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  • Easiest way to talk to a girl you've never met before is to become accustomed to conversing with strangers. Talk to the person at the checkout line, talk to garbage man, talk to the person sitting next to you while you are waiting somewhere. Overtime you will build enough skill to talk to anyone and enough confidence to hold a conversation with them as well.

  • haha i like my version of this a lil better, check it out for a laugh :)

  • I'd love to do the show with her. Here on this first vid she REALLY comes across with the very basics. Good going ! I see the 'eggs' going into the WHOLE basket way too soon all the time. Geez dude, get to know a few dozen women before you start thinking marriage.

  • sheszzzz uglieeee

  • I think every girl is just diferent and the best method is practicing and lose shy and be more confident yourself.

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  • Be myself? I'm fucking broke!

  • she said everything : be urself - if u are a dumb ofc this wont work

    lol

  • This is typical case of passive aggression that is pressuring men rather than empowering men. Why not teach other women how to approach men than what this woman is doing? I find it very superficial for women to advice men to be "confidence" and "be yourself" when she have no clue how vague and shallow that is for women to say to men. I will rather have another man who have records of success with women giving me some advice. There will be mutual understanding and sympathy among men.

  • @unorthodoxtrotsky says, "There will be mutual understanding and sympathy among men."

    You want mutual understanding and sympathy get a dog.

    Make no mistake, the woman you're hitting on wants someone who'll bend down and make her moan - not someone she can mother.

  • @razumfrackle

    I don't disagree with your last statement about the type of men that women wants nor does my point negate yours. That's irrelevant to my point however. Actually your entire reply is irrelevant to my point. "[M]utual understanding and sympathy" that I was talking about is necessary bonding between dating coach and men who are willing to take those advice in first place, not between a man, and a woman whom he's hitting on.

  • I hate women giving advice to men about approaching women. This is not a sexist statement because I think any women can give such advice to their male friends or family members in their private term. However to have one woman who is publicly "educating" men about how they should approach women and have "confidence" and "be yourself" seem to also creating their wishful thinking idea of dating where men are constantly pressured and stressed to be good initiators.

  • I want to BONE Jessica!

  • In America doing this will get you peppered sprayed! 

  • Men, don't ask the fish, how to catch fish.

  • Easier said than done

  • Look first off yeah she's trying to help, but I promise you all it won't work.

    In a movie called Three Kings George Clooney says

    "You do what you're scared of first then fear goes away - not the other way around."

    Same thing here...all you have to do is just go for it, there is pressure. She doesn't have pressure because we men do the approach (Most of the time ;])

  • @chris96kalonji so after the first time all be ok please help, it sounds likes you know what your talking about

  • @astreetmonster0 Read a book called Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo. Also, look at women as a teamate, they want to fuck just as bad as men do, accept they risk getting pregnant unlike us men who can fuck 1000 times, lol. Actually it is scary at first, but that's okay, courage isn't abstance of fear, it's action despite fear. Just go for it, remember "Every failure is a step towards success!"

    Look up that book, and your life will change man:) I got more info if you want let me know I'll pm

  • @chris96kalonji thanks man i'll look it up hope it works

  • @astreetmonster0 Ha ha, Attraction Code will change your life. Good luck, man!!!

  • @agony202 trying to get one in your kitchen for the first time

  • Easier said then done!

  • @hurtken Yeah, being a musician helps, too, I'm sure. Get in a band and get laid. What the hell are you waiting for?!

  • @agony202 ... n/c

  • Just wow at the most liked comments.

    And guys wonder how come girls aren't open to being approached or think most guys are a**holes

  • I do that smile alot but its when I`m out with my work mates at the pub. Last week a girl came to our table and said to one of my mates that because I smile a lot I remind her of her baby brother and because of my smiling she said it was cute I`m 41 years old -should I take this as a sign that she might be interested or should I stop smiling a lot because I look like a little baby

  • @trueblue374 You should tell the woman to get away from your table and back into the kitchen where she belongs.

  • only theory no example

  • It's hard to meet any woman, because the only woman I am into are the subservient type, who cook and that type of stuff, but all those woman are in the house where they belong. What should I do to get around this problem?

