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  • i am a teen at age 14 and i am and always have been bullied and i know what it feels like to come home after school & jst not wnt 2 b there anymore. i dnt have a very good home life & than i go 2 skewl 2 get out of tht & i cnt i was adopted by my Gparents whn i was 2 becuz my parents r drugys & acholoics & i dnt c either of them i forget lots bout them & thn 4 ppl 2 tell me not even my own parents wanted me i jst dnt wana b here anymore & thanks 4 makin me realise i can get help BLESS YOU!! :)!!

  • It is hard, I know..the children out there...it is hard....I had bullies and it was so hard when your grow up and have to go through this...I am not sure how I survived...but I understand, I really understand your message

  • this video is so right

  • I remember a kid back in school over thirty years ago, bullied everyday and the school did absolutely nothing about it. He was bigger than the other kids who chased him around the yard every day, twice a day, at little and big break. There'd be what was called the 'daily rounds' - the big fat kid with glasses being chased around the school grounds for the duration of both rest periods. How he didn’t lose weight with that kind of running regimen I don’t know, but it was relentless.

  • He got chased home too. Poor kid. He’d be wailing as soon as he got out of the class and into the yard. The odd kid would kick him in the ass, making the cries more hysterical, occasionally he’d stop, winded, but that just made him a sitting target. The wailing, the tears, I don’t know how he took it every single day, and then on the way home too. I saw his poor mother at the school a few times – I don’t think he had a father around, at least no one ever saw him.

  • I’m sure his mother explained as best as she could what kind of misery it was for both of them, my heart goes out to her now. Why this one child should suffer – and how the school did seemingly nothing to stop it – must have been the bane of her life. I don’t think I ever saw A.C. in public without his mother, this big frightened kid in a duffle coat, following his mother everywhere, his bodyguard outside the house of nightmares that was his school.

  • That kid was bigger than all of us. All it would have taken was for him to smack the first kid square on the nose and his whole life would have been different. We would have had our cards marked - don't mess with the big kid.

    Visiting my home town in my thirties I saw him again on the village main street. Walking the streets alongside his mother, looking almost exactly as he did back then as a child. It was a bigger duffle coat though. So the next time you tell your kid not to hit back .....

  • Now, my daughter defends the kids being bullied at her school. So proud of her

  • My daughter was once bullied in school that night I had serious conversation with her. The next day when the girl approached her she pinned the girl up on the wall by the neck and beat the shit out of her. That was the end of her ever being bullied again. That conversation actually worked. Teach your children confidence and the rest they'll figure out on their own. That's what my daughter did

  • @anon985 believe me mothers of bullies sometimes wish that child was never born. They put their parents through he'll and embarrassment with their mental issues

  • Weaklings. 

  • u made me cry :'(

    ur right

  • kids who r abused and neglected at home may show signs of pervasive developemental disorders and may even be diagnosed by professionals as having ADD PDD Not otherwise specified Aspergers Bipolar disorder depression and the list goes on and on. ...but u get my point i think

  • u may b able to recognize a child who is being neglected and abused may smell, and may wear the same clothes every day cause maybe their parents wont buy them new stuff (even poor parents try to get resources for their kids, even if its help from neighbors and food pantries)their social skill will also b lacking because they dont know how to handle themselves confidently, because it was destroyed in them at home.

  • sometimes bullies at school target kids who r being abused at home. kids who r abused at home or who r neglected and not loved...they appear different...a little ragged looking and awkward. bullies pick up on this as a weakness. some kids get no love in their lives

  • @mathdude28 It's the kids that are getting abused at home that are doing it!

  • YOU MADE ME REALIZE SO MUCH GOD BLESS YOU. WHAT WOULD WE DO WITHOUT WONDERFUL PEOPLE LIKE YOU

  • @ VevaLovex Thank you so much! I wanted to reach out to as many people as I could...as a mom, I know how it hurts already for your child to come home crying for being bullied, but to come home and find them dead from taking their own life for the same reason...I can't even begin to imagine and dont want to or wish any other parent to experience that pain! Thank you for the love and I am glad I could reach and touch your heart! Thank you bunches! Muah!

