Hiya slobs! liking the new pad, dahling!!..when's the moving-in date and the house warming party?? Loving the lawn...anyone for tennis? Tell your man to tell my man and we can set a date to play, yah, yah! Please remind Jeeves that I only use yellow tennis balls......& need all my raquets re-strung....& whites starched!
@RemiEsther Oh, once you get past the security clearance you can phone my man for an appointment, ha ha! Did you see my clip, I KNOW I'M ANNOYING at this party? It was really fun snooping in their kitchen. Guess what, they have a boring fruit bowl like everyone else in France! I have a clip up here of a maid I ended up teasing but I hadn't meant to, nice little Filipina women. I really got "up there" many times, especially last year. It was a crummy year but I had some fun, ha ha!
@RemiEsther I am not big on tall, slim blonde men but this waiter, a top model they told me, part of the staff, had a wicked little smile! Hee hee hee hee! Yes, one should never mingle with the help . . . (oh, wait a minute, I've BEEN in service, ooops!).
@slobomotion ...hahaha!! Well cuteness aside dahling, the man was carrying a tray for pete's sake!!!! And can he re-string a tennis raquet?? Or advise one on one's backhand? Or..oops, yes also getting a bit carried away there. SERVANTS rule! Yayyy! Where would we be without someone to pour milk on our cereal in the mornings..???
@RemiEsther As a girl, I told my mother I'd like to be a maid when I grew up! She seemed VERY puzzled by that. I didn't mind being a "mother's helper" at all really when I first moved to NY, although those people were very creepy (it depends on whom you work for). A huge eye-opener was my slave, Angelo Pastormerlo, and then marrying into a super rich family who stingily shared a single servant. A sign of the super-rich in the USA? They own a STATION WAGON. I am serious!
@CuteCatFaith ..Yeh I totally get that. It's so weird too....One servant!! Oh the poor guy, bet his pay never met the national minimum either!! I was an au pair in Belguim in my early 20's, with a very wealthy family; their youngest daughter had one blue dress, which I washed overnight & put on her again the next day!!!! The grandmother had a Lambourghini!! (Which she drove us to Luxembourg in & fell asleep at the wheel!!!!)...that's a whole other story though, lol!!!!!
@RemiEsther Yes, Viva was some sort of illegal alien, the family had homes & apartments all over NYC & Connecticut, & the driver would take Viva from place to place for a day. It wasn't even a full-time driver, I think it was a KMart employee. (My former father in law was the cofounder of KMart.) I was never given pocket money & had no handbag. I could charge things. I was a downtown person and had to swipe the laundry coins to get a bus ride down to see my friends! No handbag = very rich.
@CuteCatFaith ...swipe the laundry coins!! Slobs that is so mean...! One hot summer day, the housekeeper for the old ladies I used to look after, offered me a glass of orange juice after I arrived all sweaty & tired. I actually saw the old lady's lip quiver as she held back from reprimanding her!! The housekeeper was really cheeky & always spoke her mind...and if the old lady annoyed her, she would spend hours getting the shopping & come back with only half of it!!
@RemiEsther My first spouse was angry and jealous that I went to a job and university daily and couldn't stay up all night with him at S/M clubs. That is funny about what happened to you, and sadly typical. I used to go out and charge prime meats and fancy produce and carry them down to the Lower East Side and show up and present the bags to surprised friends whom I knew were hungry and poor, then turn right around and leave. I was in over my head!
@RemiEsther They were quarters by then, ha ha! Thousands were flying around monthly. I'd come home from school to find a whole NEW batch of 18th c. furniture in the apartment! It was most unsettling. When I left, I took nothing and asked for nothing and they wouldn't even let me continue to see the shrink I'd had to start seeing and at least get refills on my pills. Going off them suddenly had me suicidal for at least a week. Really nasty people. The friends were tickled, tho!
