I'll be 22 in a couple of months and I'm still a virgin. It's hard because virtually all of my friends are uninhibited and enjoying plenty of casual sex or sex within a relationship.
I'm not the most charming guy in the world, but I never thought I'd find myself in this boat.
I'm not even religious.
It can be a real downer at times when you're hanging around people and the topic turns to sex either as part of general conversation, drinking games, or whatever. Nothing to contribute. :feelsbadman:
I'm 20 (going on 21 in a couple of months) and still a virgin and proud of it! I just want to reassure women out there (young or older) that being a virgin is not such a bad thing. And not being one isn't bad either! Having sex is a choice YOU make and whether you decide to wait or to have at it is up to you and no one else should be able to dictate when you're ready to have sex or not. Just be safe, aware and ready and everything will be okay!
@xoclkox I completely agree with You! I'm the same. :) BTW, you can enjoy much of love without loosing it, and first most of people forgot is the 100% bound, the care, the connection with souls...
I'm 19, turning 20 later this year and I'm a virgin. It's really not a big deal, better for 'losing' it to be special (as in the right time/place, with the right person) rather than rushed.
um I am a vargin and I do read about sex alot.. its funny some times I say something that I picked up reading to a group of freinds and they say how would you know you haven't done it. And then all I have to say is book and movies are helpful tools for learning. but really I feel like im not missing out on any thing, not to say that I think I will not enjoy sex its just iv read how to books and I think when im ready I think ill be able to "stand and deliever." do you think it helps for reed up??
Im only 13 but im madly in love with my girlfriend, (dont say you cant love at 13, ive heard it enough) weve been goin out for nearly 2 years now, but were gonna wait until were about 16 so its actually legal :)
I lost my virginity recently to my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm nearly 16 & he is nearly 17. I don't think people should worry about it as much as it seems to panic people. When I lost it, I knew it was the right time & we both said we were nervous right before hand because we were both virgins but that's ok. Just wait and the time will come when it is right for you. The right person is key in my opinion. Last year I nearly had sex with the completely wrong guy so don't do it if you're not sure!
@MISANTHROPY647 took me about a half dozen attempts over 8+ years, then a good year after buying my own, to get the gist of it...and the finer workings of its anatomy ;) LOL.
@RocknCorruptrepublic I can only imagine how frustrating it was during those 8+ years. I don't ever remember being frustrated during 4 years I've been playing.
@MISANTHROPY647 Well once I found a way to actually make progress..yeah I rarely get frustrated anymore. lol but honestly I got nowhere until I took lessons for a few months. It was like my hands had no muscle memory... that's the part I couldn't get past every time I made an attempt. haha this comment's wording is awkward considering the original vid topic. :D
18 and still clean waiting till marriage so my husband does not have to worry about anything or anyone before him :) whoever I marry deserves all of me not the left overs from other guys I would regret.
I'm a "virgin" in the sense that i haven't had sex with a man or a woman but i am pretty sure I have already broken my hymen already. I don't really find the stigma for virginity so important anymore really. I did some research and most women actually don't have their hymen by the time they have sex for the first time (because you can even break it from falling). Most pain is from stress, and anxiety. So relax to the best of your ability!
at 21 i'm still a virgin and I'm ready to be done with it. The main reason why me and my wonderful boyfriend haven't done it is because we are both college students with extreme time consuming majors, both work part time to pay tuition and have parents that love to be at home when we are.
@ItsMoriashkiBitches some girls think a guy won't liker her if she is a virgin or "inexperienced" while others may have lost it and be embarrassed or hurt that they couldn't have kept it longer and waited till marriage. It's all the pressure some people feel and they let it get to them so they have sex and regret it later on.
@flameblade111 Just don't panic about it. If the person is right (really important!!!) and the moment is right go for it. Only do it if you're 100% sure though, you don't want to regret it. Make sure you have talked about it, even playfully, before hand so condoms can be used or any other form of birth control. Good luck! :)
I feel like my "sexual debut" was one of those rare cases of amazingness, because it didn't hurt at all and it was just fucking wonderful. It was with the current love of my life a year and two weeks ago, and we'll have been together two years on May 16th. <3
I'm 17 and a virgin and proud of it. I don't want to put my body at risk of sexually transmitted diseases and risk becoming pregnant at this age. I think when the time is right, I'll know. (:
@AnnaPurser94 It's going to sound as cliche as fuck, but take it from a guy who has been sexually active since he was 17: it's really not all it's cracked up to be.
Wait for a guy who is willing to put a ring on your finger before you nail him. Trust me, it'll be worth it.
Haha love number 8. Never thought of it that way, but now I think I'm going to have a party every year in March in order to celebrate my 'sexual debut'!
To me, marriage may be the ultimate proclamation of love for a couple, but there still is no certainty that it will work out. I see why people want to wait, but it doesn't really matter to me. I think they can still be the right person for that instance, even if they aren't the right one for me forever. As long as the person means something to me in that moment, how could I regret that? I want it to be special, but it doesn't NEED to be on my wedding night :) If it works out that way, cool XD
i am a virgin nd i want t stay one until i find someone i REALLY love bcuz i really want it to b special nd i dont want to just like do it with someone b4 i know they r the right person nd i also want to have him tested b4 it happens so i know what im getting myself into nd im not going to get an std
im like really scared to lose my virginity because i heard it hustsand im scares the person who i will lose it with will be like ewwy she terrible and gross
@MrsSixx4ever I am 99.999% sure that whomever you are with will not say that. If he does, then it is one in a million; guys know (hopefully) that there is a hymen (usually), which will need to be broken through the first time. If you have any meaningful relationship, then he will respect you completely. And even if you lose it at a party or something like that, the guy won't think you are gross because virgins are thought of as more innocent. But you are NOT dirty for losing it!
@pro4skill hymens don't really exist though....I have no idea why they make a big deal of it. Rarely is it thick enough to "break", it's a clear membrane, and it doesn't even cover the vaginal opening. First time bleeding usually isn't from the hymen, as the hymen does not have blood vessels in it.
