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  • show us him playing

    not his dumb chinese face

  • @Bubbleheart3 are you really the one playing in "Wedding Demo"? Because in that case, you have no right to comment this kid's playing. you're in suzuki book 2 for god's sake. And you look like you're much older than he is.

  • i just 11

  • i guess i am better. and this was 4 years ago, so now he's probably like 14.

  • I'm not impressed. I'm a violinist, and I've been playing for five years and I'll be at that level in maybe a year or so. Not impressive at all.

  • @Bubbleheart3

    So just because you're better it isn't impressive? There are always people who do better than you do, so you don't mind if someone is saying that your play is not impressive?

  • @twinkl80 Actually, I don't. I know a lot of people are better than me. Anyway, I've been playing since I was five and I've heard the best violinists in the country and there are so many of them younger and better than he. I speak from experience.

  • @Bubbleheart3 why!? hes 10 god damb it! ph is it cos ur so inmature u cant take he's better or sumthing omg if ur not gunna post constructive crutisisum or a nice comment keep it 2 urself .

  • @Fibetie I'm not immature, I'm just a violin player who speaks from experience. He's not good, but he's not bad. And for God's sake, learn how to spell.

  • @Bubbleheart3 im spanish so i wouldnt realy know yhh and ohh yh hes 10 if u hadnt noticed and still u dont need 2 comment if u dont like it seriosly keep it 2 ur self... :P

  • @Bubbleheart3

    Do you speak fluently spanish?? I bet you don't! Not everyone lives in the USA. It is not the centre of the universe. Do you speak a foreign language? Fibetie does!

    Do you really think that 10 year old boy plays the violin because he wants to impress you? No he plays because he likes to play the violin.

    So get your violin and stop spamming the internet :p

  • @twinkl80 I'm taking Spanish, and I don't know about YOUR Spanish, but your English is kind of poor, but congrats on being bilingual.

    I know that the United States isn't the center of the universe, nor is it the center of the world. I rather don't like it here. I don't care whether or not he speaks another language. I play violin for the fun of it, too. I've been playing since I was five and I'm not about to stop because someone doesn't like it, and neither will he.

  • @Bubbleheart3

    hahaha u make me laugh. maybe ur not that good either so dont be jealous of other people talent.

  • @yykibum I'm not jealous. I'm just saying that he lacks in techniques. But it doesn't matter, because you're a talentless idiot that jumps to conclusions and wants to pick up a fight that's almost a year old.

  • wow this is better than some highschoolers. keep practicing :)

  • Why did so many people dislike this video?

    There are not many kids this age who are able to play like this..

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  • wow they just dont realize this kid is 10 years old those people that thumbed down expect like adult proness out of this little kid .... anyways putting that aside ur amazing =]

  • Nie wiem dlaczego.Ale. Na mojej liście będzie ciężko znaleźć nieskośnookiego.

  • Go ten year old violinest you are rockin it

  • his bow hand was too far high

  • i'm a ten year old and i play the violin too!i'm going to All City May 22,2010!SOOOOOOOOOOO EXCITED

  • TOTOY ANG GALING GALING MO NAMAN, SALUDO AKO SA IYO, i KNOW YOU ARE ASIAN AMERICAN OR FILIPINO AMERICAN , ANY YOU ARE SO GOOD, GOD BLESS

  • So many young kids a lot better than this,so bad at times that it sounds like a comedy record !!

  • the sound's so clean amazing job!!!

  • Amazing. I agree with Roberttimes100

  • Little will go far, with lots of good work !

    Good Job !

    Geza

  • Awesome.. greatness..ehehe^_^

  • he has a great technic even he is very young

  • lol always foreign. Its funny how their parents push them to get into stuff like spelling bees because they think it will earn them status.

    excellent violin playing for what its worth

  • This is excellent violin playing for a 10 year old, bravo kid. Dont let the bad comments get to you. They are just losers doomed to a life of shame and dissatifaction. A++ to you though

  • @Roberttimes100 I agree

  • Don't go around getting into bar fights Monti( unless you have no choice but to defend your pride and the honor of your lady love ),be mindful of your arms,legs and every fingers,for without it,you can never stand and play music ever again..

