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  • Es tan hermoso este comercial.... y es tan verdadero +100000000000 me encanto

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  • @MrFubbels MarriAge is a Christian consitiution? I'm sure you mean institution! Anyway, it isn't just a Christian institution - what a ridiculous thing to say. You must have never heard of civil marriages, nor other non-Christian marriages. As for the Bible argument, why should it be held as an authority over societies that are essentially secular but accepting of religious freedom? Besides, the Sodom part of the Bible has always been disputed by Christians as to its exact meaning.

  • if marriage is a Christian constitution then why do other people from other religions or non religious get married in many different ways and are accepted as a married couple everywhere by everyone but once it is a same sex marriage then it isn't recognized? it is like that lady who lost her partner when the stage in an Indiana concert collapsed. they aren't considered a couple in a civil union even though they were in another state in the same damn country.

  • That's a great video. I love pointing out the ridiculousness of having people vote on civil rights. The Irish Gaelic part was the cherry on top.

  • Love the number of likes over dislikes. Says alot about what people believe. Why is this not a past issue yet?

  • This is basically just a lovely, polite way of saying:

    None. Of. Your. Effing. Business.

  • Everyone who thinks marriage is a Christian institution should just GTFO.

  • Would it not be nice if we (adults) could decide who we love and who we want to spend the rest of our lives with. It's hard enough to find someone who respects you and loves you for who you are...but then if you have to fight for it....that's such a waste of your time and energy. I wish everybody could choose for them selves...that;s all we ask!

  • Exactly, if marriage is so tied to religion and the bible, then how are non religious people allowed to marry. We have moved on as society, and it is time to go the next step, for marriage equality.

  • If only I had been old enough to vote in my state at the time. :(

  • From an American, that's an impressive advert. I hope Ireland can be a leader in civil rights.

  • History was made in Albany today - wonderful, wonderful, wonderful!

  • "But here's the thing about rights: they're not actually supposed to be voted on. That's why they're called rights."

    - Rachel Maddow

  • Wow. Incredible video. I pity the people who aren't the slightest bit moved.

  • This is a great video - puts the point across really well, and no indication right until the end as to what it's about, so you're bound to watch the whole thing... well done, Marriage Equality!

    

  • Excellent point! We'll be sure to use it in the coming debate in Minnesota to stop the passage of the anti-gay-marriage amendment in 2012.

  • Very good video :) Love it!

  • This is brilliant!

  • Will people shut up about homosexuality influencing children and what not. It's the 21st century, children can comprehend just about everything. I always knew my uncle was gay, and all that I thought was my uncle is happy, not I should follow in his footsteps. Homosexuality is natural, and the gay population has my vote on same sex marriage!

  • This engages the imagination of the viewer: First, I asked myself, why the boy so nervous. Secondly, I asked myself, why the asked give their permission without more discussion. Thirdly, I asked myself why the boy is asking more than two people. Fourthly, I asked myself are Sinead's parents divorced and remarried and is he asking Sinead's step parents as well. Fifthly, is the young man playing a joke asking for the hand of every parent with a daughter named Sinead, is he mad? Effective!

  • Is that Meredith Baxter at 0:25? Sure looks like her...

  • @phxflyguy No, that's not her. The actress is much younger, Baxter is 63 now. This is an Irish ad, why would they use an American actress?

  • Perfectly put. Not too angry or plaintive

  • 37 people should go ask their country's total population if they can get married. :P

  • Very provocative message... our Irish brothers and sisters who love and want to marry someone of their own sex must get the permission of 4,000,000 Irish citizens... Here in the USA, we have to get the permission of 311,092,153...

  • such an amazing idea for a video! really sends a strong message :)

  • This video is so, so, so true and to the point. Straight folks don't have to aks the whole country for marriage. Why should gays and lesbians? Gay marriage hurts no one, it only provides rights to those who currently cannot enjoy these same exact rights. I hope Ireland will make a big step forward towards equality. Best of luck to gay and lesbians in Ireland, and justice for ALL citizens.

  • The thing about the Civil Partnership is that it doesn't give equal rights to marriage, especially when it comes to the children of same-sex couples. For example, if one partner is the birth mother and she dies, her civil partner wouldn't have any rights to raise the child, even though to the child they are equally its parents.

  • Can someone explain to me what the opposition to this argument is? Really don't have a clue. Also what were the stipulations of the Civil Partnership Bill of 2010? How far did it go and how much further does a subsequent bill need to go?

  • This is quality!

  • Do people really think that by binding gay legal union, they will prevent gay people to be gay?

    Everything would remain the same, except for the fact gay couples will have the opportunity to legalize their unions, hence permitting a better and fairer way of set the rights of the spouses involved.

    This insistance on denying people's rights and this narrow-mind is really annoying.

