The song was actually written for his Mom, not a girlfriend. That's the whole reason he put a voicemail that she had left him in the beginning of the song. He wrote it for her after she helped him to get sober because of everything he put her through. He wanted her to just hate him instead of caring so she could finally be happy again and move on with her life instead of being hurt by him constantly. The song is self explanatory. And I completely understand why he felt this way after screwing u
@PtFurious im 13, in good physical health and i can easily relate to this song. Life sux, but we all knew that so it goes unspoken. Ppl insult my type, use us in thier sick jokes, and shove our families names face first into the ground, yet i shouldnt relate? Im not bitchin at you, but u deccide if ur gonna take that statement back
I don't think it's about his mom, it could also be about a girl that his with and wants to leave really bad but doesn't know how. because of how much she's done for him and how much she understands and supports him, but his hearts not with her for some reason and wants to leave, I can totally relate to it, and It made me cry too, I might listen to it twice I haven't cried in a while
You can make the song out however it pertains to you but the truth is the song is about a broken relationship because he was drinking and the girlfriend continued to stand by him and help him. When he was cured of his alcoholism because of her, he left her to find himself and because he feels she can do better. He wants her to hate him so that she can see he was not right for her.
I love the song, the words are so touching. I bet half of us don't really listen and understand the lyrics, so much as to relate someone of even ourselves to it.
i heard this song when it first came out but i could never remember there name the i heard there new song a couple of days i just freaked out when i saw they did this song
Wow haven't heard this song since I was like five I use to listen to it in the car with my mom all the time this song makes me want to cry brings back old memories from when I was little.......
Woah, haven't heard this song in way too long. Just woke up today and thought "hang on what's that song that I used to listen to all the time by Blue October?" lol
this song reminds me of a bad time but its still a good song tho..... and yeah i hate you thanks for postin this on ur wall i knew it was for me....so yeah i could let you go....
@ sispf2, what is wrong with you? Telling people to kill themselves.? Thats messed up, Cyber-bulling is a crime.Why don't you grow up because picking on people shouldn't make u feel better and if it does u have some serious problems.
This song is about watevrr it means to u mybe blue October had a meanin for it but don't bitch at others who have there own theory of wat the song is about
@15schick obviously it's not directed at his parents, that would be fuckin retarded and the song would make no sense, or at least not nearly as much as if it were between a very loving couple
I'm sure no matter how far away u drive your loving parents wouldn't get u off their minds. I love this song at first I listened to it as two lovers then I realized it was for his mom which was rlly sweet. either way I love it
i kinda grew with this song so i kinda like it...im 14 when i was younger a friend gave me a cd with ONLY this song and he said this was me and that this cd was my life...i was maybe 6 at the time i grew up and i have the lowest selfeseam in my family and they dont make it anybetter. i have a friend and hes tryin to help me get better and i love him for it..but this is "my song" so i cant let it go and i aint goin to.
yeah he wrote it for his mum. but everyone can see something different in it and it means something different for everyone. So some think about their mothers and some about their love when they hear it.
but honestly the most important thing is that they just enjoy the music, thats what I think.
you all are fucked. but i like this song, makes me feel sad and i like that because we all have to feel sad once in awhile to make us feel human again.
I love this song... it reminds me of my cousin... when I left Arizona, he told me to enjoy my new home, where I wouldn't have to worry about a drunk father, or having to worry about having a place to sleep at night... he did. Three years later his remains are under our feet... and his soul above and around. R.I.P Dominick Alexander Baily.
You're all so pissy about the meaning of the song. Every person is impacted in a different way, for the singer it's his mom, for other it can be old friends or ex's. It all depends on who you are and what your view point is.
I love this song! The first part is about him killing himself and the second part is why he did it, it's such a sweet song. It makes me think about all the mistakes I have made xxx
Beautiful song. I love this song so much. It just reminds me of everything Ive done wrong. Of whats best for him, even if he cant see it, this is the way its got to be.
This song is about all the people he has hurt, including his mom in the audio you hear she really isint dead he is having tea with her at the end of the real video and this song was mention for his ex girl friend, so she can get over him and to say sorry but then he realized more than that that it was about saying sorry to all the people he hurt mainly his mom and his ex I know all this cause I just went to there concert yesterday.. Lol
It's about his mom... just listen to the words.... And they use to have a video with his mom in it,and all the flashbacks he had when he was young...But the vid is not on YouTube anymore.... Sadly.... It's a really good song I agree, but try listening to dirt room, and, into the ocean.... There really good songs too..... =^__^=
This is for the girl I love, I told her over and over I loved her, she took it wrong and does hate me this song is a great fit for what is happening between us if u guys got any advice on how I fix this PLEASE TELL ME
@Brian shut 4 real u gt Nothn better 2 do bt say shit online ur a loser we both know face 2 face u wouldnt do shit u virgin geek I'm sorry I have a live fag
Samirboodan...... you know you spell will like that, not well.... you spelt it wrong twice?? and months... compliment... the spelling is terrible, if you going to put up lyrics, please check your spelling.....