  • Monti my man !! that's beauuuutiful,thanks for a free show,love your tie budd.Practice !! practice !! practice make perfect...Rehidan you take that back,he doese not suck monkey balls !!! musicians are chick magnet dude !! especially classical musicians,we get all the classy ladies right Monti ???

  • thats good (for 10 years)

    :)

  • it makes me depressed knowing that im sixteen and i dont know how to play in such way... :(

    never the less...he is amazing!!! :D

  • guau tocas padrisimo.

    ¿a que edad empezaste a tocar???

  • How long have you been playing?

  • in what base you said I am weird? your are not me, you don't know what I want.

    When I was a kid, I did not know that spend all the time only hanging around, it's really wasting time. Now I know that I should have listened to my mom to practice more piano. My girlfriend has the same situation and the same thought.

  • I'm not saying you're weird.  If you actually noticed here, I'm currently having an argument with a separate guy, and the comment i made in regards to your post has nothing to do with him.

    And again, I'll reiterate - you can't SAY that you will enjoy piano/violin/whatever 10 years from now.

    For all you know, perhaps NOT doing something like that and instead just haging around may be more helpful - you gain social skills, which are useful in all walks of life.

  • I was hanging around with nothing, not with friends. That's why I think I wasted too much time for nothing.

    Now I love music, I want to do it in my life time. But you are saying something that discouraged me :( I know what I want, I know what is more important in my life

  • ARGGHHHHH!

    You just don't get what I'm trying to say here!

    That was the case with YOU, NOT with anyone else.  It just so happens that YOU want to continue with music and make it a career.

    What you CAN'T say, however, is that everyone else wants to be a musician. There would be LOTS of people out there who HATE being pushed by their parents, and who DON'T want to continue with music.

    Considering music is a very tiny profession, I'd be willing to be that MOST won't continue with it.

  • yah whatever.

    yr point does not apply to eveybody :p

  • ...that's exactly what my point is musique9999.

    That just because you want to pursue music as a career, doesn't mean that everybody else will want to.

    So, your point exactly?

  • it's the same logic---not everybody hated music in childhood, but just that children have no patient so they give up like what I did. I have many friends are like this, and there are billions of people out there in the world, I'm not the only one feels it.

  • In fact, it's not so much that most won't continue with it, it's moreso that most DON'T WANT to continue with it.

    And I never said something discouraged you, or that you don't know what's important. That was in response to a different guy.

  • umm..

    well im a korean violinist,

    my parents did indeed push me but only because they knew i had an interest in music...

    if i didnt like music they wouldnt have pushed me in the first place.. so in a way theyre facilitating my violin playing

  • That's partly what I'm getting at.

    What I dislike is how some parents (and I don't meanto discriminate here, but I see it most often happen with asian parents) push their children into all manner of things without the child's real, solid gruonded approval.

  • when I was a kid, my mom sent me to learn piano. Practices were boring, so I quitted. Now I just realize that how much I love music. I really hate myself why did I stop, and I complain to my mom, why she did not push me and let me quit so easily! otherwise I would be so good at piano playing.

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  • Just because you May like piano playing in the future, doesn't mean that you should continue with it. Reality is, you may absolutely hate it now, and that may not change as you get older.

    You can't assume everyone will like music as you do.

    Finally - you can't assume that you'd be 'so good at playing'. Playing an instrument is hard, and piano is no exception.

  • I'm a Chinese born in Canada. School is French, and few English. When I was a kid my mom pushed me to learn how to read and write Chinese, I didn't like it. But now I really appreciate because it's so useful!

  • If you're Chinese, in a french speaking country with a few english, why/how on earth is chinese helpful?

    But anyway - learning a language is somethng which potentially you can use anywhere.

    Learning a musical instrument isn't like that. Even if you really enjoy it, if at some stage you ever quit, it is unlikely that you will EVER need that skill, nor will it really help you in any way unless you plan on being a musician.

  • I have been back to China, and I loved it! I think I will go back and stay there for a while, so it's very helpful. I know nothing about music, but I think it's good to learn.

