Aspergianstar and blind dyslexic ending put up and shut up

[sprocketrocket07]

When I was secretary of a football club when the players were downcast we used to say "DON'T GET MAD - GET EVEN!" (ie. Don't lose your focus) Perhaps that is what we need to do - Pay them back! Hit them where it hurts; the financial hip pocket. Pay them back in the media, the police, the courts; simply everywhere you can. Make them sit up and pay attention to your cause; plan a course of action (not just immediate reaction - that just doesn't work in the long run) and pay them back!

[Youtiubeer]

I agree. Bullying has caused many unmecessary deaths. Ever heard of the massacre at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado?

[Alana235]

Hello There Great Video Steve :) I miss talking to you I hope all is well with you anyway I have been so busy with working and things I hope you have a good one and great video

[Aspergianstar2009]

@Alana235 Hi Alana how old are you now. God been ages what job you got really proud of you you have come so far :)

[mewdoceu]

> it does hurt and is not a joke indeed, for some reason the hating characters always defend themselves as - Oh we are only having a laugh or joking.... that for me is the worst excuse for such sad behavior, is nothing wrong with being good so why being bad towards others> I totally agree with the video... I believe that close minded people have to accept others more because Karma comes and goes and some day in their lives, they will undergo the same and I hope they learn their lesson somehow.

[mewdoceu]

Bullying and harassing is an ongoing problem which instead of being tackled, it keeps on getting worst... only because the good people do nothing and due to that, evil prevails... is sad but true, I have neighbors that bully me constantly and when I was at college I was bullied really bad, I almost gave up the course due to that and my health, as I wasn't strong enough to cope with the whole situation. Living in a small town does make you think this things are normal but are not because>

[Aspergianstar2009]

its a bit like spastic roger gardner when I was at school. He was a really nasty bully but because he walked with a limp the teachers always blamed his victims. This was despite having a vicar as a father. These days if you call someone a gay or the N word you are instantly taken to task and even expelled. But it seems ok to call an autie a retard or spastic. In short if you are an autie and gay or black you are protected. If not its tough

[Aspergianstar2009]

Youtube also freezes views. Now this experimental video is stuck at 307 with 307 genuine views. It should unfreeze in say a few hours time. By the time it does that there should be over 400 views. Yes there is a method and yes it will work and no it doesn't include hacking or anything illegal. But I being an Aspie have worked it out

[Aspergianstar2009]

This started out as an experiment. The same video one channel only a few views this one over 300. It goes to show how things swing on youtube. Have you not wondered why ijustine gets 100 000 views on one of her vids for ringing up about a pizza and I get just over a few hundred for an intellectual video. Well I have worked out the formula. It is actually mathematical. It is not her looks either although they do play a part. There are plenty of pretty girls with only a handful of views

[TheSchemer1]

The thing is with autism and bullying, have you noticed if the autie gets bullied, the guy/gal bullying them gets away with it, but when the autie is the bully he/she gets caught dead easily. (Source: at witherslack nts that wind up seem to get away with it but i dont when im the one winding ppl up) Just not fair.

[Aspergianstar2009]

@TheSchemer1 you have to be clever dont hit the NT at the time pick your time say toilets or outside of school or college. Make sure it counts. But also make sure his mates are not around as nTs are cowards and its always 5 onto one. So the toilet is the best idea. Smash their head off the washbasin or soap in the mouth. I know its cruel but no more cruel than what they do to us

[TheSchemer1]

@Aspergianstar2009 His/her screams will probably catch the attention of the staff but I suppose in a mainstream school it may work (im @ boarding school you see).

[Aspergianstar2009]

@TheSchemer1 my dad went to boarding school I will ask him some of the tricks. There is always lights out etc ;) Or maybe on the rugby pitch. That is when my Dad got his own back at bullies some of which were the house masters. Whats more nothing could be said as it was on the pitch

[TheSchemer1]

@Aspergianstar2009 Some good points there, at my school whenever I share a bedroom, Lights out is often the nt bullies' weakness, so whenever they dick about I just tell the member of staff (care worker, night watchman/woman whatever, because I do have a reputation for being a compulsory non-liar (which I use to my advantage at times), though when its in class the nt bullies usually have the upper hand tactically. We tend not to do rugby though we do do football which doesnt always go well.

[sprocketrocket07]

@TheSchemer1 Too true I'm afraid. The thing is the teachers, etc are always watching the autie's behaviour - Yes, looking for faults constantly, and overlook the inappropriate behaviour, the so called "normal" behaviour of the other students. And yes the Autie will always get caught out; they tend not to be so devious and everyone is of course watching them. It's a prejudicial scene - Prejudice is not fair. Jan

[Aspergianstar2009]

@sprocketrocket07 the autie can be wound up and has a meltdown. To the NT Teacher all they see is someone disruptive in their class. Despite a Teacher telling another Teacher who was bullying me they would not believe it simply because the teacher that told them came from the special school.