  • @ParacetaMAN Civil Partnerships are the Irish government's way of shutting up the LGBT community for a few more years.

  • love this :)

  • Me gusta - I like

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  • even though i'm an athiest, i always took the stance, marrige is a christian constitution and the bible specificly denies the coupling of same-sex persons, therefore i was in support of same-sex civil partnerships, but not marriage.. but having watched this, it's really hit home, to stop being pedantic, allowing samesex marriage is about just making the playing field level for everyone. i always wondered why it needed to be marriage, why partnership isnt enough, then this just opened my eyes.

  • @MrFubbels Marriage is not a Christian constitution. Marriage existed before Christianity was invented and in areas of the world where there isn't any Christianity.

  • @MrFubbels i was just about to ask you what the difference between a marriage and a partnership was, but youre amazing so its all good

  • @carthag partnership what we have now is basically co habitation they recognise your a couple and give you an extra 1298 legal rights but with marriage the same and hetrosexual marriage you get an extra 7865 legal rights and they extend from adoption to your spouse being able to decide your funeral partnership is sorta regcogniseing your dating something straight people cant get and marriage something gay people cant get! Its very confusingbut basically means some rights but 6000 less den mariag

  • @MrFubbels marrige is not a christian constiturìtion !!!! Ancient Romans used to do "confarreatio"....a marriage!

  • Brilliant!

  • I would feel angry and I would feel exhausted, so why not? Why can´t homosexuals marry in the whole world?

  • I was discussing gay marriage with someone on omegle, and I showed her this video. It hits the nail on the head about gay marriage!

  • Well..im a gay too LOLZ

  • Hi. I'd like to ask for my love (of more than 16 years) hand in marriage, please.

    PROP8 is dead...

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  • What sounds more immoral- banning atheists from marriage or banning homosexuals from marriage? These ideas are both ridiculous. If it's OK to be atheist and it's OK to be gay then it should be FINE for gay people to marry.

  • Can I ask for what? The following words are barely incomprehensible...

  • супер!!!!

  • Well done!

  • The problem is the conflict between freedoms. The freedom of some religions which have a problem with the concept vs the individual freedom to marry whom we love.

    I have yet to here a compelling argument of exactly how someone else marriage discredits one's own. I do have to wonder what the limits will be, and what justifies them. Rules regarding multiple partner marriages or marriage to close relatives, etc.

    I do believe comparing it to marrying farm animals are just stupid though.

  • @richard233 Except there is no direct conflict between those freedoms. The only possible conflict would be requiring a religion to perform gay marriages. And that doesn't happen. For example, in Canada (as far as I know) gay people can get married. But ministers/priests have the right to refuse to perform a gay marriage.

  • @theeponym That's part of it, but the other part comes from having differing definitions of marriage. Given that churches believe they have the exclusive rights to perform a "true" marriage, the act of someone else creating a marriage that they themselves would be unwilling to perform causes them to consider the act an act of mocking god. And no, I'm not a believer of that, just an observer. People take their religion very seriously, which is why we have suicide bombers and the like.

  • What a lovely little piece. It's really all about our common humanity, isn't it? It's about time...

  • brings tears to my eyes every time I watch it...

  • @bacabu30 I've never heard of it, but I'll definitely look it up. Thanks. :)

  • That was lovely :)

  • Ирина к успеху

  • beautiful. can i say so? i hope it's a good word to describe it. i wish we'd have this kind of ad here, in Poland...

  • Maybe you should make an add for Poland. It starts with an idea right?

  • You're absolutely right. I'll think bout something. The problem is... I can't do this by myself. But! Maybe I'll figure something out. I'll ask some people for help.

  • Brilliant.

  • aaaaaw

  • I live in Ireland and I never seen this on tv?

  • @pf1133 me neither... but honestly how long do you ever ACTUALLY spend watching RTE as opposed to the British or American channels? Yeah, exactly.

  • Absolutely perfect. It really drives the point home.

  • It's sad that little things like sexual orientation or gender identity can prevent one from marrying another consenting adult. It really is.

  • does anyone know the title of this song?..really nice...thnks...

  • @angbuhaynakin Ocean and a Rock by Lisa Hannigan.

  • Very well done.

  • Wish there were some ads like this in the U.S...it'd be nice to see something promoting tolerance and acceptance, instead of violence and discrimination.

  • Agreed. I wish that there was an ad like this in the U.S.

  • @xSilverandCold There is. It's called 'Megan's Hand'.

  • And here I thought youtube was o so intolerant. It actually made me almost want to cry at these comments.

    14 days and we will hopefully be allowed.

  • I love this.

  • Brilliant advert. There needs to be more like these.

