i like this guy and i think he likes me too but we have been friends for a long time and i dont know if i should ask him out because i dont want to ruin our friendship so should i ask him out or wait for him to make a move?
I am 12 and have never kissed or dated anyone. All my friends have dated people and have even made out with people. I used to not care, but now everyone is starting to pair up and I am feeling more alone. Even my best friend (who is a guy) has found a girl (who is my other best friend). I am not jealous or anything, but I am sick of being the third wheel with all of my friends. How do I deal with being single??? because I keep feeling that I'll never find someone and be forever alone..
but that he won't tell me anything else because it's "none of my business." I feel that it is and want him to be honest. What can I tell him to make him see that HE IS MY FATHER and his relationships DO affect me?
My parents have been divorced for about 4 years and my mom has always been honest about her (short and not serious) relationships. I saw my dad get a text from "Hootie McG" about a year ago and he said that he wasn't ready to talk about it and became very defensive. I've waited for about a year for him to tell me what was going, being very tolerant about him (sometimes) lying about his whereabouts. Today he got another text from her and I confronted him. He says he HAS a girlfriend--
I lost my mum to cancer, within a week of the funeral, my dad was sleeping with someone else. I asked him about it cos he was hiding it from me and my brother and he said he didn't care about how we felt about it because he was happy. She dumped soon after and we were having blazing rows every day. He didn't look after my mum while she was ill, me and my grandma did that. He's now dating about 3 women from the internet and ignores me and my bro. I hate him but he's my dad. Abi, 15
Me and my boyfriend live fairly far away from each other, so that we sometimes have to wait a month to see each other, if we're busy. When we do have time to see each other, he unfortunately makes a lot of plans with his friends, which on one hand is great (I like them, and he SHOULD see them!), but I would really love to some alone-time with him, which seems nearly impossible. How do I tell him without sounding like a jerk who won't let him see his friends?
It's been one year now that I've on and off liking a boy, Jay. He's only a year older than myself, and he's super nice, musically talented, and just a general amazing person. He and I are in marching band together and at the beginning of the season *July* I thought things were going great, my section leader *Jill* knew I liked him, she is a junior, he's a freshmen. She straight up asked him out in front of myself, they recently broke up. What do I do?
My best friend and I are extremely close and I can usually tell her everything. I recently found out she had a blog. On this blog she admits how she has paranoia and she is trying to go down to under 100 pounds in weight. She also said she self harms. She doesnt know I know about this blog, and I don't know if anyone knows either. I am very worried for her. Should I confront her and if so how? I know she used to self harm, but always denied it, but stopped soon after. Please help x
DearBuck,Next year will be my 1st year of HS.I was excited bout this&hoping 2 start fresh,as I went through a bad phase years ago.In this phase,I was forced 2 spend time with a girl who didnt rly like me.She taught me alot,but I was ungrateful of her.Ive changed since then,&figured shed gotten over it after 2years.But Im now told she still hates me&is very vocal about it.This gave me a bad reputation,&Im so scared of going to school&being hated.I have bad selfconfidence issues&socialskills.Help?
@12345randomaccount I know where you're coming from. I was in a similar situation; what I did was email my friend who i heard still hated me after a few years and i apologized and told her i forgave her for anything she might've said or done, and I told her how i didn't want to go into high school knowing i was on bad terms with someone. I would recommend telling this girl you'd like to start fresh, seeing that HS should be the best 4 years of your life. Good luck and enjoy HS :)
I'll tell you from experience, in elementary and Jr. High, there was a girl who bullied me very openly and always talked about how much she hated me. In high school, it gets better. Trust me. Being scared is normal, but even if you attend a small highschool there is still more people around than you're used to. In my freshman biology class, whenever this girl made fun of me, Juniors and older kids would stand up with me. Don't worry much!
Dear Buck<3 I'm 16 and I have known this boy since we were 8. That's a long time for me. I think about him almost all the time. Now my 1st question is do I really like him or do I just have this weird obsession?The 2nd one is: me and him have kind of a complicated relationship. I mean we're friends, but he acts all weird sometimes (he gives me lame excuses why we can't hangout- I basically don't know what he wants) So, should I just forget about him or continue having this weird relationship?
Dear buck advice? I'm 19 and rather depressed, i don't have many friends and the friends i have made in university i've just screwed over by backing out of a housing deal last minute (for no reason at all) and now they hate me for it :/ When i talk to people i just find it awkward and i never really have anything to say and i don't know what to do to make new friends, is there any advice you can give? I don't really have any hobbies either, i'm a boring person :(
My dream is to be in a band and go further with my musical talents i love to sing and i'm learnig how to play the guitar but i'm just afraid i'm not good enough and nervous to sing infront of people i want to be like my idols like Green Day and My Chemical Romance i look up to them alot, anyway my brother always says i'm not good at singing so thats lowering my confidence but my friends say i'm good.i'm so confused i don't know what to, do you have any advice?
Dear Buck,I have this friend who is disrespectful and gossipy.I have unsuccessfully been trying to move away from him as a friend.He admitted to me that he vandalized another one of my friend's houses,and made me promise not to tell.My friends father called the cops so if I told he could get in serious trouble.I know if the situation were reversed he would tell everyone about it the next day and not keep the secret.Should I keep a secret for a person I don't even like or tell the truth?
Dear Buck Or anyone Im bi and lets say im 15 (I have been told by doctors I have matured with attitude and personality and "Physically")but this is my question I have never kissed anyone or dated anyone before but I know Im bi because I have found myself finding both sexes attractive How can I get a boyfriend or a girlfriend Please dont say that I am just going threw what everyone else does because I have also been proved by doctors that I am passed all of that
Hi, I'm 13 and Earlier this week, a guy at the high school I will be going to committed suicide by shooting himself. All my friends REALLY close that go to the school are like super depressed. I don't like seeing them seeing them down like this, I want to help them. What do I do?
Dear Buck, What do you think of kids in 7th or 8th grade? I'm 8th grade and I think thier really in a hurry to grow up instead of just being a kid as in just hanging out and just have fun outside like playing
If by not good results you mean not much views or support to be perfectly honest I get no much results at all with my videos but I continue with them because I love making them but if you love making videos then you should continue and my tips for you would be
Ignore Haters (They just think they are impressive and are funny or something like that)
Love your videos yourself without getting cocky (Not that I think you would)
Have fun (If you dont enjoy making videos, u shouldnt:)
i'm a 13 year girl and i have been with my boyfriend for two months now. The thing is that i like spending time with him but there's no spark and we work better as friends. Also i have liked another guy for a long time and i try push the feelings away but they get stronger every time i see him. I can't stop thinking about him and i've just found out he might like me back. The boys don't know each other, if that makes any difference.
@ohmyGAAHitsme I'll give you the same advice I'd give to one of my best friends: don't put your boyfriend through that. I honestly think you should tell your bf that you'd like to spend time with him as just friends and even mention seeing other ppl. Even though your bf does not know the other guy or your feelings for the other guy, in the end it wouldn't be fair to your bf. And it's not worth you feeling guilty about think of another guy. I hope everything works out! <3
My mum just attempted to suicide but did not succeed and is now in hospital. I am SO happy I am that it did not work but I'm extremely scared that she'll attempt it again and I don't know what to do to get her to stop. She has been through A LOT in the past 6 years and lost nearly everything. And her new partner, who helped her get out of the depression, just left her in a terrible way.
Also, I am gay but I haven't told my parents yet. Do you think this will help if I tell her?
My question is about something kind of trivial. I go to boarding school and about 3 months ago someone stole my laundry from the dryer. Today I saw a girl in class wearing the same cardigan I had stolen. I have a very good memory for clothing and I know it was the exact same cardigan that I had stolen, but I don't know if it was her's or my stolen one. I wanted to yell at her and make her give it back, but it was a girl I didn't really know and I didn't want to seem like a psycho bitch
So my problem is that I recently found out that a friend of mine (someone who I consider one of my true real friends) when listing her most 'important' friends, I wasn't included.
It maybe irrational to freak out about this, but I feel really hurt as she listed two other friends who treat her horribly, and I feel stupid that I have a onesided friendship with her but sad cause I thought that we were really close. I don't know what to do, please help, thanks.
I have trouble asking for help it's gotten better, I can step back and realize when i really need help (i mean REALLY need it and I usually feel embarrassed when I do ask for help), but there are still times when I just can't ask for it, I don't know if it's a pride thing or the whole "I don't need people" thing. Is this really bad? Can you help me? Give you me tips or somethings? I feel like it's going to get worse if i don't try to fix it now.
Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl whose been having some friends problems. My ex-best friend and i got in a fight over a boy and she was being really really mean to me and i apologized. We went our separate ways for a few weeks now, she's still been being really mean to me and i wanted to be the better person so i apologized to her again. I still want to be friends with her but i dont know if its worth it. PLEASE HELP!
dear buck, im 18 and i have a dad who's being abusive towards me, he tells me i never help out, so i try to help out, and its never good enough cause he always yells at me , he drinks and then he yells at me then swears at me, and brings me down to tears when im trying to make him garlic toast calling me a "f*cking slug" because i didnt make it right, i would move out but i dont have the money and im still in school, trying to go to university next year, all i can afford is the rent i pay, HELP!
im a very opinionated person, i won't deny it, but the trouble is i find it VERY hard to keep my opinions to myself. i always tell myself to keep quiet and not say anything, but i always end up giving my opinion- which is usually different to everyone else's. i can feel people getting irritated with me, but i can never shut up. and then i feel annoyed cuz i feel like im not allowed to give my opinion, which is ridiculous. how can i stop myself from running my mouth all the time?
@HelloDaisy94, lol. you could pass as an american, just come across the ocean.
but to answer your question: learn to listen. it is something can cannot be learned fully but you can attempt to. then if someone asks you something, then speak, else dont offer what you think on given topic. it's a bit of self restraint but worth exercising and practicing that self restraint.
Dear Buck,last night my sibling got ex termly mad at me over of all things telling my mom that she might be having people over I didn't do so to be a taddle but, just so my mom wouldn't be in her p-js if they came. Well she got me feeling so useless and angry that I...kinda cut myself I say "kinda" because there only scratches I don't want to alarm you by telling you such things but I wonder if you had any advice on not letting her get to me like that.
