Ye man! that sucks! I mean... I feel Im a man but no one knows so... they refer me as a girl and I just hate it. And ye I have known all my life I like men, but I feel as one, as an active one, so... weird for myself xD in fact... it sucks! But I know what I am, and nobody can confuse me. Im who I am.
Im seeing that this is a little dated... I hope things have become more peaceful for you. Just because we dont fit what society expects does NOT mean you are bad, or deviant, or any of the other labels they use to categorize people into established boxes. I am neither boy nor girl either, and it is an entirely valid place to be... even when the LGBT community doesnt get it or acknowledge it either. Be at peace with who you are, and know that its ok.
I'm genderqueer =) There's nothing wrong with not feeling male or female. I know sometimes it can seem like, "well then who am I?", because our society is so big on that binary. But there's nothing wrong with not being on that binary, and there are many people out there who are not. A great youtube channel you might want to check out is genderqueerchat- they're fantastic! Also, feel free to ask me any questions/advice. =)
lm like this to - getting older as well - always felt different since a chld - not straight - not gay - but always identlfy with lesbians. Stay Strong as you appear upset in the video
I always think the same thing! female doesnt quite fit ME. and i searched for an inner-boy inside me, but never found one. neither fit. they're not me. (: i like to tell people, "you know how i'm queer? wellll... my gender is queer, too!" when i told my best friend, she gave me a hug and high-five! :)
hi. I'm a 60 yr old 'male' who likes to dress as a female. I go out dressed as a female but don't fool anyone. but I want to feel like a female and refuse to give in to social disapproval. The world can be so hateful. I think we have a right--a basic human right to be who we want to be. What is it, but hate and intolerance that says we must fit into the bi gender mold? have the courage of your soul to express yourself as you want to be.
@laciapril l feel the same - lm almost 52 - eekk where did the years go. l dress femme - but as lm an active wheelchair user dress in tight sports gal stuff which l love - tighter the better l fink! l get some funny looks especially as l love eye make up and always have.
be who ever you are u must know what genderqueer is the feeling of gender being male , female , neither , or something else. also rember gender is in the head sex is whats in your pants. people are going to be assholes twards u for being u but i have to be strong.!!! I am unlabled with everything its how feel!!
i might be the same as well.i like girly cute things but i dress like tomboy as well.i'm fine with how peoples address me but recently i'm thinking of crossdressing and binding my chest.i don't like wearing bra and the monthly periods but i don't want the male parts either.i don't know about myself as well.
Good on you for making this video & sharing yourself in this way. I too am biologically a female but neither identify as female nor male, and feel myself to be gender-neutral.
Hi. Yeah, I feel pretty much the same way, but I actually don't mind being referred to as female. I do mainly identify as that, but I can't stand being called a "woman" or a "lady". Though I can't stand being accidentally referred to as a guy either. So I've decided I don't want a physical transition either.
omg! I love you! I have been feeling like that for soooooo long and I couldn't figure out if I wanted to be a guy or a girl and I thought I was just some sort of freak and then I saw this video and all I could think was 'yes, finally, I'm not alone!'. So thank you so much for this video!!
I know how you feel, I don't identify either way myself. I resent being gendered by others, deeply resent it. If you look for my videos called "Doubts" or anything with the word gender in the title you will be able to see how I feel about the whole thing. Basically I came to the realisation that I didn't want to have any kind of physical transition but that I needed to find some kind of space for my 'male side' to express himself. Haven't worked out what that is yet though :-(
hugs!!
GunsNRosesTrans 7 months ago
Ye man! that sucks! I mean... I feel Im a man but no one knows so... they refer me as a girl and I just hate it. And ye I have known all my life I like men, but I feel as one, as an active one, so... weird for myself xD in fact... it sucks! But I know what I am, and nobody can confuse me. Im who I am.
HEEMQUA 8 months ago
Im seeing that this is a little dated... I hope things have become more peaceful for you. Just because we dont fit what society expects does NOT mean you are bad, or deviant, or any of the other labels they use to categorize people into established boxes. I am neither boy nor girl either, and it is an entirely valid place to be... even when the LGBT community doesnt get it or acknowledge it either. Be at peace with who you are, and know that its ok.
susurration668 1 year ago
I'm genderqueer =) There's nothing wrong with not feeling male or female. I know sometimes it can seem like, "well then who am I?", because our society is so big on that binary. But there's nothing wrong with not being on that binary, and there are many people out there who are not. A great youtube channel you might want to check out is genderqueerchat- they're fantastic! Also, feel free to ask me any questions/advice. =)
somekind6ofstranger 1 year ago
Just hang on in there, the whole gender variance can be challenging, not only for the individual but those close to you.