  • Let "marriage" be a church-thing for those who want it (and folks can belong to whatever church shares and supports their beliefs). Let all who want to a government-sanctioned union with all the benefits inherent therein be required to have civil unions. Straight or gay, benefits are the same, no discrimination. It's the only sensible thing. Government should have NO say in who gets to benefit from committing to a loving, adult relationship.

  • I agree. Nobody should have a say in who you love with all your heart and want to/be allowed to get married to.

  • About the slippery slope argument.

    Everyone say this with me, loud and clear!

    TWO CONSENTING ADULTS! TWO CONSENTING ADULTS! TWO CONSENTING ADULTS!

  • It doesn't matter wether marriage is defined between a man and a woman. Laws/rules tend to change over time. Isn't that the point; to adapt? It's as if religion is playing a part as the main body that influences the law with the argument of the man and woman bond for marriage. I can't understand why some are so adamant to keep marriage exclusive to heterosexual people. Bit like greed isn't it.

  • I am supportive of anti-discrimination and all that, but why must marriage be redefined? Gays could be given all the exact same rights, and the religious would be far more tolerant. Let the religious groups keep their precious marriage, and the gays could get much farther.

  • no, let the gays have that precious marriage you talk about, cuz religious groups already have their matrimony. It's different!

  • As a Gay Man, I have to disagree about the word "marriage". People behave as if words have meanings which are set in stone. Read, listen, think about language: Haven't you experienced significant changes in how words are used during your lifetime? "Back in the day" has become an ubiquitous replacement for "long ago", "when I was a child", "in old days" etc. 30 years ago, pregnancy& cancer(not just sex, or homosexuality)were only discussed via euphemisms. Lives have changed. It's not disrespect.

  • We're so lucky in Canada!

  • It's so COOL, I love it!

    It's sad that some people still have to beg for their rights...

    Hope it will change soon!

    Thanks for posting!

  • Brillantly done! It really demonstrates how ridiculous the idea of a referendum is? Did they finally have to hold a referendum on the rights of the Catholic community in N.Ireland. The both are equally different.

    Is brea liom an piosa as Gaeilge freisin!

  • great movie.

  • Fantastic

  • homosexuality is not a "perversion". it commonly occurs in nature outside the human species. at that point it comes down to personal beliefs and you don't get to make law based on your opinion.

  • @gilanafaye It's unfortunate that many people cannot physically understand the plight of those "inflicted" with natural homosexual urges, such as myself. It's been seen in the animal kingdom time and time again..... do monkeys and rats make decisions based on sin or morality? No, they just do what feels natural. Just like every homosexual around, it's not a choice it just happens.

  • @ef1h yes, because so many people get hurt when two people of the same sex fall in love and marry.......oh wait no they don't.

  • This is a brilliant video! I love the simple way they've presented such a strong message.

  • What a brilliant video! Such a lovely way to get the message across.

  • absolutely love this video.

  • I can call you a hamburger. I have that right. Would you like to try again? Take your time.

  • Briliant argument.

  • Whats wrong with people wanting to be happy i see nothing wrong with it.

  • ... I'm honestly not sure if you're being sly or serious. Cause those were classically accepted marriage practices, and still are in some parts of the world. They were certainly practices in ancient Israel.

  • Yes exactly. Similarly, that is also why we should not have changed the definition of human rights. People would eventually argue for more and more rights. We should never change any mode of thinking no matter how outdated or irrelevant they might be. All laws and legal rights should always be the same. In fact, we should just revert back to decades ago when women could not vote or even further back when you could stone adulterous couples to death.

  • I don't see why anyone should attempt to respond with respect to someone who views homosexuality as a perversion. But try anyway, people. You're not dealing with someone who cares about things like love and decency.

  • Posts like this make me ashamed to support gay marriage. It completely destroys the notion that my position is the tolerant one and my opponent's position is the intolerant one.

    It doesn't really help that every comment for the opposing argument gets downrated so far it can't be viewed. We're censoring them too?

    I guess it really goes to show; there are stupid, hateful people on both sides of every argument.

  • Why should an argument against human rights be respected? Why should we compromise with bigots?

    They are supporting intolerance and hatred - that is a message that deserves to be ridiculed.

  • Great post. I couldn't agree with you more. :)

  • That's what's called the "slippery slope" argument. It's a logical fallacy.

    Thirty years ago, it was illegal for blacks and whites to intermarry. The same argument was made then. It is ridiculous to assume that allowing two consenting adults to express their love and commitment in a legally binding contract would somehow make pedophilia acceptable.

  • Aw this made me misty eyed. This is a very good advertisement.

  • Yes. Just, yes. If you disagree, fine. But how would you feel if YOU were denied the exact same right to spend your life with the one you love? This was great. Fave'd and stuff.

  • What a sad thing to be so ignorant and sure of yourself to boot.