I'm the only person my wife has slept with. I think it makes us a stronger couple. In the end though, someone needs to have experience in relationship management unless there is some substantial role modeling on both sides. It's like that old adage that the only people who say money doesn't matter to your happiness dont have it. Likewise the girls who say virginity doesn't matter, probably don't have it. Just sayin. Your one true love will be glad you waited. :)
Since I can't make it to Oakland to interview you, I may as well bring it up here. I seem to be attracting only the crazy girls as lovers, and the girls I actually am attracted to, simply don't want me. This has been happening all of my life and I simply don't see why it is. Maybe we can talk about this more if I get to travel up there.
I feel like as a guy the expectation to have lost it by now is way more. My friends are talking about their drunk hook ups and Im just nodding my head like "yeah, know exactly what you mean bro
i feel like if you're going to have sex with someone, as you said, you should be prepared for consequences. i know waaaay too many girls that regret their first time and i think it's just because they didn't think about it enough. it is kind of a big deal (in my opinion) sex is (can be) a beautiful thing, and i'm not so sure you should share that with just about anyone. i think love/lust is an important thing to have. when in doubt, just wait it out. i think you should be 100% on doin the deed
@tigerfischer9: 3 reasons: I don't believe in sex outside of marriage, sex looks incredibly painful, and there aren't any great guys out there for me to choose from.
I'm almost 17, and I'm a virgin. I technically had 5 "boyfriends" but two were long distance and another two were when I was in middle school and the most we did was hug, so really I've only had 1 boyfriend. I only dated this guy for two months partially becuase he was a bit of an unattractive creep, and he was also about as mature as a 7th grader eventhough he was older than me. But yeah, now I live in a really small town and go to school online so no sex for me til college at the very least.
even though it hurts, do you still get that pleasurable feeling? if you break the skin yourself, wouldn't it not hurt? i finger myself in the shower, would this work?
09/14/11 magical, painful, he was gentle, about 20 minutes, pillow talk was interrupter by his grandpa who made me leave after a series of awkward sex jokes.
@anundeadWORM don't rush it.... seriously, you'll be glad you waited. it's not as big a deal as everyone makes it and be glad your parents are protective!
I was 17, it was after one of my football games. Ended up dating the girl for three years until I joined the Army. I feel pretty good that it was with the right person
The concept of virginity is bullshit. 1. We don't make a big deal out of it every time we have another sexual encounter. Why is zero such a magic number? 2. That whole thing about popping your cherry. Yeah, so you broke a part of yourself. But your body is changing all the time. Your hair gets longer, you loose your teeth, you break bones, you get cold sores. It's just dumb. 3. In an era where we except homosexuality, where do we draw the line really? Because loosing your virginity used to just
@DepressedAnnnie mean having a penis in your vagina for the first time but sex comes in all different stripes. vaginal, anal, oral, manual, sex with the opposite gender, same gender, with yourself, with an inanimate object. Where do we draw the line? Couldn't masturbation or using a vibrator damage the hymen just as badly as an actual penis? And who doesn't masturbate before having actual sex? You broke your hymen, you know what a climax feels like, but because you did it alone, that doesn't
@tigerfischer9 Well that's nice but (and I know I'm being a snark. Don't tell me "I wasn't being literal) what part are you giving? After my first time, I'd like to think I still have all my body parts. Ouch!
@imboor3d Not necessarily. The laws of logic concerning implication state, that truth always implies truth but untruth can imply both, untruth and truth. Here the implication would be
-,virgin => human (-, being the symbol for negation, I'd use the actual symbol but stupid youtube tends to ignore unicode characters)
So basically if you're not a virgin you surely are a human being, if you still are a virgin you might be but not necessarily are a human being ;-)
Im a 19 year old male virgin and everyone at work including the girls tell me I need to lose my virginity because it will make me feel more positive about myself, by happy and be more muture. My coworkers (especially the males) are very aggrisvily trying to "get me laid and help me out and shit" I really don't understand why they are doing it and why they are so offend I have been heavly peer presure and even ordered ( Im in the military -_-) to talk to random drunk chicks at the bar help! =(
@fbibarbie Keep strong! The girl you marry will love you because she doesn't have to think about the woman before her she will feel special because you waited for the right girl. I can never be with a guy who has slept with another girl because I wouldn't trust him waiting is the ultimate gift you could give her. Keep up your strength! Explain why you don't and ignore all the other stupid guys. <3
i started dating my boyfriend in 2009, so i was 15 then, we waited two months in (i know bad :( ) but it was kinda a birthday present and i was also ready, hes my first everything also, like i have done everything with him. i would just say wait for the right person, dont waste the moiment just cause you want it right then and there, do it with the one you love
I'm 18, still a virgin and DAMN proud of that fact. I have a hormone disorder and it causes me alot of pain no matter what I do (I have to be on a strict diet to keep my hormones in check). Whenever I do decide to have sex, the rush of hormones that will go through my body could probably land me in the hospital. I'm not in any rush to "get it on" right now haha.
22. Virgin. Waiting till Marriage. Marriage I know doesn't guarantee anything really but some supposed semi-sense of security... however for me, I feel more comfortable waiting.
Great video....I'm a virgin & 21 years old...^_^....I been living with my wonderful bf for a month going on 2....and i told him when im really and he said he has no problem with it...I love him so much. <3
me and my bf gave each other our virginities. so we both had our first time together, which is pretty awesome id say, especially since he was 20, so i knew he wasnt sleeping around. but the first time we tried was kinda funny, because he just couldnt get it in i was laughing so much. but we tried again a few days later, and it was nice. but it still kinda failed and i hurt a lot, but a few months later, it was AMAZING!
I hope that If I was a girl I'd feel fine with breaking my own hymen so that I wouldn't have such an uncomfortable first time having sex, as well as giving the prudish, uptight, self righteous society a giant fuck you for being concerned with something as frivolous as a hymen.
I lost mine last year, when I was 14. It wasn't fun or nice cos we couldn't make noise. So once we started getting into it, the bed would hit the wall real hard haha. But she left me 2 weeks later for another guy. So that kinda made me regret losing mine
I'm 21 and lost it when I was 13 to a boy I wasn't even dating who was 15. It was in a public place, it was not romantic, it hurt, and he ended up dating my best friend the next week. The worst part was I never even liked him so I was happy he was on her and not me. When I went home, I got in trouble by my parents and somehow my mom just 'knew' what had happened right away just by looking at me.