[ERASMUS320]

the bullying is just a group animalistic responses.Bullies are usually the most weak and powerless people inside,so they have to dump their anger on their victims. The education system has got on with dyslexia but unfortunatley autism is still being mostly ignored ,apart from the richer kids who's parents can afford a diagnosis.As a 47 yr old aspergers and a da to kids all I can say is trust yourself,if your teachers ignore you after you complain about bullying then just call the police.

[Aspergianstar2009]

Oh another reason I took this vid on is that I am a fan of the goatee beard look LOL Joke

[Aspergianstar2009]

Best way to stop bullying is to make a bully do sort of community service. If say a bully is bullying someone give them responsibility for another child to make sure that child is not bullied. Believe me this system works. The bully feels important. Using natural leadership skills they use them to stop the bullying rather than encouraging it.

[Aspergianstar2009]

Teachers are not automatically kind etc. Some have not grown up. Take the ones that go from school to college and then uni. These types of Teachers have never experienced work in the real world. So if they were bullies in school the chances are they will bully as teachers. 60% of my bullying in school was at the hands of teachers. Either witnessing the bullying, doing nothing about it or physically grabbing or pushing me for no reason. The bully normally doesnt realise the stress caused

[mishakailana]

I loved that you chose to repost/share this video. Thbe blinddyslexic? Talks about alot of things many people forget about bullying or more specically being bullied. There really is not enough support for those being bullied in schools as soon as teachers walk away the target just gets over and over. There needs to be reform school for bullies, they are a sserious problem and need to learn how to be humane.

[CityHunter84]

public schools are a nightmare, the whole system is broken. it will never be fixed because the teachers arent motivated by care, the kids are only there to get through the day so they can go home to their xbox and absorb into themselves with music and drugs, and the parents are just doing what every other parent does and sends them off not giving two shits what goes on and because its "illegal" what alod of bullshit, its all a broken mess.

[Aspergianstar2009]

@CityHunter84 mentality at my school was the same. People bullied were basically a pain to the Teachers. It was like you asked to get bullied, you deserved to get bullied as you did not fit in with POPULAR PUPILS. Most bullies were popular. They were good at sport or had lots of friends. Most bullies are actually jealous of people that don't care if they are popular or not. That normally is an aspie or someone who is different. Dresses different or acts different. Girls get bullied

[Aspergianstar2009]

@CityHunter84 girls get bullied cause they have no makeup on or because they may not like the latest trends or be as bitchy as other girls or do not judge others. Boys get bullied for not liking sport or doing lad things. Normally they are called gay etc ... It all boils down to the bully wanting to force the bullied person to conform. Mainly bullies are control freaks. They are natural leaders. That is why they are popular because people follow them around like lost sheep

[TheBlindDyslexic]

Thank you-I posted my appreciation on Facebook too

Thank you

[Aspergianstar2009]

@TheBlindDyslexic what is your facebook mine is aspergianstar2010

[Aspergianstar2009]

@TheBlindDyslexic you are very welcome. I think the problem is getting your video out there. You can make a video that is top class, but will not make the views. One of the ways to get views is to go to every anti bullying youtube and post your view and then say check out mine as it has more insight. Dig is another good way, twitter and of course Facebook. I found I got a lot of views from them. another way is to search out anti bullying on youtube and add them as friends.

[okuma0kuma]

put up or shut up was true to me ! but system has changed

i think was 95 before all schools in uk had education built for learning dyslexics which my high school didnt get till 12th form

it was actually my mid school classform teacher that got my parents to test me they did extensive hearing, eye ,to me describing images and patterns tests etc,but they refused to send me to "my son aint going to no spastic school"

bullying was more psychological (ironic including some teachers) than physical

[RomulanMastermind]

THESE KIDS NEED TO BE SEPERATED FROM SOCIETY... PUT IN SPECIAL COLLEGE LIKE DORM ROOMS... AND RECONDITIONED BY MEMBERS OF HIGH IQ SOCIETY.

NO, NOT THE MONKEY TEACHERS... HIGH IQ SOCIETY.

THE RETARDED BULLIES ARE VICTIMS OF IDIOT PARENTS AND IDIOT CRACK SMOKING ROLE MODELS FROM HOLLYWOOD.

THEY THEN IN TURN PREY ON THE SMARTER, NON SOCIAL ONES WHO ARE CONSIDERED GEEKS.

[111256able]

@RomulanMastermind you taking about IQ !!retarded like you should hand yourself!!heheheheheh angry? goood FUCKYOU!!

[Aspergianstar2009]

@111256able it is painfully clear to me you have no IQ. Well maybe one equivalent to a glass of pissed in water. Don't know how that equates to IQ??? Well look it up if you can read LOL

[111256able]

@Aspergianstar2009 ya i got no IQ ,i only slit throat !!heheh enjoy it heheh.Where do you live darling!! hehehh