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  • no gogst

  • @andreasegde..I agree wholeheartedly!!..thanks for sharing...peace

  • house of knight

  • i clicked this to see the red ass lips :o

  • God Bless You....! You saved my life! I have dried my tears, I am getting out of bed, and starting to focus on my wonderful baby and my wonderful family! Thank you!

  • Thank you so much Tonya. When you said, "Happiness is a choice" I felt like crying. It's so true.

  • this is so fake...

  • 2008

    

  • solution : smoke weed and listen to real rap music

  • Thank you for reminding me of these things, I already knew this but had forgot to apply it to myself, an emotional Vampire just left my house but I feel fine now. I love your persona

  • peace.

  • wheres the tits? What a waste of video. IM DISAPPOINTED!

  • emotianal vampires are called psychic vampires or sanguinarian vampires.Sanguinarians are wayy more rare,i just firgured out they...real...eep

  • vampire facts... vampires are allergic to youtube.

  • @JoeRingo118 Huh?You CANT be allergiv to youtube,that A STEREO TYPE SO IS THAT BAT THING YOU WROTE BEFORE YOU TROL!!!Sorry...(Cough)troll(Co­ugh)...

  • @emi7cimpyay vampires are stereotypes. they are actually just another kind of canibalz. can´t turn into a bat, can walk in the sunlight. congrats my friend, your just a no life which wants to be something.

  • @JoeRingo118 Your saying that to someone whose neighbor's son is a cop,im his friend,he'd do anything legal for me >:)

  • this video doesnt referre to actual vampires...there are those who simply are bad and like putting you down...doesnt mean they are vampires.... :/

    the real meaning of emotional vampire is way diferent

  • i love vampires. are you scared of them?

  • soo for the more slower people: monk A and monk B (the other one)

    Monk A was kind enough to carry the girl over, while Monk B got angry.

    Monk A told him that he was just carrying the girl and now thats out of the way.

    Monk B then had alot of thoughts about what happened there, should he have helped the girl himself, should he tell the priest what sin Monk A commited.

    is it unfair is it just himself being to closeminded.

    i guess i didn´t understand it too good myself so i can be wrong.

  • @Bsmurfdizzle Thank you! I really needed to hear your story about the monks and the woman. Made my day (and perhaps the rest of my life too) :)

  • we vampires are very kinda creatures! theirs very few documentation of us killing humans!

  • @jolly500016 so you are a rats with wings... interesting.

  • @JoeRingo118 we dont turn into bats you inseferable little troll!

  • @jolly500016 there has been only one vampire in the history of man, that was a man which was named vlad dracula, he had a disease which made him very sensitive to sunlight and blood was the only thing his body could digest. that is still canibalism. vampirism is the same a being a canibal, just the fact that youré abit dumber because you only take the blood of your victims....

  • @JoeRingo118 thats because he have the vampire desease

  • @vampiregirl12234 Yep!! :3

  • Ki user unite !

  • Oh so happy to have found you again. THIS was to Be; Some Angel-guides had a Being call me June.24, 2011 their message to me was; "SOME beings had talked judging me at a special gathering I was called to go on. The energy has flowed within my being causing me to 2nd Guess WHO I KNOW I AM + the Path I am RIGHT ON 100% PLUS<--Exact words. :-)) I WAS to beware of these vampire beings that will speak words doing their best to bring me down. The same day I got this message; a being did this.:) <3 U

  • i am not a vampier will i get bet? :'( but i doooont waaaannaaaaaaa

  • I really like this video, thank you . The story about the monks is excellent and this information is very helpful and with great presentation.

  • Awesome vid, there are alot of energy vamps here . LOL <.< p'ce to you all

  • your fucking gay affrican oh if you any like hack me ill bitch slap you back to africa

  • @JBROCKSABLE Why the hate bro?  are you mad? you are what shes talking about in the video :D p'ce to u

  • This is so true about people who "carry negativity" on their shoulders, and I'm sure a lot of people have done this. Emotional vampires are like the sirens from the sea, "dragging sailors emotions" to doom and gloom to the "depths of the ocean". Drowning in their negative emotions in response to the "songs of the sirens".

  • i'm vampire and i will suck your blood so be ready to see me ^^

  • i dont get it....

  • ok wth is this? Do you recon you're vamp or somehat, I aint sure wtf this is bout?

  • ew vampires girls kissing???!!! ewww whats next porn???

  • this waz dumb! i wanted to see two vampire girls kissing and bitting each other, not this!

  • WOW! GRRREAT monk story!! Thanks!

  • Thank you. I found your talk about emotional vampires helpful.

  • Wonderful vid Tanya! I've kept this video and watch it when these kinds of people get me down, even when I'm no longer in that situation, I can see I'm still carrying them around and it's taking away from the good things in my life. There is so much good to focus instead and thank you for reminding me of that again! Much love and gratitude to you!