You know I've fell in love a few times and I was always the one who got hurt cause I was the onley one that was commited... I've been cheated on I've been used and I never ever sheded one tear over any of my heart breaks. Even though I was hurt I just looked at it as a chapter in my life and never thout about it again. I can't reamember the last time I cryed. But my dad always sed crying is for the week and ever sence then I never cryed again. I don't know why ppl cry cause it is kinda week.
I fell down yelling "MAKE IT GO AWAY! Just make the smiles come back and shine just like it used to be!!" And then she whispered "...how could you do this to me...?"
Mommy, can you please stop leaving. when you stopped coming home. I need my momm back. Please be sober and clean again. i will never trust you ahgain after bring a kid home that isnt dads
I have never done drugs but this reminds me of someone in my life that i never thought did drugs. everyone knew it except me, but now everything is all okay. But it was just a reminder how life can be so dam hard and shocking!!!! In my other life i had it pretty good whoa!! that was an eye opener when it hit me....Now i have my awesome man who we have a beautiful baby boy and all because i stuck around to help him thru this hell hole. by the way i am 40, this was a miracle for me. there is hope!
this song reminds me so much of my life.. it hurts it had to happen this way but shes happier with someone else now even if im down here on the ground
@Spazm1021 i kno how you feel man..your so happy shes happy but its the one thing that makes you down more then anything you thought could. i talked to an old friend that would never open up when we were close.. and i kno shes not happy but who am i to say she isnt...all i want is to be the one that makes her happy and she never gave me that chance.
great song! check out the real band by typing in "blue october hate" me and go to the jimmy kimmel vid... and please subcribe and check out my vids!!!!
The song was actually written for his Mom, not a girlfriend. That's the whole reason he put a voicemail that she had left him in the beginning of the song. He wrote it for her after she helped him to get sober because of everything he put her through. He wanted her to just hate him instead of caring so she could finally be happy again and move on with her life instead of being hurt by him constantly. The song is self explanatory. And I completely understand why he felt this way after screwing u
BreaAnnaB 6 days ago
@PtFurious im 13, in good physical health and i can easily relate to this song. Life sux, but we all knew that so it goes unspoken. Ppl insult my type, use us in thier sick jokes, and shove our families names face first into the ground, yet i shouldnt relate? Im not bitchin at you, but u deccide if ur gonna take that statement back
MrBuckHarvester 1 week ago
No top comment wtf is this place *sulks under a bridge*
ADridez431 1 week ago
Your timing is off, and you misspelled some words. Next time, check your spelling, and don't do a halfassed job.
PtFurious 1 week ago
I think that 13 is far too young of an age to be able to relate to this song and Overweight, also...
a76137 1 week ago
When I listening the song again,
I touch again...
YEAHSpongebob 1 week ago
This song has such memories
neilsbiatch 1 week ago
I know exactly what this song is about
Hollypip17 2 weeks ago
its always awsome 2 know your not alone
crazybeach05 2 weeks ago
I like this song for ever like I was 6 now I am 15. It helps me through hard times. When I first heard it I was hook. I love it :)
sexybabycookies 4 weeks ago
I have the entire song memorized!!
WhiteWingedWolf101 1 month ago
I don't think it's about his mom, it could also be about a girl that his with and wants to leave really bad but doesn't know how. because of how much she's done for him and how much she understands and supports him, but his hearts not with her for some reason and wants to leave, I can totally relate to it, and It made me cry too, I might listen to it twice I haven't cried in a while
godsrealdeal 1 month ago
You can make the song out however it pertains to you but the truth is the song is about a broken relationship because he was drinking and the girlfriend continued to stand by him and help him. When he was cured of his alcoholism because of her, he left her to find himself and because he feels she can do better. He wants her to hate him so that she can see he was not right for her.
reetskeetreet 1 month ago
@reetskeetreet Its about his mom.
ItsSuperBadass 1 month ago
This song mes me cry every time I hear it
AmandaLovesA7x93 1 month ago 2
@AmandaLovesA7x93 I know what you mean :\
Desichan2332 1 month ago
I love the song, the words are so touching. I bet half of us don't really listen and understand the lyrics, so much as to relate someone of even ourselves to it.