@CuteCatFaith ...sounds like you had a lucky escape I think. One of the late Queen Mother's servants and 'friend' was given a large 'grace & favour' apartment in The Mall from her, which he lived in for over 25 years until her death when it was suddenly demanded back by the Royal Family. Almost overnight he found himself homeless and jobless and had to shack up on his friend's sofa!
@RemiEsther Yes, actually, the father, the late Arnold Bachner, cofounder of KMart Corporation, begged me to "go to a hotel,"(at his expense) but I refused and went and slept on the floor of a friend's apartment the first night. The second night, a rich friend paid for one night in a modest hotel room, and by the third night a friend with an out of town job installed me in his Brooklyn apartment. I stayed in that building from 1980-1994. It was hard but I was better off on my own.
@slobomotion ...think you were right to refuse the hotel Slobs! Best to make a clean break in situations like that...sometimes there are 'strings' attached and who needs the hassle, eh?
@RemiEsther Hard to say! I ended up having to work in the sex industry. Divorce is a leading cause of this type of entry. Fortunately, I had a great employer and it was a positive, liberating experience for me. Dealing with my first set of in-laws was just a horror. I don't know how they could live with themselves after what they did to me!
@slobomotion ....it's good to hear that your experience in the sex industry was Ok, I think for a lot of people it's the last horrific resort. Unfortunately divorce is not the only reason people consider the sex industry as a career, I think child abuse is the main one. After all, if you've spent your life at the hands of a paedophile, the sex industry probably seems like a blessed relief....AND you get paid on top!
@RemiEsther I have a primal fear of being immobilized, I am very claustrophobic, which is why I was a top bondage model for so many years. It was like, CONFRONT WHAT SCARES YOU THE DEEPEST. Do it! I don't like to be touched, so the sex industry was necessary -- I was VERY inhibited. Working on the streets is insane. My first husband set up NYC's first s/m bordello. There was a masochistic woman there, so he created the "professional slave."
@RemiEsther The pay was very low. I never asked for tips, either. It was sad, the workers who hated it. I couldn't understand the "never have an orgasm with a trick" mentality. THAT is masochism in the EXTREME! Men are puppies, needing a firm hand, clear instructions and LOTS of discipline and cleaning up. They just need to THINK they are running the show, and all is fine, really. My first boss was a woman, former hooker. She has a PhD now and is a therapist in the Pacific NW. Cool!
@slobomotion ...Hey, good for her! That's amazing! Personally, I think men are men and puppies are puppies:) And if I ever met a man who was acting like a puppy, he'd be out the door faster than he could say 'woof!' I like men, I think they are one of God's most intriguing creations.....xx
@RemiEsther I have a vid up on polyandry (I think it's on CUTECATFAITH, I forget) which immediately got good comments from men surprised at such compassion and understanding of their difficult lot from a female. No, I must disagree, yet take it further. Men are worse than puppies -- they are curs. Currs? Not sure of spelling, but one of my favorite Olde English words! xo
@RemiEsther Well, this one guy, James in the USA, is really nice. And he lost his job in January for being out sick for 3 days. He is now living without utilities. sigh
@RemiEsther Yeah, and his last two ladies, whoa, they sounded . . . well, I wasn't there. But he really sounds nice. It's hard to say online, however. He was a machinist. That sort of job is just disappearing over there. I've been fired for being pregnant in the USA, they have no respect for the law. In France, I've been fired numerous times for being sick, and that's not supposed to happen at all! The last time, I was attacked four times at work and they got rid of me to hush me up.
Hiya slobs! liking the new pad, dahling!!..when's the moving-in date and the house warming party?? Loving the lawn...anyone for tennis? Tell your man to tell my man and we can set a date to play, yah, yah! Please remind Jeeves that I only use yellow tennis balls......& need all my raquets re-strung....& whites starched!
