the girlfriend, dont imagine the problems could come until you are the one.... Forget him. :/
Leave him!! I was in a simular situation and I wasted 2 years on the loser.... Finally when I realized I was never first, never going to be first, so I left... and guess what he got with this "ex girlfriend, now friend" almost immediately after... and I suspect he was cheating with her! Best friends don't act like that.. there's clearly something going on there. Don't be like me and waste 2 years of your life! Oh, and btw I am now very happily married to my soul mate!
Good advice but I do think the word "love" and "love of your life" is strong if you've only been together 2 months, The boyfriend should take more responsibility but I, being a best friend to a guy I used to date, am very close to my guy friend. We do things that make us seem like a couple, but really have no feelings for each other. I know he loves his girlfriend & I'm supportive of that, but that's just how our relationship works. It isn't a flirtatious thing, though it may seem that way.
It sounds to me like the "friend" is hanging around b/c she wants to get back with him. Or they're each others back-up for when they're not dating other people. If she can't respect his relationship, she's not a friend and you don't want someone that catty around your kids either. Walk away girl, walk away. If he loves you, he'll fight for you.
SPOT ON! It's NOT who's first, it's about respect from the "FRIEND" Yeah NEVER put some guy OR girl Before your kids. They muswt Always have YOUR trust. She IS tryin to be a B! Yep 2 months is not the majority of your life. move on. Don't hang on forNo respect. SO RIGHT!
my advice to this lady is when younger kids are involved to keep your dating life and your motherhood seperate so your kids dont get hurt i know that has nothing to do with what you asked but it is what is most important in being a mother is making sure your children are good and if this dude cant stand up to his friend about you then he is not worth it and most likely if she is trying to make you jealous they are probably still messing around and if not she wants more than they have good luck!
NICE. I thought that you were gonna be like "you should talk to him.... blahh blahhh thearapy." So I'm happy that you gave really good advice :) I like it. Thank you Jess
I can't see the pain of breaking up being any worse than the pain you're going through right now with this guy and his jealous friend.. I say kick him to the curb and find someone who will make you feel happier!
=( aw bad situation! I deff say it will be much easier to leave him now then if you wait... trust me I have been in that situation. If you have ANY second thoughts (which obvs you do) then just end it now before it gets really serious because you will only hurt yourself 100x more if you wait. Good luck! Xo
I love the settler and reacher from how i met your mother!!!! I recently broke up with my boyfriend after being together for 6 years because I was settling majorly! Now I find myself way more confident, independent, and ready to find the right love! Be strong whoever you are and remember you are worth so much!!! <3
I don't think u should confront her. U should confront him and tell him that he meedsto set a barrier between his best friend and him i he ever wants to get somewhere with u. If he just tells u ur being jealous and doesnt wanna do anything about it them its because he doesnt care about ur relationship asmuch as the relationship with his friend. If he doesnt wanna do anything about it then be the better woman and leave him for something better.
I think that you stay with him and if this continues you need to confront her and tell her "You know what, I understand that he's your best friend, but you need to back up. I am his GIRLFRIEND." You're a strong woman, and Matt sounds to me like an idiot. He should tell her to back up. Just remember, you're strong enough to have kids, your strong enough to take care of this. ^,^
i agree, if he liked you, he would forget about his best friends, guys do that. my best friend left me for his girlfriend... we never slept together though.. but he definately just threw our relationship away because she asked him to... they've been together for 3 years now.. im not happy about it, and i wasnt jealous like you say his bestfriend is, BUT if he really cared about you, he would choose you over her without a problem.
i agree with everything jess said!!!! that guy just wants to have his cake and eat it to!! if your going in a relationship and there is already problems then later on theres going to be problems
Wow Jessica, I wish you were my best friend, you're sooooo amazing at giving advice. I can't really relate to this one but still, I think what you said is right on! I am loving this series! :)
i agree with jess. also, if you've already approached him (without anger. not during a fight) and calmly let him know that what she is doing is hurting you, and he didn't do anything about it... than you just need to let him go. if i told my husband that something that one of his friends was doing was hurting me, he would immediately put a stop to it... even if he didn't agree with me and he thought it was harmless. he would still talk to that person and ask them to stop because he respects me.