  • Well there you go. I can see how Chinese could potentially be helpful. But again, it's only helpful if you ever go to China - regardless of how many chinese people there are in the world, almost all of them are concentrated in China, so it wouldn't be of much use elsewhere.

    And yes - Music is good to learn. But it's hardly a life skill. Learning a language can help you in a wide variety of careers.

    Knowing about music, or playing an instrument, however, will not be able to do that.

  • i play the violin good

  • I play this piece too. and it soo easy. Even a baby can play it.

  • the kid is a mastermind genius!

  • who give bad coments in yours 10 years you pee in your bad and trued understand how 2x2 can be 4, but this amazing kid can play czardas !!!

    I think noone of you all in 10 years can do this !

  • FLAP AROUND...

    Like...MAD...

  • not bad, but this is gipsy music

  • Why overanalieze and judge everything as soon you are anonymous? To all of you that give bad comments to this young violonist: He is very good for his age! Not all need to be professional or young mozarts by the age of 10. HELLO He is 10. Everybody need to work on "something" either it is the vibrato, or the bow tecnique. No need to tell. Im soon 34 and to me he do impossible things on that instrument, and yes I have tried violin. VERY difficult!

  • quite bad....

  • Your parents should be either rich or powerful or influential to get you to such connection with famous people since you really suck....

  • ma che disastro;)davv bravo x la sua età.

  • very good for 10year old!

    but need to work on bowing :D

  • Just need, more dramatic vibrato, besides that, YOU'RE AMAZING! >:D

  • is he korean or something?

  • hi im 11 years old i play the violin iv played for ten years im doing devil's trill

    your good keep it up

  • me too!!!! :D yay!!!!

  • i played this on the cello!!

    and my sister played it on the violin!! it was cool it was our first concert TOGETHER.. we were always separated..

    my sis is 12 and she's amazin!!

  • The kid does great! He has put in a lot of work on this piece and deserves great credit for his courage to do it as well as he has ! I want to see all you kibitzers try this ! It is very hard ! Drive yourself nuts and try a THEREMIN ! It's is the same as a violin ! No keys or frets to mark the note frequency and it is all done by being PITCH PERFECT ! Which he is almost there 98 % of the time ! Keep up the Great work kid !!!

  • sounds like a cow moo-ing, hahaha, terrible tone

  • Oh!

    You are Good!

    Just to try a bit your sound!

    Good Job!

    Congratulations

    :)

  • i agree

  • this kid isn't too good. this recital is about 3 months too early for him; his notes aren't always articulate; he doesn't do too much dynamics either

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  • hes super super good, for his age.

    he is very skilled but he just has to get the feeling of the song,

    good job, keep practising

  • what a smart boy

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  • hes going faster than the usual speed. Still very well played.

  • I think he earns a better sounding violin. Teehee. It's kinda flat sounding.

  • sweet.nice for a little man ^^

  • rubbish

  • give the guy some credit, his ten for god's sake!

  • Yazzarh, I can't see how Yo Yo Ma fails to feel the music when he plays.

    The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves. -William Penn

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  • Well i am not being funny but he is only 10 years old!!! and he is amazing for his age!!! he will grow to feel the music in time why try to make a kid an adult these days at least he can play the peace!! and i think he will do fantastic when he grows to be an adult!!

  • He's ten years old and his parents are making him do this. Why don't you keep your disgusting, divisive, racist rants to yourself.

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  • Not many parents can do that as his parents do to him. Offering a child a natural life as wild stoneage boy is stealing his childhood, but making a child a genius is helping him to find himself.

    I think the same way tmullen28 thinking about you.

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  • Who knows who is confused? God knows.

    We do not know what subjects are best for a child, and we do not know how much is too much for him, how much is even pace.

    When the child is grownup, he can give his parents a proper judgment. Outsiders do not know the judgement.

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  • And yet precisely because his parents push him he knows gratitude later on. If parents really love their child, they should do waht they think will be the most help for him.

    Making the child's beginning years as difficult as possible? Yet i dont see the children with busy childhoods going out and doing drugs from boredom. They're the ones who grow up and because they know how to work hard, they are the ones that succeed later in life.

    Did you get your distorted views from your parents?