RemiEsther 1 year ago
@RemiEsther Oh, once you get past the security clearance you can phone my man for an appointment, ha ha! Did you see my clip, I KNOW I'M ANNOYING at this party? It was really fun snooping in their kitchen. Guess what, they have a boring fruit bowl like everyone else in France! I have a clip up here of a maid I ended up teasing but I hadn't meant to, nice little Filipina women. I really got "up there" many times, especially last year. It was a crummy year but I had some fun, ha ha!
slobomotion 1 year ago
@slobomotion ...te-he! Fraternising with the staff eh! Oh, poor show dahling...still, if it makes them work harder, yah! yah!
RemiEsther 1 year ago
@RemiEsther I am not big on tall, slim blonde men but this waiter, a top model they told me, part of the staff, had a wicked little smile! Hee hee hee hee! Yes, one should never mingle with the help . . . (oh, wait a minute, I've BEEN in service, ooops!).
slobomotion 1 year ago
@slobomotion ...hahaha!! Well cuteness aside dahling, the man was carrying a tray for pete's sake!!!! And can he re-string a tennis raquet?? Or advise one on one's backhand? Or..oops, yes also getting a bit carried away there. SERVANTS rule! Yayyy! Where would we be without someone to pour milk on our cereal in the mornings..???
RemiEsther 1 year ago
@RemiEsther As a girl, I told my mother I'd like to be a maid when I grew up! She seemed VERY puzzled by that. I didn't mind being a "mother's helper" at all really when I first moved to NY, although those people were very creepy (it depends on whom you work for). A huge eye-opener was my slave, Angelo Pastormerlo, and then marrying into a super rich family who stingily shared a single servant. A sign of the super-rich in the USA? They own a STATION WAGON. I am serious!
CuteCatFaith 1 year ago
@CuteCatFaith ..Yeh I totally get that. It's so weird too....One servant!! Oh the poor guy, bet his pay never met the national minimum either!! I was an au pair in Belguim in my early 20's, with a very wealthy family; their youngest daughter had one blue dress, which I washed overnight & put on her again the next day!!!! The grandmother had a Lambourghini!! (Which she drove us to Luxembourg in & fell asleep at the wheel!!!!)...that's a whole other story though, lol!!!!!
RemiEsther 1 year ago
@RemiEsther Yes, Viva was some sort of illegal alien, the family had homes & apartments all over NYC & Connecticut, & the driver would take Viva from place to place for a day. It wasn't even a full-time driver, I think it was a KMart employee. (My former father in law was the cofounder of KMart.) I was never given pocket money & had no handbag. I could charge things. I was a downtown person and had to swipe the laundry coins to get a bus ride down to see my friends! No handbag = very rich.
CuteCatFaith 1 year ago
@CuteCatFaith ...swipe the laundry coins!! Slobs that is so mean...! One hot summer day, the housekeeper for the old ladies I used to look after, offered me a glass of orange juice after I arrived all sweaty & tired. I actually saw the old lady's lip quiver as she held back from reprimanding her!! The housekeeper was really cheeky & always spoke her mind...and if the old lady annoyed her, she would spend hours getting the shopping & come back with only half of it!!
RemiEsther 1 year ago
@RemiEsther My first spouse was angry and jealous that I went to a job and university daily and couldn't stay up all night with him at S/M clubs. That is funny about what happened to you, and sadly typical. I used to go out and charge prime meats and fancy produce and carry them down to the Lower East Side and show up and present the bags to surprised friends whom I knew were hungry and poor, then turn right around and leave. I was in over my head!
CuteCatFaith 1 year ago
@CuteCatFaith ...hahahhahaa! I bet they were wondering about those missing pennies, lol!!!!!
RemiEsther 1 year ago
@RemiEsther They were quarters by then, ha ha! Thousands were flying around monthly. I'd come home from school to find a whole NEW batch of 18th c. furniture in the apartment! It was most unsettling. When I left, I took nothing and asked for nothing and they wouldn't even let me continue to see the shrink I'd had to start seeing and at least get refills on my pills. Going off them suddenly had me suicidal for at least a week. Really nasty people. The friends were tickled, tho!