  • my son is being bullied, he cries all the time, and says he thinks about suicide, and would rather go to heaven, than go to school. He is 10 years old. Thank you for your video, I am appauled that children are being driven to suicide by bullies and the schools are not helping at all, but blaming the victim.

  • @Mrsteddyz Thank you! I am so sorry that your son is going through this. It's unfortunate, but children are so cruel these days. Let him know that you love him everyday and do as you are doing and let him know that you are there for him no matter what. During times like these, where the bullies seem to win, the children who are being bullied often feel that no one cares about them and start to think that maybe the bullies are right. Have you talked to the school about what he is going through?

  • Thank you so much for the video! I was bullied since elementary until junior year of college, I really love your message & I really wish there were more people in this world like you.&a message to anyone who is being bullied, please know that it gets better , create a support system, doesn't matter if its 1 or million people &don't ever be afraid to stand up for yourself! Bullies are in actually weak and insecure people,with major mental issues.

  • Thank you for your message. I was bullied in school, and for a long time it continued on into my early college years..and I really wish these were more people like you in this world.

  • i used to bully people in high school cuz i am physically big and strong...haha you all are such pussies, if somebody kills themselves for it, they are a fucktard to begin with.

  • @anon985 Ehh?...well,do it to me you'll wake up with a fucking bullet in your head bitch go die.

  • @cuzzo820 u mad kid? u mad?

  • @anon985 No I thought it was funny because your gay lol.

  • @cuzzo820 ur a mad homo

    sucks to be your kind

  • NO! THE BULLIES DID NOT KILL ANY ONE THE "VICTIMS" DID! and i use that word lightly because they are not victims they are just weak and could not deal with it. Ive been bullied before and it sucked but i didn't kill myself over it, i looked my self in the mirror and said one day ill be successful and they will be washing my car or serving my food and that was enough for me so when i see this it i see it as their fault for killing them selves.

  • it breaks my heart that kids my age are killing themselves or that are being bullied to a point where they would want to take their own life. im 14 and i cant stand the thought that someone would have to resort to that. something needs to be done about it to make kids more accepting of others who are different than themselves...may god bless anyone who is in that kind of situation

  • i cried watchin dis coz i culdn`t handle it

  • my english teacher started talking about bullying and i realize now how serious it can be...thank you...i am in tears. God bless you!

  • @7MGEEZY U are very welcome, People needed to hear this. People need to be aware of how serious bullying and taunting can be and become. Thank you for your support and God Bless You too! : )

  • @busymother24 u r very nice and pretty and ur right bullying is very wrong and i bet when u were in school u helped the kids who got bullied :)

  • Busymother, there is nothing you can do about bullying. It has always happened, happens and will continue happening as long as we are humans. The issue is that now it is being more reported, that's all. You took two examples of bullying from the news and you have a lot of people listening. With all this technology, these cases are being more reported. The only thing that fixes bullies is overwhelming force, a 2x4 at recess time and after school. It worked for me once with a 6f. moron.

  • I am a high school student, two years ago I cut myself, and last year I tried to hang myself. I went as far as jumping off of the chair in the noose, but then I relized I didn't want to die, and I got out of it. I'm so happy that I was able to get out and I feel so bad for kids who go through with it, because after that I relized I dodn't have to deal with everyone treating me like this, I switched schools and now I'm very happy and made friends. :)

  • @laurenht I am so happy that things got better for you Laurenht! No one deserves to be bullied. It is a terrible feeling. Nobody understands that unless they have been bullied themselves. I am happy that you realized your self worth and got yourself into a better situation, which it wasn't your fault anyway. God Bless and thank you for watching and commenting! : )

  • @busymother24 I love this i love your realness your a very smart women i had to sub..

