if anything this teaches you how to be fake lmao.... but if that's what being social is all about... then i'll stick to being real and being by myself. i'm not gonna force myself to get along with people that don't interest me.
@funkick3 Try to show genuine interest in others. When they tell you something, question them, ask why and how. it works great for me. Today i seen a cute girl who was in my class some time ago. She usually greets me and i greet back. nothing more. but this time i didn't worry about the outcome and just asked her a few things like how she's doing. As she talked, i kept smiling and listened carefully, showing genuine interest. I never had such a long conversation with a girl.
I've got a question, what should you do if you want to meet someone who looks nice,but has very little presence and basically only talks to her friends?
Give a good impression, talk about regular stuff, (ehm, could be anything, ask their interess, talk about music, sports, animals...what someone would like to become after school, ect) and if you talk to someone that you like, but don't know well, DON'T ask something too personal. It might scare the other person.
this is kayla thanks for all of ur comments even all the rude ones that you guys posted and im srry for the family slaughtering. cant rlly blame me that you have nothing better to do than listen to a video u dont even like to those it didnt help. hope you found one that did help bc w attitudes like yours u dont rlly have much going for you. this was just a senior yr class assignment you guys r way tooo serious about it i wouldnt waste my time if it wasnt for a grade....... but thanks:) ttyl
Sometimes it doesn't work. The only time I made true friends who liked me for who I really was was when I stopped giving a shit and I just started being myself. But that was when I was in the psychiatric hospital and I never saw those people again. Crazy people only get along with other crazy people.
@MizVanity Wow.... it's like you took the words right out of my mouth! =( lol, i felt exactly like you... i do normally, because i just have this introvert problem.. =( i just can never really talk much haha. and i am also a little crazy, i talk about weird stuff, cuz thats what i like.. never get good results... when i was little it happened as automatically as breathing though... i dunno what happend =[ umpffff
but wouldn't you also wanna be a little more social and with friends etc? i always feel like a loner because friends don't invite me to things as much as other people because i'm kinda introvert and don't talk too much =( im also shy and don't join in with fun until i really know the people.. together those 2 are fatal ='<
i know this is for school , but peopple are taking it seriously, is it just me or r people so dumb that they need youtube to make them social. by the way its basically something ur born with. but anyways, nice video
some people have real trouble with talking... it's not that easy for everyone, especially when you live alone or are left alone much... but you obviously don't know about those kind of things much, because you think in a little box
im not a very socialble person i thought this would help. But it help me a little o well now all i have to find out is what to talk about with ppl then see what to say to girls
lol ahhh that's my worst problem.. to find SOMETHING to talk about... the thing is, you have the WORLD to talk about, but it's still the hardest thing =/. I wish you luck!
umm..yeah. So you ask unsocial people "how are you", the answer is 2 words. You listen to some1 who has nothing better to talk about than WoW, and finaly, if you loose something that was important, "You will get another" is not helping much. I am not a social guy, but if this is being social, no thanks. Nice effort though
Um, it's not that hard for a girl like you to be social. In fact, I think when you were born you were social. But when u grew up and had tits, you became more social. Guys are different socially so this probably won't help me. Probably help some goth girl though.
Good job on this video, and props for not casting yourself as the star. The Kayla did a good job as the lead. I teach social and dating skills for a living, and this advice is solid.
A few more tips:
- Don't waste time trying to turn people who dislike you into people who like you.
- Work on yourself and build an interesting and attractive life.
- In real life, Kayla should have invited you to join her and her new friends at the end.
This was pretty fun to make. I only got a short shot with Kayla. All I got to say was "What do you want" and "Hey baby whats up, wanna hang out on saturday" I mean come on!!!
0:53 Hey Jesus!
RunsLikeaNose 3 months ago
great video!!! love it
buysocials 4 months ago
if anything this teaches you how to be fake lmao.... but if that's what being social is all about... then i'll stick to being real and being by myself. i'm not gonna force myself to get along with people that don't interest me.
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Can i rate it FAIL?
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@funkick3 Try to show genuine interest in others. When they tell you something, question them, ask why and how. it works great for me. Today i seen a cute girl who was in my class some time ago. She usually greets me and i greet back. nothing more. but this time i didn't worry about the outcome and just asked her a few things like how she's doing. As she talked, i kept smiling and listened carefully, showing genuine interest. I never had such a long conversation with a girl.
Fjerid 9 months ago
I tried all this. didnt really help. sorta. like 2 other people talk to me but dont have an actual conversation.....
funkick3 9 months ago
I've got a question, what should you do if you want to meet someone who looks nice,but has very little presence and basically only talks to her friends?
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@calastiur u kidnap them...
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you must be a friend to make a friend unless you re f**ken cool
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.... the guys all look like dickheads
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They're from Alabama. :)
ClamChaoderFTW 10 months ago
2:00 LOL
Ykcin978 11 months ago
Lol.
This happens to me i try to say hello to a big group of people and they just look at me.
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cool.. er... gona try these out... getting tired of being a computer nerd... -_- . That World of Warcraft kid is me haha.
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Give a good impression, talk about regular stuff, (ehm, could be anything, ask their interess, talk about music, sports, animals...what someone would like to become after school, ect) and if you talk to someone that you like, but don't know well, DON'T ask something too personal. It might scare the other person.
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this is kayla thanks for all of ur comments even all the rude ones that you guys posted and im srry for the family slaughtering. cant rlly blame me that you have nothing better to do than listen to a video u dont even like to those it didnt help. hope you found one that did help bc w attitudes like yours u dont rlly have much going for you. this was just a senior yr class assignment you guys r way tooo serious about it i wouldnt waste my time if it wasnt for a grade....... but thanks:) ttyl
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this video helped me.