I think if she super likes this guy, she should atleast talk to him abt it first. Guys can sometimes be shockingly oblivious to how we feel about certain stuff. I say talk to him and give him a chance to change it. But if it has no effect or he acts as if you are the one with the problem, then ditch him.
I agree, kids always come before a new boyfriend. I have a child and have been married for 7 years. Your man's best friend should be another man, not a female. This tells me he's not ready to settle yet. Unless she's a really good friend of yours too, then no, men and women can not be "just" friends, sex will come up somehow, it starts with sexual comments, then the actual event. Men and women who are best friends are usually married to one another. I definetly consider my husband my best friend
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ThePaytonRose 5 days ago
Ya and my ex his Best Friend was a girl and she got between us, ya she thought we where a cute couple... But they always talked to each other he alway talked about her he never said anything about it... Then he cheated and it's UGH!!
ClaireMcCorkle 1 week ago
OMG you are so right! Okay so my bf cheated on me then he broke up with me because my best friend in the whole world yelled at him for it! You know what I can do a lot better I can get someone who is worth my time and will take me seriously!! And BTW you are GORGEOUS!!!!
ClaireMcCorkle 1 week ago
To me it seems like this other girl is clearly jealous, obviously the guy is friends with her, but she has never made it past the friends with benefits.. From my perspective the other girl feels like she deserves what you have, and it jealous because the guy doesnt feel the same, and is dating someone else.
KayD0407 2 weeks ago in playlist Lets Talk:
If your boyfriend has a "best friend "that's a girl that isn't right ... Your suppose to b his best friend !!!
samanthalovesGod 2 weeks ago
Great advice! My daughter is going through a similar situation (no kids involved). It's hard as a mom to give her advice. She seems to want to do the opposite of our advice; well she just doesn't like advice.
cwales688 2 weeks ago
the three dislikes: The jealous girl, and two of her friends
MsZoologist1 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
you gave her great advice ..
MyPinkRainbow 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from theeasydiy
Great advice. I would have given the same advice.
lllelly316 3 weeks ago
Amen. Amen... Amen. Easier to get out after 2 mo than after 2 yrs. Think he just "not that into you," because if he was, he'd take your side & tell her to back off even if your feelings about her intentions are wrong. And how does he know your kids?
missmary333 3 weeks ago
You girl. Are. Smart(:
xTurTlesAREaMazingx 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from theeasydiy
Immature little wussy pants! Love it!
sarraeee 4 weeks ago 4
great advice :)
ArtFReaK94xx 4 weeks ago
jess i heart you<3:))
Meeragurl10 4 weeks ago
One thing only "he had sex with his 'best friend' " although it was before the relationship..that's an automatic red flag. Like why is he keeping her around, if he's with you. That girl def. needs to leave that guy. He's not right for her at all.
singLike3ri 4 weeks ago 3
the like/dislike bar looks like a pencil
MsDoodlekat 4 weeks ago
liked this just cause of the himym reference! you're awesome jess!
rockblonde101 1 month ago
another angle I would suggest is that this relationship is very new, I mean 2 months is not long at all, &I would assume you haven't spent every single day with him. In saying that, you don't really know him or the best friend. I could understand how he might feel, having to chose between his ex girlfriend/best friend of years &his now girlfriend of 2 months. He might not want to risk losing his friendship with the girl &having his relationship not work out with you later.
Melski87 1 month ago
GREAT advice Jess! (to the girl) You do not need that kind of drama for yourself or your kids. It seems obvious to me that the "friend" is jealous of YOU and is trying to get YOU to back off. Your boyfriend is being disrespecful to you by telling you that YOU'RE the jealous one. I mean WTF? That right there tells me that he puts the friend before you. Stay strong girl rise above that petty BS and take charge of your life by holding your head up high and walking away.
sarababe74 1 month ago
if he doesn't respect you, he doesn't respect your kids. like jess said don't settle
kacgifts 1 month ago
Your a great advice giver! I love when people make voices when they're reading stories lol
le97ah 1 month ago
Very well said Jessica! I completely agree!
owl1184 1 month ago
( ok sorry about my english ) If problems starts before u are not the girlfriend, dont imagine the problems could come until you are the one.... Forget him. :/
dizjah 1 month ago
word.