I do regret that choice, and I will have that memory forever. I would definitely recommend waiting.
*puts 'I'm a virgin' sign on top of my head* Yeah so I'm a virgin. I'm 19 and have had two boyfriends. I've been invited back to two guys' houses but I decline (that I kissed on nights out). I don't know when I'm gonna have sex but I want to to be with 'the one.' I don't want to rush it.
@IamMoaningMyrtle Amen girl, wait for the RIGHT one, and you'll be you did! if you sleep with others and then end up with someone else,it will cause complications in the RIGHT relationship.
but honestly, to me it doesn't count, because i didnt get to chose.
so i've chosen (not for any religious or self righteous purposes) to wait until the night of my wedding.
sometimes i feel like a sap.. but i want it to be a big deal.. when i chose on my own time, to surrender my own body along with my own heart to the one i love.
I'm a virgin and honestly these videos are really helping me be more conscious about who I have sex with and when and my birthmom ( I Adopted ) is also telling me about it and satin I can ask her questions so it's ALOT of help thanks Laci! :)
I lost mine @ 17. (Worst sex ever) almost decided to go gay when I couldn't orgasm. Lol. Later had sex with girl #2 (one of the best ever) who could have been #1 and it saved me from making the ultimate mistake (giving up on pussy). I wish I would have lost it sooner. That's my MAIN regret...
Argh, I hate the virginity stigma! Especially as a gay guy. The gay dynamic is strange, because it's paradoxical. On one hand, there's lots of pressure to have sex and to be good at it. On the other, most guys don't come out for a long time so they tend to delay sex until their late teens or early twenties- or beyond. I personally feel like it sucks because there are no out guys my age to date, and I don't want to 'debut' with someone I'm not in a relationship with.
Can I just say something for all of the people who are saying they're waiting until they're married?
When you marry someone, you're committing the rest of your life to them. And if your husband/wife sucks in bed or isn't intimate very often, it's one of the LEADING causes of a divorce. So if you're really seriously dating someone, like, a year+, than I'm only saying that you should CONSIDER trying sex a couple of times. :)
My close friend of 2 years and I just recently started hooking up. He is the only guy I ever felt comfy with. He treats me well and takes me on little dates and always makes time for me. Do you think it'd be okay if I made my sexual debut with him or should I wait to have a boyfriend? Because I don't think the label will make me feel better and I personally think being in a relationship at 17 might cloud my actual priorities(senior year) while this one just feels like he's my bestfriend.
Considered it plenty, but due to religion, the fear of being hurt, and the fact that it's probably my hormones driving my decisions... I'm just going to keep my legs closed lmao! I'll try to save it till marriage, but hey, shit happens!! Lol:)
I lost my 'virginity' yesterday. It was awesome. I was a bit ashamed of being a 'virgin' so I told my (boy)friend that I had been with a guy before. I'm going to stick with that lie forever :)
...do have someone I want to have sex with, lol) most of my friends who are also virgins can relate to the same issues with relationships that i have and are like minded. But other friends I have and even people i don't know who hear i'm a virgin sometimes treat me like i think sex is gross, i don't like to talk about it, or i don't know things about it and all of these things are so far from the truth! I'm not a prude or nieve, i just have values i live by and my own timeline for my life...
let me just say that I <3 your videos and i'm glad i stumbled upon this :] I am currently a virgin at an age most people have already had their "sexual debut", (22) and I get alot of mixed reactions about it. Personally I haven't found the right person yet, I'm still young and I want to make sure i'm doing it for the right reasons. I have no hang-ups about sex and probablly want it more than alot of things, but right now that just isn't my main focus in life, (let me try saying that when i...
Losing your virginity at an early age doesn't make you stupid or immature. Losing your virginity at a late age doesn't make you socially inept.
For some people, relationships just aren't a big concern, and society encourages that view as well as the opposing one. It's a confusing world we live in.
I made my "sexual debut" when I was 14. I know, kinda young. But I've been told I'm pretty mature for my age (I'm 16 now), and it wasn't just a spur-of-the-moment thing. It was with my boyfriend at the time, who had been my first love, and we had talked about it before, and I was on birth control. It didn't hurt at all, actually! And surprisingly, it was some of the best sex we ever had together. Even though we're not together anymore and he's a complete asshole now, I don't regret it.
Im 16 and well i lost mine about a month ago, it hurt like a bitch but i couldnt ask for anything more! it was amazing, and im still with the guy and weve been together for 2years(:
3 of my close friends lost there virginity when we where in 6th grade n 1 of them mited they regret it ,in 7th grade an 8th grader got prego my a 18yr old n when i became a 8th grader 2 people got prego n deep inside they regret it all so i think u should wait till ur married cuz den u wont have any regrets abt doing it but when ur young or not long as u realy think abt wat happens ather who cares when u do it.
I plan on saving myself until I'm married. I don't think it makes someone "dirty" or "impure" to not be a virgin when they're married, however, I think there is no better gift to give someone you will spend the rest of your life with than yourself. Just my opinion.
I lost my virginity went I turned 20, and to most common surprise, up until today, it was the best sex I ever had. Oddly enough. Some people might think that I was a late bloomer, but like you said, there is no age for that, just as long as you are emotional ready and responsible for the possible consequences of your actions. I took my time, I used to be religious so that played it's part, but mostly, I wanted to respect my body and my emotions, and do things at my own pace. Happy sex life!
My first time sucked!!! I had never watched porn so i didn't know what to do, he put me on top, and i didn't feel a thing!!!! ..he broke up with me the next day.. we did it on valentines day.. OUCH! lol that was 4 years ago though so its okay to laugh now! :p
Hah....I'm a 15 yr old girl and I'm still a virgin:) sadly...I think about sex all the time!!! D: I'm blaming it on the hormones, but getting jiggy is always on my mind=\ I'm not unattractive or super gross lookin, but I'm not comfortable with my body and I'm not ready for some guy to stick his peepee all up in me..but the idea seems great xD how long shall I wait?? =D
I'll be 22 in a couple of months and I'm still a virgin. It's hard because virtually all of my friends are uninhibited and enjoying plenty of casual sex or sex within a relationship.