Dear Buck,or anyone who will help us. I get to see my friend once a month sadly. and every time i see him he's covered in bruises. He is abused (sexually and physically) but he wont tell anyone...the only reason i know is i witnessed it by accident. I promised that i wouldnt get help without asking him. but i need some advice cuz my heart says stay true to my friend. But my brain says GET HELP!!!! PLEASE HELP HE"S THINKING OF SUICIDE!!! D": i also tweeted u -LoveBlackAngels
My best friend has anger issues. I've tried to help her in the past but it just makes her more mad. Last year someone tripped her and when I tried to help her up she pushed me into a wall. This year I started reading these books and I wanted to read it at recess. She came up to talk to me but when she saw the book she stormed off. I asked what was wrong and she said I don't hang out with her enough. Please help. Thanks.
My friend Rachel is dating the boy (lets call him k). Rachel really likes him but k is kind of a player. last night k sent a text to my other friend Robin. it said when he breaks up with Rachel he wants to go out with her. i think that k is being a jerk and if i was Rachel i would want to know about what he did, i told my friends that but they don't think we should tell her. But should i tell Rachel about this anyways, she deserves to know doesn't she?
Umm, help please? I will admit it. I'm Bulimic. Not for very long, once a week for a month I have thrown up. I am really ashamed. No one knows. I need help. No matter how hard I try, I can't get my self to stop. Does anyone have any advice? I really need help. Please?
I have this huge crush on this guy a grade above me (he's a junior, I'm a sophomore). We have no classes together other than lunch. I want to talk to him, but I really have no idea on how to do so without coming off weird, or anything. I wouldn't even know what to say. Any advice?
@xLewis43x, you make classism as much as you want it to be. Id just chuck age and class out the window and think about you and him. 2 humans. if that is not simplified enough then ask him out. maybe this is where you pull the groupie card and get a film club going. Its wonderful when people are more direct and dont hide behind screens (smoke or terministic screens)
@xLewis43x OMG same here!!! What i did and maybe you could do as well, is i would sit next to the guy i liked and ask him how his day was. I knew his fav class was autoshop and would ask him if anything interesting happened in that class, etc. Eventually he started being the one to come find me to sit next to and ask me. If that doesn't work, you could just start out with small talk and as you get to know him, find things you both like to talk and joke about :)
@MonsterJamLover1987 If she isn't looking for a relationship, you could always still ask her out on a date, maybe dinner and a movie? In the meantime, just be her friend and be there for her, so hopefully when she is ready for a relationship she'll soon turn to you :)
Im a 16yr old girl. In the last 3 yrs I began making myself throw up, overdosing on diet pills, laxatives, starving myself for up to 2 weeks at a time (doing anything to lose weight). Also self harm and attempted suicide and very feeling depressed. Some friends no, but dont understand except a new friend with anorexia. We have developed a strong friendship and exchange dieting tips. i no its not healthy, but theres no one else to turn too. What do I do? Amelia
PLEASE STOP!!!! you said you are trying to loose weight and doing this much to loose weight is just plain stupid (not meant to be offinsive) there is soo much more you can do .... for example go to a gym maybe even ask your friends to come with you .... go on a SAFE diet ...... maybe even get some help and talk to someone a out it please let me know if i have helped you
Thanks for replying. But just to clarify, I do go to the gym-about twice a week to be specific. I also do ballet 5 hours a week. I mean I do try excercising and have done healthy diets, but nothing is quick enough. I no I'm heading i a downward spiral, but there is no one to talk to except tis girl. No one understands and instead of trying they just say i'm being stupid and am already thin. I'm 5ft3 and 98lbs,when you have fluctuated between 86lbs and 110 in a few months 98 is to much.
@AmeliaRd, im 5' 3" and 130lbs (with hardly any fat). I would never want to drop as low as 100lbs. That is just a stick. Get your weight up to 110lbs (its ok if that is mostly fat). Make sure your diet is at least 1300 Cals (1400 might be better), if you feel tired or weak, more food for you then. I assume you want to 'look good' and feel good about yourself. Being a stick isnt attractive.
Lastly: there is something called baby fat, that doesnt just disappear. Give it another 4 yrs.
I snap my wrists with rubber bands whenI'm upset, angry or stressed. It's the way I cope with everything. It's the only way I know how to cope with anything. It's a release. Recently, my friends have have been finding out and are worried. They say it's a form of self-harm, its unhealthy and I should stop. I don't see it as self-harm, I mean it's better than cutting or burning myself or something. So, my question is: is snapping my wrist to the point where they're completel
Hi I'm a 15-year-old girl and I'm bi. There is this girl that I'm madly in love with. She is a sophomore and I'm a freshman. We played basketball together and I kinda moved my feelings to the back of my head. Since I've stopped basketball they have kinda taken over EVERYTHING... She is amazing in every way possible and I really wanna tell her that I like her. Too bad she has a gf AND my basketball career for the next 3 years wold be ruined.. What do I do? Please like so buck can see!
Dear anyone, i'm a 16 yr old girl. Been having panic attacks, bad headaches, muscle spasms, high stress level, depressed, && this ringing noise in my head. If anyone can give me answers i'd appreciate it. Thanks.
Continued,- weeks for surgery and more chemotherapy. I don't want to tell my parents what's wrong with me because I don't want to make them anymore sad then they already are. I also haven't told my friends anything because I don't want to be a burden on them. I play off my schitzofrenia as something funny so people don't really understand what is happening to me. What should I do?
I am fifteen and I have been depressed since I was 9. I also suffer from schitzofrenia. My depression had led me to cutting myself as the pain gives mental relief from any malicious thoughts in my mind. I have stopped recently because I am borderline anorexic and the pain it gives me has become enough that I don't need to cut myself any longer. To make matters worse my father was diagnosed with bone cancer in his jaw in November and will soon be going into the hospital for a few
Dear Buck/Anyone, I broke up with my gf 3 months ago, whom I had been chasing/crushing on for a year before we started dating. At the time of the split I was glad that it was over as the stress that was induced from the relationship was too much for me (I suffer from clinical depression). However, recently I have been feeling like I shouldn't have broken up with her. I don't know if I should try to get back with her because when we were together I was very happy until the end.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years this February. I feel like I am not as happy in the relationship as I used to be and I've spend a lot of time thinking about breaking up recently. I still love him, though. How do I know if it is time to break it off?
dear buck, it is my first year of highschool and i have trouble motivating myself to study. How can i get more motivated? Also, what is a good study plan I can use.
@KyraIsFunny14 I had a teacher recommend tht if youre trying to learn something such as vocab, type up the vocab list and laminate it and tape it on the wall in your shower, so that while you're showering you can study. i know it sounds weird, but it works! To get more motivated to study, make goals to have B's then B's and A's then A's then A's over a certain point... if that makes sense. don't rush into those goals unless youre rdy, or you'll get stressed and be less willing to study.
Dear buck, I have a boyfriend who I met online that lives two states away from me. I completely trust him, we've video chatted, talked for hours so that's not an issue. The problem is i really wish I had a boyfriend who was actually HERE someone I could hug and be with. A boy on my swim team really likes me, I can tell but im not sure what to do. Do I flirt back or would that d betraying my boyfriend? And if this other boy asks me out then what do I do? Please help!
I am 14 and so is my bff.She drinks smokes drugs and goes to parties at four am when her parents are asleep.This only just started two years ago when my whole family was out of the state.She has told me about the unsafe things that have happened while high. Sometimes she is too high to walk by herself.I want to tell her to stop or at least to be more careful but she doesn’t seem to take it seriously. She is still my bestfriend and I care a lot for her.Do you have any advice?
Hi my name is Owen. And my ex-gf's bf just almost OD. I'm trying my best to comfort her, but meanwhile, my new gf's friends don't want me near her. The reason is that at our school dance, she nearly ripped my friend Matt,from his gf..... I trust my ex and I'm ignoringtout its hard.Plus my gf is worried too , but not as much.....should I keep comforting my ex, or stop to shu her friends up and how do I make them understand that she didn't mean too steal Matt from his ex?
Hi my name is Owen. And my ex-gf's bf just almost OD. I'm trying my best to comfort her, but meanwhile, my new gf's friends don't want me near her. The reason is that at our school dance, she nearly did it with my friend Matt, and almost tore him from his gf..... I trust my ex and I'm ignoring them but it's hard when they keep telling/texting you about it. Plus my gf is worried too , but not as much.....should I keep comforting my ex, or stop to shu her friends up and how do I make
@AWSDfan12 I suggest you tell her friends to fuck off and explain to your gf that your only friends. if you want you can still comfort your ex. trust me, i know how much baggage girls can have.
-coutinued- table, I just want to be me around her and she won't let me, and second problem is that I think I need to transition female to male and don't know how to tell my friends/parents btw I'm 14 also do you think that I am too young to make this decison?
Dear Buck/Anyone, I have two problems but I would appreciate it if you would address both. Well first is that I came out as Bi/atheist last year to parents/friends and at first me and my mom had this huge blowout I was kind of expecting it but who can really expect their mother yelling at them that they are going to hell/ they are disgusting, but after my mom talked to my stepdad she calmed down and accepted it now she just ignores it! like nothing happened she asks me to pray at the dinner tabl
@aeriellaful GO TALK TO HER! Tell her not to make your life harder because hers is. All i can say is to tell her that you love her and that this is not the answer. Call a suicide help line. And stop looking in your inbox AND GO HELP HER!
My name is megan and I am. My mom was recently diagnosed with Parkinsons disease. She is 55 years and was told that she only has about 10 years. I know that that is a long time but I was expecting to have her for at lease another 40 years. I cant stop crying, I sometimes even just break down crying in the middle of the class. I don't want her to know I am upset because she keeps telling me that she doesnt want to be upset (so I cant talk to her about it either) How do I stop crying?<3
@Holian37 Well, I don't know how it feels and I can't really give you advice on how you just STOP crying. I mostly can say, listen to your mom, tell her you're going to miss her in the next 10 years and just have the time of your life with your mother, make the best of the 10 years and who knows, maybe she can be with you for more 10 years. Best wishes, Megan.
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
dear buck or anyone im part of a group of about 17 or so friends but im not that close to any of them. ive been hanging around with them for about 3 years. i only have three close friends and i cant talk to any of them about my problem as ive only known one for a few months, another i struggle to talk to about important stuff and the third is a key person in my crowd. could you offer any advice on how to be more part of the crowd and less awkward, all without joining a new crowd?
@IonaIsEpic So hi! Anyways, Ive had 2 friends I'm not really close to and I've just been distancing away from them on purpose. Also about your 3 others, I think your first one, it doesn't really matter on how long you've known them. The second, then that's kind of okay, I think that could be your laid back friend, and last one I think the same about your second. I think you should talk to your first one more, and see how things go. Sorry for the bad advice
I am a 16 year guy who just asked out his best friend and she said yes. Now, some people have told me that I rushed into a relationship and should have thought about it more. Now I'm scared and feel pressured. There's no turning back. What should I do?