  • @skittlesareyum48 i feel you

  • Just walk up to her, and very calmly say: 'I like you. May I please plow your anus?'

  • Hi ! Ms. Jessica I like u totally. . .your so beautiful

  • Hi ! Ms. Jessica I like u totally. . .

  • wow thanks alott thanks to this video i was able to get into this fat desperate chick's pants lol

  • but the real question is: where is she from? wher's this coach? What city sorry? no entiendo...

  • Can I give you a nice pearl necklace Jessica ?

  • None of these videos are the least bit helpful, but I keep clicking on them, hoping that maybe the next will be different.

  • i learned crap from this video

  • i wanna date Ms. Jessica Claire. :D

  • dont matter what you look like if you got the money!!!

  • @hurtken is it like that in usa too? i thought girls are not after rich men there

  • @realman789 you can be the fattest and the uglyest and if you got the money you can get the hottest women

  • @hurtken That pretty much sums it all up. We could save ourselves hours of time that we've wasted on these useless videos and Jessie Claire would be out of her made-up job. But that's the whole truth. You got the green, you get the pussy. Period. Nothing more to say than that.

  • @PirateEyepatch well being a musician helps!!

  • my ex was the worst girlfriend ever. She was completely self absorbed, ignored her 7 year old daughter, and made life miserable for everyone.

    When we broke up, she became a family therapist. Now she's giving everyone bad advice and getting paid for it.

  • lol only hundreds? hahaha

  • Does this apply to ladies of all races?? I think it somewhat depends on the race of the female.

  • I've been running into asian girls (since I'm near a college). Too many of them aren't that outgoing.

    

  • Smile? What if you have really bad teeth. This dating coach sucks ass. Not everybody has perfect teeth.

  • I knew this when I was 8 Lol.

  • The example at 0:43 helped so much!

  • MY HAND IS A DOLPHIN!!!!!!!

  • didnt help at all

  • why is an ugly woman trying to tell people how to talk to girls you've never met. If this is for lesbians, then i approve of it ! But honestly, this girl is the prototype ugly chick that nobody ever wanted to talk to, and one day, one drunk guy did, so she decided to make this video. Im tired of seeing ugly women on youtube, there must be a flagging system for this?! I dare you, delete my comment, you cant handle the truth!

  • I have $118 dollars in spare change, Do you find me attractive???

  • where is ur intro ?

  • Yeah my gal left me bcos of my BB-See my channel for the story and dun let this happen to you

  • Hi Jessica just show a girl a New Kitchen Then Say go bake me a Cake Boom Instant love :D

  • this is just horrible advice.

  • She manages to say that she's from NYC 3 times in one minute. Who cares? do those tips only work in that city?

  • i got a slap from a girl by following your steps!!!

  • @nyblogcomedy no pain no gain :P

  • @nyblogcomedy LOL xD

  • tip:all women are cold bitches to go the same approach

  • What are good ways to start a conversation with a girl you never met? Hmmm let me think...

    "The voices told me to talk to you" "what voices you ask why the ones in my head of course. Some times they make me do terrible things. What do the voices tell you?"

  • they should let barny stinson do the vid :D

  • Jessica you are super cute! also I like your hair style ... cutie!

  • good flirting trick to say to a girl:

    Man: are you from Greece?

    Woman: Uh no.

    Man: Oh i thougt all the goddesses came from there.

    copy and paste this to all the flirting and kissing tips

  • You're forever alone if you watched this.

  • here's the best advice to talking to girls... be friendly and cool to them all. it's not like picking and choosing at the grocery store cheese aisle (well, maybe kinda with that reference), then you are never uncomfortable if you meet one you like. maybe has a friend that you may like, or maybe you've been cool to a gal that is interested. the possibilities are endless. geez this isn't rocket science.

  • Always smile? What if you look liek a creeper >>

  • Did she say something? I thought she was going t make a point...

  • Lol like a guy puts all his goodies into one basket. UR NO LOVE DOCTOR

  • all women play hard to get it seems for me makes a fella wanna give up and im not even 20 yet the way its going doesnt look promising

  • @hurleyarctic It could be worse. I'm 41 and it still doesn't look promising ;-)...