I'm not the most charming guy in the world, but I never thought I'd find myself in this boat.
I'm not even religious.
It can be a real downer at times when you're hanging around people and the topic turns to sex either as part of general conversation, drinking games, or whatever. Nothing to contribute. :feelsbadman:
Lothy49 3 days ago
I'm 20 (going on 21 in a couple of months) and still a virgin and proud of it! I just want to reassure women out there (young or older) that being a virgin is not such a bad thing. And not being one isn't bad either! Having sex is a choice YOU make and whether you decide to wait or to have at it is up to you and no one else should be able to dictate when you're ready to have sex or not. Just be safe, aware and ready and everything will be okay!
xoclkox 1 week ago 12
@xoclkox I completely agree with You! I'm the same. :) BTW, you can enjoy much of love without loosing it, and first most of people forgot is the 100% bound, the care, the connection with souls...
BreathOfWords 6 days ago
so...if the body is an instrument and i play trombone...thanks for that stunning mental picture...
MrComputergeek3 1 week ago 2
To be honest it was so ironic I was about to have sex after I watched this the first time... But don't want to talk about what happened
chris098ihp 2 weeks ago
I'm 19, turning 20 later this year and I'm a virgin. It's really not a big deal, better for 'losing' it to be special (as in the right time/place, with the right person) rather than rushed.
Samphie7 2 weeks ago
um I am a vargin and I do read about sex alot.. its funny some times I say something that I picked up reading to a group of freinds and they say how would you know you haven't done it. And then all I have to say is book and movies are helpful tools for learning. but really I feel like im not missing out on any thing, not to say that I think I will not enjoy sex its just iv read how to books and I think when im ready I think ill be able to "stand and deliever." do you think it helps for reed up??
dmccollum93 2 weeks ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
Im only 13 but im madly in love with my girlfriend, (dont say you cant love at 13, ive heard it enough) weve been goin out for nearly 2 years now, but were gonna wait until were about 16 so its actually legal :)
pierceiscoolman 2 weeks ago
I lost my virginity recently to my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm nearly 16 & he is nearly 17. I don't think people should worry about it as much as it seems to panic people. When I lost it, I knew it was the right time & we both said we were nervous right before hand because we were both virgins but that's ok. Just wait and the time will come when it is right for you. The right person is key in my opinion. Last year I nearly had sex with the completely wrong guy so don't do it if you're not sure!
OMGusernameBITCHES 3 weeks ago
0:56 Actually, I was awesome at guitar the first time I played one... but that's because I had been playing bass beforehand. :3
MISANTHROPY647 3 weeks ago 3
@MISANTHROPY647 took me about a half dozen attempts over 8+ years, then a good year after buying my own, to get the gist of it...and the finer workings of its anatomy ;) LOL.
RocknCorruptrepublic 2 weeks ago
@RocknCorruptrepublic I can only imagine how frustrating it was during those 8+ years. I don't ever remember being frustrated during 4 years I've been playing.
MISANTHROPY647 2 weeks ago
@MISANTHROPY647 Well once I found a way to actually make progress..yeah I rarely get frustrated anymore. lol but honestly I got nowhere until I took lessons for a few months. It was like my hands had no muscle memory... that's the part I couldn't get past every time I made an attempt. haha this comment's wording is awkward considering the original vid topic. :D
RocknCorruptrepublic 1 week ago
18 and still clean waiting till marriage so my husband does not have to worry about anything or anyone before him :) whoever I marry deserves all of me not the left overs from other guys I would regret.
Jadespeakschinese 1 month ago
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KoRnyGirlx 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I'm a "virgin" in the sense that i haven't had sex with a man or a woman but i am pretty sure I have already broken my hymen already. I don't really find the stigma for virginity so important anymore really. I did some research and most women actually don't have their hymen by the time they have sex for the first time (because you can even break it from falling). Most pain is from stress, and anxiety. So relax to the best of your ability!
FinsternisSan 1 month ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
I was 20 when I lost mine.
It was cool because I lost it to my best friend at the time who was also a virgin :) It was nice...being new to it and trying new things :)
lilmissmarcher 1 month ago
at 21 i'm still a virgin and I'm ready to be done with it. The main reason why me and my wonderful boyfriend haven't done it is because we are both college students with extreme time consuming majors, both work part time to pay tuition and have parents that love to be at home when we are.
XxAXELxLOVERxX 1 month ago
fuck all the bitches
darthminimall 1 month ago
why would a girl lie about losing her virginity?
ItsMoriashkiBitches 1 month ago
@ItsMoriashkiBitches some girls think a guy won't liker her if she is a virgin or "inexperienced" while others may have lost it and be embarrassed or hurt that they couldn't have kept it longer and waited till marriage. It's all the pressure some people feel and they let it get to them so they have sex and regret it later on.
Jadespeakschinese 1 month ago
well im considering lossing my virginity and need some suggestions to make it awsome
flameblade111 1 month ago
@flameblade111 Make sure that's what you really want to do you can never have it back once you have lost it.
Jadespeakschinese 1 month ago
@flameblade111 Just don't panic about it. If the person is right (really important!!!) and the moment is right go for it. Only do it if you're 100% sure though, you don't want to regret it. Make sure you have talked about it, even playfully, before hand so condoms can be used or any other form of birth control. Good luck! :)
OMGusernameBITCHES 3 weeks ago
virginity should not be something to be proud or ashamed about
gentlemanREX 1 month ago
I got luck cause It didnt hurt for me, but now i totally regret the guy :/ its been kinda haunting me soo yeah. just be ready.
wavylava 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes
I feel like my "sexual debut" was one of those rare cases of amazingness, because it didn't hurt at all and it was just fucking wonderful. It was with the current love of my life a year and two weeks ago, and we'll have been together two years on May 16th. <3
mycauliflowerrecipe 1 month ago
Its awkward when your friends brags about her sex life. enough said.
dark58 1 month ago
I like that your not afraid of people that wood no pun intend look down on u
ADHDPYRO 1 month ago
The way things are going I'm thinking I'm going to have a veerry similar experience to Laci, like age and lenght of time dating O.o haha
MusicLuvah23 2 months ago
I'm 17 and a virgin and proud of it. I don't want to put my body at risk of sexually transmitted diseases and risk becoming pregnant at this age. I think when the time is right, I'll know. (:
AnnaPurser94 2 months ago 22
@AnnaPurser94 It's going to sound as cliche as fuck, but take it from a guy who has been sexually active since he was 17: it's really not all it's cracked up to be.