TGLee58 1 year ago
lm like this to - getting older as well - always felt different since a chld - not straight - not gay - but always identlfy with lesbians. Stay Strong as you appear upset in the video
TGLee58 1 year ago
*hugs* :(
britkimberlylegere 2 years ago
I always think the same thing! female doesnt quite fit ME. and i searched for an inner-boy inside me, but never found one. neither fit. they're not me. (: i like to tell people, "you know how i'm queer? wellll... my gender is queer, too!" when i told my best friend, she gave me a hug and high-five! :)
taijacmonkey 2 years ago
you're not alone! thanks for sharing.
elysssa654321 2 years ago
hi. I'm a 60 yr old 'male' who likes to dress as a female. I go out dressed as a female but don't fool anyone. but I want to feel like a female and refuse to give in to social disapproval. The world can be so hateful. I think we have a right--a basic human right to be who we want to be. What is it, but hate and intolerance that says we must fit into the bi gender mold? have the courage of your soul to express yourself as you want to be.
laciapril 2 years ago
@laciapril l feel the same - lm almost 52 - eekk where did the years go. l dress femme - but as lm an active wheelchair user dress in tight sports gal stuff which l love - tighter the better l fink! l get some funny looks especially as l love eye make up and always have.
TGLee58 1 year ago
I think I'm genderqueer too..........I've been in denial for so long. -_-
OhThatHolly1 2 years ago
be who ever you are u must know what genderqueer is the feeling of gender being male , female , neither , or something else. also rember gender is in the head sex is whats in your pants. people are going to be assholes twards u for being u but i have to be strong.!!! I am unlabled with everything its how feel!!
shinobiquinn 2 years ago
So you don't want surgery to become a man? No offense but you don't seem like a girl to me in this video. You seem very male.
PrincessKLS 2 years ago
I understand. I am going through this right now. I wonder how you are now.
strive4balance 3 years ago
i might be the same as well.i like girly cute things but i dress like tomboy as well.i'm fine with how peoples address me but recently i'm thinking of crossdressing and binding my chest.i don't like wearing bra and the monthly periods but i don't want the male parts either.i don't know about myself as well.
wenwen47 3 years ago
me too man
i feel dhe same way mssg me sometime ima sub. to u
desibabii1 3 years ago
I get so uncomfortable when ppl call me by female pronouns, too; somebody at work said to me the other day, "Hey girlfriend!" I almost screamed...!
applejax40 3 years ago
Good on you for making this video & sharing yourself in this way. I too am biologically a female but neither identify as female nor male, and feel myself to be gender-neutral.
Fishtank33 3 years ago
Whatever you call yourself is going to be inadequate in some way, as language is.
I totally get it....good luck man.
Feel free to ask me any questions you like.
I'm not shy in the slightest.
Cheers--Kyle.
xenokyle 3 years ago
Hi. Yeah, I feel pretty much the same way, but I actually don't mind being referred to as female. I do mainly identify as that, but I can't stand being called a "woman" or a "lady". Though I can't stand being accidentally referred to as a guy either. So I've decided I don't want a physical transition either.
So just keep working through it.
And there's no set way that you have to be. :)
WyldFire777 3 years ago
omg! I love you! I have been feeling like that for soooooo long and I couldn't figure out if I wanted to be a guy or a girl and I thought I was just some sort of freak and then I saw this video and all I could think was 'yes, finally, I'm not alone!'. So thank you so much for this video!!
SpiritWalker619 3 years ago
Respect. Hope you enjoy uni. It's a good time to learn about oneself.
arabiannights10 3 years ago
I know how you feel, I don't identify either way myself. I resent being gendered by others, deeply resent it. If you look for my videos called "Doubts" or anything with the word gender in the title you will be able to see how I feel about the whole thing. Basically I came to the realisation that I didn't want to have any kind of physical transition but that I needed to find some kind of space for my 'male side' to express himself. Haven't worked out what that is yet though :-(
TheVeganicWitch 3 years ago