  • @hurleyarctic I agree it sounds like work and the payment might be shit

  • This was completely unhelpful.

  • so its 2nd semester already and i still havent talked to this girl that i wanned to talk to...because of the benchmark shes now in the same class as me...this gives me 2 days until finished testing...finished with testing everyone is too so i walk upto my friend ,now she closes in to talk to my friend since she knows him too...my friend leaves and im stuck there just glaring at her and shes like..okay..idk what went through my mind but after those 2 days the cat was in the bag.

  • "Yesterday I took the biggest dump, and it smelt so awful, kinda like mac and cheese, but it had a hint of gravy."

    Is that a good conversation starter?

  • yes guys, just always remember, there are literally hundreds of girls you have not met....:)

  • All my hopes and dreams are in this video basket right here folks

  • how do you now that are you a lesbian

  • @123keenos if she eat's carrot tremendsly

  • Well, what about for those with indecent teeth? Smiling is kinda ruined for them, huh? Sure, give a grin instead but the moment they talk, the other will know.

  • Talk to Girls You Never Met?? easy job, show your wallet, let her see greeeeeeeen dollars at your wallet or show her your bentley car keys... thats it, she is now in your pocket

  • I like her hair ... soooo sexy !!! :P

  • what if a girl who I´m talking to at a party is a time traveler?

  • what for she call the cop for harrassment just by talking to her whom I've never met?

  • The dude in the black shirt looks like he is about the slap her as soon as she is done talking.

  • ugly girls shouldn't give out advice.

  • @dvsxavier LOOLOLOLOL

  • my problem is the opposite, i always talk filosophical and serious, also with woman i never met. i cant get it casual or playful. so i think i scare them off and give them the impression of a deep or sad or whatever dude,..

  • @Multatuly I doubt that, considering you can't spell "philosophical" :)

  • Summing up this video.

    Me: How do I talk to girls?

    Jessica: You talk to girls. That is how.

    Me: Gee! Thanks for nothing!

  • @yeagerspace hhahahahahaha so true

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  • "be yourself"

    Please..for the love of God..if you are an idiot, DONT BE YOURSELF! Be someone cool instead!

  • When in doubt whip it out... all you need to know when approaching girls you don't know!

  • That is good advice because I do have a easier time talking to girl's when I just don't give a shit,and stay kinda loose ya know...

  • work all that out on your own sherlock 

  • what if shes deaf??

  • " Bitch make me a sandwich "

  • @eXoTicReFuSioN LOL 

  • @eXoTicReFuSioN  extra mayo

  • here is what you do to ask a girl out and break the ice.

    You:hi, will you go out with me?

    if she responds with a no or whatever say this

    You:you dont even know what I said do you?

    She will say yes i do

    then you say

    You:what did i say then?

    She will say, will you go out with me and then your in! haha

    so you say sure I would love to and smile. its the perfect ice breaker and might actually work.

  • @BulldogManiaOfficial Thats perfect lol

  • @BulldogManiaOfficial that would work perfectly if u saw a girl with an ipod or an mp3 in her ear ( or even on a telephone) then replace "you dont know what i said" with you didnt hear what i said" , good idea

  • @PaperBeatsRock29 lol dats me also

  • My dad says im black does that help..? just woop it out right?

  • @muzichuk91 Wow haha

  • Give me your number

    and lets have phone sex?!

  • best way to talk to girls is to sipp some drink and it will flow soo eassyyy

  • your advices as as useless are you are

    but thanks anyway

  • Useless

  • "i don't want to impress u or anything but... im batman."

  • @PaperBeatsRock29 dude, its all about confidence. (: good luck! and dont think so much, just do 8)

  • i am just starting to approach so my advice my not be too valuable, but imho it all comes to numbers. After 200-300 approaches you should feel pretty confident, and also devise a decent conversation starter that you like and stuff to say. Until then I wouldnt worry much. Even a simple "Hi I just saw you and wanted to tell you that you are very pretty!" will do. Though most chicks will reject you the moment you say that (based on my experience, not just random guess!), but you still practice

  • 'Approach calmly'? What, are women the equivalent of yellow trafic lights?