Wait for a guy who is willing to put a ring on your finger before you nail him. Trust me, it'll be worth it.
Halo4Lyf 2 months ago
@AnnaPurser94 I'm 20 year old girl and still a virgin.
Also, not to tell you to lose your virginity, but that's what condoms are for.
EvlynArrow 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
@EvlynArrow Condoms aren't 100% effective, even when used correctly.
Samphie7 2 weeks ago
@Samphie7 No, but they help.
EvlynArrow 2 weeks ago
Haha love number 8. Never thought of it that way, but now I think I'm going to have a party every year in March in order to celebrate my 'sexual debut'!
kaytee1190 2 months ago
To me, marriage may be the ultimate proclamation of love for a couple, but there still is no certainty that it will work out. I see why people want to wait, but it doesn't really matter to me. I think they can still be the right person for that instance, even if they aren't the right one for me forever. As long as the person means something to me in that moment, how could I regret that? I want it to be special, but it doesn't NEED to be on my wedding night :) If it works out that way, cool XD
CuteCritters101 2 months ago 2
I've never even kissed a girl. (forever alone face here)
xXJakethesnake117Xx 2 months ago
i am a virgin nd i want t stay one until i find someone i REALLY love bcuz i really want it to b special nd i dont want to just like do it with someone b4 i know they r the right person nd i also want to have him tested b4 it happens so i know what im getting myself into nd im not going to get an std
Sawyeh123 2 months ago
im like really scared to lose my virginity because i heard it hustsand im scares the person who i will lose it with will be like ewwy she terrible and gross
MrsSixx4ever 2 months ago
@MrsSixx4ever I am 99.999% sure that whomever you are with will not say that. If he does, then it is one in a million; guys know (hopefully) that there is a hymen (usually), which will need to be broken through the first time. If you have any meaningful relationship, then he will respect you completely. And even if you lose it at a party or something like that, the guy won't think you are gross because virgins are thought of as more innocent. But you are NOT dirty for losing it!
pro4skill 2 months ago 5
@pro4skill hymens don't really exist though....I have no idea why they make a big deal of it. Rarely is it thick enough to "break", it's a clear membrane, and it doesn't even cover the vaginal opening. First time bleeding usually isn't from the hymen, as the hymen does not have blood vessels in it.
purebloodguardianpro 2 weeks ago
I'm the only person my wife has slept with. I think it makes us a stronger couple. In the end though, someone needs to have experience in relationship management unless there is some substantial role modeling on both sides. It's like that old adage that the only people who say money doesn't matter to your happiness dont have it. Likewise the girls who say virginity doesn't matter, probably don't have it. Just sayin. Your one true love will be glad you waited. :)
MYUproductions 2 months ago
Since I can't make it to Oakland to interview you, I may as well bring it up here. I seem to be attracting only the crazy girls as lovers, and the girls I actually am attracted to, simply don't want me. This has been happening all of my life and I simply don't see why it is. Maybe we can talk about this more if I get to travel up there.
AmericanNudist 2 months ago
it was about two months ago when i lost it... sone pple wud still consider me a virgin but i dont.....it was lesbo sex so yeah
xxbrokexxable 2 months ago
I feel like as a guy the expectation to have lost it by now is way more. My friends are talking about their drunk hook ups and Im just nodding my head like "yeah, know exactly what you mean bro
MrSwedenik 2 months ago
i feel like if you're going to have sex with someone, as you said, you should be prepared for consequences. i know waaaay too many girls that regret their first time and i think it's just because they didn't think about it enough. it is kind of a big deal (in my opinion) sex is (can be) a beautiful thing, and i'm not so sure you should share that with just about anyone. i think love/lust is an important thing to have. when in doubt, just wait it out. i think you should be 100% on doin the deed
TheSmileyWay 2 months ago
lost mine when I was 15, in my room and it lasted about 30 minutes. It was magical :3
MeAndChickBoom 3 months ago
@tigerfischer9: 3 reasons: I don't believe in sex outside of marriage, sex looks incredibly painful, and there aren't any great guys out there for me to choose from.
bisexualncleveland 3 months ago
I do not approve of sex outside of wedlock.
Troll1539 3 months ago
I'm almost 17, and I'm a virgin. I technically had 5 "boyfriends" but two were long distance and another two were when I was in middle school and the most we did was hug, so really I've only had 1 boyfriend. I only dated this guy for two months partially becuase he was a bit of an unattractive creep, and he was also about as mature as a 7th grader eventhough he was older than me. But yeah, now I live in a really small town and go to school online so no sex for me til college at the very least.
lucky13LOL1 3 months ago
even though it hurts, do you still get that pleasurable feeling? if you break the skin yourself, wouldn't it not hurt? i finger myself in the shower, would this work?
hot6235 3 months ago
09/14/11 magical, painful, he was gentle, about 20 minutes, pillow talk was interrupter by his grandpa who made me leave after a series of awkward sex jokes.
PirateDuckyy 3 months ago
16, male still tryin to loose it lol. my parents are so protective i never get the oportunity...
anundeadWORM 3 months ago
@anundeadWORM don't rush it.... seriously, you'll be glad you waited. it's not as big a deal as everyone makes it and be glad your parents are protective!
jessicaframemusic 3 months ago in playlist sex+
@jessicaframemusic why will i be glad, and i know its not a big deal lol i just want to do it
anundeadWORM 3 months ago
I was 17, it was after one of my football games. Ended up dating the girl for three years until I joined the Army. I feel pretty good that it was with the right person
ThatGuyThat69s 3 months ago
I'm 16 year old girl planing on losing it
Matin338 3 months ago
31; still a virgin; hope I NEVER loose it!!!
bisexualncleveland 3 months ago
@bisexualncleveland why?
tigerfischer9 3 months ago
I was 13... yeah Im a player.
GerrettJihad 3 months ago
I was 12...