@8956060 I think 16 is an okay age, and if it's your best friend and she said yes then I really don't see a problem. People might think something else, like.... Yeah, just take it slow if anything. Also it's okay, it's your best friend so I think you should be comfortable around her, and no turning back? You could say you need more time, or anything but you should try for a while and see how things go :) Good luck on the relationship!
I don't have many friends in school and i'm 14. There are a group of girls in my class who keep asking why i hang around with the people I do, don't get me wrong my friends are not models but they are not ugly, yes my best friend is a bit strange but her heart is in the right place. What do i say to them? I normally just ignore them but it is really starting to get to me.
Dear Buck or anyone!! Im 13 and a girl gave me a bj! I know this is kinda bad for my age, but idk what to do about!! I havent told anyone, im worried if my parents find out ill get in trouble! Its not like i got her pregnant! She is also 13, and the guilt is eating me alive!! someone please respond to this!! idk what to do!
I'm 14 and this guy jake, A few days ago convince everybody he really liked me and made me feel really special then the next day I told him I like him too and I thought he would ask me out but insted he became an asshole and told me he'd rather my ex-BFF. I started telling my ex-BFF all about it because she's the only one who I knew would understand all the stuff about him. She got really mad at him cause he convinced me to smoke weed. He now hates me but i don't want him to. Help?
dear buck, my friend asked me out last friday and i told him "i would think about it i will tell you on monday" and over that weekend i had alot of homework and things to do it made me think if i have no time to do this then how will i love him more so i regected him and i was upset about it because i really wanted him to ask me and i want to know what to do because i brought it up to him and he said he was not interested anymore and im thinking about this situation and i am liking him more help
i am 16 going on 17 and im gay and i came out to my parents a few months ago... they appear to be fine with it, but sometimes i feel as if they brush it under the rug and my mom has even called me out as just being shy around girls. ive known i was gay for many years now and i feel that they subconsciously dont accept me. i really have know idea how to adress this to them. this is really eating at me and just dont know what to do, please help.
stop being so paranoind and start sleeping properly again? I haven't slept properly for so long I've forgotten what its like to be able to concentrate in class!!!!!!
@MrsTaraBieber, id start to exercise 1 hour, 3 days/week. like sprinting or some very extreme conditioning. then on your off days (the 4 days) just do a light 30 minutes of something else.
that will help you take your mind off the ghosts and you will be more tired and really need the sleep.
This is gonna sound really wierd, but I'm TERRIFIED of ghosts. I know there is no solid evidence that the exist, but every night I feel like people are watching me in the dark. My family had to move house because I wasn't sleeping at night because our house was really old and god only knows how many people have died there! We moved into a really new, modern house and I was alright for a while but resently my paranoia has started coming back and I have stopped sleeping as much. How can I...
I dated a guy 5 years older than me and he moved to California I was heart broken! He texted me that he is coming back in a few weeks but he is bringing another girl with him and he doesn't want to see me. How do I get over him and not start cutting myself again?
Professional or not, I think that your advice is very solid. I'm old enough to be able to give a lot of people love advice. You and I see things on the same plane.
I'm a Freshman in college and I just found out a friend of mine killed herself. I have dealt with loss before, but it feels especially hard because I'm far away from home and don't have a strong support system here. I haven't told anyone at school and though I have some good friends here, there isn't anyone I trust enough to tell. I feel so low and I am scared I will begin self harming again (something I haven't done in years). I don't know what to do or where to turn for help.
@cyanidesuicide43, id turn to your good friends then. you seem fine enough saying this here (in a public forum). I'd like to sound not as callous but i dont have a great way to say it in under 500 characters.
I have a friend that tries her best to make her parents proud of her. She studies really hard for exams and does her best at anything for her parents to be proud. But she just can't seem to be able to; she's not the BEST, but she really tries HER best.
What makes things difficult is they're never satisfied. They'd scream and yell at her, just because it's not an 85%, for example, and it's really hurtful for her. To add to things, she has a brother that her parents always co
Dear Buck or anyone, I have a fwb and I have a gf. My gf and I have a long distant relationship for 5 years and continuing. I love my gf so much and I wanted to loose my viginity so bad. Now my fwb wants money. I don't know how to get it all in a few days. If I don't do that, she will tell her bf. I'm so scared and I really need some advice. Thank you so much. 19 year old Texas
I am 14 years old and I have dwarfism. I am very proud of who I am but sometimes I feel completely alone. I am the only one with dwarfism in my highschool. Being the new kid and different really gets me down. I don't have any friends no matter how hard I try. I feel as if people are afraid of me or think I have a mental disability. I get stared at and called things like "midget" and "freak". I was diagnosed with depression and it's been really hard. Do you have advise?
@TheUnikaiChan Don't listen to the people who call you names. All they see is the way you look, short (no offence is intended there!!) Ignore them, find people who accept you for who you are and not who call you names for being short (sorry again!!)
This is really cool. I like that you can post about ur problems and you get a BUNCH of understanding people trying to help you. I wish I could respond via my iPhone. :)
A few months ago I had a great connection with a guy, we have known each other forever but only connected now. A friend of his said that I was saying stuff about him, which I was not. And now we never talk or hang out. I miss him, and I don't know what to do, please help.
@iseestars55107 If you stopped hanging out and talking because that friend of the friend said you were saying stuff, i would immediately talk to the friend you connected with. Don't let a rumor come between a good friendship. It may seem awkward to bring it up, but it's better to confront these problems than completely lose someone.
I just want to thank everyone for helping out anyone on these videos or anyone who commented, it's an immensely kind thing to do. Also, I want to thank everyone who were able to get the gall to comment their problems, it can be a mighty task to overcome.
Dear buck or anyone out there. I am 17, haven't had my first kiss, male. There's this girl I like and I told her that I liked her. She didn't respond she has been hurt my men before and she doesn't seem to want to be in a relationship. She won't tell me if she likes me or not and idk what to do. I feel like this may be my only chance (though I know it isn't). The problem is that I have low confidence in my looks, despite my confidence in other areas. What should I do? Chock it up as a worthl
@MarkLatimerRussell If you have confidence in other areas highlight that. If she wont tell you if she likes you then she is considering your offer. Not having your first kiss yet might seem like a big deal but worrying never helped anyone. Don't sweat it. Let this girl take her time and if you don't get a respons soon bring it up again casually. But remember, confidense is key. The more sure of yourself you ar, the more sure she is.
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crimes wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
Well, i'm agnostic and my friends are REALLY religious, none of them know that I am not catholic. At first I thought that when i decided to tell them they would understand and act like they always had, but now im scared because one day they started talking about the atheists and said "they are sinners and will go to hell" OF COURSE I don't believe that, but now im afraid that if they find out what I truly believe they will hate me as well :( please give me advise
If anybody doesn't like you for even the slightest aspect, they don't deserve to be your friend. I'm an atheist and all of my friends accept it (but that's just because I found an accepting group) at first I am sure a few of them thought I was horrible for being a sinner but after a while they understood it wasn't true. I am described as a "Pure and Innocent Atheist" :p
@PastThoseStars You're right :) but I still have to find the right moment to tell them... hopefully they will accept me... THANKS you were really helpful
Dear Buck, My friend is getting married soon. I'm SO happy for her, but I'm dreading going to her wedding. I should explain all of my other friends that are going are in long term relationships (there are 5 of us going). I was the only one who didn't get a +1 to the wedding, and I'm just dreading being at the reception with the only other people I know being coupley. I am 21 + happily single, I just hate being the odd one out. Any tips for confidence at the event I'm dreading? Love the show! Jen
@jaffa17, find a reason to want to be there? as in that you want to meet people and have some good long conversations about what ever. maybe if the wedding is big enough this will be easy. if it is a small wedding, might be a long event x.x
I have a friend that I care a lot about and he's been self harming. I tell him not to do it but he continues. I don't want to tell my counselor because I'm worried that he'll hate me for "ratting". He's also been talking about him not being able to eat everyday. He'll eat maybe once a day then go without food for the rest of the day, possibly even the next. I don't want him to get hurt or commit suicide . Please help.
@TheMarriah1233, maybe try to deconstruct the causality behind all of his actions and maybe he wants help and doesnt know where/what/how/whom to ask. if you think this is over your control and he wants out from his current life style try to get someone in on this. maybe another mutual friend.
ive found institutionalize care in the usa is ok. kind of shitty tbh. i dont know your age nor your location.
Im 13 and have been self harming for months now and thought about suicide every day after my dad left and my brother & ex step dad abused me, my mom doesn't seem to want me. I am very uncomfortable with myself and my looks, I get bullied a lot for being "emo" to make it worse I'm bisexual and I get bullied for that too, please help if you have any advice.
@Raysixx779, im sure you have heard this in some form or another, we make our own happiness. sometimes it is exterior to ourselves but that is dependent on a certain factors that are most likely out of our control. i'd try to find it in yourself to be happy and do what you like and makes you tick.
about your body, your 13, id expect most 13 yr old bodies to look very different over the yrs. sometimes it's our perception of the body that makes us not like it. just keep that in mind.
My name is Emily and everyone bullies me.I've just started high school and our English teacher lets us choose a song to play if we're working hard enough.I chose Haunted by Evanescence and since then people have been bullying me.When I walk to corner shops (yes, I'm from England) people spit at me and Shout Emo or Goth.Recently people at school have started attacking me just because of one little song.I sometimes fight back by saying she's a better singer then her.
Hi I'm 13 and I really like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. Sometimes it feels like we are just friends but other times it feels like something more. But that is not the problem. The problem is that my best friend likes him just as much as I do. Should I go for the guy or back off. By the way love your show!!!!!!!!!!!
I really like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me to. We are good friends but that is not the problem. My two best friends like just as much as I do and they don't know that I like him and just don't know if I should go for him or back off. By the way I love your show!!!!! Cyber Hugs.
my name is alanna and i resently got my first boyfriend .we have been going out a month and 2 weeks but i still havent told my dad.my mom and dad have been split up since i was small and i stay in my dad's house on the weekend .all of my family know except him and honestly im afraid to tell him because he has gotten angry over people im friends with and im afraid he will make me brake up with my boyfriend if he doesnt like him
My name is allison and my grandma just passed away recently. Before she died my cousin Trey had nothing to do with her, now since she's gone he uses her for attention. Also this is the way his whole family acts. How to I come out and tell him to stop and/or how do I deal with it??? I really need help please help me!!!!!!
