Gladys knight sums it up........."neither one of us"....you know that song verbatum?....if not..listen to it...that explains me to the very last note.
@thefourfactors...you were pretty thorough on that one...BUT you didn't mention a factor being what if the woman was in the marriage for many years,and had basically become dependent upon the husband. My case being, no where to go. ..The question then becomes do I walk away in anger and possibly get nothing,or stay with the "accumulation" and continue to hurt.,,I chose to stay,the good days come ,my thoughts play games,but .....life is going on.
@coffEKolor That's a very valid point. There are always reasons not to leave like kids and perhaps your situation. But it is true that often the reality of leaving a bad situation is not as bad as the thought of leaving. Thoughts?
I've been cheated on several times because in my relationships I can't see them very often because my grandparents are very strict and don't believe in dating until women are out of college. In my opinion if one cheats you can attempt to get past it but you will never be able to forget about it and will always wonder if they are going to do it again, but you can sometimes get past cheating. Very good video it sheds some interesting new light on the matter of "cheating"
Us?...No i'll pass.thanks.This now sounds like a class of some kind.....The video is on my Channel...
coffEKolor 5 months ago
@coffEKolor just trying to have others benefit from one another's experiences. :)
TheFourFactors 5 months ago
Gladys knight sums it up........."neither one of us"....you know that song verbatum?....if not..listen to it...that explains me to the very last note.
coffEKolor 5 months ago
@coffEKolor could you share with us some of the lyrics?
TheFourFactors 5 months ago
@thefourfactors...you were pretty thorough on that one...BUT you didn't mention a factor being what if the woman was in the marriage for many years,and had basically become dependent upon the husband. My case being, no where to go. ..The question then becomes do I walk away in anger and possibly get nothing,or stay with the "accumulation" and continue to hurt.,,I chose to stay,the good days come ,my thoughts play games,but .....life is going on.
coffEKolor 5 months ago
@coffEKolor That's a very valid point. There are always reasons not to leave like kids and perhaps your situation. But it is true that often the reality of leaving a bad situation is not as bad as the thought of leaving. Thoughts?
TheFourFactors 5 months ago
I've been cheated on several times because in my relationships I can't see them very often because my grandparents are very strict and don't believe in dating until women are out of college. In my opinion if one cheats you can attempt to get past it but you will never be able to forget about it and will always wonder if they are going to do it again, but you can sometimes get past cheating. Very good video it sheds some interesting new light on the matter of "cheating"
TheVermillionGirl 2 years ago