  • @aboubrad Don't kiss ass. Remember your time is just as, if not more, valuable than hers. It's an even exchange. Don't ever let a broad make you feel "lucky" you are with her, or bangin her. And DON'T just give up your meat to her. Make her work a little for it. Hold out for 3 weeks, make her beg for it. The more you give up the sausage boys, the less value it has, just like supply and demand for everything in this life. Got it? Good. Good Day sir.

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  • Your hot lady.......xD can i talk to u?

  • @PaperBeatsRock29 u just explained me.....i can get girls but i just don't kno how or have the guts to talk to them, i mean i used to when i didn't really think of girls like i do now :(

  • You tards put the meat cave on a pedastal, problema. I never do. I ALWAYS feel I am giving a woman a break by letting her have my meat.

    Bare minimum, it's an even exchange. "we dont chase, we replace"

  • @FreeBlago1 what do you mean by "putting the meat cave on a pedestal"?

  • @FreeBlago1 LOL meat cave! makes it sound so nasty XD

  • @Stepanskiy23 glad i can help man

  • this doesnt help... what should i say when i approach them?

  • @101chowdhury

    erm im a magnetchick at school and this how i do it i always ask for there names then i tell em if there single if they say noo then i just ask them if they got a phone then there goes ur phone number after that i go home and i talk to the girl and thats how u start everything idk if this might help u but it always works for me :)

  • @langwoodking1 im pretty good with girls, but not new ones. anyways i have some questions. what should be my first line. " hey cutie, whats your name?"

    is that good enough? i just need help with the first few lines.

  • @101chowdhury lol no i always start like hey whats ur name, dont say cutie. Also dont be shaking hands to when introducing ur self.After she gives u ur name be like ohh that a beautiful name my name is ____. that will do it but people cant guide u just got to be good at it, by having confident and getting around girls

  • @farhannius You just said pretty much the same thing the video did... So by your standards, your comment is as useless and detrimental as the video.

  • @kgunby no you are wrong because this video is giving a ton of hints and tips to make it LOOK like you are confident, whereas I am saying that real confidence comes from a feeling of self worth. So rather than imitating confidence, I am saying to quit watching these videos and instead FEEL confident by acknowledging that you are worthy enough by the simple act of being alive.

  • Eh.. you can't learn how to talk to girls in a minute.. You need to learn how to build your self confidence. Women love that. Self confidence, not arrogance.

    Check out the comprehensive ebook at WinTheGirl[~]Tk

  • @Krupske look for girls about 2 years younger they will totally want an older guy

  • Im thinking of showing this poem i made to a girl and plz tell me if its good or not!

    Too Late by 477DantheMan

    I can't watch you love another,

    knowing we are meant for each other.

    It hurts too much to see you holding him tight, knowing i still love you with all my might. And though i may continue in my stride, I will regret living without you by my side. For there is nothing that hurts more in life to see the one you love, love another, my long lost wife.

  • the vid is unhelpful but the comments are great! very helpful and its nice that 90% of the people that comment want to help each other. ''we are all in the same boat'' right here.

    i first thought that i was the only one with this problem.

    i'm 19 i'm a virgin i'm shy and not confident around girls, but i tried something with 2 girls and i failed. both times i ended up in the ''friend zone''

    i just don't know what to do anymore.. if only i could now what girls wanna hear from a guy.

  • @krupske haha u should just lose it 1st and then you'll have more confidence :))))

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  • guys your suppose to go up to her and punch her in the left eye, if she smiles.. she's interested ;)

  • Dang to know a girl you need a lot of vids o,o But hey, for a boy, it only takes one video... and one kind of video to know how to treat us ;D jk That was a burn on me :|

  • I HAV PROBLEMS TLKING 2 GIRLS...IM 15....AND VERY VERY VERY SHY..I HATE IT!!! LIKE THE OTHER DAY IWAS AT THE MALL...AND THESE 2 GRLS WHISTLED AT ME.....AND I DIDNT SAY NOTHING!!!WTF!! MY UNCLE WANTED 2 KICK MY ASS!!!! IF U HAVE TIPS 4 ME..PLZZZZ!!! MSSG ME BCK..!!..