I'm in my first year of Uni & really struggling with one class, even worse is that try really hard, but the tutor just doesn't like me and ignores me until he wants to embarrass someone and ask them a horrible question. He clearly has favourites and today he told me I have to give a 10 minute presentation next week and I'm freaking out because I hate public speaking. Do you have any advice on how I can overcome this or get him to stop picking on me? Thanks xx
I know this is a super classic question, but i really reeeaally need help! i'm madly in love with a guy i am going to a new school with next summer. he is my big sister's exboyfriend's littlebrother (i know, confusing?) i've been in deep love with him for 6 years now and i look really forward to see him everyday! can you or anyone help me to get his attention? please help :-)
Last night my mom told me she was going to send us to our dads and kill herself. I'm 15 and the oldest of 4 kids. My mom was a foster child and had me at only 16. She just got married last week (her 3rd marriage) and I thought things were better but apparently are not. She told me her life has been too hard and won't ever be any better. After I had a complete panic attack she told me she won't but I don't believe. I can't imagine life without my mom. I don't know what to do. Someone
@aeriellaful This is much bigger than you are, sweetie. Your mom needs professional help. I know it's going to be hard, but there are suicide helplines and resources I really recommend turning to.
I'm sorry you have to go through this--I hope things get better.
There's this girl who has a cutting problem and claims she's "suicidal" and she's personally a bitch with barely any friends but i want her to get help but i dont know what to do or who to talk because she's been trying to say shit to hurt me and she made me cry, and i think its because she's seriously unstable i went out with her ex but honestly we were never friends. what do i do? cuz i swear she keeps talking im gunna go off her.
Dear Buck, or anyone. i just turned 15 (girl) and i have never had a boy friend. there is this guy i kinda like. i only kinda like him because 1. i'm afraid he wont like me and i will get hurt. 2. because we don't have that much in common, he's not that good looking (i would rate him a 5). the subject has come up of us going out, but he really didnt give a answer. i'm not sure what to do. should i see if he likes me. or just forget about him?? please help
Dear Buck, or anyone. i just turned 15 (girl) and i have never had a boy friend. there is this guy i kinda like. i only kinda like him because 1. i'm afraid he wont like me and i will get hurt. 2. because we don't have that much in common, he's not that good looking (i would rate him a 5). the subject has come up of us going out, but he really didnt give a answer. i'm not sure what to do. should i see if he likes me. or just forget about him?? please help
Dear Buck, or anyone. i just turned 15 (girl) and i have never had a boy friend. there is this guy i kinda like. i only kinda like him because 1. i'm afraid he wont like me and i will get hurt. 2. because we don't have that much in common, he's not that good looking (i would rate him a 5). the subject has come up of us going out, but he really didnt give a answer. i'm not sure what to do. should i see if he likes me. or just forget about him?? please help
Dear Buck, or anyone. i just turned 15 (girl) and i have never had a boy friend. there is this guy i kinda like. i only kinda like him because 1. i'm afraid he wont like me and i will get hurt. 2. because we don't have that much in common, he's not that good looking (i would rate him a 5). the subject has come up of us going out, but he really didnt give a answer. i'm not sure what to do. should i see if he likes me. or just forget about him?? please help
Dear Buck, or anyone. i just turned 15 (girl) and i have never had a boy friend. there is this guy i kinda like. i only kinda like him because 1. i'm afraid he wont like me and i will get hurt. 2. because we don't have that much in common, he's not that good looking (i would rate him a 5). the subject has come up of us going out, but he really didnt give a answer. i'm not sure what to do. should i see if he likes me. or just forget about him?? please help
Dear Buck, or anyone. i just turned 15 (girl) and i have never had a boy friend. there is this guy i kinda like. i only kinda like him because 1. i'm afraid he wont like me and i will get hurt. 2. because we don't have that much in common, he's not that good looking (i would rate him a 5). the subject has come up of us going out, but he really didnt give a answer. i'm not sure what to do. should i see if he likes me. or just forget about him?? please help
Hi! So prom season is fast approaching and I have really no idea what to do about taking a date.. there's a senior that goes to my school (I'm a junior) and I think he would be so much fun to go with. He's cute, and funny, but popular. I get along with the popular people, but I wouldn't say I'm best friends with them. I don't want to ask him and have him avoid me if he says no! I don't want it to be awkward seeing him after. Hashtag: this shouldn't be so stressful!
anyhow: ask him on a date now, unrelated to prom. no need to try to have someone to commit so far in the future. maybe it doesnt work out but maybe it wouldnt be so awkward?
I've had trust issues, you see. I was in an abusive relationship. Since then, its been hard to go out with people, and trust them at the least. I was asked out by one of my best guy friends. I told him it was hard for me to trust people, but i was willing to try for him. about some weeks later he told me he didnt want to date until i trusted him. now he's ignoring me. like, he won't talk to me at all, not respond to anything. i feel really terrible. i just need advice...what shud i do
You probably wont answer this question seeing ive asked questions before they were never answeres but ill still try.
Im bisexual and i introduced my friend to her boyfriend and after she met him she was saying that he was ugly and stuff like that and when i told her i liked him she stoped saying that stuff and she promised me she wouldnt go after him. But what i didnt tell her is that i like her too. A couple days after i told her i found out that she started dating him.
xJennxCatx i am so sorry for your loss, i know what your goiing throught trust me. last year my 15 year old cousin killed himself and i was devasted and depressed and started skipping school but the main thing you have to remember is life goes on and just keep like kniknacks of your brother somewhere. btw a good thing to do is set up a corner where everynight you pray to him and ask for strength .CYBER HUGS!!
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, defacated in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
Dear Buck, I've always been an outsider. Im judged immediatly by my appearance and have only found 2 or 3 people to except me as a good person. Im bullied on a day to day basis, and am called wierd for being myself. I love to be silly, and dance, and sing, but im tired of being left out. My best friend, who goes through everything with me, is transfering at the end of this year. Im starting to think that i'll have to be my own best friend for the rest of my life, and that scares me to death.
@SmileyZebra28, its amazing how quickly people grow up in college/uni and get on with their lives. im sure the bulling is very finite and will end in good time. id just look past those twats who dont have anything better to do than to tease. Maybe you do that already, but im sure they still sense what they are saying is affecting you.
dear buck.there is something that bothers me. it's actually more than one thing. first, it's exactly 3 years ago that my mom died. i told a very good friend but the only thing she ever talks about is herself. she repeats everything she says. it kinda bothers me, but i still love her as a friend. should i say something about it? second, in 3 months i will be moving out of my house because it's not working between me and my dad. im only 16. should i tell other people? or should i keep it secret?
If you think that it wont be a big deal, then go ahead and tell, but kids are gossipers. Also, if you don't want something spreading, don't tell people..... besides a counselor. I'm so sorry about your mom. I wish you all the best. And tell your friend that you would like to talk about something else. She doesn't have to control your conversation. It sounds like she's talking AT you, not TO you. K :)? cyberhugs
I know everyone has had a question for singing but i really need advice and i would absolutley love to have your advice. Im Jaken and im 15 and i love to sing and my family thinks im really good. But i want to join my school Honors Choir but at the same time i dont want the boys to make fun of me on my sports teams and call me names. Do you think i should or not. Thank you. Please try to respond :)
Jaken, if you're a good singer, then go sing! If your friends make fun of you they're not friends, they're assholes. It might also be playful jokes. Just tell them that you don't like it. If they're your friends, they'll stop. Hope this helps! Cyberhugs!
dear buck or anyone,
i like this guy and i think he likes me too but we have been friends for a long time and i dont know if i should ask him out because i dont want to ruin our friendship so should i ask him out or wait for him to make a move?
sierrasaragosa1 5 days ago
Dear Buck
I am 12 and have never kissed or dated anyone. All my friends have dated people and have even made out with people. I used to not care, but now everyone is starting to pair up and I am feeling more alone. Even my best friend (who is a guy) has found a girl (who is my other best friend). I am not jealous or anything, but I am sick of being the third wheel with all of my friends. How do I deal with being single??? because I keep feeling that I'll never find someone and be forever alone..
hahagirl727TV 6 days ago
but that he won't tell me anything else because it's "none of my business." I feel that it is and want him to be honest. What can I tell him to make him see that HE IS MY FATHER and his relationships DO affect me?
Emily <3
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Dear Buck,
My parents have been divorced for about 4 years and my mom has always been honest about her (short and not serious) relationships. I saw my dad get a text from "Hootie McG" about a year ago and he said that he wasn't ready to talk about it and became very defensive. I've waited for about a year for him to tell me what was going, being very tolerant about him (sometimes) lying about his whereabouts. Today he got another text from her and I confronted him. He says he HAS a girlfriend--
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Dear buck,
I lost my mum to cancer, within a week of the funeral, my dad was sleeping with someone else. I asked him about it cos he was hiding it from me and my brother and he said he didn't care about how we felt about it because he was happy. She dumped soon after and we were having blazing rows every day. He didn't look after my mum while she was ill, me and my grandma did that. He's now dating about 3 women from the internet and ignores me and my bro. I hate him but he's my dad. Abi, 15
AbigailLee1703 1 week ago 2
@kitkat9787 thank you so much!<3
ohmyGAAHitsme 1 week ago
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Dear Buck or anyone
Me and my boyfriend live fairly far away from each other, so that we sometimes have to wait a month to see each other, if we're busy. When we do have time to see each other, he unfortunately makes a lot of plans with his friends, which on one hand is great (I like them, and he SHOULD see them!), but I would really love to some alone-time with him, which seems nearly impossible. How do I tell him without sounding like a jerk who won't let him see his friends?
Love K
MrKdeK 2 weeks ago
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MrKdeK 2 weeks ago
dear buck is mah fave youtube show <3
neonfaceful 2 weeks ago
Dear Buck, or anyone who has any idea.
It's been one year now that I've on and off liking a boy, Jay. He's only a year older than myself, and he's super nice, musically talented, and just a general amazing person. He and I are in marching band together and at the beginning of the season *July* I thought things were going great, my section leader *Jill* knew I liked him, she is a junior, he's a freshmen. She straight up asked him out in front of myself, they recently broke up. What do I do?