ILoveEddieFurlong 1 month ago 2
I really love the lyrics of this song but i think a band like all time low should cover it c:
123MIESS 1 month ago
@123MIESS Because thats the only way a band like that can sing a good song.
ItsSuperBadass 1 month ago
My new favorite song. Haven't heard it since last June, I found it going through my old mp3 player' love it!-3
GinnyxoxoDawn 1 month ago
I luv this song
lhuvinnMe 1 month ago
When I heard this song for the first time I cried
Alexiabarnes97 1 month ago
When I heard this the first I cried
Alexiabarnes97 1 month ago
i heard this song when it first came out but i could never remember there name the i heard there new song a couple of days i just freaked out when i saw they did this song
fairysandpixies 1 month ago
i love this song.check me out on youtube!!!!@BigYellowRubberDucky
Frazierc1990 1 month ago
This song is the best I'm listening to it from my I pod touch
BigYellowRubberDucky 2 months ago
This brings back memories ¥_¥ I feel like I'm about to cry..
Datsdalaw 2 months ago
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I love this song
Bellaitaliana43 2 months ago
Wow haven't heard this song since I was like five I use to listen to it in the car with my mom all the time this song makes me want to cry brings back old memories from when I was little.......
Taryn47186 2 months ago
Woah, haven't heard this song in way too long. Just woke up today and thought "hang on what's that song that I used to listen to all the time by Blue October?" lol
AnimeLiam 2 months ago
12 people dnt knw wat good music is
eminemfan19961 2 months ago
This is my life... And my dads... It really sucks...
zyxwputable 2 months ago
So awsome and sad ; )
insaneclownfreak1234 2 months ago
I love this song -3
Recoveringred9 3 months ago
this song reminds me of a bad time but its still a good song tho..... and yeah i hate you thanks for postin this on ur wall i knew it was for me....so yeah i could let you go....
Anja210683 3 months ago
This song is fckin awesome! q.q
NanakiWillDaRein 3 months ago
@NanakiWillDaRein
damn right!
mrssiggi78 3 months ago
You should learn how to spell because you just ruined a great song.
Revivedmayhem 3 months ago
great lyric, great sound... yes, that`s music :-)
SunPepe 4 months ago
Gosh. Twiggy. Just. Having. Fun. Do. You. Need. To. Be. Rude.
Charlieroxs13 4 months ago
Lyrics are just fine. An it's the music that matters. I don't like people who find every little thing imperfect
Charlieroxs13 4 months ago
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Gardner2639 4 months ago
ahh man...this song brings back memories </3
GOFproductionCo 4 months ago
Vampire, kill urself first plz. This video sucks. At least get the gd lyrics right.
slspf2 5 months ago
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Gardner2639 4 months ago
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@ sispf2, what is wrong with you? Telling people to kill themselves.? Thats messed up, Cyber-bulling is a crime.Why don't you grow up because picking on people shouldn't make u feel better and if it does u have some serious problems.
Gardner2639 4 months ago
@slspf2 screw off at least he tried
Spottedwinglove 4 months ago
This song is about watevrr it means to u mybe blue October had a meanin for it but don't bitch at others who have there own theory of wat the song is about
theycallmelocket 5 months ago
hate me i no longer care. my self esteem hasdropped like a stone. i still have the will to fight. challange me and youll be brutally killed.
VampireDude111 5 months ago
@ Charlieroxs13:
Don't. Copy. Me. Bitch.
K. Thx.
You. Know. You. Love. Me.
TwiggyThunder 5 months ago
I'm. Glad. You. Think. So b
Charlieroxs13 5 months ago
This. Song. Is. Incredably. True.
TwiggyThunder 5 months ago
@bananaknife87 no they are correct this song is about the death of his mother. If u were a true blue october fan u would know that dumbass
420buttholesurfer 5 months ago
I love this song
9wesy 5 months ago
This is a cool song but when is someone gonna put the real song like with cursing
wrecklessredifined 5 months ago
This was the song that took my blue oct virginity!;)p been a fan ever since...xxxx
kellyangelbee 5 months ago
@15schick obviously it's not directed at his parents, that would be fuckin retarded and the song would make no sense, or at least not nearly as much as if it were between a very loving couple
Bananaknife87 5 months ago
I'm sure no matter how far away u drive your loving parents wouldn't get u off their minds. I love this song at first I listened to it as two lovers then I realized it was for his mom which was rlly sweet. either way I love it
15schick 6 months ago
i kinda grew with this song so i kinda like it...im 14 when i was younger a friend gave me a cd with ONLY this song and he said this was me and that this cd was my life...i was maybe 6 at the time i grew up and i have the lowest selfeseam in my family and they dont make it anybetter. i have a friend and hes tryin to help me get better and i love him for it..but this is "my song" so i cant let it go and i aint goin to.
