Another step toward better dating life - stop overanalyzing!

[df393]

this is so true. if someone enjoys your company, you should know, and won't need to analyze.

[mrjleo77]

love the videos! thanks!!

[The11ddd11]

OMG! Such a relief after hearing this. Thanks :)

[Kquee]

Oh my god. Thank you.

[ngadid]

You give really good practical advice. Thank you.

[samweller96]

Yeah girls. It's not breaking the law to call guys first. It tellls us that you're thinking of us.

[LegendaryTrickShot]

thank you sir!

[XmarksDaSpot1]

In simple terms....who gives two shits about what other people think

[sammy6593]

Hey man so true. Thanks this really helped out

[ProDaterJoshuaPompey]

over analyzing can def get you into trouble..the key is being prepared and knowing that you are in command and in control of the situation

[arterialshadow]

Overanalyzing = story of my life -.-

[2112mike]

makes a lot of sense. i tend to do that..and it doesnt really end up working. thanks for the advice!

[tafka100]

Its actually of no use to try to figure out what the other person is thinking about you, just have to do what you want and see how she/he responds.For a long time i tried to predict what a girl is thinking, "does she like me", "second date or not" etc, i dont even get it right 50 % of the time.So always try to go for it, otherwise you will forever think "what if ".

[raymondleeleggs]

I want to over analise women...

[monsterhunter891]

I´m a 13 year old student from Mexico and I´m completely the opposite of a great man. I´ve watched your videos for hours and they are really helpfull. Just one question. If you aren´t an interesting person like in my case, should I learn something like jokes or a magic trick perhaps? You are a great man. Keep it up. ^_^

[halitosis321]

You are right that's some good advice

[UAJAKE82]

very helpful....thank you

[gansta432]

Does anyone have some big tips and advice to get this over analyzing problem out of their head? Hell even a full guide with a step-by-step on what to do would be nice.

[zxcvbnmjfjf]

typical want your looking for answers when there are non there may be tips for more self confidence but all in all its just you, even if you sit next to that girl and dont makje a move just saying high or having a small conversation is fun, give your self alittle pep talk and let the girl sort the rest out, cant be afraid of rejection or nothing wll ever happen for you buddy, hope this helped

[Smileb1b]

The first step is to admit it to yourself and to recognize that you do this. I have the same problem. I also know when I am doing it because I recognize it.

[theREDmolecom]

As someone who teaches and has taught for years in the Dating and Seduction community, I have to say it is refreshing to see someone saying things like this. People get confused as to 'going for what they want' and walking over people - rather than going for what you want driven by you and seeing if that opportunity can be shared. Now there are things that will help, like technique that will help manifest your ideals, but ideals should always be kept in the forefront of the mind.

[alexiswes]

I like how your ears are all pointy.

[Everclear51]

10 STARS!!!

[patililu]

i would love to find a natural boyfriend like you.xx patty london

[RosstaPharian]

Great advice.

[Zac6230]

seems logical but most women are arrogant uselss cunts. easier said than done

[RosstaPharian]

lol. sounds like you have some less-than-useful thought processes going on in your mind about women.

[alexiswes]

Yeah we are. And no you're not getting any.

[Zac6230]

oh i am, im just paying for it like you

[alexiswes]

0.o you should be careful, STD's and that sort of thing...?

[blinddiver]

haha...so what, biatch! i dig this seat!

[duysoccer1]

ty dude uve change my life

[kobbachatero21]

agree

[spanishjointdos]

And others will sense that things are natural when you are acting like yourself too. Even if you are very different from another person, you will still connect more being yourself than trying to conform to them

[spanishjointdos]

I like this guy. He seems real, unlike so many of the other trained zombies that preach the same worn out methods over and over.

[scoobysnacksyume]

That'sa very bad habit In which I have..."overanalyzing.* Got to break out of it. :) Thanks for the advice.

[sfenou]

Thank you.

[purpleplasticcup]

uhhh...this is the best fricking advice ive ever gotten in my life. not kidding...at all. seriously ur amazing

[samazn20]

True, really true. I seems to be more friendly to the cute girls that i'm not romantically interested in than the one that i am. She's in my class and sat behind me and i never spoke to her except one time when she was outside of classroom i introduced my self and i said hi to her at her work place. What a surprise my friend is also work there with her too. Anyone go any advice?

[THEcuntofthecunts]

You could make your friend talk to her, and make you sound super cool! Then she will already have a positive impression of you when you ask her out and more likely say yes...

[ShaolinSoldier90]

i think people need to be a little bit more "selfish" because it keeps us from thinking and caring what ppl might think bout u...

being selfish isnt necessarily a bad thing if viewed from a different perspective like u mentioned in this vid

Intense vid bro!!!