HellD0neHIM 1 month ago
Leave him!! I was in a simular situation and I wasted 2 years on the loser.... Finally when I realized I was never first, never going to be first, so I left... and guess what he got with this "ex girlfriend, now friend" almost immediately after... and I suspect he was cheating with her! Best friends don't act like that.. there's clearly something going on there. Don't be like me and waste 2 years of your life! Oh, and btw I am now very happily married to my soul mate!
mystachicka 1 month ago 2
Good advice but I do think the word "love" and "love of your life" is strong if you've only been together 2 months, The boyfriend should take more responsibility but I, being a best friend to a guy I used to date, am very close to my guy friend. We do things that make us seem like a couple, but really have no feelings for each other. I know he loves his girlfriend & I'm supportive of that, but that's just how our relationship works. It isn't a flirtatious thing, though it may seem that way.
trixohbaby 1 month ago
You give such great advice, Jessica! Seriously I was nodding my head every few sentences. Hahah
kristensav 1 month ago 2
It sounds to me like the "friend" is hanging around b/c she wants to get back with him. Or they're each others back-up for when they're not dating other people. If she can't respect his relationship, she's not a friend and you don't want someone that catty around your kids either. Walk away girl, walk away. If he loves you, he'll fight for you.
daysleeper724 1 month ago
Great advice Jess.
cgkitti 1 month ago
your such a great speaker <3
facinelli3944 1 month ago 2
Within 1 minute i said dump him.
hithere00000 1 month ago 2
great advice =]
LadiiieS 1 month ago
The one dislike is probably the boyfriend!
beegirl98 1 month ago 10
@beegirl98 haha yeah
HellD0neHIM 1 month ago
I agree with J's advice..
silvermckenzie 1 month ago
Giiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrllllllllll obviously his best friend is batshit crazy, why deal with that!? Go Jess!!!
YvorieVasquez 1 month ago
SPOT ON! It's NOT who's first, it's about respect from the "FRIEND" Yeah NEVER put some guy OR girl Before your kids. They muswt Always have YOUR trust. She IS tryin to be a B! Yep 2 months is not the majority of your life. move on. Don't hang on forNo respect. SO RIGHT!
LadyShyye 1 month ago
One minute in and I'm like, "I'd dump his assss" LMAO....
TotallyCoolNails 1 month ago
my advice to this lady is when younger kids are involved to keep your dating life and your motherhood seperate so your kids dont get hurt i know that has nothing to do with what you asked but it is what is most important in being a mother is making sure your children are good and if this dude cant stand up to his friend about you then he is not worth it and most likely if she is trying to make you jealous they are probably still messing around and if not she wants more than they have good luck!
jodievik1 1 month ago
NICE. I thought that you were gonna be like "you should talk to him.... blahh blahhh thearapy." So I'm happy that you gave really good advice :) I like it. Thank you Jess
LittleHeart5 1 month ago 2
What is your bf name?
hamsterlover881 1 month ago
this is the advice that I've been waiting for.. thanks sooo much!
SuperBigbang5 1 month ago
Dayummnn that was good advice ..
ban4ever562 1 month ago
Dayum, you got some good advice.
lyndsie92 1 month ago
I can't see the pain of breaking up being any worse than the pain you're going through right now with this guy and his jealous friend.. I say kick him to the curb and find someone who will make you feel happier!
JessicaLynnCanada 1 month ago
get out while you still can, its super early in your relationship and you deserve sooo much better
yaoifangirl2009 1 month ago
I like your advice Jess. I will wait and see til the next video and if I like what you say there too, you get to read of my fantastic problems.. :)
finnieminnie 1 month ago
=( aw bad situation! I deff say it will be much easier to leave him now then if you wait... trust me I have been in that situation. If you have ANY second thoughts (which obvs you do) then just end it now before it gets really serious because you will only hurt yourself 100x more if you wait. Good luck! Xo
oxomgitsrachelxo 1 month ago
YUP DITCH HIM!! lol
i like these videos n_________n
xxxprincessforlifexx 1 month ago
very well said... I agree 100%..
cherrey0326 1 month ago
omg, I am goirn through a similar situation with the guy im with right now except its his ex.