  • @jtking2504 Wow! You "Get it"

    Thank you so much for commenting

    -Tko

  • @jtking2504 bozo

  • @JBROCKSABLE, LOL

  • Love this video. No one can take up space in your mind rent free, unless you allow them to! Keep it up TKO! Sub to youtube.com/BearAndRainbow.

  • please change the subject . african woman talking about something,. is not what i expected when the subject is Emotional vampires

  • What the crap is this?

  • sometimes the roles are odd...like charming and loving in public, but cruel and heartless at home. or loving parent during childhood but emotionally abusive after puberty. what do you recommend when cruelty comes from your closest relationships?

  • Labelling people as 'emotional vampires' is very cruel. Perhaps the people who do this should look in the mirror and accept their share of the blame.

    There are bigger problems in the world and a worse friend is somebody who comes to my home drunk and terrorises my pets or borrows things regularly and refuses to return them or who verbally insults me yet will not listen to my defence let alone accept criticism from me.

  • I think you're making this proverb too convoluted. The true message of this particular story of two monks, is simply about not allowing thoughts to weigh you down. It's not really about keeping guard of emotional vampires.

  • Blah.....blah.....blah - if I had to be stranded with you in the desert and you kept talking like that - I'd bash my own head in with the nearest rock.

  • OMG awesome VIDEO !!!!!!!! Love it!!! Hey Everyone!! If you guys enjoy vampire books you will deff enjoy this one! I made a book trailer representing a new book coming out this summer!!! check it out yooo!!!! Type in the following into youtube enjoy!!!

    Awesome New Vampire Book Trailer

  • you know i think you would object a person as a emotional vampire if they make you feel upset and have their pressure on you hours of the day! am i right Tonya?

  • Hey! what's your problem.

    I'm vampire.

    >.>

  • OMG thankyou for sharing this it is very inspiring! :-)

  • i am a vampire

  • @dinkymeatgogoness sure .... so what i am Ki user

  • ,,ki///.][=-

  • Wow, I really like you. That so very well explained.... and empowering. I'm currently dealing with a very unhappy, vampiric "friend" who I'm unfortunately living with and can't afford to move at the moment, but I found this very inspiring and helpful. And hopefully I'll find my way out of here soon and really put this problem to bed.

  • There is a lot truth in this video, thanks for sharing! :)

  • There is excellent wisdom in this video. Thank you for making it.

  • I DONT GET IT

  • So true !!! 

  • wtf!

  • ht tp :/ /artemiz . proboards .c om /index .cgi

    up coming vampire forum.

  • This is really stupid and annoying

  • That laugh right at the end...player.

  • Just throw a bag of dog shit at em (vampires) and they will leave you alone trust me.....

  • oh and by the way good job! this is so true ;)

  • @dAMACA92

    haha u people lying on youtube because no body can see u.  hahaha

  • stupid video

    

  • is true!!!! U can protect UR self... put UR hands above UR belly went U talk to people

    U don't now... this will help U.. that's the part chakra they use to hangup...

    sorry my english Suck!!!!!

  • Lol "oke minute is over"

  • @Cityj0hn Second*

  • @1ady6a6afan

    LOL I'm amazingly prodigy child smart most of the times but nothing makes me laugh like my failures :D thanks for the correction.

  • thanks this is so true

  • Doesn't it matter that Buddhist Monks and Catholic Monks are very different? Don't present them as the same!

  • i'm vampire

    SO WHAT!

  • @dAmAcA92 what type are u

  • @dAmAcA92 Well, I'm Dracula X and I say get back in your coffin!!!

  • @dAmAcA92

    this video is annoying isn't it?

  • @dAmAcA92

    Vampires are parasites. Make your own energy, sucker.

  • @onefodderunit Just because you say so?

  • @dAmAcA92

    If you're a vampire, you're a blood sucking parasite. An energy thief.

  • @onefodderunit Mjm i know ;)

  • Why in video there are Christian monks and Buddhist monks?

  • @RudySmok That's not in this video... if you look on the side you will see a video which says "Happiness is a Choice" its in That video that I talk about the Bhuddist Monks

    Thanks for watching :)

    -Tko

  • I was happy until I watched this. Now I want to shoot myself.

  • That's one hell of a BAD case of "job not going right" hehehe....

  • this is a stoopid Bitch!

  • this is bullshit!

  • Emotional Vampires and vampires are kindda the same the only difference is that a vampire suck blood and some suck humans energy an Emotional Vampire suck life energy.both are healthyer with it .

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  • Thank you, you're amazing, subscribed.

    I've been dealing with an emotional vampire for a while, LOL! It was a challenge put in my path but I figured out how to deal with her, as you said.