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Wow. This was better than what I was expecting. That world or war craft guy was the funniest part.
Perryshotter 1 year ago
say "hello" to my little friend xD
7419635841635 1 year ago
what the heck is wrong with those people at the table LOL!
Popcorn3436 1 year ago
Sometimes it doesn't work. The only time I made true friends who liked me for who I really was was when I stopped giving a shit and I just started being myself. But that was when I was in the psychiatric hospital and I never saw those people again. Crazy people only get along with other crazy people.
MizVanity 1 year ago 5
@MizVanity Wow.... it's like you took the words right out of my mouth! =( lol, i felt exactly like you... i do normally, because i just have this introvert problem.. =( i just can never really talk much haha. and i am also a little crazy, i talk about weird stuff, cuz thats what i like.. never get good results... when i was little it happened as automatically as breathing though... i dunno what happend =[ umpffff
tanya9nithreus 1 year ago
@tanya9nithreus thanks wish u luck as well
SNIP3RJKS 1 year ago
@SNIP3RJKS thanx ;D lets hope this'll go the good way =P =)
tanya9nithreus 1 year ago
@MizVanity lmao
sueannwashere 1 year ago
who gives a crap ! lol i feel better alone anyway
semoo201 1 year ago 15
but wouldn't you also wanna be a little more social and with friends etc? i always feel like a loner because friends don't invite me to things as much as other people because i'm kinda introvert and don't talk too much =( im also shy and don't join in with fun until i really know the people.. together those 2 are fatal ='<
tanya9nithreus 1 year ago
lol omg
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girls dont need to be social, theyr already social when theyr born or they dont stop talking, guys need to be social so you could fcuk :)
Baldoxxx4000 2 years ago
i know this is for school , but peopple are taking it seriously, is it just me or r people so dumb that they need youtube to make them social. by the way its basically something ur born with. but anyways, nice video
mad4mints 2 years ago
some people have real trouble with talking... it's not that easy for everyone, especially when you live alone or are left alone much... but you obviously don't know about those kind of things much, because you think in a little box
tanya9nithreus 1 year ago
2:15 haha is there a retainer or 3 in his mouth? pimp fosho
i think she laughed at him too lol
Silnego 2 years ago
im not a very socialble person i thought this would help. But it help me a little o well now all i have to find out is what to talk about with ppl then see what to say to girls
SNIP3RJKS 2 years ago 3
lol ahhh that's my worst problem.. to find SOMETHING to talk about... the thing is, you have the WORLD to talk about, but it's still the hardest thing =/. I wish you luck!
tanya9nithreus 1 year ago
umm..yeah. So you ask unsocial people "how are you", the answer is 2 words. You listen to some1 who has nothing better to talk about than WoW, and finaly, if you loose something that was important, "You will get another" is not helping much. I am not a social guy, but if this is being social, no thanks. Nice effort though
lakdav 2 years ago 4
Um, it's not that hard for a girl like you to be social. In fact, I think when you were born you were social. But when u grew up and had tits, you became more social. Guys are different socially so this probably won't help me. Probably help some goth girl though.
VagabonNinja 2 years ago
she's cute
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keithckh123 2 years ago
Quite a helpful video : ) Thanks!!
TheNearEnding 2 years ago
Hahah xD
Gonamez 2 years ago
I actually find this quite helpful! thanks! :)
heartachescream 2 years ago
LMFAO!!!!! WTF!!!! HAHA!
darkangel0362 2 years ago
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Glitch667 2 years ago
A girl who looks like that would most likely not have social problems...
SuperKpill 2 years ago 43
i totally understand...im so sure that a bunch of nerds would ignore her
themachinegunn 2 years ago
@SuperKpill haha well said
RealRoach321 2 months ago
HAHAHA WoW xD
jesuislepluscool 2 years ago 2
Love it~
ahjohn86 2 years ago
this is a great vid! it explains so much
Minan3 2 years ago
great vid i like it n great acting!
dscales3 3 years ago
goood video, keep on posting such video!!
roshini57 3 years ago
miley cyrus did broadcasting class?
ninjaelmo 3 years ago 3
the part where the guy was crying u no i asked a person that was crying once and he told me to @!#$ off and its none of ur buisness! lol
heavyjob17 3 years ago
Good job on this video, and props for not casting yourself as the star. The Kayla did a good job as the lead. I teach social and dating skills for a living, and this advice is solid.
A few more tips:
- Don't waste time trying to turn people who dislike you into people who like you.
- Work on yourself and build an interesting and attractive life.
- In real life, Kayla should have invited you to join her and her new friends at the end.
Keep making good videos.
Jason
SchoolForSingles 3 years ago
This was pretty fun to make. I only got a short shot with Kayla. All I got to say was "What do you want" and "Hey baby whats up, wanna hang out on saturday" I mean come on!!!
LIVESTRONG72005 3 years ago
Thy for puting this video, thy, now I can be more social with ppl. =)
lionelbethancourt56 3 years ago
cmon! shes too cute to be not social!
joetheazl 3 years ago
HaHaHaHa
Good goin Kayla.
firstlook321 3 years ago
GREAT!, now they can all have a nice gang bang.
KC4815162342 3 years ago 20
notice how she fixes her hair in the end doesn't really help sorta fake
jkag123 3 years ago
"Be confident" should of been one of them
EvilAcolyte 3 years ago
Holly shit, she is an alpha!
XD
Get it, she made a gang.
pitviper71 3 years ago
there needs to be like a dance at the end.. that would be hella cool
ktvdinoboy 4 years ago
I think we did a good job...
LIVESTRONG72005 4 years ago 2