But I'm a dude, so I guess I was just proud of it
oelergodt 3 months ago
24 and still a virgin and damn proud of it !!!!
onomatopoeia162003 3 months ago
i lost mine when i was 15, in a park.. to a guy i just met....
and we didnt even use a condom...
ashaleeaestheticxo 3 months ago
I was 15 . It was in a bathroom. It lasted 4 minutes. It was amazing...
For me at least.
GenerationXeroFilms 3 months ago
i'm 19, still a virgin, never even kissed a boy :P i think the only way you can beat me is by your age XD
reddingo213 3 months ago
@reddingo213 that's awesome (: i wish i could say the same
jessicaframemusic 3 months ago in playlist sex+
@reddingo213 yeah, i think thatz cool :)
tigerfischer9 3 months ago
@reddingo213 You go girl! :D
Jadespeakschinese 1 month ago
no right age? true, but if you're religious there's rules, unfortunately. it's a good thing that there's other ways to have "fun".
DaRetardion 3 months ago in playlist Sex+
i just don't want it to hurt.. ):
maariahproductionz 4 months ago
The concept of virginity is bullshit. 1. We don't make a big deal out of it every time we have another sexual encounter. Why is zero such a magic number? 2. That whole thing about popping your cherry. Yeah, so you broke a part of yourself. But your body is changing all the time. Your hair gets longer, you loose your teeth, you break bones, you get cold sores. It's just dumb. 3. In an era where we except homosexuality, where do we draw the line really? Because loosing your virginity used to just
DepressedAnnnie 4 months ago
@DepressedAnnnie mean having a penis in your vagina for the first time but sex comes in all different stripes. vaginal, anal, oral, manual, sex with the opposite gender, same gender, with yourself, with an inanimate object. Where do we draw the line? Couldn't masturbation or using a vibrator damage the hymen just as badly as an actual penis? And who doesn't masturbate before having actual sex? You broke your hymen, you know what a climax feels like, but because you did it alone, that doesn't
DepressedAnnnie 4 months ago
@DepressedAnnnie Count? It's just a very useless definition.
DepressedAnnnie 4 months ago
@DepressedAnnnie i think it means alot more, that u r giving a part of u to someone and showing ur love <3
tigerfischer9 3 months ago
@tigerfischer9 Well that's nice but (and I know I'm being a snark. Don't tell me "I wasn't being literal) what part are you giving? After my first time, I'd like to think I still have all my body parts. Ouch!
DepressedAnnnie 2 months ago
@DepressedAnnnie no, lolz its more like a part of your love <3
tigerfischer9 2 months ago
@DepressedAnnnie I think sex would be better if u fell in love, and when ur in love i think you would want to have sex right? idk...
tigerfischer9 2 months ago
Wait, I'm not a human being? Fuck this bitch.
imboor3d 4 months ago 20
@imboor3d Not necessarily. The laws of logic concerning implication state, that truth always implies truth but untruth can imply both, untruth and truth. Here the implication would be
-,virgin => human (-, being the symbol for negation, I'd use the actual symbol but stupid youtube tends to ignore unicode characters)
So basically if you're not a virgin you surely are a human being, if you still are a virgin you might be but not necessarily are a human being ;-)
hellterminator 4 months ago
@hellterminator Thanks Czech person :D
imboor3d 4 months ago
@imboor3d wtf are you talking about?
loveisforever88888 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
@imboor3d what are u talking about? -_-
loveisforever555 1 month ago
@DarthSephiroth144 0________________0 you sir have the patience of a saint :o
McScreamo 4 months ago
Im a 19 year old male virgin and everyone at work including the girls tell me I need to lose my virginity because it will make me feel more positive about myself, by happy and be more muture. My coworkers (especially the males) are very aggrisvily trying to "get me laid and help me out and shit" I really don't understand why they are doing it and why they are so offend I have been heavly peer presure and even ordered ( Im in the military -_-) to talk to random drunk chicks at the bar help! =(
fbibarbie 4 months ago
@fbibarbie Keep strong! The girl you marry will love you because she doesn't have to think about the woman before her she will feel special because you waited for the right girl. I can never be with a guy who has slept with another girl because I wouldn't trust him waiting is the ultimate gift you could give her. Keep up your strength! Explain why you don't and ignore all the other stupid guys. <3
Jadespeakschinese 1 month ago
@DarthSephiroth144 living your whole life without sex? no....ican wait till marriage but i don't feel like being one for life.....
McScreamo 4 months ago
Hahaha, I like how she did number 7.
JillieStarBean 4 months ago
I am 16 and a virgin. I want to wait to find the right person. For me, I want to be in love and feel emotionally fulfilled before i have sex.
MsLaciGreen 4 months ago
i started dating my boyfriend in 2009, so i was 15 then, we waited two months in (i know bad :( ) but it was kinda a birthday present and i was also ready, hes my first everything also, like i have done everything with him. i would just say wait for the right person, dont waste the moiment just cause you want it right then and there, do it with the one you love
teriakraml 4 months ago
You remind me of Amanda Binds. O_O
sweetz20001 4 months ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
I'm 18, still a virgin and DAMN proud of that fact. I have a hormone disorder and it causes me alot of pain no matter what I do (I have to be on a strict diet to keep my hormones in check). Whenever I do decide to have sex, the rush of hormones that will go through my body could probably land me in the hospital. I'm not in any rush to "get it on" right now haha.
DaBagelSquad 5 months ago
18 and part of the V club :C
Burner2K0 5 months ago
Oh god, I hate being a virgin. I just want to fuck something. Kill me now.
Neonman78 5 months ago 21
@Neonman78 how old are you? trust me when you have sex at 1st its good but then you can life with old it,
am 22
kingofkings1989xxx 5 months ago
@Neonman78
Fleshlights. They are for you.
borgeater 4 months ago
2:48 OK I'm never having sex!!!!
MsCerealKiller 5 months ago
22. Virgin. Waiting till Marriage. Marriage I know doesn't guarantee anything really but some supposed semi-sense of security... however for me, I feel more comfortable waiting.