  • While I'm not a big fan of marriage, I strongly advocate the right for everyone to be able to make that choice themselves.

    No matter who they're with.

  • @bibchr If you are against gay marriage on biblical terms, you have to be against any divorce also.

  • I appreciate you making a good effort to respond substantively.

    How do you figure that?

  • what a brilliant little video.

  • It took me about halfway through the video to realize what was going on. Plus, I'm not sure if Sinead is a male/female name, BUT OTHERWISE once I got what was going on, it was a brilliant ad.

  • Sinéad is female. It's purposely done from a straight point of view to point out how ridiculous it is to have to ask a population to get married.

  • Brilliant

  • This is such a great basic common sense video that the americans have decided to make an american version of it to use over there. Has won awards and all.

  • Is the American version on YouTube? I'd love to see it!

  • Yes, it's on YouTube, but I can't remember the American version name. It's something like 'Permission', but as with most things,it is not as good, and the original version (the Irish version) is better. Go n-éirí an mbóthair leat. Slán agus beannacht. I wonder if Sinéad said 'yes' herself????

  • huh?

  • How do you work one that out?

  • nice!!

  • I wish No on 8 and other American groups could have shamelessly stolen this, it's a great commercial.

  • The American version is called "Permission" on here, but I still think this one is more powerful. Both are beautiful, though.

  • Amazing.

    Hopefully it will do the trick.

    Everyone deserves to marry the one they love.

  • Fucking brilliant!

    simple and to the point

  • God so much better than the crap the No on 8 campaign geniuses came up with.

  • This is brilliant. Very clever :)

  • Smart! =)

  • Class!

  • Simple, yet Brilliant!  Thanks for this!

  • that was touching.

  • I'm an American and I think this commercial is fantastic!

  • There's an American version of this commercial too, AsianShorty24:

    You might be able to find it under "Megan's Hand".

  • MARVELLOUS!!

  • It can't get any simpler than this....thanks, Ireland!

  • Great! I loved it! =D

  • What an amazing ad. And it's Irish too YAY!!

  • Brilliant ad..........:-)

  • Very thoughtful video, well thought out now just need a referendum without the church getting involved with misinformation and we'll be fine

  • good video.

  • On May 17, 2004 same-sex marriage became legal in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts making it the sixth jurisdiction in the world and the first in the United States to allow this basic human right. I am proud to live in Massachusetts and I can assure you that our world did not come to an end that day. All that did happen was 113 marriage applications were issued in Provincetown making the lives of 226 people a little more complete.

  • As your proud neighbor in Connecticut, we too are glad to have gay marriage legal, and the sky has not fallen yet. Though New England seems in stark contrast to the 30+ Constitutional Amendments barring it in the rest of the country, we have hope that one day all Americans will be able to pledge devotion to the one they love.

    Until that day, I offer my hope and support to the rest of the gays, around the world, still struggling for basic rights, including the right to live. My love to you.

  • This is good...

    Why can't people see that love is love, even if it does not look the same to each of us?

  • What are they saying at 0:46 ? I just understand the "I'm Will" and the "Brilliant."

  • It's Gaelic. I don't speak it though, sorry.

  • Epic, epic epic!

  • This video is incredibly clever.

  • awesome vid!!

  • LOL Maureen Johnson.

  • ...do you write that on every video she links?

  • Yes.

  • haha what about her?

  • Hello, Lisa Hannigan song!

    Also, THIS IS A FANTASTIC VIDEO. Very well done.

  • This is a really amazing video. There should definitely be commercials like this in america.

  • Brilliant vid, thanks for posting

  • I would absolutely LOVE to see a commercial like this in America!

  • Now. THAT. Was an amazing video.

  • erm... could anyone tell me the name of the song?

  • "ocean and a rock" by Lisa hannagan

  • thanks :)

  • Great, great video!

    (love to song too... )

  • Wish the States had commercials like this.

  • BRILLIANT!

  • I wish campaigns like this weren't necessary - but this was brilliant.

  • Great video! Hope the campaign is successful. It certainly deserves to be.

  • I am so happy to be living in the Netherlands (and be married). There are now 6 other countries who have followed - hope there will be many more soon. This video is great to that purpose. Kudos!

  • New Jersey USA should follow soon.....possibly December of this year.

  • We want absolute equality .....nothing less....i speak as an Irishman.

  • Do away with marriage. Let everything be a civil union the religious coneheads can't argue how it violates blah blah blah.

    Just say no to marriage. Love isn't measured by the paper you recieve. Only your taxes are.

  • This was a brilliant and powerful statement!

  • So heartfelt and so original... I LOVE IT!

  • Maybe it's just the Popov talking, but this video made me tear-up like a little girl for some reason. Will never understand anti-gay rhetoric.