stella275ful 6 months ago
@twiloholic
yeah he wrote it for his mum. but everyone can see something different in it and it means something different for everyone. So some think about their mothers and some about their love when they hear it.
but honestly the most important thing is that they just enjoy the music, thats what I think.
Kekskruemel14 6 months ago
you all are fucked. but i like this song, makes me feel sad and i like that because we all have to feel sad once in awhile to make us feel human again.
lotsofindians 6 months ago
@NixyThePixy sorry dude.
ezi011 6 months ago
I love this song... it reminds me of my cousin... when I left Arizona, he told me to enjoy my new home, where I wouldn't have to worry about a drunk father, or having to worry about having a place to sleep at night... he did. Three years later his remains are under our feet... and his soul above and around. R.I.P Dominick Alexander Baily.
NixyThePixy 6 months ago
@NixyThePixy that was deep bro @____@ my condolences
x3papabearx3 6 months ago
@x3papabearx3
eh im not a bro, im a girl dearie... and thanks.. i think...
NixyThePixy 5 months ago
You're all so pissy about the meaning of the song. Every person is impacted in a different way, for the singer it's his mom, for other it can be old friends or ex's. It all depends on who you are and what your view point is.
TheReapersChildren 6 months ago
I reallly miss my best friend.
</3 ):
NewYorkcitychicc 6 months ago
I LUV THIZ SONG 4 MY FRIEND ANGELO!!!
lori32r3ina 6 months ago
Oh my god. Guys! This song ISN'T a love song! That is song against suicide!
When you dont know what suicide is - this is a self-murder
90Wahoo 6 months ago
I love this song! The first part is about him killing himself and the second part is why he did it, it's such a sweet song. It makes me think about all the mistakes I have made xxx
TheChocoholicxx 7 months ago
i miss my best friend sooo much </3.
FlyingPopRocks 7 months ago
Beautiful song. I love this song so much. It just reminds me of everything Ive done wrong. Of whats best for him, even if he cant see it, this is the way its got to be.
JokerzPrincezz 7 months ago
How does if contradict itself?
faisalhussain94 7 months ago
Soo cool.
Lolman323s 7 months ago
i swear this song contradicts its self its shit
maggie2random 7 months ago
This is my mama's song =/
ThatFuckinLiliy 7 months ago
this son gis my life right now :/
72life97 8 months ago
this true in my life right now :(
72life97 8 months ago
This song is about all the people he has hurt, including his mom in the audio you hear she really isint dead he is having tea with her at the end of the real video and this song was mention for his ex girl friend, so she can get over him and to say sorry but then he realized more than that that it was about saying sorry to all the people he hurt mainly his mom and his ex I know all this cause I just went to there concert yesterday.. Lol
HiddenFLY 8 months ago
@dipdive20
It's about his mom... just listen to the words.... And they use to have a video with his mom in it,and all the flashbacks he had when he was young...But the vid is not on YouTube anymore.... Sadly.... It's a really good song I agree, but try listening to dirt room, and, into the ocean.... There really good songs too..... =^__^=
tokillistolove 8 months ago
Hey can someone explain to me what this song means? I mean I kinda get it
But then I don't. Love the song tho
DipDive20 8 months ago
Love this song!
zsefv0928 8 months ago
I absolutely LOVE this song! One of my favorite songs ever!
MissaAnne01 9 months ago
i would have liked this song better if the singer guy had a deeper voice... i still like it, dont get me wrong
yugvf 9 months ago
Why the hell would they take this video off of Youtube!!!???