CuteCatFaith 11 months ago
@CuteCatFaith ...sounds like you had a lucky escape I think. One of the late Queen Mother's servants and 'friend' was given a large 'grace & favour' apartment in The Mall from her, which he lived in for over 25 years until her death when it was suddenly demanded back by the Royal Family. Almost overnight he found himself homeless and jobless and had to shack up on his friend's sofa!
RemiEsther 11 months ago
@RemiEsther Yes, actually, the father, the late Arnold Bachner, cofounder of KMart Corporation, begged me to "go to a hotel,"(at his expense) but I refused and went and slept on the floor of a friend's apartment the first night. The second night, a rich friend paid for one night in a modest hotel room, and by the third night a friend with an out of town job installed me in his Brooklyn apartment. I stayed in that building from 1980-1994. It was hard but I was better off on my own.
slobomotion 11 months ago
@slobomotion ...think you were right to refuse the hotel Slobs! Best to make a clean break in situations like that...sometimes there are 'strings' attached and who needs the hassle, eh?
RemiEsther 11 months ago
@RemiEsther Hard to say! I ended up having to work in the sex industry. Divorce is a leading cause of this type of entry. Fortunately, I had a great employer and it was a positive, liberating experience for me. Dealing with my first set of in-laws was just a horror. I don't know how they could live with themselves after what they did to me!
slobomotion 11 months ago
@slobomotion ....it's good to hear that your experience in the sex industry was Ok, I think for a lot of people it's the last horrific resort. Unfortunately divorce is not the only reason people consider the sex industry as a career, I think child abuse is the main one. After all, if you've spent your life at the hands of a paedophile, the sex industry probably seems like a blessed relief....AND you get paid on top!
You sound well rid of your in-laws...:)
RemiEsther 11 months ago
@RemiEsther I have a primal fear of being immobilized, I am very claustrophobic, which is why I was a top bondage model for so many years. It was like, CONFRONT WHAT SCARES YOU THE DEEPEST. Do it! I don't like to be touched, so the sex industry was necessary -- I was VERY inhibited. Working on the streets is insane. My first husband set up NYC's first s/m bordello. There was a masochistic woman there, so he created the "professional slave."
slobomotion 11 months ago
@RemiEsther The pay was very low. I never asked for tips, either. It was sad, the workers who hated it. I couldn't understand the "never have an orgasm with a trick" mentality. THAT is masochism in the EXTREME! Men are puppies, needing a firm hand, clear instructions and LOTS of discipline and cleaning up. They just need to THINK they are running the show, and all is fine, really. My first boss was a woman, former hooker. She has a PhD now and is a therapist in the Pacific NW. Cool!
slobomotion 11 months ago
@slobomotion ...Hey, good for her! That's amazing! Personally, I think men are men and puppies are puppies:) And if I ever met a man who was acting like a puppy, he'd be out the door faster than he could say 'woof!' I like men, I think they are one of God's most intriguing creations.....xx
RemiEsther 10 months ago
@RemiEsther I have a vid up on polyandry (I think it's on CUTECATFAITH, I forget) which immediately got good comments from men surprised at such compassion and understanding of their difficult lot from a female. No, I must disagree, yet take it further. Men are worse than puppies -- they are curs. Currs? Not sure of spelling, but one of my favorite Olde English words! xo
slobomotion 10 months ago
@slobomotion ..not really impressed by men who need female affirmation about their difficult lot at the hands of another female!! xx
RemiEsther 10 months ago
@RemiEsther Well, this one guy, James in the USA, is really nice. And he lost his job in January for being out sick for 3 days. He is now living without utilities. sigh
slobomotion 10 months ago
@slobomotion ..that's rough!
RemiEsther 10 months ago
@RemiEsther Yeah, and his last two ladies, whoa, they sounded . . . well, I wasn't there. But he really sounds nice. It's hard to say online, however. He was a machinist. That sort of job is just disappearing over there. I've been fired for being pregnant in the USA, they have no respect for the law. In France, I've been fired numerous times for being sick, and that's not supposed to happen at all! The last time, I was attacked four times at work and they got rid of me to hush me up.
slobomotion 10 months ago