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Dear Buck,
My best friend and I are extremely close and I can usually tell her everything. I recently found out she had a blog. On this blog she admits how she has paranoia and she is trying to go down to under 100 pounds in weight. She also said she self harms. She doesnt know I know about this blog, and I don't know if anyone knows either. I am very worried for her. Should I confront her and if so how? I know she used to self harm, but always denied it, but stopped soon after. Please help x
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DearBuck,Next year will be my 1st year of HS.I was excited bout this&hoping 2 start fresh,as I went through a bad phase years ago.In this phase,I was forced 2 spend time with a girl who didnt rly like me.She taught me alot,but I was ungrateful of her.Ive changed since then,&figured shed gotten over it after 2years.But Im now told she still hates me&is very vocal about it.This gave me a bad reputation,&Im so scared of going to school&being hated.I have bad selfconfidence issues&socialskills.Help?
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@12345randomaccount I know where you're coming from. I was in a similar situation; what I did was email my friend who i heard still hated me after a few years and i apologized and told her i forgave her for anything she might've said or done, and I told her how i didn't want to go into high school knowing i was on bad terms with someone. I would recommend telling this girl you'd like to start fresh, seeing that HS should be the best 4 years of your life. Good luck and enjoy HS :)
kitkat9787 1 week ago
@12345randomaccount
I'll tell you from experience, in elementary and Jr. High, there was a girl who bullied me very openly and always talked about how much she hated me. In high school, it gets better. Trust me. Being scared is normal, but even if you attend a small highschool there is still more people around than you're used to. In my freshman biology class, whenever this girl made fun of me, Juniors and older kids would stand up with me. Don't worry much!
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Dear Buck<3 I'm 16 and I have known this boy since we were 8. That's a long time for me. I think about him almost all the time. Now my 1st question is do I really like him or do I just have this weird obsession?The 2nd one is: me and him have kind of a complicated relationship. I mean we're friends, but he acts all weird sometimes (he gives me lame excuses why we can't hangout- I basically don't know what he wants) So, should I just forget about him or continue having this weird relationship?
thePOPprincess1996 3 weeks ago
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Dear buck advice? I'm 19 and rather depressed, i don't have many friends and the friends i have made in university i've just screwed over by backing out of a housing deal last minute (for no reason at all) and now they hate me for it :/ When i talk to people i just find it awkward and i never really have anything to say and i don't know what to do to make new friends, is there any advice you can give? I don't really have any hobbies either, i'm a boring person :(
Leahanimefan 3 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
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Dear Buck
My dream is to be in a band and go further with my musical talents i love to sing and i'm learnig how to play the guitar but i'm just afraid i'm not good enough and nervous to sing infront of people i want to be like my idols like Green Day and My Chemical Romance i look up to them alot, anyway my brother always says i'm not good at singing so thats lowering my confidence but my friends say i'm good.i'm so confused i don't know what to, do you have any advice?
GreenKilljoy99 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck,I have this friend who is disrespectful and gossipy.I have unsuccessfully been trying to move away from him as a friend.He admitted to me that he vandalized another one of my friend's houses,and made me promise not to tell.My friends father called the cops so if I told he could get in serious trouble.I know if the situation were reversed he would tell everyone about it the next day and not keep the secret.Should I keep a secret for a person I don't even like or tell the truth?
dancepants009 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck Or anyone Im bi and lets say im 15 (I have been told by doctors I have matured with attitude and personality and "Physically")but this is my question I have never kissed anyone or dated anyone before but I know Im bi because I have found myself finding both sexes attractive How can I get a boyfriend or a girlfriend Please dont say that I am just going threw what everyone else does because I have also been proved by doctors that I am passed all of that
Please someone answer this to help
MrRyangproductions 3 weeks ago
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Dear Buck or anyone,
Hi, I'm 13 and Earlier this week, a guy at the high school I will be going to committed suicide by shooting himself. All my friends REALLY close that go to the school are like super depressed. I don't like seeing them seeing them down like this, I want to help them. What do I do?
Love your show,
-Geoffrey, New Orleans
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Dear Buck, What do you think of kids in 7th or 8th grade? I'm 8th grade and I think thier really in a hurry to grow up instead of just being a kid as in just hanging out and just have fun outside like playing
theniceAZNguy1 3 weeks ago
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Dear Buck or Anyone,
i've been making videos for quiet awhile but haven't been getting good results with them what do I do???
MrRandomvidz97 3 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
@MrRandomvidz97
If by not good results you mean not much views or support to be perfectly honest I get no much results at all with my videos but I continue with them because I love making them but if you love making videos then you should continue and my tips for you would be
Ignore Haters (They just think they are impressive and are funny or something like that)
Love your videos yourself without getting cocky (Not that I think you would)
Have fun (If you dont enjoy making videos, u shouldnt:)
MrRyangproductions 3 weeks ago
@MrRandomvidz97
Just do what you wanna do and enjoy yourself
(Oh and this is my decond reply to you the first one has advice in it) <3 All the best
MrRyangproductions 3 weeks ago
@TheRenthead99 Two words: "COMBO LOCK"! That helps A LOT!! (Sorry if I sound mean :P)
WeirdChick223 3 weeks ago
@SoniClub Thank you for the advice =]
poll7895 3 weeks ago
Dear buck or anyone,
i'm a 13 year girl and i have been with my boyfriend for two months now. The thing is that i like spending time with him but there's no spark and we work better as friends. Also i have liked another guy for a long time and i try push the feelings away but they get stronger every time i see him. I can't stop thinking about him and i've just found out he might like me back. The boys don't know each other, if that makes any difference.
lily, england
ohmyGAAHitsme 3 weeks ago
@ohmyGAAHitsme I'll give you the same advice I'd give to one of my best friends: don't put your boyfriend through that. I honestly think you should tell your bf that you'd like to spend time with him as just friends and even mention seeing other ppl. Even though your bf does not know the other guy or your feelings for the other guy, in the end it wouldn't be fair to your bf. And it's not worth you feeling guilty about think of another guy. I hope everything works out! <3
kitkat9787 1 week ago
Dear Buck
My mum just attempted to suicide but did not succeed and is now in hospital. I am SO happy I am that it did not work but I'm extremely scared that she'll attempt it again and I don't know what to do to get her to stop. She has been through A LOT in the past 6 years and lost nearly everything. And her new partner, who helped her get out of the depression, just left her in a terrible way.
Also, I am gay but I haven't told my parents yet. Do you think this will help if I tell her?
eBurford11 3 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear Buck
My question is about something kind of trivial. I go to boarding school and about 3 months ago someone stole my laundry from the dryer. Today I saw a girl in class wearing the same cardigan I had stolen. I have a very good memory for clothing and I know it was the exact same cardigan that I had stolen, but I don't know if it was her's or my stolen one. I wanted to yell at her and make her give it back, but it was a girl I didn't really know and I didn't want to seem like a psycho bitch
ViewFrom42ndStreet 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck or anyone else replying
So my problem is that I recently found out that a friend of mine (someone who I consider one of my true real friends) when listing her most 'important' friends, I wasn't included.
It maybe irrational to freak out about this, but I feel really hurt as she listed two other friends who treat her horribly, and I feel stupid that I have a onesided friendship with her but sad cause I thought that we were really close. I don't know what to do, please help, thanks.
gygabrielle 3 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear buck
I have trouble asking for help it's gotten better, I can step back and realize when i really need help (i mean REALLY need it and I usually feel embarrassed when I do ask for help), but there are still times when I just can't ask for it, I don't know if it's a pride thing or the whole "I don't need people" thing. Is this really bad? Can you help me? Give you me tips or somethings? I feel like it's going to get worse if i don't try to fix it now.
jaschacko 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck or anyone who wants to help,
Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl whose been having some friends problems. My ex-best friend and i got in a fight over a boy and she was being really really mean to me and i apologized. We went our separate ways for a few weeks now, she's still been being really mean to me and i wanted to be the better person so i apologized to her again. I still want to be friends with her but i dont know if its worth it. PLEASE HELP!
iluvAG1904 3 weeks ago
dear buck, im 18 and i have a dad who's being abusive towards me, he tells me i never help out, so i try to help out, and its never good enough cause he always yells at me , he drinks and then he yells at me then swears at me, and brings me down to tears when im trying to make him garlic toast calling me a "f*cking slug" because i didnt make it right, i would move out but i dont have the money and im still in school, trying to go to university next year, all i can afford is the rent i pay, HELP!
inlivingwearedying 3 weeks ago
dear buck,
im a very opinionated person, i won't deny it, but the trouble is i find it VERY hard to keep my opinions to myself. i always tell myself to keep quiet and not say anything, but i always end up giving my opinion- which is usually different to everyone else's. i can feel people getting irritated with me, but i can never shut up. and then i feel annoyed cuz i feel like im not allowed to give my opinion, which is ridiculous. how can i stop myself from running my mouth all the time?
Daisy
HelloDaisy94 3 weeks ago
@HelloDaisy94, lol. you could pass as an american, just come across the ocean.
but to answer your question: learn to listen. it is something can cannot be learned fully but you can attempt to. then if someone asks you something, then speak, else dont offer what you think on given topic. it's a bit of self restraint but worth exercising and practicing that self restraint.
good luck!
dragade101 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck,last night my sibling got ex termly mad at me over of all things telling my mom that she might be having people over I didn't do so to be a taddle but, just so my mom wouldn't be in her p-js if they came. Well she got me feeling so useless and angry that I...kinda cut myself I say "kinda" because there only scratches I don't want to alarm you by telling you such things but I wonder if you had any advice on not letting her get to me like that.
quitbuginthecows 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck,or anyone who will help us. I get to see my friend once a month sadly. and every time i see him he's covered in bruises. He is abused (sexually and physically) but he wont tell anyone...the only reason i know is i witnessed it by accident. I promised that i wouldnt get help without asking him. but i need some advice cuz my heart says stay true to my friend. But my brain says GET HELP!!!! PLEASE HELP HE"S THINKING OF SUICIDE!!! D": i also tweeted u -LoveBlackAngels
Wolfzwhisper 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
My best friend has anger issues. I've tried to help her in the past but it just makes her more mad. Last year someone tripped her and when I tried to help her up she pushed me into a wall. This year I started reading these books and I wanted to read it at recess. She came up to talk to me but when she saw the book she stormed off. I asked what was wrong and she said I don't hang out with her enough. Please help. Thanks.
Sandclaw123 3 weeks ago
dear buck or anyone,
My friend Rachel is dating the boy (lets call him k). Rachel really likes him but k is kind of a player. last night k sent a text to my other friend Robin. it said when he breaks up with Rachel he wants to go out with her. i think that k is being a jerk and if i was Rachel i would want to know about what he did, i told my friends that but they don't think we should tell her. But should i tell Rachel about this anyways, she deserves to know doesn't she?
