Gary Allan - Learning How To Bend: Video - Closed Captioned

[tuckerbeer]

He is Great,,,,, not mainstream(which we love) but big enough for us fans! Dont change Gary! See you when you come to MN again!

[FinalDestroy]

wow he is mainstream country....what in your mind would you not think so? im from mn too!!!!!!!!!!

[kurbanit]

The sexiest man alive..and that voice makes me weak...Gary has had a tough ride the last few yrs, but he is gaining progress every single day! He went to hell & back while his wife went to heaven..God Bless his loving heart!~

[2babies2luv2008]

He's awesome. Too bad his wife killed herself

It would have to mess with your head to have a spouse kill themselves. It would make you question everything about yourself.

Sad.

[FinalDestroy]

when did she do that?

[dervish79]

its Faith Hill

[Cortni106]

One of his best songs!! LOVE this song!! Good gosh he's so sexy and so is this video. Just seen him in concert the other night and he rocked! Even better live! If he come your way, def go see him!!

[5555myriam]

5555myriam I love this song

[ranitaj10]

I just love his voice!!! ;)

[lznewkirk]

compromising isn't hard if you truely love eachother,,not just lust

[AsDiamond27]

<------hopes her bf of almost 9 months is thinkin somethin alittle like this:).....Havent heard this in a verrrrry long time! Great song!!!!Love Gary Allan....n now I have my own Gary:)lol

[Amber30054]

i love this song.. eventhough my x made it his song to me.. uggghhh... shot me in the face.. dont ever make songs with people u dont no ull stay with..

[skipb88]

DAHAHAHA....that sucks, i was lauphing at the shoot me in the face, fucked up way to express yourself lol.

[babygurlfresh03]

haha "uggghhh... shot me in the face..."

[CountryWelder100]

i have told her she just dosent get it.

[1002rhino]

that is sad

[CountryWelder100]

song reminds me of my ex. she ahs no idea how much i care for her. no matter what shes done.

[cupcakeandprince]

tell her!!!! i wish my ex would speak his mind! if he loves me he should tell me, if he hates me he should tell me! then he told my best friend that i know he has trouble with talking about things.... just tell her!!!!

[snowcujo2]

aww your so fucking sweet

[coffey014]

i know how bad it hurts to get someone taken from you because of suicide but that was his wife i don't think I'll ever feel that pain or at least i hope not best wishes to you gary

[06richierich06]

i dont know why, but he reminds me of Drama from Entourage!lol

[momsrollin]

beautiful words and video...

and gary was on tour when his wife committed suicide...

[TheShortcake1]

Gary Allan is the reason I am with the perfect man now. He is THE BEST

[wynonasredbarntruck]

I love Gary Allen. He's one of the reasons why I'm starting to enjoy country music so much! If that is true about his wife, then that is very sad.

[jckjay2]

ok for the record....i live in the same town gary grew up in and went to high school. i know some of his friends, and his wife committed suicide due to deep depression.

[HickChik7]

oh my goodness, that breaks my heart. i didnt know his wife died. hope he is okay. my brother was just murdered, so i know a similar feeling, but not quite.

[sheloves2ride93]

hey dumb ass go look on his website and it will tell u the story of his wife

[nickssecretluvr]

you guys are fucking stupid! she didnt commit suicide!! she died in a car accedent!!!! seriously people get your fucking facts straight!! GOD!

[layla251]

u get your facts straight dumb ass.. she did commit suicide... at home.. in their bedroom.. who is stupid????? thats right.. YOU! u dont know shit..

[Audi104]

very sad!

[littlewhiskeygirl38]

She did commit suicide ! Everyone has their FACTS straight !!!!

[rbeary78]

yes it is true

[lovesherforever22]

that's so sad about his wife, it brings tears =..[

[britney12123]

I'm pretty sure she did

[swilsonseal]

gary allan is awesome btw does anybody know if its true that his wife committed suicide? :(

[layla251]

yes she really did.. search youtube for gary allan moves on.. its an interview with him and there u will learn of things that happened that nite

[jckjay2]

I live in gary allan's hometown in southern california, and its wierd think hes from here because country music isnt really that big here compared to most places but i still love his music

[gafaninpa]

I was at the concert where this video was shot, right up front :) HOB, NJ May 9th 2008.