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  • THANK YOU. I may not use "torture and abuse"...but I'm still learning to be grateful for the "push" my mother gave me with playing.

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  • actually, i used to play violin when i was 6 and i hated it and eventually quit playing the instrument. i wished my parents would have forced me to play more when i was little because i deeply regret not being forced to play. a true high class family would have parents that forces their children to do something they believe what is best for them. so dont give me that double digit crap.

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  • If his parents don't make him do something, he would just set in front of tv or computer all the time, with chips & coke in hand. Mozart's dad made him to do music too!

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  • Mozart was pushed by his parents; Beethoven was pushed by his parents; all these brilliant european musicians are all started when they were 3 or 4 years old! if their parents did not push, we won't hear their name today. And they are not Asian, what you said about Asian is totally unfair, what about all these european musicians?

    About this boy, I don't think his parents pushed much, because he didn't play well. if his parents pushed more, he should be much better.

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  • TONS of kids below 10y old, r more advance than himi! I didn't say he's not good, I said for his level looks like his parent didn't push him. If u know violin better u'd know Czardas isn't hard. It also depands on how he wants: if he wants to play for fun, you're right he plays good. If he wants to do it as serious study, it's another story. Search these kids on youtube, your jaw would drop! Ladusa, margokoleva, jjparents, Gabriel Ng, uni323, Mosconcert, Gabrielle Chou

  • And you know what?

    Those kids younger than him would have had absolutely NO childhood whatsoever. They'll become an adult and have never had a friend at all. THOSE parents are pushy.

    Czardas is about a grade 6 piece AMEB. That's far too advanced for any NORMAL 10 year old.

    All those other players you mentioned are of the type who've been pushed far too much. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with professionalism, even here: but there's a time and a place, and not when your'e a child.

  • NO! my daughter is one of them, she practices 2h a day. She has tons of friends, she's busy on her facebook with a bunch of friends! She's in church every weekend. We go camping in summer, go skiing in winter. Just simply take 2h for violin from 5h of tv & computer per day, I don't see what's wrong with that! tv & computer = childhood?? nowadays that's the only things kids want!!

  • Oh boy. You have much to learn in terms of humanity, and even more to learn as a parent.

    Virtual, 'facebook' friends count for NOTHING. Why don't you let your kid out once in a while so that she can do and get some real life friends. I'm not saying what you currently get her to do is bad - but you could make it more fund for her too.

    Instead of maybe 5 hours in front a tv, why don't you let her take of dance or get some friends from school or something.

  • Maybe then it won't be so bad that you ask her to practise for 2 hours a day, and at least in the other 3 hours, you'll be able to see that she's getting something out of it at least.

  • If I haven't already commented on this, I'll comment again.

    Facebook does not equal real friends.

    Get her to go outside once in a while instead of forcing her to practise.

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  • Definition of pushing? in the pass parents held a stick standing behind kids, that's pushing. nowadays parents are just raise the voice a little higher, or almost beg kids, even ask to clean their rooms, they think they are being pushed...yah time changed. Just ask to stop watching TV or computer game, it's like killing them! There're so many ways and different level of "pushing", to learn how to be a parent is very hard.Now we only can talk to them on soft way, otherwise they would fight back!!

  • Ok, put it this way. This is why I generalised about asians before.

    I have known asian parents in the past who have put pots of boiling water on their children's head for not doing well in an exam or not getting a certain spot in an orchestra.

    That's pushing. And I'll say right now, that the children whose parents they were had similar talent to these prodigies.

    Therefore, surely I could assume that, NATURALLY, these guys were pushed HARD by their parents?

  • now u talk the past again?? Paganini's dad hit him for good; Beethoven's dad slapped him caused his deaf! Classical music must start in early childhood, this is European concept, Asians learn from them. Nowadays Westerns stop doing this, because they want easy money, working hard is not an option! nowadays we guide kids with patient in soft way instead of sticks. Don't judge Asian parents arbitrary! I smell that u hate parent, and you hate Asian! I judge you the same way as u did, how do u feel?

  • It's called 'analogy' that allows me to use the past as well as the present.