CristinaBellex 1 month ago
I totally agee with jessica:)
CrayolaCandycane 1 month ago
ok yup had same issue its time to say good bye to that little boy!!! Hell I did!!! feeling stronger and confident NO MORE DRAMA
gboottee 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I love the settler and reacher from how i met your mother!!!! I recently broke up with my boyfriend after being together for 6 years because I was settling majorly! Now I find myself way more confident, independent, and ready to find the right love! Be strong whoever you are and remember you are worth so much!!! <3
MeganFitzMakeupLove 1 month ago
Great advice!
Sanmarachella 1 month ago
I definitely agree with laliz2010 and Jess. Great great advice.
amandalinx 1 month ago
Immature little wussy pants!
xoxoxo! great advice jess!
ecoworldtv 1 month ago
Great advice! I also agree
EmeraldFlames12 1 month ago
I don't think u should confront her. U should confront him and tell him that he meedsto set a barrier between his best friend and him i he ever wants to get somewhere with u. If he just tells u ur being jealous and doesnt wanna do anything about it them its because he doesnt care about ur relationship asmuch as the relationship with his friend. If he doesnt wanna do anything about it then be the better woman and leave him for something better.
laliz2010 1 month ago 3
THUMBS UP FOR THE ADVICE!!!! the advice you gave her was right on!! Kick him to the curb for sure!! I wish her the best!!
nkr1695 1 month ago 2
i love you are like the big sister i never had <3
crazygirl7456 1 month ago
I think that you stay with him and if this continues you need to confront her and tell her "You know what, I understand that he's your best friend, but you need to back up. I am his GIRLFRIEND." You're a strong woman, and Matt sounds to me like an idiot. He should tell her to back up. Just remember, you're strong enough to have kids, your strong enough to take care of this. ^,^
MaggotLlama 1 month ago
i agree, if he liked you, he would forget about his best friends, guys do that. my best friend left me for his girlfriend... we never slept together though.. but he definately just threw our relationship away because she asked him to... they've been together for 3 years now.. im not happy about it, and i wasnt jealous like you say his bestfriend is, BUT if he really cared about you, he would choose you over her without a problem.
Makemeblush416 1 month ago
i agree with everything jess said!!!! that guy just wants to have his cake and eat it to!! if your going in a relationship and there is already problems then later on theres going to be problems
amandalovesnoe9339 1 month ago
Wow Jessica, I wish you were my best friend, you're sooooo amazing at giving advice. I can't really relate to this one but still, I think what you said is right on! I am loving this series! :)
xfiori 1 month ago
EXACTLY !!! you took the words right out my mouth =]
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CatsPurrfect 1 month ago
I like this vids
xsammmie1 1 month ago
i agree with jess. also, if you've already approached him (without anger. not during a fight) and calmly let him know that what she is doing is hurting you, and he didn't do anything about it... than you just need to let him go. if i told my husband that something that one of his friends was doing was hurting me, he would immediately put a stop to it... even if he didn't agree with me and he thought it was harmless. he would still talk to that person and ask them to stop because he respects me.
kelleyjane07 1 month ago
Very good advice!! I agree with everything you said.
oOMissysNailsOo 1 month ago
I think if she super likes this guy, she should atleast talk to him abt it first. Guys can sometimes be shockingly oblivious to how we feel about certain stuff. I say talk to him and give him a chance to change it. But if it has no effect or he acts as if you are the one with the problem, then ditch him.
tiffanyLyn7 1 month ago
I agree, kids always come before a new boyfriend. I have a child and have been married for 7 years. Your man's best friend should be another man, not a female. This tells me he's not ready to settle yet. Unless she's a really good friend of yours too, then no, men and women can not be "just" friends, sex will come up somehow, it starts with sexual comments, then the actual event. Men and women who are best friends are usually married to one another. I definetly consider my husband my best friend
lvick3 1 month ago 2
You go girl!
The0Pumpkin 1 month ago
"immature little wussy pants" lmao that's awesome.....
amcr420williams 1 month ago
I agree with Jess!
amcr420williams 1 month ago 41
you can't be first if its your video!!! duhsies
Jsillllll 1 month ago in playlist Lets Talk:
@Jsillllll oh but i can... note the comment, and how it was first. bahahahahhahahahah
theeasydiy 1 month ago 2
:)
DrKristiina 1 month ago
FIRST!! wait... can someone explain why people actually care if they are first?
theeasydiy 1 month ago in playlist Lets Talk: 54
@theeasydiy i have no idea i think its just children playin on utube lolz
MHlovesorigami1 1 month ago