GARY ROCKS!!

[brittanyparis06]

I LOVE Gary Allan's music because it is so real. I love it. Life is not always beautiful just like he sings and he gives us music to relate to when we are going through those not to Beautiful times and I love that about him. Keep on makin' hits Gary!!

[CorydonFirst]

Did he write this one???

[starballa9]

No, James Leblanc wrote this one.

[NiskyFan1]

such a beautiful song, once again an amazing job done by Gary Allan

[thisisthebestpart]

i love that he puts his all in to every song. he is so brave to still do this even though his wife killed herself.

[maverick9950]

I was happy when this one came out because it was the first honest to god happy song i'd heard from him quiet awile. Watching air planes isnt exactly sad but yeah haha i wouldnt count it as happy :P

[misssavyloo]

I don't what it is but i loveeeeee this song! =D

[baalfrit]

I have listened to Gary Allan the better of 10 years and seen him more then 7 times he is so off the hook I lost my hubby of 21 years and best friend of 10 three months apart I can fell his pain every day he is raw but awsome

[TheAxemurder69]

damn he sings the hell out of this song

[9chindafication]

saw him last night.. dodge co. fair.. sounds just like this live

[Solanco9]

This song is so touching! U Rock Gary!!

[TheWalleyepro1]

yes he does all that he went through he is still one of the best!

[misssavyloo]

There is just something about this song that i love!

[Jessica0440]

my siss loves this song

[highinthehills13]

He ROCKS

[myphlox]

GREAT SONG,CAME OUT WHEN I NEEDED IT.

[dadeorr]

This man has been to hell and back and the music shows how strong and talented he really is!

[natalieNRH]

why what happened to him?

[mcmillinracing]

Heard his wife passed away a few years back...

[natalieNRH]

thats so sad

[davemac1576]

she took her own life

[natalieNRH]

thats so sad.

i wish i didnt ask.

[DisneyFan919]

love this song my mom was at the concert this was filmed at

[letgo2217]

love this song

[hunrb27]

This guy is so talented, hes country music

s best kept seceret.

[bkong24]

awesome song

[DariousFrost]

I keep listening to this song over and over again

[jennamajors0623]

this is my fav song

[roguebekah]

i no that with emotion comes great songs...i wish it wouldnt happened to him, or to anyone (ie me)but i no that with the loss i have experienced and wittnessed, i wouldnt treasure every moment, every breath, every embrace, every color or sound...i no that no other love will replace my Greg, and am very content to live without any other even though im only 24 and everyone says ill move on...i can see y Gary Allan hasn't...

[cowboymark69]

I wonder if his didnt take her life, would his music have as much feeling? I hope that doesnt sound bad, I do love him.

[786chico]

Why did his wife commit suicide?? -A guy who sings with such soul feel can't be that bad -Wonder what happened -

[roguebekah]

i want my life back...

[roguebekah]

R.I.P Greg H. i hope u remember this song being ours when u first asked me to marry you. and i played this song for u and we cried together. but you wouldnt give up..but i no no i dont need to understand, and it part of someone elses bigger plan.. dont worry baby, im still conquering all those fears...I love you till I die.

[oneXXloveXXBOBm]

i am veryyyy very to hear this comment i rele hope u can get back to where u were before ur fiance/husbands death u r in my prayers

[midnightdew101]

his wife comited suicide?

[axs017]

yea she did a while back he looks like a completely diff person now

[anialation1315]

Just wish his wife didnt comit suicide. Hed be pretty happy

[TexasGuy1231]

even though he doesnt get along that good with the other country stars who cares this is a great song

[GitRDoneDaleJr]

All I gotta say is this right here... You can NEVER listen to ANY Gary Allan song and say you can't like it. No matter what song it is, I love them. Gary Allan is bad ass.

[kimberlitza]

i always dedicate this song to my boyfriend! lol

[josh78247]

my girlfriend told me about this song and got me up on my gary allan and this song is so awesome

[needa66762]

I love this man he has a great voice and he is great lookin!!!!!!!