    And if your'e one of the parents who beats their children, then you should be tossed into jail. Just because other parents have done it doesn't make it right.

    And no, classical music DOESN'T have to start early. Just because it was done that way 500 years ago, doesn't mean that it has to be done that way today. Back then children HAD nothing else to do than get taught. These days, circumstances are different.

  • And westerners I supopsed have learned from asians that easy money is good money.

    No, we shouldn't be driving our children with sticks, and you should be metaphorically shot for saying so. You're the exact type of asian parent I'm talking about, so no, I'm NOT just judging you abitrarily.

    Yes, I dislike asians, and yes, I dislike asian/pushy parents. And I feel fine, thankyou, because I have a clear conscience after saying what I said.

  • 1. in the past, Asian punish kids in serious way, western beat kids too.

    2. to push kids into music, western created it, Asian just copy the path.

    3. Nowadays we don't push kids by beating them, we guide them, educate them in soft way.

    4. her friends in face book are REAL friend in school and church.

    5. I always ask my kids to play outside, but they rather set in front of tv & computer! All parents in the world would have the same situation.

  • 1) And are you saying that beating your kids is good? There's a reason westerners stopped doing it.

    2) Westerners created that path, and then stopped it, because they realised it was wrong. You guys need to do the same

    3) Exactly how it should be done

    4) She would have more fun with her friends if you allowed her outside the house every now and then instead of making her practise

    5) Do more than ask. Just like you make your children practise, make them play outside.

  • 1. I already said that we educate them in soft way, which eye u see that we beat kids?Westerners stopped it, Asian stopped too

    2. u said in the past kids have nothing to do,but why Beethoven's dad didn't ask him to play outside with friends?

    3. What's different things kids can play in the pass & nowadays? it's tv & video game. it's so addictive,kids don't want to do anything else!

    4. u've seen Asian parent push kids hard for music, I h've seen Westerner beats his kid because he's drunk!!

  • 1) I've seen asians beat their kids, WHILST SOBER. There's my evidence.

    2) I've already talked about this issue. Times have changed. Back then, there WAS nothing else to do but practise.

    3) Nowadays, all you need to do is introduce your children to a different activity outside, and they will enjoy it. Always.

    4) Situations like that, unfortunately, are ones which westerners are trying to eradicate. So should asian parents.

  • 1 u've seen bad Asian parent,I've seen bad Western parent too. u can't be too subjective,bad things do happen everywhere,not just in Asia

    2 Times have changed,why u mentioned that Asian parent put hot water on kid in the past?

    3 I've said I do bring them outside.Asian kids go out even more. In Asia, all basketball courts are jammed from 6:00am to10:00pm,it never happen in states

    4 Asia &Western are totally different cultures, whenever there's conflict,u'd never say who's right & who's wrong

  • 1) I'm saying that I see it far more with asian parents, and often it's arisen from a completely innocent origin

    2) I think you're getting confused. Back in the ANCIENT past, in the time of mozart and beethoven, all kids did was practise because that was all they could do. Back in the past 2 YEARS AGO, the parent I'm speaking of put hot water on his child's head.

    3) I can guarantee that that's not the case in America. And further - why can't you be pushy with your children outside... (cont'd)

  • 1. why mozart & beethoven can't play outside with friends?

    2. I saw the western mom slap she kid LAST WEEK!

    3. you can't guarantee of anything, there're so many cases of child abusing in newspaper of America. (cont'd)

  • I had written a reply tyo this, but it's been lost, and you know all my answers to this anyway.

  • Basically your idea of how to threat kids is right, but you have to know that Asians are not like what you think anymore. Ask more Chinese if the kid is the king in the family, most of them would say yes.

    Few bad things do happen even in the west countries (it happens everwhere in the world), but it doesn't mean to present its whole country.

  • The kid may very well be held in high honour, but that doesn't give you the right to force him into stuff.

    Take the accepted, moral, and COMMON way of western teaching, which is to show a guiding hand as a parent, but DON'T DON'T DON'T force your children into anything they don't want to do.

  • I already repeated so many times that I always bring my kids out, are you blind?

    I already repeated so many times that Asians totally changed, are you blind?