-thanks
polarpanda16 3 weeks ago
@polarpanda16 i would tell rachel now cause if she finds out later and she knows that you knew it could damage your friendship badly
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@polarpanda16 I know this is late, but if you two (you and Rachel) are close friends, I think she will appreciate you telling her.
kitkat9787 1 week ago
Hi,
Umm, help please? I will admit it. I'm Bulimic. Not for very long, once a week for a month I have thrown up. I am really ashamed. No one knows. I need help. No matter how hard I try, I can't get my self to stop. Does anyone have any advice? I really need help. Please?
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Dear Buck or anyone,
I have this huge crush on this guy a grade above me (he's a junior, I'm a sophomore). We have no classes together other than lunch. I want to talk to him, but I really have no idea on how to do so without coming off weird, or anything. I wouldn't even know what to say. Any advice?
xLewis43x 3 weeks ago
@xLewis43x, you make classism as much as you want it to be. Id just chuck age and class out the window and think about you and him. 2 humans. if that is not simplified enough then ask him out. maybe this is where you pull the groupie card and get a film club going. Its wonderful when people are more direct and dont hide behind screens (smoke or terministic screens)
dragade101 3 weeks ago
@xLewis43x OMG same here!!! What i did and maybe you could do as well, is i would sit next to the guy i liked and ask him how his day was. I knew his fav class was autoshop and would ask him if anything interesting happened in that class, etc. Eventually he started being the one to come find me to sit next to and ask me. If that doesn't work, you could just start out with small talk and as you get to know him, find things you both like to talk and joke about :)
kitkat9787 1 week ago
How can i convince a girl i like to go out with me if she isn't looking for a relationship at this time i really like her
MonsterJamLover1987 3 weeks ago
@MonsterJamLover1987 If she isn't looking for a relationship, you could always still ask her out on a date, maybe dinner and a movie? In the meantime, just be her friend and be there for her, so hopefully when she is ready for a relationship she'll soon turn to you :)
kitkat9787 1 week ago
Dear Buck-I no you wont read this.
Im a 16yr old girl. In the last 3 yrs I began making myself throw up, overdosing on diet pills, laxatives, starving myself for up to 2 weeks at a time (doing anything to lose weight). Also self harm and attempted suicide and very feeling depressed. Some friends no, but dont understand except a new friend with anorexia. We have developed a strong friendship and exchange dieting tips. i no its not healthy, but theres no one else to turn too. What do I do? Amelia
AmeliaRd 3 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
@AmeliaRd Dear Amelia,
PLEASE STOP!!!! you said you are trying to loose weight and doing this much to loose weight is just plain stupid (not meant to be offinsive) there is soo much more you can do .... for example go to a gym maybe even ask your friends to come with you .... go on a SAFE diet ...... maybe even get some help and talk to someone a out it please let me know if i have helped you
-Cece
ccowgi 3 weeks ago
@ccowgi
Thanks for replying. But just to clarify, I do go to the gym-about twice a week to be specific. I also do ballet 5 hours a week. I mean I do try excercising and have done healthy diets, but nothing is quick enough. I no I'm heading i a downward spiral, but there is no one to talk to except tis girl. No one understands and instead of trying they just say i'm being stupid and am already thin. I'm 5ft3 and 98lbs,when you have fluctuated between 86lbs and 110 in a few months 98 is to much.
AmeliaRd 3 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
@AmeliaRd, im 5' 3" and 130lbs (with hardly any fat). I would never want to drop as low as 100lbs. That is just a stick. Get your weight up to 110lbs (its ok if that is mostly fat). Make sure your diet is at least 1300 Cals (1400 might be better), if you feel tired or weak, more food for you then. I assume you want to 'look good' and feel good about yourself. Being a stick isnt attractive.
Lastly: there is something called baby fat, that doesnt just disappear. Give it another 4 yrs.
dragade101 3 weeks ago
*or anything -.-
YourFriendLeah 3 weeks ago
Oh, and thanks! - Leah.
YourFriendLeah 3 weeks ago
cont. completely torn up self-harm? It's not like leaves a scar lot anything.
YourFriendLeah 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I snap my wrists with rubber bands whenI'm upset, angry or stressed. It's the way I cope with everything. It's the only way I know how to cope with anything. It's a release. Recently, my friends have have been finding out and are worried. They say it's a form of self-harm, its unhealthy and I should stop. I don't see it as self-harm, I mean it's better than cutting or burning myself or something. So, my question is: is snapping my wrist to the point where they're completel
YourFriendLeah 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
Hi I'm a 15-year-old girl and I'm bi. There is this girl that I'm madly in love with. She is a sophomore and I'm a freshman. We played basketball together and I kinda moved my feelings to the back of my head. Since I've stopped basketball they have kinda taken over EVERYTHING... She is amazing in every way possible and I really wanna tell her that I like her. Too bad she has a gf AND my basketball career for the next 3 years wold be ruined.. What do I do? Please like so buck can see!
horsefeathersgirl100 3 weeks ago 2
Dear anyone, i'm a 16 yr old girl. Been having panic attacks, bad headaches, muscle spasms, high stress level, depressed, && this ringing noise in my head. If anyone can give me answers i'd appreciate it. Thanks.
Ramenisawesome2013 3 weeks ago
Continued,- weeks for surgery and more chemotherapy. I don't want to tell my parents what's wrong with me because I don't want to make them anymore sad then they already are. I also haven't told my friends anything because I don't want to be a burden on them. I play off my schitzofrenia as something funny so people don't really understand what is happening to me. What should I do?
-jack
jackmHudak 3 weeks ago
Dear any one,
I am fifteen and I have been depressed since I was 9. I also suffer from schitzofrenia. My depression had led me to cutting myself as the pain gives mental relief from any malicious thoughts in my mind. I have stopped recently because I am borderline anorexic and the pain it gives me has become enough that I don't need to cut myself any longer. To make matters worse my father was diagnosed with bone cancer in his jaw in November and will soon be going into the hospital for a few
jackmHudak 3 weeks ago
Dear Buck/Anyone, I broke up with my gf 3 months ago, whom I had been chasing/crushing on for a year before we started dating. At the time of the split I was glad that it was over as the stress that was induced from the relationship was too much for me (I suffer from clinical depression). However, recently I have been feeling like I shouldn't have broken up with her. I don't know if I should try to get back with her because when we were together I was very happy until the end.
Thanks
mcduper101 4 weeks ago in playlist More videos from peron75
"you're brothers are assholes" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH XD
DarknessInVivian6 4 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years this February. I feel like I am not as happy in the relationship as I used to be and I've spend a lot of time thinking about breaking up recently. I still love him, though. How do I know if it is time to break it off?
Thanks, Buck!
EternalEloquence 4 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
dear buck, it is my first year of highschool and i have trouble motivating myself to study. How can i get more motivated? Also, what is a good study plan I can use.
KyraIsFunny14 4 weeks ago
@KyraIsFunny14 I had a teacher recommend tht if youre trying to learn something such as vocab, type up the vocab list and laminate it and tape it on the wall in your shower, so that while you're showering you can study. i know it sounds weird, but it works! To get more motivated to study, make goals to have B's then B's and A's then A's then A's over a certain point... if that makes sense. don't rush into those goals unless youre rdy, or you'll get stressed and be less willing to study.
kitkat9787 1 week ago
Dear buck, I have a boyfriend who I met online that lives two states away from me. I completely trust him, we've video chatted, talked for hours so that's not an issue. The problem is i really wish I had a boyfriend who was actually HERE someone I could hug and be with. A boy on my swim team really likes me, I can tell but im not sure what to do. Do I flirt back or would that d betraying my boyfriend? And if this other boy asks me out then what do I do? Please help!
EpikPhaylz 4 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
I am 14 and so is my bff.She drinks smokes drugs and goes to parties at four am when her parents are asleep.This only just started two years ago when my whole family was out of the state.She has told me about the unsafe things that have happened while high. Sometimes she is too high to walk by herself.I want to tell her to stop or at least to be more careful but she doesn’t seem to take it seriously. She is still my bestfriend and I care a lot for her.Do you have any advice?
-Winter
Sasori9994 4 weeks ago
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Dear Buck,
Hi my name is Owen. And my ex-gf's bf just almost OD. I'm trying my best to comfort her, but meanwhile, my new gf's friends don't want me near her. The reason is that at our school dance, she nearly ripped my friend Matt,from his gf..... I trust my ex and I'm ignoringtout its hard.Plus my gf is worried too , but not as much.....should I keep comforting my ex, or stop to shu her friends up and how do I make them understand that she didn't mean too steal Matt from his ex?
AWSDfan12 4 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
Hi my name is Owen. And my ex-gf's bf just almost OD. I'm trying my best to comfort her, but meanwhile, my new gf's friends don't want me near her. The reason is that at our school dance, she nearly did it with my friend Matt, and almost tore him from his gf..... I trust my ex and I'm ignoring them but it's hard when they keep telling/texting you about it. Plus my gf is worried too , but not as much.....should I keep comforting my ex, or stop to shu her friends up and how do I make
AWSDfan12 4 weeks ago
@AWSDfan12 I suggest you tell her friends to fuck off and explain to your gf that your only friends. if you want you can still comfort your ex. trust me, i know how much baggage girls can have.
ketsuekishicuna 4 weeks ago
-coutinued- table, I just want to be me around her and she won't let me, and second problem is that I think I need to transition female to male and don't know how to tell my friends/parents btw I'm 14 also do you think that I am too young to make this decison?
Please help me!
Jasmyn
amuakunaza 4 weeks ago in playlist More videos from peron75
Dear Buck/Anyone, I have two problems but I would appreciate it if you would address both. Well first is that I came out as Bi/atheist last year to parents/friends and at first me and my mom had this huge blowout I was kind of expecting it but who can really expect their mother yelling at them that they are going to hell/ they are disgusting, but after my mom talked to my stepdad she calmed down and accepted it now she just ignores it! like nothing happened she asks me to pray at the dinner tabl
amuakunaza 4 weeks ago in playlist More videos from peron75
@aeriellaful GO TALK TO HER! Tell her not to make your life harder because hers is. All i can say is to tell her that you love her and that this is not the answer. Call a suicide help line. And stop looking in your inbox AND GO HELP HER!