[tacomagurl7]

I love his voice

[Lakeway1971]

Mastercatter you nailed it.I've been fortunate enough to see him live @ Helotes texas three years in arow and he just gets better.He played some new songs and it doesn't seem like he's going to let us down

[redgijane]

this man is awesome! guys take notes! lol jk

[mastercatter]

His songs just get better and better.

[oilerfreak1978]

I lost my sister in law in Aug/07 at 30yo to a car accident, she was a part of our family for 10years.  You never totally get over it, but life does get easier. Instead of crying I find now almost two years later we talk about all the good times we had with her and laugh. The tears are gone for the most part but she is missed more than I can say. Everything happens for a reason and until we meet again life goes on as best as it can.

[cara2010]

i know what you mean... i was in a car wreck and one of my best friends died from breaking his neck... it was the hardest thing ever... not only him being gone but still replaying that night... but you have to remember everything does happen for a reason... sometimes we never know the reason until our time is up

[massacfootballer]

this song is about him gettin back into the swing of loving someone again, he's learnin how to let her in... just like me, i lost my girlfriend in a car accident and im learnin how to bend rite now, it aint easy but its somethin i gotta do

[RILEYisBOSSSS]

hang in there bud.

[leeglidden88]

the reason he sings all the sad songs is his girl killed herself and he thinks its his fault he was reall bad with drugs and alcohal after that i just listen to a biography on him : ~ (

[castertunes1967]

this guy's last six CDS are incredible. Of the somewaht new crooners this guy is top dog, song for song

[MichelleS65]

What an Awesome song! As ALL of his though...Great Man with a heart of gold...and sooooo damn good looking as well....One Man I'd love to meet....

[Broaart]

Beautiful song and video!! Great message also.

Eddie.

[wrongstuf]

every one of his videos has a hot girl in it

[johnny32ya]

he needs inspiration (sp) lol

[RILEYisBOSSSS]

this song is so good!

[matt44903]

Why won't the closed caption work?

[TheTerminator212]

because there are none

[wildsidestudio]

Strength & Love 2 All

[bulldawgs6]

idk what they were doing in but they got home and she told him to go get her a drink and she took her life. it is sad =P

[woollybully20]

Trivia Question! What was gary and his late wife doing just hours before they came home and she decided to take her own life?

[darensmiles4]

i dont know you tell me

[4kiowas]

man gary is cool he smokes bud. and the arapahos took him in.

[yamagoof]

:( This song makes me sad..

[chris52584]

One of the best country artists of all time. At least you know he means it, and it means something to him.

[YouWish176]

paradeintherain; i care, know how he feels tho.

[paradeintherain]

the guy that i just broke up said this was his song for me that when he heard this he thought of me

[pbrez227]

nobody cares

[OtterPops22]

Love Gary Allan - Excellent Song. Great Lyrics. Thx!

[jtm101583]

The best thing about being a singer is you can cast hot models to portray the girl you're singing about in your music videos! If I were a singer I would cast hot girls for my videos like Michael Jackson casts teenage boys! (Except there wouldn't be any allegations or a trial! Ha ha!)

[colekiller46]

sad

[erichoward8888]

he puts on an excelent show

[nativecowboy1418]

Gary truly is an artist of music from the heart... when the times are tough, his music somehow relaxes my mood....... My wife and i saw him in concert in albercque,nm 2008... The best concert ever.....

[nkalesck]

i have never lost someone as close as a wife and i have no idea how gary deals with it, it is a true testiment to how great of an artist he really is. these songs are straight from the heart and i can really hear his emotions in them. one of my favorite artists.

[CUTEEYES69]

I agree with redneck1036, I also thought the same thing, its hard for any one to loose a loved one.

[Snoopcoog]

or lose a loved one.

[redneck1036]

my uncle works as a promoter and he was tellin me how gary's wife committed suicide a few years back and gary knew nothing about her problems and stuff. thats why he wrote life aint always beautiful and i think its why he wrote this song...

[aussiekenworth85]

Love this song

[L8er22]

Plain and Simple, GARY ALLAN!!!