DottyLuv4Life 5 months ago
Great video....I'm a virgin & 21 years old...^_^....I been living with my wonderful bf for a month going on 2....and i told him when im really and he said he has no problem with it...I love him so much. <3
maddameheather 5 months ago
@maddameheather i agree :)
smileawhile12 5 months ago
me and my bf gave each other our virginities. so we both had our first time together, which is pretty awesome id say, especially since he was 20, so i knew he wasnt sleeping around. but the first time we tried was kinda funny, because he just couldnt get it in i was laughing so much. but we tried again a few days later, and it was nice. but it still kinda failed and i hurt a lot, but a few months later, it was AMAZING!
xXxWiNtErxXxafi 5 months ago
You are AMAZING!! I really like your topics because you say the truth. Nice work!!!!Keep moving forward !
Anestiuta 6 months ago
I never made a big deal about a woman being a virgin - having some actual experience with sex has it's positive points.
theskeptic2010 6 months ago
... never would have guessed that a large amount common sense could come from such a small package !!!
curiousgeorge1940 6 months ago
I hope that If I was a girl I'd feel fine with breaking my own hymen so that I wouldn't have such an uncomfortable first time having sex, as well as giving the prudish, uptight, self righteous society a giant fuck you for being concerned with something as frivolous as a hymen.
MacabreManifesto 6 months ago
hi (= hahaaha
neon2477 6 months ago
this isnt my account its my friends but i didnt lose my virganity i know exactly who has it. lol
CyberBoy9606 6 months ago 2
I lost mine last year, when I was 14. It wasn't fun or nice cos we couldn't make noise. So once we started getting into it, the bed would hit the wall real hard haha. But she left me 2 weeks later for another guy. So that kinda made me regret losing mine
mymama12314 6 months ago
I'm 21 and lost it when I was 13 to a boy I wasn't even dating who was 15. It was in a public place, it was not romantic, it hurt, and he ended up dating my best friend the next week. The worst part was I never even liked him so I was happy he was on her and not me. When I went home, I got in trouble by my parents and somehow my mom just 'knew' what had happened right away just by looking at me.
I do regret that choice, and I will have that memory forever. I would definitely recommend waiting.
michmiss18 6 months ago
*puts 'I'm a virgin' sign on top of my head* Yeah so I'm a virgin. I'm 19 and have had two boyfriends. I've been invited back to two guys' houses but I decline (that I kissed on nights out). I don't know when I'm gonna have sex but I want to to be with 'the one.' I don't want to rush it.
IamMoaningMyrtle 6 months ago 45
@IamMoaningMyrtle
So much for your name...
borgeater 4 months ago
@borgeater What, Moaning Myrtle? The girl who haunts toilets in Harry Potter? Not sure what that has to do with virginity? lol
IamMoaningMyrtle 4 months ago
@IamMoaningMyrtle Amen girl, wait for the RIGHT one, and you'll be you did! if you sleep with others and then end up with someone else,it will cause complications in the RIGHT relationship.
DaNcErWoRlDwIdE 2 months ago
i lost mine to rape.
but honestly, to me it doesn't count, because i didnt get to chose.
so i've chosen (not for any religious or self righteous purposes) to wait until the night of my wedding.
sometimes i feel like a sap.. but i want it to be a big deal.. when i chose on my own time, to surrender my own body along with my own heart to the one i love.
HappyZooMonkeyPrince 6 months ago 44
Why do your videos always cut off near the middle of you forehead? It's off putting. Move the camera just a little bit higher.
idog1998 6 months ago
i would happily have lost my virginity to her she is sexy
cmdivy 6 months ago
I'm an alien- ys tht?- cuz I'm a virgin
LuvLivNeverDie 6 months ago
I'm a virgin and honestly these videos are really helping me be more conscious about who I have sex with and when and my birthmom ( I Adopted ) is also telling me about it and satin I can ask her questions so it's ALOT of help thanks Laci! :)
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TheMrgoku1985 6 months ago
I lost mine @ 17. (Worst sex ever) almost decided to go gay when I couldn't orgasm. Lol. Later had sex with girl #2 (one of the best ever) who could have been #1 and it saved me from making the ultimate mistake (giving up on pussy). I wish I would have lost it sooner. That's my MAIN regret...
Pap1Oso 6 months ago
Just show urs
200250854 6 months ago
Argh, I hate the virginity stigma! Especially as a gay guy. The gay dynamic is strange, because it's paradoxical. On one hand, there's lots of pressure to have sex and to be good at it. On the other, most guys don't come out for a long time so they tend to delay sex until their late teens or early twenties- or beyond. I personally feel like it sucks because there are no out guys my age to date, and I don't want to 'debut' with someone I'm not in a relationship with.
Ihopyourpancakes 6 months ago
Can I just say something for all of the people who are saying they're waiting until they're married?
When you marry someone, you're committing the rest of your life to them. And if your husband/wife sucks in bed or isn't intimate very often, it's one of the LEADING causes of a divorce. So if you're really seriously dating someone, like, a year+, than I'm only saying that you should CONSIDER trying sex a couple of times. :)
XoXoSakuraKissXoXo 6 months ago
20 and virgin big pimpin
seafoamwinter 7 months ago
@jfairley83 ...maybe you're adopted? Or the second Jesus?
10KLaura 7 months ago
My close friend of 2 years and I just recently started hooking up. He is the only guy I ever felt comfy with. He treats me well and takes me on little dates and always makes time for me. Do you think it'd be okay if I made my sexual debut with him or should I wait to have a boyfriend? Because I don't think the label will make me feel better and I personally think being in a relationship at 17 might cloud my actual priorities(senior year) while this one just feels like he's my bestfriend.
Lovemorex3 7 months ago
at least i got a six pack
NationalPro 7 months ago
yep, there's no certain age to lose it.....but it'd be best too be ATLEAST over 13. I will keep it until i'm married thankyou very much ^_^
CreationsEpic 7 months ago 2
Considered it plenty, but due to religion, the fear of being hurt, and the fact that it's probably my hormones driving my decisions... I'm just going to keep my legs closed lmao! I'll try to save it till marriage, but hey, shit happens!! Lol:)
nikki35562 7 months ago
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nessi7540 7 months ago
it would've been funny if the nick was something like sexmaniac and not overgrownhippo ... just sayin'
MrKotzbi 7 months ago
I lost mine at 19 to a cheating whore.