MsWoot100 4 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
My name is megan and I am. My mom was recently diagnosed with Parkinsons disease. She is 55 years and was told that she only has about 10 years. I know that that is a long time but I was expecting to have her for at lease another 40 years. I cant stop crying, I sometimes even just break down crying in the middle of the class. I don't want her to know I am upset because she keeps telling me that she doesnt want to be upset (so I cant talk to her about it either) How do I stop crying?<3
Holian37 4 weeks ago
@Holian37 Well, I don't know how it feels and I can't really give you advice on how you just STOP crying. I mostly can say, listen to your mom, tell her you're going to miss her in the next 10 years and just have the time of your life with your mother, make the best of the 10 years and who knows, maybe she can be with you for more 10 years. Best wishes, Megan.
sally2shoes2 4 weeks ago
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Dear Buck,
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
TheRenthead99 4 weeks ago
dear buck or anyone im part of a group of about 17 or so friends but im not that close to any of them. ive been hanging around with them for about 3 years. i only have three close friends and i cant talk to any of them about my problem as ive only known one for a few months, another i struggle to talk to about important stuff and the third is a key person in my crowd. could you offer any advice on how to be more part of the crowd and less awkward, all without joining a new crowd?
help!!
IonaIsEpic 4 weeks ago in playlist Dear Buck
@IonaIsEpic So hi! Anyways, Ive had 2 friends I'm not really close to and I've just been distancing away from them on purpose. Also about your 3 others, I think your first one, it doesn't really matter on how long you've known them. The second, then that's kind of okay, I think that could be your laid back friend, and last one I think the same about your second. I think you should talk to your first one more, and see how things go. Sorry for the bad advice
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IonaIsEpic 4 weeks ago
Dear Buck,
I am a 16 year guy who just asked out his best friend and she said yes. Now, some people have told me that I rushed into a relationship and should have thought about it more. Now I'm scared and feel pressured. There's no turning back. What should I do?
8956060 4 weeks ago
@8956060 I think 16 is an okay age, and if it's your best friend and she said yes then I really don't see a problem. People might think something else, like.... Yeah, just take it slow if anything. Also it's okay, it's your best friend so I think you should be comfortable around her, and no turning back? You could say you need more time, or anything but you should try for a while and see how things go :) Good luck on the relationship!
sally2shoes2 4 weeks ago
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Dear Buck,
I don't have many friends in school and i'm 14. There are a group of girls in my class who keep asking why i hang around with the people I do, don't get me wrong my friends are not models but they are not ugly, yes my best friend is a bit strange but her heart is in the right place. What do i say to them? I normally just ignore them but it is really starting to get to me.
Zoe, London
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Dear Buck or anyone!! Im 13 and a girl gave me a bj! I know this is kinda bad for my age, but idk what to do about!! I havent told anyone, im worried if my parents find out ill get in trouble! Its not like i got her pregnant! She is also 13, and the guilt is eating me alive!! someone please respond to this!! idk what to do!
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Dear Anyone,
I'm 14 and this guy jake, A few days ago convince everybody he really liked me and made me feel really special then the next day I told him I like him too and I thought he would ask me out but insted he became an asshole and told me he'd rather my ex-BFF. I started telling my ex-BFF all about it because she's the only one who I knew would understand all the stuff about him. She got really mad at him cause he convinced me to smoke weed. He now hates me but i don't want him to. Help?
RocknRollaSaur 4 weeks ago
dear buck, my friend asked me out last friday and i told him "i would think about it i will tell you on monday" and over that weekend i had alot of homework and things to do it made me think if i have no time to do this then how will i love him more so i regected him and i was upset about it because i really wanted him to ask me and i want to know what to do because i brought it up to him and he said he was not interested anymore and im thinking about this situation and i am liking him more help
TaylorBaylorO8O5 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck 2
dear buck,
i am 16 going on 17 and im gay and i came out to my parents a few months ago... they appear to be fine with it, but sometimes i feel as if they brush it under the rug and my mom has even called me out as just being shy around girls. ive known i was gay for many years now and i feel that they subconsciously dont accept me. i really have know idea how to adress this to them. this is really eating at me and just dont know what to do, please help.
MrHeroes800 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
stop being so paranoind and start sleeping properly again? I haven't slept properly for so long I've forgotten what its like to be able to concentrate in class!!!!!!
Lots of Love Tara :)
MrsTaraBieber 1 month ago
@MrsTaraBieber, id start to exercise 1 hour, 3 days/week. like sprinting or some very extreme conditioning. then on your off days (the 4 days) just do a light 30 minutes of something else.
that will help you take your mind off the ghosts and you will be more tired and really need the sleep.
dragade101 4 weeks ago
Hiya.
This is gonna sound really wierd, but I'm TERRIFIED of ghosts. I know there is no solid evidence that the exist, but every night I feel like people are watching me in the dark. My family had to move house because I wasn't sleeping at night because our house was really old and god only knows how many people have died there! We moved into a really new, modern house and I was alright for a while but resently my paranoia has started coming back and I have stopped sleeping as much. How can I...
MrsTaraBieber 1 month ago
Dear buck,
I dated a guy 5 years older than me and he moved to California I was heart broken! He texted me that he is coming back in a few weeks but he is bringing another girl with him and he doesn't want to see me. How do I get over him and not start cutting myself again?
Thanks! love,
Willow
Moustachehoarder 1 month ago
Professional or not, I think that your advice is very solid. I'm old enough to be able to give a lot of people love advice. You and I see things on the same plane.
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Dear Buck,
I'm a Freshman in college and I just found out a friend of mine killed herself. I have dealt with loss before, but it feels especially hard because I'm far away from home and don't have a strong support system here. I haven't told anyone at school and though I have some good friends here, there isn't anyone I trust enough to tell. I feel so low and I am scared I will begin self harming again (something I haven't done in years). I don't know what to do or where to turn for help.
cyanidesuicide43 1 month ago
@cyanidesuicide43, id turn to your good friends then. you seem fine enough saying this here (in a public forum). I'd like to sound not as callous but i dont have a great way to say it in under 500 characters.
dragade101 4 weeks ago
mpares her to. It's REALLY starting to hurt her deeply and she's starting to have suicidal thoughts. HELP!
-Dere
DeCleric 1 month ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I have a friend that tries her best to make her parents proud of her. She studies really hard for exams and does her best at anything for her parents to be proud. But she just can't seem to be able to; she's not the BEST, but she really tries HER best.
What makes things difficult is they're never satisfied. They'd scream and yell at her, just because it's not an 85%, for example, and it's really hurtful for her. To add to things, she has a brother that her parents always co
DeCleric 1 month ago
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Dear Buck or anyone, I have a fwb and I have a gf. My gf and I have a long distant relationship for 5 years and continuing. I love my gf so much and I wanted to loose my viginity so bad. Now my fwb wants money. I don't know how to get it all in a few days. If I don't do that, she will tell her bf. I'm so scared and I really need some advice. Thank you so much. 19 year old Texas
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Chaosscouter137 1 month ago
Dear Buck,
I am 14 years old and I have dwarfism. I am very proud of who I am but sometimes I feel completely alone. I am the only one with dwarfism in my highschool. Being the new kid and different really gets me down. I don't have any friends no matter how hard I try. I feel as if people are afraid of me or think I have a mental disability. I get stared at and called things like "midget" and "freak". I was diagnosed with depression and it's been really hard. Do you have advise?
-Kaela
TheUnikaiChan 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck 2
@TheUnikaiChan Don't listen to the people who call you names. All they see is the way you look, short (no offence is intended there!!) Ignore them, find people who accept you for who you are and not who call you names for being short (sorry again!!)
lots of love xxxx
MrsTaraBieber 1 month ago
This is really cool. I like that you can post about ur problems and you get a BUNCH of understanding people trying to help you. I wish I could respond via my iPhone. :)
MarkLatimerRussell 1 month ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
A few months ago I had a great connection with a guy, we have known each other forever but only connected now. A friend of his said that I was saying stuff about him, which I was not. And now we never talk or hang out. I miss him, and I don't know what to do, please help.
iseestars55107 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
@iseestars55107 If you stopped hanging out and talking because that friend of the friend said you were saying stuff, i would immediately talk to the friend you connected with. Don't let a rumor come between a good friendship. It may seem awkward to bring it up, but it's better to confront these problems than completely lose someone.
kitkat9787 1 week ago
I just want to thank everyone for helping out anyone on these videos or anyone who commented, it's an immensely kind thing to do. Also, I want to thank everyone who were able to get the gall to comment their problems, it can be a mighty task to overcome.
iLOVEpicklesBRO28 1 month ago
Dear buck or anyone out there. I am 17, haven't had my first kiss, male. There's this girl I like and I told her that I liked her. She didn't respond she has been hurt my men before and she doesn't seem to want to be in a relationship. She won't tell me if she likes me or not and idk what to do. I feel like this may be my only chance (though I know it isn't). The problem is that I have low confidence in my looks, despite my confidence in other areas. What should I do? Chock it up as a worthl
MarkLatimerRussell 1 month ago
@MarkLatimerRussell If you have confidence in other areas highlight that. If she wont tell you if she likes you then she is considering your offer. Not having your first kiss yet might seem like a big deal but worrying never helped anyone. Don't sweat it. Let this girl take her time and if you don't get a respons soon bring it up again casually. But remember, confidense is key. The more sure of yourself you ar, the more sure she is.
iseestars55107 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
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Dear Buck,
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
TheRenthead99 1 month ago
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Dear Buck,
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
TheRenthead99 1 month ago
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Dear Buck,
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, pooped in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crimes wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
TheRenthead99 1 month ago
Dear Buck or anyone...
Well, i'm agnostic and my friends are REALLY religious, none of them know that I am not catholic. At first I thought that when i decided to tell them they would understand and act like they always had, but now im scared because one day they started talking about the atheists and said "they are sinners and will go to hell" OF COURSE I don't believe that, but now im afraid that if they find out what I truly believe they will hate me as well :( please give me advise
DanyRiverside 1 month ago
@DanyRiverside
If anybody doesn't like you for even the slightest aspect, they don't deserve to be your friend. I'm an atheist and all of my friends accept it (but that's just because I found an accepting group) at first I am sure a few of them thought I was horrible for being a sinner but after a while they understood it wasn't true. I am described as a "Pure and Innocent Atheist" :p
PastThoseStars 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@PastThoseStars You're right :) but I still have to find the right moment to tell them... hopefully they will accept me... THANKS you were really helpful
DanyRiverside 1 month ago
Dear Buck, My friend is getting married soon. I'm SO happy for her, but I'm dreading going to her wedding. I should explain all of my other friends that are going are in long term relationships (there are 5 of us going). I was the only one who didn't get a +1 to the wedding, and I'm just dreading being at the reception with the only other people I know being coupley. I am 21 + happily single, I just hate being the odd one out. Any tips for confidence at the event I'm dreading? Love the show! Jen
jaffa17 1 month ago
@jaffa17, find a reason to want to be there? as in that you want to meet people and have some good long conversations about what ever. maybe if the wedding is big enough this will be easy. if it is a small wedding, might be a long event x.x
dragade101 1 month ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I have a friend that I care a lot about and he's been self harming. I tell him not to do it but he continues. I don't want to tell my counselor because I'm worried that he'll hate me for "ratting". He's also been talking about him not being able to eat everyday. He'll eat maybe once a day then go without food for the rest of the day, possibly even the next. I don't want him to get hurt or commit suicide . Please help.