    I stopped reacting & started acting happy as if I did not give a damn at her hateful & obvious antics. I noticed her becoming angry, I could literally watch her fuming, she had to sit in her own bad energy, unable to pass it on to me. I was laughing inside at her, knowing I had finally figured her out.

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  • Excellent video and excellent advice!

  • THANK YOU

  • Regardless to what some of these folks say. Thank you. Good message and the very points you make should empower you to look over some of the comments here. Set them down as well. This was appreciated! Remember as with the fictional vampires of screen, they love to sleep on their own dirt, come out in the darkened areas away from the light....and you should never invite them in. Thanks TKO...

  • I heard that story about the monks before

  • Allthought it's a choice, at's VERY hard to avoid them, and overlook them. If you out you'r self, or showes the world that you are just a little bit sad. They'l take the change, and they'l let you down. Not vampires, not anyting like that! They are humans just like you and me!

  • Emotional Vampires do not exist.

  • So true! You have a really calm and soothing voice btw!

  • Thank you for making this video, I appreciate it!

  • wow another vampire.... mhm....

  • You're an angel.

    Thank you!

  • my friend is an emotional vampire but he feeds off of emotions like anger, happiness, fear, etc

  • YOU SUCK.

  • Thank you for posting this! After dealing with an emotional vampire, this is exactly what I needed today. 

  • im a vampire im going to eat you

  • I completely understand!!!nice video

  • this lady is shit

    

  • Happiness is NOT a choice!!! Happiness is caused by a chemical in your brain called SEROTONIN. You can have everything in your life (money, god, women, etc.) but you'll still be unhappy without serotonin. There is nothing you can do about it.

  • Tko, the sound of your voice is quite soothing.....

  • i hate the lady

    yeah yeah who wants her talking

  • i was just watchin stuff about twilight, then this came on... what the hell dude

  • You are so right about what you say Tania and your voice is so beautiful and calming,i watch this certain video 3 or 4 times a day.You are a smart woman and you seem to know a lot about people and it is very generous of you sharing your knowledge.Thank you.

  • oohhh, you're so sweet.... thank you for this :)

  • huh

  • DO YOU HAVE MENTIL PROBLEMS no offense

    i think i heard this before they say that a lot in church

  • this girl is talking about something she dosent know anything about.

    that "chicken factory " was old and they dont make them like that any more.

    if she had not lived nyc she would have seen an actual live chicken

    her views would be difrent. she eats fried chiken all the time at kfc so she is calling what she has eaten disgusting that is just wrong and mean to people who eat a lot of chicken. so forget what she told you and do your own reascearch

    and let someone you dont know think for you

  • There is a great book in swedish wich is called somrthing like energydrainers writtten by a phsycologest really good

  • I have problems with this...sometimes I cant let go

  • Happiness Is a Choice..

    thats smart ^_^

    i will remember it :"3

  • R U a therapest i dont know how to spell it but r u cuz u r kinda good at it

  • o...my...god i laughed through the whole damn thing!!!! omg i think im crying!!!!! 

  • how fast can 1min over.. xD

  • When someone wrongs me I cant rest until I wrong them 10 folds back. I even take the time out to meditate all on the wrong doing i can do to them. Cut their break line, slash their tires, beat up their children, break their windows, and other stuff like that. Once I I've decided on the safest plan I do it and feel 100% better. My Grand Mom wrong me one time when i was 12 years old said i was lying 10 years later I pop all her tire and gave her dog a bottle of asprin. Now im 100% happy

  • You have a real calming voice. i like that. O.k I know i'm a real emotional vampire, but don't get me wrong here, i don't enjoy it. As you said, some folks in my past stole everything from me , friend , life entousiasm...at large my soul!!!! You thinck it's funny not benn able to create anymore, have friend because you have nothing to share. Can't have a women because no self esteem. And people should leave us alone even more in the shadows??? hope you turn vampire yourself!! you'l see

  • Have you ever thought about being a therapist? Or something along those lines? Cuz like...jeez...your voice makes me wanna just run up and HUG YOU!

  • I hope you are a professional speaker, you are really inspiring. 

  • yo queria ver a personas mordiendo a otras :| o a alguien que me convierta en vampiro :|

    buda rulz!

  • wat??? first one obsessed?? im so confused!!! XO

  • i get it, dont hold in things. let it go. i looked up the types of emotional vampires and a guy friend i know puts me on an emotional rollercoaster, who makes me happy one minute, and sad the next. and hes lke the popular guy! and every time i would talk to him, i end up upset in some way. i had to not talk to him for a month before i could try again. and even when i talked to him, i was still left emotionallly drained! emotional vampires, are very dangerous, no matter who you are!

  • lmao this story was in Moonlight!! (a vampire show) like one of the Vampires said that to another. (Josef to Mick)

  • I am always impressed at how you talk. Where have you learned all of this wisdom?

  • You have a lovely soothing voice. Nice vid.