Hopefully she is dead now, at least I hope she is.
TheMrgoku1985 7 months ago
I feel sick thinking about having sex Dx
pryomnicom 7 months ago 3
I lost my 'virginity' yesterday. It was awesome. I was a bit ashamed of being a 'virgin' so I told my (boy)friend that I had been with a guy before. I'm going to stick with that lie forever :)
McIcecreamers 7 months ago
"Right age" "Oppressive social construct"
One word: children.
P4ZP47Z 7 months ago
im a 20 yr old virgin girl.... at least i got my health=D
punkkimiko 7 months ago 28
guy Just fuck the bitches virgin or no virgins who cares. Once you are through with it find the nest vagina to crush. Happy banging
G41MCombo 7 months ago
... so yea, this is one of three comments, but i had to speak my piece. Being a virgin is cool, that's it! :]
liljahn24 7 months ago
...do have someone I want to have sex with, lol) most of my friends who are also virgins can relate to the same issues with relationships that i have and are like minded. But other friends I have and even people i don't know who hear i'm a virgin sometimes treat me like i think sex is gross, i don't like to talk about it, or i don't know things about it and all of these things are so far from the truth! I'm not a prude or nieve, i just have values i live by and my own timeline for my life...
liljahn24 7 months ago
let me just say that I <3 your videos and i'm glad i stumbled upon this :] I am currently a virgin at an age most people have already had their "sexual debut", (22) and I get alot of mixed reactions about it. Personally I haven't found the right person yet, I'm still young and I want to make sure i'm doing it for the right reasons. I have no hang-ups about sex and probablly want it more than alot of things, but right now that just isn't my main focus in life, (let me try saying that when i...
liljahn24 7 months ago
Losing your virginity at an early age doesn't make you stupid or immature. Losing your virginity at a late age doesn't make you socially inept.
For some people, relationships just aren't a big concern, and society encourages that view as well as the opposing one. It's a confusing world we live in.
Ganman33 7 months ago 5
lol 69 people disliked this ironic
lillyxxxsasuke 7 months ago 2
I made my "sexual debut" when I was 14. I know, kinda young. But I've been told I'm pretty mature for my age (I'm 16 now), and it wasn't just a spur-of-the-moment thing. It was with my boyfriend at the time, who had been my first love, and we had talked about it before, and I was on birth control. It didn't hurt at all, actually! And surprisingly, it was some of the best sex we ever had together. Even though we're not together anymore and he's a complete asshole now, I don't regret it.
ktluvaxx 7 months ago
Im 16 and well i lost mine about a month ago, it hurt like a bitch but i couldnt ask for anything more! it was amazing, and im still with the guy and weve been together for 2years(:
#Best day of my life im tellin ya(: <3
lover4everandalways 7 months ago
3 of my close friends lost there virginity when we where in 6th grade n 1 of them mited they regret it ,in 7th grade an 8th grader got prego my a 18yr old n when i became a 8th grader 2 people got prego n deep inside they regret it all so i think u should wait till ur married cuz den u wont have any regrets abt doing it but when ur young or not long as u realy think abt wat happens ather who cares when u do it.
liacocoboo 8 months ago
I plan on saving myself until I'm married. I don't think it makes someone "dirty" or "impure" to not be a virgin when they're married, however, I think there is no better gift to give someone you will spend the rest of your life with than yourself. Just my opinion.
MerciMeMerciMe 8 months ago 3
uploaded on my birthday!
gabtoups 8 months ago
i was 10 when i lost mine and it hurt bad
momslittlegirl1000 8 months ago
@momslittlegirl1000 lol
desenagrator 8 months ago
@momslittlegirl1000 10!?!??!?!??!?!?!??!?!?
gabtoups 8 months ago
@momslittlegirl1000 lol sure
VACKproductions 7 months ago
I have 28 y. old and I'm virgin from my 'free will'.
sandor139 8 months ago
I was 18 when I lost my virginity, to my virgin boyfriend who was 19. He is now my husband of 4 wonderful years =]
theirmommy88 8 months ago 4
I lost my virginity went I turned 20, and to most common surprise, up until today, it was the best sex I ever had. Oddly enough. Some people might think that I was a late bloomer, but like you said, there is no age for that, just as long as you are emotional ready and responsible for the possible consequences of your actions. I took my time, I used to be religious so that played it's part, but mostly, I wanted to respect my body and my emotions, and do things at my own pace. Happy sex life!
NixieOfTheMillPond 8 months ago
you go bitch
Plodotify 8 months ago
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Anti247 8 months ago
IT SUCKS! I wanna fuck, I feel like a Rabbit!
Finnstudios 8 months ago 5
16, still a virgin - been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and he's waiting for me until I feel comfortable :]
623Lynn 8 months ago 67
@623Lynn Just don't be fucked up when he deserves it
jgroves56 6 months ago
My first time sucked!!! I had never watched porn so i didn't know what to do, he put me on top, and i didn't feel a thing!!!! ..he broke up with me the next day.. we did it on valentines day.. OUCH! lol that was 4 years ago though so its okay to laugh now! :p
SexyRainbowBubblegum 8 months ago
you sure it was love, not obsession or infatuation? lol
lp0715 8 months ago
i like the way you said "let it ride" lmao
lp0715 8 months ago
Hah....I'm a 15 yr old girl and I'm still a virgin:) sadly...I think about sex all the time!!! D: I'm blaming it on the hormones, but getting jiggy is always on my mind=\ I'm not unattractive or super gross lookin, but I'm not comfortable with my body and I'm not ready for some guy to stick his peepee all up in me..but the idea seems great xD how long shall I wait?? =D
rawrimaalexsaur 8 months ago 4
@Sennsie youre beautiful just the way you are
MisuishiroKarasu8000 8 months ago
Hey, is it just me or is Laci's right eye lower on her face then her left one?
jfairley83 8 months ago
im a virgin but my friend had his sexul debut at 10 i walked in on him at a sleep over more like a sleep in like if u get it
millsdeter 8 months ago
I thought she meant the perfect age was 8...
Razman360 8 months ago 8
@Biopiss, I mean Bioshit. Hey!!! U callin my Mommie a liar?
jfairley83 8 months ago