Marriah
TheMarriah1233 1 month ago
@TheMarriah1233, maybe try to deconstruct the causality behind all of his actions and maybe he wants help and doesnt know where/what/how/whom to ask. if you think this is over your control and he wants out from his current life style try to get someone in on this. maybe another mutual friend.
ive found institutionalize care in the usa is ok. kind of shitty tbh. i dont know your age nor your location.
be careful, good luck!
dragade101 1 month ago
Dear Buck,
Im 13 and have been self harming for months now and thought about suicide every day after my dad left and my brother & ex step dad abused me, my mom doesn't seem to want me. I am very uncomfortable with myself and my looks, I get bullied a lot for being "emo" to make it worse I'm bisexual and I get bullied for that too, please help if you have any advice.
Cyber hugs,
Rachel-3
Raysixx779 1 month ago
@Raysixx779, im sure you have heard this in some form or another, we make our own happiness. sometimes it is exterior to ourselves but that is dependent on a certain factors that are most likely out of our control. i'd try to find it in yourself to be happy and do what you like and makes you tick.
about your body, your 13, id expect most 13 yr old bodies to look very different over the yrs. sometimes it's our perception of the body that makes us not like it. just keep that in mind.
dragade101 1 month ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
My name is Emily and everyone bullies me.I've just started high school and our English teacher lets us choose a song to play if we're working hard enough.I chose Haunted by Evanescence and since then people have been bullying me.When I walk to corner shops (yes, I'm from England) people spit at me and Shout Emo or Goth.Recently people at school have started attacking me just because of one little song.I sometimes fight back by saying she's a better singer then her.
thx byex
MsCreator999 1 month ago
Dear Buck
Hi I'm 13 and I really like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. Sometimes it feels like we are just friends but other times it feels like something more. But that is not the problem. The problem is that my best friend likes him just as much as I do. Should I go for the guy or back off. By the way love your show!!!!!!!!!!!
bandgeek101maniac 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear Buck,
I really like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me to. We are good friends but that is not the problem. My two best friends like just as much as I do and they don't know that I like him and just don't know if I should go for him or back off. By the way I love your show!!!!! Cyber Hugs.
bandgeek101maniac 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear Buck or anyone.
my name is alanna and i resently got my first boyfriend .we have been going out a month and 2 weeks but i still havent told my dad.my mom and dad have been split up since i was small and i stay in my dad's house on the weekend .all of my family know except him and honestly im afraid to tell him because he has gotten angry over people im friends with and im afraid he will make me brake up with my boyfriend if he doesnt like him
what should i do?
thanks bye !!!
ookaminukiba 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Dear Buck,
My name is allison and my grandma just passed away recently. Before she died my cousin Trey had nothing to do with her, now since she's gone he uses her for attention. Also this is the way his whole family acts. How to I come out and tell him to stop and/or how do I deal with it??? I really need help please help me!!!!!!
Thanks- Allison xoxo
browningcrazy62 1 month ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I'm in my first year of Uni & really struggling with one class, even worse is that try really hard, but the tutor just doesn't like me and ignores me until he wants to embarrass someone and ask them a horrible question. He clearly has favourites and today he told me I have to give a 10 minute presentation next week and I'm freaking out because I hate public speaking. Do you have any advice on how I can overcome this or get him to stop picking on me? Thanks xx
smartiebutton 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear Buck or anyone,
I know this is a super classic question, but i really reeeaally need help! i'm madly in love with a guy i am going to a new school with next summer. he is my big sister's exboyfriend's littlebrother (i know, confusing?) i've been in deep love with him for 6 years now and i look really forward to see him everyday! can you or anyone help me to get his attention? please help :-)
15 year old girl from Denmark.
SignePatten 1 month ago
(continued) please help :( I just don't know what to do.
aeriellaful 1 month ago 27
Dear Buck,
Last night my mom told me she was going to send us to our dads and kill herself. I'm 15 and the oldest of 4 kids. My mom was a foster child and had me at only 16. She just got married last week (her 3rd marriage) and I thought things were better but apparently are not. She told me her life has been too hard and won't ever be any better. After I had a complete panic attack she told me she won't but I don't believe. I can't imagine life without my mom. I don't know what to do. Someone
aeriellaful 1 month ago 47
@aeriellaful
I honestly think you should tell someone.
You're mother needs emotional help and you should get someone involved to help her out.
I'm so sorry and i hope things get better!
and i hope Buck can help you out and give you more advice.this is just what I would do:)
thegreatparade12 1 month ago 2
@aeriellaful This is much bigger than you are, sweetie. Your mom needs professional help. I know it's going to be hard, but there are suicide helplines and resources I really recommend turning to.
I'm sorry you have to go through this--I hope things get better.
SkyeDizzle 1 month ago
Dear Buck and/or anyone,
There's this girl who has a cutting problem and claims she's "suicidal" and she's personally a bitch with barely any friends but i want her to get help but i dont know what to do or who to talk because she's been trying to say shit to hurt me and she made me cry, and i think its because she's seriously unstable i went out with her ex but honestly we were never friends. what do i do? cuz i swear she keeps talking im gunna go off her.
-love mayo!
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kacieyourmom 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Dear Buck, or anyone else.
Hi! So prom season is fast approaching and I have really no idea what to do about taking a date.. there's a senior that goes to my school (I'm a junior) and I think he would be so much fun to go with. He's cute, and funny, but popular. I get along with the popular people, but I wouldn't say I'm best friends with them. I don't want to ask him and have him avoid me if he says no! I don't want it to be awkward seeing him after. Hashtag: this shouldn't be so stressful!
Iamfofreakinsho 1 month ago
@Iamfofreakinsho, lol @ the #.
anyhow: ask him on a date now, unrelated to prom. no need to try to have someone to commit so far in the future. maybe it doesnt work out but maybe it wouldnt be so awkward?
dragade101 1 month ago
Hi Buck!
I've had trust issues, you see. I was in an abusive relationship. Since then, its been hard to go out with people, and trust them at the least. I was asked out by one of my best guy friends. I told him it was hard for me to trust people, but i was willing to try for him. about some weeks later he told me he didnt want to date until i trusted him. now he's ignoring me. like, he won't talk to me at all, not respond to anything. i feel really terrible. i just need advice...what shud i do
BaileyBabyBear 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Dear Buck or anyone.
You probably wont answer this question seeing ive asked questions before they were never answeres but ill still try.
Im bisexual and i introduced my friend to her boyfriend and after she met him she was saying that he was ugly and stuff like that and when i told her i liked him she stoped saying that stuff and she promised me she wouldnt go after him. But what i didnt tell her is that i like her too. A couple days after i told her i found out that she started dating him.
ilovecal21 1 month ago
xJennxCatx i am so sorry for your loss, i know what your goiing throught trust me. last year my 15 year old cousin killed himself and i was devasted and depressed and started skipping school but the main thing you have to remember is life goes on and just keep like kniknacks of your brother somewhere. btw a good thing to do is set up a corner where everynight you pray to him and ask for strength .CYBER HUGS!!
mommymarms 1 month ago
Dear Buck,
I'm twelve and, I was recently the victim of a hate crime. Somebody snuck into my gym locker during swim practice, stole one of my shoes, defacated in it, then threw it in the garbage with some old yogurt. The teachers are pissed but heres the problem. There were two other schools playing in games and matches that day. We may never catch who it was, and I'm scared that it'll happen again. I'm scared of hate crime wherever I go. Can you help me get over the anxiety of a hate crime? :'(
TheRenthead99 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
Dear Buck, I've always been an outsider. Im judged immediatly by my appearance and have only found 2 or 3 people to except me as a good person. Im bullied on a day to day basis, and am called wierd for being myself. I love to be silly, and dance, and sing, but im tired of being left out. My best friend, who goes through everything with me, is transfering at the end of this year. Im starting to think that i'll have to be my own best friend for the rest of my life, and that scares me to death.
SmileyZebra28 1 month ago
@SmileyZebra28, its amazing how quickly people grow up in college/uni and get on with their lives. im sure the bulling is very finite and will end in good time. id just look past those twats who dont have anything better to do than to tease. Maybe you do that already, but im sure they still sense what they are saying is affecting you.
dragade101 1 month ago
dear buck.there is something that bothers me. it's actually more than one thing. first, it's exactly 3 years ago that my mom died. i told a very good friend but the only thing she ever talks about is herself. she repeats everything she says. it kinda bothers me, but i still love her as a friend. should i say something about it? second, in 3 months i will be moving out of my house because it's not working between me and my dad. im only 16. should i tell other people? or should i keep it secret?
steefjeuh 1 month ago
@steefjeuh
If you think that it wont be a big deal, then go ahead and tell, but kids are gossipers. Also, if you don't want something spreading, don't tell people..... besides a counselor. I'm so sorry about your mom. I wish you all the best. And tell your friend that you would like to talk about something else. She doesn't have to control your conversation. It sounds like she's talking AT you, not TO you. K :)? cyberhugs
TheRenthead99 1 month ago
@TheRenthead99 Thank you very much for your advice. it really helps make things feel better
steefjeuh 1 month ago
Dear Buck,
I know everyone has had a question for singing but i really need advice and i would absolutley love to have your advice. Im Jaken and im 15 and i love to sing and my family thinks im really good. But i want to join my school Honors Choir but at the same time i dont want the boys to make fun of me on my sports teams and call me names. Do you think i should or not. Thank you. Please try to respond :)
JAKSEN87 1 month ago
@JAKSEN87
Jaken, if you're a good singer, then go sing! If your friends make fun of you they're not friends, they're assholes. It might also be playful jokes. Just tell them that you don't like it. If they're your friends, they'll stop. Hope this helps! Cyberhugs!
TheRenthead99 1 month ago