  • I want to be a Psychic vampire. It's better than sucking blood which is kind of gross if you think about it. Not every vampire burns in the sun since only Euro vampires do that and others get weakened of their powers or just plain walk in daylight.

    Sparkling ONLY exists in Twilight-land, never in other vampire legends.

  • I know someone who is more than emotional vampire, she needs so much and reaches out for all her needs. When she walks in a store she has to have everyone wait one her like a star. Especially in a shoe store, then she don't buy anything. She would make them bring out five pairs of shoes and in different colors and try them on and make the people in the store work hard then walk out.

    It gets much worse.

  • ive allowed too many of these in my life :) bravo for putting into words what ive been feeling for so long :) thank you so much.

  • ive allowed too many of these in my life :) bravo for putting into words what ive been feeling for so long :) thank you so much.

  •  thank you ..:)

  • ok secounds over^^

  • At first I was going to watch this video because I thought it was making fun of Twilight. However, once you started talking about emotional vampires, I continued to listen. You have alot of good points. My father is quite similar to an emotional vampire. If I am around him too long, I become very depressed, self-loathing, and I do not wish to be around other people. However, as soon as I am in someone else's prescence, I usually end up feeling much better. Its not all of his faul, though.

  • @kattwoman17 He was diagnosed with juvenile RA almost 25 years ago, and because of the RA, he is no long physically the person he was before, leaving him angry, and depressed towards himself.

  • never ! EVIL VAMPIRE ! if I subscribe to you, you will try and drain on my energy just as you intent to do with all the poor peeps out there as you implied at the end of the video :-O

    you're like those creepy bellydancers that my mother keeps hanging out with! (that about the crowd-thing mentioned by that (p)scientologic cathrine down there...

    (btw: slit wrists DO hurt)

  • ahhhh i was hoping this video was going to make fun of new moon.

  • this was great and im going to try harder to not let the drama get to me. thanks=)

  • BORING......!!!!!!! YOUR LAME..........

  • is this a Jesus thing?

    I don't like it when people go ranting about Jesus..

    Any ways.. most emotional vampires (btw were called psivamps) can feed off of large crowds ^_^ that way no one gets hurt :)

    People only get hurt when someone is targeted, in that case, you have every right to hit that psivamp in the face >;o because they should be doing that. Thats taking advantage of a human =o!

  • i fell asleep. being an emo vamp isn't a mental disorder, many can get on with their own lives. many like me, i'm no les vamp and take it hard when people say i am, but being a vampire, or having a vampire in the family isn't something you shoudl all worry about.

  • Your really pretty.

  • it is really hard when the person you look up to is a emotional vampire!...i luv my dad very much but he has done things i wont forget...he smokes weed, has 4 kids, is an achoholic, and yells at me and my sister way to much!....im 12 and i hav been thinking about suicide scince i was 8!...i was hospitalized about a month ago for almost killing myself but it didnt help at all!!!......i hav a therapist now but its no help either..I WNT TO DIE!!!!!!!!

  • @aharlow98 Don't kill yourself. I understand what you're going through. Why don't you pray and read the bible? Therapy didn't help me but knowledge does. Seek and you shall find. God bless you :)

  • I have to avoid people for this reason. I have my hands full with everything I have to deal with, I have no extra energy for negativity.

  • this is a great video. I'm related to an emotional vampire and it so psychologically draining and it prevents you from thinking objectively. Additionally this was also emotionally abusive and took my kindness for weakness. the only thing you can do for you sanity is to cut them loose. Those people are not worth your time.

  • blah blah blah

  • BEAUTIFUL message!

  • i have bipolar.... im a vampire.... but there alot of things i am

  • YOUR VOICE MAKES MY STRESS GO AWAY

  • If you want to learn about REAL modern day vampires (the ones that drink blood, because we do) go to: w w w reallifevampires info

  • omg i understand that store!!

  • hm i've heard this story before on Moonlight, but wat does the monk mean when hes says i may have carried her across the river, but you have been carring you your whole life. wats that mean?

  • @Brightfire223 He doesn't mean 'you've been carrying her your whole life.' He means that the other monk is still carrying the lady in his head, while the other monk left her behind at the river. Does this help?

  • go get help you talking nonsence

  • For those who are interested in becoming a REAL vampire, check out w w w reallifevampires info

  • @TheInquisitor1 You can not *Become* a real vampire, you are simply born that way so please stop trolling your website sir.

  • loosers

  • Right on Girl! My cousin's that way, poor boy.

  • your confusing the term....there are ppl who are unhappy and WANT to take your energy...then there are ppl who are unhappy who want your HELP but are inherently negative.... what your saying is ignor ppl in need.... "dont help that person who got a divorce cuz their take my energy" thats the point if you have happy energy and they dont ....SHARE...help your fellow humans. but watch out for narcisistic ppl who