    I already said I kids practice 2h a day, you even said it's not bad, now you forgot?

    I find your brain function disordered, you need a doctor. or you are the one who's idiot!

  • Quite obviously, if I was blind, I couldn't read your comments, you idiot.

    1) Stop having a regimented life. Your kids need to have spontaneity, and need to decide for THEMSELVES that being outside is good

    2) No, asians haven't changed, and you CANNOT ARGUE with that. I HAVE SEEN MANY asians fit their cultural stereotype

    3) 2 hours per day, before the age of 15, is too much. And if your teacher requires it of them, then your teacher is a heartless bastard.

  • One final comment to you. I want to stop this argument.

    You need to learn how to speak English. Stop trying to criticse westerners, call ME, an AUSTRALIAN, an idiot as well as gullible when I obviously know far more about this than you and also can speak english better than you.

    I'm a med student. No, my brain is not stuffed up, and I know I'm intelligent. The same can't be said for you.

    You don't need a doctor, you need a psychiatrist. To teach you what's wrong from right, FOOL.

  • FINAL--

    u don't believe Asians changed, that's your problem. I don't believe westerns stop abusing kids either.

    you mind too much of somebody's business!!

    you faulty accused & criticize & attack other culture due to you don't like it!!

    you are trying to convince that you know Asians better than Asians ourselves??

    Think of all these, clearly there's something wrong in your head. I'm trying to explain for what is not true, nothing wrong with me. SO BACK OFF PLEASE! FOOL

  • I never said either that you had to divulge any personal information. You did it voluntarily.

    FINAL from ME:

    Yes, I dont' believe asians have changed, but that is because of WHAT I HAVE SEEN. Comparisingly, I DON'T see westerners beating their kids alot nowadays.

    Again, I wasn't mindnig your business - you chose to divulge all that stuff.

  • I'm not falsely criticising your culture - yes, I may dislike it, but that doesn't make me racist - I'm pointing out its flaws and discrepancies. That doesn't mean 'criticising', that's called making an opinion of a matter.

    I'm trying to tell you that what I have seen of asians IS INDEPENDENT of what YOU have seen of asians.

    If you actually listened/watched what I have been writing, and if you actually learnt the English language, you'd see I'm right.

    Go away, fool, and end this argument.

  • yes you are falsely criticizing my culture, and there are flaws and discrepancies in westerns, too. what you have seen, can't represent the whole culture. My English may not be good, why don't you write in Chinese? at least my head is clearer than you. I'm defiance here and you are the one attacking!! SO BACK OFF, FOOL.

  • If I have seen it happen, and this wasn't just an isolated incident as I have either seen or heard about it in NUMEROUS examples from COMPLETELY DIFFERENT people, then yes, this isd a correct representation of your culture, or at least, what you guys do in western countries. So hence, it isn't false criticism, you idiot!

    No, your head is NOT clear, because you BLATANTLY CONTRADICTED yourself there. Just because I'm attacking you doesn't make you more intelligent or your head more clear.

  • 1) Becase that's not what happened in those days, Disease was rampant and you didn't want your kids to be running around

    2) So? How many more times does it happen in asian countries?

    3) Sure, alot of cases.

    Should I remind you, though, of the amount of asian parents who don't only abuse, but KILL their kids when they do something wrong?

    (there's my late reply to that question)

  • my kids show their facebook to me, they are all real friend in church & school. don't think you know everything, especially this is other people's stuff!

    you said "DON'T DON'T DON'T force your children into anything they don't want to do"? what if they don't want to do homework? if they play video game 12h non stop, eat only chips & coke? if they smoke, drink, drug, stealing? if they "DON'T WANT TO" stop these, can I stop them?

  • You are not only an idiot, but you are also very gullible.

    Having been a child in this day and age of technology (which you obviously HAVE NOT been), I can say that children know how to find ways how to hide things. And who are you to say that any of the friends YOU KNOW she has on facebook are actually nice people, for instance, from school and such?

    And you should read what I said. I said don't force your child INTO anything.