[Maddieoxox12]

I absolutely love this song <3

[chevy299]

I love garys music and this song is beautiful he sings with heart thats what makes him special.

[d3v07]

wtf?

[yellowbonebuttababy]

I am black luv country music ! Gary Allan is hot but the man in that kilt is hotter.

[jammin413]

very very good song

[LeftBreathless]

No he explains what it means throughout the song. He's learning how to trust and open up. His wife committed suicide a few years back and he is trying to overcome that and learn how to love and trust people again. That's what it meansss.

[ENON2488]

bring back the hat gary!

[poptartu8]

i adore this song <3

[Msharkfosho]

He is real good i concert. i highly recommend to see him perform live

[gtjohnnycake]

fosho, 1st time listening to this song and i luv it! And i don't ''like'' country

[rbbnorris]

he dose put on a real good in concert i seen him in september and october of 2008 and going to see him agin in may.

[justinbuchman]

it means having to bend yourself to someone else. After being hurt so many time you have to bend your fears, thoughts, and doubt to learn how to trust and love someone enough to let them back in...Damn, you're still a kid huh...LMAO

[preppyguy92]

What does learning how to bend even mean? Cuz i missed the whole point of the song

[armthemasses]

he's wearing a Black Label Society shirt, i embrace the dark side as well.

[alildrumhappy]

That is awesome.. lol.. Gary Allen is the man!

[fun2play252]

this song explans me so much its not funny its like it was wrtien for me aye

[countrygirllover18]

were did he music vid. go of right where i need to bee? its gone!

[heynowcomeon]

At 2:11 the blond chick looks EXACTLY like Faith Hill, especially during Faith's "Cry" / "If My heart Had Wings" era.

[kainreaver09111]

One Of Gary Allan's Best songs. He gets better all the time. He really puts emotion into his songs and performances.

[TheTender31]

Completely sums up the relationship I had with my ex-girlfriend. She always tried to bend for me and just couldn't take it anymore and broke up with me. Now it's my turn to bend for her. I love you, Sarah.

[Tree121314]

I love this song he has good songs

[caseman1231]

hes awsome

best song ever besides "best i ever had"

[CledusTJuddfan]

great song

[JErgle42]

Completely Wonderful Song

[countryboysrmyhomies]

this is by far his best song ever

[tukkerleethesensfan1]

I'd say "Best I Ever Had" or "Smoke Rings in the Dark" was. But this song is great too

[blackiefnlawless]

Dude i wish youd guyz would come back to the capital district of NY saw him once and it was the best

[Jg0809]

Is Gary wearing a kilt in this video? 1:35-1:37

[rbbnorris]

No that Jaime Hanna one of his guitar player's.

[countryboysrmyhomies]

i think he was

[Prototype8907]

no that wasn't Gary, i think that was the lead guitarist, i thought it was him at first, though lol

[countryboysrmyhomies]

o alreite cool

[lukemattar]

awkward...

[vanhaele1]

this song rocks

[weaver9999]

Great Song !!!

[deerkillerfools]

gary allen your awsome im ur #1 fan but dont think that i like scream wen i see u because i am not anything like that.

[kcsummertimegirl7]

your his biggest fan and you can't spell his name right?

[cshgeo]

Of the my favorite singers and song writers, he has suffered the most. Keep blessing the world with your pain and healing, Gary. God bless you. Fans of Gary Allan, check out Kings of Leon also, especially the songs "Sex on Fire", "California Waiting", and "Arizona". Muse and Dashboard Confessional is worth the look up also.

[Kurtis01]

I love so much this song, one of my fav

[sweetspice06]

I like this song very much

[theofficiallmt]

HEy this is lmt we love you gary allen

[beckanwa]

i love u gary xo xo xo

[hornygorilla9696]

this is the nicest song i have ever heard

[firemedic18]

Awsome song.

[rockoflove6]

i dont care what any of you say! He is AWESOME!

[jeremygrooms77]

Garry Allen is that shit.......keep'em comin G.A.

sorry for your losses.........but YOU are still here so make some GOOD ASS songs about what you may be goin through..... thats true country at its best and Garry Allen can do it like no other to make you feel that shit......

awesome video gary allen is just a amazing singer