  • @HONEYLATINA Thank you HoneyLatina! That makes me feel so great abnd encourages me to continue making vids. I am glad that my vid touched you in some way! : )

  • Bystanders need to unite and chase the bullies away and must report any mischief to the teachers or some responsible authority, whether or not they do anything is a different matter. But at least it will be on record that someone or some people complained. The problem is that bullies often act when the victim is alone or separated from their friends or any neutral third party. That is how rapists, thieves and other criminals do their dirty work - like bullies.

  • this is so sad can't belive people are like this

  • sad

  • when i was in middle school i wuz bullied intill i told the vice princeipal"the next time he touched me i would would fight him......after i told him twice....the next day he touched me......i slammed his head into the locker and gave him a haymaker.....then the parents tried to sue me but he got kick out of dat school when i got in highschool the dude tried to jump me but they ran away when my 12th grade bro/friends came i laught real hard

  • At it wasnt a white kid

  • Lol

  • you people have no respect for this topic.

    you are very immature.

    Ok have a great long think, imagine how you would feel if someone bullied you?made yo feel scared,embarrassed,hurt and ashames.someone hurting you,on the inside (cyber bullying) & (physical bullying)

  • I knooo, its terrible.

  • i feel nothing

  • @LOLAIDSISFUNNY you should feel a punch to the head very soon.

  • LOL

  • LOL

  • LOL

  • @ClTIZEN wuts so damn funny

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  • lol

  • but of a pointless comment aint it?

    shut your mouth cock boy :)

  • I do not appreciate you calling me cock boy. You should really think before you say things like that, you could hurt someone's feelings. I can't believe how insensitive some people can be. You should be ashamed.

  • christ you sound like you've had alot of cock in your lifetime.

    you said lol about my comment so i said cockboy to you, end of convosation (:

  • Oh, so now you're bashing gays are you. That is exactly what this video is about. How immature. You are the exact type of person who causes these things. How far will you go? Until someone kills themselves because of you? How dare you? How dare you? How dare you?

  • your actually being really hypocritical..

    i said i had been bullied for 8 years and beat up by people for no reason when i was about 4, and you said lol and now your calling me a gay basher?..

  • You said that you beat kids up and scream insults at them all the time. You even said yourself that you hate gays. I don't even want to hear your malarky, you are the worst kind of person.

  • LOL, how pathetic can you get?

    why would i scream at little kids i love little kids, im not that type of person :)

    so stop making things up and stop commenting back.

  • You love little kids? That's disgusting. You're despicable. I'm contacting the authorities, because you just cannot get away with that. How do you look at yourself in the mirror?

  • yep (:

    im a 13 year old GIRL, i have a 5 year old newphew and cousins that are about 4 years old, your the sick one for thinking that, how can you look at yourself in the morning..

  • Well sweetie pie... I'm sure whoever you are talking about gets help from a mirror... With that said... Who are we talking about... I'm am extremely nosy... Nosy to the extreme.

  • " Until someone kills themselves because of you?" omg that would be awesome i would be so happy if the world had one less faggot because of me

  • @LOLAIDSISFUNNY your fucked and I feel sorry for you. Being bought up with out respect and morals. I hope you get fucked up one day. Even tough people in jail get bullied/raped. So whats your explanation for that idiot. They are still human beings at the end of the day. They still have feelings.

  • @LOLAIDSISFUNNY i know one less faggot and the faggot is YOU. We could use one less bully like you.

  • I watched both parts I think u should apear at school's and talk about this

  • i deffianlly agree!

  • @Kerstian10 That might not be such a bad idea. Thank you.

  • i watched both parts, mine r up now so go check them out

  • hey, i just finished watching ur videos about this topic. im STILL uploading mine

    but THANK YOUUUUUUUUUU for speaking about this topic

    i just think that somebody needs to do SOMETHINGGGGGGGG about it

    and ur video brought tears to my eyes .

  • Thank you sweetheart! I will be looking for yours. This topic is just..girl, just deep. It;s still goin on, even on the internet.