[diablo45661]

why do they take my pics down and not hers?

[SoulfulTimez]

this is 100% on point.

totally agree.

[c0laa]

wow amazing, thats so true... I should stop worrying about things too much =/

It's actually really bad in a relationship when you make assumptions based on how u think the other person thinks and ure often the one who suffer eventually...if not the other person as well

[bootman5301991]

thank you your right

[azamussik]

i kinda was veryy very sceptical about ur videos.. cos they seem'd way to perfect, but hey i saw some more and you got a very gud advices. I got one thing: when women get very very emotional (anger, tears and etc) boyfriend is mainly facing it. what wud u do, as a woman not to involve your man in your emotions when he is always around?

[crossface67]

paralysis by analysis

[lionheartninja]

instead of saying thank you after you finish your thought you should say "Your Welcome"

because this helps a lot =]

[1x2xtri]

Hey ho

I'm a girl from Germany and I'm sixteen - it doesn't seem to be an age you really think of when you are talking about relationships between men and women. But I'm interested in psychology and what you teach helped me to overthink many things, to recognize many situations which are perfect examples for what we SHOULDN'T do(cause I couldn't find a perfect couple to show me the opposite yet).

Thanks for your courage and for your help. And excuse every grammatical mistake I could have made.

[arkady39]

Thanks for your kind words,and I am glad you find my videos useful.

[osmanca]

Du schreibst besser als manche Amerikaner ;)

Ich mag diesen Typ; im Gegensatz zu vielen Mentoren dieser Art legt er Wert auf gesunde und langfristige Beziehungen. Ich habe schon einiges über die häufigsten Fehler gelernt.

[asianwannabeamerican]

@1x2xtri Your English is really good for someone from Germany. Welche Sprache ist deine Muttersprache? Dein schriftliches Englisch ist sogar besser als viele Amerikaner. (Verzeih mir, wenn mein Deutsch schlecht ist. Ich habe schon vier Jahren in Deutschkurs gelernt aber mein Deutsch ist noch schlimm.) Wie lernst du Englisch? Du muss eine fleißige Schulerin sein. P.S. Deine Grammatik ist fein.

[beautybabeasdf]

I enjoy watching your videos

thank you!

I like how your videos don't only help men and they are helping me stop over analysing and preventing me from the things i want the most

[tedimeadboy]

You are soo right about the over-analysing! I was thinking about it the other weekm when I was with a girl I like, I wanted to hold her hand and have done before but part of me was thinking...what if she wriggles free? Thankyou =]

[bigr33d]

this is so simple and it works on not only a dating level but also in your relationships with other people friends, family to focus on my interests and wat do I want to achieve instead of worrying I like that that

Thank you

[arkady39]

Thanks.

[nocjosh]

What I have to stop doing is thinking that it's wrong to flirt with women. I'm sort of uncomfortable with talking about sex and stuff.

[arkady39]

Exactly. That would be a very important step.

[nocjosh]

Question: What caused you to want to make these videos to start with?

[arkady39]

Several things - overcoming my own adversities and the desire to share some of the effective ways to do that, observing people around me and analyzing, and realizing the importance of learning to become better at dating, among other things.

[JPMx24]

I have to say. I just subscribed to your channel and I've watched maybe 10-12 of your videos and haven't really found anything that I disagree with. I have always had success with women yet I constantly want to improve myself and get ideas to make my "game" even better. Your advice is simple and to the point, unlike these PUA's who constantly overanalyze and basically have scripts they memorize, etc.. Great videos. Keep it up and I will keep tuning in.

[arkady39]

Thanks a lot. I appreciate your kind words and your admirable desire to not stop improving. Keep up the good work and don't forget to check out my site for more useful information.

[pobrema]

this one is a great video of yours!!!

the part of "you should be proud" really made me think from a new way!

(trying to watch all your videos here!)

Congratulations!

[arkady39]

Thanks. Take your time. It's better to watch a few videos every day so that you have a chance to think about what you hear and absorb it better. There are over 115 videos for you to enjoy. :)

[misjaimee]

thnkyou

[arkady39]

Thanks!

[misschica51]

true. So true.

[arkady39]

Thank you!

[adeart72]

I like your advice. But let me ask you, between men, and as a man of Russian decent, do you find that American women in general are much harder to deal with and put up more barriers to meeting men than women from other countries?

[arkady39]

Hi. I am sorry. I hear that this is the case, but I don't have enough experience dealing and observing women in other countries so I would hate to say anything without having first-hand knowledge. I do find that women are very different even in various parts of the US and even in various parts of California.

[lksdaklsad]

be proud :-/