TheScottism101 9 months ago
@ForeverYoungXP yeaaah I just had that happen to me too :/
jbsnumbronefan 9 months ago
Onelife94
I fuckin agree.they couldev just shut there mouth.love blue October till the end of the benidict society
reyreykk666 10 months ago
k the part at the end fuckin kills the mood.
onelife94 10 months ago
@lilmegaan I feel exactly the same way, I fell in love wit a player, so u can only imagine how things went down
ForeverYoungXP 10 months ago
Wait what version is this I have the Foiled for the last time version where she says HEY JUSTIN over and over at the end
RamTerritory 10 months ago
Love this song! I've had it memorized for 5 years now!
dekead 10 months ago 2
My ex. I'm still in love with him. He's happy now, though I wanna be 6ft underground. :'(
lilmegaan 10 months ago 2
for my mum, who was there through it all even though I never deserved it. hate me so you can finally see what's good for you ❤
onelife94 10 months ago 2
I can relate to it... :'(
gta864 11 months ago
This is for the girl I love, I told her over and over I loved her, she took it wrong and does hate me this song is a great fit for what is happening between us if u guys got any advice on how I fix this PLEASE TELL ME
starwarsfan5001 11 months ago
This is for my mom and all the things me and my brothers put her thru.. Drugs fuck up your life
moneymakinhoez 11 months ago 2
@Brian shut 4 real u gt Nothn better 2 do bt say shit online ur a loser we both know face 2 face u wouldnt do shit u virgin geek I'm sorry I have a live fag
David119Drh 11 months ago
I love this damn song,,
Tiffany20ga 11 months ago
Samirboodan...... you know you spell will like that, not well.... you spelt it wrong twice?? and months... compliment... the spelling is terrible, if you going to put up lyrics, please check your spelling.....
01chine 11 months ago
@01chine
"spelt" - you're retarded.
mhswrestler125 10 months ago 2
You know I've fell in love a few times and I was always the one who got hurt cause I was the onley one that was commited... I've been cheated on I've been used and I never ever sheded one tear over any of my heart breaks. Even though I was hurt I just looked at it as a chapter in my life and never thout about it again. I can't reamember the last time I cryed. But my dad always sed crying is for the week and ever sence then I never cryed again. I don't know why ppl cry cause it is kinda week.
Mrfolgers69 1 year ago
I fell down yelling "MAKE IT GO AWAY! Just make the smiles come back and shine just like it used to be!!" And then she whispered "...how could you do this to me...?"
CustomFib 1 year ago
"I fell down yelling make it go away"
yamaharider175 1 year ago 2
One of the most depressing songs ever, reminds me about a childhood friend who moved away. Never got to see her.
Shrumins 1 year ago
you have completely butchered these lyrics, nevermind the spelling
Roguestatus33 1 year ago
Mommy, can you please stop leaving. when you stopped coming home. I need my momm back. Please be sober and clean again. i will never trust you ahgain after bring a kid home that isnt dads
Gummiebear1932 1 year ago
I have never done drugs but this reminds me of someone in my life that i never thought did drugs. everyone knew it except me, but now everything is all okay. But it was just a reminder how life can be so dam hard and shocking!!!! In my other life i had it pretty good whoa!! that was an eye opener when it hit me....Now i have my awesome man who we have a beautiful baby boy and all because i stuck around to help him thru this hell hole. by the way i am 40, this was a miracle for me. there is hope!
csejpagne 1 year ago
this song reminds me so much of my life.. it hurts it had to happen this way but shes happier with someone else now even if im down here on the ground
Spazm1021 1 year ago 21
@Spazm1021 i kno how you feel man..your so happy shes happy but its the one thing that makes you down more then anything you thought could. i talked to an old friend that would never open up when we were close.. and i kno shes not happy but who am i to say she isnt...all i want is to be the one that makes her happy and she never gave me that chance.
xrebelution420x 10 months ago
Love is a bitch it don't truly xsit disney has it all wrong lol
David119Drh 1 year ago 3
@David119Drh xsit? What is that? What language are you speaking? Have you ever been to school?
BrianMcD86 11 months ago 11
kicking shadows ON the street xD
but very good work ^^ thumbs up ^^
NTDavid93 1 year ago
Until I saw your blue eyes cry and I held your face in my hand
And then she whispered “How can you do this to me?”
YOUrmypal68 1 year ago 2
great song! check out the real band by typing in "blue october hate" me and go to the jimmy kimmel vid... and please subcribe and check out my vids!!!!
Steph87478 1 year ago
lyrics arent that good
Zackxpk 1 year ago
My stepdad...
I was literally torn from him.
My moms dating some one else,and things aren't looking any better.
I still cry for him.
lelumba 1 year ago
Awesomest song evrrrrrr
werewolvesbite98 1 year ago
mom :/
dumbrunetteblondes 1 year ago
It's so emotional to me..
I lov tdiz song
Diz is one of my favorite
Nam93able 1 year ago
This song makes me cry. And it's all because of my dad.
riotmaker44 1 year ago
this song is quite emotional.... Blue October is a really great band
AphroditeNyx 1 year ago