  • u've said 2h a day is not bad, now you say it's too much?? what happen to your head? after kids come back from school at 3:30, to bed time 10:30, they play whatever they want for 4h, 2h for practice, what's wrong? My kids friends in facebook, most of them are my friends' kids in church. All of us go church every weekend, we know each other very well. I tell you this because u said there's no real friend in facebook. Why do I have to tell you all these which is not your business?

  • Depending on your child's age, 2 hours a day can be either too much or just right. Nothing 'happened' to my head.

    But considering you said 'child', I'm assuming possibly around the age of 10-13, and 2 hours per day is FAR too much AT THAT AGE. I originally assumed your children may have been 15 or 16.

    And if you looked at my post, I said that your children MAY have come unsavory friends on facebook, which they have just hidden from you.

    Children know how to do that.

  • If you're trying to force them OUT of an unhealthy activity, then that's fine.

  • (cont'd)...just like you are with their music? All you're being is biased towards musical practise.

    4) Yes, they are completely different cultures. However, as you've said often, that if Asian cultures follow the Western and European example, then you should continue following it and stop pushing your kids so hard, and beating them for it.

    And yes, I would be willing to say who's right and who's wrong.

  • (cont'd) 4. I do bring my kids outside, HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE TO REPEAT?

    5. I said Asians have stopped beating kids, HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE TO REPEAT?

    6. so I would be willing to say who's right and who's wrong too.

  • As above.

  • so you agree what I said.

    you dislike Asian which drives you to an incorrect judgment, racist would never talk about humanity in fair way.

  • No, I dont' agree with what you said.

    And I'm not intending to be a racist here.

    You're just an idiot.

    Asians push their parents too hard, and THAT is a stereotype which has been supported by YEARS of observed fact.

  • What u take about Asian was in the past, so as westerners. I think u are old and haven't gone out to see the world for a very long time.Chinese spoil kids instead pushing, they've changed about 20 years already. my younger brother is 10y younger than me, my parents treated us in totally different way already. u need to go out and see to world, don't just setting at home thinking of how great westerners are and how bad Asians are. say u are not racist, who believes that??

  • Old?

    You say that you're a parent.

    Without a doubt I will say that I am YOUNGER THAN YOU. Within MY LIFETIME, I HAVE SEEN THE STEREOTYPE OF ASIANS BEATING THEIR KIDS, TIME AND TIME AGAIN.

    No, you DON'T spoil your kids instead of pushing. You may spoil them, but YES, you push your kids, and FAR too hard.

    Yes, current western morals are RIGHT. Current asian morals are WRONG.

    I'm not racist. But you are an idiot, and there's no denying that. Anyone reading this could see that.

  • u said "Stop trying to criticse westerners", I did not but you are the one who attack Asians here! you said you are not blind, but you didn't see what I repeat "Asians have changed already". I grown up in Asia, All my friends are Asians, non of us is like what you said. you are trying to say that you understand Asians more than me? who is an idiot here?

  • You've said numerous times (and you say later on in your posts) that westerners abuse their children! That, whilst it may be true, is no where near as severe as asian parents beating their children for (example) gettng bad grades in school or doing bad in a violin exam.

    And I don't CARE what you say - I am simply telling you what I have SEEN, and that is not something you can disagree with. I have seen asian parents beating their children for no apparent reason or trivial things.

  • tell you a truth: 20y ago in Asia, teachers used wooden stick to hit students' hands when they didn't do homework; nowadays students punch teachers because teachers talk too loud!!

  • I highly doubt that that is the case, because then the children would be going into chinese jails.

    And yes - I may dislike Asians.

    But that doesn't mean I can't give you an unbiased breakdown of WHAT I HAVE SEEN asians do, AND ARE STILL DOING TODAY, which westerners DON'T DO.

  • I have been living in the Western country for 20ys, I've seen enough. You have seen what you said, and I have seen what I said. What you said that never happen to any of my friends family (about 20 in western countries, 20 in Asia). the percentage of what you see is very small, just like what I have seen that how westerners abuse kids. you do not know more Asians living in western countries than I do, I'm able to speak about in a greater capacity than you.

  • Just because it hasn't happened to your friends doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.

    And regardless of how few the amount of asians are that hit/abuse their children over trivial things, it still happens.