  • can i talk to you personally? i am a bullied child,,,,can we talk?

  • Wow, you get so deep when you talk and you are so intelligent and beautiful. It's not hard at all to be intrigued by you and what you have to say...please dont' stop making vids!

  • this is horrible..i know exactly how it feels 2 b bullied n school...i blame it all on the school teachers and administrators who does not do anything about a situation when a child is being constantly bullied...this type of thing happens day 2 day..thx 4 postin this vid

  • yeah im talking about the miramar high school in miramar florida... but that's not a small school... and poeple being bullied is not something we hear very often so yeah your right it happens everywhere.........

  • wow that's crazy.... but at my school which is miramar high school this girl was getting bullied so bad, and no one knew about it, untill she brought a nift to school and stobbed the girl that bullied her everyday in her face and across her eye..... and me being a senior in high school i would have never thought that we had bullies at my school. because it's miramar but you never know.....

  • Ur talking Miramar, as in Mirimar, Florida? Yeah, I hear it is a small place, if that's where you are talking about..but you just never know. It happens all over the world!

  • aww, i so understand. i lost a friend because of that too

  • omg mama dnt cry beautiful

    gud topic tho i witnessed this in ma skooh and a boi a couple weeks a go shot his self in the bois bathroom with a sawed off shotgun at a skool near by were i live... this shit do be sad yo...

  • Excellent vid...thanks for addressing this...on to part 2...

  • great vid...going 2 pt2

  • 3:45 i can :) lol.. seriously doe back in the day that was normal.. all these young parents not giving a flip until something drastic happens

  • nice topic redd!!! im feelin this i was too bullied

  • But yeah they are trying to come up with new laws about kids bullying each other so hopefully that stops some of it because when it comes to a child killing his or her self that's a problem because they haven't experience the full length of life because it's limited at suicides

  • Thank you so much for this video.Yeah

  • powerful n painful vid :(

  • This video made me cry.

    Wonderfull points.

    Great topic to discuss. Bullying should try and be stopped.

    Parents should talk to their children.

  • Thank you Love! Part 2 is uploading now.

  • im glade you did this topic..not many people i have seen have done anything like this!! it was sad to see you cry cause i understand wat you saying. i dont seeing kids begin picked on or made fun even today that im in high school. love this vid.

  • It's heartbreaking, so heartbreaking, I cried my eyes out, I had to keep cutting and editing this because it hurt me so bad.

  • You're definitely right. It's tragic for a mother to find their child dead in their room and having to cut them down because they hanged themselves in their closet. People should stop being cruel.

  • Great topic! I was bullied while I was in school. I was 6'2 at 11, called goofy, beating, but when I came into my body I made sure I got all of them back. I'm 6'6 now and the only one I haven't gotten back yet is a preacher now , but I'm looking for him, real talk!

  • It's sad, see how you didn't forget. I'm not sure if revenge would be the best thing now. And I am sure plenty women appreciate ur 6 footedness, so don't worry about the bullies. Move on and forgive them in your heart.

  • This is crazy. I just gave a presentation on this same subject in an emotional health class... The main thing i found, was how people give bullies power when they look the other way accepting it as a phase or a problem that teachers should deal with. This is not an acceptable behavior- yes behavior which means it can be changed.

  • yea this a very serious situation beautiful. i was just talking about this at work

  • omgoodness iknow personaly how this affects a family my son is 15 and he is mentally challenge is mind is 8 and the children were we live picks on him and he thinks that these children are playing with him but they are not and when i confront the parents of these children they are not better i even made several police reports and nothing is being resolved so im just going to move from where i live so my son can be at peace

  • I am so sorry that you and your baby are going thru that. Kids are so cruel and your poor baby doesn't even know that they are making fun of him! My son, my oldest, is behind for his age and the kids are cruel to him. It makes you want to tear them apart because you want to protect your child. I know so well the feeling. Hang in there and give your son a great big hug for me please!

  • This is such a great topic someone needed to break the silence and shed some light onto this matter.

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