    Let's do a comparison:

    Small amount of asians - Abuse their children after bad test results by putting boiling pots of water on their child's head. Unjustified.

    Small amount of Westerners - Abuse their children after doing something wrong, whereby the parent hits the child. Justified.

  • so now you admit that western parents are also pushing their kids hard into music, now you admit that Asian and westerners are alike. you said "I may dislike Asians which lead me to make judgments - but these are only unfair from your point of view". But my point of view are "Asian and westerners are alike", and you just admit it.

  • See my below comment.

    I think they're different, as i have elucidated many a time over this argument, but you think differently. Leave it at that.

  • remember, you STARTED FAULTY ACCUSED ASIANS FIRST, you should know that "replying" is passive, is an effect from something came in the beginning first. Who started the war should stop first.

  • I never falsely, and faultily accused asians at all.

    I accused them of doing things which I saw happen EVERY DAY. There is NOTHING false about that.

    I made a comment on this video, commenting on asians.

    YOU

    THEN

    REPLIED

    TO

    ME.

    Can I make that ANY clearer. No, you didn't 'passively' do anything, you blatantly and with in intent clicked 'reply' ACTIVELY.

    Clearly, I whislt i might have provided the ammunition, I didn't start the war. That was you.

  • what you have seen do not happen everyday, and it happens to anywhere in the world. you see? that's why I said you faulty accused Asians. And people don't like Asians, can't give comment fairly!

    I clicked 'reply' because someone hit me!

  • Where I live, I only EVER saw these situations happen with asians, NOT with westerners, and it didn't happen so infrequently that i could just dismiss it as random chance. So no, I wouldn't think that things like this occured to every people group in the world.

    Therefore, I did NOT falsely accuse asians - I simply recorded what I saw. And just because I might dislike sians doesn't mean that I hate them and can't give an unbiased report of them - you're just trying to invoke sympathy there,

  • I souldd be much older than u, I've seen things more than u, but the thing you saw that I've never seen in my live. I've seen many bad things happen everywhere,not just in Asia.Because you don't like Asians, that makes u judged unfairly. In USA,if a whiteman doesn't like back, then he can't never say a good word to a blackman; In 2nd world war, Germen dislike Jewish, what happened to the Jews then? I don't want to claim that u are like them, but think about it, n stop saying bad things to Asians

  • Your final comment just shows that you're stupid and you lack a knowledge of history. No, often white people who had a dislike of blacks talked to them ALL THE TIME (ignoring slave communication here). Your anaology of germans + jews is also ridiculous - that's comparing genocide to general dislike.

    Just because I dislike asians doesn't make me a Hitler of Asians. It means that I'm a Human Being with my own personal preference on things, which neither you nor ANYONE ELSE can or will change.

  • I'm allowed to say as much tripe as i like about asians so long as it isn't racism, which none of this has been.

    It's called voicing your own personal opinion, and I'm entitled to that, considering I live in a western country.

    And if you don't like that, go to somewhere where they might sympathise with your ideologies to you, like back to your communist government in China.

  • What have Asians done to you? Has our mere existence done any injury to you? Have one of our people stolen what you deem to be your rightful place? I do not object to much you are saying, but I take offense to the idea that Asian parents beat their children on a regular basis without reason. Such an idea is completely unfounded and without reason.  I know at least a good three dozen Asians, not counting those in China, and none were beaten. I can guarantee that.

  • To me specifically, no, asians haven't done alot. To westerns in general though, yes, of course they have (WW2 anyone...). Nor indeed have I had anyting stolen from me.

    But that's not the point I've been trying to get at. I haven't been trying to say that asians randomly beat their kids, nor that asians are somehow extra violent (although it may be the case). And indeed, I have no doubt you know many 'good' asians who have never beaten, nor have been beaten by anyone - many of my own...

  • Asians have a very unique disciplinary means. Beating children is not included, in fact, it is probably a good indicator of a bad parent rather than Asian society itself. I know for a fact the overwhelming majority of Asian families work on the principles of Confucius, that is, that failure should only be regarded as a learning experience, lest it happens time and time again. Typical Asian discipline is going over what was done wrong and getting across the message it should not happen again.